The more I watch these videos, the more I realize how undisciplined we go into marriage which then leads to dysfunction. It truly does start with retraining the mind and healing the heart. Looking forward to getting more insight!
Thank you Paul. You are a realist sir and I have subscribed to your Channel as well as sent my questions to a TMF counselor and am eagerly awaiting the response.There is much truth in what you have said as I can see more clearly now what caused my wife to leave after 30 years of marriage. Now I have a better idea of what to work on to become a better person and husband.
what if a husband is verbally abusive to his wife, and treats her like a toy and disrespectful to me and treats other women with respect care but me his wife treat me like nothing , that i offer those same words to him i got a soul, i am not a toy.
For the most part and in most cases husbands treat wives according to how they feel they are treated. The reverse is also true that wives treat husbands as a reaction to how they are treated. The one who wants to reverse the cycle can do so by reversing their behaviors.
@@TheMarriageFoundationwow. Now o know not to waste my time on your videos. I enabled my husband to treat me like crap for decades. I was kind. Respectful. The more I forgive the more he took advantage. So glad I can see through simple minded stuff like this.
Your soul doesn't need protection. You need to learn to listen to it instead of your pseudo-soul, or ego. That is exactly what our courses are for, so we can learn these basics that are not well known.
The more I watch these videos, the more I realize how undisciplined we go into marriage which then leads to dysfunction. It truly does start with retraining the mind and healing the heart. Looking forward to getting more insight!
Thank you very much for sharing your wonderful thoughts
Thank you, too 🙏
Thank you Paul. You are a realist sir and I have subscribed to your Channel as well as sent my questions to a TMF counselor and am eagerly awaiting the response.There is much truth in what you have said as I can see more clearly now what caused my wife to leave after 30 years of marriage. Now I have a better idea of what to work on to become a better person and husband.
what if a husband is verbally abusive to his wife, and treats her like a toy and disrespectful to me and treats other women with respect care but me his wife treat me like nothing , that i offer those same words to him i got a soul, i am not a toy.
For the most part and in most cases husbands treat wives according to how they feel they are treated. The reverse is also true that wives treat husbands as a reaction to how they are treated. The one who wants to reverse the cycle can do so by reversing their behaviors.
@@TheMarriageFoundationwow. Now o know not to waste my time on your videos. I enabled my husband to treat me like crap for decades. I was kind. Respectful. The more I forgive the more he took advantage. So glad I can see through simple minded stuff like this.
So, how can I guard my soul from the temptation of reacting in anger or desperation to anything I perceive or is disrespectful?
Your soul doesn't need protection. You need to learn to listen to it instead of your pseudo-soul, or ego. That is exactly what our courses are for, so we can learn these basics that are not well known.
@@TheMarriageFoundation I need to guard my heart then, or I will embrace the offense.