Who speaks Spanish, Portuguese, Turkish, Chinese, Japanese, Arabic, French, Hindi, Bengali, Urdu and Russian? We would love to have many subtitles for this video in order to spread the positive message of openess. Send us a message via facebook.com/querblick or instagram.com/queerblicktv, if you want to volunteer in our translators team that helps to make LGBT* short films accessible to people all over world.
Also thank you to the people who added Vietnamese, Russian, French, and Burmese subtitles. We do not know who you are, but you did a big favor to LGBT* people all around the world who can now watch this short film in the language they speak.
As an older gay man it’s beautiful to see younger people having it so much easier with coming out to parents. I know it’s not always like this but in time hopefully it will be even better. It was what I dreamed of as a young gay man.
I’m an 80 year old grandmother. I have a granddaughter who wants to transition and a grandson who already has. Two beautiful people who deserve all the love and respect I can give them. I can only pray the world will soon agree. Bless you and I hope your family has realized what a special person you are. ❤️
Loved this so much. Social media like TH-cam is a great means to promote acceptance, embrace, respect, love and social justice for millions of LBGT folks, everywhere, who undergo unnecessary stress and waist so much time of their life in hiding, covering up and suppressing. Thank you for doing exactly that with this movie.
My partner, who is Taiwanese and I enjoyed your film very much. It captured many of the cultural difficulties in coming out to your family and seeking acceptance. Keep up the good work, we look forward to your next film, and wish you great success!
We are all equals only the ignorance and the lacking of respect for each other make yours life miserable,keep fight for you rights, gays in other countries it been killed only because they are gays.
I can totally relate. I’m an Asian mix and in my younger years I used to hide my bf or pretend we were just good friends! Now, I am happily married to my husband. We r married for 2 years and 13 years as living partners. My mum and sister gave me away at our wedding. Anyway, Great story thank you! Love , peace❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈🇦🇺🇵🇭
I'm proud to read your story, I wish I had more guts, when I was younger, and not hide my boyfriends, like many boys do. Now I'm 60, and sad and lonely 😞
It's something about the Asian household setting that is just too relatable. I teared up when when the Dad was talking to the picture. I wish all of us would have more accepting parents not just for coming out but in general. But watching such a beautiful film makes me hopeful for a better tomorrow.
Thank you so much for a positive film about young love. I'm 65 and gay and we never had that kind of openness in my youth. I am so proud of you all for writing, producing and acting in such a beautiful story.
Wow that cut deep. So many young gay asian men and women have to face this exact senario. If only all asian parents would see the good in their gay children just like the father did in this movie. The father had already lost his wife so it was his choice would he also lose his son. Beautifull portrail of reality. Parents ask yourself is it really worth the loss by cutting all ties with your gay child? Let your heart be the ruler not your head. Like a menu in a restaurant not everyone choses the same meal. It's our difference that makes whom we are gay,straight yellow,black or white. At the end of the day we all strive for one thing unconditional love.It's what makes us human 🏳️🌈
I grew up in a family that didn't discuss things like sexual orientation. We were a family, we loved each other no matter what and that was that. I had two gay family members come out to me over the years. Well one was a little obvious, but as long as he was happy and safe, sexual topics were never discussed. Didn't matter to my parents or siblings if I was dating a girl or a guy. There was no obligation to come out to anybody, the love was there regardless. If someone wants to talk about guys to there father, that's up to them. I think because guys tend to worry about there lifestyles being found out and what there parents would think about it, that they automatically think its something they should or shouldn't tell them, then it becomes an issue. Some people already know there parents thoughts on the subject. Really never thought there was any obligation to let my parents know that I was interested in girls, it might have been assumed, but still not something I felt I had to clarify to them at any point. Maybe if there was a marriage involved, now that would be something nice to tell your parents or a baby on the way or how you got a raise at work... yeah so... orientation was one of those things that never got talked about growing up. I do see the horrible oppression and hurtful feelings cultures have towards gay men and women, the hardcore roman catholic families, how in the Philippines families outcast and disown children and I do hope someday that will all end, probably a pipe dream, but maybe an acceptance, a tolerance of some sort even would be nice. Something other than painful emotional segregation and ignorance. My family member gave me a little insight into the gay lifestyle and it was extremely ugly to say the least.
Im asian and most of my friends are gay. Im pan (been with girls before). Im pretty sure our parrents suspects/knows our sexual orientation, we just dont talk about it. And we dont bring our partners home to meet them. But they know. Maybe we re some of the lucky ones with parents that are kinda accepting. Others arent so lucky.
Beautiful. Tears. So happy for the acceptance and inclusion into the family. It wasn't like this in my time, but it is wonderful to see more and more bl series and shorts showing understanding parents and real families being together in their diversity. Loved it, thank u so much!! ❤
This short is so beautiful and the actors all did an amazing job. I never thought I would one day find a film featuring a gay couple with a young Asian boy being accepted by his father. It has always been my biggest fear. It brought me a lot of hope for a life I will embrace and love. I'm into tears. Thank you for having shared this and made it possible. Have they ever thought about making further films with this story?
I've always loved this short film. So elegant and well written. The father is an amazing man with a good heart. Wish it was like this for every kid having to come out. Hopefully one day we won't have to come out anymore.
On a lighter note. ...Asians sure like to dirty a lot of dishes for meals don't they?? Hahaha and who was the genius that decided hey, two sticks are perfect to eat tiny grains of rice and slippery noodles in soup?? Absolute insanity. Hahahahaha
Whom do you mean with the term "Asians"? People in the asian part of Russia, Turks, Persians, Indians, Afghans, Arabs or just the Taiwanese family shown in this short film? 😉 They are all very different in their eating styles... No reason to generalize.
Oh my god finally one with a happy ending. I’ve tried to find so many and out of the tens of lesbian/gay short films I’ve watched I found *three* that had a happy ending. It’s not representation if you kill one of us off at the end every time. So thank you to the creator, for giving us a happy ending.
I love a happy ending. A really good film capturing the real pressures and tensions of coming to terms with an overpowering love with another person of the same sex. Love is uncontrollable.
How lucky am I that this short film popped into my playlist for the second time. I watched it two years ago and loved it. I watched again and loved it even more!
The first three and a half years, were more hidden, or in secret, then they got more daring, lying in bed together, and almost get caught, which leads to their having this conversation.
It’s the third time I watch this film, and it still makes me cry. I have been in Kyle’s position, but unfortunately, it does not always end like this. It was very hard for me who was so open about my relationship with my family to understand what my partner was going through with their family. There are things that evolve slowly and can’t control. The important thing is that everybody respects themselves and others in the process.
What a beautiful story! I hope that everyone have a beautiful story like this one. We need more acceptance, our kids and teens need us. They need a loving family. Take care! Blessings 🙏❤️🌹🌈💜
I'm in tears after watching the short film, cuz I have same experience as Alex.I was born in a tradition chinese family just as Alex. My parents also want me to make my ancestor proud,make my family proud.They want me to married a woman and get a baby.But I couldn't.I knew I was gay from a very young age, and I still couldn't get the nerve to tell they I am gay.Cuz I knew if i told them, they would definitely kill me, and they will kick me out of the family. It is very difficult for them to accept me as gay. I don't know when this can be ended :(
Really sorry to hear about your situation. Not sure how old are you. But maybe things can change, when you are financially independent from your family? We are sending you lots of love!
I denied the truth to myself and took me years to accept it myself even after I was financially independent . You too will reach there . Now I have found someone , and it does get better. haven't told my family , God knows if I ever will.
That cuts deep. I wish my father was as accepting as this. Nine years ago, he told me that he would rather have a drug addict or a criminal son than a gay one. Over the years, he managed to come to term with my sexuality. I tried to make him proud in my own way - finishing my doctoral degree and got a tenure, helping him with my research. But he never said anything. When my brother got married, my father looked so happy and told me, ”Now I feel like a real father!” Sigh...
Not everyone has what it takes to overcome the prejudices that they were raised with. Try to keep the lines of communication open but don't let his prejudices poison your own sense of self worth. It sounds like he's learned a bit. It may just take him a lot longer.
please, don't misunderstand your father... i am writing from Palermo (PA.), the main city of an island in the middle of mediterranean sea called sicily... we have an uninterrupted history long about 40 centuries! we are very conservative, but in our long history we had about 70 different ethnicities that got to live together... so, we are conservative, but in a dialogical way: we never forget our past, but we are a land of tolerance... BEING CONSERVATIVE AND BEING SCIOVINISTIC AREN'T THE SAME "BEING"! our glbt movement was officially established in 1980 by the founding of our arcigay, but the arcigay was constituted by the union of various different entities yet pre-existing! i can say that our glbt movement is absolutely the most ancient of the whole europe... so, longest for culture, first for tolerance... try to be introspective to your dad: what brings him so rough against our world? hate? anger? ignorance? unsureness? don't see at him as an enemy, but try to seek the enemy that is within him... fight against your real enemy, not against his wrong fatherhood! maybe, in the future, when your brother will be so busy due to his family, when your dad will be so old to need to be aided, your dad will have you more closer and more "aidful" than your brother, and will learn to appreciate and love you in a so deeper way to be able to compensate the past sadness...
Thank you so much for posting such beautiful short film. I needed something like this today and I guess a lot of us need to watch a different kind of gay ending....A happy one for a change.
OMG, that Asian guy is from Taiwan!!! Taiwan is an incredible and amazing country. And all I want to say is no matter who you are, Taiwanese will always open to you and accept any different sexuality person.
I had my coming out when I was already 46 years old. Before that day I had three relationships undercover. But after my coming out my life startet new and I feel so free now....do not wait as long as I did to.... Life is too short.
This was lovely, because I know for a fact that not that many parents are as accepting as this boys father. I am glad it had a happy ending. BRAVO nicely written.
I was lucky because my Father Accepted me of who I am. Since when I was young my father always supporting me for the things that I wanted to do. This film makes me remember of him. I know he's proud watching me in Heaven. He died when I was 12 and now I am 19.
EL PAPA ES UN GENIO. ADMITE QUE LOS SENTIMIENTOS DE SU HIJO Y SU NOVIO, NO SON MALOS, SINO NATURALES Y LOS APOYA COMO BABA. FELICITACIONES POR EL VIDEO ....................
Lo principal es respecto los unos a los otros reconocer que somos iguales como seres humanos, y respectar las ideas y gustos de otros y acabar con la hipocresia,de la sociedad. Evitar families disfuncional, hijos no deseados por cubrir las aparencias.
One of my best favorite gay short films very simple beautiful not so much drama directly to the pint of being accepted by papa and that’s all makes me 🥺🥺😍thanks for sharing such master piece CONGRATULATIONS 🎉
I hope more people will understand that it's just Love it doesn't matter if it's of the opposite sex or same-sex, and more people will understand and support their decisions, well done 🤗👏🙆♀️💜
This is such a beautiful film about coming out. In a perfect world, it would be cute like this. It should be. I was fine when my son came out, but my husband is from a different culture and still struggles 7 years later.
Hello to all of you ! I just wanted to say this : this « small » movie, showed in few words, the marvelous moments, you can have , in your life, when you just go straight « to the point », without building « little lies » after another one !! Your feelings are real, your love is real…..so, the Bouddha will enlighten your way !! I’m French, and so much attired by Asia, since , « my first day, on this earth »……… this little movie brought so wonderful « souvenirs », back…..to my memory !! So, I just wanted to say: Thank you and well done. ( by the way, the actors, are really cute !! ) Domo arigato !
Who speaks Spanish, Portuguese, Turkish, Chinese, Japanese, Arabic, French, Hindi, Bengali, Urdu and Russian? We would love to have many subtitles for this video in order to spread the positive message of openess. Send us a message via facebook.com/querblick or instagram.com/queerblicktv, if you want to volunteer in our translators team that helps to make LGBT* short films accessible to people all over world.
Thank you to @Ridwan Aditia for Indonesian subtitles and to @Sileno Perina for Italian subtitles. So great of you!
Also thank you to the people who added Vietnamese, Russian, French, and Burmese subtitles. We do not know who you are, but you did a big favor to LGBT* people all around the world who can now watch this short film in the language they speak.
I can do Thai subtitles tho
That would be amazing! Could you send us a message please, so we can explain how it works?
i would like to
As an older gay man it’s beautiful to see younger people having it so much easier with coming out to parents. I know it’s not always like this but in time hopefully it will be even better. It was what I dreamed of as a young gay man.
Yes, I know exactly what you mean.
I’m an 80 year old grandmother. I have a granddaughter who wants to transition and a grandson who already has. Two beautiful people who deserve all the love and respect I can give them. I can only pray the world will soon agree. Bless you and I hope your family has realized what a special person you are. ❤️
@@dorisdavis846 That is wonderful Doris. I hope the best for your grandchildren. ❤️❤️❤️
Your grandchildren can be very happy and proud to have such a great, supporting grandmother. Thank you for sharing your story! 💚
Meu sonho poder conhecer o amor do meu neto.
When the father just said "I know" and expressed his blessing, I choked up.... Beautiful moment.
Yo lloré je
Me too
0:01
May I ask where that part is? Is it cut?
If I had a boyfriend like Kyle, I never would hide this from my family. “Hey, this is my husband. Bye, I’ll live with him.”!
lmao. BYE is so impressive
same
That be me if I didn’t live in a family with homophobes.
😂
Super short film
“Kyle...”
“WhaT?”
“..you’re wearing my shirt”
“ugh”
I got this wkwkwkkwkw
Loved this so much. Social media like TH-cam is a great means to promote acceptance, embrace, respect, love and social justice for millions of LBGT folks, everywhere, who undergo unnecessary stress and waist so much time of their life in hiding, covering up and suppressing. Thank you for doing exactly that with this movie.
Actually just promotes professional victims.
@@jeremylee5990 what
@@jeremylee5990 we are true victims...Of some ideologies
@@邓梓薇 You are a victim by choice. ENJOY your whining.
@@邓梓薇 You are a victim by choice. ENJOY your whining.
It is videos like these that keep thousands of oppressed ,closeted gays alive . Thank you for giving us hope for a better future .
Everyone in the lgbtq+ community not just gays
Everyone in the lgbtq+ community not just the gays
yes , I agree , it is a strange world , love is imprisoned and ignorance is norm.
Just like me...
Amen
"I want to bed his best friend like Kyle. Well maybe not exactly like Kyle..." I'm sorry Dad is the cutest.
I'm actually.. ugh. I'm crying from how cute this was. The fact that the father is so accepting of his son, too. Ugh! So cute. ;w;
"wE wErE jUsT sTuDyInG aNaToMY!" yeahhh you got that right! 😂😂😂
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAA I'm dieing!! 😂😂😂
Hahahahahhah
Lmao
into the colonizer 😭😭😭
@@itshlm23 LMFAOO did you watch the video too 😭💣💀
My partner, who is Taiwanese and I enjoyed your film very much. It captured many of the cultural difficulties in coming out to your family and seeking acceptance. Keep up the good work, we look forward to your next film, and wish you great success!
We are all equals only the ignorance and the lacking of respect for each other make yours life miserable,keep fight for you rights, gays in other countries it been killed only because they are gays.
I can totally relate. I’m an Asian mix and in my younger years I used to hide my bf or pretend we were just good friends! Now, I am happily married to my husband. We r married for 2 years and 13 years as living partners. My mum and sister gave me away at our wedding. Anyway, Great story thank you! Love , peace❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈🇦🇺🇵🇭
Wow,im happy for you
Amazing hope I can say the same one day... Haven't lost hope
I'm proud to read your story, I wish I had more guts, when I was younger, and not hide my boyfriends, like many boys do.
Now I'm 60, and sad and lonely 😞
How is it possible to men have Sex ? One Screw needs one nut , this is the nature . How can u fix two screw or 2 Nuts together???
@@omarabubakar9293 Pretty easily called anal sex!
Oh wow, look at that. A gay short film that actually has a nice ending. Amazing work btw..
Hi
Yeahh...nice ending...
*Oh hey look! A gay short film with an happy endings.*
Indonesia?
Name film pliz ?
Well that's rare to see ....why most of the films have a sad ending....
Yeah, thought the same!
Isra Ziada it's called "Straight A".
It's something about the Asian household setting that is just too relatable. I teared up when when the Dad was talking to the picture. I wish all of us would have more accepting parents not just for coming out but in general. But watching such a beautiful film makes me hopeful for a better tomorrow.
Thank you so much for a positive film about young love. I'm 65 and gay and we never had that kind of openness in my youth. I am so proud of you all for writing, producing and acting in such a beautiful story.
When his Dad gave him the ring to give to Kyle I cried the Acceptance was wonderful to see
Wow that cut deep.
So many young gay asian men and women have to face this exact senario.
If only all asian parents would see the good in their gay children just like the father did in this movie.
The father had already lost his wife so it was his choice would he also lose his son.
Beautifull portrail of reality.
Parents ask yourself is it really worth the loss by cutting all ties with your gay child?
Let your heart be the ruler not your head.
Like a menu in a restaurant not everyone choses the same meal.
It's our difference that makes whom we are gay,straight yellow,black or white.
At the end of the day we all strive for one thing unconditional love.It's what makes us human 🏳️🌈
some people end up with severe depression and end their own life..
TAVITA BRICKLE Well put
I grew up in a family that didn't discuss things like sexual orientation. We were a family, we loved each other no matter what and that was that. I had two gay family members come out to me over the years. Well one was a little obvious, but as long as he was happy and safe, sexual topics were never discussed. Didn't matter to my parents or siblings if I was dating a girl or a guy. There was no obligation to come out to anybody, the love was there regardless. If someone wants to talk about guys to there father, that's up to them. I think because guys tend to worry about there lifestyles being found out and what there parents would think about it, that they automatically think its something they should or shouldn't tell them, then it becomes an issue. Some people already know there parents thoughts on the subject. Really never thought there was any obligation to let my parents know that I was interested in girls, it might have been assumed, but still not something I felt I had to clarify to them at any point. Maybe if there was a marriage involved, now that would be something nice to tell your parents or a baby on the way or how you got a raise at work... yeah so... orientation was one of those things that never got talked about growing up. I do see the horrible oppression and hurtful feelings cultures have towards gay men and women, the hardcore roman catholic families, how in the Philippines families outcast and disown children and I do hope someday that will all end, probably a pipe dream, but maybe an acceptance, a tolerance of some sort even would be nice. Something other than painful emotional segregation and ignorance. My family member gave me a little insight into the gay lifestyle and it was extremely ugly to say the least.
Very well said
Im asian and most of my friends are gay. Im pan (been with girls before). Im pretty sure our parrents suspects/knows our sexual orientation, we just dont talk about it. And we dont bring our partners home to meet them. But they know. Maybe we re some of the lucky ones with parents that are kinda accepting. Others arent so lucky.
Good for you not making a horrifyingly sad ending like most of these. Nice and upbeat! Loved it!
Brought tears to my eyes....it takes a strong brave man to tell the truth, no matter what the consequences.....
Beautiful. Tears. So happy for the acceptance and inclusion into the family. It wasn't like this in my time, but it is wonderful to see more and more bl series and shorts showing understanding parents and real families being together in their diversity. Loved it, thank u so much!! ❤
This short is so beautiful and the actors all did an amazing job. I never thought I would one day find a film featuring a gay couple with a young Asian boy being accepted by his father. It has always been my biggest fear. It brought me a lot of hope for a life I will embrace and love. I'm into tears. Thank you for having shared this and made it possible. Have they ever thought about making further films with this story?
Yo he visto algunas, incluso un comercial
@@PabloRodriguez-wr6mi ¿donde?
I've always loved this short film. So elegant and well written. The father is an amazing man with a good heart. Wish it was like this for every kid having to come out. Hopefully one day we won't have to come out anymore.
On a lighter note. ...Asians sure like to dirty a lot of dishes for meals don't they?? Hahaha and who was the genius that decided hey, two sticks are perfect to eat tiny grains of rice and slippery noodles in soup?? Absolute insanity. Hahahahaha
Whom do you mean with the term "Asians"? People in the asian part of Russia, Turks, Persians, Indians, Afghans, Arabs or just the Taiwanese family shown in this short film? 😉
They are all very different in their eating styles... No reason to generalize.
Oh my god finally one with a happy ending. I’ve tried to find so many and out of the tens of lesbian/gay short films I’ve watched I found *three* that had a happy ending. It’s not representation if you kill one of us off at the end every time. So thank you to the creator, for giving us a happy ending.
Great comment. We postet it pn our instagram channel.
Ein schönen Abend mit diesem Kurzfilm verbracht. Erinnert mich an mein Coming-out mit 19 zurück.
I love a happy ending. A really good film capturing the real pressures and tensions of coming to terms with an overpowering love with another person of the same sex. Love is uncontrollable.
this is the sweetest thing ever
it made me cry tears of joy
I had seen this once before. But now I went and watched it again and it made me cry at the end. So Beautiful.
Me too!
Same :))
@@visakos8067 what's the name
@@chantelncube7711 the name of what?
@@visakos8067 the name of the bl
I cried. As a Filipino, I can relate. Hugs to everyone!
How lucky am I that this short film popped into my playlist for the second time. I watched it two years ago and loved it. I watched again and loved it even more!
Beautiful film; everyone who took part in it deserves an oscar, in every possible category. Perfection!
this is amazing.
i didn't think it would go that well, but the dad was just so sweet and understanding and i just love this 💕🏳🌈
Why is no one talking about the fact that they’ve been in a relationship for four years and they’re just now having this conversation?!?
And the problem is? Err... Love, it's okay to take time to come into terms with life.
J. K. Actually it wasn’t that apparent
Thakur Vineet Raghuvanshi if they were at a point of getting engaged and been together for four years. The one guy shouldn’t sneak him around
This is the reality of many couples even today
The first three and a half years, were more hidden, or in secret, then they got more daring, lying in bed together, and almost get caught, which leads to their having this conversation.
Well this was just wonderful. So happy to have been surprised by the ending. Everyone should watch. Thank you!
Amazing work ❤️❤️ if only all stories ended like this 😭 I hope everyone that’s going through this can find the strength to go on and come out 💯❤️
It’s the third time I watch this film, and it still makes me cry. I have been in Kyle’s position, but unfortunately, it does not always end like this. It was very hard for me who was so open about my relationship with my family to understand what my partner was going through with their family. There are things that evolve slowly and can’t control. The important thing is that everybody respects themselves and others in the process.
Сочувствую! 🤝 Надеюсь сейчас уже всë хорошо...
I'm sobbing😭😭😭
How awesome his father was.
😭😭
Gracias queerblick por la labor que hacéis ayudando a jóvenes LGTB de forma altruista difundiendo este tipo de cortos. Precioso por cierto.. ❤️🇪🇸
omg, cutest gay short film that I ever have seen, love this. And the dad's reaction is just soo super cute omgg . my heart is melting
The father responded brilliantly. You can be really proud of a father like that. He is a role model for many parents. Both thumps up. 👍👍
This is a 10 minute version of The Wedding Banquet. I love it!
Oh my goodness! This made me cry. So beautiful.
What a beautiful story! I hope that everyone have a beautiful story like this one. We need more acceptance, our kids and teens need us. They need a loving family. Take care! Blessings 🙏❤️🌹🌈💜
That was absolutely lovely! Bravo to everyone involved!
This really hit me deep, and now I'm crying. Wow (crying..) what a short film💖💙💚💛💜
If it could only be that easy, a great film.
Agree...
So nice
That's why it's called a movie short.
Ikr
Bitch literally... the face I made.... this is too unreal 😂😂
I'm in tears after watching the short film, cuz I have same experience as Alex.I was born in a tradition chinese family just as Alex. My parents also want me to make my ancestor proud,make my family proud.They want me to married a woman and get a baby.But I couldn't.I knew I was gay from a very young age, and I still couldn't get the nerve to tell they I am gay.Cuz I knew if i told them, they would definitely kill me, and they will kick me out of the family. It is very difficult for them to accept me as gay. I don't know when this can be ended :(
Really sorry to hear about your situation. Not sure how old are you. But maybe things can change, when you are financially independent from your family? We are sending you lots of love!
@@queerblick thank u :) BTW, I'm 21this year, I really wann be fiancially independent quickly, then I'll be with someone I loved.
I denied the truth to myself and took me years to accept it myself even after I was financially independent . You too will reach there .
Now I have found someone , and it does get better. haven't told my family , God knows if I ever will.
@@nutcaseneo191 thank u for ur comment,I hope one day I'll find some i love .
You are a sweet fellow , I am sure you will. Always focus on what you have to offer instead of what you desire. Much love
That cuts deep. I wish my father was as accepting as this. Nine years ago, he told me that he would rather have a drug addict or a criminal son than a gay one. Over the years, he managed to come to term with my sexuality. I tried to make him proud in my own way - finishing my doctoral degree and got a tenure, helping him with my research. But he never said anything.
When my brother got married, my father looked so happy and told me, ”Now I feel like a real father!”
Sigh...
He should have felt like a "real" father way before that.
Not everyone has what it takes to overcome the prejudices that they were raised with. Try to keep the lines of communication open but don't let his prejudices poison your own sense of self worth. It sounds like he's learned a bit. It may just take him a lot longer.
please, don't misunderstand your father... i am writing from Palermo (PA.), the main city of an island in the middle of mediterranean sea called sicily... we have an uninterrupted history long about 40 centuries! we are very conservative, but in our long history we had about 70 different ethnicities that got to live together... so, we are conservative, but in a dialogical way: we never forget our past, but we are a land of tolerance... BEING CONSERVATIVE AND BEING SCIOVINISTIC AREN'T THE SAME "BEING"! our glbt movement was officially established in 1980 by the founding of our arcigay, but the arcigay was constituted by the union of various different entities yet pre-existing! i can say that our glbt movement is absolutely the most ancient of the whole europe... so, longest for culture, first for tolerance... try to be introspective to your dad: what brings him so rough against our world? hate? anger? ignorance? unsureness? don't see at him as an enemy, but try to seek the enemy that is within him... fight against your real enemy, not against his wrong fatherhood!
maybe, in the future, when your brother will be so busy due to his family, when your dad will be so old to need to be aided, your dad will have you more closer and more "aidful" than your brother, and will learn to appreciate and love you in a so deeper way to be able to compensate the past sadness...
It just feel so terrible to read your life story. Hopefully your father will gonna accept you sooner or later. Much Love to everyone!
@@nobusmanrbbj Hi Raphael how have you been working hard.
Did this bish, just come out with "you're wearing my shirt." in this situation!?
flabbergasted.
Great clip.
👁👄👁 u don't say that during a time like dis
Thank you so much for posting such beautiful short film. I needed something like this today and I guess a lot of us need to watch a different kind of gay ending....A happy one for a change.
This was so awesome.....Thanks for this film. It really is a tear jerker but in a good way.
Kyle is so damn hot!
Yeeeees
Yes....sir!!!
Ici
Yes he is
Because he's white
Like gay short films with a happy ending - very touching one! thx
Well that film brought tears 😢. A beautiful story. Great cast and performances! ❤
Dad's character was awesome!
Que bello corto!!! Nunca dejemos de expresar nuestras emociones, es lo importante para seguir vivos!!!
Very touching short film. Nicely written and nicely acted by all three. Congratulations.
That was the cutest film I have ever seen
OMG, that Asian guy is from Taiwan!!! Taiwan is an incredible and amazing country. And all I want to say is no matter who you are, Taiwanese will always open to you and accept any different sexuality person.
Taiwan is wonderful! I've been there twice during my teens. I loved everything about it!
Did you just country...Watch your tongue 😏
Awesome
Wow, I just watch this and it brought me to tears. Simply amazing. Great job.
I had my coming out when I was already 46 years old. Before that day I had three relationships undercover. But after my coming out my life startet new and I feel so free now....do not wait as long as I did to.... Life is too short.
You know there’s a lot of silly crap on TH-cam but… That was well done and quitebeautiful! Thank you for that❤️
@ George, very beautiful. It warms my heart. I love sharing with friends.
suddenly, it feels so liberating coming out to the very people you care about. this is a great story! ♥️♥️♥️
What a wonderful short film. Great job! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
This was lovely, because I know for a fact that not that many parents are as accepting as this boys father. I am glad it had a happy ending. BRAVO nicely written.
When two people love each other, they give happiness to others
That was beautiful!!! One thing for sure...a great parent doesn't need translation because its universal!!!💝
I was lucky because my Father Accepted me of who I am. Since when I was young my father always supporting me for the things that I wanted to do. This film makes me remember of him. I know he's proud watching me in Heaven. He died when I was 12 and now I am 19.
Congratulations Ed.
You are blessed to have had such loving father.
If only real life was so sweet.. ty hugz from Canada 💖
A beautiful, short-short film about coming out. ❤ I loved it.
🥺🥺🥺beautiful film. Thank you!
I've seen this story on Todd Lien's Channel before. And I like him. He is not only a good artist he also a very good person. 🤗
Love u Todd 💖
Do you know what the other actor's name is, the blond one?
@@jorgeavila9682 well I'm not sure. But I searched and and I found his name is 'Zach Cramblit'.
Have a great day.
This was wonderful! So sweet, cute guys and a perfect ending. The only shame is...
...I can only give it one thumbs up. 👍🏼
Finally a gay film where my heart didn't broke ❤
A family of 3 men:
Father, son and son-in-law!
Beautiful and wonderful !!!
EL PAPA ES UN GENIO. ADMITE QUE LOS SENTIMIENTOS DE SU HIJO Y SU NOVIO, NO SON MALOS, SINO NATURALES Y LOS APOYA COMO BABA. FELICITACIONES POR EL VIDEO ....................
El amor siempre está allí, solo tenemos que valorar ese sentimiento que nos ofrecen, no solo de una pareja si no también ese amor de familia ❤❣
Lo principal es respecto los unos a los otros reconocer que somos iguales como seres humanos, y respectar las ideas y gustos de otros y acabar con la hipocresia,de la sociedad. Evitar families disfuncional, hijos no deseados por cubrir las aparencias.
Oh my gosh it was Amazing to watch it ☺☺ and I'm glad that the ending was happy and together 👬👬 just love it 🥰
What a cute film! In most films, gay relationships end tragically. Nice to have an uplifting ending.
Oh my goodness! How sweet was this?! Absolutely adorable short film !!!
One of my best favorite gay short films very simple beautiful not so much drama directly to the pint of being accepted by papa and that’s all makes me 🥺🥺😍thanks for sharing such master piece CONGRATULATIONS 🎉
That was so good, what a sweet ending!🏳️🌈
His mom would have said: "Alex! No dating or romance before finishing Med School!" :P
Why did the dad just randomly open his sons door. Teenagers need privacy.
We totally agree. It is a behaviour that can unfortunately be found among many parents.
Ahhmm... Asian parents..
@@ajjurahen2028 oh, you would wonder about parents from other continents...
my parents disagree
@Mohammed Al Nayeem imma 20 n well yes no privacy, I'm used to it
I'm gay and single and this makes me feel alot better thanks all to who made this video ot was uplifting
Nice how it all worked out so easily. I wish my life were that simple.
Me before i watched the vid: "How you gonna be a straight A student?"
Me after:"Not so straight now? Huh?"
I hope more people will understand that it's just Love it doesn't matter if it's of the opposite sex or same-sex,
and more people will understand and support their decisions,
well done 🤗👏🙆♀️💜
This is such a beautiful film about coming out. In a perfect world, it would be cute like this. It should be. I was fine when my son came out, but my husband is from a different culture and still struggles 7 years later.
I always cry when I see this video. It's so beautiful ❤️
So simple and pure. It's really a good story
I love happy endings for gay/LGBT movies who agrees
Ouch, you have got me crying. A 67 year old gay man. Beautiful.
When the dad just handed over the ring and hugged the kid I’m heart hurt I wanted to cry
Hello to all of you !
I just wanted to say this : this « small » movie, showed in few words, the marvelous moments, you can have , in your life, when you just go straight « to the point », without building « little lies » after another one !! Your feelings are real, your love is real…..so, the Bouddha will enlighten your way !! I’m French, and so much attired by Asia, since , « my first day, on this earth »……… this little movie brought so wonderful « souvenirs », back…..to my memory !! So, I just wanted to say:
Thank you and well done. ( by the way, the actors, are really cute !! )
Domo arigato !
ok, I want two entire season of them please thank you
Obrigada! 🇧🇷(Thank you from Brazil)💕
Finally a gay movie with happy ending... 😍
This made me cry...a happy ending..Its rare to find one
Still love watching this short film!❤
Me too, seen it a number of times and still ball my eyes out🏳️🌈🇿🇦
What a beautiful story. I teared up at the kiss.