WHAT birthday party do we know is worth that type of money exactly not one, unless if they get the ones expensive stuff. Why spend more money when you can save and get it cheaper lol. Same people who are spending more money the same people who are going broke ant no cap to that
That’s one expensive birthday party she must think she all that and then some. She better find her a rich boyfriend so she can continue living the high life
I think that was the deciding factor for JJ: she usually points out that things in a relationship are almost always gifts until things go south. This defendant admitted that she got loans and NOT gifts from the plaintiff on a regular basis.
There's nothing wrong with a person who feels they want/need a $9,000 birthday party. What's wrong is having to ask someone else to foot the bill. Had she paid for the party herself, that would be one thing. But she expected someone else to pay for it. The only people complaining about how much was spent are those who can't afford to spend that much on a party. As they say, haters are gonna hate. LOL
@@scribe712oh yes, anyone who thinks that’s a ridiculous amount to spend must not be able to afford it…. Right….. You understand MANY people would feel it’s too much, and they own homes. They could save and have $9k or they can take a line of credit etc and do it. Same as this woman could. So just not thinking it smart doesn’t mean you can’t afford it, it means you understand budgeting. Way to make yourself look silly huh?
Ma'am...pay for your own bday party. She thought he was just gone let this slide. She put together this extravagant party and wanted to stick everyone else wirh the bill. He's not bitter, she's a user
Uhh, here's how I see it. The relationship was going bad and he wanted to impress her with a big birthday bash so his "free" milk wouldn't move to another barn.
@thegreatestblood no. Just people with critical thinking skills and experience with actual real-life birthday parties. Some of us exist outside of a youtube comment section...just saying
The lady needs to borrow money to buy shoes but decides to have a birthday party for $9,000. The dude did right by getting away from her. What would a wedding have cost, $90,000?
One good thing about living "right at" my expenses is that I never get asked for money, so I never have to say NO. Loaning money is a lose/lose arrangement. Even if you get your money back, EVENTUALLY, someone always gets their feelings hurt.
Lol you got that right like I said in my comments before what party is worth that money, ain't no party with that type of money unless if you are willing to put down your own check on it.
So her boyfriend, her boyfriend’s mother, and her son all had to pick up a bill for her ridiculously expensive birthday that she forced on then? I would have called her bluff, not paid, and let the venue turn her away 🤷🏻♂️
Who would be bitter after breaking up with a broke money hound, who wants to a lavish life she cannot afford, to impress people who probably don’t care about her? Girl bye!
I love these kinds of cases because even though show pays the judgement it makes defendants like her look foolish in front of 10 million people plus TH-cam 🙃
The old "I will pay you back when my tax refund comes in" scam. And people keep falling for it. And the truth is that sometimes the entire tax refund is completely owed to several different people at the same time.
That defendant is just a user. I’m glad the plaintiff got money back from all that. Also spending $9K on a birthday is crazy to me but what’s crazier is having to borrow from people to pay for it. 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
What’s even crazier is walking into the party and having someone tell you that the person throwing the party still owes them money and will you, a guest at the party, hand over your wallet to cover it!!!!!
Average pay for a lab tech at Quest is around 24/hr. If you round everything up, pad those numbers, and say she's a top earner at 68K a year. That means she spent close to 15% of her gross annual income in one night! Can't figure out why she got her car repossessed...
By padding the numbers, giving her the benefit of being a top earner in her field, on the high end of the estimate, no matter which way you slice it, taking out a large four digit loan on her annual income for one night of pleasure was a symptom of a much larger problem.
America stop watching Real Housewives, that $hit is not real. Why would you spend $9000.00 on a 50th birthday party if you needed to borrow the money? Looking at her leads me to believe the bling went to her head. 😂
Right. I don't think I've ever had a venue for my birthday. I don't remember going to Chuck E cheese for my birthday, but it's a possibility. Even then, it's never been over a grand. That's just ridiculous in my opinion
lol for my 50th i told my man i wanted a big cake then ordered it and sent him to pay for it lol does that mean I'm conceited lol? 50 is a big deal, sure i would not spend 9 k for a party for myself but dang you are silly to think someone throwing themselves a bday party is conceited of them lol
@@bubbaXzone i totally agree lol 9 k is too much but we don't know how many people are in the family or friend circle or if it was also a family reunion or any of that but yeah 9 k from all appearances seems very excessive
They both are stupid in my eyes because it's like why would you give her the money Knowing dang well she doesn't have the money to pay you back. But she's stupid too because she knew she owed that money and she knew that she didn't have the money for her party. 9000 on one little party just for that day come on, I know your parents taught you better than that
Not really, maybe the man had been married to the same woman 25 years and just started dating. He might have recently lost his wife and hasn't dated recently. Besides not all woman are users.
Here's a novel idea..... if you have to wait for a tax refund to have some money to put towards YOUR birthday party, keep it simple or DON'T HAVE ONE! Seems like the money should be put to better use. 🤷🏽♀️
Weird. The lady is delusional. Probably living in her dreams thinking she is a celebrity or something. When she said “grand entrance” (part 2), i almost choked. 🤣
When I turned 50 I had a small celebration with my kids, mom and a few other people. I could afford a lavish event but why would I? To use my savings like that is downright dumb. My son helped pay for part of the event so in all, out of my pocket I paid about 400. I get it, turning 50 is a huge milestone but spending money you technically don't have in order to celebrate this milestone is just wrong.
Why are you borrowing money from a man who is not your husband and you work everyday? Why would you take money from him? You take money because you are playing him and now it’s time to pay. The defendant is a user.
Exactly she could have thrown a little small party at her house and went to a little restaurant and celebrate her birthday ain't nothing wrong with that I don't understand why she has to ask somebody for the money knowing they will she cannot afford that.
This woman takes money from her son so she can have a $9000 birthday party for herself? She borrowed money for a phone and clothes and still decided she needs a $90000 party for herself! Talk about setting a bad example and being selfish!
I think Thaddeus was trying to impress her with his momma's money. I would be willing to bet that at the party it was he who was gloating about what a spectacular party he threw for his lady. Then when she kicked him to the curb he wanted to be paid.
I've been _married_ to my _husband_ for _15 years_ and it has never _occurred_ to me to ask him for a nine thousand dollar party! What in the _world_ is _wrong_ with these two people?
Talk about people spending and living BEYOND THEIR MEANS! Who in their right mind throws themselves a $9,000 birthday party when they have to BORROW MONEY to throw it? How irresponsible and ridiculous!
So small items like cell phones and shoes are loans, but a $9000 party is a gift? This woman is a piece of work!😂
Yesssss 😂
WHAT birthday party do we know is worth that type of money exactly not one, unless if they get the ones expensive stuff. Why spend more money when you can save and get it cheaper lol. Same people who are spending more money the same people who are going broke ant no cap to that
@@jj5469 Its the same thing as why pay for a party if she can get someone to pay for it. It's a US party but ME ME ME comes first.
That’s one expensive birthday party she must think she all that and then some. She better find her a rich boyfriend so she can continue living the high life
I think that was the deciding factor for JJ: she usually points out that things in a relationship are almost always gifts until things go south. This defendant admitted that she got loans and NOT gifts from the plaintiff on a regular basis.
What the hell is wrong with anyone that feels they need a 9000 dollar birthday party.
There's nothing wrong with a person who feels they want/need a $9,000 birthday party. What's wrong is having to ask someone else to foot the bill. Had she paid for the party herself, that would be one thing. But she expected someone else to pay for it. The only people complaining about how much was spent are those who can't afford to spend that much on a party. As they say, haters are gonna hate. LOL
Looking at TH-camrs and rich people
Agreed. A wedding shouldn't even cost that much 😂
Especially if you don't have the money!!!
@@scribe712oh yes, anyone who thinks that’s a ridiculous amount to spend must not be able to afford it…. Right…..
You understand MANY people would feel it’s too much, and they own homes.
They could save and have $9k or they can take a line of credit etc and do it.
Same as this woman could. So just not thinking it smart doesn’t mean you can’t afford it, it means you understand budgeting.
Way to make yourself look silly huh?
Bitter?? Looks like he dodged a bullet😂Grow up and quit having parties that you can’t afford😩
Thinks she's Oprah 🤣😂🤣!!!
@@sue8237LMAO
That was ridiculous of her🙄..
She's the only one looking and sounding bitter here 🙄
He’s an idiot too😢
Now I ain't saying she's a gold digger...
WHY NOT? IT WOULD BE TRUE
What with her grand entrance an all😅
😂
She ain’t messing with🎶
😂😂 Best comment!
Ma'am...pay for your own bday party. She thought he was just gone let this slide. She put together this extravagant party and wanted to stick everyone else wirh the bill. He's not bitter, she's a user
If you can't afford something don't buy it don't pick it up it's not about what you want about what you need and what's necessary for your family.
AGREED AND SHE TOO OLD FOR THESE GAMES 🤣😂
Uhh, here's how I see it. The relationship was going bad and he wanted to impress her with a big birthday bash so his "free" milk wouldn't move to another barn.
@zuritribe4844 IKR. She's 50 and she has the "I'm such a pretty princess" mentality of a child lol.
AND THATS SAD BC SHE CANT AFFORD THAT RIGHT NOW LBS@@isaiahlaitinen
loan to buy shoes is wild😂
Can't afford shoes but I want a $9,000 50th birthday with all extravagances where I can make a grand entrance 💃🤦♀🤣
You borrowed money from your mom, to give a woman you’re not even married to, a birthday party?!?!
And these people wonder why they don’t have generational wealth
Even if I married her I wouldn't borrowed money to throw her a birthday party. Simply I can't spend what I don't have.
And thats the way it should be!!! Teach them to be responsible and realistic not spoiled and ungrateful!! @@miko_28
Exactly
Next level stupidity
“Bitter”? Ma’am, you owe him three THOUSAND dollars. 😂
Her "grand entrance". LOL The ego on her is immeasurable.
Wanting to make a grand entrance doesn't mean she has a problem with her ego. But you being bothered by it makes me wonder if you're jealous.
Most people make grand entrances at birthday parties.
What's the problem?
My cousins threw a 70th birthday party for my auntie and she made a grand entrance. Everyone loved it. ❤
The replies above me are the defendant's family members lmaoo
@thegreatestblood no.
Just people with critical thinking skills and experience with actual real-life birthday parties. Some of us exist outside of a youtube comment section...just saying
Does this woman think she's 16? $9K parties are for people who can afford them. Not for some old woman who wants to play queen for a day.
And these people wonder why they don’t have generational wealth
“ i’ve always reached out to be his friend, “translation: “Gimme some money!” 💴 💰
The lady needs to borrow money to buy shoes but decides to have a birthday party for $9,000. The dude did right by getting away from her. What would a wedding have cost, $90,000?
😂😂
😂😂😂
yes,
Try higher!
Make it Make sense
Let’s be real: The only person in that room who can afford a $9,000 birthday party is Judge Judy. 😂
😂😂😂 so true
And probably Byrd. I heard he gets paid quite a lot for a bailiff.
@@Petals44_ haha yes
Yes!
And these people wonder why they don’t have generational wealth
If you want a $9000 birthday party, you pay for it!
One good thing about living "right at" my expenses is that I never get asked for money, so I never have to say NO. Loaning money is a lose/lose arrangement. Even if you get your money back, EVENTUALLY, someone always gets their feelings hurt.
Exactly!
Her man paid for it
How u broke but throwing a 10,000$ party 😂😂😂
Easy, with other people's money!
And these people wonder why they don’t have generational wealth
U can't make this up
He was tired of being her ATM!
My man came with ALLLLL the receipts 😁Love to see it.
9,000 for a party to be broke the next day 😂😂
Lol you got that right like I said in my comments before what party is worth that money, ain't no party with that type of money unless if you are willing to put down your own check on it.
Lol
she doesn't think about the future, otherwise she'd realize her gold digging days are done and she'd aim to get married at this point in her life.
She was broke before that money was spent so it makes sense!
So her boyfriend, her boyfriend’s mother, and her son all had to pick up a bill for her ridiculously expensive birthday that she forced on then? I would have called her bluff, not paid, and let the venue turn her away 🤷🏻♂️
Who would be bitter after breaking up with a broke money hound, who wants to a lavish life she cannot afford, to impress people who probably don’t care about her? Girl bye!
Delusional
Im poor and for parties we just order pizza at the house. I aint gonna take out a loan for a damn birthday party. Sad.😅
BINGO!!!!
Also for $9K I wouldn’t even throw a birthday party. I would be taking vacations and going on cruises for all that money if I could! 😂😂😂
Ain't nothing wrong with that, I am right behind you at least we ain't got to pay no $9,000 just to have a good time.
@MondoVeedo You got pizzas ? Most I've spent on my birthday party for 30 cent on mcdonald's soft serve oce cream many years ago 😂
@@shitedriver8490 lol
Right, just give me a meal and a cake and I’m good (if a cake is relevant).
All I can say is if she tried to be his friend, he didn't and still doesn't need any enemies!
FACTS
Here’s a novel idea: If you don’t have the money for it, don’t buy it!!! 🤦♀️
She gonna have to find a new moneybag!😃
How do you throw a party with no money, ask to borrow money and get mad when someone ask for it back 🤦🏽♀️
And these people wonder why they don’t have generational wealth
I love these kinds of cases because even though show pays the judgement it makes defendants like her look foolish in front of 10 million people plus TH-cam 🙃
The old "I will pay you back when my tax refund comes in" scam. And people keep falling for it. And the truth is that sometimes the entire tax refund is completely owed to several different people at the same time.
She was a user and he wasn't having it.
He should never give her that money and he should have been honest with her what ashamed
My goodness pay the man his money!!!
She stayed just long enough that she got her money from taxes so that she could move on. Before that, she needed him as her meal ticket.
lol “I’ve always reached out to try and be a friend.”
I don’t want your friendship, I want my money 😂
What a selfish ego driven person to expect such a lavish party and expect that guy to cover it! Wow!!
My wedding wasn't even 9K. Who needs a Birthday party costing that much?
I do not think $9k is a bad price ...the problem was she couldn't afford it...
Dude had to borrow the money from his mom and this woman thought he was her sugar daddy lmao
That defendant is just a user. I’m glad the plaintiff got money back from all that.
Also spending $9K on a birthday is crazy to me but what’s crazier is having to borrow from people to pay for it. 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
What’s even crazier is walking into the party and having someone tell you that the person throwing the party still owes them money and will you, a guest at the party, hand over your wallet to cover it!!!!!
@@PartyOf8Please right!!! I would never 😂😂😂😂
Too bad for the piece of his life he lost, which he won't get back.
@@sue8237he will be able to keep his money tho😂
Average pay for a lab tech at Quest is around 24/hr. If you round everything up, pad those numbers, and say she's a top earner at 68K a year. That means she spent close to 15% of her gross annual income in one night! Can't figure out why she got her car repossessed...
She has an allergy to her own obligations. Spent her auto payment on herself then expected him to bail her out. This gal thinks she's Beyonce.
How did you get 68k a year at 24$ an hour?
By padding the numbers, giving her the benefit of being a top earner in her field, on the high end of the estimate, no matter which way you slice it, taking out a large four digit loan on her annual income for one night of pleasure was a symptom of a much larger problem.
she’s throwing a party that she cannot even afford 🤣🤣
"I just decided that I did not want to be around anybody that was..."
Was what? The way they cut it off, it had to be good!
The subtitles at the very end say “like, unloyal”, i think that’s what he was going to say
Lol of course you are reaching out to be his friend lmao. You want his damn money.
You mean his mama money lol
But he didn't have money. His mom did....lol
Somebody likes living above her means.
What a sense of entitlement. She gets her car repossessed but she decides to throw a $9,000 party. Incredible!
Can't be a bitter man if your son had to pay also.
We needed some pictures or a video of this 50th birthday extravaganza!!! I want to know if the defendant wore that wig😅
America stop watching Real Housewives, that $hit is not real. Why would you spend $9000.00 on a 50th birthday party if you needed to borrow the money? Looking at her leads me to believe the bling went to her head. 😂
Her level of conceit involved in throwing herself a birthday party is shameful.
Especially when she can't afford it.
Right. I don't think I've ever had a venue for my birthday. I don't remember going to Chuck E cheese for my birthday, but it's a possibility. Even then, it's never been over a grand. That's just ridiculous in my opinion
lol for my 50th i told my man i wanted a big cake then ordered it and sent him to pay for it lol does that mean I'm conceited lol? 50 is a big deal, sure i would not spend 9 k for a party for myself but dang you are silly to think someone throwing themselves a bday party is conceited of them lol
@@jeaniebee3657 i can see 200 maybe even 400 as something special
but 9k
dafaq
@@bubbaXzone i totally agree lol 9 k is too much but we don't know how many people are in the family or friend circle or if it was also a family reunion or any of that but yeah 9 k from all appearances seems very excessive
Never lend money in such huge amts.
I will give people $5 bucks and not expect it back. No more. Thats my rule. Savez me a lot of headaches.
They both are stupid in my eyes because it's like why would you give her the money Knowing dang well she doesn't have the money to pay you back. But she's stupid too because she knew she owed that money and she knew that she didn't have the money for her party. 9000 on one little party just for that day come on, I know your parents taught you better than that
$9000 for a birthday party?? that's several all inclusive vacations
The plaintiff is a little bit old to be discovering that women would abuse a man's finances. That's a lesson he should have learned a long time ago.
Misogynist much?
Not really, maybe the man had been married to the same woman 25 years and just started dating. He might have recently lost his wife and hasn't dated recently. Besides not all woman are users.
Some people marry young to good partners and stay married a long time.
"women" that tells me all I need to know about you buddy
@@wideawake5630 No, truth sayer...LOLOL
Here's a novel idea..... if you have to wait for a tax refund to have some money to put towards YOUR birthday party, keep it simple or DON'T HAVE ONE! Seems like the money should be put to better use. 🤷🏽♀️
$9,000 for a birthday party?! My birthday parties cost about $100 and that’s a lot for me🤣maybe I’m just a cheapskate..🤦♀️😭🤣
Don’t ever lend money to anyone!!
AMEN
This is ridiculous like she is no longer 21.
Spelling Jamarcus as “Jymmarkeus” is outrageoussss
😂
Defendant broke up with him just when she got her cheque and was supposed to pay him back!🙄
What the heck is the "Cons" bill? She said in the first episode it was from Best buy after correcting herself then said it again
Personally, I think she’s scrambling eggs inside her head!
Conn's is an appliance/furniture store. It's a lot like Best Buy. It's in all the big cities in Texas.
$9000 for a birthday party she couldn't afford. 😭
Who needs a$9000 birthday party they can’t afford ? Priorities people 😂
He should be suing his mother for naming him Jymmarkeus.
This woman blew 9k on a party that probably only lasted 5 hours minimum. That’s wild.
Only a fool would spend that much money on someone that is not their wife !!!
Wait, she took OFF her glasses to read that? 💀💀
Thats one heck of a name the son has ….
I was looking for this comment 🤐
Jymmarkeus. I swear people are just making names up willy nilly
Weird. The lady is delusional. Probably living in her dreams thinking she is a celebrity or something. When she said “grand entrance” (part 2), i almost choked. 🤣
She thinks she's Oprah!😂
If you have to borrow money that often you shouldn't waste 9k on a birthday party.
The fact her own son proved her ex's point
JJ: "Was he surprised that there was a ballance?"
Son:"I think he was."
Mama: "Boy...you just wait til I get you home..."
Right the son is a real air head
@@JenniferEllis-lw7xeWell, so is his mother
This show must be 10yrs old cause if she was celebrating her 50yr old Birthday...she looks 67 yrs old...NO WAY...REAL TALK!!!
Now why would she drag her son into this mess
She’s self-important to the max!
He'd better start to prepare himself for the day she turns up on his doorstep wanting to move in because she retired with no savings.
What kind of man would take money from his mother for something that is not necessary nor was it an emergency
She spends $9k on a birthday party, but can’t pay her car note
😮
In your 50s acting like a irresponsible Teenager. If she was smart she should have used him to pay off her car 😆
"...not to be around anybody that was...."? I wonder if there were bad words that came next.
Something tells me that she’s the one bitter about the breakup 🤣
GRAND ENTRANCE… she wanted a grand entrance to her birthday party… maybe address those mental instabilities. 🤔
When I turned 50 I had a small celebration with my kids, mom and a few other people. I could afford a lavish event but why would I? To use my savings like that is downright dumb. My son helped pay for part of the event so in all, out of my pocket I paid about 400. I get it, turning 50 is a huge milestone but spending money you technically don't have in order to celebrate this milestone is just wrong.
$9000?! She could have gone out of the country and came out cheaper than that. 😂😂😂
The defendant needs more maintenance than a Mercedes Benz.
I doubt he's disappointed about breaking up with you. He probably threw a celebration party. ( Probably didn't cost 9k, either )
😂
Why are you borrowing money from a man who is not your husband and you work everyday? Why would you take money from him? You take money because you are playing him and now it’s time to pay. The defendant is a user.
Exactly she could have thrown a little small party at her house and went to a little restaurant and celebrate her birthday ain't nothing wrong with that I don't understand why she has to ask somebody for the money knowing they will she cannot afford that.
This woman takes money from her son so she can have a $9000 birthday party for herself? She borrowed money for a phone and clothes and still decided she needs a $90000 party for herself! Talk about setting a bad example and being selfish!
And she standing up there looking like…….Nvm, she wasn’t nothing but a USER
All he and mom had to say was "I wish I could help you out but I just don't have it"
He dodged a bullet with her . She bitter as hell.
I think Thaddeus was trying to impress her with his momma's money. I would be willing to bet that at the party it was he who was gloating about what a spectacular party he threw for his lady. Then when she kicked him to the curb he wanted to be paid.
9k for a birthday party & sis wig in a hot mess 😢
no money dont have extravagant party, what a user
Living beyond your means is stupid.
All the other gold diggers are out there doing their thing with heavy machinery; then theres the plaintiff standing on bedrock with a rusty shovel.
Hey lady, pay for your own darn birthday!!
That lady is crazy thinking someone is going to pay 9.000 for her birthday party jist plane crazy
Hope he learned his lesson ....she a golddigger!
Why cant she handle,her own money
She really named this man JYMMARKEUS😭 that spelling is WILD
Smh....broke and still living above her means!
I've been _married_ to my _husband_ for _15 years_ and it has never _occurred_ to me to ask him for a nine thousand dollar party! What in the _world_ is _wrong_ with these two people?
Did she take off her glasses to read that text?? Wouldn't she need them? 😂
She trifling as hell for that😂
Talk about people spending and living BEYOND THEIR MEANS! Who in their right mind throws themselves a $9,000 birthday party when they have to BORROW MONEY to throw it? How irresponsible and ridiculous!
Love to see a picture of her birthday dress
9000 the worst part he agreed and he goes and ask his mother 😂😂