Actually, a grand entrance for a birthday party isn't that uncommon. I recently went to a friend's 50th birthday party where the dress code was to wear all black and we were there for 2-3 hours before my friend came out and made a red carpet "grand entrance". She had a DJ and the DJ announced her entrance over the microphone and she danced down the red carpet while everyone was cheering her on. She even had a birthday tiara on.
My birthday is 6 days before Christmas, so birthday parties have never been a big deal growing up. Now at 55, I sure as heck am not making a big deal about my birthday. I'm thrilled I made it this far since so many friends didn't. This woman has delusions of grandeur.
This defendant is ridiculous. 9k for a bday party when you dont have the money yourself. He shouldn't have loaned her any money if he had to borrow it from his mum geez
Her asking for a $9000 party for herself would have been reason enough for me part with her and move on. Clear indicator of a person that doesn't know the value of money.
Good lord, 9k for a party? And it's not even a wedding?! Neither of them look like they're dripping with money. What's wrong with renting out a dining room and enjoying that?
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The plaintiff shouldn't borrow money from his mom..that is ridiculous!! I would tell her to make a cheaper bday party! I'm not giving u money!! Some of these people want extravagant parties etc but they don't have the money for those things!
Now that I have passed my 50th birthday, I would never expect to spend $9000 on an extravagant birthday party. At 50 you're no longer a spring chicken, and if I had $9000 for such frivolousness, that money would be sitting in an account accruing interest for my retirement years.
I don’t understand why yall have so much smoke for this lady. It sounds like he was trying to act big and like he could just GIVE her that money when he didn’t really have it like that. Instead of borrowing money from his momma, he should’ve said no. I believe two things happened. A) he borrowed money from his mother that he couldn’t pay back, and b.) he’s mad about the break up
I never understand why people dont write a promissory note... The amount of the loan,date, what money is being used for, when it is going to be paid back, both sign and date. Than you dont have to worry about he said she said.. and if she doesnt want to sign note than she gets a party at Chuck e cheese!
Asking that old lady to basically finance a girlfriend’s party is absolutely ridiculous. There’s never a guarantee she will pay the money back even if that was the arrangement. That man is an idiot, and the defendant is arrogant and greedy to spend so much on a party she can’t afford. I bet that old lady never had a $9k birthday party. SMH
I feel so bad for her. She is probably just an average senior trying to survive on a fixed income. She doesn’t have thousands of dollars to waste on stupid shit like an expensive party for a middle aged woman who can’t afford it.
If you can’t afford to pay several thousand dollars for a party, you shouldn’t have a party that costs so much. Who has a coming out party at 50 years old⁉️❓⁉️
"Her Grand Entrance. I can see it now. Anita Baker playing and she's shuffling down a large stairway at the buffet probably. Her heel caught in a red sequin dress 😂😂
I would think she'd have her sh*t together at this age, but she most certainly does not😆this absurd birthday party screams "I need a tremendous amount of validation" from her
Here's a thought. If you don't have the money to have a party, don't have it. Stop relying on your taxes to "pay those people back" for what they loaned you. Can't count how many times I heard this same story. Hopefully others can learn from this.
Shame on both of them. The poor old lady is probably living on social security. The defendant has a huge ego and expects everyone to stroke it for her. What a narcissist.
I’m just saying, shouldn’t be spending almost 10K on a birthday party, my mom also works for Quest Diagnostics as a phlebotomist and she only makes just enough to cover her bills, whatever happened to the days of just going out to eat or having a small or large gathering rather than trying to keep up with the Jones’ for clout chasing purposes 😩
She seems ridiculous but he seems 100 times worse. He borrowed money from his mom to lend to his girlfriend for a party???? I’m shocked he wasn’t called out for that. He either lied and acted like he was a big shot to empress her, or he’s an idiot
$9,000 and a “grand entrance” (that you can’t afford) all for a 50th birthday? Sounds more like a wedding than a birthday. She seems to have quite the grandiose sense of self
my EX wife gold digger said the same thing " I DIDNT ASK HIM (me) TO DO THAT " ie: get her car fixed so she can goto work and contribute to the mortgage. Upgrade her cell phone, then i catch her with a 2nd phone. NARCISSISTIC BEHAVIOR
Paying 9k for a party that you can't afford at her big age is wild! 😳 And then she conveniently breaks up with him when she get her taxes! Smh
“My Grand entrance” this lady is too much… 🤦♀️😅
Goofy as hell😂
@ColoradoMilkcorrect but she definitely knew better.
WIILLLD!!!
The defendant has beer money and champagne taste. She's a compulsive liar. She'll do anything to show off to her family and friends. Sad😢
If someone says they are going to pay you back with their taxes don't believe them.
Cause taxes not guaranteed cause you may think that’s how much you’re getting back and you don’t
It’s a scam😂😂
I've lost count of the number of JJ cases that involve "I'll pay you back when I get my tax refund."
It never ever happens
@@armygurl399 scam highly likely! 😂😂🤣
$9000.00 for a party? Absolutely ridiculous she needs to pay for everything
9000 for a party. Ridiculous
It is actually a normal price...Venue+dj+food...The only thing is she should not have a party if she can't afford it
@ColoradoMilk you can't show of with just $9 000 party...
Nothing wrong with it if they can truly afford it
“My grand entrance”??! 😱😱😳 She’s totally stuffed full of herself!! He dodged a bullet by getting away from her claws, that’s all I can say!
Wish we had a video of her grand entrance 😅
I couldn't believe she said that! I'm female and I love a party but to spend all that money and make a 'grand entrance' no and no.
right?!?!?!?
I'm struggling to believe this is real and they are not actors performing. If true, this is a sad commentary on them as a people.
Actually, a grand entrance for a birthday party isn't that uncommon. I recently went to a friend's 50th birthday party where the dress code was to wear all black and we were there for 2-3 hours before my friend came out and made a red carpet "grand entrance". She had a DJ and the DJ announced her entrance over the microphone and she danced down the red carpet while everyone was cheering her on. She even had a birthday tiara on.
If I have to borrow money from mama to throw my friend a party, there'll be no party😂
Facts
Facts 😂 💯
Okay!! And they grown asl 😭
People are talking about how the defendant is ridiculous, but the plaintiff is also a little boy.
OMG I WAS LIKE “WHAT!!!!!!!” Now u too old to be trying to impress another old person with your mama’s money! It’s not that deep!
At 50, saying Happy Birthday meant enough. Same goes for my 60th, which was last year
My birthday is 6 days before Christmas, so birthday parties have never been a big deal growing up. Now at 55, I sure as heck am not making a big deal about my birthday. I'm thrilled I made it this far since so many friends didn't. This woman has delusions of grandeur.
😂😂😂
Everybody knows you have to have an extra big grand entrance when you turn 50........
I haven’t had a birthday party since I was around 15 - I’m now 76!
@@mrbear1302Really??? What makes 50 such a grand age?
No receipts.... She's doomed 😅
Pretty much
Got her taxes and broke up. That bill came due and she dipped out
This is the comment of ALL comments.
Her"ENTRANCE"!?😒Who does she think she is,a member of Royalty?🙄
Well she is a QUEEN 😂😂😂
Anita Baker playing and she's shuffling down a large stairway at the buffet probably. Her heel caught in a red sequin dress 😂😂
I’m not saying it’s right what happened to him, but why would you borrow money from your elderly mother to pay for a birthday party…
Anyone who borrows money to “lend” money is a major goofball.
He was trying to look like a bigshot.
It's amazing what men will do for a little poontang.
To impress a woman
Exactly enough... And for someone else's damn party that he wanted to pamper on his poor budget... He needs ass whoopin
This defendant is ridiculous. 9k for a bday party when you dont have the money yourself. He shouldn't have loaned her any money if he had to borrow it from his mum geez
Nah. I definitely believe she didn’t ask for a loan. I believe that he GAVE her the money, and his momma was on him and he turned around and sued.
@@PrincessZaire100but he had loaned her money prior to this. It’s not unreasonable to assume that some or all of the $9000 was a loan.
Why couldn’t we just go to an all-inclusive birthday trip? $9000 for a ONE day event is absurd..
And a birthday at that. And $9000 you couldn't even afford!
I was thinking the same damn thing! Could have gone on a luxury vacay for that price!
Ghetto mentality
Her asking for a $9000 party for herself would have been reason enough for me part with her and move on. Clear indicator of a person that doesn't know the value of money.
"I wouldn't have asked him If I knew..."
OK, so you did ask him then. It wasn't a gift.
Exactly!
I hate when Judge Judy misses little things like this! It should have been over after that.
@@georgemorgan5872 she did catch it. Why do you think the defendant lost?
Asking doesn’t mean it’s not a gift. It depends on whether you asked someone to give or loan you money.
The infamous tax return 😂
$9000 for a party? She should’ve just taken her behind over to Dave & Buster’s and called it a day.
Make my grand entrance 😂😂😂😂so ridiculous
She's so used to living beyond her means. Jaw dropping!
It's just a case sweetie
No money for a car, 9000 on a birthday - about right
Good lord, 9k for a party? And it's not even a wedding?! Neither of them look like they're dripping with money. What's wrong with renting out a dining room and enjoying that?
Wow he borrowed the money from is mommy at that age. My lord.... Poor lady
If you name your kid _"Cassaundra"_ not even Cassandra, you know they're going to have delusions of grandeur.
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Right!
Someone doesn't have control of her spending, living beyond her means and then wanting to celebrate herself beyond her means. Hmm.
I wonder how many times JJ has heard "payback when taxes come in" in her storied career.
And to think many of us out here wouldn’t even be spending 900 on a party let alone 9000. Wooooooow!
When someone tells you they’ll pay you back when they get their taxes back, expect to never see them or your money again !
9000 for a party ?! Royal family birthday party 😂
I refuse to pay that for anything that won’t put money back into my accounts lol
At their age, he had no business borrowing money from his mother for a daggone party. That’s ridiculous
Ridiculous
Grand entrance 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Everybody is borrowing money for this party 🎉
She’s nuts!
Crazy😫
Egomaniacs
Jeepers! I didn’t spend that much on my wedding and reception!
LOL $9000? Not a smart lady.
Borrowing money for a birthday party is totally stupid!
Why would you not come to court with proof?
poor people throwing lavish parties with "entrance songs".... ridiculous!
She didn’t have anything to prove she paid for some of the things for her party. She must have thought she was going to the beach
Oh my word! $9,000 for a birthday party? My wedding reception didn't even come close to that amount. What a gold digger.
a grand entrance?? lol who are these people?
“The caterer was $18,000!” Lmao
" My grand entrance ", lmao like she's Cleopatra entering Rome☠☠☠🤣🤣🤣😂
“Grand Entrance” she’s living in a fantasy 😅
The plaintiff shouldn't borrow money from his mom..that is ridiculous!! I would tell her to make a cheaper bday party! I'm not giving u money!! Some of these people want extravagant parties etc but they don't have the money for those things!
If I have learned anything from JJ, it is that don't bother coming to court if you have no evidence.
The ex boyfriend borrowed the money from his mother to give her a birthday party.. How insane!! Both of them need some help!!
Who spends 9,000. On a birthday party?
How much for the red carpet for your majesties GRAND entrance? Was everybody asked to bow to your greatness?
$9000.00 for a 50th birthday party is just a bunch of bullshit drama!!!
$9000 for a birthday party?
For how many people?😕
The gentleman in the audience at 00:24 has me rolling hahahaha
Now that I have passed my 50th birthday, I would never expect to spend $9000 on an extravagant birthday party. At 50 you're no longer a spring chicken, and if I had $9000 for such frivolousness, that money would be sitting in an account accruing interest for my retirement years.
He borrowed money from his elderly mother to help her throw a party. Both of them are too old to be this foolish.
You gotta feel pretty self important to have a 9k birthday party...is she some kind of royalty?
I don’t understand why yall have so much smoke for this lady. It sounds like he was trying to act big and like he could just GIVE her that money when he didn’t really have it like that. Instead of borrowing money from his momma, he should’ve said no.
I believe two things happened. A) he borrowed money from his mother that he couldn’t pay back, and b.) he’s mad about the break up
In life:
□Keep your receipts
□Don't borrow from mama
I never understand why people dont write a promissory note... The amount of the loan,date, what money is being used for, when it is going to be paid back, both sign and date. Than you dont have to worry about he said she said.. and if she doesnt want to sign note than she gets a party at Chuck e cheese!
She was definitely going to stiff the vendors if he didn't pay!
Its crazy how somebody that throws that much money away on a party wouldnt invest on a better wig🤦🏽♀️
Asking that old lady to basically finance a girlfriend’s party is absolutely ridiculous. There’s never a guarantee she will pay the money back even if that was the arrangement. That man is an idiot, and the defendant is arrogant and greedy to spend so much on a party she can’t afford. I bet that old lady never had a $9k birthday party. SMH
I feel so bad for her. She is probably just an average senior trying to survive on a fixed income. She doesn’t have thousands of dollars to waste on stupid shit like an expensive party for a middle aged woman who can’t afford it.
@@firebenderkitty313 her son was stupid to even ask her knowing all that.
Mama is just as silly🙄
@@carlawilkinson5831 you’re right, she should have said no, BUT he’s her baby boy after all. SMH
She had special music planned for her " Grand Entrance" 😂😂😂
My dress, my decorations my bartender, my party lol 😆 🙃
If you can’t afford to pay several thousand dollars for a party, you shouldn’t have a party that costs so much. Who has a coming out party at 50 years old⁉️❓⁉️
Living extravagant with no money 😂 how funny
She was NOT worth $9k for a party. You're not married!!!!!
Ain’t no way I’m borrow money from my mom at that age and definitely not borrowing it to “loan” it to a gf
A loan? For a party?
"Her Grand Entrance. I can see it now. Anita Baker playing and she's shuffling down a large stairway at the buffet probably. Her heel caught in a red sequin dress 😂😂
Someone needs to explain what "WE", means to the defendant 😂🙈
Taker 💯
If you expect the other person to pay you back... have it in writing and if possible notarize it with a witness.
"Grand Entrance" what a diva😂😂
Defendant = Narcissist
2:22 how we all feel about this defendant’s delusions of grandeur. 🙄 😂
Too damn old! I wish I would ask me elderly mother to pay for my significant other party
My wedding wasn’t even close to 9,000 WITH the honeymoon 🙄
Which sound mind adult in mid 50s will spent 9k for a birthday party?! Especially the money she does not have!!
She had a grand entrance...and then a grand exit 😅😅😅
A lot of people in this world need to learn how to be humble. Nobody needs an extravagant birthday party if you cannot afford one.
I would think she'd have her sh*t together at this age, but she most certainly does not😆this absurd birthday party screams "I need a tremendous amount of validation" from her
He borrowed money from his elderly momma!!!!🙄🥴
0:20 the lady in the black sweater face in disbelief
9k for a party……but the wig? No effort
Here's a thought. If you don't have the money to have a party, don't have it. Stop relying on your taxes to "pay those people back" for what they loaned you. Can't count how many times I heard this same story. Hopefully others can learn from this.
Why do they keep saying “MAKE a party” 😂 that’s driving me crazy! Who says it like that??
Shame on both of them. The poor old lady is probably living on social security. The defendant has a huge ego and expects everyone to stroke it for her. What a narcissist.
What normal person spends that kind of money on a bday party? Outrageous!
She's not normal, she's a narcissist 😂
She had special music planned for her " Grand Entrance" 😂😂😂
No cash no party!!! omg
Where did she think she was going? To the beach?No receipts! Not 2 bright
2:38 - she just admits that it was a loan and that she asked for it. She says “I wouldn’t have asked for it if ….” That means she asked for it. 🤦🏻♀️
" My grand entrance" Oh please! Who crowned her Queen of America?
I’m just saying, shouldn’t be spending almost 10K on a birthday party, my mom also works for Quest Diagnostics as a phlebotomist and she only makes just enough to cover her bills, whatever happened to the days of just going out to eat or having a small or large gathering rather than trying to keep up with the Jones’ for clout chasing purposes 😩
2:15 Your "grand entrance"? 🤣
She seems ridiculous but he seems 100 times worse. He borrowed money from his mom to lend to his girlfriend for a party???? I’m shocked he wasn’t called out for that. He either lied and acted like he was a big shot to empress her, or he’s an idiot
🎯🎯🎯
$9,000 and a “grand entrance” (that you can’t afford) all for a 50th birthday? Sounds more like a wedding than a birthday. She seems to have quite the grandiose sense of self
Loving this! JJ is the only show where men get a fair shake. Everyone else tells them to 'be a man' or 'get over it'.
Adults having lavish birthday parties is so weird to me.
😂 why?
She’s hilarious. She knows. She was already talking to the mother about paying you back.
He ask his mother for a loan for a party? You don’t borrow money for a party, less from your elderly mother. 😳🕊🙏🏻
my EX wife gold digger said the same thing " I DIDNT ASK HIM (me) TO DO THAT " ie: get her car fixed so she can goto work and contribute to the mortgage. Upgrade her cell phone, then i catch her with a 2nd phone. NARCISSISTIC BEHAVIOR
9k on a party....🤯 and that wig looking like that is wild 😩