Paula Cole - Where Have All the Cowboys Gone? (Official Music Video)

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  • @leannahuerta4054
    @leannahuerta4054 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +239

    🎶🎵Where has all the great music gone? 🎶🎵 I miss the 90's!!!

  • @azzyflya2355
    @azzyflya2355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    I love the frustration that emanates from how she says beer. It’s immaculate.

    • @tenderpawsm473
      @tenderpawsm473 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I thought she was madly in love with this guy. At least that was true initially. What went wrong? Was she too demanding, or did the guy turn out to be a lowlife?

    • @azzyflya2355
      @azzyflya2355 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@tenderpawsm473 they both misunderstood how much she would enjoy her life. He goes out gets out of the house leaving her in situations where she never had a day to herself(for the most part). Is her bitterness shining through, maybe shining isn’t the best descriptor of bitterness

    • @tenderpawsm473
      @tenderpawsm473 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I guess being a housewife was harder than she anticipated. 😂

    • @azzyflya2355
      @azzyflya2355 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@tenderpawsm473 not quite what I was going for but, sure…

    • @LindaMeier-Demir-xt5uw
      @LindaMeier-Demir-xt5uw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @Emilie-z5p
    @Emilie-z5p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    The way she sings "While you have a beer."

    • @jimaiello750
      @jimaiello750 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      That's one of the first things I've always noticed about this song. Her voice says it all.

    • @ramdodgetruck
      @ramdodgetruck หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You making fun of me? that's how we say it in Beantown. BE ER

    • @ricstormwolf
      @ricstormwolf หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I noticed that back then. I thought, she's not happy about that 😂

    • @AZBailey
      @AZBailey หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      that 😂 is the line! I wash the dishes while you have a bee-yer! I Do like the song

    • @decker528
      @decker528 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The way it sounds, it makes me feel guilty if I want a beer. Probably because of this song, I've never asked a woman to get me a beer and will refuse if offered 😅

  • @befdoglover1
    @befdoglover1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    "I will wash the dishes, while you go have a beeeeer"
    Those lyrics and the "yippee yi, yippee yay" part at the end are my favorite parts.

    • @kurtleinenkugel7725
      @kurtleinenkugel7725 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Those parts of the song got to me too.

    • @Ultramar_70
      @Ultramar_70 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And I love her final dance😊

  • @thegingersnaps8075
    @thegingersnaps8075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2381

    How little did I know this would be so true! Listening to this as a teenager you only hear certain things in a song and then when you become an adult it takes on a whole new meaning.

    • @archangelmichael1978
      @archangelmichael1978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +241

      I'm an old man now and my best years are behind me. My time has past. You're still young and you still have a chance. There's hope with you. Take your mask off, go find the best young man you always had a crush on. Dance with him, kiss him, confess your love, and start a family. It isn't too late for you to still find your happily ever after. Live dangerously and free. Go fall in love right now!

    • @danahorstman6828
      @danahorstman6828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Here not her

    • @archangelmichael1978
      @archangelmichael1978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@danahorstman6828 Hear not here.

    • @thegingersnaps8075
      @thegingersnaps8075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@archangelmichael1978 typo

    • @thechosen1473
      @thechosen1473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It sure does champ!

  • @AndySaenz
    @AndySaenz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +598

    I love it when she ascends into her falsetto, it sounds so ethereal. She has the perfect storyteller voice. Her voice is singular, it’s so beautiful.

    • @GuitarGuy057
      @GuitarGuy057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ladies don't have a falsetto.

    • @renzy5270
      @renzy5270 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No nuttos

    • @rosesmith6925
      @rosesmith6925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Total goosebumps ❤☮

    • @thomasposlusny9687
      @thomasposlusny9687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and she rejects what she once sang in lies..... like a women will do.

    • @christopher8659
      @christopher8659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@thomasposlusny9687 What did you mean by this?

  • @scottyintahoe
    @scottyintahoe หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I stumbled upon this gorgeous song... I'd forgotten how much I absolutely loved it! This song, her voice, what's not to like? BRAVO!

  • @rebeccaaustin3065
    @rebeccaaustin3065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1078

    She deserved the Grammy she got for this album. Self-written, produced....cool songs!

    • @MarinaAndTheDevil
      @MarinaAndTheDevil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Boundless talent

    • @paulenger4494
      @paulenger4494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Agreed

    • @jacobsable4543
      @jacobsable4543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I like how she has a braid in her hair and then in the next picture she has a bun in her hair. I think I like her with the braids better

    • @boogitybear2283
      @boogitybear2283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She made millions off this song. Mission Accomplished!!

    • @xbrandi12345x
      @xbrandi12345x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Totally agree. This album was so underrated.

  • @jeffchan67
    @jeffchan67 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    The way she says "beer" just cuts all the way down to the bone

    • @tenderpawsm473
      @tenderpawsm473 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She sounds like she's being passive aggressive.

    • @Nick_C213
      @Nick_C213 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      it's so odd people highlight the "beer" part... So many songs out there that highlight beautiful words and people love the passive aggressive snap backs here

    • @ritamild630
      @ritamild630 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Every woman has felt that exact tone

    • @dust9497
      @dust9497 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@Nick_C213it's not odd, people just like lyrics that have impact. Not every single lyric needs to be nice and beautiful

    • @dust9497
      @dust9497 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@tenderpawsm473you sound like you're sensitive

  • @Arientis
    @Arientis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +890

    Paula Cole is criminally underrated! She sings so beautifully ❤️

    • @RicardoMartinez-jy5lo
      @RicardoMartinez-jy5lo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Check her out with Peter Gabriel's “Secret World Live” tour in 1994, too.

    • @RastafariRico22
      @RastafariRico22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's one hell of a sexy mamma! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @Just1Bum
      @Just1Bum 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't put me in jail!

    • @gregpitts1619
      @gregpitts1619 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree 💯

    • @valerieblackthorn13
      @valerieblackthorn13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Jeff C By people that don't know her.

  • @kevinfox1008
    @kevinfox1008 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    No matter how many years go by this song never gets old and it is as timeless as when it came out in 1997!!

    • @angelacisneros4608
      @angelacisneros4608 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right! I was a senior in HS

    • @naturequeene1372
      @naturequeene1372 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow! I definitely would've pinned this for an 80's song for sure. But I love it. Has a very nostalgic sound.

    • @kevinfox1008
      @kevinfox1008 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @babyenderpizzio67823 NO it came out in the 90s because l remember hearing it on the radio when l was a kid going to school!!

    • @TamelaBennett
      @TamelaBennett 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly. I wonder where Paula Cole has gone.

    • @reginabrown2996
      @reginabrown2996 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It came out in 1996. Still it hits 🎶❤️

  • @trishayable
    @trishayable 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +219

    I miss the 90s so much.

    • @potatogrower
      @potatogrower 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The 90s remind me of running into water sprinklers

    • @potatogrower
      @potatogrower 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I didn’t have a bedtime

    • @shaymylahanif5701
      @shaymylahanif5701 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The 90s were the best decade,it was soooooo simple back then,I'm literally stuck in that decade lol with reruns of friends etc

    • @tenrgn
      @tenrgn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Modern technology is too invasive now, we’re too busy on our phones, no longer interact face to face with each other & the technology is now used against us

    • @yabrocharlie
      @yabrocharlie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      90s sucked

  • @frankielambardo9268
    @frankielambardo9268 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    What a voice.

    • @SimonGJWalton
      @SimonGJWalton 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What a midriff 😅

    • @loumartinez2005
      @loumartinez2005 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Both!!! fucking sexy as hell

    • @ricksmith6298
      @ricksmith6298 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love this. And my Debbie

  • @Imari-Haiku
    @Imari-Haiku 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    OMG, I remember hearing this song sometime, somewhere when I was a 5-6 year old little girl. Now that I've heard it again, I can feel the same vibe and feeling I felt back then. How I miss those times, even though I didn't have a clear consciousness of my surroundings. The 90s definitely had a unique and special vibe. All those 90s boys and girls must understand what I mean. Greetings from Mexico!

    • @zzzcocopepe
      @zzzcocopepe 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They say time is a circle. So those times pass and return

    • @spidaman0112
      @spidaman0112 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sadly its a lit fuse. Only hope there are loops close enough to your time or not.

    • @zzzcocopepe
      @zzzcocopepe 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@spidaman0112 is the sun the fuse?

    • @spidaman0112
      @spidaman0112 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zzzcocopepe same spark that ignited the universe. Stars too

    • @derp8575
      @derp8575 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@spidaman0112 The sun is literally a light. The moon is the lesser of the two lights. The stars are affixed to the firmament. Planets are wandering stars. The earth is a topographical, stationary plane. The sun, moon and stars are beneath the firmament. It might seem crazy, trust me lol, but it's true. Unfortunately most people are so spiritually blinded that they literally cannot see it. The subject angers them. Pride and hatred for God keeps them in the dark. There's also a sexual element at play. Most women believe certain things. So most men also believe those things in order to gain the affections of women. A vicious cycle indeed!

  • @dovegoddess1100
    @dovegoddess1100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    "I am wearing my new dress tonight...but you don't even notice me"
    The way sings this line with such a beautiful angst puts a lump in my throat every time I hear it 💜

    • @plantagenant6789
      @plantagenant6789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😭❤

    • @erikagrieg5694
      @erikagrieg5694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That has been -- and always will be -- the line that just completely and utterly kills me…
      I completely and utterly agree with you 💯 that she sings it with such beautiful angst

    • @winogirlll
      @winogirlll 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It happens in just about every marriage. After almost 30 years of marriage, some of us have an awakening. It’s not pretty. Enough.

    • @spiritoftheforest6204
      @spiritoftheforest6204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mine doesn't even notice the effort I put in after a year

    • @guyfaux900
      @guyfaux900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      One of many things made fun of on Family Guy. Did that show like anything?
      ( I mean other than offending everyone😄)

  • @Prxyshj
    @Prxyshj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Peak America, Peak World. The 90s here were an incredible time. People who were not there at the right age will never know. It doesn’t make me feel special, but sad that a vision of the 90s can’t be shared with them.

  • @TheBrockwayBabe
    @TheBrockwayBabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1822

    It’s 2020 and this song just transported me back to my teenage years.
    The power of music is amazing.

    • @Beulah_Marisa_Pharr_Ford.
      @Beulah_Marisa_Pharr_Ford. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same vibes. I was 13 ❤

    • @Laeryc
      @Laeryc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Every time i hear this song I am back in 8th grade Woodshop It was on the radio like start of 4th period nearly every day without fail.

    • @cryinginred
      @cryinginred 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I literally woke up with this in my head out of nowhere this morning, after years lol

    • @chrisknezevich5280
      @chrisknezevich5280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Really I was the same age I just had a flashback in time omg 😳

    • @wendyramirez1563
      @wendyramirez1563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Love this song I remember my brother use to love when I would sing it karaoke at home lol.....was 17

  • @walterpewen7903
    @walterpewen7903 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    Paula Cole has a Masters Degree in Fine Arts and she puts it to use in incredible work. People should be aware what kind of training she has--this is incredible and more.

    • @ELSITAFERNANDEZ
      @ELSITAFERNANDEZ ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Shes! And she play every instrument

    • @johnganshow5536
      @johnganshow5536 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My sister has an MFA degree, but she doesn't sing, just paints and does pottery...

    • @farnorthhomested844
      @farnorthhomested844 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes she is awesome!

    • @kittydaddy2023
      @kittydaddy2023 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      but did she ever find her cowboy?

    • @kidkique
      @kidkique ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​@@kittydaddy2023no she just found a bra

  • @christinamussared2285
    @christinamussared2285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    I forgot this song existed until like 2 seconds ago. Weird the random sh*t that pops into your head at 3 am.

    • @RicardoMartinez-jy5lo
      @RicardoMartinez-jy5lo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is saying, Darn it, there is no love in this relationship. 3 am being "the hour of the wolf."

    • @DinofskyKristoferWinwood
      @DinofskyKristoferWinwood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What triggered it was the weird way she says "BEER", then it sorta snowballed from there lol.

    • @costanzaman42
      @costanzaman42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I probably haven’t heard this song since riding in the car with my mom as a child in the late 90s…shit just randomly got stuck in my head and here I am

    • @buckfiddy5931
      @buckfiddy5931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I blame Walmart. They get me while my mind is screaming for anything but the shit on the shelves and the idiots in the aisles. Then they play some song I haven't heard since Christ was a corporal. I don't even realize it at the time, but that night I find myself here looking for songs I never thought I liked. Now they play on an infinite loop in my head. I like it.

    • @jefferynelson
      @jefferynelson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      now you remember

  • @AlphaWasSpotted
    @AlphaWasSpotted 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    For almost 20 years this song lingered in the deepest recesses of my memory, I didn't remember one lyric but the melody was burned in, I searched for so long but could never find it, it took till 2020 and a fucking FAMILY GUY episode had it on while Peter was shopping. I love Seth McFarlane. Thank you for helping find a childhood memory.

    • @Lockawannablu3z
      @Lockawannablu3z 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s truly amazing how music and scents can really marry the memory. The first time I heard this song as a kid. I was very much asleep but woke up to the sound of this song. I could never remember the name of the song (even tho I made sure to watch for the credits so I could remember) but the melody, “where have all the cowboy’s gone?” And “BEEEERRR” STUCK! So when something like google came along I could find it again🙌🏾

    • @UnstapledLisa
      @UnstapledLisa 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same thing with WhiteTown's "Your Woman" another 90's great song, I only knew the first 15 seconds of the opening music and I've found songs I forgot the name and band with like 3 words! It took me like 17 years finding it like 3 years ago!

  • @mehitablestorm8877
    @mehitablestorm8877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    This is one of the most ethereally beautiful songs I've ever heard. It's like the cry of a heartbroken angel.

    • @lgbaybaysalesladayy
      @lgbaybaysalesladayy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes ❤

    • @johndean4727
      @johndean4727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      you will never hear another like this.

    • @Lunangel
      @Lunangel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Perfect description for it 💕

    • @younglove3362
      @younglove3362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This is the cry of a women who chased around men in her youth and didn't settle down while assuming she'd be young and beautiful forever. Now that she's older, she can't chase them anymore because she's older and the cowboys rode off into the sunset. You all need to understand female nature. 🤣

    • @wvu05
      @wvu05 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@younglove3362 The character in the song clearly did settle down. I think you missed something there.

  • @callieschaeppi8831
    @callieschaeppi8831 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    27yrs later an i still know this song word for word.
    [I was 11 when this song came out]

  • @lc2748
    @lc2748 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    Cowboys still exist. Married to a great one, 35 years.

    • @bobafetting6373
      @bobafetting6373 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Hope he’s not like the one parodied in this gem of a song

    • @lc2748
      @lc2748 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@bobafetting6373 lol!! I have a good one, better than I should. ❤️

    • @letmeride247
      @letmeride247 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In my experience cowboy wives are equally as badass as their husbands

    • @electricearth1101
      @electricearth1101 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      this song is literally MAKING FUN of women who yearn for Alpha Males. Its satirical. I know you may think its about Beta males but The Singer herself is a feminist and said its satirical and it ultimately promotes the feminist idea of independence.

    • @boneytiger5650
      @boneytiger5650 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@electricearth1101I don't see how it's satire. I know women today who feel the same way as the lyrics.

  • @latindolphin
    @latindolphin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +372

    Memories ❤ Where has all good music gone?

    • @tabo01
      @tabo01 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Spotify will help you find new stuff.

    • @martinbarken2301
      @martinbarken2301 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Failure (yes that's the band name)
      Sunny day really estate
      Cave in
      Blinker the star

    • @LindaMeier-Demir-xt5uw
      @LindaMeier-Demir-xt5uw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤

    • @acornsucks2111
      @acornsucks2111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same place as the cowboys.

    • @Twest91x
      @Twest91x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      All over the place, just gotta look/listen 😉

  • @3putt548
    @3putt548 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    When Paula hits those high notes, I literally get goosebumps up and down my back. I just can't get this song out of my head! Her smile is absolutely bewitching! It’s like she knows things about me, that I don’t even know about! Great song! Great video! Great artist! I salute you!

    • @applemnster6309
      @applemnster6309 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      HAIM performed an amazing cover of it on their 2019 headline set at Pitchfork music festival. I never would have heard of this song otherwise!

    • @JMartini810
      @JMartini810 ปีที่แล้ว

      weird

    • @nicolelala10
      @nicolelala10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her high notes are great, but the whisper-notes make me crazy! 3:32

  • @loobie36
    @loobie36 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Thank you Paula for this little gem

  • @FlightandFallen
    @FlightandFallen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    That whole album is a banger, idc who says otherwise.

  • @nv3217
    @nv3217 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Once in awhile you find a thread of comments so fantastic it's indescribable. I love my generation.

  • @davidgdraper6269
    @davidgdraper6269 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I just love Paula’s voice. I could listen to her sing for hours.

    • @timothyspence9009
      @timothyspence9009 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Yankee doodle went to town riding on a pony 🐎🐴, stuck a feather in his 🎩 and called it infiltrated from with in, these artists sing Dixie, sweet heart Jesus Christ plan, AMEN AMERICA MAGA"

    • @shelleybeach658
      @shelleybeach658 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm singing very loudly with her atm xoxx

    • @ThunderChunky101
      @ThunderChunky101 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sounds like Tori Amos - who also laments men being men.

  • @alexanderopa5799
    @alexanderopa5799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    She really puts her heart into it...Talented Artist..

  • @Molly-Pop
    @Molly-Pop 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +152

    I just found this album in a thrift store, still in the shrink wrap, and you bet your ass I bought a CD in 2024

    • @mariah8171
      @mariah8171 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ME RN

    • @olivejuiceguys
      @olivejuiceguys 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Are they worth anything these days? I've got about 200, most are mix-tapes made by Me, each with a theme based on the current season of life. Still got a package of blank discs to burn on! Amen!

    • @bigmambahful
      @bigmambahful 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@olivejuiceguys Only way to actually own music physically, hold on to them. Nothing in a server is truly owned.

    • @bryansanchez8448
      @bryansanchez8448 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Molly-Pop nice 👍👍🙂

    • @ScottH-kx1dm
      @ScottH-kx1dm หลายเดือนก่อน

      killa

  • @rajonrondo210
    @rajonrondo210 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    At the helm of 2024
    This song still manages to make you nostalgic deep inside.
    I regret getting aged...

    • @troycooper47
      @troycooper47 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me too bro 😢

    • @vernongschoultz709
      @vernongschoultz709 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      🎉 when music was still good and living was worthwhile. Today music is freaky an living is just about survival

    • @mcmaximon1
      @mcmaximon1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's all a distant memory :(

    • @urban_phantom7750
      @urban_phantom7750 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The alternative to getting aged is not entirely attractive either

    • @paisleyprincess7996
      @paisleyprincess7996 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same. I remember being so adrift when this came out, and it makes so much more sense when you age.

  • @charlesstraub2282
    @charlesstraub2282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Just checked this song out for the first time…haunting. Celebrated our 50th anniversary last month. So glad we made it and blessed to have each other for so many years. Had one tough time and I felt the pain Paula describes so well. Somehow we got back on track

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Charles - you’re a good man, sir. Respect👊🏼

    • @raygordonteacheschess5501
      @raygordonteacheschess5501 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She was mocking Cowboys, not celebrating them.

    • @kathleenkalman4796
      @kathleenkalman4796 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad. I failed twice. Had an awful childhood, so got No modeling. Oh well.

  • @laurieberry162
    @laurieberry162 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Paula Cole has a wonderful voice.

  • @krussell89
    @krussell89 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    While watching a rerun episode of Yellowstone in 2023 this song played in the back of my mind. Actually felt like this in 1997 when I was working full time, taking care of baby, doing laundry and cleaning while waiting for my "cowboy" to come home from the bar. Luckily things changed for the better and we're still going strong 30 years later. I actually got my happy ending.

  • @stickfighter1038
    @stickfighter1038 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Powerful song that brings back memories

  • @zerocool1344
    @zerocool1344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    1996 was an amazing year, miss the 90s

    • @msbcheet6041
      @msbcheet6041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts. 1996 was an unforgettable year for me.

    • @goosefarm3602
      @goosefarm3602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Scott Summers those were the best years..90s were fun

    • @m1t2a1
      @m1t2a1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A year or two before that I saw her four times on the Secret World tour. Amazing. The Secret World Live video is highly recommended, if you haven't memorized it already.

    • @scooby2181
      @scooby2181 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      93-95 for me but all 90's are the best.

  • @chirho100
    @chirho100 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I haven’t listened to her since the 90s brings back memories, I was in the US army at the time.

  • @jeniestra.
    @jeniestra. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    One of the anthems of the 90s. What a classic.

    • @fredthomson8941
      @fredthomson8941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sure tobetimeless classic

    • @fredthomson8941
      @fredthomson8941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Nucky Thompson english. I just forgot to space words apart

    • @fredthomson8941
      @fredthomson8941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A sure to be classic

    • @mikecorleone6797
      @mikecorleone6797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nucky Thompson why you bein a dick lol

    • @mikecorleone6797
      @mikecorleone6797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nucky Thompson ohhh... i get it, grammar nazi.. well in that case....
      pnq ǝɹǝɥʇ ɓuıllǝds ʇɐɥʇ ʇɔǝɹɹoɔ ǝsɐǝlԀ

  • @sk3ffingtonai
    @sk3ffingtonai 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    🖤 I never realized until lately how absolutely phenomenal this song really is, awesome.

    • @ajs41
      @ajs41 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Definitely one of the best songs from 1996/97.

    • @GregoryChew0921
      @GregoryChew0921 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You old fools. This song is about oppression and hatred. and don’t tell me it was a different time. I don’t wanna hear that shit

    • @vikkibrown2023
      @vikkibrown2023 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ske3ffington~~Can't sleep so I'm playing my music~~I remember when this song came out~~I'd forgotten about it and just came across it~~I'm in my 60's and have always loved music~~I came out of the womb singing and dancing~~lol~~I love music so much~~Keeps me sane!!,,lol~~Paula Cole became super popular but only for a short time~~I wonder w/ever happened to her~~I thought she was great~~Hope she's alright~~Take care and have a great day/nite and stay safe~~😁😁😁💖💖💖~~

  • @paulsantos914
    @paulsantos914 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Another Gem from the 90s!

  • @abbotmortimer1593
    @abbotmortimer1593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +730

    The way she sneers "while you go have a beer" is absolutely DEADLY.

    • @eddievanlingen1935
      @eddievanlingen1935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I totally agree with that and the way she dances and moves her hands around to her singing it's so awesome

    • @jps0117
      @jps0117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She reverses it in more recent times.

    • @loupatrick5731
      @loupatrick5731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's then this is now

    • @irishredheadgal
      @irishredheadgal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😆

    • @RobRoschewsk
      @RobRoschewsk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You can even hear it

  • @markbartlett6287
    @markbartlett6287 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Wow, I really liked that song but hadn't heard it in twenty years. Thanks for posting!

  • @deanallen5567
    @deanallen5567 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The barely repressed rage within this song makes it a masterpiece. By the way, a beautiful video complete with painterly static vignettes. All- round wonderful.

  • @jesseperez6830
    @jesseperez6830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Was having lunch with my wife at a restaurant and they were playing this song at the bar and I immediately went into a trance, took me back to that point on time when the song came out and it was pretty amazing.

    • @russellbrown1068
      @russellbrown1068 ปีที่แล้ว

      As you remembered what a Banging Body Paula had.

    • @AmberMcQuiston
      @AmberMcQuiston ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I can still remember taking a bath in high school to get ready for school in the morning , and this was playing on the radio in our bathroom. And I was like, What is this amazing song?!?! It’s weird how I can still remember the very first time I heard it. It was so different than anything else on the radio at that time.

    • @DrWhom
      @DrWhom ปีที่แล้ว

      so you didn't even notice her?

  • @julieashmore-smith2235
    @julieashmore-smith2235 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This was on the radio a lot when I brought my lovely horse. He's just died. I play this this reminds me of him.

    • @introvertedbeauty00
      @introvertedbeauty00 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aww rest in peace to your lovely horse🥹🙏🏾❤️

    • @debbielee133
      @debbielee133 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤😢😂

    • @misterwhipple2870
      @misterwhipple2870 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I didn't know horses lived thirty years . . .

  • @dianaflynn568
    @dianaflynn568 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I loved this as a 16 year old teen. Now I watch the video and see her anger and wrath of what the songs intentions were. Absolute BANGER!

  • @luxtigris
    @luxtigris 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    A masterpiece

  • @georgiaswann6221
    @georgiaswann6221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +874

    This song hits hard now that I’m close to 40......

    • @blackgriffinxx
      @blackgriffinxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Deborah4Antiques I'm laughing because she made the deal.

    • @mrdave1091
      @mrdave1091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Stay strong.

    • @HenningDiesel
      @HenningDiesel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      You just hit the wall.

    • @HenningDiesel
      @HenningDiesel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @H MOX Thirty-five is devastating for women, especially when they are clueless about the wall.

    • @jamosgarage9006
      @jamosgarage9006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Even though I'm a man, as a 38 year old I get it.

  • @brent8783
    @brent8783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This song has genuinely affected me over the years. Paula's vocals and nuance with the lyrics always remind me that it's too easy to take your spouse for granted, so make a conscious effort to keep it from happening.

  • @markandrews5547
    @markandrews5547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    It took Peter Gabriel to introduce me to Paula's music. And then I found this track. To her, I say WOW, what a voice! and to Peter I say thank you.

    • @reneetorgerson3067
      @reneetorgerson3067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was going to mention that she was a back up singer for Peter Gabriel. But I am very jealous of you now LOL you know Peter Gabriel and you were introduced to Paula Cole?😮😮Peter Gabriel will always be one of my all-time favorites!

    • @OneLifeTwoLive
      @OneLifeTwoLive 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly how I got here also Mark. I’m so grateful to be introduced to such gifted human beings. 🙏

  • @oldladytrexarms
    @oldladytrexarms 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This song never stops giving me chills. I've loved it since I heard it on the radio as a kid in the 90s, just chilling and singing along with my family; it's such a haunting song and served as a great lesson for my sisters and I to ensure we wind up with good people.

  • @rodniki14
    @rodniki14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Now I finally understand this song.

    • @RicardoMartinez-jy5lo
      @RicardoMartinez-jy5lo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The British author Terry Eagleton wrote that ironies are more easily understood within the British culture.

    • @danielbrooks3566
      @danielbrooks3566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RicardoMartinez-jy5lo Very true. The Brits are good at irony.

    • @kardslistening8365
      @kardslistening8365 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danielbrooks3566 Some interpretations overlook the irony and sarcasm...unfortunately ;) Paula Cole has always been a feminist at heart..and I love that about her.

    • @electricearth1101
      @electricearth1101 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      this song is literally MAKING FUN of women who get attached to Alpha Males. Its satirical. I know you may think its about Beta males but The Singer herself is a feminist and said its satirical and it ultimately promotes the feminist idea of independence.

    • @rodniki14
      @rodniki14 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@electricearth1101 How is it that you know what I think?

  • @lockedin60
    @lockedin60 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I too had a marriage that never delivered the fantasy or the dream of continued bliss. Marriage and or permanent relationships are hard work and once disappointed enters the picture it usually goes south. I just finally looked at the lyrics today. What a powerful statement.

  • @nastassjavandyk7360
    @nastassjavandyk7360 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    We got old...it's only through our music that we feel young.❤

    • @nitroxsam66
      @nitroxsam66 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We grew old in body only. Not in spirit, nor in mind.

    • @jamessenich8511
      @jamessenich8511 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We sure did get old,you said it all right there
      I was 26 back in 1997!!!!

    • @SMac-bq8sk
      @SMac-bq8sk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Well, maybe not "feel young"; music just helps us remember that we once were.

    • @jimmycesarmorenoantunez2670
      @jimmycesarmorenoantunez2670 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Estás en lo cierto

    • @LeislSchutte-jb2yu
      @LeislSchutte-jb2yu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why didn’t some of us grow past the age of 16?

  • @sarahashley3697
    @sarahashley3697 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I still love this song so much I think I was like 14 when it came out, I would do anything to go back to the 90s physically and music wise, the kids now will never experience what it was like to grow up in one of the coolest times to be alive if you grew up in the 80s and 90s you know exactly what I'm saying. What a great time to be alive

  • @dannialwilliams4
    @dannialwilliams4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I remember being a kid hearing this song on the radio and driving around San Diego with my parents. Good times 👍🏻

    • @CherryFrog321
      @CherryFrog321 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same, except my parents were driving around Oklahoma City since that's where we lived at the time. :)

  • @stephenbailey6709
    @stephenbailey6709 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Love this song. Love this woman. Class ❤️

  • @sithari518
    @sithari518 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This hits ALL the 90s vibes more than anything else I could ever recall

  • @JD-yu3dk
    @JD-yu3dk ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This song is spitting truths!

  • @bubblegum1948
    @bubblegum1948 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    To have a Song this brutally honest about reality. That's put together with all these unique arrangements, simultaneous whispers and talk, hauntingly impactful singing from the Soul, and melodic blend...etc., is unusually gripping & murderously Beautiful!!!
    💥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥🔥🔥🎶🎸🎵🥁🎶🎼🎹🎵

    • @timothyspence9009
      @timothyspence9009 ปีที่แล้ว

      "You get it, our freedom, our constitution, under attack, monopoly central Bank 🏦 money laundering, a cog of criminals in Congress, two tear justice system, depopulation machine, that ain't Jo Biden, he went to GITMO, that's not Jo Biden"

  • @lornapaz5620
    @lornapaz5620 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    My favorite singer Paula Cole my favorite song I love this song reminds me of my childhood every day I listen to this song and I never tire of hearing it thanks Paula Cole you are the best.greetings from Costa Rica

  • @alistairgarratt9409
    @alistairgarratt9409 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    God only knows how I survived the 90's but what a ride.

    • @LimeyRedneck
      @LimeyRedneck 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's still 1996 though!!. isn't it!! 😬

    • @heatheroriordan5800
      @heatheroriordan5800 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@LimeyRedneckit is in my mind!

    • @amypagekaviani5661
      @amypagekaviani5661 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That is how I feel about the 1970's, 1980's and 1990's...

  • @user-sx9jh4ku4q
    @user-sx9jh4ku4q 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Something about this song is pretty magical. Her voice, especially at the end of the song really shows her vocal range. One of my faves by her 💜

  • @garryfrost9100
    @garryfrost9100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Love that song from 97. Female artists kicked ass in 97. Jewel, Natalie, Sarah McLachlan and Alanis Morrisette!

    • @eastcoastgrandison4855
      @eastcoastgrandison4855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Those are some top notch names right there

    • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
      @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Honestly, I could have sworn Vh1 overplayed the shiet out of this/her vid in '98! Cool that it was a year old by then? 🙂🙂

    • @1776PonySoldier
      @1776PonySoldier 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Overplayed is an understatement. But that doesnt take away from the fact that this is a beautiful song.
      P.S. Don't leave Tori Amos out of the list of women artists who owned the 90's! 😉

    • @ramonantoniodejuanbennett6239
      @ramonantoniodejuanbennett6239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I used to hear this song playing back in my college years in the late 1990s(1997-1999) in Benningan's and Chili's, hanging out with my friends at the restaurants and having a good old time. Good times, good times!

    • @synon9m
      @synon9m 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *96

  • @CherryFrog321
    @CherryFrog321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Born in 1991. This is the earliest song I actually remember hearing on the radio as a child. I loved it then because I just liked the cool melody and the fact that it talked about cowboys. But actually understanding the lyrics as an adult makes it even better!

  • @Drkjuju
    @Drkjuju 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    Gen x is still listening to this great music.

    • @candicebirmingham8969
      @candicebirmingham8969 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I hope so!

    • @baileybadass2235
      @baileybadass2235 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      We Gen Z to listen and learn

    • @hotdog1214
      @hotdog1214 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      We are, and passing on to the next generations to enjoy as well.

    • @Face0389
      @Face0389 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Millennial here.. and this will ALWAYS be a fave. ❤

    • @jenniferestes5293
      @jenniferestes5293 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I've had snippets of this song running through my head but couldn't remember the name or enough of the lyrics running together to do a search. All I could remember is I thought that Paula Cole sang it. Now at 2:15 a. m. I remember the name of the song. I remember Ms. Cole being known back in the day for really only 2 songs, "I Don't Want to Wait" (the Dawson's Creek song) and this song. Where I like I don't want to wait, radio stations over played it and I preferred this song. I haven't thought of this song in about 25 years, but I'm glad I did. I still like and may have to introduce my 17 y. o. to it. All because I was watching a SMOSH video and they referenced I Don't Want to Wait and that jogged my memory.
      Sometimes I miss those days when I was young and stupid. If I could go back in time and do it all over, but keep my knowledge & experience 46 years have given me, I would. I find myself feeling nostalgic for those days recently. I'm a proud Gen Xer and wouldn't want to claim any other generation.

  • @Brian6587
    @Brian6587 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The 90s just had some tremendous artists. Really the 80s and 90s were like the golden age of modern music. Incredible how young she is here!

  • @j.celestekee658
    @j.celestekee658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    Her voice still gives me shivers from its haunting beauty decades after this song came out!

    • @matthewroberts9107
      @matthewroberts9107 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You took the words right out of my mouth. Every time. Chills. Every. Time. A true artist, poet, social commentator, femininist, and documentarian of American life.

    • @applemnster6309
      @applemnster6309 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@matthewroberts9107 HAIM performed an amazing cover of this song on their 2019 headline set at Pitchfork music festival. I never would have heard of this song otherwise!

    • @CharlesNewkirk-sb5qs
      @CharlesNewkirk-sb5qs ปีที่แล้ว

      Sexey🎉

    • @timothyspence9009
      @timothyspence9009 ปีที่แล้ว

      "I grew up in a small town, the song, let's see the Swamp Hollywood CA Italy movie get away with it, or censorship, the USS Missouri, amendment rights Born with, Magadonians" 3rd party USA 😎 devolution dude 🦉🦅 AMERICA "

    • @timothyspence9009
      @timothyspence9009 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@CharlesNewkirk-sb5qs"CIA globalist instinctively contracted Hollywood CA to go on strike, after the movie"sound of freedom " hmmm 🤔💭, Yoda say 🌱🌿

  • @stefanr220
    @stefanr220 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    LEGEND!!! I want my kids to listen to this music and gain an appreciation of what quality music is. Paula is such an icon, she and Jewel have so many similarities.

    • @docsavage8640
      @docsavage8640 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes. They're both women.

    • @alswearengen6427
      @alswearengen6427 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      90's music had the best of both worlds: hardcore rock/grunge and amazing female vocalists like Paula Cole, Tori Amos, etc.

  • @BaronBanks
    @BaronBanks หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm mad that this doesn't have more views, this is one of the definitive songs of my childhood.

  • @DirtNassty
    @DirtNassty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This song takes me back to being a little boy in the 90s riding in the back of my mom's van on long night time rides! Time flys man! 😔

  • @GregGroenewald
    @GregGroenewald 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Love the bitter-sweetness of this song ...one has to listen to it a few times to appreciate the layers of this narrative, ...one wonders how many viewers can relate...

  • @brianharlan51
    @brianharlan51 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This song is reconciling fantasy vs reality of love And relationships
    For better and for worse

  • @jboogie7938
    @jboogie7938 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Straight 🔥. Her singing gives me the chills.

  • @kimmandley9356
    @kimmandley9356 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    YES to this! Gen X approved 👍❤

  • @ScootyPuffSr7
    @ScootyPuffSr7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Man, she has some fierce cheekbones. Respect. ✌

    • @blaneycrabbe3390
      @blaneycrabbe3390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's that Indian blood Man

    • @blaneycrabbe3390
      @blaneycrabbe3390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's her 'Indian' blood.

    • @gavinhawdon193
      @gavinhawdon193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She's got some fierce pokies too!

    • @joelubas1752
      @joelubas1752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      An Indian like Elizabeth “Pocahontas” Warren! LOL

    • @evelynbaron2004
      @evelynbaron2004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fuck off with the Indian blood Tom Petty was 1/4 Cherokee didn't stop his father beating him up, sorry yes she was beautiful and now she has white hair and her voice is still unearthly but this was one of those moments in time.

  • @erichpizer1
    @erichpizer1 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    where have all the 90's music gone.....

    • @fifiwoof1969
      @fifiwoof1969 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Still in the 90s - we left :-(.

    • @erichpizer1
      @erichpizer1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1996 see yourself. i bought the album.....I was there and 14 @babyenderpizzio67823

    • @acornsucks2111
      @acornsucks2111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      80's

    • @sharonodom6423
      @sharonodom6423 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I loved this in my teens; fiana apple Criminal, Lisa loeb. Then, I got into Korn, a few years ago I heard some of Meg Myers like Desire that reminds me of korn

    • @barrydavid6634
      @barrydavid6634 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      better yet, where have all the 80s music gone?

  • @buckeyefangirl1976
    @buckeyefangirl1976 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Growing up in the 60's and 70's I had so many cowboy heroes on tv and movies. Now they're all gone or old and retired. I miss them. Could sure use them in this crazy world.

  • @juglishjohn8986
    @juglishjohn8986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I heard this song in an Albertsons while buying beer earlier this evening. I hadn’t heard it so long that it sort of took me back in time. After watching the video it left me in a trance…how beautiful…

  • @jeffcarr2095
    @jeffcarr2095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Paula is gifted and she is indescribably gorgeous.

    • @robertniestroj9651
      @robertniestroj9651 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's a freakin' goddess, man! (Her voice is brilliant and it shines brighter then diamonds) :D

  • @johndean4727
    @johndean4727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The 80s gave us everything.the 90s left us wanting more.

    • @carlosro740
      @carlosro740 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      80's sucks

    • @Prince_Yonte
      @Prince_Yonte 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@carlosro740Youre crazy.

    • @candicebirmingham8969
      @candicebirmingham8969 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@carlosro740😮😮Shut your hole😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @seanmccarthy6992
    @seanmccarthy6992 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is such a good song love it

  • @samikasht5045
    @samikasht5045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I like cowboys because of their courage, honor and strength!! Hope they r still somewhere there!!! Thanks paula for this beautiful song.

    • @retiredbees
      @retiredbees 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, nice! @swimthighwear

    • @retiredbees
      @retiredbees 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      They blend in with the outdoors & nature. @swimthighwear

    • @samikasht5045
      @samikasht5045 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @BBDcummins Bravo! So nice to hear that!♡

    • @Statek63
      @Statek63 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, the mystical "real men" haha, "where have all the good men gone" ?? Love and relationships are two way streets, if "he" is only appreciated and relegated to "paying the bills" then no wonder he looks for friendship and companionship elsewhere, after not having found it in his very own supposed "soul mate"... And the constant nagging... 😂

    • @rickysaenz676
      @rickysaenz676 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Outlaws for life

  • @PoppaBoogaloo
    @PoppaBoogaloo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2440

    Why the hell have I, and so many other people, suddenly remembered and looked up this song at the same time?

    • @midwestkrazy83turner50
      @midwestkrazy83turner50 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Lmao

    • @starkheart4441
      @starkheart4441 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I know why. She just re-did the song and video. Now Paula looks like the rest of us. She changed the lyrics a bit. Check it out.

    • @anselmhimura626
      @anselmhimura626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      AlmightyFhonghoulle haha omg so true,..Just a lost song people remember cuz it was so diffferent.

    • @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780
      @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂YAAS!

    • @eddiemurder5676
      @eddiemurder5676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Aliens.

  • @anthonymcmillan8273
    @anthonymcmillan8273 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She has a smooth, soft and calming falsetto voice! This song and "I don't wanna wait" are the only songs I've heard from her. In this video she's singing about where are the men that had honor and values? The times back then was a little simpler. Now they're nearly extinct. I was about 19 or 20 when this came out. As far as I know she's still around. I'm not sure if I'll ever be engaged to listening to new music if she ever continues to making some but when she came out with "This 🔥 (97)" I heard the album a few times and I liked it. I hope all is well with her

    • @CesarJoel94
      @CesarJoel94 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is still making music but she had so much potential to be more successful

    • @iknowmyusernamesucks1939
      @iknowmyusernamesucks1939 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should definitely check out Feelin Love.

    • @rsatterth
      @rsatterth ปีที่แล้ว

      On peter Gabriel’s secret garden tour

    • @ariennelandry9207
      @ariennelandry9207 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m pretty sure this song is “tongue in cheek”. Listen to the words.

  • @mikelundrigan2285
    @mikelundrigan2285 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Still love this song, years later!

  • @watermelonsugar6909
    @watermelonsugar6909 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    And 26 years later, I'm 38. Feeling so nostalgic, loving that 12 yr old self who first heard this on the radio in year 7. Almost 3 decades later i realize I'd led the life the lyrics just read. I'm a single mom now with 3angels and i hope to share the magic of this song with them as they learn and grow ❤
    Love from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰

    • @j.michaeledwards2892
      @j.michaeledwards2892 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow! Congrats from Oklahoma City in the U.S.A!!!!👍😁🎶🎵🎸

    • @stacielewis4912
      @stacielewis4912 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was 10 when this was released…life went way too fast 🥺🥺🥺

    • @raygordonteacheschess5501
      @raygordonteacheschess5501 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She was mocking subservient women.

  • @zeppelinfighter3281
    @zeppelinfighter3281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    An amazing talent with the range and voice of an angel! This is what real talent sounds like……I just wish the truth of her words weren’t so personally painful.

    • @younglove3362
      @younglove3362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This truth is painful for women, not men.

  • @ivanmedina2334
    @ivanmedina2334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This song is pure perfection, i remember the 90's , she is so talented, pure heart, so wonderful.

  • @jagsrapperbestifalltimes5198
    @jagsrapperbestifalltimes5198 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I rembbsr this song from when I was a child

  • @tenrgn
    @tenrgn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    This song is now 27 years old😢😢😢let that sink in

    • @OgramRavot21
      @OgramRavot21 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow! I thought it was new. I had it in my head earlier and had to find it . Time flew by!

    • @Vicky-fn2ru
      @Vicky-fn2ru หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's wild huh

    • @clivedoe9674
      @clivedoe9674 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Now it pays less for car insurance.

    • @jensenms
      @jensenms 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I was 45 when it came out. It was sad then - still is.

    • @vpustote
      @vpustote 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She was 29 years old when this released. So that would make her at 57 years old now.

  • @m1t2a1
    @m1t2a1 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I was turned on to her by seeing Peter Gabriel's Secret World tour four times one year. Her voice has amazed me since the first time.

    • @Mrs.Deanna_Ember
      @Mrs.Deanna_Ember ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same,i liked her before but had a new appreciation after i saw her perform with Gabriel on that tour

  • @fahs
    @fahs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3782

    Lets just build a giant walled city, go back to the 90's and forget the millennium ever happened. Who is with me?

    • @ZACohea
      @ZACohea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      You can always go to Des Moines, Iowa since everything there is still like 1996.

    • @fahs
      @fahs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@ZACohea LOL... I lived half my life in Iowa. I will go in with a different perspective

    • @fahs
      @fahs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@ZACohea I think I remember that episode. Been awhile tho. You had a great reference that totally went over my head. Well played sir.

    • @b.r.holmes6365
      @b.r.holmes6365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Columbine happened in the 90s.

    • @dkmzoneglobal-1472
      @dkmzoneglobal-1472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Definitely...

  • @e-train765
    @e-train765 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've been looking for this song!!!! My mom played this all the time when I was a kid. The memories, I didn't know what the song was about back when when I was younger but 30 years later I fully understand it. Still a great song, back when music was music.

    • @RastafariRico22
      @RastafariRico22 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please, my Mom used to go crazy when I used to always ask my Grandpa to play this song on repeat mode. LMAO

  • @christopherdenton5682
    @christopherdenton5682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    God this just hit me like a ton of bricks. Growing up in the 90s was rough for me. My mom listened to this song constantly and it gives me chills. Good and bad feelings.

    • @RicardoMartinez-jy5lo
      @RicardoMartinez-jy5lo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is being very real about her feelings. It must be some sort of an autobiographical song.

    • @ZackBullard93
      @ZackBullard93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, actually. She always told me not to grow up like my father. I grew to realize my father was exactly the type of person I should have modeled after. She was just bitter that he didn't like abuse.

  • @riccardomusiu510
    @riccardomusiu510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Great song !! 👌 I love Paula ❤ I listened to her for the first time several years ago in Peter Gabriel's Live album released in 1994 "Secret World Live" she has an incredible voice, great artist 👏👏🌹❤

  • @joeyp978
    @joeyp978 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    What a damn banger. Forgot about this wow.

    • @senantiasa
      @senantiasa ปีที่แล้ว +4

      back when banger wasn't even a word..

    • @peterpiper3790
      @peterpiper3790 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@senantiasa I hate modern slang

    • @anonymousstrangeness7348
      @anonymousstrangeness7348 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@peterpiper3790 You must use modern slang. This is a non-negotiable social custom. 😀

  • @Mr22thou
    @Mr22thou 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is pure pop gold! I'm a guy and I never longed for a cowboy, but great music transcends silly insecurity limits. Bliss comes from indulging in what bring you joy, not taking on someone else's shame.

  • @슈만과콜라다
    @슈만과콜라다 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    정말 매력적인 가수~가사도 그렇고 목소리도 멋지고~ 젊었을때 많이 들었는데~
    오랜만에 들으니까 너무 행복합니다