Become Unstoppable: The Man Behind The World's Top Performers - Dr Steve Peters

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  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx  ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hello you beauties. Access all episodes 10 hours earlier than TH-cam by Subscribing on Spotify - spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - apple.co/2MNqIgw. Here’s the timestamps:
    00:00 The Basics of the Chimp Paradox
    06:22 Why Instinctive Reactions Are Evolutionary
    09:48 Can Anyone Develop their Emotional Skills?
    13:50 How to Start Understanding Our Emotions
    16:50 The Link Between Emotional Control & Self-Esteem
    23:21 What is a Ghost Emotion?
    26:12 How to Stabilise Your Mind in the Heat of the Moment
    30:50 Defining Our Values, Beliefs & Drives
    36:35 What We Misunderstand About Our Values
    45:13 Tensions Between Peace of Mind & Happiness
    48:12 What Steve Has Learned from the NHS About Burnout
    58:11 The Truth About Mental Robustness & Resilience
    1:02:58 Steve’s Philosophical Underpinnings
    1:13:14 Where to Find Steve

    • @jimmiferfreddette8583
      @jimmiferfreddette8583 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What happened to your intro? Bring it back imo.

    • @justanotherfella4585
      @justanotherfella4585 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just a nit pick but at the end of the 2nd paragraph there’s no need for the question mark. You’re describing the examination of a question not actually making an enquiry. I’m now wondering how much ¥$€* I’m to suffer for this…

    • @damianhoratiu2287
      @damianhoratiu2287 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like a quote from Freddie Mercury at one of the Earl's Courts concerts in 1977 :))))

    • @jademote
      @jademote ปีที่แล้ว

      1:35 1:35 1:35

    • @jademote
      @jademote ปีที่แล้ว

      1:35 1:35 1:35

  • @montgomeryscot6623
    @montgomeryscot6623 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    "The tendency we all have to complain about results we're not getting from effort we're not making". Shot to the heart .

  • @Apollothecrowing
    @Apollothecrowing ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I immediately looked on audible for his book, "A Path Through the Jungle" and its included with membership! 😄

  • @Elnino2910
    @Elnino2910 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    What a guest! Prof Peters is incredible. The way he explains/dumbs down things to make it easier for everyone to understand is excellent, it speaks volumes about the depths of his knowledge. The chimp paradox is one of the greatest books of recent times. Can’t wait to watch this one Chris.

  • @cradleinthewoods
    @cradleinthewoods ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Chris's podcasts, backed by science, are like a one-two punch for truly getting to know ourselves and making positive changes. This hits home especially for those of us in the Philippines, where quality mental health resources are as rare as a unicorn. And without a doubt, these podcasts are turning the whole wellness and fitness game on its head - in the best possible way!

    • @TheMightyMidget
      @TheMightyMidget ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really feel this. It’s like the kick up the arse you need to start learning and exploring who you want to be.
      Also if you have the time, try to get hold of the chimp paradox and read it. You’ll have a much deeper understanding of this philosophy

  • @edacheson8540
    @edacheson8540 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    25:27 As a parent who has lost 2 children, that's a very good way to describe it.

  • @jack_woodhams
    @jack_woodhams ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Before listening to the full thing I want to say- Professor Steven Peters has the most valuable teachings the internet has to offer and I believe a true face to face podcast is due! I am currently reading a path through the jungle and regularly analyse and pick up on the chimp paradox in every episode you do from either You or Your guest. This must be pushed more !

  • @amyclaire3873
    @amyclaire3873 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’ve genuinely applied things I’ve learned from The Chimp Paradox, and it’s really helped me. It’s one of my favourite books. Dr Steve is a legend and seems like a genuinely lovely bloke too ☺️

    • @DanielMorgan1
      @DanielMorgan1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!!! The book that catalysed my self development journey 👌

  • @ericdraven3654
    @ericdraven3654 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This podcast is changing my Life. Cheers from Spain.

  • @Fanaro
    @Fanaro ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is a guy who's wholesome.

  • @millertas
    @millertas ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lost my son in 2008 when he was nearly 19. Endorse Dr. Peters' sentiment 100% (ref. 25:55).

  • @advocate1563
    @advocate1563 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderful man who, as a psychiatrist, understands the brain functioning. Went on his 8 week Chimp Management course. Best value for psychological value I've ever had. His secod book Path Through the Jungle highly recommended if you want to DIY.

  • @justanotherfella4585
    @justanotherfella4585 ปีที่แล้ว

    10:15 “the inside texture of their own mind” As someone who is having mental health issues at the moment I’ve got to say that’s a startling turn of phrase. Quite beautiful really.

  • @gchristopherw
    @gchristopherw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chris you are becoming a world class podcaster. Your sensibilities that guide your interactions with guests are closely in alignment with my own. I can only say this about one other. Ben Fatto!

  • @samantha-kemp-therapy
    @samantha-kemp-therapy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this man -he's so engaging

  • @gracieidavis
    @gracieidavis ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Have listened to Hormozi on repeat and next thing I know there’s a new podcast! Thank you so much for pursuing/achieving greatness and sharing it with us. ❤

  • @dianedean4170
    @dianedean4170 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🎉😂❤ Thanks so much, Chris, for your fascinating and informative conversation with Dr. Peters.
    Acceptance of our strengths and weaknesses are based on listening to each other and in turn this listening is based on trusting ourselves.
    Life is living, loving and learning. Intelligence is based on selection. Choose wisely❤😂🎉

  • @LifeGameDesign
    @LifeGameDesign ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A mindset switch that has helped me understand this "Chimp system" on a more deeper and importantly a more human level is understanding the "Chimp" as our Inner Child
    Everytime Peter says Chimp I replace that with Inner child.
    If the voice in our heads is our inner child what is our conscious mind? Obviously a Child always needs a Parent to guide them to become their best self.
    We have the conscious will of a parent and the subconscious mind of a child.
    Our conscious will (parent) determines our environment and our enviroment detemines our behavior / subconscious mind (child)

  • @tompatrick795
    @tompatrick795 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Chris, I really appreciate YOU! Great podcast, and I think I will have to check out these books. The chimp made me do it! Why didn’t I figure this out already? I think you are great at what you do and are creating,and I love the thought content that you make accessible to people like me. It helps me view things differently. Cheers.

    • @nikolaizulu2873
      @nikolaizulu2873 ปีที่แล้ว

      Voltaire said something like "Appreciation makes the qualities of others, our own as well" & I appreciate you tompatrick 😂

    • @scottgaree7667
      @scottgaree7667 ปีที่แล้ว

      The chimp is you. Does no good to blame yourself. 🙂

  • @MonaMarMag
    @MonaMarMag ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The main question in life :
    " To be or to have "
    The choice is ours .

  • @n8sterling727
    @n8sterling727 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fantastic episode per usual. This sounds very similar to IFS therapy created by Richard Schwartz

  • @inshellskitchen1743
    @inshellskitchen1743 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Recommended to watch by my GP deffo worth giving a view.

  • @schalkvandermerwe3838
    @schalkvandermerwe3838 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh rad. I have often 'roboticised' my actions in order to get started with something [doing the robot, but not on the dancefloor, but at your desk]... So cool to now learn about Dr. Peters' work. Now I know who the other one is - the Chimp! Must fight. Win.

  • @scottgaree7667
    @scottgaree7667 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting overlay on Kahneman's fast brain, slow brain concept.

  • @AdamJones381
    @AdamJones381 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm surprised that Peters isn't more well known

  • @guydebord397
    @guydebord397 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The righteous and wise elderly rightfully patronizing or condescending to their youth in the most scornful and deliberate harangue mode - did it nicely (I wish I’d get to that age and get to know my own youth haranguing mode 😂). I’m 27 btw- dead serious. But Chris took it like a champ! Love the channel.

  • @heliosending
    @heliosending ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Me: I don't appreciate being compared to a chimp.
    Steve Peters: That's your chimp brain talking.

  • @Inspiriments888
    @Inspiriments888 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All paradoxes can be reconciled.
    -The Kybalion

  • @patrickm8316
    @patrickm8316 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful

  • @bobreilly7402
    @bobreilly7402 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would love to ask, is there any opportunity to train the chimp brain, or is it even worth the attempt? Is the game purely to manage the chimp and accept it for what it is, or fundamentally change it?

    • @SweetFeetSHIPP
      @SweetFeetSHIPP ปีที่แล้ว

      I would be very interested to know others opinions regarding this question.
      If I may, I think the answer to your question (as cliche as it sounds) is entirely up to you.
      If I'm able to train my chimp brain, I would want it to reflect the truest version of myself; separated from the chimp and the jungle (my environment). Personally, I think it's a life-long game 😎

    • @ianpatton632
      @ianpatton632 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You only train and manage the chimp, over time the human part starts to predominate, the chimp never goes away, with training it just has a significantly lesser disruptive presence

  • @BrainwaveAbduction
    @BrainwaveAbduction ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really very good

  • @osirisgolad
    @osirisgolad ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He certainly seems to have helped Ronnie O'Sullivan to get more of a grip on his brain under pressure.

  • @samuelcampbell5819
    @samuelcampbell5819 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No snooker fans? Gotta thank this man for Ronnie O'Sullivan.

    • @daveyjones7391
      @daveyjones7391 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Big fan right here!

    • @AdamJones381
      @AdamJones381 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Got into Peters from Ronnie!

  • @tuckerdixon8032
    @tuckerdixon8032 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chimp system is a good album title

    • @igormichetti
      @igormichetti ปีที่แล้ว

      I would def listen to a band called chimp system

  • @vanessanesener4028
    @vanessanesener4028 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I turned my monkey into my inner child into my little sibling and it works fine. We're friends now. :)

  • @TheFlyLife
    @TheFlyLife ปีที่แล้ว +3

    58:25 David Goggins beat his monkey into submission years ago. 😅 I picture his monkey in a cage quietly asking Goggins for permission for input. 😉

  • @peripheralparadox4218
    @peripheralparadox4218 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every evil act seems to stem from instincts of survival. It seems every instinct has a scale of function and non-functionality. It’s our instinct to eat that causes obesity. A serial killers desire to kill comes from an instinct to be powerful or possessive. You can eat in a healthy or unhealthy way. You can attain power in a healthy or unhealthy way.

  • @C.Gieskes
    @C.Gieskes ปีที่แล้ว

    What's going on there Chris 45:15. My chimp told me to do this😂

  • @kroniskkis7438
    @kroniskkis7438 ปีที่แล้ว

    Link to the article?

  • @w1cked001
    @w1cked001 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does this have any relation with Kanheman's Thinking Fast and Slow? Seems similar mechanisms.

    • @scottgaree7667
      @scottgaree7667 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I came to the comments wondering if anyone else had the same thought. Two perspectives on the same neuro-behavioral dualities in the pink stuff. It's that invisible gorilla that's the missing link between them!

  • @jeremywvarietyofviewpoints3104
    @jeremywvarietyofviewpoints3104 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does this relate to Kahneman's system 1 and system 2 thinking?

    • @alexbakle5750
      @alexbakle5750 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah I was thinking the same thing. It's apparently the same concept but with different terms.

    • @scottgaree7667
      @scottgaree7667 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alexbakle5750 It's been awhile, but I don't recall Kahneman having the concept of negotiation with system 1.

  • @Kjfree44
    @Kjfree44 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ngl I thought he was the guy from the meme at first

  • @LifeGameDesign
    @LifeGameDesign ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here is a transcript of the conversation where I replaced "chimp" with "inner child"
    Speaker 1
    One of the elite athletes I worked with once said, how do I kill my Inner Child?
    And I'm thinking, you've really not got this (idea right) because my Inner child (system) is my best friend. Because as long as I understand what he's trying to tell me, what is the ways communicating, then I can use that and work as a team. ( parent child relationship)

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    @philipcollen482 ปีที่แล้ว +8

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      @alicebenard5713 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @SophiaBint-wj8wn ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @jaygatsby1
    @jaygatsby1 ปีที่แล้ว

    My chimp pressed the 1.75X button.

  • @narieee2543
    @narieee2543 ปีที่แล้ว

    But “what” hacks my brain? Isn’t it my brain 🤔

    • @CSAcrazy
      @CSAcrazy ปีที่แล้ว

      Your conscience

  • @dinosemr8141
    @dinosemr8141 ปีที่แล้ว

    💖❤️💖🙏❤️💖❤️

  • @Fanaro
    @Fanaro ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a guy who cares.

  • @prototype0398
    @prototype0398 ปีที่แล้ว

    Huh!

  • @big_red_machine3547
    @big_red_machine3547 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was one of those podcasts that flopped. Just didn’t have any substance. Not your fault Chris

    • @pjennings72
      @pjennings72 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s crazy. Sounds like you REALLY need to listen to this again.

  • @johnnyjon440
    @johnnyjon440 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry bro no one can “ hack their brain” you need a savior , Jesus Christ is the Only one that can save you

    • @justbreathe8835
      @justbreathe8835 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your religion hacked yours

    • @squabdiggity743
      @squabdiggity743 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is actually a really common misconception. In reality, Jesus Christ was just some douchebag. The real savior is Ronnie James Dio.
      Peace and Love brother!

  • @sallyrowlands-bj5wl
    @sallyrowlands-bj5wl ปีที่แล้ว

    Please pin