Phil In The Blanks | Episode 183 | Relationship Reality Check pt 2

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  • @jenniferklopman2557
    @jenniferklopman2557 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dr. Phil, this is SO helpful. Very descriptive of what I went through in an abusive relationship, especially the flooding. I've never heard this term before and it's just so perfect of a descriptor of how it felt. In the end, I chose flight, I'm not rolling around in the mud with a pig just because they like it, I do not and will not. But anyways, there are actually 4 primitive responses to abuse: flight, fight, freeze or fawn. I was, prior to just ending it, fawning and kinda collapsing under the weight of his episodes. This happens too

    • @caroleminke6116
      @caroleminke6116 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fawning is typical of those raised by abusive as well as dangerously narcissistic parents

  • @accountabilitypartnerscomm7635
    @accountabilitypartnerscomm7635 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this relationships series. Very well done. I like how you acknowledge you have a relationship with yourself. That's a key insight I had too. You gotta have a great relationship with yourself. And then you can be a good relation to others. I like to say personal development is a prerequisite to interpersonal development.

  • @ari-bz4rd
    @ari-bz4rd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a great advice. I’m all in this marriage. It’s like therapy for me. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏.

  • @christinegomia1
    @christinegomia1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1. I tend to deny ...
    2. I am happiest when ...
    3. Sometimes I ...
    4. What makes me angry is ...
    5. I wish ...
    6. I hate it when ...
    7. When I get angry I ...
    8. I would give anything if my partner would ...
    9. Sometimes ...
    10. I would be more lovable if ...
    11. My mother and father ...
    12. If only I had ...
    13. My best quality is ...
    14. Sometimes at night ...
    15. When I was a child ...
    16. My worst trait is ...
    17. My life really changed when ...
    18. If my relationship ends it will be because ...
    19. My partner hates it when I ...
    20. When I am alone I ...
    21. My partner gets angry when ...
    22. My partner's greatest fear is ...
    23. It hurts me when my partner ...
    24. I feel the loneliest when ...
    25. I am afraid ...
    26. I love ...
    27. We used to laugh more because ...
    28. It would be best if ...
    29. Friends ...
    30. I feel like a phony when ...
    31. I can't forgive ...
    32. Together we ...
    33. What surprises me is ...
    34. I believe ...
    35. Other people think ...
    36. Men ...
    37. Women ...
    38. I regret ...
    39. It doesn't pay to ...
    40. It helps when we ...
    41. If only ...
    42. We never seem to ...

  • @stu160173
    @stu160173 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent advice!! And great content

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Definitely Doctor Phil , when you are in a relationship you need to give 100 % { add to this that a relationship is like a business but obviously 100 % + 100 % from both sides for same goal-? }

  • @npcalexa2462
    @npcalexa2462 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Noting all down 🤓👌📝📝📝 bless you Dr. Phil! 💎

  • @arktana
    @arktana ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks but why no video of dr phil? is he doing o.k?

    • @Bianca-sw5id
      @Bianca-sw5id 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think it is a long video and perhaps Doctor Phil's producer gave Doctor Phil a little bit of a change and it's good to take a break from doing the same thing , I think it is done for Doctor Phil's mental wellbeing 🙂

  • @charlenegates55
    @charlenegates55 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Flight. Most people in their life have stepped in it, smelled it, and scraped it off the bottom of their shoe. The next steps are taken cautiously, aware that you have already stepped in it. Do I want to get down in roll in it, or fling it around to everyone in proximity? No. But verbal abuse from an alcoholic is like this, horrifying, contemptuous, disrespectful and reckless. There is no way to communicate or go forward with someone who is in active addiction. Flight.

  • @youtubeuniversity6589
    @youtubeuniversity6589 ปีที่แล้ว

    Telling you dr phill I survived combat I survived addiction I survived many years of suicide attempts and not wanting to live we can do a show on improving veteran suicide I no all the ins and outs of what the core issue is and how we can solve this epidemic

  • @Teebothapro
    @Teebothapro ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I couldn't find these assessments tests on the website. Have they been removed?

  • @michellehonles5936
    @michellehonles5936 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I could not find the notes and questions on the website. Where can I get the questions?

  • @davesuiter
    @davesuiter ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Son she's going to beat you like a rented mule if you don't get it and you don't get it. A pancake is flat on both sides. Do you hear what I'm saying? Spin those yarns Phil and rake it that big money!

  • @ДушаМитровић
    @ДушаМитровић 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loving this video

  • @courtneyhenderson405
    @courtneyhenderson405 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can't find the tests on his site.

  • @madamecurious
    @madamecurious ปีที่แล้ว

    4:45 characteristics that predict divorce

  • @madamecurious
    @madamecurious ปีที่แล้ว

    45:06 infatuation phase (honeymoon phase) can’t last forever - and that’s a good thing.

  • @madamecurious
    @madamecurious ปีที่แล้ว

    40:46 expectations - infatuation - an average marriage

  • @djthoen3777
    @djthoen3777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This has to be a hack!

  • @melissataliani925
    @melissataliani925 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @jessmason2112
    @jessmason2112 ปีที่แล้ว

    ✌️