Grooming a Difficult Senior Dog in Record Time

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  • @hrmnzdmatryoshka
    @hrmnzdmatryoshka 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1967

    What a tough case. You noticed his untouchable health issues and still helped him out immensely, which speaks to your skill compassion and professionalism

    • @mygirldarby
      @mygirldarby 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

      Infected ears and rotten teeth aren't untouchable health issues. The dog should be taken to the vet for basic treatment.

    • @lindak3030
      @lindak3030 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

      @@mygirldarby Right! Tooth pain is terrible. Why worry about killig the dog with a dental if keeping it alive is torture? The dog needs a dental and to have it's ears treated. Those ears are awful. There's no way that's recent. It's neglect. The more I hear the madder I get. "The previous groomer couldn't clean his ears"? Well that was the time to go to the vet, not wait for months for another groom and then try to get another groomer to do it!

    • @lulumoon6942
      @lulumoon6942 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So true! 👍

    • @ghggp1
      @ghggp1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree 100%

    • @kittysassafras
      @kittysassafras 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

      @@mygirldarby I think they meant untouchable by a groomer. They absolutely are issues for a vet to take care of.

  • @horsewhisperer20394
    @horsewhisperer20394 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +458

    Vet here - one of the top causes of dogs life being shortened is due to bad teeth. Yes, TEETH 🦷. Like humans, some dogs are born with great teeth and never have an issue their entire life, others have bad teeth. Brushing your dogs teeth daily can PREVENT this, or even twice weekly with dog toothpaste and a dog toothbrush. In this circumstance, this dogs oral health is worthwhile being addressed as we can use a light anaesthetic that doesn’t put them fully under, but they feel no pain. If this dog does not have his teeth done, his prognosis is not good. I would seek a second and third opinion to have this dogs teeth cleaned and likely extracted as the teeth infections may be impacting his jaw bone.
    So, clean your dogs teeth with dog toothpaste at home twice weekly to prevent tooth decay.
    Schedule your dog to have teeth cleaned every 2 years by a reputable vet.
    Vanessa has done a brilliant job here, well done for making this senior dog more comfortable to the extent you could. Amazing work.

    • @sarahlynne3486
      @sarahlynne3486 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Your 100% correct! Which you know you are lol just wanted to agree!

    • @TammyFriend7250
      @TammyFriend7250 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Your right about some dogs being born with good teeth. My last 2 dogs were Yorkies, renowned for having bad teeth. Lucy; my first Yorkie had one tooth removed her entire life. Monty; my second Yorkie had had all his teeth removed by the time he was 13 years. Both were rescues, Both I had got as 5 year olds. Both hated toothbrushes.
      None of my previous bigger dogs lost all their teeth. I had 3 dogs that loved raw carrots. I gave them 1 carrot a day. Kept their teeth lovely.

    • @antiscia
      @antiscia หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As a former owner of 2 IGs and foster home for breed rescue, I definitely relate to the statement that some dogs have great teeth, and some have very, very bad dental genes. My male IG never ever had to have a tooth pulled, but my female was toothless by the time she was 12 (even with daily brushings). Every one of the IGs I fostered? Teeth had to be pulled before they could pass the health requirements for adoption. While breed can and often does play a factor in dental health, as dogs with longer muzzles tend to have poorer dental genes, it's also case-by-case, but I do think my male IG was a rarity.

    • @celestia8165
      @celestia8165 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What clean their teeth in their toothpaste? I have a kitten and I looked at the ingredients and I don’t understand what cleans them. Is it just the scrubbing of the toothbrush or do we need the toothpaste?

    • @antiscia
      @antiscia หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@celestia8165 It's an enzymatic toothpaste, so not like what we have for people. Doggos can swallow it without issue. You just need to make sure to coat their teeth with the paste and their licking action does most of the work.

  • @karenbrauneis4290
    @karenbrauneis4290 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Having had a number of animals who have had to have their teeth removed for health reasons, or who actually came to me as seniors with no teeth, I have some good news for all of you who are hesitant about this procedure. I want to assure you that not only can this help your pet live a safer and healthier life, their gums become harder and they are still able to eat normally (yes, even hard food). While this may take a little time for healing, they will surprise you. So take heart.

    • @pokegal-ew8dh
      @pokegal-ew8dh หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true. And age is not a disease, with the proper pre-anesthetic checks and monitoring during the procedure, they tend to do just fine under anesthesia. "Too old to be put under" isn't an excuse if the benefit outweighs the risk.

    • @nathanglasser6845
      @nathanglasser6845 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My mom adopted a senior teacup chihuahua who had bad teeth. Was 11 at the time of adoption, and is now 12. She's doing just fine without teeth.

  • @LilBlueOnk
    @LilBlueOnk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Not only are his teeth bad, but I can tell by looking at the stains on his fur that he's licking those spots a lot. But we don't know if those areas hurt, or are just spots he obsesses over when he's bored or stressed. Thank you for taking the time to help him (even though I'm sure it was horribly stressful for you and him both!), and educate people who have something like this going on at home.

  • @susanshattuck4911
    @susanshattuck4911 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1378

    I agree 110% about a dogs oral health. I’m a pet sitter and I see/smell so many older dogs with just horrid dental health. They can barely eat and it just smells like decay. Also, senior dogs do get dementia and are very insecure when they lose their sight and hearing. It’s so hard to watch. You did the best thing for this dog. Good job Vanessa.

    • @ItzzRicki
      @ItzzRicki 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      It all comes down to how well you treat your own animals. I guess this owner didn’t care until the last minute

    • @aesaphyr
      @aesaphyr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

      ​@@ItzzRicki ... The dementia and age-related loss of vision is hardly down to "how you treat your own animals". This dog is very old. The teeth may well have only started rotting AFTER the dog became unsafe for sedation, making it impossible to get them pulled. And the owner might have thought the dog losing his hearing (and getting agitated about his face/ears being touched) is down to age as well rather than ear infections.
      I know many pet owners who will honestly just keep a dog this old fed and watered and leave them to stay in a corner until they eventually pass. (My uncle is doing that with his old arthritic dog.) This owner is trying to get her dog groomed - she clearly cares about him. Hopefully he'll be able to take medicine for his ears and can feel more comfortable.

    • @eva-w
      @eva-w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      That is surprising to me that people who can afford an actual pet sitter will not take their dogs to have their teeth taken care of. Or are you not necessarily talking about your own clients, but dogs you meet when you're out on walks and stuff?

    • @ItzzRicki
      @ItzzRicki 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@aesaphyr surely if you can see that your dog is losing the will to live and catching all these problems, you’d tackle them as soon as it starts, and by looking at his ears its like the dog has been neglected from health care for a long time let alone it’s other problems

    • @aesaphyr
      @aesaphyr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      @@ItzzRicki This dog isn't losing the will to live though, he's just in pain, confused and agitated. He has been old a long time. So it may well have been a very long time that the owner has thought "it's his age" about his ears. And same goes for the teeth being unsafe to pull out - it may have been a long time since he first became unsafe for sedation and having an anaesthetic. I'm not here telling you he's been pampered. But rather that his poor condition is a mixture of age (nothing the owner can fix) and possibly the owner not realising there are treatable problems and it's not all just age.

  • @susanpallister8037
    @susanpallister8037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1480

    When my Mother passed away, her 16 year old Bichon came to live with me. I had Dobermans and I had to adapt my my house for this old, blind, deaf lady. She resisted grooming like this old gentleman so I shaved her short all over and cleaned up her face and got her a wooly jacket that she wore non-stop (with changes to a different coat as weekly or as necessary) . I made a safe space for her and walked her on a harness every day. She loved her walks, was happy in her space and continued to hate her monthly grooms. She lived another 2 years and eventually died of a series of mini-strokes. But I am so glad I did that for her.

    • @CatarinaCastroBR
      @CatarinaCastroBR 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      You are a wonderful human being for doing this 💜

    • @electricskeleton1937
      @electricskeleton1937 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      You got her to adulthood and I’m sure she loved you for it. Sending much love

    • @Tokyo_Rose.
      @Tokyo_Rose. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Thank you so much for doing that for the little dog ❤

    • @rogue7723
      @rogue7723 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      I’m very sorry your mother passed away, but I bet that she would be or is very proud and grateful that her fur baby was kept in the family and given a loving and stable home in her twilight years. Did she get along well with your other dogs?

    • @geralyn-mm
      @geralyn-mm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      A gift to your mother in spirit as well as the pup in your life. Thank you.

  • @suepall5425
    @suepall5425 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I could see how upset this made you and this is surely a sign of someone who cares for these pups. Thank you for grooming this little guy. You did the best you could under terrible circumstances. I would have had to go home and have a good cry after this groom.

  • @IslandKate
    @IslandKate 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    I put my best friend down too late. A well-intentioned vet suggested she could have another year so I held off. She lasted three months and it was a nightmare for her. What is best for the animal must come first.

    • @mejuliie
      @mejuliie หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so sorry you went through this. It is so difficult as we always go into it with the best intentions, and I'm certain her quality of life was your priority. Situations like this are just so heartbreaking.
      I experienced something similar with my last cat.
      While she didn't seem like she was in pain (she was on a good pain management regiment) and had deteriorated neurologically, I shouldn't have told myself I would go to see her vet, as planned, the next day, to help her pass. She just had deteriorated so quickly, and I didn't want her end to be traumatic and stressful (as she wasn't fond of vet visits and needed some feel good meds before a visit). Now I wish, I just had taken her to the emergency vet regardless to make absolutely certain she didn't experience any pain.
      Will always regret my choices that evening, and will never make the same mistake again.
      I think the best we can do is to learn from situations like these. To hopefully make us better guardians in the future.

  • @Smittenhamster
    @Smittenhamster 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +391

    If possible to forward to the owner, please consider this a small donation towards the vet bills this little boy needs. Poor baby. 😢
    If not possible, I know you'll use the money wisely for a different cause. Thank you for your ongoing compassion.

    • @danielleking262
      @danielleking262 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      You are such a kind person. 😭❤️

    • @plicketyplunk
      @plicketyplunk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      What a lovely gesture❤

    • @jenpink4298
      @jenpink4298 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    • @crazybird9745
      @crazybird9745 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @Narangarath
      @Narangarath หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I understand the impulse to help directly, but are you aware that YT takes a pretty big cut from all these? Your money might be better spent (as in, more of ot goes toward the cause) if you donate to a shelter instead. 😘

  • @Luckybetta
    @Luckybetta 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +739

    This was absolutely heart breaking to watch! 💔😭. Deaf, blind, HORRIBLE ear infections and a mouth of rotten teeth! His parents need to get him to a vet ASAP and make some decisions about his care. At the VERY least, something to treat that abhorrent ear infection. 😢. Thank you for doing your very best to help him Vanessa! He was so stressed out that it was dangerous with his age and condition. 😢

    • @moniekfalck7089
      @moniekfalck7089 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      🙏🏽

    • @dolorescatalano1150
      @dolorescatalano1150 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      My thoughts EXACTLY!!!!!! It was so pitiful to see. But watching how well Vanessa handled everything put my mind at ease.

    • @sinsintome
      @sinsintome 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

      YES!! I understand that his teeth are probably a lost cause if he's too old to be anesthetised BUT his ear infection is GHASTLY and that is something the vet can help with immediately. It breaks my heart and it makes me mad.

    • @lynnettecook6973
      @lynnettecook6973 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      I was thinking the same thing! His people need to help him!!!!

    • @ferretyluv
      @ferretyluv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I’m sure they’re doing everything they can, if they’re taking him grooming.

  • @MR_CAMARADERIE
    @MR_CAMARADERIE 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    My heart aches for the poor dog. If a previous groomer has already advised the owner that his ears were infected then why did they immediately think to take it up with another groomer and not a vet?
    It's abundantly clear that the dog is not okay...
    Gosh, I'm trying extremely hard to be sympathetic here but the responsibility shouldn't have to be down to a dog groomer to fix these problems, that's what vets are for.
    So proud of Vanessa for keeping her shit together for this one. Such a professional 🥺❤️

  • @Frenchaboo
    @Frenchaboo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I can't imagine being blind and deaf, and the only sensation I have left is constant toothache and itchy ears and not at all being able to scratch myself or take any sort of medication by myself. I really, really hope the owner can get him help.

  • @CrystalFier
    @CrystalFier 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +735

    The owner needs to get him to a vet. Between the horrid ear infections and his teeth, he's not ok.

    • @ladyspookums
      @ladyspookums 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

      Doesn't Vanessa talk about not bashing the owner because we don't know the circumstances...

    • @onyxdragonlady9928
      @onyxdragonlady9928 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +206

      @@ladyspookums I don't really see this as a bash. We don't know why he hasn't been to a vet but it is a fact that little guy needs to go. I hope they have the money to take him

    • @TheRimute
      @TheRimute 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @@ladyspookums I asked if Vanessa could support medical help for the doggy as she helped Mayo' owner.

    • @emmso94
      @emmso94 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

      @@ladyspookumsDoesn’t matter. Not getting a dog in this condition to a vet is animal abuse. In my country this would be a criminal offense.

    • @michelemcdermott75
      @michelemcdermott75 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

      My friend had an elderly dog with a heart issue. NO vet would remove his teeth. They would not sedate him. Vanessa- you’re an angel!

  • @indyspotes3310
    @indyspotes3310 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +341

    The greatest final act of love you can show your pet is knowing when to let them go.

    • @pgnandt
      @pgnandt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      And when not to. This dog will be fine once it gets home I'm sure.

    • @onlyjesussaves840
      @onlyjesussaves840 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

      @@pgnandt DO YOU SEE THE INFECTION, LOSS OF TEETH?! HE'S IN ALOT OF PAIN FOR SURE! WAKE UP!

    • @Beth_Alice_Kaplan
      @Beth_Alice_Kaplan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😔

    • @artiefoxx4360
      @artiefoxx4360 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      @@pgnandtlet’s hope you don’t have any animals to make suffer through something like this…

    • @susannautterback6815
      @susannautterback6815 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@pgnandthe will be fine once this owner gets the medical help he needs. This just didn’t happen…it has been happening over time and this poor dog is suffering. I try not to judge but this made me cry watching his fear and pain. Vanessa did a fantastic job and hopefully ease some of his distress

  • @plantika786
    @plantika786 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    His poor ears :( Imagine how uncomfortable that infection must be...

  • @18751
    @18751 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    You did all you could for the dog. Have nothing but respect for your professionalism and empathy for 'Jack'.

  • @GamerplayerWT
    @GamerplayerWT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +479

    Being blind, deaf, and 16 years old is a tough existence for dogs as they continue to lose their faculties.

  • @16MedicRN
    @16MedicRN 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +160

    Omgosh, this broke my heart 💔 Blind and deaf is bad enough, but rotten teeth are so painful 😢 Thank you for hopefully making his life a little better 🙏

  • @alisonleigh100
    @alisonleigh100 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Thank you for saying that groomers cannot perform miracles and we are doing the best we can and doing what we can for the dog. ❤

  • @djones2857
    @djones2857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I'm in tears remembering when one of my Westies got to this point. Letting him go was excruciatingly difficult, but it was an act of love and mercy for my little old man. My heart breaks for the owner for what she has facing her. Vanessa, you have a heart of gold for taking on this case and doing such a wonderful job under such difficult circumstances.

  • @geralyn-mm
    @geralyn-mm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +414

    Dementia *is* an anxious state. Blind and deaf is also anxiety ridden. When life is miserable, the kindest is to let them go.

    • @ceedavies
      @ceedavies 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      Literally the first time on this channel that I've agreed with a comment like this. Poor dog 😞

    • @haggielady
      @haggielady 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      As much as I hate to say it, I agree.
      I've had to let go of so many animals over the years. It is heartbreaking to do so. But any animal who is in pain, can't walk, see or hear or any number of old age things, you need to think of the animals comfort and mind.
      If only we as humans could do the same.

    • @TheVoodoosPlace
      @TheVoodoosPlace 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      It not ok in my opinion to let a dog suffer that much pain! Regardless of age. When you can’t assure a quality life for your pet it’s time to say goodbye. Constantly in pain isn’t an option plus all the bacteria in the body alone from the teeth is incredibly dangerous. Poor little guy 😢 I hope they end this suffering in one way or another but fast…

    • @plicketyplunk
      @plicketyplunk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I completely agree.❤

    • @geralyn-mm
      @geralyn-mm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      @haggielady It is an amazing kindness. The anxiety of dementia exhausts the heart and nervous system. Pups don't recognize their home, and as it worsened, I could not comfort my 15-1/2 year old poodle mix soul mate. We had the most beautiful goodbye of all my cats and dogs before. It was Auggie's best time to leave his body behind. We both recognized it.

  • @saggioculo5386
    @saggioculo5386 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    I had a dog that developed dementia in her later years. After about a year, the vet said it wasn't fair to her to continue. It was sad to watch her walk in circles for hours. I did what was best for her. Doing what is best for her and what I wanted for myself was hard, but I put her down. Three years later and I still miss her dearly.

    • @aaronndaniperttu1111
      @aaronndaniperttu1111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      We're at that stage with oir old chihuahua girl. Doggy dementia sucks. She's not in pain thankfully, so we're waiting for my kiddo to come home to see her one last time. Unless something dramatic happens in the next couple of months, she'll get to see her. She's helped me raise my older girls. This decision is one of the hardest ones to make. With our old petty it was a lottle simpler to make the call...he had stomach cancer and deteriorated rapidly. With oir little Olive, she seems okay physically. Mentally, she's going downhill fast. It's so hard figuring out when the right time is 😔

    • @saggioculo5386
      @saggioculo5386 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@aaronndaniperttu1111 so sorry. I asked my vet to tell me when it was time. Somehow, I felt better that he made that decision.

    • @rodandjudibowen5665
      @rodandjudibowen5665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is truly earth-shaking for you. Trust me -- I know. Many hugs for you and your little Olive at this difficult time. 💓💓💓 @@aaronndaniperttu1111

    • @SkyeSalindar
      @SkyeSalindar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Did not know that walking in circles was a sign of dementia, I'm guessing it's the same or similar for cats. We had a cat who was around 19 and started walking in circles and seemed like she was out of it and unaware of where she was. The vet thought she might have been having mini strokes

    • @saggioculo5386
      @saggioculo5386 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @SkyeSalindar the strangest part was that she only did it at night. During the day she was pretty good. When the sun went down, she would start circling. She was blind, so how did she know it was nighttime? It was sad to see.

  • @rdelpino2490
    @rdelpino2490 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    This poor baby. I had a 17 year old rescue who got dementia. She wore a diaper and was bathed every day. She wasn't in pain which was most important. One day my girl couldn't walk at all and that was the day that I let her go. I always follow the rule that you do what is best for the animal, not for you. When they're in pain and have no quality of life, it's time to let them go. I totally understand wanting to keep them as long as possible but a blind, deaf dog with infected ears and teeth has no quality of life. I hope that the owners get him to the vet asap. And I hope they make the right decision for this poor pup. Thank you for helping him as much as you could.

    • @ninaappelt9001
      @ninaappelt9001 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's the same story with my 17 year old Rat Terrier years ago.

    • @renawallace9396
      @renawallace9396 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope so too. And I believe they will, after the dog's grooming. It will not be an insurmountable problem to care for the ears, especially, then the teeth.

    • @Bunny-zu7gn
      @Bunny-zu7gn หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup people are strange with dogs. So many put them down just for going blind or just for being unable to control their bladder but then there's people who never let go even the dog can't eat, move and has 0 qualities of life. My family's dog just got put down very recently. Around 15 years old. He developed mental issues, couldn't tell when he needed to poop or pee until it just happened, and some days his back legs didn't want work. So we adjusted our life to make his easier. Got him diapers, got something to help him walk, got medicine. He still enjoyed outside, snuggling with my mom, bossing us all around! We only put him down when the bad days outnumbered the good. I hate when people make the choice of what to do with a dog solely based on themselves and not on what the dog needs.

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My old cat got as much hospice care as was possible and one morning he cried out in pain after losing the use of his legs overnight, he got one last bunch of cuddles by the whole family and drifted into sleep in my arms with his paw on my nose at the vet's office.
      There is a special closure knowing he passed away peacefully in my arms, really helps to understand he reached the finish line of life supported by decisions that were best for him.

  • @equalityforall8418
    @equalityforall8418 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    Can we all agree that Vanessa is *the* most patient person?
    Vanessa...you are an adult. As an adult, your decisions are YOUR decisions.
    I for one know you always make the best and most thoughtful decisions.

    • @Heidi51616
      @Heidi51616 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I usually enjoy this video but when she said and get him off my table and walked any made me angry. She should have hugged him to let him know it’s over and everything is all right.

    • @equalityforall8418
      @equalityforall8418 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@Heidi51616 What makes you think she didn't?

    • @user-br3ty9rt1m
      @user-br3ty9rt1m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@Heidi51616It’s so easy for people like you to say what she “should have” done when you’re not a professional and you’re just watching behind a screen. What she NEEDED to do was get him cleaned up as quickly and safely as possible so that he can go home to where he is comfortable. She clearly did her best to do that.

    • @splendidcolors
      @splendidcolors 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@Heidi51616 A lot of dogs don't like hugs, and it would be tricky to hug him without bumping into his poor painful ears and face.

    • @QUICKBOOKS1
      @QUICKBOOKS1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Heidi51616 If the dog is already, that worked up, that possibly would have been the worst thing to do.

  • @user-qz8wo6fe3s
    @user-qz8wo6fe3s 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +461

    I have a friend who has a little dog w/dementia. Poor little thing just walks in circles, then collapses. I feel so bad for tinkerbelle

    • @bethjeans3780
      @bethjeans3780 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s heartbreaking. If she’s in the U.S. and there’s a Lap of Love vet nearby (just google Lap of Love), they don’t just euthanize; they also evaluate and make home hospice recommendations. Sometimes a professional can help someone let go.

    • @lindah3803
      @lindah3803 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Personally,once dementia sets in, it's time to let go.

    • @bethjeans3780
      @bethjeans3780 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@lindah3803 whoa, let’s go back a step and first evaluate how bad the dementia is. It’s on a long spectrum. For example, a little confusion vs. a dog walking in circles and collapsing are extremely different.

    • @lindah3803
      @lindah3803 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@bethjeans3780 Yes the example you gave is different. How do we know "how little" the confusion is. Do you know how those bouts of confusion actually affect the dog. It's hard enough on people who have the condition. They know what they're dealing with. They know why they have lapses in time and actions.
      Why put a baby through that. That baby gave you their love and trust. They trust you to NOT make them suffer unnecessarily. They trust you enough to let them go. NOT torture them for your own selfishness.

    • @bethjeans3780
      @bethjeans3780 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lindah3803 my animals let me know if they still get pleasure out of their lives when they are old or have health conditions. I know them for years and their body language, activity level, attitude, interest in food, etc. tell us. The one time I wasn’t sure I contacted Lap of Love, which has vets in different parts of the U.S. Not only do the veterinarians do euthanasia in the home in an incredibly caring way,, but they also make suggestions for home hospice and can evaluate quality of life. With reassurance that Luka absolutely still wanted to be here, plus suggestions to make him even more comfortable with simple changes in the house and slight change in meds, he was with us for quite a bit longer.
      This same vet - who had been to our home two other times over the years - was late for our appointment. And the reason was she had just come from her third visit to a family who kept scheduling euthanasia but then couldn’t let go. She knew the dog was suffering and was determined not to leave them without helping them get to the point where they could say goodbye.

  • @housewifefromhell5801
    @housewifefromhell5801 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +161

    Them ears are extremely infected,that is so painful.The owner has to get those cleaned and medicated.I feel so bad for the little guy,you can tell he's sweet when not stressed.

  • @LegallyBoopy
    @LegallyBoopy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +181

    This is why sometimes we have to learn to say goodbye to our fur babies once they start getting physically miserable.. if they don't have a good quality of life anymore, we have to give them mercy.

    • @whatevergoesforme5129
      @whatevergoesforme5129 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It depends. In our case, we don't put our dogs down until there is no longer the will to live as seen in their behavior like no longer wanting to eat and vomiting their food or no longer interested in their surroundings. But we do our best to prolong their lives and having end of life care as long as they have the will to live (like eating well) or still young for their age or if there is a chance to beat the disease (which happened to our 3 year old, now turning 6 years old, when he had lepto and liver disease). It is a difficult path that we are willing to take.
      Some owners just don't want to be bothered so they tend to justify that it was for the benefit of their pet cat or dog when the truth is it was for their own benefit.
      Case in point. We didn't want to put down our recently deceased dog but he was no longer eating for a week. His creatine and BUN were beyond readable and his temperature was below normal which meant his body was shutting down. We knew he was nearing the end of his life but we still wanted to have other options like giving painkillers or end of life care if possible since we were in denial that he was dying, but eventually chose euthanasia when the vet said it would just cause more pain for our dog.
      Right across us was a woman with a senior blind chihuahua whose appetite was still robust. She wanted to euthanize her dog a week before that day but the vet refused her because her senior dog was deemed healthy after a check up, so she came back to see if she could convince the vet to euthanize her dog that day because she said she did not want her dog to suffer due to being blind. There was no other problem except the dog being blind but I guess she was tired taking care of a blind senior dog (12 yrs old , she said....a chihuhua can live a lot longer and ours is now 14 years old).
      I didn't know if she finally had her dog put to sleep (if the vet agreed) despite having a healthy appetite and will to live (based on how I saw her dog behave) because the vet saw our dog first and then euthanized him.
      The irony was we didn't want to have our 5-yr-old dog euthanized and were willing to take care of him longer despite the reality he was already dying of kidney failure and severe anemia despite medicating him for a year (since we were in denial) and yet that woman preferred to euthanize hers despite the reality that her dog had a few more years to live. But of course, she said her dog was in "pain" so her dog had to go.

    • @recycledMilk
      @recycledMilk หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      10000% agree... like at what point do we allow out pets to just waste away in terrible conditions, when they are in pain but also they cant be treated because putting them under anesthesia is also high risk. i genuinely dont want to talk about the dog in the video. its not my dog, not my choice, not my place to talk on, i dont know what the dog is like at home.
      but ive seen my fair share of senior dogs were keeping them alive is far more cruel than just letting them go.
      the complicated topic of "quality of life" is really important nowdays.. when with modern medicine we can keep stretching out our companions lifespans, but the quality cant get raised in the same way. my dog is only 2 years old and i hope to give him a long, happy and healthy life. but i cant help but think of the time when he is a senior.

    • @SimplySatisfiedSarah
      @SimplySatisfiedSarah หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Or you could just take them to a vet and make sure they’re not in pain. There are other medication‘s. They could take for anxiety if they happen to be anxious all the time at home also. Just because they get old, have pain, or have dementia, does not mean they need to be euthanized.

    • @whatevergoesforme5129
      @whatevergoesforme5129 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@SimplySatisfiedSarah I agree. Sometimes people are the ones who are bothered even though their pets still have the will to live based on their behavior. And many can't take the hassle of taking care of a senior dog with health issues despite the dog still having the will to live.
      That is why with our pets, as much as possible, euthanasia is the last resort when it is clear to us that they are in pain, will just get worse and already dying, and medication won't help them anymore.

    • @mariaj.machado6055
      @mariaj.machado6055 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The first time I didn't enjoy the video.I was as stressed as that poor angel😢Take him to check his teeth.I have a 17 years old cat with no teeth and he has been perfectly happy por seven years.He could not eat with the pain before.Rotten teeth and infected ears ....THAT IS ANIMAL CRUELTY!!!!!!!

  • @kentr2424
    @kentr2424 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is probably the toughest groom I've ever seen Vanessa do.

    • @20sam11
      @20sam11 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      A close second for me. The worst was an old pug who could barely breathe and seemed like it was practically dying on her grooming table. I couldn’t even finish the video. It was just too heartbreaking. 😞

  • @highdesertsun3154
    @highdesertsun3154 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    That was harsh to watch, I can see it was hard on you too. Poor old guy.

    • @melissadropdead4619
      @melissadropdead4619 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I could see how she acted and talked she was upset. People who have watched her long enough know how much she loves animals. This was tough to watch. The poor dog in pain, and Vanessa being heartbroken!

  • @amandareynolds8930
    @amandareynolds8930 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    It’s not often we hear you get mad, Vanessa, but I heard it today. I don’t blame you at all. The dog’s dental health was neglected to the point where it’s causing infection in other parts of his body and that’s just cruel. I’m not going to be kind about the owner because I’m pretty sure they’re an adult who knows better. Now their dog is suffering. I’m so sorry this happened to you and to the doggo. He definitely deserves so much better.

  • @user-nx1qr7hg3q
    @user-nx1qr7hg3q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    You did so well by him, Vanessa. There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ELSE that you could have done for him. I'm a groomer, too. I see you and your work. Kudos and love from PA.

  • @zuzuspetals9281
    @zuzuspetals9281 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Our Golden’s long time groomer was so kind and gave an end of life groom to Miss B 5 days before she died about two years ago. She had untreatable disease that we’d been dealing with for over a year and was at a point where she couldn’t eat often or stand much at all. Although we didn’t know how much longer Miss B had it was so nice that she was clean and comfortable on her last day, made possible by Sam. We’re so grateful for caring groomers.

  • @franciscook5819
    @franciscook5819 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    Not a groomer but as far as I can see you did a brilliant job on an aging, poorly dog. And, as always, you showed real concern and care for the dog's welfare. You are a star.

  • @conniegage2141
    @conniegage2141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +221

    When they get that bad it's time to let them go. So sad.

    • @324cmac
      @324cmac 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Maybe before they get this bad.

    • @LuminLeveret
      @LuminLeveret 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      I know we're not supposed to judge the owners and also letting go is such an incredibly difficult decision because often times you don't see how bad it is when it's a gradual change - but I really don't understand how you can let ear infections get that bad :( The teeth you cant remove without sedation, but the ears don't need anything that severe... just makes me thin the dog was never taken regularly to a vet. Poor thing

    • @charlalowery7458
      @charlalowery7458 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      That was my EXACT thought. It's time for the owner to let him go. He's suffering.

    • @kimlooff2401
      @kimlooff2401 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😭😭😭😭😭💯💯💯💯💯

  • @bluevol1976
    @bluevol1976 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    One very good reason to film and document these difficult grooms is to show owners how difficult their puppers can be and, sometimes, they just can’t help it. Bless his heart. Those ears need to be tended to by a vet. That’s beyond your pay grade and responsibility.

  • @Niftynorm1
    @Niftynorm1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I worked for a couple of vets many years ago and bad teeth in older pets was a big concern and can have a major impact on overall health of pets and people. You did the best job possible with this old guy and I hope his owner takes him to see a vet.

  • @lindabilodeau375
    @lindabilodeau375 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +393

    He must be so miserable with bad teeth and infected ears. 😢 preventive care would have helped him😢

    • @waninigichuki1732
      @waninigichuki1732 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

      Absolutely. The infections and dental decay have happened over time. Poor doggie. This was hard to watch and Vanessa really did her best.

    • @DwarfInBlues
      @DwarfInBlues 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Teeth might have had something to be done preventively, but ear infections are nearly impossible to prevent... Obviously needed immediate treatment, but they don't stay "healthy" for long :(

    • @StoutShako
      @StoutShako 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      The owners read the comments sometimes... Please be nice!

    • @shirleyozsoy5514
      @shirleyozsoy5514 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Owners could trim the feet and face at home and visit the vet for teeth cleaning and ears. They could also Dremel or cut his nails. Poor dog

    • @mary-ruthflores4107
      @mary-ruthflores4107 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      If you haven’t had a very old pet there are many reasons that dental health and ears are not attended. I had a 17 yr old cat with horrible teeth but he also,had a heart mummer and could not be sedated. Not even a light sedation. It made it very difficult, and the dental problems came up,very quickly. He had yearly dental visits and teeth cleaning treats. I could not brush his teeth, it freaked him out

  • @notyouregirl
    @notyouregirl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    This was hard to watch. I'm usually one to give benefit if doubt, but this poor guy has no quality of life. The teeth and ears are horrific.
    Thank you for doing what you could to make him comfortable.

    • @Mogerbelles
      @Mogerbelles หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Not meaning to be offensive here but you can't judge by watching one short video if this old boy has quality of life. Even with his bad teeth and ears ( which can and should be fixed by a vet ), I bet he's a totally different doggie at home in his safe place. Don't forget he's totally stressed out by being outside his comfort zone, which is even harder for a dog with limited sight and hearing.

    • @StarkeyatRingo
      @StarkeyatRingo หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Mogerbelles that is still no excuse for not getting those ears looked at! teeth are sort of understandable for it it ridiculously expensive when most people are all feeling not having enough anymore.

    • @mejuliie
      @mejuliie หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@StarkeyatRingo If the dog's teeth are this bad, many vets will offer discounts or agree to installment payment. Most of the time it'll be privately-owned vets that will offer this. Corporate vet clinics are another story.
      Also, sometimes shelters will have programs to help. Or rescue led vet clinics will offer special discounts. Another tip is to check with vet school teaching hospitals.
      It will just be more work because the owners will need to ask around a lot, and might find that they have to drive to a vet that isn't super close to home.
      Obviously it's always best to get good pet insurance, but it's much more difficult when adopting a senior dog.
      But no one should feel like they have no option when faced with the costs of dentals. There are still many veterinarians that care a lot, and try to do their best.

    • @StarkeyatRingo
      @StarkeyatRingo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mejuliie My senior rescue who took over my life, whom I loved just as much as life, past in my arms on Thurs. I can't imagine the agony of time with ears that look like that. I think the whole SYSTEM stinks. We're treated like EMBICILES - LIKE WE CAN'T TREAT our own dogs only the PRIEST WITH THE DEGREE CAN DO THAT. - why is it MEDICINE AND THE VET - IS TOO MUCH- and it's BS. We have no options where I am - there are no vets - well about $600 dollar trip away. I prayed and Christ delivered. there is NO REASON why PET MEDS NEED A PERSCRIPTION - IT'S BS. everything is anymore - and we need you and all people to pull their heads out of the broken failing not good systems of the past and LOOK INTO THE FUTURE ready to embrace something new - for when I turn around and look at the past 150 yrs - A FEW HEADS SHOULD ROLL - but no one does this - it's just life. Sorry. thank you for you comment - I feel you are a city person with city thoughts and I am sure it works this way for the few WHO WISH TO BEG. Again WHY IS IT SO MUCH?? - everything is out of control and we're all in for a BIG MELTDOWN.

  • @hailtothefire_
    @hailtothefire_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Poor sweet baby. It must be so terrifying to be in a dark, silent world and have a stranger try to groom you. I feel so bad for the little guy. I'm glad there are lovely people like you that take the time to do as much as you can to help dogs like him.❤

  • @karenbrauneis4290
    @karenbrauneis4290 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Vanessa, thank you so much for grooming this very senior dog. Having owned a very senior dog (from 15 to 22), I know how difficult it can be. Thank goodness you were there to step in and help him. He could not have been in better hands. As you said, it is something than had to be done. I hope that all those watching this video, as well as this dog’s family, understands this.

  • @francinemilette8535
    @francinemilette8535 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +400

    Poor baby, the owner should bring him to a vet, you did what you could.

    • @jerryjohnson736
      @jerryjohnson736 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      It's not impossible that they do take him to the vet and they cannot work on him because of his anxiety and health. Sometimes vets need to sedate dogs to be treated but cannot do so because of significant health complications, usually relating to the heart. It's a catch 22 where the dog needs treatment but cannot be treated because treatment would likely kill the dog.

    • @j.k.567
      @j.k.567 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      But you dont have to sedate a dog because of the ear infection.

    • @user-vl8qw8hp1g
      @user-vl8qw8hp1g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      ​@j.k.567 Not typically, but if the dog is highly resistant to allowing the vet to examine the ears, sedation could be necessary. In this case, the dog's other health issues prevent sedation as an option. It's a no-win situation for the vet and the dog. 😢

    • @AugustMeteors
      @AugustMeteors 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And having the bad teeth pulled would probably decrease the dog's pain a lot, but to do that they have to put the dog under, and at 16 his liver probably can't handle that either. Getting old is a catastrophe whether you're a dog or a human, I think.@@user-vl8qw8hp1g

    • @Avatinfernus
      @Avatinfernus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jerryjohnson736 It's still the right thing to do. It doesn't deserve to live this way. In pain, deaf and blind. It can't possibly have any quality of life.

  • @Moona1966
    @Moona1966 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Poor, sweet old man. Can't see, can't hear, ears and mouth hurting. Makes me wonder if it's really worth keeping him alive. He's clearly suffering. Vanessa, you did a magnificent job on him. *sighs*

    • @ElGibby
      @ElGibby 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah, I couldn’t help thinking the same if I’m brutally honest. I have to question what real quality of life this wee old man has. However, I’ve had a 17yr old lurched/terrier cross and it’s so horribly hard to make the decision to send them to rainbow bridge when you’ve had them for so long. My heart goes out to both dog and owner here. And a Vanessa too, this was a stressful groom for her as well.

    • @Moona1966
      @Moona1966 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ElGibbyYes, having to put down my beloved chihuahua mix at 16 destroyed me. Too many to count, really, but Georgie boy was our last dog. I just can't do it anymore, ya know?

    • @ElGibby
      @ElGibby หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Moona1966 yup, I know exactly what you man. I got a cat after the dog, elderly NMC whose family just left him when they moved. Must have been about 20 years old, no exaggeration, and he was a badass cat. I thought losing him maybe wouldn’t hurt as much as the dog. Wrong. I was every bit as heartbroken. So now I’m staying pet free too, for a while anyway. It really is a type of pain like no other. Sending you hugs, if wanted.

  • @patriciadoring
    @patriciadoring 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hugs to you, Vanessa. Your stress levels were also pretty high by the end of this groom.

  • @BriaBri
    @BriaBri 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Oh this one hit me in the feels. Before I had to put my 13yr old dog to sleep a couple of months ago, he had a slew of health problems. He had went completely deaf, he had cataracts in one eye and was going blind in the other, he had lyme’s disease, he had dental and stomach issues so he wouldn’t really eat, and that lead to him losing so much weight that he couldn’t hold himself up anymore. The medicine for his lyme’s disease probably would’ve worked if he could actually eat and digest food. Dental health is so very important for animals and I hope this little guy gets the help he needs ❤️

  • @Mimi-cq4bg
    @Mimi-cq4bg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +230

    This poor lil guy has lived a full life. His ears are bad, his teeth are bad, his heart is weak. Hes in pain.
    It would be an act of mercy to let him rest.

    • @jeandixon586
      @jeandixon586 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I couldn't agree more.

    • @nixe4912
      @nixe4912 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      So much pain...eveyone knows how one bad tooth feels and he has a mouth full of bad teeth. And a massive ear infection.

    • @SakuraAsranArt
      @SakuraAsranArt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Agreed. That would be the best option IMHO

    • @Join.The.Partee
      @Join.The.Partee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree.

    • @marietighe6328
      @marietighe6328 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      I don't know how this dog acts at home but I tend to agree. My last little girl (a collie mix,)could barely walk, ,such bad arthritis) peeing her bed. I could see the dull glaze in her eyes. Knew she was suffering, we walked together everywhere. I eventually decided to have her put to sleep at home. Some peoples criticism were OH HER TAIL WAS STILL WAGGING or I'D NEVER GIVE UP ON MY DOG lord i had spent so much time money and effort. . Also I've seen people with animals with so many problems thst their life even looks miserable and owners out of some misguided I'M GONNA SAVE this animal. Sometimes you need to let an animal go 😢❤

  • @tkno8984
    @tkno8984 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Considering everything this poor dog is going through, you have done a wonderful job. Thank you so much for helping him.

  • @marthakrause8441
    @marthakrause8441 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you so much for taking on this fellow. He desperately needed your help. I know he will feel more comfortable after he has time to relax. He is past due for a visit to the vet, and I hope the owner will follow through. Not a pleasant groom for you or me, but a truly compassionate one.

  • @Mayberry206
    @Mayberry206 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This might be the first video on your channels that I could barely watch. This was heartbreaking! Thank you for working gently, quickly, and efficiently on this poor old man. I really hope the owner will get him oral and ear help….if not, this poor man might no longer have a quality of life. 😢

  • @rosiekitten3828
    @rosiekitten3828 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +208

    I know how hard it is to let a baby go. I had a 17 year old that I let go only once he stopped eating. But I could bathe him at home, manage his nails, and manage his teeth. His dementia was calm as long as he was home. His pain was controlled with medication. The level of infection, the level of his mouth problems... I understand. I do. But I hope that they consider his comfort in the coming year to either get him more care for some of these health problems. I am wishing them well, and their furbaby well.

  • @JustMe-ks8qc
    @JustMe-ks8qc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Wow- it feels like that groom was in real time. I hope he feels better for it, and I hope he sees a vet soon.
    I adopted a 16 year old Springer who had come from a terrible home. He was never walked, never groomed and barely fed, but he was such a sweetheart. He came to me with nasty ear infections, and even though I was treating them, the infection was so deep it reached his brain, causing a stroke. I couldn't get him to take his meds as he stopped eating and drinking. He went over the bridge the next day. We only had him a month, but it was the best month of his whole life. Don't ignore an ear infection. Miss you, Jakey Jake. You were such a good boy.

    • @JBOD
      @JBOD 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I don't understand why people have animals like your dog's previous owner, to just blantently neglect them. Never walked or fed? So sad. Makes me so angry. Thank you for rescuing him. ❤

    • @rodandjudibowen5665
      @rodandjudibowen5665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Your tale of Jakey-Jake broke my heart. Thank Goodness you were able to give him Real Love and Respect for a Month of Happiness! Hugs from Another Dog Lover. 🐶❤‍🔥

    • @_wesleyhome_
      @_wesleyhome_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      This is exactly what I was thinking, all that inflection from both ears and teeth, so close to that little brain.

  • @meggold3422
    @meggold3422 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Heartbreaking. Thank you for doing what you could. A vet wanted me to put my kitty down in the office, but I opted to take her home instead. She had a good month or longer. She ended up passing in familiar surroundings, with me at her side. She was fourteen. All of my elderly cats were given hospice care by me. I owed them that. Now, I'm taking care of my mom full time. She got a lot better since my arrival. We shouldn't turn our backs on Loved ones just because things can get really hard. We Love them.

  • @richardsinnott3454
    @richardsinnott3454 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    You did a grand job. Be proud of yourself

  • @karenwhite5484
    @karenwhite5484 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    Poor baby 💔.
    Vanessa, we know you will give this senior sweet baby his/her best groom possible.
    ❤❤❤🐕🐕🐕

  • @gretchenmiller3639
    @gretchenmiller3639 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are so kind and gentle with him! Don't understand why they haven't taken that poor dog to the vet to have his teeth and ears treated...

  • @xxzcfdxc
    @xxzcfdxc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    This dog is in so much pain. I know people might not agree but I think the owners should let him go.

  • @evettehodgkinson6580
    @evettehodgkinson6580 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    The poor wee thing. We had a Yorkie that needed all of her teeth removed at age 10! She lived another 8 years and ate everything in sight! I feel terrible when I see animals like this who could be helped with a trip to the vet. Vanessa, you are a very compassionate person and do a great job! I love your videos. 😢❤

  • @TeenDream888
    @TeenDream888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +179

    we had a Larry dog that got like this and we put him down at age 13. it sucks when dogs get to a point where you can't do anything but ease their discomfort. I have a chi mix now and keep telling her she has to live a long and healthy life for me. thank you for helping these older dogs and their owners.

    • @MsTimelady71
      @MsTimelady71 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      Yes. My friend had a deaf/blind dog that was old and kept running into walls and couldn't smell food. It was honestly sad to see and to me seemed cruel to keep him alive simply because she didn't want to let him go. Sometimes a decision must be made about the dogs comfort and pain.

    • @KapitiNewZealand
      @KapitiNewZealand 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Sometimes it’s the nicest thing we can do for our fur babies, is to help them over the rainbow bridge

    • @MessagesFromAurora
      @MessagesFromAurora 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      little dogs tend to get more teeth issues. I got my chi's teeth cleaned like 5 times after henwas middle age and they still had to take a few out during the cleanings

    • @TeenDream888
      @TeenDream888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@MessagesFromAurora my girl now has half her teeth. I call her my little gummy bear. little dogs definitely have worse teeth.

    • @20thcenturyrelic
      @20thcenturyrelic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MessagesFromAuroraMy Chi is 7 and has only lost 1 tooth. I got him when he was 4, and he was a stray, and the tooth was pulled before I got him. At his last annual tooth cleaning, the vet said his teeth looked good, so I'm hoping that will continue. He eats dry kibble; Idk if that makes a difference.

  • @gloriastroedecke2717
    @gloriastroedecke2717 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You were so kind to do this. I think this was your most difficult groom ever. I respect and appreciate all you have done for this dog. Thank you.

  • @lauriedrake
    @lauriedrake 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for working with this old man. I have a 16+ yr old lab mix who is deaf and functionally blind, very weak in the back end. She gets a bath/groom every 6 weeks, she loves her groomer who lets her sit and lay down as she wants. She genetically has poor dental health but cannot have her teeth cleaned. She gets her teeth brushed every couple of days and has a dental solution in her water, just so she can eat softened food. Our vet is amazed at how well she is doing medically, and that she is calm and secure with everyone who works with her. I cannot imagine have to work with a dog that gets this stressed! Again, thank you for caring and being willing to even try.

  • @S-T-E-V-E
    @S-T-E-V-E 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Man that was hard to watch, it must have been worse for you! ❤

  • @kelbh
    @kelbh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    Aw he's darling. I hope he's more comfortable now.

  • @nrgltwrkr2225
    @nrgltwrkr2225 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just as with elderly people with anxiety, possibly lack of vision, hearing and maybe dementia, you just do what you can do and do the best you can. Each day is different. And you did a wonderful job "speed-grooming"!

  • @lori5032
    @lori5032 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is hard to watch, poor doggy! Vanessa your patience and professionalism is outstanding! Your speed shaving was so funny. I am not a dog owner because I am unable to afford proper care for an animal. I can't imagine not being able to take my pet to the vet, dentist, or groomer due to not having enough funds. It's hard enough taking care of myself. Sending Love from Florida! ❣

  • @lia-liz2012
    @lia-liz2012 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    My sister's dog got this way too. He didn't have the ear infection and she took him regularly for grooming but he just laid lifeless in his open door crate and was incontinent.
    It was a sad day taking him to be put down. He was blind and ruined her hardwood floors but that was easy to restore. He had lived a happy life with her 2 children who were grown and gone. We asked them if they wanted to visit one last time but they couldn't. We donated all of his items to the vet/shelter where he was put to sleep. She and I cried until the vet said something that made us laugh and we called it laughter through tears 😢

  • @CelestialPulseX
    @CelestialPulseX 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Surely there is a low-cost clinic in their area. They could buy an OTC anti-fungal/ bacterial ear-cleaning solution in the meantime.

    • @thenovicenovelist
      @thenovicenovelist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Depending on where they live not necessarily. I live in a rural area in the US and there are no low-cost vet clinics anywhere near where I live. The are regular veterinary clinics, but they are very booked up so you have to make an appointment at least a month in advance in many cases. If it's an emergency they might squeeze you in if you're lucky. If it's a severe emergency that requires a veterinary hospital, it could be a 2 hour drive.

  • @jamcgowan1095
    @jamcgowan1095 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He was really well behaved for someone in so much pain. I’m disabled and the absolute hardest and most painful thing is to stand up and stand still.

  • @stardoll1995
    @stardoll1995 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My dog went through general anaesthesia at 15 years old cause he had cataracts and accidentally swallowed a nail he found on the floor, he survived and lived 2 more years until he began having seizures one night and had to be put down. You're right on how these sort of big medical interventions are very hard on senior dogs.

  • @dellal5930
    @dellal5930 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    You can never please everyone. Sometimes you are dammed if you do or don't. You did your best for this senior pooch. BLESS YOU!

  • @margaretjamieson3604
    @margaretjamieson3604 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Well done. Feel so sorry to see this animal at this stage of his life and seemingly in pain. 😔

  • @kaceyreed1284
    @kaceyreed1284 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    They need to deal with his health problems or say good-bye. It's selfish to let an animal suffer with such anxiety, stress, confusion, and pain.

    • @elaineculbert8594
      @elaineculbert8594 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @kaceyreed: Fully agree; quality of life is top priority! 🇨🇦

  • @helenburke9507
    @helenburke9507 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Tell me again why a trip to the vet that he knows wouldn’t help him. I had 2 dogs brothers they were 16 and 15 when they passed and held all the time. Blind and deaf but nothing like this. I love him. You have done such a kind thing and gentle handling.I also know this you affected you as well. ThankYou for your kind heart.

  • @stephanibrown5389
    @stephanibrown5389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This groom was difficult for you. How are you doing? You did a great job.

  • @bumblegoat
    @bumblegoat 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    That poor dog. The dog need proper vet care or to be put down. 😢 This is pure neglect.

  • @BlessedBeTheFroot
    @BlessedBeTheFroot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don’t normally comment but this old guy really touched me. Thankyou for your compassion and skill.

  • @kalinka5333
    @kalinka5333 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Poor thing. I hope he gets help from a vet. ❤🤞
    I'm sorry that other owner was so mean about you not being able to complete their dog's groom back then. You would think if someone went to a professional for years and one day they couldn't do the job as usual that people would respect what the professional says instead of getting angry.

  • @feliciafisher3748
    @feliciafisher3748 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thank you for caring about the dog more than the video.

  • @whatevergoesforme5129
    @whatevergoesforme5129 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I feel so stressed out myself just watching this senior dog fidget.

  • @dolorescatalano1150
    @dolorescatalano1150 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was so heartbreaking to watch but I felt so much better knowing it was you Vanessa grooming this poor dog. I know I shouldn't be one to judge but sometimes when I see the condition some of the dogs you groom are in I can't help but question how well are they being taken care of by their owners!! Not only did this dog have severe dental issues but even his ears were severely infected. How can an owner let their senior dog get this far gone with their health? God only knows how uncomfortable this poor baby is!!! I know there are personal circumstances and plausible reasons for some situations, but this one just totally broke my heart. So glad you were able to complete the groom to the best of your ability with tenderness and loving care.

  • @cathycelli8855
    @cathycelli8855 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    This poor sweet fellow… you did your best for him with care and compassion.

    • @TammyFriend7250
      @TammyFriend7250 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She has done more for him than the owner.

  • @TheRealWaYyy
    @TheRealWaYyy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    My anxiety was so high while watching this groom you did a fabulous job per usual I pray for this dog just breaks my heart

  • @debbywilkins2239
    @debbywilkins2239 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is tough to watch. Poor guy is so sick & stressed. In need of vet care. Thank you Vanessa for helping this dog ❤

  • @reneetackett4883
    @reneetackett4883 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This poor baby. Thank you for doing what you can to help him. Getting old just sucks.

  • @TheQuickSilver101
    @TheQuickSilver101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Seeing an old dog in such a poor state makes me sad. I hope the owner is able to get him to a vet

  • @user-vl8qw8hp1g
    @user-vl8qw8hp1g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Poor little guy. He has so much going on with his age and health issues. I could tell by your voice that you were very concerned about giving him a good groom, as quickly and comfortably as possible. Hopefully, the owner will appreciate that.

  • @doraparker4350
    @doraparker4350 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was the saddest case I've ever watched in your channel. God Bless you for trying to help him!😢

  • @jeridileonardo529
    @jeridileonardo529 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    My dog was 16 years old when we had to put her down because of cancer. I had her groomed before that to help her stay clean as she lost some bodily functions. Thankfully the groomer knew her well as she had been going to them for the last 15 years. You are among one of the best groomers.

  • @Lorrainecats
    @Lorrainecats 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Amazing job on this poor baby ❤ He must see a vet about ear infections. You are so compassionate, Vanessa.

  • @heatherbenavides4530
    @heatherbenavides4530 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have a senior dog, turns 16 in a few days, and she has dementia. Her sundowners sets in around 7pm every day. We took her to the vet to get checked out, make sure we're not missing something that may be causing her pain, but she was cleared of any issues. So now we give her a pill to help calm her because she gets so anxious. She thankfully doesn't give me any grief about baths, but her nails are something else. I am so glad you were able to help this old pup, and hopefully the owner will get him to the vet post-haste and get him some relief from his oral and ear problems.

  • @LexYeen
    @LexYeen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Professional treatment sometimes means saying that something is decidedly outside your skillset, like those ears. You did admirably. 💙

  • @azteclady
    @azteclady 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Well, if you can't see or hear, you don't know what's happening, and that can be terrible for mental health--the stress alone!

  • @shenequaprioleau3828
    @shenequaprioleau3828 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Poor old man. This is gonna sound harsh, but if the owner can't keep up with his medical expenses at this age...it's time to let him go. there's no shame, the owner gave him a good life, it's okay.

    • @elaineculbert8594
      @elaineculbert8594 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @shenequaprioleau: I fully agree! What is best for the animal is top priority!

  • @chichitex1252
    @chichitex1252 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bless this little dog! You did such a kindness to groom him well and clean him and cut nails. I hope owner can take him for needed medical issues. ❤❤❤

  • @rikie11
    @rikie11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for being patient with him. 😢

  • @ECole-le7we
    @ECole-le7we 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Such a compassionate, experienced, and determined groomer. God bless you.

  • @ecbst6
    @ecbst6 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    It's okay to think bad thoughts sometimes, honest, it keeps you balanced 🙂
    Virtual hugs for the groomer stress!

  • @KHiggsBham
    @KHiggsBham 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Poor baby! I was stressed out just watching her! You have the patience of a saint!

  • @iceangel1701d
    @iceangel1701d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well done young lady! Seriously. I hope the owner takes him to a vet sooner rather than later.

  • @karenleepickett
    @karenleepickett 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I can understand the difficulty in getting an older pet groomed. I had two older cats - and one I did take to my vet to determine if she could tolerate being groomed before I made an appointment. The other one was merely "grumpy" which was unusual for him. Thank you for taking his overall health into account when doing his groom. I hope this little guy gets his teeth and ears looked at.

  • @cherylhopeweitz3557
    @cherylhopeweitz3557 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Poor guy, this is not quality of life .

  • @jjbreck2628
    @jjbreck2628 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This caused me so much anxiety just watching it, and can’t imagine trying to actually do it!