My own mother forced me to call her "big sister" so she could keep a man | Mtumba man's untold story
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- Imagine your own mother telling you the only way you can live in her house is by calling her "big sister" or "aunt" to prevent your stepfather from knowing you are her firstborn son.
Or having people see you in the media and think you are loaded but you know deep down you are famous and broke?
To many people he is known as Mtumba Man or you can easily relate with him using the phrase, "Ngara Mpaka waseme uko na mubaba", but what is Steve Opondo's real story?
Here is Lynn Ngugi with today's episode of Tales of Wanjiku
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What message do you have for Steve? You can reach him on 0725533666
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To share your story with me, send a well detailed brief of your story to lynnngugi4@gmail.com or lynnngugishow@gmail.com for consideration.
Thank you so much for watching, have a wonderful Monday
Big up Mayau for being true to yourself n for understanding your mom n forgiving her 💯🙏
All of us put a brave face out here but it takes God to keep our sanity. Don't give in to people pressure due to the status quo of a celebrity.
Lynn I affirm you and keep praying for you. Unknown to you, by this interview you have propelled his life to the world for bigger things. I thank this boy for his boldness and clean hearted spirit. The sky is the limit, for him and His grace is sufficient for him.
Lyn wewe.... your stories make me remember my past and I cry alot but you really inspire me ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
You really encouraged me I have gone alot but the good thing I trust God in everything as you do.God bless you.may he fulfill the desires of your heart.
Destiny ca be delayed but not denied. kudos Steve
I always say ...never mock a pain you never gone through
This words are soo heavy for me😭😭
@@millie_royalty6476 it is well... ❤️🙏
@@zainardorcas2610 🙏🙏
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who else has noticed this guy's deep voice 🤔he's is very talented
Yes, he is really talented. His voice, carisma, humor, he is handsome too. He could be working on tv or radio. Social and a nice guy with empaty and sympati for humans. I hope somebody will discover him soon.🍀☀️
He doesn't need to be employed by someone. Self employment is the best power ever for any human being. He's good self employed.
I almost gave up today then boom, I bumped to this story. Thanks Lynn and Steve for the inspiration 🙏🙏
Dear women, no one will ever replace your own blood! Your child should come first😍❤️i really like Steve's approach to life he didn't sit down and feel sorry for himself 🙏keep winning
Remarriage after death of a spouse in Africa can be very tricky for the children. That is why many women, who worry about the future of their children, never remarry after their spouses pass.
Not only women..even men
Kabisa heli niwe na lala eje na wao
Amen ❤️❤️
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Never understand stood this mitumba man story after so many interviews until lynn💁 hosted him...
Hao wengine ni jokes tu
I would like to meet this guy, he is a living testimony.
This guy has made me understand 1 crucial thing,never judge your parent sometimes they have to be absent for you to survive. Salute to women who sacrifice their happiness for their kids even if the world judge you harshly.
Very true hakuna mtu mkamilifu
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Very true,...my mom sacrifice her happiness for me and my siblings to survive and who is God? She is now enjoying the fruit of it all...God bless you bro
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His humour in the midst of the sad story and his honesty. Sande you're a star.
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As an orphan I totally relate..it's hard, sometimes you wish your parents could just wake up from that grave but wapi. Life has to move on regardless...look at this gentleman who would have thought one day he will sit with Lyn narrating his story!.May God beautify your ashes dear viewer. Thanks Lyn for hosting' Mtumba man' He's so kind!
Amen the future is so bright for us
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Behind every smile is a painful story unknown to few. He is fighter and more positive with life. He is destined for greatness. He is also funny😅😁😁😁😁😂😂😂
AMEN
Telling the mum to go to church has touched me , Blessings to this young man
Actor, comedian,singer, rapper, entrepreneur. I really hope his dreams come through.He is also very humble.
Love his personality.
💯
All in one package.
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It's the way he's narrating the story with the smile on his face for me despite the sadness on it 🙌
Sure.ni chungu but the smile makes me smile a long
u r where i am
Mama Steve ashapata daughter in law Lynn, Lynn umeambiwa utunze Steve vizuri😂😂Mitumba man is a bubbly guy despite all what he has gone through, Lynn you are doing great work I love your interviews
One thing I know is that as we grow older, we understand why our parents did what they had to for our sake. I salute you Steve for holding your mum in high esteem. May God open doors for you so that your dreams for your mum can come true.
Sio kwa ubaya but father's side is always not good ,those relatives are so inhuman sometimes n so cruel , I think most of us can relate💯
Mine is different. Father's side is so supportive
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@@jeddymoon3803 shukuru Mungu sana for that my dear 🙏
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@@Kasweetie_254 Kabisa
That's why people should think before bulling people.Because you don't know there story.Thanks Lynn for this interviews
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Totally
Absolutely correct
He's has gone through hell but still he can laugh in the middle of the interview he's a strong guy.
This show is awesome Lyn. You have given him a platform to express how he feels and expression is a step of healing. I support this show 💯
My kids come first no matter what much love ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
I love my daughters so much, kitu ya Kwanza mtu akinikatia the first thing to tell them is " am a mother, even if they don't believe me " and I've never introduced any man to my kids coz I respect them not coz I want to hide them...... I'll only introduce a man to them when I turn 35 with the right person and ready to get married again ......My children are my number one priority, they're the reason am working hard , they're the reason am living, they're my source of happiness .
you and me same watsapp club that was my 1st thing kusema i have 2 girls but finally it paid off i got the right man n we r happy keep it that way darling💪❤
@@switysalim9910 for me am scared of getting into relationship , I don't want any man to harm my daughters according to the stories I've watched about step daddies, let me I'll wait for them to grow, my first born is currently 11 by the time am 35 she'll be 19 and able to keep an eye on her siblings, I just pray for a man who is truly God fearing not a wolf in sheep's clothing.
I thought am soo late In getting married but am feeling nice when I see women saying they are 35 and still have hopes of getting married…am 32 and thought I will have been stable by 30 but it hasn’t happened..so Sasa najipatia another 2yrs.. I hope I get married by 34.. I want to have my own family inshalla
@@justiceserved2418 same age but i divorced 4yrs bac n remarried this yr hold on u will soon
He is such a nice guy....very humble, hardworking, talented and full of humour. Thanks Lynn for making us know this guy for whom he actually is.
Happy guy despite all. Bythaway he voice sounds like gurdian angel.
Lyn doing her work well kama kawa👌
The best Interviewer she flows with the audience.
You can see her clearly placing her self in the interviewees shoes,Lynn ngugi is extremely amazing.
Thank you💛
That's y I choose Lynn Ngugi channel all the time Lynn and monicah kagoni
Hata sijamaliza kuwatch and i stopped to say, i admire his fighting spirit despite of what he went through....keep going Steve 👌👌
I like this guy🤣🤣Aki kuliko nimhurumie nimecheka the entire time😌🤣Steve Your life is a joke,aki ata through shida you're still strong. Nikiwa na huyu siezi boeka🥰😩
Who else felt like crying when he was passing the message to his mum??? Humble Steve you are going far...and to Lynn👏👏👏
Such a humble handsome man. May God see him through.. He is destined for greater things...
My boys comes first in my life,,, love me for whom I I'm I can not hide them,,, parents should know the value of their kids,,,I like Steve, despite being denied the right to be a son he never gave up,, your future is bright Steve
Thanks Steve for the encouragement.
✍No giving up
✍What I have gone through shouldn't be an excuse to pity and beat myself up
✍Forgive,forgive and forgive
✍Live within your means.
That emotional message to his mom, he hold his tears 😢
Opening up is part of healing, those who have never suffered will always be ready to judge. May God bless you Lynn, and to Steve God will open doors for you.
I really understand what you mean
Well said dear
Delay is not denial… you going far Steve! 🙏🏾In God’s time, it shall be done ✅
I love the way he recognizes God in everything.....his love for his momma is on another level....Steve sky is never the limit!!!!!May our good God grant you all the desires of your heart.
Despite the challenges,he affords to put a smile on his face and to others!!Keep winning Steve A.k.a Customer
It's Lynn Ngugi playing the girlfriend part for me😂😂 and the mum being a good mother-in-law from her speech ❤️❤️❤️
Steve those marks are your testimony.our scars keep us strong.God bless you everyday
The story is emotional but I like his humor!! This guy is indeed talented. Comedian, artist, influencer & so good in business!! May God open your doors
This young man's sense of humor is what will keep him. May he never turn back..
Sure,l just like how he narrates his story with humour,may never lack
Navile my son's huwa wananibeg waniite siz or aunty nawakanya 😂😂😂😂😂 kweli vitu ni vise_veser! Wangu huona vile niwakubwa na mm nakaa mdogo eti waniite aunty ama siz, kama sio ukali wangu ningekua naitwa Hivo.
Hiyo yako ni for fun, when it forced for your mum to keep a man it's painful
Today i dont have anything to say...just following and crying seen him that strong
The words he is giving to her mum are so precious and touching... He wish the best for her mum despite!
I love where he advice mum to go to church.
This guy is going places! He has a positive attitude towards life despite everything that has happened to him! God bless you Sir🙏
Sande is Super talented and genuine.Lynn l love your style of interacting yaani uko kabisa kwa ground.You are our gem
My real inner feelings for my mum, I drive her and take her out, I hug her, kiss her forehead, hands, she's my mentor, my everything, her prayers has been keeping me from bad experiences, mums always the best
It's a sad story 😭😭😭 but i can't stop loughing 🤣🤣🤣 YOU'RE A HERO BRO
Comedy comes from a dark place, wishing this guy all the best, watching from Moscow Russia.
Martin Lawrence taught me so...deep and dark origins of comedy
Awesome, I have been waiting for this interview.may God heal those ancient woumds...childhood trauma affects people even in adulthood.Prayers and counseling help
Very true
As much as I would like to judge your Mom, that's what she thought was a better option. Did you say in the said house you ate and went to school, for once never lacked the basics???? That was a mother's sacrifice, to see you close to her and eat what she ate. That was the brighter side of the story
Yaa. I feel the same way. That was the only option she had as a mother.
Do not judge. Mimi niluwa nakunywa turungi asubuhi maji ya sukuma kama chai sasita na kula mboga jioni. Huko Kangemi hivyo ndivyo mama aliniambia. Even now living in the Slums is hard. Maisha ni ngumu.
Lyn Ngugi will always be my best
I like this guy. I like how he laughs like whatever happened/happening in his life is nothing. He's really forging ahead. He's so positive.
For a moment I almost stopped at Madhe angelimwa sana angenigusa
Haki huyu kijanaa nime mpenda BUREE vile ako funny,,,lovely smile looking very smart,,,,,, unacheka poa sana weuwe napenda vyenye una penda mum Mery Akinyi 🙏🙏 barikiwa sana kijanaa
Eti shule lovely subject eti CRE na kiswahili ☝😂😂
"When the right time comes, He who reighn in heaven will make it happen" such a motivating and life changing story of one and only mayau dream chaser. I have been touched and energized to increase my momentum in what am doing, pushing to the highest limit is the only option😢
My kid my priority.lyn your so sweet and humble person..may God bless you and your descendants in Jesus name 🙏
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One thing that amazes me with you sande is the smile and the sense of humor that you have despite the rough life you've had.
This guy is handsome, the voice yawah the simile, ther humour in him. But ameongea na Lynn he will go higher.
Dispite of what he has gone through he fight for his destiny.
Good job Lynne
Wow this guy is so talented, especially the rapping 🔥🔥🔥all the best mitumba man
Haki huyu Steve. Napenda anavoongea. I know how it feels to be poor. Anafanya nashukuru Mungu zaidi. He's a legend
Ngai, hii story inabamba sana tena inaliza machozi🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭 Steve you a such story teller wah.
Heartwarming! Lynn, this is by far the best, most lively guest you've ever hosted.
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He has such a heart of forgiveness. May his borders increase to the greatest succeses.
Lynn your reaction to his rap is priceless😂😂. Thank you for bringing these stories to educate and inspire us as to what is really happening.
Strong young man, interesting, full of life, full of humor. The sky is the limit Steve. May God bless you for your love
The best interview I have ever watched 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My ribs are breaking
Lynn two theories are applicable here. Maybe if we read them we will understand this our friend better and maybe even ourselves (1) Attachment theory - lack of mothers presence and love as we grow up, children crying because of deeply missing their absent mum leads to trauma so (2). Trauma theory-how human beings are traumatised by events in life. Food for thought please read. Happy hes coped well, can reflect on traumatizing experiences and still afford a smile. Bravo!
God's time is the best, the process maybe so painful but we go through all that,so that God's work can be seen in our lives 🥰🥰🥰🥰 God will always be God
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Mtumba man you're destined for greatness bro. Keep praying and God will answer them prayers.
I listen to him keenly, my life and his life have a great resemblance. Big up bro.
Wow what an interview, I love Steve's attitude towards life and the never giving up part..such a talented guy.I pray that your future is bright and God blesses you .
Destiny can be delayed but cannot be denied! I pray and hope that you get a good woman and live happily forever.
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. How you've talked to your Mam is such a wonderful feel to her. Despite all you've gone through, God is taking you 😊 higher.
Lynn uende kuona mom wa steve.. Huyo mama ni roho safi ka kijana wake.. The interview was so good.. A lot of lessons learnt.. He will go far.. May the Lord God Almighty watch over the both of you give you good health and peace.. Continue touching a changing lives lynn
The way you are laughing is making the sad story sweet.
this boy is soooo funny i can listen to him the whole day and forget all the problems of this world or what he went though...LOVE LOVE LOVE LYNN TUTAKOSA KUKUTAJA good ear and comfortable shoulder to lean on ..
All women have your kids no matter what.
This is a talent that needs nurture.
Reading through the comments and wish I understood his language so I could get the story. Lynn your audience is wide. Remember us in the US and those in the Caribbean. Love the show and follow all time but hate when I can't understand. Feel so left out.
Have enjoyed the interview. Steve is such a bubbly fellow despite the odds he has faced he still affords to tell it all with a smile. He has brought the reality of what many children pass through as their parents struggle to put food on the table. I have learnt never to judge people I meet in life. For Steve the sky is not your limit, soon and soon you will realize all your dreams and aspirations. May God bless you
I'm.an orphan n a single mum ..the life I went through my son will never experience it...hii life ya kufurahisha mwanaume unasahau mtoto I will never do..mama sande alikosa..hakuna kitu uuma kama kuona mamako anateswa but huezifanya anything kwanza juu amakuintroduce kama step bro
This guy is a really comedian, and I love his honesty...
Honestly this is our children in kenya community.very good In many Talented but no support. But Sandy be for God one day!!!
Nobody should abuse or ask for money or tukana huyu kijana...achwe to enjoy his work and all the money he earns. Then and until he is settled, then he can help others... kila mtu awachane na yeye... he can help when ready do to so...my goodness...he has had tough life...bless you son.
Lynn please make sure you plan that trip to go visit Mom🥰
sure
😂😂😂 Lynn ukifika salimia mama Steve, mayau mtumba man we nimstrong Sana ,Mungu akubariki💪
To our mothers who left us, we forgive you, we never know and will never know why ... maybe you were trying to get a better life for yourself and us!!! We forgive you! But accept that those things/actions are still hurting us till to date!! Big up to this young man opening up internationally!!!! I wish our mothers would just listen to us! I love this story ... tuko wengi passing through this, na still passing trough it ....
OMG! Tec Yul, you have just completed my story for that is exactly what I have been feeling while watching this interview. My siblings and I lost our identity and have always been embarrassed of our mom's actions. I think I was majorly affected since I am the first born and shouldered all the pains. I wish my mom was alive so we can sit down and talk! God bless you my dear.
Eusebia Theresa it's the bitter reality and we all try to stay positive no matter how tough! Stay strong !
There is always a reason as to why a mother should leave her marriage impacting on her children.
I like his relationship with the mum..hata kama they had a shake..his humility n authenticity of his story is admirable.
May God see you through bro🙏
Waaah Struggle 💔. What a mum!! Pelekea mum bae
This guy is incredible… he rapped and i wash shocked.. then he sang and i was broken and in awe!!! Keep fighting and the universe will be there for you.
Can we'all just talk about that smile 😍
Such strong comment from son to mother.yes mum join a good church and pray for your children
🙏🙏great man...Masshup ya Obinna and Sunday is a bomb
Lynn today you've interviewed amultitalent man May the lord open his doors... amen
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Amidst all the darkest days for before,,he still came out a happy man,,,he is well spoken and intelligent....he is so talented,,blesssings upon u brother
You are destined for greatness Sande,,,just know you are the best and doing the best.
Woooow!!!! He is the best. He has everything, talent to the highest level. Lynn,let's help him to the Studio.❤❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏
Soon son, very soon, you are carrying your beautiful Mom in a four-wheel car soonest. Your vulnerability and open spirit of forgiveness is the beginning of your healing. That call with your Mom is the best thing you have done live and the world has affirmed you and wished you the best in llfe. I declare and decree that, that prayer is going to pass in Jesus name, Amen.
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When the time is right, I the Lord shall make everything look beautiful 🙏🙏 that's the spirit mtumba man..
May the lord lift him up he will be a great man. everyone has a story . people should stop bullying others before knowing their stories
Lynn this is inspirational 👏. Nobody can understand no one's life until you have such a sit-down. You are strong Sande.
I can't stop laughing coz of his funny stories , same time I can't stop crying coz of what he went through.....may God be and protect him & his generations all through his life 🌺!lotsa hugs & kisses for him