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  • She hated men her entire life until this man stood right in front of her.
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  • @wambuijacinta9723
    @wambuijacinta9723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1181

    Thankyou so much Lynn ngugi for hosting me in your show and having a Candid conversation on sexual abuse and rape ❤️🙏. Am happy to have shared my story and helped people to learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape can affect a child's development and affect their growth into adulthood. To parents out there if your kid goes through sexual abuse or rape take that kid for therapy. Parents should teach their kids about their private parts and that nobody should touch them. This applies to both girls and boys. Doing this will help them to open up if they go through such a thing. Lastly people should learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape affects a child's development in many ways, psychologically, mentally and even their relationship with men.

    • @bennjeri1886
      @bennjeri1886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Jacinta you are a worrier, a conqueror, a champion and a victor.Your future is brilliant and your destiny is great, i believe God will grant you with the love of your life,who matches you and suitable for you.

    • @janegicheru973
      @janegicheru973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      We are so humbled you gave us a chance to be reminded to take sexual abuse seriously. I work Kara home which hosts sexually abused gals. These stories are so sad. May God give you help and heal you completely.

    • @jemimahnjoroge1322
      @jemimahnjoroge1322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      May the Lord heal you from the traumatic experience. Pole.

    • @joycew.charles533
      @joycew.charles533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Love you girl 😘😘

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Thank you so much Jacinta for being so brave and sharing your story💛💛💛 Thank you for trusting me too with your story🙏
      My people, feel free to connect with Jacinta via +254742560671 or instagram.com/cinta_njoroge?
      Her number is also in the description box:).
      Thank you

  • @therryt6829
    @therryt6829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    I'm from Zimbabwe and only discovered this show recently. The level of empathy and professionalism Lynn shows her guests is just phenomenal. You're such a lady

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thank you🙏💛

    • @asantesana5689
      @asantesana5689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Am from Zimbabwe too Love this show

    • @vimbaimadubeko5035
      @vimbaimadubeko5035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm from Zimbabwe too, you are doing an amazing God Lynn, God bless you

    • @rozy_mnk7550
      @rozy_mnk7550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      From Rwanda love this show too

    • @munesugazi9765
      @munesugazi9765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Am from Zimbabwe too, an I've lived on this show for over 2years!Good job Lynn.

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    Fellow human beings, kindly never ask anyone why he/she isn't getting married. Some are battling childhood traumas.

    • @masigalaura8176
      @masigalaura8176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This is true I struggled with fact that marriage was not an option for me. I grew up watching my father emotionally and physically abuse my mother so badly and it didn't help that my uncle also did the same. All through campus I hated men and so bitter. But the Grace of God gave me courage, I still have fears but knowledgeable and have a support system.

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@masigalaura8176 we share the same story. We shall overcome.

    • @nicholasngecu
      @nicholasngecu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thats true... unfortunately traumas especially sexual abuse combined with emotional abuse leaves a void in the human soul that even marriage or relationships cant fill, many people are unmarried becasue of that

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nicholasngecu So so sad

    • @CharityMFavour
      @CharityMFavour 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sure haki

  • @extrovert5829
    @extrovert5829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    The worst part about trauma is one time you think you are doing well and When something triggers you 😭you go Back to square one. Unfortunately our parents also didn't have idea of existence of therapy or idea of how to handle such.. healing from any kind of trauma isn't easy. May God heal everyone walking through the healing journey.

    • @timothyg1986
      @timothyg1986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for your lovely comment I feel it to the core.

    • @mercymeriy7851
      @mercymeriy7851 ปีที่แล้ว

      it's so true . at times u may think uko sawa ..but when triggered again realized not.

  • @resahbarasa810
    @resahbarasa810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Sexual harassment. Hitting 30 single with 90% fear of men. The Agent who was getting me a job in gulf back then sexual harassed me back in 2014. I have never told my family before but I talked it out with a friend. In 2017 my Arab boss sexual harassed me they never penetrated me though but there actions, forcing you to touch their private parts. .
    I never ever spoke out about this. Thank you so much @Lynn Ngugi for giving us this platform to air out our fears and traumas.
    I believe healing begins when you speak it out. We shall heal one day through God's grace.
    I remember the start of 2021 I had a boyfriend but he tried to force a kiss on me and all the past memories flashed back in my minds. I was soo scared to death I dumbed the guy.
    Sexual harassment is soo traumatic no matter how strong I am those memories will always crush you down.

    • @angella5876
      @angella5876 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you love.

    • @dianaprincess617
      @dianaprincess617 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry boo boo....hugs mamii

  • @antonettewambani805
    @antonettewambani805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    For Jacinta and any other survivor of rape. God does heal and restores all the lost years.i was raped at 19 and it's only after I got born again and grew with God did all the trauma leave. Your relationship with Him will uproot fear because that is not a spirit of God but of the enemy. You are able to change the language you speak about yourself and your environment. The tongue has power to dictate life or death. Choose life . Take the baby steps and celebrate every small achievements each day. Ask God to erase every bad memory and replace with Good memories . And I am also a big proponent of therapy it goes a long way in helping in the healing process. As I conclude I can say that it is possible to heal and have a happy life . It is now 13 years since my assault and I can say that I am now happily married to the love of my life . So jacinta and any other survivor you shall thrive

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I'm not a parent but this topic is helpful. We need to share on family WhatsApp groups.

  • @wairari
    @wairari 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Miss Lynn am just happy for you! You are the next Kenyan Oprah in the making! I really love watching your shows. I love your humbleness, authenticity, down to earth ,and the respect ,sympathy& empathy you show to your guests. May God continue to expand your territories! Amen!

    • @pammurithi4331
      @pammurithi4331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sure. She will be our Oprah soon.

  • @janewanjiku152
    @janewanjiku152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Am 28 and I have been afraid of getting married because of what my mum went through in the hands of our step dad ....i know it's a process but I Pray to God that I'll overcome it

    • @justhome4850
      @justhome4850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey Jane, please seek counseling,get delivered cz it might repeat itself and u get married to such a man.. all the best

    • @maryannnyambura406
      @maryannnyambura406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hii jane I truly understand you because am also going the same thing ,,,its hard even if you come across a serious guy who is ready to marry me I end up rejecting the proposal

  • @francisnyapendi298
    @francisnyapendi298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    i have an uncle who has sexually assaulted us at home. He assaulted me in 2007 when i was a small girl and when i told my parents they could not believe and therefore nothing was done.Just recently before xmas,one of my other cousins came out and said this same man actually has actually been having sex with her and her younger sisters and since then like 3 more cousins have come up with the same story.Guys pray for my family cause i don't know what is going to happen next, and after listening to some of these stories, i blame my parents for not taking action then. I wish i could come and share my story but unfortunately,am in Uganda.Thanks Lynn.

    • @ngendonancy8994
      @ngendonancy8994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry for that. Hugs

    • @catherinemuriuki1471
      @catherinemuriuki1471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You all need to come together and stop that man by reporting him. Some will not believe you but eventually someone will. Yes your parents have failed you😭❤️🤗

    • @ClassicAudiobooksInspirations
      @ClassicAudiobooksInspirations 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You never know. Lynn might just accept your story on her show. We are all East Africans, f not Africans and Lynn herself ha been recognized internationally. So maybe contact her and find out if she can? You never know. Might present some challenges, though, but if thats what you need to break though then so be it.

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am also a Ugandan sorry

    • @annewanjohi5745
      @annewanjohi5745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Please report this to the nearest children officer.seek help

  • @tujieleweglobal
    @tujieleweglobal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    No envy, no jealousy. Pure respect and celebration. Lynn Ngugi this shows are 🔥🔥 🔥

  • @Nothwest
    @Nothwest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Oprah is a Queen who went through a lot but she became a queen of TalkShows

    • @christineshem4043
      @christineshem4043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And our Oprah from kenya is lynn ngugi❤❤

  • @lynnwanjiru1511
    @lynnwanjiru1511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Looks like an Oprah Winfrey show so proud of you Lynn

  • @lizwambui8320
    @lizwambui8320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    What a way to start the year. This is big in all aspects... It's like our own Kenyan Dr Phil show. Thank you Lynn. Many souls are being healed by just watching the show. This is just awesome.

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you so much🙏💛
      Truly appreciate the love:)

    • @janekihika1047
      @janekihika1047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Isaiah43:18-19

  • @mbakanamedia8667
    @mbakanamedia8667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Lynn you a blessing to this generation, those who have never went through sexual assault cannot understand it's not easy, I personally survived by the grace of God. God bless you Lynn.❤️❤️

  • @john_njonjo
    @john_njonjo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This was superb expecially the part of looking her into the eyes and reassuring her that not all men are bad, she will get married coz she is beautiful and courageous. Thanks Lynn you can't imagine how that one show changed that ladies life. God bless you and the crew.

  • @KuiWaKamau
    @KuiWaKamau 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Childhood Traumas are breaking the society, Parents MUST protect their Kids, there MUST be free Therapy Centers and follow ups. The Kenyan Juridistic System MUST take harsh steps on these monsters! POLE SANA JACINTA. Thank you Lynn for this plattform. God bless you.

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I never take for granted the impact I am able to make with your support 🙏

  • @lavendernyawade1514
    @lavendernyawade1514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I watched this story on shared moment with Justus, I really cried. This lady went through a lot.

  • @blessedalicia7227
    @blessedalicia7227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    This show is becoming something else i swear. Am so much hooked into it. Thanks Lynn,you are amazing 👏 ❤ 😘

  • @lilywhite8029
    @lilywhite8029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Why do I feel like the family and society failed her? No one in the family or around would notice that the anxiety and fear of men is unusual and that demanded a candid talk?
    Am so sorry my sister. Esp in a society where people are insensitive and mean. It shall be well and it is

    • @Debby142
      @Debby142 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what happens with our societies, they are too quick to judge instead of talking to someone and find out, that's why I have failed to open up with some people with fear of how I will be judged, it's not an easy world for some people 😢 but I continue being strong..

  • @kadzo6614
    @kadzo6614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    As someone who was abused by my uncle, I spoke about it after 12 years. There's no forgetting

    • @stellamachunde7734
      @stellamachunde7734 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Uncles .

    • @euniceeunice5702
      @euniceeunice5702 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. Trusted uncles...

    • @aselyne5631
      @aselyne5631 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hun i told my mum for the first time at 28

    • @morinejepleting
      @morinejepleting ปีที่แล้ว

      I was abused several times and this is the first time I'm saying this

  • @lydiakaindi5872
    @lydiakaindi5872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lynn, this lady has her purpose cut out for her.
    See how brave she is and how passionate she is telling parents to take their children to therapy..
    I am so proud of her.
    She will partner well with Njeri.
    God bless her and give her strength.

  • @vicvic9792
    @vicvic9792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Uh! I thought i was lost. Glory to God for this show. I have been with u Lynn since ur first tuko show, and here we are. Thank you for allowing God to use u

  • @estherwanjiku9472
    @estherwanjiku9472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't know why every show u bring touch my history I keep crying hoping this is the only way my heart can heal may God bless you because today this lady is speaking for me today 😭😭😭.

  • @petersonwanjiku3661
    @petersonwanjiku3661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Now this is another direction
    I'm happy for the show.
    Thanks

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much🙏

  • @cookingwithnimoh
    @cookingwithnimoh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Painful story to listen to.. May she and others who have gone through similar traumas receive healing ❤

  • @titus254
    @titus254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    @Lynn you took this show a notch higher. This is life changing experience and you have proved to be the best.

  • @masj8160
    @masj8160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    So sorry for them. I grew up in a poor family and my parents didn't have enough money to take me through life. I went to live with a family member at 13, I had almost no right and everyone was more important than me. I struggled to fit in and one thing that I found it very difficult was to interact with girls of my age because of strict rules, punishment and ended feeling as if I was valueless. I eventually developed phobia for girls. I lost the desire for romantic relationships. I am now completing PhD and still find myself awkwardly placed in the society, even though I just turned 30. People question, but no one can understand my condition, but everyday I fight to remain above the challenge and remain relevant. Child abuse is a wide area that must be handled wisely and with alot of caution. I hope that they will recover and meet people who will truly understand them.

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry for what you went through.

    • @Njeri-
      @Njeri- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So sorry for what you went through, I hope you get help to overcome it💕

    • @kiwishbj1
      @kiwishbj1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I had the same life. Living with relatives and I was always the bad irrelevant child. I was the thief according to them.. Their children would do bad things even steal money from the purse because they knew it was always me to be blamed for it. I was always never eating on the table with them.. I would never sit down and watch Tv with them. I would peep from outside the window or a small opening through the door.. incase the door was left a little open.
      I would sleep late at night and be woken up very early at dawn to start house chores. Don't forget.. I was an 11 year old boy. I would get beat up.. sometimes just for something as small as bringing warm tea to the table instead of hot enough. In primary school my classmates had a nick name of Mr. 'Bee sting' because my eyes and face were always swollen from being beat. I had scratches around my neck and upper body. Sometimes even combing my hair was a traumatic because my scalp was always painful and swollen from being canned. I lost dignity and worth of myself. I always felt alone and no one would ever even come in to my concern or just ask me how am doing. I was always sad. My story can't stop. It's too much I can say.
      But.. I somehow did overcome shyness and lack of confidence. My life started changing when I had to run away while in form 1, (15 years old) to one of my uncles. My uncle loved me but his wife never wanted to see me. I lived there because I felt my uncle's love no matter what the wife said. At least I wasn't being beat up there. So my face started coming back to normal. I joined soccer in the neighborhood.. started having friends and my life started changing. Later on I started jogging every morning.. it made strong and gave me pride within myself. Upto date.. I am married and living with a very loving and respectful wife. We are blessed with 3 children. 2 boys and one girl. God will see you through. Just believe in Him.

    • @Njeri-
      @Njeri- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I don't even want to remember my life living with relatives, am so sorry 💕

    • @menameir1786
      @menameir1786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kiwishbj1 God bl6you bro

  • @msapereewabc939
    @msapereewabc939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I was sexually abused by 2 brothers who were neighbors. When I told my mother and aunts who were supposed to protect me, they said I was too ugly for anyone to abuse me. This affected how I looked at the world and myself. My male relatives always tried to "pimp" me out. As an adult I realized that most of my friends were also sexually abused; but had no safe space to heal. I am glad that now many are talking about it and that men are also calling and demanding accountability from those who are committing such atrocities to both boys and girls

    • @cookingwithnimoh
      @cookingwithnimoh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry for your ordeal. Hugs ❤

    • @joanmutuku4231
      @joanmutuku4231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pole, Hugs🤗

    • @EllaKabami
      @EllaKabami 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sending you Hugs. May the angels sorround you with peace

    • @rosenablanc6594
      @rosenablanc6594 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg sending hugs to you

    • @allanogol5008
      @allanogol5008 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for that

  • @masigalaura8176
    @masigalaura8176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I totally understand and sympathise with you Jacinta. Congratulations Lynn keep going. I also feared going out and dating men. And actually I really never dated till I was 30 years when I had done therapy, prayed and had the support of amazing close friends. I gunned courage and settled with my current husband but it was not easy.

  • @anitawambui7128
    @anitawambui7128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I pray total healing to all survivors either rape abuse, emotional or domestic abuse may God help you all to overcome it .💜💜

  • @JJones-oh3dd
    @JJones-oh3dd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is my story😭😭hugs Gals💔after watching this show am ready to come out and tell my untold story...thank you Lynne for always having our backs🙏❤

    • @hellenmwangi4598
      @hellenmwangi4598 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeanifer you are a strong lady, by talking it you heal
      Hugs

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Few encounters with people can make you rule out everyone but in God's perfect timing he makes everything beautiful ❤️

  • @carolinewanjiku7609
    @carolinewanjiku7609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I went through the same and the person who did it was my father's blood brother,His thing could not fit in my small v so he would put it in my mouth,I never told my parents cause they were busy fighting each other.When I started to develope breast he touched me and I got very mad and reported him to my mother who told my father.My father was soo mad but kama kawaida it was solved kifamilia.I would look at them and tell myself mgejua kuna ingine mbaya sijawaambia.I was also this shy anti social person,with very low self esteem.I can't wait for my abuser to die cause that day I will be celebrating.God's justice.

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We have gone through alot but please forgive and let go and let in God

  • @254muthonirachael
    @254muthonirachael 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm happy to see some of your guest supporting your show Lynn♥️may God bless your work girl 🙏

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Lynn I'm in love with the new set, we are going places! Just 3 minutes in and the tears are flowing already,😭 as a mother of 2 daughters this is just so traumatizing. She has a long way to go in healing, I hope she can get aome counselling

  • @felistermwongeli6334
    @felistermwongeli6334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is the best place to be to be strong and come out of the pain you passed on thank so much Lynn for the good work 👏 🙌 God bless you 🙏

  • @Njeri-
    @Njeri- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Am glad to have been part of this live show and sharing my experience too
    " to parents/guardians : know who you are bringing closer to your children", make your children feel safe with you
    Lynne you are a blessing💕 God bless you

    • @beingkiddo1643
      @beingkiddo1643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You Soo talented mamaa😍😍😍how can I reach you ? Just need a piece of advice please 🥺

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much Njeri💛💛

    • @wambuijacinta9723
      @wambuijacinta9723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Njerih was happy to see you also open up and share your experience 👏❤️

    • @Njeri-
      @Njeri- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@wambuijacinta9723 Jess you are so brave and strong
      You are life Jess 💕💕💕💕

    • @wambuijacinta9723
      @wambuijacinta9723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Njeri- Thankyou ❤️

  • @maureenodhiambo6023
    @maureenodhiambo6023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I was crying along with her.... her story just reminded me of my young self when the same happened to me.i know what she's passing thru'.the memories were made fresh again to me..😭😭😭😭.

    • @gathonimaria1636
      @gathonimaria1636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Be strong

    • @oderatrizah5087
      @oderatrizah5087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hugs dear, all will be well

    • @joykiru8858
      @joykiru8858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is well dear, nobody understands the pain of such an encounter. I pray that God gives you peace and love

    • @josephmbira399
      @josephmbira399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@oderatrizah5087 a

    • @truth8027
      @truth8027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @maureen Odhiambo,
      Please get the help you so need. See a trauma specialist for sexual assault. 💜😘

  • @gachugumaggy
    @gachugumaggy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Am happy of this platform, giving people chance to express themselves. Its a healing stage. This girl will heal slowly and overcome, she explained what some of us went through and we are still fighting 💪

  • @TheCluelessMan
    @TheCluelessMan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    We live in strange times today where men and women are encouraged to despise one another. Ultimately society will suffer, sexual abuse is very serious and doesn't make this dynamic any easier. Especially when many men today start to distrust women out of hand and stop engaging at all.

  • @InstaF.A.M
    @InstaF.A.M 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    So many parents have no idea what happens to their daughters behind the scenes in Kenya. So many girls go through this.Thanks Lyn for the platform

  • @emmily2693
    @emmily2693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Wow!!👌 Happy New Year 2022 Lynn Ngugi the OPRAY WINFREY of Kenya 🇰🇪. Congratulations for the this new chapter of making a show. Am proud of you 👏 my the good Lord continue to bless you. I wish am in Kenya I wouldn't miss any minute to come to the show. I love ❤ you Lynn.

  • @menameir1786
    @menameir1786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Who defiles a 4 day old baby or a 5 months or any child at all? These people should be killed or isolated from the world completely. It's sickening even to think of it. Suerly njeri you are a strong woman to handle this case,. May God bless you and give you more strength to carry on.

    • @judithtwinomugisha8917
      @judithtwinomugisha8917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Our Ugandan president keeps proposing that these people should be kept away from society but the so called human rights. Oh God this is so sad. Men please have mercy and self control. This saddens me so much!

  • @katemillicent9433
    @katemillicent9433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That's a good job Lynn, healing comes by speaking out and letting go off the past,and being positive .

  • @amigrowing
    @amigrowing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I was born in Congo but I grew up in Canada now I’m currently in the USA for school. As I was readying through all the comments, I realized how so many people have suffered alone for so long. So from a fellow survivor.. you all aren’t alone.
    Xoxo💜

  • @CoachVioletRibu
    @CoachVioletRibu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Shazmeen's voice is so therapeutic, cant wait to hear her more.Thanks Lynn for this life changing platform you are giving us to heal. Cant wait to see Benjamin Zulu on the show too .#Godspeed.

    • @shazmeenbank1630
      @shazmeenbank1630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you beautiful

    • @jedidahakinyi9681
      @jedidahakinyi9681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! I could listen to her all day long. I just love it ❤️

  • @ireneabuya7231
    @ireneabuya7231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This interview was so dope and very emotional at the same time,God may you protect us always 😭😭😭😭

  • @raelchepkoech7966
    @raelchepkoech7966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lynn,this is a surprise event you have shared with us,this will support Jacinta absolutely faster and she will heal .To Jacinta,you are pretty gal darling, enroll to therapy and everything will fall in place and also keep in mind of what you have learn from this show...Lynn,please bring her back after sometime coz we need to see Jacinta smile,dating and getting married. and ofcourse the life she had wished to enjoy.

  • @marthakibera1301
    @marthakibera1301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Big up to you Lynn, I really love you. The level of of empathy you display is just amazing. The show is very therapeutic, educative and inspirational. May God bless you. I'd like to request for a follow up on the Mum who was assaulted by Truck drivers. Its my prayer that God will give peace to all the survivors. 😥😥😥

    • @mamalao8574
      @mamalao8574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lynn baby girl see this need also to know how r coping with life

  • @fraciahwanjeri3098
    @fraciahwanjeri3098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is the best interview I have ever watched,,,I pray that God restores her n many others like her,,for u Lynn keep winning Mamie🥰🥰🥰

  • @lovethildah7340
    @lovethildah7340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Wooow, I had to check whether I'm lost😌
    This is another big step Miss Lyn, Congrats!❤

    • @chebby010
      @chebby010 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true 💞 Lynne is a real epitome in this society....we love you mummy 💞

  • @mutukucosmas3549
    @mutukucosmas3549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "unless you've gone through it, you may never understand!" That's very true. You are already in a great lane of healing and God will certainly see you through

  • @DaviesWokabi
    @DaviesWokabi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have never been so disturbed like how i was after watching Jacinta pour herself out. Takes a lot of courage to open up and share. I see so much growth and confidence. God bless and Lynn for letting us in on this

  • @wambuialice5987
    @wambuialice5987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Hi Lynn. You have done many shows earlier and they have been so good. But for the first time I feel like was the guest today. I feel represented. Anything she said that is me. Up to date I'm struggling to find a space in my heart for men. Having gone thru and seen too much around me. But I thank God for you Lynn, for this was my show. May God expand your territories more.

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dear Alice, we are sending you so much love and light💛💛💛

    • @overandabove9821
      @overandabove9821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May the Lord heal you ...

    • @annndunge8412
      @annndunge8412 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, I see life's being changed through this show... Keep doing what u love most: touching lives💕

  • @mariawangari2670
    @mariawangari2670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This the most important topic ever, that lady really did it demonstrating 2 of them, i was really touched cried kabisa, lynn umebarikiwa, youv saved life youv changed most of peoples life be blessed

  • @TeacherFaithlearnandgrow
    @TeacherFaithlearnandgrow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Jacinta, thank you for honouring us with your story.
    I celebrate your courage to own and Honour your story.
    Wishing you love, strength and healing.
    You are Loved, Valued and you matter.
    You're not alone.
    💜💜💜💜
    Thank you Lynn for amplifying the survivor's voice. Thanks for believing.
    I celebrate you for this!
    💜💜💜

  • @amiej9934
    @amiej9934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I have not watched but I must admit I feared men until I met a guy 2yrs ago .I stayed for more than 28yrs for what happened when I was 13 and didn't want anything to do with men.I feared him too but I don't know what happened since it was different. I met the love of my soul. My twin soul

  • @babieuniya
    @babieuniya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Waaaaoooooo I just love the setup, so beautiful, a combination of Dr. Phil, Oprah and Ellen in own very own Kenyan girl. Kazi safi sana Lyn.

  • @catherinemuthike4948
    @catherinemuthike4948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I studied with this beautiful soul...she was always looking depressed but only her knew what was killing her inside....You are a hero...blessings shall follow you.

  • @susanwangeci6323
    @susanwangeci6323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Looking at everyone's reaction to her sad story, I really wonder who has not been through some traumatic event in their childhood or even adulthood ? So many people are living with alot of pain. God please heal us.

  • @annabelnduta3824
    @annabelnduta3824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is beautiful...Jacinta you are a hero not a victim. You will heal and you will take the world by storm. This is your chiron. I send love and light and lots of hugs

  • @staicykagai400
    @staicykagai400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks Lyn.This is go to help many people are suffering in silence.The show will be in another level soon.

  • @sofiemission3333
    @sofiemission3333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It's hard to understand if you have never being abusive.
    I had attempted abusive and that things disturb me alot
    Sometime you can't speak out because the society will judge you without understand what you went through 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @wanjiruolive
    @wanjiruolive 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    trauma remains in the body as a memory its gets triggered when we are adults especially when we venture into relationships especially romantic relationships. it has an effect on the brain which is so sad because of things that happen to as children. it is also said that any traumatic event as a child can hinder your development. so i wish her the best in her healing journey slowly but steadily she will reach there

  • @victorwasonga5726
    @victorwasonga5726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Wow! What a global standard show! Lynn, your shows are life changing. The lady went home feeling safe and relieved, and many lives are touched. Continue the good work, congrats and happy new year.

    • @kembabazichristine7027
      @kembabazichristine7027 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing, I really appreciate, and advise that lady how to have a safe retaliationship

  • @bennjeri1886
    @bennjeri1886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    God bless you Lynn and every participant who availed him or her self to the show.We need this kind of live audience shows if possible once a month.They will bring a lot of awareness and enlightenment in our society. Much love from Doha Qatar.

  • @roydhaluwa6543
    @roydhaluwa6543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This has touched my heart, it's so painful to be tomented psychologically due to trauma. Lynn keep up with what you are doing, I personally have learnt that Rape and sexual assault affects the growth and development of a child

  • @claireclarkeignite8458
    @claireclarkeignite8458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Lynn this was an excellent show. I hope both persons received the help to continue their journey. Thank you for sharing it with the world

  • @charlescech2782
    @charlescech2782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Imagine am crying, much love from Uganda

  • @zalwango73
    @zalwango73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lynn, our Kenyan version of Oprah Winfrey. Good job.

  • @iamcherop3747
    @iamcherop3747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I can relate to this though it didn't happened to me God saved me from my own father ,😭😭😭🙏 but he left me dippressed till today

  • @theachebes5724
    @theachebes5724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lynn this is amazing. I believe just like anyone in ministry you too are called to reach out our generation. I am a servant of God and I must bless the Lord for such a unique grace on your life. Keep it moving!

  • @IamGodsfavourite6518
    @IamGodsfavourite6518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Waoh.This is a new level.awesome.Biggup Lyn.
    You are trully blessed and you have become a blessing.for the lives you touch,God will reward you

  • @MARKOSJ27
    @MARKOSJ27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The best show ever so that parents out there should learned something heal. Thanks alot Lynn for this courage and support

  • @nimojameskitchen1221
    @nimojameskitchen1221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This has touched me…I almost went through it through a relative but my cousin saved me.. by telling me what the man intended to do. It was in the evening and I run through a thicket to my place. That was back in 2003.Fact is I was able to say hi to that relative last year since 2003.May God heal this beauty.

  • @ponijada3697
    @ponijada3697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So painful, the interview was so emotional to me ,I can't stop my tears ,jacintaaa I love u my sister, u re such a beautiful , brave and soft lady ,am sure God will recover u and bless u with a good husband and a lovely kids .
    Thanks a lot for a wonderful interviewer also and the therapist
    Love from South sudan

  • @victorianzembi9201
    @victorianzembi9201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I will never get tired of watching this show I always watch it from the toilet 🤣 those are leaving in gulf know it well but when I realise Is out I can't imagine how people they can take opportunity to misuse a small girl and are the one who are supposed to show good example but anyway I'm sorry gal toto you are so brave and strong you will get your man when God bless you with one so God's timing is the best even me I remember I passed there but when I remember it always broke my heart 💓 Lynn continue impacting people life and even enlightening

  • @rk_nyra
    @rk_nyra 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This kind of visibility is very much needed!
    Lynn Ngugi, thanks for creating such a platform...
    and to all the ones out there sharing your stories, thank you for being so brave...your voices are creating the kind of ripples and waves that are beautifully life changing!!!

  • @neliafrancis9120
    @neliafrancis9120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the way to go Lynn, soon we will be having Lynn TV. God guide you darling, you are a blessing to many.

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wishing everyone a blessed and successful Saturday!

  • @florahnambuyah2885
    @florahnambuyah2885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    God protect our kids mothers who have left their kids and left them with guardians we don't know what is going on,am one of them working outside the country 😢😢😢.am speachless 😭😭😭 listening the show of today

  • @refilwephokungoane4644
    @refilwephokungoane4644 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just learned about this platform recently from South Africa 🇿🇦and am really learning a lot.@Lynn your a truly inspiration to the world Kenyans are so lucky to have you 😘

  • @gontlafetsembeha2848
    @gontlafetsembeha2848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Look at this beautiful beautiful lady ❤️ I love you. I am proud of you. Healing, love, light, hugs, prayers and plenty of hugs from a fellow survivor in Botswana 🇧🇼

  • @patriciafavour7309
    @patriciafavour7309 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These things of child abuse are really hurting. Thanks Lynn for bringing this show it's enlightening and a therapy to many

  • @JMBM8822
    @JMBM8822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Havent been here for a while. Lynn ume upgrade. Proud of you.
    I met you at some restaurant in town. I was so excited to see you. I waved... and you waved back with so much love and enthusiasm... it's like you knew me and you hadn't seen me for a long time. You are a genuine soul. One thing i didnt do... take a pic.. for myself and my sis. She loves you.❤😊.. she keeps asking me , how i met Lynn Ngugi and never took a pic 😁

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Awww, thank you so much:)
      I am sure one day our paths will cross again and we will take a beautiful pic. Please pass my love to your sister:)

    • @JMBM8822
      @JMBM8822 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LynnNgugi ❤

    • @nyaboketinega4646
      @nyaboketinega4646 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is our star

    • @everlynemaranga
      @everlynemaranga 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lynn Ngugi is a special gem to us. Such a wonderful personality rarely found.

  • @AregoJuddy
    @AregoJuddy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You can move from a survivor to the thriver that you are🙏🙏

  • @zakstv7368
    @zakstv7368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Mimi ni Mtanzania🇹🇿 ningekwepo hapo na mimi ningesimulia yangu pia wazazi wanafaa kuangalia watoto😭😭

  • @victoreddie9552
    @victoreddie9552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am happy that Lynn Ngugi is back on her feet again

  • @joycegacheri5177
    @joycegacheri5177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aki vile nampenda Lynn 😍😍may God keep here give her strength and more wisdom to do more we grow together with Lynn we learn together and we change our lifes together God protect Lynn from every evil Amen and Amen

  • @mercywaithaka3708
    @mercywaithaka3708 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I see where this show is going and I love it.
    I SEE you Lynn Ngugi, and I'm here clapping for you..

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gods timing is the best! May she heal and stop fearing men..I commend her courage to share her story.

  • @gontlafetsembeha2848
    @gontlafetsembeha2848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The therapist is soo amazing! I watched her story as well ❤️

  • @gracegakumo3624
    @gracegakumo3624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God bless you Lynn for the great work you are doing, you really touch many souls

  • @lucyikua5988
    @lucyikua5988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Soo many souls out there are abused, The only thing we can do now is to try and make the upcoming generation feel they are in a safe place by making the world today better than yesterday.

  • @JohnMmbaga_
    @JohnMmbaga_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jacinta, you are a champion for being vulnerable. I salute you, young lady. You have a very bright future. God bless you.

  • @hellenmkalla350
    @hellenmkalla350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Lynn this show has encouraged so many people being one of them. Some might not come out but through this they alreally concoured the fear and become victories. Thank you and congratulations.

  • @josephmuhalya8078
    @josephmuhalya8078 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hello am Michelle Bahati, thank you so much Lynn, Ngugi for this show, I I was also raped by my cousin in 2004 by then I was staying with them in Nairobi, because am an orphan, I can surely tell you, that I haven't forgotten, I told his mum who is now dead, but she did nothing instead she beat me up,,,,, I'll never forgive you JUNIOUR!!!!!!!

    • @ngendonancy8994
      @ngendonancy8994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry for Wht u went through. Hugs

    • @marynduku8422
      @marynduku8422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My heart goes out to you Michelle. I believe in you and i know you will overcome because you are more than a conquer through Him who strengthens you. Pls forgive him it is the first step to healing, release him and hand him over to God

    • @joycemumbe6868
      @joycemumbe6868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry hugs dear

  • @jnn1715
    @jnn1715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Though I hate watching these painful conversations, it's good that they happen. May God send angels to rescue every child going through pain and trauma.

  • @shamimndunge6400
    @shamimndunge6400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you to your guest opening up in public.. This is going to touch so many and an eye opener for those who has no voice.. I wish her all the best into the healing journey.. With time she will overcome all. ❤️❤️Hugs