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  • @FixFaxx
    @FixFaxx ปีที่แล้ว +12424

    love this quote: ''You can't embaress someone who is self confident''

    • @hobodios8510
      @hobodios8510 ปีที่แล้ว +345

      My ego after reading that quote 📈

    • @marcierex4547
      @marcierex4547 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      my ultra ego when its my turn to sing: bro I'm gonna go wild with it!

    • @drz616
      @drz616 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      But you definitely can, that's how confidence gets taken away from people. It's a nice quote but not true at all

    • @FixFaxx
      @FixFaxx ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @@drz616 confidence isn’t some feeling that comes and goes, no confident person just gets insecure because they’re insulted or in an akward situation, they simply accept it.
      In a way you could say that stoicism and confidence go hand in hand.

    • @Dan_Kanerva
      @Dan_Kanerva ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@FixFaxx egos are not like strenght levels on a videogame , where the one with the bigger number always beat the lower levels . If a confident man makes a mistake and people with lower egos remind him of said mistake , this can affect the person regardless... and good example is how Jenna Marbles (the biggest woman TH-camr also called the female Pewdiepie) stopped doing videos just because a few whine babies on Twitter insulted her over comedy sketches 😒

  • @duckluck3755
    @duckluck3755 ปีที่แล้ว +5288

    I love how as you get into the tenseness of the microphone being passed to you, you pair that with gameplay of you going down into the cave. However, after you explain the "embarrasing" moment, you pair your realization with you coming back out of the cave. Really nice subtle storytelling there. Outstanding content btw.

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  ปีที่แล้ว +609

      Thank you I appreciate it :)

    • @daichi7989
      @daichi7989 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      Dayum, now that you’ve mentioned it 😮

    • @davitucsonn2243
      @davitucsonn2243 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      as if every experience is a cave waiting to be explored, may it be a dangerous one or, a lushy one (in minecraft terms!!!)

    • @jexusdomel5194
      @jexusdomel5194 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Thought the same thing, he could have just put gameplay without consideration, but with just a bit, the video became way better

    • @jacobmacias766
      @jacobmacias766 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@flowstatevideo English teachers when the main character sneezes

  • @weebi7363
    @weebi7363 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1272

    Just so you know, you saved my life. I was lonely and had 0 friends. I felt completely alone and was considering ending it all. However, when I came across this video, I began to improve myself and started talking to other people. I also started working out at the gym and taking risks. Now I have 5 close friends whom I can trust, and a wonderful girlfriend. Thank you so much for changing my life.

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +271

      That's amazing, keep it up

    • @wisp1740
      @wisp1740 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

      ​@@flowstatevideo bro could care less 💀💀

    • @cryocoma
      @cryocoma 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

      @@wisp1740 damn honestly... you kinda strike me as an incell.. you know the type of person that will take in information and never use it a day in his life.. the kinda person that complains that he is lonely but does nothing about it i cant tell if your using the main lesson of the video as an ironic quote or what not but yeah... its still scummy nun the less. so go outside or idk find someone that means something to you cause from what I'm reading a lot of people do care. this man literally changed someone's life and honestly it hit home for me to gotta love the incompetence of 12 year olds on the internet whom think they are literal gods and can form a concise and complex opinion based on the little knowledge they manage to grasp.. the pure idiocy and ignorance is what's driving me to waste time out of my day to belittle someone that has been wasting valuable oxygen and time from others
      edit: HOLY SHIT IM DYING XD i dont even remember commenting this but im getting cooked fair play internet also.... dont take anything of what i say seriously... its all satire in my mind
      and doesn't reflect how i feel currently
      (and yeah,,, i went a bit far with it) gg's and im kinda sad that yt removed the dislike button cause i want to see how many i got

    • @mariagil2170
      @mariagil2170 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      ​@@cryocoma Hey I get his or her comment might be calloused and wrong to you. But to respond by calling him a bad name won't fix anything. Maybe you could've said "I don't think that's true" or something.

    • @wisp1740
      @wisp1740 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@cryocoma dude I don't know if you're really being fr cause it honestly looks like you misinterpreted my comment really out of proportion. I was making a simple joke and you act like I was saying something awful. It wasn't meant to be serious or taken serious and I think I made that pretty clear. Its kind of ironic you're assuming I'm an incell and writing a whole paragraph based on a few words I said while hating on people who form "a concise and complex" opinions based on "the little knowledge they grasp." I mean I really can't tell if you know whats a joke or not and if you did, why are you taking it to heart? It wasn't meant to hurt anyone or to really hate at that, it was just really for fun but you go out of your way to tear it down and start projecting. Not everything is meant to be taken seriously so calm down and stop being sensitive.

  • @erbeilas4355
    @erbeilas4355 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +842

    Love how there's no bullshit anywhere. No obnoxious intro or outro, just a simple story. Nice!

    • @changedmynamee
      @changedmynamee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      dude it’s not 2015 anymore. TH-camrs don’t have those cringey 3D intros anymore.

    • @zikio1591
      @zikio1591 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@changedmynameeman ngl i lowkey kinda miss those simple days tho

    • @Jyukenmaster95
      @Jyukenmaster95 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@changedmynamee they still do...thats why people watch some content creators in 1.5x
      its not about attention span; its about dialogue-fluff

  • @tec9b8
    @tec9b8 ปีที่แล้ว +5873

    This type of content could be revolutionary in the Minecraft community. Keep going. I believe in you.

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  ปีที่แล้ว +262

      Thank you I appreciate that

    • @jackknifevideoworks
      @jackknifevideoworks 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      why? because it's not related to minecraft in any way?

    • @tec9b8
      @tec9b8 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

      @@jackknifevideoworks no because it’s peaceful and there’s no upbeat attitude. It’s like listening to a friends story

    • @ItsKaysu
      @ItsKaysu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I 100% agree, this type of storytime is AMAZING

    • @Kenajovski
      @Kenajovski 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      i love your pfp

  • @midnight6274
    @midnight6274 ปีที่แล้ว +1686

    Stumbled across this video at 10pm on a friday night expecting something wildly different, this is amazing

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Appreciate it!

    • @milosauce915
      @milosauce915 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      ik i was expecting it to be a dude yelling at me that nobody asked

    • @sleepygirlmimi
      @sleepygirlmimi ปีที่แล้ว +8

      wow i also found this at 10pm on a friday

    • @floss5733
      @floss5733 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i ALSO found this at 10pm on a friday night WITH rain thats crazy

    • @_FredsRightHere__
      @_FredsRightHere__ ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Woah,me too dude! And with rain.

  • @xirofinn
    @xirofinn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +248

    Wow, ive never really seen a Video that motivating, ofc ive seen videos trying to tell me what self esteem means. But not one video conveyed this message as well as this video. I hope this video finds its way to as many young people as possible❤️🔥

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Thank you so much! :)

    • @rusti9195
      @rusti9195 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Top tier glaze

    • @chef-turtle4278
      @chef-turtle4278 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@rusti9195trippin

    • @poofyfox6751
      @poofyfox6751 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rusti9195 What the fuck is wrong with you, grow up

    • @Arti27YT
      @Arti27YT 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rusti9195 Lowest tier child

  • @ICEDNOTBLENDED
    @ICEDNOTBLENDED 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This mindset has helped me so much. In late middle school I realized that I remembered the embarrassing things I’d done through my life, and how someone that saw me do that might see me and think how silly I looked. Then I thought of all the people I’d seen do embarrassing things, and what I’d think of them if I saw them. And hardly anyone came to mind, and those who did were usually my friends, and those who weren’t I didn’t think anything poorly of them.
    So what would someone think of me if I were to stumble over my words during my presentation?
    And this made things so much easier. I became so loose in front of crowds. Stage fright is still a thing, definitely. A phobia is an irrational fear, you can’t get rid of that with a mindset. But there are some things that can be solved with a mindset.
    This outlook of “they won’t remember, only I will” doesn’t just apply to the stage in front of a crowd, it applies to a stranger on the street, a customer in your store, a coworker in the break room, a family member at the reunion. Conversation comes so easy when you can say anything and not be worried about being judged the rest of your life, and you get to practice and become better at conversation, too. It’s a skill, and I still learn every day.
    Now I’m in my third year of community college, my class knows my name and who I am, that I’m not afraid to blurt an answer or give a little speech, and the people in my life appreciate me in general. People don’t care about something you don’t care about, so when you stop caring about the conversation, and start caring about the people, they’ll do the same for you.

  • @mrlegitimate1238
    @mrlegitimate1238 ปีที่แล้ว +4086

    Love the channel one of the few who consistently makes me stop what I'm doing to watch.

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  ปีที่แล้ว +165

      That's awesome I'm glad to hear it :)

    • @Spestly
      @Spestly ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Man spoke Facts rn

    • @FireClawPlayz
      @FireClawPlayz ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Fr

    • @mrlegitimate1238
      @mrlegitimate1238 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@flowstatevideo thanks for taking the time to reply means a lot keep up the amazing content

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's why you should turn your phone off and focus. Sounds like FOMO. Social media destroying your attention span.

  • @batoobdx
    @batoobdx ปีที่แล้ว +1495

    This is actually a great concept you did right there: chill gameplay, while telling a story because watching someone play eventually gets repetitive or boring, but right now this is perfect. I like it a lot and expect it to continue!

    • @postmasters6453
      @postmasters6453 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      weekly slap vibes

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Watching someone play gets boring? I watch 4 hour long Minecraft videos with no commentary and don't get bored.

    • @GalliumYttriumThespian
      @GalliumYttriumThespian ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@christiantaylor1495 ok. very cool. you’re veryyyyy special.

    • @brandillio16
      @brandillio16 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      videos like these murder your attention span, no matter how good the moral is

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@brandillio16 Exactly. Notice how they think it's a new concept as if LeafyIsHere wasn't once the fastest growing channel on TH-cam for doing the same thing.

  • @Cyphon
    @Cyphon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Thanks for this bro, really encouraging for some of us who are very self conscious about looks/outside appearance, so knowing that difficult or anxious moments make you feel better in the end is great

  • @H.KILLER
    @H.KILLER 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    bruh I feel that I did have my share of embarrassing moments...or so I thought because compared to this one mine moments are nothing
    it really feels bad when you think about these moments and then you start feeling it in your nerves like you stretch your hand everytime you think about one and so on
    but it really hits you when you realize that nobody even cares nobody even remembers these moments except you thinking about them even after years
    and now I feel that I'm little bit more sociable with poeple and a little bit more confident about myself like if I was your place of course I wouldn't sing but I would've been honest and just handed the mic but you were brave enough to take the rest and forge on without caring about the results
    thanks for the vidoe dude, definitely helps :)

  • @sporent
    @sporent ปีที่แล้ว +1472

    these vids are so chill! i expected the audience for this niche to be really small but i've been pleasantly surprised

  • @nickinoko
    @nickinoko ปีที่แล้ว +1034

    I really needed this positive wholesome vibe, it’s a reminder that true happiness is and can be all along inside of you😌

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Thank you so much! That's very kind :)

    • @sunstone_xd8977
      @sunstone_xd8977 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@flowstatevideoI 100% agree, thanks dude this helped so much❤ I have a lot of anxiety just going outside thinking everyone's staring at me so just a reminder that nobody really cares is super useful👍🏾

  • @rivercloth2996
    @rivercloth2996 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Just found this channel, and I'm truly blown away how good this content is. It is like therapy. Thank you.

  • @jtbonline2071
    @jtbonline2071 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    At midnight tonight, this is pretty much exactly what I've been needing to hear for a while. Thanks for putting this out with a story that can be related to, I hope to catch more from you. Thanks a ton, dude.

  • @alkimia1791
    @alkimia1791 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    I needed this dude. I'm always just so anxious about what other people think about me, and while this doesn't make that feeling go away completely, it does make me feel a bit better

    • @CausingChaos.
      @CausingChaos. ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I want to share something with anyone reading my comment right now:
      Courage isn’t the absence of fear. It’s the mastery of fear. Its saying to oneself, “wow, that thing really scares me. I guess I’ll just go ahead and do it anyway though.”
      Anytime you’re anxious or fearful about doing something, don’t try to stop fearing it, learn to control it. Even the most courageous and bravest knights are fearful of not returning to their families. They still press on though, because they eventually learned to control their fear after enough time. Next time you’re anxious or afraid, don’t tell yourself it’s not scary, embrace that fear, accept it, and try to push past it. Learn from the scariness, and question why you’re so scared. Then, you might just overcome it.
      Hope this helped anyone reading this..

    • @alkimia1791
      @alkimia1791 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@CausingChaos. It helped me 😁

    • @pleasegoawaydude
      @pleasegoawaydude ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@CausingChaos. It reminds me that I'm useless and I shouldn't be alive.

    • @Nikita-hp1tp
      @Nikita-hp1tp ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@CausingChaos. Thank you so much, i really needed this, your comment was really helpful!

    • @sportedits856
      @sportedits856 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pleasegoawaydude bru u matter buddy :C

  • @Millatarra
    @Millatarra ปีที่แล้ว +1503

    Your content, what you're doing is super uplifting, inspiring and you should know it.

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Thank you so much! :)

    • @natalkasowa8703
      @natalkasowa8703 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Polska

    • @revurhb9231
      @revurhb9231 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jesus loves you❤ Turn to him and your life will change

    • @alang.2054
      @alang.2054 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@revurhb9231 sorry I'm muslim

    • @anonymous8737
      @anonymous8737 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alang.2054 alhamdulillah

  • @That0neCrow
    @That0neCrow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thank you for this, the soft background music, the genuine message, I just needed this today. Keep it up :)

  • @bubblehead1107
    @bubblehead1107 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    So glad u went for it man those sort of situations are what build confidence depending on how u handle it and u did it in the best way, ik that works cause i used to have horrible anxiety and now that im better i have things like last week i did something like the song on stage at my school but I volunteered 😅

  • @scarrow3203
    @scarrow3203 ปีที่แล้ว +2164

    This was an amazing video. I don’t see many TH-camrs who are as honest as you were to this degree, although there are always a few, and it was nice to just listen to you speak about a funny and wholesome story. I think the message was super important, and despite it being as simple as it sounds, it is still something a lot of people don’t fully take in when they hear it regularly. Thank you for this, keep up the good content :))

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Thank you so much! :) I appreciate that

    • @revurhb9231
      @revurhb9231 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Jesus loves you❤ Turn to him and your life will change

    • @xler3441
      @xler3441 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      God sent His only Son to die for us on the cross so that we can get into Heaven and then God raised His Son from the dead on the 3rd day.
      Please search for God with all your heart and you will truly find Him

    • @boywithbali3830
      @boywithbali3830 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@flowstatevideohey I know you might not reply but do you have a degree in psychology it j seems so interesting how you’re able to go into
      Such deep topics.
      , thank you

    • @leviehrhardt913
      @leviehrhardt913 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The story about singing was kinda irritating. He could've just said no.

  • @stparm
    @stparm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +945

    As someone who struggles with social anxiety its really nice to just be reminded of how much people actually care about the things you do, sometimes i get stuck in bad ruts but this little reminder certainly helped a ton,.ive also seen many other videos of yours and found them incredibly insightful keep it up with this absolutely outstanding content!

    • @qwertymehta8342
      @qwertymehta8342 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      I also have social anxiety, the thing is that I would WANT to be able to go up on stage. Like, I WANT to be extroverted and I try to be but I can't bc I always start trembling n shit

    • @mrzukunft
      @mrzukunft 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@qwertymehta8342Maybe you can try your best to accept yourself for who you are, whether you manage to overcome your social anxiety or not? 😊

    • @seup123
      @seup123 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@qwertymehta8342same dude i just never get the right words to say so when anyone talks to me im just like ok which feels horrible lol

    • @dragicmagic9870
      @dragicmagic9870 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I have social anxiety too, but I just don't find this type of inspirational content helpful at all. Anxiety is mostly a physical response, it's not something that you can just get rid of by thinking positively or whatnot. I physically feel uneasy in many social situations regardless of whatever positive thought I may be thinking.

    • @austini.5262
      @austini.5262 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dragicmagic9870 this.

  • @johnmadden8077
    @johnmadden8077 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Just came across this channel, and this hit deep man, and the nostalgia of the game, hitting me in my feels. I hope you win the battles you don't tell to others :)

  • @feierabendt
    @feierabendt 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    bro this is one of the most inspiring videos ive ever seen.

  • @theaustinvalentine
    @theaustinvalentine ปีที่แล้ว +578

    Listening to this video has really helped with my self-confidence, thank you so much. Your content always inspires me to be a better person :)

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I'm glad to hear that! :)

    • @CausingChaos.
      @CausingChaos. ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I want to share something with anyone reading my comment right now:
      Courage isn’t the absence of fear. It’s the mastery of fear. Its saying to oneself, “wow, that thing really scares me. I guess I’ll just go ahead and do it anyway though.”
      Anytime you’re anxious or fearful about doing something, don’t try to stop fearing it, learn to control it. Even the most courageous and bravest knights are fearful of not returning to their families. They still press on though, because they eventually learned to control their fear after enough time. Next time you’re anxious or afraid, don’t tell yourself it’s not scary, embrace that scariness, and try to push past it. Learn from the scariness, and question why you’re so scared. Then, you might just overcome it.
      Hope this helped anyone reading this.

    • @x_potato4081
      @x_potato4081 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@CausingChaos. thats deep man, thx

    • @someonesomewheresomehow
      @someonesomewheresomehow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@CausingChaos.uh yeah. also something kinda unrelated because i struggle a lot with paranoia that took me a time to figure out is, fear is ok. its not do not fear, its dont be afraid to fear. cause you are gonna fear.

  • @ae19188
    @ae19188 ปีที่แล้ว +1145

    Loved the chill-style video and the effort you put into it!

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Thank you so much! :)

    • @revurhb9231
      @revurhb9231 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Jesus loves you❤ Turn to him and your life will change

    • @robbomax
      @robbomax 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      amen brother

    • @robbomax
      @robbomax 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dizo-jp2td amen brother

    • @hen618
      @hen618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nope, jesus is fake lol@@robbomax

  • @sliceofcheeseyza
    @sliceofcheeseyza 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love how relaxing your story was, i dont know why, but the minecraft in the background gave it telling stories around a campfire vibes

  • @joefred4444
    @joefred4444 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very late to this video but I think I needed to hear this message. I had a lot of problems with isolating in highschool, and my parents sent me to a wilderness therapy program to help work on myself. And it was such an amazing experience. I learned so much, and left feeling so much more confident and sure of myself than when I got there. After that, it was always a dream of mine to work in wilderness therapy. A few years later while taking a break year in college, an opportunity presented itself and I jumped on it. And let's just say, it didn't go as I expected. First of all, this program was nowhere near the quality of my previous experiences, and it was targeted towards a different group of kids, kids that had done serious illegal things, not just shy depressed kids like I was. My costaff weren't very nice to me and I struggled to fit in. I worked there for about 5 months, which for a job as difficult as wilderness therapy, is a pretty long time. Eventually I had enough and left, in hindsight I wish I left the job sooner. Since then I've felt so demotivated. I quit the job in April, and I haven't worked since then. Been feeling really down on myself and haven't gone out or tried socializing much. Hoping to get my motivation back soon, and this video definitely helped :)

  • @galkiin
    @galkiin ปีที่แล้ว +309

    i cant explain how much i enjoy these videos, your videos make me happier and the vibe is so wholesome, this slow-paced vibe is the best way to end my day

  • @snaildad193
    @snaildad193 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Something similar to this happened to me in high school too, and seeing how quickly everyone just forgot about it and moved on was so uplifting and did wonders for my confidence. It taught me that being who I want to be and owning my strangeness is way more important than trying to conform to everyone else, because at the end of the day people aren't gonna remember me anyway. Might as well stay true to myself. Awesome video!

    • @SCPCB
      @SCPCB ปีที่แล้ว

      nice video

    • @18rocksthegames78
      @18rocksthegames78 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ll remember it forever, but no one else will
      Except for my friend but he doesn’t count

  • @hollytab
    @hollytab 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i really love that story and the way you narrated it with the beautifully edited minecraft clips
    loved it 😊🩵

  • @SelenophileLeague
    @SelenophileLeague 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thans man, was feeling insecure sometimes. And this kinda helped and brought me a smile :)
    thanks again ^_^

  • @Vizeff
    @Vizeff ปีที่แล้ว +149

    This hits so close to home. I had a period in my life where I was always overthinking situations like this, and now a few years later both my siblings are experiencing the same thing.
    This helps cast a light on how stupid it is to think it's the end of the world if you experience something similar to what you experienced.

    • @abulletant1147
      @abulletant1147 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same for me, take example for 9th grade, Riverdale.
      I've been overthinking some worksheets for agriculture class.

  • @bigbuba5212
    @bigbuba5212 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I'm trying to do "embarrassing" things, they aren't actually embarrassing but just normal things I'm nervous to do due to my extreme social anxiety but in doing that I've started caring less and less about if people care or not because chances are they do not
    And I have never found myself caring about what other people did either

    • @clover9725
      @clover9725 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      extreme social anxiety i know it
      i cant even go out to throw the trash, im at that level already
      still going to work still going out to the bank and all and still wishing to die everytime i do
      i want to have a normal life, talk to girls, dating, making friends but at the same time i just want to stay in my room sleep all day and just watch movies or play games far away from anyone, school crushed my soul
      all my friends ghosting me at the same time 3 years ago made it worse

    • @TheNathanator
      @TheNathanator ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@clover9725 hey bro, remember, the fake ones leave the real ones stay, you just gotta find the right friends. It sounds like you're making a good effort to get out and fight your social anxiety, respect to you for that. As someone who used to have social anxiety, my advice is to not be so self-conscious. Like, no, the way you're standing in line isn't gonna lead to someone laughing at you with their family at the dinner table. Best of luck to u bro, hope you fix it and get better 💪

  • @samuisworld7716
    @samuisworld7716 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! Didn't expect this to be so real and relatable! But this is genuinely good advice, and the fact that this showed up in my recommendations and how it sounds like I really needed to hear it. I've let so many minor moments that felt like the world was going to end, ruin me like crazy, even small moments when I'm like "did I embarrass myself?". Thank you!

  • @Magus237
    @Magus237 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’ve just appeared in my recommended and I just wanted to say I love the chill, comforting feel of your vids. You’re both motivating and comforting it’s crazy 😂

  • @vilaskerezius6470
    @vilaskerezius6470 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    This guy makes up any therapist. Honestly, this is relaxing

  • @antagonist_in_a_bag
    @antagonist_in_a_bag ปีที่แล้ว +123

    this is possibly one of the best things I could have watched at 12:53 in the morning while about to go to sleep

  • @HanzoShodaVa
    @HanzoShodaVa 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ya know, watching this video on my final year of high school really give me a lot of confidence to do anything at school. First, I have volunteered to sing on stage for an event. (It went well) EVEN READING A STORY. It gave me the confidence to do things, that I couldn't do before. Thanks man, you changed my final year of high school into the best year that I have ever went through

  • @domeniksaner5864
    @domeniksaner5864 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    really appreciate you sharing this. we need more content/people like this on this weird planet. after the first 15 seconds i could already tell that youre genuine, and that alone is already soothing enough. thank you!

    • @The-Legend-of-P
      @The-Legend-of-P 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree! It’s so nice and a breathe of fresh air to hear someone genuine and something honest!

  • @gigabyteone4001
    @gigabyteone4001 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    I'm not sure If I can even describe how much these videos mean to me, having somebody with similar feelings and stories that I can relate my experiences to means a lot to me. I'm extremely self- conscious pretty much everything especially my looks. Anyways, I had a similar experience to you in gym class, I'm too emotional to go into detail but it was traumatizing, causing mental issues I still inflict on myself today. I just wanted to put it out there and say that these videos you make give me hope and confidence to continue in my life, and I'm on a path of healing and am nearly a completely different person (in a good way). Having somebody to relate to means a lot to me, Thank You
    Update I guess for those who care (I Doubt there's many): My life has completely changed, I've met people and have become a great person from where I was before, I have a friend group now! after so long after my original one disbanded pretty much, I haven't been able to get over it until now and now I've moved on and met new friends. I've started to improve my health and am focusing on school much more, I couldn't be happier. I don't want to say that this video was the only reason that led me here because it wasn't, but It definitely spark something in me, To those who are going through a tough time or just want to improve themselves, It's never impossible, just take it one step at a time and eventually you'll look back amazed by how many steps you've made

  • @ReusableRocket
    @ReusableRocket ปีที่แล้ว +109

    I liked your story, I feel like we’ve all had that moment where we were put on the spot when we really didn’t want to in front of (what felt like) the entire planet and all of humanity. I have had a few moments like that myself, one time I was in my English class in high school, and we were reading a book about the holocaust or whatever, I don’t really remember much of it. The teacher read a few chapters out loud to the whole class and at one point she stopped and asked if any of us wanted to. The same thing happened for about a week straight; she would ask someone to volunteer, and there would be dead silence for a solid minute. Afterward the teacher made us read it independently or she continued. It was one of those times again, and I couldn’t take it. I felt bad for the teacher wanting us to participate and, well, failing to do so, as well as the awkward atmosphere. I (reluctantly) decided to take initiative and read in front of everyone. At first I was so nervous, stuttering on half the words I came across. Over time however, I kind of got in the zone. I felt like I was some wise old man with a raspy voice telling a story to a young child in bed. Afterwards, people said I did an amazing job and that I should start a podcast or something. I’ve always been really nervous about how I sound to others, it’s that feeling you get when you hear yourself speak in a video. I always thought my voice was high pitched and annoying, that sort of voice you get right before you hit puberty and stuff. Now, I don’t really care as much for my voice. I’m the one who’s making fun of it, no one else is. That’s a big problem that, despite how perfect someone may be, everyone experiences; we’re all way too worried about ourselves and think about how others are thinking about us, when in reality, we’re all the exact same way! Think of a time when you’ve actually judged someone for something minor… That’s right, never! And even if you did how many times do you take that one small judgement and associate it with that person’s worth and status. Again, never. (unless you’re completely apathetic and a bully, in which case I hope you accidentally hit your funny bone. or bite your tongue.) Nobody’s ever worried about you because everyone’s too busy worrying about themselves.
    I would’ve used a different example, because I know I’ve done way more embarrassing things and in the worst situations (like in front of my crush… in front of her entire friend group), but nothing else is really coming to me.
    I liked your video a lot dude, it’s amazing how minecraft gameplay with shaders and an inspirational speech can make all the difference :)

    • @flixouille6408
      @flixouille6408 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌

    • @mashash9594
      @mashash9594 ปีที่แล้ว

      now i really want to know what happened with your crush and her friend group lol

    • @its_nuked
      @its_nuked ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the share yo! I completely agree with you, and as i saw someone say recently in another comment section, im so glad to be alive during a time where this kind of stuff is being talked about ^^

  • @AryanKumar-jo1pz
    @AryanKumar-jo1pz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The dreamy minecraft footage and the minecraft music is just so calming, nostalgic and straight up perfect. Amazing video

  • @lncaustic
    @lncaustic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hello sir, stumbled upon this video in my recommended and I really love this type of content, the life advice stuff. I really appreciate what you're doing.

  • @NikZapp
    @NikZapp ปีที่แล้ว +118

    To be honest I didn't expect this video to make me cry... yet it did. I learned the same thing as you, but way later. Now I'm regretting that I didn't do things I thought were embarrassing but now I know: they aren't. Be yourself, no matter what others may think.

  • @roz9738
    @roz9738 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I really needed this. Great video, flowstate. Just subscribed.

  • @raptem
    @raptem 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for making this vid. It really helped me go through tough times. You deserve a lot more subscribers

  • @falapadieu
    @falapadieu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This just goes straight to the heart, and I love it.
    Minecraft & its bgm playing in the background just adds a soothing factor to all of it.

  • @coww6114
    @coww6114 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I just like how genuine this feels, it doesn't feel as if it was for clout, he was just genuinely sharing his stories and helping people.

  • @just_a_mango
    @just_a_mango ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Those videos are really my favorites, and the concept is perfect too. Slow/calm gameplay, while telling us something a story or something you went through, this is really relaxing. Congrats on 30K subscribers btw, you deserve it 😄

  • @drakearries
    @drakearries 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you I really needed this, I am going through something right now and this calmed me down a little bit.

  • @TheyJusLikeMeFR3636
    @TheyJusLikeMeFR3636 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This really helps when there's just 3 days until my school year starts again, this helps boost my confidence, but I think I'm going to have to watch this multiple times throughout the year. xd

  • @p1vat255
    @p1vat255 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I honestly resonated with your message in an emotional way, like damn. I'm so oddly insecure about small things about myself, like how my hair looks, etc, and I always think people are looking at me in school. My friends always tell me that I'm good, I look good, nothing to be insecure about. This video helps a lot, nobody really cares. Everyone is all fixated on themselves, not you, they may look at you once but they'll forget about you in seconds. This makes me believe it more though, that nobody truly cares, so thank you for putting me into this more positive mindset.

    • @Barna.
      @Barna. ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yeah man, i really dont care man.

  • @jcbt11
    @jcbt11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    That was so beautiful, you've really changed the gears of my mind.

    • @Bongbongo
      @Bongbongo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      not the dreamybull pfp ☠☠

  • @ancheta650
    @ancheta650 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    dude this video made me think of my own decisions in life and i gained some perspective abt myself. i love ur content with the philosophical nature and minecraft gameplay. its so relaxing and easy to focus. keep making videos like these pls! 😀

  • @YvanniStar
    @YvanniStar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is actually really inspiring. I have severe stage fright and social anxiety and I always worry about other people around me but you really are right, when someone else does something embarrassing, I feel embarrassed for them, but I don’t judge them or laugh at them meanly because I understand. And if most people are the same way, I don’t have anything to worry about.

  • @dailyuser6960
    @dailyuser6960 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You are literally the voice in my head, everything you've talked about in these type of videos so far have been, what I like to call them, shower thoughts. They're like my form of meditation when I'm doing something autonomous, just me talking to myself minus the talking part, and seeing them in this manner makes me happy.

  • @Artromex
    @Artromex ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I randomly got recommended this video, and it really sorta spoke to me to a personal level. The atmosphere that you create is just so nice and calm. Never knew that listening to a random guy would help out so much and be so reassuring in a way. Keep it up!

  • @user-gx5rx3fd3j
    @user-gx5rx3fd3j 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Something just happened to me that made me self conscious not to long ago and this helped me out a lot, thanks so much for the help!

  • @Mr-Reending
    @Mr-Reending 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love you bro, it really did help me out. I let it sink in and all the dots in my mind started to connect.

  • @luciaabuhl4393
    @luciaabuhl4393 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    would've really appreciated this video coming a liiiiiiiiiiittle earlier in the school year -- really would've taken the oomph out of a couple of embarrassing moments, haha. thanks for another great video, always look forward to hearing what you have to say when it's a commentary! :)

    • @flowstatevideo
      @flowstatevideo  ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Ah true! I'm thinking about doing a video over the summer might try to time it with all the people going back to school/college, and I appreciate that!

  • @Aiden-vy3bk
    @Aiden-vy3bk ปีที่แล้ว +75

    His videos are just so calming and relaxing to watch. Helps relieve stress.

    • @DCI_Mage
      @DCI_Mage ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know, I have been rewatching these videos so much.

  • @shimmate493
    @shimmate493 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Goddamn, you've revoke one quite embarrassing moment from summer vacation 5 years ago. At that time I was quite shy during some events and because of this - missed opportunity to ask one girl out and probably cure my bashfulness. Jeez, I hate this moment but at least now I'm not so shy as I used to be, but there is still plenty of work. Thank you for reminding this to me, sometimes its hard to remember this

  • @yukiko_72
    @yukiko_72 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As someone who had stopped going to school and helping myself in life due to anxiety and whatnot, this has helped a lot and has easied my mind a bit. Its nice to hear others storys and how they deal with things. I thank that this video has popped up for me.

  • @gr1ntz631
    @gr1ntz631 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This channel really soothes me ngl, I love your whole style of gameplay and music and just personality. You may be one of the only creators I would happily watch for hours on a livestream while I work or something. I hope you grow big and can give a positive influence on thousands more people than you already have.

  • @a.j.laponsie9226
    @a.j.laponsie9226 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This is something that a lot of people with anxiety, particularly social anxiety, need to hear

  • @sundownsgaming4717
    @sundownsgaming4717 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    your choice of mods was perfect man, and the way you basically combined two different types of videos in one is great.

  • @starfans5109
    @starfans5109 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the annecdote really resonates with me and makes it easier to understand, great video!

  • @StudiosDiego
    @StudiosDiego ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The shear fear I felt for you hearing the start of that story. I literally felt it in my body. It’s really…really hard for me to have a different mindset about fears, how people think about me.
    Your point is completely right, unfortunately I myself don’t think enough tools to work out my negative thoughts.
    Im just starting therapy, and your video made me realise that I want this mindset as my goal. I want to think in this way about life. I’d be much better off. Great video

  • @Kessmex
    @Kessmex ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is one of my fav pieces of life advice, love to see it being shared and I hope life treats you well

  • @Chamarel
    @Chamarel 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so true, I've been in a similar situation where you're asked to get on stage and introduce yourself. I always get up and do it because I know I have nothing to lose.

  • @oblyx1828
    @oblyx1828 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I never seen a video of yours before you just randomly popped up and this video really helped me out so I just wanna say thank you

  • @tipsyGnostalgics
    @tipsyGnostalgics ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the scenery and atmosphere in this video is lovely, thank you so much for this :] have an amazing year, you deserve it

  • @kornyman5187
    @kornyman5187 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I love this, you nailed it, everybody is stuck in their own little world. You are just a side character in their story and you rarely if ever, take center stage in anybody's life that isn't a member of your own family.

  • @josepescudefont3935
    @josepescudefont3935 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Epic. Such a peculiar anecdote, wonderfully presented and explained, and the MC gameplay at the background with the tenue music is GOD. Thank you very much for the art

  • @sablyr
    @sablyr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im in the process of moving away for uni and packing away my life basically and the feeling of just leaving everything i know is overwhelming, but just listening to this made everything feel so much more doable. Thank you

  • @SoraxBeats
    @SoraxBeats ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i'm glad i stumbled across this video because my mind somehow always tries to remind me of something stupid/embarrasing i have done in the past. this "nobody cares" attitude might be rlly helpful to feel more comfortable in our own bodies sometimes. tysm for this video!

  • @prophetnik
    @prophetnik ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this is absolutely my comfort video. whenever i struggle i come back here and enjoy the advise because it helped me a lot. i don't know if you'll read the comment because the video is already a month old. thank you man

  • @CasterRational
    @CasterRational 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A lesson I’ve learned some time ago but never really applied it… I’m glad to see a youtuber who makes content like this. It’s very heartwarming.

  • @emmettdja
    @emmettdja 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this landscape is breathtaking.
    i love these mods and this terrain.
    its like you are living in another world.

  • @captainwobbly7617
    @captainwobbly7617 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just found this channel today and have been watching a lot of your videos. Honestly keep it up. I'm 14 years old so I'm in high school (My school system is weird you spend 7 years in primary and 6 in high school) but honestly coming home and watching these videos after having a stressful few days is such a relaxing thing. You can literally talk about anything and I'll listen. So yeah keep making videos, after reading other comments I can tell other people feel the same.

  • @RedXypher
    @RedXypher ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is by far. The best story and message I've ever heard. Really hits me :)

  • @SleepyGolen
    @SleepyGolen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude, usually it’s a meme to put in some stimulating gameplay along with some random talk but that Minecraft background video was so soothing and chill along with the story you told. Good stuff

  • @Megacat99
    @Megacat99 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This warmed my heart a bit. Thank You.

  • @lunasleepai
    @lunasleepai ปีที่แล้ว +4

    almost made me cry even tho I knew this and have told this to myself a lot, I still struggle a lot with social anxiety and this thought that nobody cares how I look, etc. has been in my head for a while.
    I'm really happy I'm not the only one that thinks that way, thank you for this short and simple masterpiece ♥

  • @PerfectNarwhal
    @PerfectNarwhal ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is one of the most important lessons I learned a few years ago. How one thinks other people view them really takes a toll on one's mind, so once I got past this problem and realized that things will move on without people really remembering about you, life began feeling so much more enjoyable and less stressful. Those embarrassing moments even eventually turn into stories you can tell and laugh at in the future :)

  • @ganicc4782
    @ganicc4782 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro this helps so much with my anxiety I really needed to hear that. Thank you.

  • @liamjones8532
    @liamjones8532 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    in that situation i would probably start making up lyrics like "let me go, let me go, please get me off this stage" etc. funny story and great video!!

  • @pianova2332
    @pianova2332 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is a huge help, I have serious problems with socializing and am not good at conversation (or atleast don't think I am) and it gets so bad that I may have social anxiety. Not sure but I have a bad habit of freezing up and barely talking when I get too involved in a social scenario. This is advice I wish to take with for the rest of my life and I bet a lot of people would also like to here this. You are an everyday hero.

  • @retowhite5354
    @retowhite5354 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro I’m saving this video. I’ve always suffered with anxiety when speaking with new people and I’ve been improving massively but sometimes I feel like I go back a little, probs in my own head. But idk this video has actually brought me to tears rn remembering that there’s nothing to worry about. Thanks you man. Just. Thank you

  • @Vaxii
    @Vaxii 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    actually started tearing up bro, thank you for this!

  • @Lerxn
    @Lerxn ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a person that had almost the same story this helped me alot, especially when i get reminded of the singing i get so embarrassed, now it doesn’t bother me anymore. ❤

  • @seanrose5363
    @seanrose5363 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You got a gift that not many people have bro. You can make people think deeply about life through a screen in less than 10 minutes. I just appreciate the way you effortlessly flow through the script paired with the calming gameplay. Keep it up you’re gonna blow up.

  • @CurrentlyDyinq
    @CurrentlyDyinq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was very chill, thanks for sharing. Love the background minecraft gameplay!

  • @bilgeyui
    @bilgeyui 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i actually have a big presentation tomorrow and i'm so anxious that i can't sleep (it's 4 am) but watching this video actually made me relax a little and i'm going to sleep thank you really

  • @Straflight
    @Straflight ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow man. This video is the definition of relaxing while telling a story that has an actual message. Very nice and unique.

  • @Aphaloria
    @Aphaloria ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much, this helped me realize that all the silly things I do, even though I might think it was stupid and embarrassing, might not be so bad after all.. 💕

  • @StrawberryBongo
    @StrawberryBongo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm going back into school again soon and this has genuinely helped boost my confidence so much. Thank you

  • @_trademarc__
    @_trademarc__ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very nice story man, I enjoyed listening to it, I felt engaged and it really held my attention :)

  • @g4rb
    @g4rb ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You should make more videos of this, but if you are out of ideas you can ask your community their stories. This is peaceful asf i love it!