When she said a lot of people are in poly relationships without knowing or agreeing to it because their partners are out here with multiple people it’s immediately NO. That is not the same thing.
Right. I would respect her if she was just honest and admitted that her and Nick are just sex buddies and she got pregnant for him because he has a few coins and fame. Also, she should just admit that she is the one struggling to make their "partnership" seem deeper than it is and would DEFINITELY ACCEPT being Nick's wife if he asked her.
I love her openness to make this interview, but it sounds like Nick never gave a clear understanding or confirmation of wanting any type of actual relationship with her. Sounds like he took her from a dark place coming out of a relationship living with her parents and helped her through stability and in the process gave her children. I can understand her gratitude towards him but I feel bad that she doesn’t see she actually deserved even so much more. I feel like any rich man with a loving and giving heart can do that, but did he really give you what your heart truly wanted out of it?
Yes that’s 2 different things & polyamory means multiple loves and polygamy means multiple spouses. Theses are two different things . While polygyny is usually part of religious cultures that structure elite men’s access to multiple wives and provides an outlet to support women they have example men in Dubai. One is really religion base other is not and cheating is a selfish act a person in a relationship chooses to do . 🤦🏾♀️ I hope women stop pushing the cheating narrative as being in a poly relationship lik when the told you tha they was gonna be in a monogamous relationship THA’S wht u both agree on which cheating is not acceptable but I agree wit u this is JST a cover up for her to not feel alone in a poly relationship tha she sign up for lik example the nle choppa rapper believes in poly relationship and his ex said lik her she agrees but she thought he was gonna pick only her change his mind but didn’t so he let her go . I agree with everything your saying.
I hate how she refers to him as her partner when nothing about their relationship is a partnership. This isn’t even a polyamorous relationship because this isn’t even a relationship. Even in poly relationships, there is conversation about who they are dating and a true sense of partnership and of committment This is just genuinely very sad and I pray for healing for Abby and her children.
Same. She seems like she genuinely wants a real marriage and family but got conned into this foolishness somehow. It's also strange to hear her say she wants marriage to another man but has 3 kids with nick cannon. What man is going to sign up for that public humiliation? Did she consider it before getting pregnant twice? Will she have more kids of a new man wants them?
@@perdybirdie what public humiliation is that? If a man wants to be with her and is ok with her having children with someone else then how would he be publicly humiliated? If this is what she wants and eventually changes her mind to want marriage then that’s her business.
This is a classic example of someone with low self esteem. She got trapped into this Cannon mess and is now creating a narrative to make it seem like she is ok with it. She is competing by having another baby. But, Cannon is having babies with so many that she will have to jump off this train at some point. I pray she is in therapy. She still has no power. She is a victim and, hopefully, she will recognize it.
There's nothing flattering about being chosen by a man of the streets. You'll never hear a man say "I'm so lucky this slutt chose me.!" Even tho she had sex with someone else 10 minutes ago, he feels like the luckiest man on earth.
Her decision to have an open relationship doesn't have any reflection on being a good mother. If being with a man like Nick Cannon makes her happy it doesn't affect my life. But having an opinion doesn't make me a hater either. For someone who says she loves herself so much, she's okay with being #4 when she deserves to be #1. He's going in RAW with too many women to count. You're gambling with your life. He's definitely playing Russian roulette. It's all good until God forbid you catch something you can't get rid of. Then he got the sheer nerve to tell women to do better with their feminine hygiene but he's out here with the DNA of 20 "smelly" women on his cucumber on a daily, but she betta not even have ONE man's phone number stored in her phone. I think these women are blinded by his charm. Charm is not love.
Her last relationship damaged her and Nick came at the right time to exploit that. That's why as women we have to make sure we're healed before we start dating. When it comes down to it this isn't what she truly wants. And to expect another man to come in and be her person after all this, is asking a lot.
Hit the nail on the head!!! for her to want more EVENTUALLY from another man it's not going to happen! She said she doesn't want to be cuffed but Nick Literally cuffed her when he put 3 babies inside of her. How does she expect another man to come along and say oh you want to be married I'll take you and your 3 kids in. It's not happening mamas!
Nick is letting her know also but she has some fantasy about walking away from this like nothing happened. If she finds someone to marry ( I would be surprised because that’s rare to none)it would probably be with someone who has kids or can’t have kids. Then there is the question how long is the relationship going to last .
She decided to have multiple rich genius babies plus she doesn’t want to marry him because she loves him enough to not constrain him and let’s him be free. It’s very smart mating strategy that women had with Kings back in the day.
@@Adonis20529 But if you listen to her she's not happy. She knows eventually she'll want more. I agree with you about the strategy of Kings back in day. But this man isn't a King.
I don’t believe she loves herself, she’s desperate without even realizing it. This is accepting the bare minimum and convincing yourself it’s ok cuz money is involved. All the women nick is involved with have a lack of self worth and aren’t surrounded with people that truly care. There are some ppl that are attracted to chaos and invite it in to there life without realizing it- they all like chaos. Nick is not in a poly relationship- he does not have relationships with any of these women he is only having sex and doing him.
I agree. You can see it in her eyes. She’s trying hard to convince herself she’s happy with the decision she made. How can she say I love that “he’s wasn’t willing to compromise” girl what?? Him not wanting nuclear homes and being monogamous made you love him even more??
I would respect Nick if he was able to get all the woman and children together. This happens in the hood all the time. Being a baby mother really isn’t an honor.
Right like why havent these women all had the kids get together already? Why hasn't nick facilitated this or had the women living close so the kids can grow up together?! This is a terrible situation and they all seem in a daze
When women say it's not about the money, they're clearly delusional. Because i guarantee they wouldn't let the truck driver impregnate several women. They wouldn't let the guy at Amazon do this. The man at Walmart do this. It's not Nick's charming personality that captures yall. It's a plus but it's not what makes yall sign up to be baby mama #1,2,3,4,5,6
Girllll…this is no relationship or partnership or any ship at all. He doesn’t even involve you or let you know about another “s3x partners or baby mamas” which is the basic foundation of a relationship. She is just a self absorbed desperate fool who was wooed by some flowers and his money. What is so sad is that she is bringing kids in this mess like how and when will Nick spend time with his kids if already has a lot more and is busy pursuing women every day. Also she said that’s her best”relationship” by far and that means that she never even had a semi decent relationship.
I agree. She obviously never had anything close to a good relationship, if this situation with Nick is the best so far. She is literally trying to make the crumbs she has into some type of presentable cake. It's not working though because we can all see through the BS.
I wish she would’ve asked her if he’s not worthy to be your husband why have children with him, why not wait until you were married and experience those moments with the person you could actually marry
Right and also what type of man is going to be ok with knowing his wife was willingly part of nick cannons baby mama harem? Especially if she's not having more kids. What man would want that?
I do not think that he could possibly meet the needs of ALL of the women that he is involved with. He may meet some & convince them to accept the lack of the empty space that is left. He is creating tons of soul ties. Most of these women may never get married in order to stay in his good grace. Certain men (due to their egos) may not want to take on the responsibility of being apart of Nick’s “family”. I pray for the healing of all parties involved, especially the children. I would love to hear from Nick’s parents. I wonder what are Nick’s spiritual beliefs?
This makes people uncomfortable because its something they don't understand or wouldn't be willing to tolerate. but I genuinely feel her happiness and joy. If she's happy/ they're happy.. that's all that matters !
YES, I thought I was the only one who noticed this. I would actually give her about 45 or 46. She can fit right in, age wise, with Sanaa Lathan, Essence Atkins, Gabrielle Union, etc. and I would not think anything of it.
I pray she goes back and listens to this because despite my mixed feelings about Mari. She is asking great questions. I have to be fair in my assessment. Praying for Abby’s healing and sending her lots of love
Respect, i may am not understand it and all the women who he is with and have children with but i don’t need to understand it, its her life, live and let live.
Spicy is brilliant not only as a Relationship Expert but also the way she conveys so many messages & extracts so much information from the guest, this feels like more than Podcasting, but almost morso like something you’d see in a series or documentary. These new visuals too, Spicy Mari and team are continuing to elevate everything, Great Job
Great that she’s happy , but I can’t ignore how many children are getting mixed in this and will grown in fatherless home. Just as much I feel for single mother or single father, it takes two people to make a child because it takes two to raise one . A lot of people don’t realise they will end up a single parent , this woman made a conscious decision not to have a father at home for her kids ….. JUST NO
LADIES this is why we HEAL , get EDUCATED, become boss women before any relationship or after breakups because men will CAPITALIZE on your darkest moments and groom you ! She said she Doesn’t like to be controlled but Nick is literally controlling you without telling you he is this is a narcissist! He cares about his NEEDS aka spreading his seed but does not care about you as a women clearly multiple women being prego at same time no respect for mother of his kids. You guys don’t have a relationship for everybody watching this isn’t a relationship this is a single women dealing with her rich successful baby daddy… he wanted babies she wanted money end of story. LETS LOVE OUR SELFS AND ALLOW God TO SHOW UP HE NEED MORE FAMILIES LESS BROKEN HOMES 50 years from now this will Matter I’m sure 7 years from now this will matter. By this I mean loyalty commitment healthy role models in a household.
💯 I also think she is very Hollywood. Before she met nick she was a struggling radio DJ living with her parents. Now he bought her a million dollar house, a fancy car, a nanny…she’s getting more DJ gigs and recognition & her parents think he’s a god. The way she talks about Mariah…weird in a obsessed way. The kids are going to be in the industry for sure.
She really spoke a whole bunch of nothing. She says she Wants to be her higher self. I just don’t understand how in the future you want a husband but don’t see your kids father as husband material.😭 you have three kids with Nick and you don’t see him as husband material it further proves that you’re in it for money and to be comfortable. I would respect her so much more if she would say it like that instead of trying to make it seem normal. No where in the Bible does it say that. And to top it off HE can go have a million kids , but she would feel some type of way if they had bf? I’m shook with this whole interview. 😭😭😭😭😭
Hmmm for her to go from a toxic relationship to Nick…no healing in between…sending healing energy to Abby. Thanks for asking the real hard questions Spicy 🤍
Spicy is a brilliant interviewer. Abby is a beautiful woman but I feel like she THINKS this is what she wants based on what she’s been hearing… The comparison with polygamy and cheating… no. The fact that she had a relationship that she left due to lack of commitment and faithfulness to say she was with Nick because she didn’t want to be shackled…
Right! those kids shackled her... you didn't have to get in a relationship or marriage them babies did that. I bet she's not traveling and dating a ton of men now with her new lifestyle of multiple kids. NO man is going to find her worthy of being a wife after this because she publicly displayed her lack of respect for herself as a woman that wants to be married.
I can't lie I would love to see a sister wives (maybe even with their own spouses or however they find their relationships) situation where they each get their own weddings and homes on a plot of land that they design or whatever they want they have enough money to figure it all out exactly the way they want. But more importantly they teach these kids how to start a Cannon Trust fund that invests in businesses and manages their collective investments for the next generation. They have the potential to build a self sustaining family estate that lasts generations and grows each generation❤ I pray for them anyway
Respectfully delusion and money you'd accept anything (in trauma cases). A lot of deflecting and not answering. From territorial to poly is totally questionable, but again money and delusion you'd accept anything. I just hope their choices do not affect their children future lives. I'm more concerned about the children than the adult choices. No one cares about these future personality and how they will be affected.
I feel like they both “fix” each other’s problems in other ways for her legacy, purpose, revenue(even if she didn’t want it) and him loneliness because you can’t tell me your not lonely if your having all these kids
He doesn't want them too date but he can have multiple love partners??? The only thing I agree with is that you should love a person for who they are!!!
Thank you for keeping it real with Abby, especially because you guys already knew each other. This was an amazing discussion & women need to see this. I don’t disagree with her lifestyle, I actually appreciate the alternative lifestyle of not worrying about what your man is doing every second. I just wouldnt bring kids into this, my personal decision to live life without bringing kids into my mess
She’s from Whittier. It’s way east and super hot. Not Beverly Hills if you know what I mean. Nick just bought her new house with a pool. Let’s be real she couldn’t do that on her own nor could her dad afford to. The family gets something out of this and me thinks it’s a comfy lifestyle. Having kids isn’t a big deal in her family. Her dad has 11 brothers and sisters. It’s the guy that she ended up having the babies with. He rich and famous!
I think in this case it wasn’t a good 2 family happy home. I also think that the dad is used to it due to his multiple siblings and this is nothing new. She never mention how her mother feels about it so I don’t think her mom is ok with it if anything mom is tolerating it because what’s done is done.
Omg she spoke a whole bunch of nothing 😅 I’ll pray for her guidance and I just can’t and will never comprehend her point of view. I’ll respect her more if she says I like the lifestyle and that is why I stayed. Let’s be honest if it was a regular guy she would not be sitting there making it seem OK.😊
Right, a whole bunch of nothing!!! But I have to wonder just how much money does he have that will give everybody a comfortable life. Example: A person with 2 kids, making $150,000 a year sounds like a comfortable life. But a person with 10 kids, making that amount might be a real stretch.
Also, poly relationships go both ways, but she stated clearly that, although he’s sleeping around, he doesn’t want or expect them to sleep around. It’s not poly. It’s plain stupidity.
This is f-ng nuts!!! This is not what we want our little girls thinking is normal to accept in life!!!!!!!!!! Please everyone teach your daughters better and self respect
So it seems that most people commenting are being very judgmental of this woman. Let me offer a different perspective. What I got from this interview is that the pool of men pursuing her, as well as, her past experience with men has been garbage. So when a man came along and was behaving with some level of decency and respect, she cherished that so much that she was willing to share. It seems a lot of women would rather be alone than to share. I don’t fault anyone for choosing to share a decent man or choosing to be alone. I have the same experience with men. I meet a lot of garbage. For me, I decided to be alone. Not everyone is willing to do that and it’s okay.
I can see your perspective also. I have chosen to be alone also rather than take whatever. But maybe at some point in my life that may change. I truly hope though I don't decide to lower the bar that low. Because when it comes down to it what actually makes you happy or do you just settle for whatever you can get.
She didn’t answer a lot of those direct questions😐No judgement, but 10 years from now when she Re-watches this she will cringe and be so sad that she thinks this is love.
It’s crazy how they so excited for the bare minimum of having Nick Cannon baby nothing else the kids gonna suffer it’s no stability it impossible to be there for everbody and she gonna suffer because he didnt propose to none of y’all 🧐
I wished she loved herself more. It’s sad that this is what she thinks it’s normal and she’s so happy about it. Bless her heart. Those babies deserve a better FULL time father or at least one that doesn’t have a million kids 😒🥺
Mariah would not say any such thing....Lordt. Mariah doesn't want anything to do with this. She literally changes the subject when this comes up. Nick and these women are lucky she loves her kids so much, because they are why she does these women all the curiosity of avoiding questions about this mess. But it's clear she doesn't think too fondly of what they ate doing, hence why she has distanced herself from him.
Me,me,me...What about her children and their health that she puts in danger. If she gets something from Nick she can pass lifelong disease on her children. Nobody talk about it.
All y’all kids share a father and you not looking for no relationship with them but hoping they come together but there’s no communication and certain things isn’t y’all business 🫤 Then getting cheated on is not being poly. The math is interesting here but it’s her life. (Edit: I just want to say from most of her interviews it seems as though she keeps comparing her relationship to the extremes and worst context of monogamous relationships and I feel like that’s bias confirmation or something like that. Even with the cheating comment, bout a lot of ppl are in poly relationships but don’t know it. No, babes that’s just getting cheated on. Nick clearly enjoys having children so yes he’s going to be excited compared to a monogamous person who doesn’t want kids at the moment. Just stand in your truth is all I can say. Cause it doesn’t make the situation sound better or prove any major point)
I hate when women compare monogamous relationships and try to say a lot of men are cheating in those relationships like that’s ok. No, if a man is cheating in a monogamous relationship, that’s wrong too. That doesn’t mean ok, I’ll go be in a poly relationship since I’ve been cheated on, that means leave or, that man better work to regain trust. Like WTH. Atleast in monogamous relationships, I can ask questions and have a right to know what’s going on. Stop comparing poly to monogamous relationships.
I’m sorry she is way to damn old to see life like this she have to be a role model for her kids as a mother first and a woman why would u want your kids to follow something like this she never fully answer ur questions about is the kids meet she talk about what he will get financially is not home he have so many kids by woman it’s no way them needs are meet how you want she not being honest
This is so sad. I listened to her interview on Shan Boodram and I thought she sounded crazy and now listening to this interview, I’m convinced she’s not as secure as she says she is and it’s really sad. Nick took advantage of the fact that she was broken and now she’s caught up in this mess and you can tell she’s hurting. She can’t even tell us how she deals with Nick dating other women. She claims she’s secure but then at the end says she’s not at her highest self. She mentioned Nick is going to be in her life forever and he’s her purpose partner but she wouldn’t marry him and eventually wants marriage. So what will your marriage partner be called, will they be your purpose partner too? Then she says that Nick wants her to be monogamous and would be mad if she dated but he would be fine if she did. GIRL! You aren’t even dating, you keep getting pregnant by this man and he’s trapped you, you’re popping out all these kids by him for attention and then you sit your butt down and be a mom, while he continues to date and impregnate other women. SMH. She can’t even tell us how she enriches his life. There’s no discussion about what he does, and she couldn’t even really explain how he spends time with the kids. She tried to give us a whole spill about how she respected him and how he spends time with the children but he’s literally in and out. This is just sad all around. These women are going to wake up one day and regret this so much. I don’t even think there will be a man who wants to come into this mess.
Ki ki well said. She is comfortable sharing a man and having her children split there time with their father that's on her. Also her gratitude should be to God for giving her children not him. The only thing I agree with is he is honest bc all these women are aware that they are not the only woman in his life. It's alot of yeast infection and Bacterial vaginosis going around and if these women are ok with that then it's on them.
Spicy Mari, you had a very judgmental undertone when conducting this interview with someone you call friend. Were you generally curious and wanting to create a safe space for her to share, or were you looking to find holes in her narrative and self esteem. Not all relationships look one way, and if someone chooses to be ethically non-monogamous that does not indicate that they are unhappy, their needs aren't met, or that they have low self esteem. Your relationship advice does not apply nor is it the right fit for all women.
Do you want to be a wife someday, A wife to Nick ? Her answer: NO! I wanna be a wife to another person…. If he propose I will say NO??!!!🤔🙁🫣plz explain this vision to me???
She probably knows that he never will propose.. he is always publicly embarrassing these women because he always saids he will never marry again none of his baby moms have shown him anything special enough to change
@angiejean-louis8136 it's as simple as this she knows she can't never have him!!! She knows she's not the one God ordained him to be with none of these women is God purposed for him to be with someone else that's from his childhood!!!!
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This is what RATIONALIZING your "relationship" looks like, in order to make it look like you're in control and not being a fool.
When she said a lot of people are in poly relationships without knowing or agreeing to it because their partners are out here with multiple people it’s immediately NO. That is not the same thing.
@Anna R but it isn’t cheating if they agreed to an open relationship.
Thank you !👏
Right. I would respect her if she was just honest and admitted that her and Nick are just sex buddies and she got pregnant for him because he has a few coins and fame. Also, she should just admit that she is the one struggling to make their "partnership" seem deeper than it is and would DEFINITELY ACCEPT being Nick's wife if he asked her.
She's a bird brain. Her parents should be embarrassed .
I think it was a very bitter comment and rude as deflection of how much she hates her situation
I love her openness to make this interview, but it sounds like Nick never gave a clear understanding or confirmation of wanting any type of actual relationship with her. Sounds like he took her from a dark place coming out of a relationship living with her parents and helped her through stability and in the process gave her children. I can understand her gratitude towards him but I feel bad that she doesn’t see she actually deserved even so much more. I feel like any rich man with a loving and giving heart can do that, but did he really give you what your heart truly wanted out of it?
well said....totally agree!
Being cheated on is not the same as being in a polyamory relationship. ✋️ Stop. Own your spot in Nick's harem without equivocation.
Preachhhhhhhhh
Yes that’s 2 different things & polyamory means multiple loves and polygamy means multiple spouses. Theses are two different things . While polygyny is usually part of religious cultures that structure elite men’s access to multiple wives and provides an outlet to support women they have example men in Dubai. One is really religion base other is not and cheating is a selfish act a person in a relationship chooses to do . 🤦🏾♀️ I hope women stop pushing the cheating narrative as being in a poly relationship lik when the told you tha they was gonna be in a monogamous relationship THA’S wht u both agree on which cheating is not acceptable but I agree wit u this is JST a cover up for her to not feel alone in a poly relationship tha she sign up for lik example the nle choppa rapper believes in poly relationship and his ex said lik her she agrees but she thought he was gonna pick only her change his mind but didn’t so he let her go . I agree with everything your saying.
I hate how she refers to him as her partner when nothing about their relationship is a partnership. This isn’t even a polyamorous relationship because this isn’t even a relationship. Even in poly relationships, there is conversation about who they are dating and a true sense of partnership and of committment
This is just genuinely very sad and I pray for healing for Abby and her children.
Same. She seems like she genuinely wants a real marriage and family but got conned into this foolishness somehow. It's also strange to hear her say she wants marriage to another man but has 3 kids with nick cannon. What man is going to sign up for that public humiliation? Did she consider it before getting pregnant twice? Will she have more kids of a new man wants them?
@@perdybirdie what public humiliation is that? If a man wants to be with her and is ok with her having children with someone else then how would he be publicly humiliated? If this is what she wants and eventually changes her mind to want marriage then that’s her business.
Preachhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
This is new to me. The poly relationships I've been privy to, had boundaries as well. Excuuuse me!
This is a classic example of someone with low self esteem. She got trapped into this Cannon mess and is now creating a narrative to make it seem like she is ok with it. She is competing by having another baby. But, Cannon is having babies with so many that she will have to jump off this train at some point. I pray she is in therapy. She still has no power. She is a victim and, hopefully, she will recognize it.
SHE TRAPPED HERSELF! NICK ISNT THE ONLY MAN ALIVE!
@@lisacrawford4501 My thoughts exactly 💯
She’s an intelligent, beautiful woman. She was flattered that he chose her. This will be fun for awhile, but she’s going to want more.
There's nothing flattering about being chosen by a man of the streets. You'll never hear a man say "I'm so lucky this slutt chose me.!" Even tho she had sex with someone else 10 minutes ago, he feels like the luckiest man on earth.
She already said she does. This is just temporary
Her decision to have an open relationship doesn't have any reflection on being a good mother. If being with a man like Nick Cannon makes her happy it doesn't affect my life. But having an opinion doesn't make me a hater either. For someone who says she loves herself so much, she's okay with being #4 when she deserves to be #1. He's going in RAW with too many women to count. You're gambling with your life. He's definitely playing Russian roulette. It's all good until God forbid you catch something you can't get rid of. Then he got the sheer nerve to tell women to do better with their feminine hygiene but he's out here with the DNA of 20 "smelly" women on his cucumber on a daily, but she betta not even have ONE man's phone number stored in her phone. I think these women are blinded by his charm. Charm is not love.
Exactly
Her last relationship damaged her and Nick came at the right time to exploit that. That's why as women we have to make sure we're healed before we start dating. When it comes down to it this isn't what she truly wants. And to expect another man to come in and be her person after all this, is asking a lot.
Hit the nail on the head!!! for her to want more EVENTUALLY from another man it's not going to happen! She said she doesn't want to be cuffed but Nick Literally cuffed her when he put 3 babies inside of her. How does she expect another man to come along and say oh you want to be married I'll take you and your 3 kids in. It's not happening mamas!
Had the same thing happened to me when I was younger, but I made sure to not have kid(s) and I’m so happy for that.
Nick is letting her know also but she has some fantasy about walking away from this like nothing happened. If she finds someone to marry ( I would be surprised because that’s rare to none)it would probably be with someone who has kids or can’t have kids. Then there is the question how long is the relationship going to last .
She decided to have multiple rich genius babies plus she doesn’t want to marry him because she loves him enough to not constrain him and let’s him be free. It’s very smart mating strategy that women had with Kings back in the day.
@@Adonis20529 But if you listen to her she's not happy. She knows eventually she'll want more. I agree with you about the strategy of Kings back in day. But this man isn't a King.
I don’t believe she loves herself, she’s desperate without even realizing it. This is accepting the bare minimum and convincing yourself it’s ok cuz money is involved. All the women nick is involved with have a lack of self worth and aren’t surrounded with people that truly care. There are some ppl that are attracted to chaos and invite it in to there life without realizing it- they all like chaos. Nick is not in a poly relationship- he does not have relationships with any of these women he is only having sex and doing him.
Agree. And she keeps calling him partner but the way he moves is the opposite of what a partner truly is. She sounds like she's in a cult honestly
💯 agree with you! 👏 more I read about his story more I realize the same!!!!
Preacchhhhhhhhhhhhhh
I agree. You can see it in her eyes. She’s trying hard to convince herself she’s happy with the decision she made. How can she say I love that “he’s wasn’t willing to compromise” girl what?? Him not wanting nuclear homes and being monogamous made you love him even more??
I would respect Nick if he was able to get all the woman and children together. This happens in the hood all the time. Being a baby mother really isn’t an honor.
Right like why havent these women all had the kids get together already? Why hasn't nick facilitated this or had the women living close so the kids can grow up together?! This is a terrible situation and they all seem in a daze
It will never happen
When women say it's not about the money, they're clearly delusional. Because i guarantee they wouldn't let the truck driver impregnate several women. They wouldn't let the guy at Amazon do this. The man at Walmart do this. It's not Nick's charming personality that captures yall. It's a plus but it's not what makes yall sign up to be baby mama #1,2,3,4,5,6
Girllll…this is no relationship or partnership or any ship at all. He doesn’t even involve you or let you know about another “s3x partners or baby mamas” which is the basic foundation of a relationship. She is just a self absorbed desperate fool who was wooed by some flowers and his money. What is so sad is that she is bringing kids in this mess like how and when will Nick spend time with his kids if already has a lot more and is busy pursuing women every day. Also she said that’s her best”relationship” by far and that means that she never even had a semi decent relationship.
I agree. She obviously never had anything close to a good relationship, if this situation with Nick is the best so far. She is literally trying to make the crumbs she has into some type of presentable cake. It's not working though because we can all see through the BS.
I wish she would’ve asked her if he’s not worthy to be your husband why have children with him, why not wait until you were married and experience those moments with the person you could actually marry
Right and also what type of man is going to be ok with knowing his wife was willingly part of nick cannons baby mama harem? Especially if she's not having more kids. What man would want that?
She is not worried about his being material. He is super rich. Let's be honest
EXACTLY!!!!
I was waiting for her to ask that question also.
She should have just kept quiet 🤫 cause this is sad. She's too beautiful to be out here proud of being a part of Nick Cannon's harem.
I do not think that he could possibly meet the needs of ALL of the women that he is involved with. He may meet some & convince them to accept the lack of the empty space that is left. He is creating tons of soul ties. Most of these women may never get married in order to stay in his good grace. Certain men (due to their egos) may not want to take on the responsibility of being apart of Nick’s “family”. I pray for the healing of all parties involved, especially the children. I would love to hear from Nick’s parents. I wonder what are Nick’s spiritual beliefs?
These women have no communication with each other and they’re sharing a man and their kids are siblings in separate homes? Sure
This makes people uncomfortable because its something they don't understand or wouldn't be willing to tolerate. but I genuinely feel her happiness and joy. If she's happy/ they're happy.. that's all that matters !
17:30 When she said "He definitely can date but he doesn't want to see you date" hmmm something seems off about this.
Its giving cult leader honestly
I dont believe she’s 32. She’s giving 40. But im happy Nick got her out of her parents home. Good for her.
YES, I thought I was the only one who noticed this. I would actually give her about 45 or 46. She can fit right in, age wise, with Sanaa Lathan, Essence Atkins, Gabrielle Union, etc. and I would not think anything of it.
@@moonsyoungestsun6550 facts I was trying to be nice she does look 45.
It’s crazy how men will manipulate women to believing what they believe. If y’all are so open then why are you in love with him? Make it make sense
I feel like these women are very aware of their choices. To each their own, as long as they’re all happy.
Poor gurl she seems like a nice person she deserves better
I pray she goes back and listens to this because despite my mixed feelings about Mari. She is asking great questions. I have to be fair in my assessment. Praying for Abby’s healing and sending her lots of love
Respect, i may am not understand it and all the women who he is with and have children with but i don’t need to understand it, its her life, live and let live.
Spicy is brilliant not only as a Relationship Expert but also the way she conveys so many messages & extracts so much information from the guest, this feels like more than Podcasting, but almost morso like something you’d see in a series or documentary. These new visuals too, Spicy Mari and team are continuing to elevate everything, Great Job
Great that she’s happy , but I can’t ignore how many children are getting mixed in this and will grown in fatherless home. Just as much I feel for single mother or single father, it takes two people to make a child because it takes two to raise one . A lot of people don’t realise they will end up a single parent , this woman made a conscious decision not to have a father at home for her kids ….. JUST NO
I love Abby! She’s always so positive yet so beautiful ❤
LADIES this is why we HEAL , get EDUCATED, become boss women before any relationship or after breakups because men will CAPITALIZE on your darkest moments and groom you ! She said she Doesn’t like to be controlled but Nick is literally controlling you without telling you he is this is a narcissist! He cares about his NEEDS aka spreading his seed but does not care about you as a women clearly multiple women being prego at same time no respect for mother of his kids. You guys don’t have a relationship for everybody watching this isn’t a relationship this is a single women dealing with her rich successful baby daddy… he wanted babies she wanted money end of story. LETS LOVE OUR SELFS AND ALLOW God TO SHOW UP HE NEED MORE FAMILIES LESS BROKEN HOMES 50 years from now this will
Matter I’m sure 7 years from now this will matter. By this I mean loyalty commitment healthy role models in a household.
💯 I also think she is very Hollywood. Before she met nick she was a struggling radio DJ living with her parents. Now he bought her a million dollar house, a fancy car, a nanny…she’s getting more DJ gigs and recognition & her parents think he’s a god. The way she talks about Mariah…weird in a obsessed way. The kids are going to be in the industry for sure.
This is sad… she’s so beautiful too.. but delusional….. I pray for all nicks concubines and their beautiful babies
She really spoke a whole bunch of nothing. She says she Wants to be her higher self. I just don’t understand how in the future you want a husband but don’t see your kids father as husband material.😭 you have three kids with Nick and you don’t see him as husband material it further proves that you’re in it for money and to be comfortable. I would respect her so much more if she would say it like that instead of trying to make it seem normal. No where in the Bible does it say that. And to top it off HE can go have a million kids , but she would feel some type of way if they had bf? I’m shook with this whole interview. 😭😭😭😭😭
I think Nick puts a spell on these women.
Hmmm for her to go from a toxic relationship to Nick…no healing in between…sending healing energy to Abby. Thanks for asking the real hard questions Spicy 🤍
Just like Bre. Divorced a cheating NFL player to becoming the next baby mama. Carry on tho.
Spicy is a brilliant interviewer. Abby is a beautiful woman but I feel like she THINKS this is what she wants based on what she’s been hearing… The comparison with polygamy and cheating… no. The fact that she had a relationship that she left due to lack of commitment and faithfulness to say she was with Nick because she didn’t want to be shackled…
Right! those kids shackled her... you didn't have to get in a relationship or marriage them babies did that. I bet she's not traveling and dating a ton of men now with her new lifestyle of multiple kids. NO man is going to find her worthy of being a wife after this because she publicly displayed her lack of respect for herself as a woman that wants to be married.
Y'all people in these comments are crazy. Let this woman live her life. If she likes it I love it
Simple… kids for a check and had to agree to only be with him. Plus having some kind of connection to Mariah Carey. Praying for all of them.
Hmmmm. Great interview, Spicy asked the questions people want to ask. Abby gave interesting answers which raises more questions.
She's trying so hard to convince herself. lol
Looking at it like that is so beautiful because your tribe is growing with more love period
Awwww, I love the way she thinks❤
I can't lie I would love to see a sister wives (maybe even with their own spouses or however they find their relationships) situation where they each get their own weddings and homes on a plot of land that they design or whatever they want they have enough money to figure it all out exactly the way they want. But more importantly they teach these kids how to start a Cannon Trust fund that invests in businesses and manages their collective investments for the next generation. They have the potential to build a self sustaining family estate that lasts generations and grows each generation❤ I pray for them anyway
You're a really good friend Spicy
Congratulations again Abbi I can see that you’re happy and that’s all that matters ❤
Sooo she don’t want no cuffs but she cuffed her children to a lifestyle that may not work for them……
Respectfully delusion and money you'd accept anything (in trauma cases). A lot of deflecting and not answering. From territorial to poly is totally questionable, but again money and delusion you'd accept anything. I just hope their choices do not affect their children future lives. I'm more concerned about the children than the adult choices. No one cares about these future personality and how they will be affected.
I feel like they both “fix” each other’s problems in other ways for her legacy, purpose, revenue(even if she didn’t want it) and him loneliness because you can’t tell me your not lonely if your having all these kids
He doesn't want them too date but he can have multiple love partners??? The only thing I agree with is that you should love a person for who they are!!!
Thank you for keeping it real with Abby, especially because you guys already knew each other. This was an amazing discussion & women need to see this. I don’t disagree with her lifestyle, I actually appreciate the alternative lifestyle of not worrying about what your man is doing every second. I just wouldnt bring kids into this, my personal decision to live life without bringing kids into my mess
She may have grew up in a two parent household but something does not add up. Something ain’t right
She’s from Whittier. It’s way east and super hot. Not Beverly Hills if you know what I mean. Nick just bought her new house with a pool. Let’s be real she couldn’t do that on her own nor could her dad afford to. The family gets something out of this and me thinks it’s a comfy lifestyle. Having kids isn’t a big deal in her family. Her dad has 11 brothers and sisters. It’s the guy that she ended up having the babies with. He rich and famous!
I think in this case it wasn’t a good 2 family happy home. I also think that the dad is used to it due to his multiple siblings and this is nothing new. She never mention how her mother feels about it so I don’t think her mom is ok with it if anything mom is tolerating it because what’s done is done.
Omg she spoke a whole bunch of nothing 😅 I’ll pray for her guidance and I just can’t and will never comprehend her point of view. I’ll respect her more if she says I like the lifestyle and that is why I stayed. Let’s be honest if it was a regular guy she would not be sitting there making it seem OK.😊
Right, a whole bunch of nothing!!! But I have to wonder just how much money does he have that will give everybody a comfortable life. Example: A person with 2 kids, making $150,000 a year sounds like a comfortable life. But a person with 10 kids, making that amount might be a real stretch.
Also, poly relationships go both ways, but she stated clearly that, although he’s sleeping around, he doesn’t want or expect them to sleep around. It’s not poly. It’s plain stupidity.
Thank you! I’m tired of people rebranding the word to fit their narrative.
Abby you stunning as always! So proud of you for living your truth in boldness 💕
This is f-ng nuts!!! This is not what we want our little girls thinking is normal to accept in life!!!!!!!!!! Please everyone teach your daughters better and self respect
So it seems that most people commenting are being very judgmental of this woman. Let me offer a different perspective. What I got from this interview is that the pool of men pursuing her, as well as, her past experience with men has been garbage. So when a man came along and was behaving with some level of decency and respect, she cherished that so much that she was willing to share. It seems a lot of women would rather be alone than to share. I don’t fault anyone for choosing to share a decent man or choosing to be alone. I have the same experience with men. I meet a lot of garbage. For me, I decided to be alone. Not everyone is willing to do that and it’s okay.
Yeah ignorance is bliss in their relationship.
I can see your perspective also. I have chosen to be alone also rather than take whatever. But maybe at some point in my life that may change. I truly hope though I don't decide to lower the bar that low. Because when it comes down to it what actually makes you happy or do you just settle for whatever you can get.
I see it as he saw a sucker and took a lick. If Nick is your definition of decent then wow …he is not a decent man at all.
But she shared and is still alone 😢 thats whats heartbreaking
She didn’t answer a lot of those direct questions😐No judgement, but 10 years from now when she Re-watches this she will cringe and be so sad that she thinks this is love.
It’s crazy how they so excited for the bare minimum of having Nick Cannon baby nothing else the kids gonna suffer it’s no stability it impossible to be there for everbody and she gonna suffer because he didnt propose to none of y’all 🧐
I feel so Bad for her she’s gonna hurt in the end
She hurting now
I wished she loved herself more. It’s sad that this is what she thinks it’s normal and she’s so happy about it. Bless her heart. Those babies deserve a better FULL time father or at least one that doesn’t have a million kids 😒🥺
Well he has 12 with 6 woman.
Mariah 2
Britney 3
Abby 3
Alyssa 1 that passed and a maybe she looks prego
Bre 1
Lanisha 1
AMAZING!!!! YOU TWO ARE SO FUN!! FELT LIKE A GIRLS NIGHT IN WITH A BOTTLE OF WINE! Love!!!!
Do You Abby! It’s A Lot Of Open Relationships Out Here In The World!
I'm sorry I feel disgusted by her. The way she exuces his behavior as being a " lover" poor thing is delusional
Since you’ve been in more difficult situation/relationships, do you believe because this is “easier” for you. Is this why you choose to deal with it?
At 34:08 she literally said its Easy for you!!!! You are exactly right!
You see what I’m saying?
Let's all be honest ladies. Having a kid for such a celebrity is an 18 year financial windfall.
Mariah would not say any such thing....Lordt. Mariah doesn't want anything to do with this. She literally changes the subject when this comes up. Nick and these women are lucky she loves her kids so much, because they are why she does these women all the curiosity of avoiding questions about this mess. But it's clear she doesn't think too fondly of what they ate doing, hence why she has distanced herself from him.
Her lashes are distracting af 🫣 its sliding off
Her needs are not met
Me,me,me...What about her children and their health that she puts in danger. If she gets something from Nick she can pass lifelong disease on her children. Nobody talk about it.
All y’all kids share a father and you not looking for no relationship with them but hoping they come together but there’s no communication and certain things isn’t y’all business 🫤
Then getting cheated on is not being poly.
The math is interesting here but it’s her life.
(Edit: I just want to say from most of her interviews it seems as though she keeps comparing her relationship to the extremes and worst context of monogamous relationships and I feel like that’s bias confirmation or something like that. Even with the cheating comment, bout a lot of ppl are in poly relationships but don’t know it. No, babes that’s just getting cheated on. Nick clearly enjoys having children so yes he’s going to be excited compared to a monogamous person who doesn’t want kids at the moment. Just stand in your truth is all I can say. Cause it doesn’t make the situation sound better or prove any major point)
He doesn't love, love, he loves women (and sex) 😂
He is a narcissist with a breeding fetish.
She's only 31? That explains it.
not really lol...
We are around the same age and I find her thought process childish. At 25 I would have found her train of thought childish also.
SHE LOOKS MUCH OLDER!
Girl, what?!?!
I hate when women compare monogamous relationships and try to say a lot of men are cheating in those relationships like that’s ok. No, if a man is cheating in a monogamous relationship, that’s wrong too. That doesn’t mean ok, I’ll go be in a poly relationship since I’ve been cheated on, that means leave or, that man better work to regain trust. Like WTH. Atleast in monogamous relationships, I can ask questions and have a right to know what’s going on. Stop comparing poly to monogamous relationships.
What exactly makes you a “relationship expert”? What degrees, certifications, awards, etc. support that title?
I’m sorry she is way to damn old to see life like this she have to be a role model for her kids as a mother first and a woman why would u want your kids to follow something like this she never fully answer ur questions about is the kids meet she talk about what he will get financially is not home he have so many kids by woman it’s no way them needs are meet how you want she not being honest
This is so sad. I listened to her interview on Shan Boodram and I thought she sounded crazy and now listening to this interview, I’m convinced she’s not as secure as she says she is and it’s really sad. Nick took advantage of the fact that she was broken and now she’s caught up in this mess and you can tell she’s hurting.
She can’t even tell us how she deals with Nick dating other women. She claims she’s secure but then at the end says she’s not at her highest self. She mentioned Nick is going to be in her life forever and he’s her purpose partner but she wouldn’t marry him and eventually wants marriage. So what will your marriage partner be called, will they be your purpose partner too? Then she says that Nick wants her to be monogamous and would be mad if she dated but he would be fine if she did. GIRL! You aren’t even dating, you keep getting pregnant by this man and he’s trapped you, you’re popping out all these kids by him for attention and then you sit your butt down and be a mom, while he continues to date and impregnate other women. SMH. She can’t even tell us how she enriches his life. There’s no discussion about what he does, and she couldn’t even really explain how he spends time with the kids. She tried to give us a whole spill about how she respected him and how he spends time with the children but he’s literally in and out. This is just sad all around. These women are going to wake up one day and regret this so much. I don’t even think there will be a man who wants to come into this mess.
Ki ki well said. She is comfortable sharing a man and having her children split there time with their father that's on her. Also her gratitude should be to God for giving her children not him. The only thing I agree with is he is honest bc all these women are aware that they are not the only woman in his life. It's alot of yeast infection and Bacterial vaginosis going around and if these women are ok with that then it's on them.
Good interview
But Nick could be controlling because Abbey feels like she can't date anyone. He is territorial obviously
Poor confused woman 😔
I think what I'm sure a lot of women think...he must put it down.
I’m a poly person - This sounds like a whole mess that needs therapy
This is beyond sad
wait so who does he live with....
If we are just being honest. In Biblical days men had more than one wife, why is this being looked as new or confusing
The part where she sends him off to be with Mariah Carey is profoundly cringe.
Hmm Mariah has a shirt similar to that Abby. In black and red, 😂
This is so far from healthy
Nyonya Nick Cannon hamil lagilah pasti anak nya pintar bikin anak cewek biar kayak mami nya sukses selalu nyonya ameen.
She’s very ditzy kinda
Girl bye! How can you tend to be a great father to 12 kids!!?? Nick has issues
Spicy Mari, you had a very judgmental undertone when conducting this interview with someone you call friend. Were you generally curious and wanting to create a safe space for her to share, or were you looking to find holes in her narrative and self esteem. Not all relationships look one way, and if someone chooses to be ethically non-monogamous that does not indicate that they are unhappy, their needs aren't met, or that they have low self esteem. Your relationship advice does not apply nor is it the right fit for all women.
All these good looking women going to waste.😂
Do you want to be a wife someday, A wife to Nick ? Her answer: NO! I wanna be a wife to another person…. If he propose I will say NO??!!!🤔🙁🫣plz explain this vision to me???
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She probably knows that he never will propose.. he is always publicly embarrassing these women because he always saids he will never marry again none of his baby moms have shown him anything special enough to change
Chile, let me know!
@angiejean-louis8136 it's as simple as this she knows she can't never have him!!! She knows she's not the one God ordained him to be with none of these women is God purposed for him to be with someone else that's from his childhood!!!!
@@imback936 because it is for someone else that God has for him to change for.
ABBY HAS SELF HATE AND SO DOES NICK!
Chemistry doenst mena soul mate yall. Cuz you can have chemistry with Chaos too
Good watch