My Blasian Daughter Experienced Racism and Bullying in America
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- I actually shared this experience on my instagram and a lot of people thought that the girl was from Yuri's school.
Discussing racism is definitely never fun, but it is a discussion that we definitely need to have. I never wanted this type of thing to happen to my girls, but this experience taught all of us and I will continue to help my girls to be strong and love themselves and stand up for themselves.
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(I’m the guy in this video) Our family is forever grateful for the overwhelming support everyone has shown both Yuri and Dasomi. It is horrible that there are little Vivi’s out here full of evil, born during the time we had a Black President in America. It means we still have a long way to go.
Though I’m not the biological father to these two wonderful and beautiful Black girls, I am a very proud African-American Father nonetheless with the right capability, experience, attitude, and desire to equip these girls with everything they need to navigate this world alongside their amazing loving, strong, and brilliant Mother. I am grateful to be in this position and forever in the service of this family that we’ve created and I promise you all everyone is in good hands. Thank you! 🙏🏾
Ur family is SOoooo BEAUTIFUL~~~U R SUCH AN AWESOME DAD TO THESE GORGEOUS GIRLS!!! AWESOME MOM TOO!!!
You did great! 👏 I don't have children myself but my nieces and nephews are children from my heart. I honestly don't know if I could be this calm if something like this happened to them
@@mychelle446have you ever heard the way kids talk to eachother, they say racist stuff all the time
Chris. I am by no means a regular of this channel but as a mixed race man myself, I stumbled on Lily's channels more than a year ago and was curious. And I commented then because I was deeply concerned by something that the daughter's Dad had said. I then shared my experience to hopefully create reflection in the way his words caused disparity rather than embracing union. Anyway, we know how that turned out.
I just want to say, from seeing this video, I dove in Lily's content anew to see how her life and the daughters have turned out and I must say, you come across as a great man. From one man to another, which I must believe displays a high degree of emotion intelligence and empathy, I am glad that you came into their lives. You show emotional acuity and flexibility and someone who seems very much in control of who they are and through that same control, chooses to be a great human being towards himself and others, thank you for that.
In fact, I might stick around a little longer because it's refreshing to hear you embellish their lives, and for them to embellish yours too I'm sure. Congratulations on finding each other! @chrisjackson9111
@@WhyKlef Thank you! I really appreciate your kind words and much appreciate you taking the time to view our lives on Lily’s channel. You may be interested in my Instagram: @lookupjax 👊🏾
“i can’t say a bad word because i’m not a bad person” she’s so genuinely a good person
Exactly because the word bad word is bad because it also matches bad person
Oh ma gawd IM FAWMUS MAMA😮😮😮😮
She's such a sweet child with great parents
w yuri ❤️
you not lien tho😢❤
She said piss-
Her sister is genuinely so nice she kept apologizing and not wanting harm
No all same
@@AryanHomeland How'd you know.
i feel so bad for the little sister . i would be ashamed 😢
She just didn’t want to get in trouble
Stephanie and vivi arent sisters, they're friends. Stephanie was apologizing because she was embarrassed
the way vivi said that shit with her CHEST actually astounded me, i can't actually believe how nonchalantly she said that shit. i hope she is educated and grows and learns to treat people better and with the respect they deserve.
Yeah. My ex bestie said the n word and I stopped talking to her. She’s exactly like vivi maybe even words.
@@AlixDaAxowow you solved and ended racism.
The little girl with the Hispanic mom is so understanding, cooperative and kind. Although she was really scared bc she knew she was going to get in trouble with her mom if her mom found out about them talking, the older one is absolutely AWFUL. She is obviously manipulating the little one.
I hate the whole situation. She was so apologetic and she didn’t even do anything 😢🥺
It broke my heart when the yuri’s sister said, “why do people think black lives don’t matter?” I can’t believe what our world has come to. Racism must stop.
so true
Yes I've,always wanted to be black❤
Fr everyone is expected
@@veratierrablancawtf💀
@@Youknowitsizzy what?
Poor Yuri. It hurts to see Yuri or any other kids get bullied and experienced racism. Protect these girls and continue being great parents to these girls. These girls are beautiful. Stay strong.
Ok ok ok i understand that she experienced racism and they said hurtful and harmful words against her but i just cant help to notice why is she talking to some stranger on roblox that her mom didnt allow her to talk to? Also ik i might seem stubborn but if they do call her these words i would be upset too but why need to cry?just remove them from your life. If they said something hurtful dont let them ruin your day just becasue of this little things
It broke my heart when the mom said that she texted her “god I wish I was white” as a black young lady this makes me SO SAD like actually. That 12 yr old is literally on my nerves like actually. Nobody should ever think that they should change their self just because someone is saying they are ugly or smth.
I don’t want to be that one person BUT DANG that’s a lot of likes
Same this is so sad😭
IK I WAS TEARING UP 😭😭😭
ONG total drama pfp!! Anyways you’re right. Racism isn’t okay and every skin colour is beautiful.
No. Please stop feeling sad for her. Be strong for her. Empower her and stop pitying her. This is half the reason people keep doing this because they see it’s hurtful. As you can see that ViVi girl didn’t care. Stop internalizing that madness. Understand the ViVi girl is UGLY just like the mom said. Understand Yuri had to go through the motions but she is and will always be the more powerful one in this situation. Yuri along with many other black girls and there is nothing to feel sorry for when you know she is powerful, great, and they are jealous. What she experienced is disgusting behavior from a pathetic individual with pathetic parents and she’s a HATER just like the father said. Please stop this victim narrative and empower and fuel the next generation into greatness. Stop giving these bullies energy and power. They are pathetic little creatures and honestly, she wouldn’t even be talking like that if Zuri was in her face because I can guarantee she’s a coward foreal foreal. Empower those like Yuri, not pity them. Also, empower the little black girl in you because she deserves it. She deserves MORE. Give back to that little girl what was stolen from her and watch how much brighter you shine in the end. You, me, and every other black girl that had to endure this ugliness are great. We just gotta know it and own it because we are ALL worth it.
Can't blame her. The world is very cruel to dark skinned individuals
Im 12 years old myself, but I would never do something like that. Honestly your daughter is so beautiful and I feel so sorry for her. I really hope she doesn’t feel bad anymore and knows how pretty she is.
Love y’all
yes im 12 too and times like this are when teens and tween are told we are horrible. but its not the age its the person
Man am 12 too and doing something like that is horrible and I don’t get why anyone would do those such things ❤
@@user-cx4vq4vn3f age is NOT justification, especially as a TWEEN. I'm a teenager and even as a little tween i would never, 12 is old enough to know right from wrong, especially if they have grown up on social media..
Barging in on all this, coming from an adult- while you may know what you're doing and all... remember you guys are still young, like very young. You guys are still growing and learning, there's a high chance that no they don't know, even if they did spend a lot of time on social media because they might've think it was okay after seeing someone else do it. Also remember people make mistakes, and you just gotta learn the hard way. No this isn't to excuse what had happened, that's not fucking okay in the slightest. And if anything, the parents can also end up as a blame too especially if they talk like that themselves
I'm only 11 and if I was 12 I would never be rude
My anger issues could never!
Same!
Same that girl who said the n word about her daughter should rot in hell
Yea me too
fr sameeeee
Fr
This dad though! He is so supportive and understanding. Beautiful family ❤
The Fact That Yuri Said She Wished She Was White Broke My Heart Not Only Did She Experience Racism She Also Experienced A Factor Of The Jim Crow Law But Yuri I Hope You See This One Day And Understand That YOUR MELANIN IS GOLDEN!! YOUR SKIN AND HAIR IS POWERFUL AND MEANINGFUL BLACK IS EXCELLENCE❤️
Fr, And I’m glad you didn’t hate on the girl, Just simply said that she should be proud, and honestly I’m also happy you didn’t hate on any race here. EVERYONE IS BEUTFUIL! sorry if I didn’t spell that right lol I’m a kid, even if your asian, black, white, ect Your still pretty and I hope people notice that soon.
@@Ellahendrick99 Awe Thank You, And Your Exactly Right Every Skin Tone Is Beautiful And Unique In Many Ways, May God Bless You💕
that girl got that racist attitude from the parents 100% because ain't no way. she is not even scared that she's being extremely racist in front of you, the mother of the child she bullied and had the audacity to call you rude. i felt bad for the other friend, she apologized for the action of that other girl. you guys handled it so well because I could never! your daughters are beautiful, much love
Perhaps. There is a high chances that these kids learn those words or being racist because of Roblox. It's not just only kids play Roblox, but also old guys or people who just trashtalk or bully kids cuz it was fun for them. So not sure if they were influenced by their parents.
@@anemopixie5220 from how Vivi spoke I can tell she knew what she was saying… like she knew it wasn’t a great thing to say but said it anyway event thought I hope she would have a character development maybe growing up she’ll become more mature she’s still young so I believe she can If taught well
@@anemopixie5220 no it won't let you say all of that it hashtag every racist an bad word you say and it will ban you
@@BlackPrinceArmy well how about open mic?
@@anemopixie5220 true but I am pretty sure they did not let her get in lol
This broke my heart. She doesn’t deserve this AT ALL. She isn’t even “ugly” at all. She is a very beautiful kid who has a very nice attitude.
Fr no one should be treated like this. Especially little kids..
Y’all , she called her that bc the girl named vivi called the daughter fat and stuff and she was trying to calm down but she couldn’t , and also vivi is white and she said the n word and called the mom a African b word… so I’m so happy the mother is protecting her children, I’m glad she cares :)
Fr
@margisecor2603 yeah 👍
I’m kinda acoustic rn since it’s 1:05 AM but are you taking about Vivi?
Best parents ever, I loved the way everything was addressed without making her feel confused, scared and not good enough. I genuinely started crying 😭
I love how the dad said that she cannot call a kid ugly very composed attitude
I think she meant to say that she has a horrible heart for saying stuff like that since English is not her first language
@@user-lh2jv3sn6w no I think, out of a mother's protective instinct she actually meant what she said and then changed it...
I don't say it's bad and all, it's just human to protect one's child
But the father really was very calm even though he was stressed inside he didn't show it to the mother or the kids
A young child is in tears from being racially abused, but you are more concerned for the bully, a racist
@@awkward3986 no your wrong I'm astonished at the fact that the father is so good that he doesn't want to inflect back slurs
@user-lh2jv3sn6w ... yes. You are right. Once she explained more, dad understood too.
the first kid sounded genuilenly very nice and respectful and was even apologising for someone elses behavior
real
So true
yeah I even felt bad when she started crying and saying she was scared
right!!
The only reason she started crying and apologising was because she thought something bad will happen to her she thought she would get in trouble so no she wasn’t being nice or respectful just selfish and scared
"You are a very beautiful black girl! You have the most beautiful skin!" I love it ❤
Same she’s so beautiful her whole fam is❤
She is very unique :-)
She is so beautiful
@@Matalima1 and me👍🏾
Don't say bla*ck girl not like that.
Like A beauty ❤
Yes, Perris is in California. I lived in California since 1971 as a Korean- American, and I experienced and still experience racism on a regular basis. Yuri and Dasomi are stunningly beautiful. Both are so kind and caring, and I'm so proud that they are half Korean, too. ❤
THE DAD IS SAYING F-A-C-T-S
Dad is a real gentleman. I wish more people would think and behave like him. So people stop thinking something bad about black people.
people shouldnt think bad about anyone because of race
As a greek person, I would act like her, too. The fact that you brought this up, shows what type of person you are. You probably arent a mother or a father yet. You will always protect your kid at all cost. Also, I assume the parents mustve dealt with racism growing up, a lot. It hurts so much, to see your kid going through this.
I wish more people would be open minded and teach their kids how to have respect and how to behave. They want to act all grown? Then let them get the Grown-up Treatment.
ppl will always think something bad about blk ppl no matter what we do
@@carmellahoney3599 And every race is a victim of racism. Even white people experience tons of racism as a russian lithuanian who goes to a american school, I can confirm. It is terrible that people can think the way those kids on "roblox" did
@@alfredoeraser528mostly black people experience that though stop trying to cover it up
"I wish I was white"
Yuri is beautiful the way she is and Vivi was just straight up rude. Calling other people names and insulting the person leaves a mark on their lives that they may not forget. It could impact them. Yuri is a great person and I support her.
all my friends are black people and we love and respect eachother
I wish I was a boy
@@AkiraOtsuka0-0 same
@@AkiraOtsuka0-0love yourself for who you are ❤
If she only knew how beautiful she is! It's okay Yuri, they're just jealous!
I am so sorry for this whole situation. I am half black, a part from Trinidad, a part Asian, and half from Puerto Rico I feel your pain, and your daughter's pain I hope you don't have another situation like this. BLACK LIFE'S DO MATTER.
Same I’m black/german/mexican and I can relate to her but there is a bunch of people who go through this also. We need to stand up for ourselves. No matter the race everyone should be treated equally and respected.
🙌🏿🙌🏾🙌🏽🙌🏼🙌🏻🙌
She’s such a beautiful person,those people need to learn manners. And the way she said “hella ugly musty rat” or some crap. shes a strong beautiful young lady ! She’s so strong ! Stick up for those bully’s you go girl !!❤
I'm watching this with my 10 and 8 year old sons. I don't know if this helps but they think Yuri looks like a beautiful princess. They want her to stand tall and never doubt herself. They say she is beautiful in so many ways. For me I say- these people who say such things are sad in their lives. Don't let them make you feel bad, just feel bad for them for not having the happiness in their lives that you have. You have a wonderful family who love and respect you. Their love will shield you from these unhappy people. Stay strong and be a warrior! It's really hard to stand up for yourself at first, but the more you do it, the stronger you will get. Love yourself because you are wonderful! Bless
Awww. Thank you so much!! Please tell your boys thank you so much and it is so sweet of them to say that!
Such powerful feedback! Your support will continue to be echoed in everyone's mind. 💯👏🏾
Pura verdade eu concordo com voce!
@@chrisjackson9111 Concordo com voce!
@@LilyPetals y'all handled the situation good, but the kids shouldn't be cussin. They'll grow into it and say it behind your backs.
어떻게 다른친구 어머니랑 통화를 하면서까지 욕을할수있지???? 충격받아서 입이 다물어지지 않는다.. 유리야 울지마 너는 충분히 아름답고 소중한 사람이야 보는나도 마음이 아파서 울컥하는데 부모님은 오죽할지.. 인종차별이 지구에서 뿌리채 뽑히는 날이 오길 기도합니다...
부모가 교육을 어떻게 시켰는지.. 인종차별적 마인드가 뿌리 깊히 박혀있어서 어른이든 애든 미국백인이 아니면 열등한 존재라고 생각하나 봅니다...
이런 역겨운 부모랑 애새기가 아직도 존재한다니 진짜 충격적이네요..쓰레기집안
동네나 학교 친구였으면 저는 바로 그 집 주소나 부모 번호 추적해서 정식으로 고소한다고 찾아갈겁니다
온라인으로 만나가지고 부모나 주소 알 수 없어서 괜히 이 가정만 상처 받았네요ㅜㅜ 싸울 수도 없게,,,
@ㅇㅇ 한국도 저런 애들 꽤 있음
사악한 키즈.. 개킹박네
그냥 인터넷에서 만난 사람인데 무슨 친구.어짜치 평생 안볼 사람인데.
❤️ 😭 Same
Watching this make my heart melt, I started crying, god bless this parents for supporting and protecting her daughter 🙏
6:03 Poor Yuri and her friend seemed so scared “I’m so sorry” “I’m so sorry about her just please don’t do anything to me” I could hear the fear in her voice. I’m so sorry about this whole situation I hope Yuri is ok now!!
I cried and my heart absolutely broke with sadness when Yuri told her Dad that she believed that what those girls said about her race is true and she therefore wanted to be white in order to defuse the situation. The girls involved need to be reported to the social media platform they were on.
I then cried happier tears because I am so grateful Yuri’s parents are full of wisdom and are giving their daughters exemplary/valuable lessons about race, prejudice and ignorance in a calm space.
I additionally cried happy tears when Yuri’s Mom told her second daughter, Dasomi - when she questioned why some people DON’T THINK BLACK LIVES MATTER - that those people hate Black people because Black people are too beautiful. WOW! What a needed analogy for Yuri and Dasomi to hear.
THIS ENTIRE VIDEO SHOULD BE A PSA RUN 24/7 ON SOCIAL MEDIA, CABLE AND NETWORK TELEVISION! EXCELLENT WORK PARENTS OF YURI AND DASOMI! WE ALL MUST PAY ATTENTION TO PREJUDICE AND FIGHT THE GOOD FIGHT AGAINST IT; WE CANNOT GIVE UP!
I pray for and wish many blessings be bestowed upon your absolutely beautiful family.
Mama Bear rocked telling Yuri to repeat after her the following mantra: I’M BLACK, AND I AM KOREAN, I’M KENYAN, I’M AMERICAN, I’M A GIRL, AND I’M BEAUTIFUL, I’M BRAVE, I’M STRONG, AND NOBODY CAN TELL ME OTHERWISE! Never fear, be brave, stay strong, fight back - because you and your sister, Dasomi, have got this! 👏🏽💪🏾🥳🥰💎🌟💐💯
Hi, Tekk Moma. I absolutely agree with you in all of your points. And I, to, really loved how mama bear told her precious and beautiful daughter to repeat after her those Mighty and Truthful words. It was awesome!
Those precious girls couldn't have asked for better parents!
SHALOM SHALOM
B
@@VeaehMarieee ..
That was really beautiful.
@@secondexodus9105 that's reaching. I'm a gentile and a bible believer and I don't hate black people just because they have a different shade, in fact the Bible teaches we all come from Adam and are one blood so darker skinned human beings should not be singled out and hated on. No one should be hated on for what they look like as God made them like that.
The fact her mom stayed so calm was amazing so that she didn’t scare her.
What really shocked me is the fact her daughter didn’t try to hide what happened or lied because often children do that, not due to the fact that their not well behaved , but purely out of fear that their parents will be mad.
this is a f---- king clickbait its looks so false
@@8kun973says the racist.
@@aftonair SAID THE CRYER🥹
@@8kun973 lol
@@8kun973even if its fake, it happens real time
I went through bullying as a biracial kid. I didn’t have the amazing support in this video, which is why I find that this video is helping me process what happened to me. Seeing Yuri’s pain and her asking “what if it’s true?” about the insults, is so relatable and heartbreaking. Of course it’s not true and she did nothing to deserve it. Dealing with bullying is tough, not to mention the other challenges of having two different ethnicities as part of your identity. Thank you for supporting her and being strong together 💪
As a mom and a POC, I'm heartbroken and pissed the F off!!!! I'm viscerally sick of racist, hateful people. I'm so sorry your beautiful baby had to deal with this bullshit. She is blessed to have parents like you guys.❤
I love how her father handled this situation. He was really calm and supportive all the time.
kids these days just don’t act like kids. their innocence is ruined by the exposure to the internet and social media so young. that 12 year old sounds like a grown adult and so disrespectful and out of pocket. absolutely insane. i’m glad you posted this
kids were always like this and worst wdym?
Being racist, disrespectful, and sounding older usually doesn’t come from social media
I agree social media anything a kid can pick up from can really change them. You know what I mean
I agree, I see a lot of younger people who act very mature because of being raised and or very exposed to the internet. I am 12 as well, and was exposed to the internet at a very young age and I’m a lot more mature now because of that. But it’s so disgusting to see how this girl is acting, it’s weird to see someone the same age as me acting like that.
@@-meow.. you are 12 shut up lmaoo
This made me cry, being half black half white. I feel this hurt hard.
I love these parents. Everything about this was great. So glad they had a real conversation with her too.
6:09 oh love, shes in tears. Shes a genuine kid, she knew what Vivi did was messed up. Stephanie seems like an amazing kid.
My niece is Black and Japanese and goes through the same hate in Japan. It’s sad kids are showing signs of racism. It is a learned behavior that must be stopped by the parents. Praying for all children being discriminated upon. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
My nephew is Black, Chinese, and white (but looks 100% black), he lived in China for 3 years with his parents because of his Dads job, a better opportunity for work ( Dad is half Chinese half white, mom is black). The racism, discrimination, & hate was so bad that they left and came back to the US within 3 years of what was supposed to be a 10 yr assignment. He knew racism existed in China as he grew up there, but I guess it's hits different when it's your child. Now they're trying to teach my nephew that not all Chinese people act that way because the mental abuse was so bad to the point of him wanting nothing to do with Chinese kids now.
This counts as cyber bullying… the kids should learn and might as well report it
We can hope the next generation is better all the way around.
yeah
@@kleedasantos3236 im so sorry he experienced that :( its more diverse in the usa and i hope he heals ❤❤❤
Ain't no way Vivi called her ugly.Yuri's face,skin colour EVERY single feature is Awesome extremely beautiful!I love how the parents handled the situation.
(Tysm for all the support all of you are awesome people!💕)
Everyone is beautiful but some…their attitude isnt,I feel bad for yuri
@@Revolzer Same
Why does the daughter talk to herself in 3rd person? She doesnt say i or me but instead her own name?
@@bei6768 I don't know but i don't think that's our problem.Its her choice and her parent's as well:)
@@N0t_Siji i didnt know talking to yourself in 3rd person was a choice, luntics do that.
the younger sister is so respectful, props to the parent/s
She's not beautiful
She's drop dead gorgeous😍😍😍😍
Fr she ain’t no bony head
as a black person this made me cry so hard.
the first place i ever received racism was on roblox.
i never told anyone, and i ended up overthinking it again and again to the point that i wished that i was asian.
a youtube video never made me cry like this before.
back in 2014 when I was 10, I experienced it too. I changed my avatar to be white so that people wouldn't make fun of me. I'm 19 now, looking back at that does tend to make me frown still
@@jer5307 thx for showing empathy:)
You guys are beautiful
I get called paper and yet also experience racism on Roblox. I get told you can’t be racist to white people and people are to me :(. To the point I even changed my character to be darker.
@Cxlestialsunset sorry to hear. We've been around for thousands of years and our ancestors were all different shades. Don't be ashamed of what you look like. There was probably someone else in your family who experienced the same treatment, try to stay confident, be strong and keep going.
"You're a really ugly kid you know that?" Honestly I'm usually against calling kids ugly but that felt satisfying to hear.
@@CrunchyLeaves_ It's not childish if the grown as 12 year old kid started calling Yuri's mum "Black African lady". Her actions were justified and she was morally right with her statement.
ugly can be mean her attitude is ugly, doesn't always mean the appearance ugly
@@hjiha.x😐
@@CrunchyLeaves_ vivi, is that u ?
The man is the only reasonable person.
An adult calling a kid ugly while wanting to talk to her about her calling her daughter ugly?!?! Wtf? She was so immature for that. Arguing like a kid with a kid
This video crushed me. Your daughters are gorgeous inside and out. Y’all are giving them amazing advice and they won’t ever forget that encouraging conversation.
You are a good parent Lilly I appreciate every moment you do to stand up for your girls kudos to you mum. I have 2 girls myself one time my 11 year old faced the same thing at school by this girl who bullied her, I actually called the school the following day and meeting was arranged for us parents to meet regardless of how this whole situation started. Stand your ground girl ❤❤
The mean girls comments really angered me, as a person who isn’t black. The absolute AUDACITY to talk to people like that, especially adults. Kudos to the dad for consoling her and talking to her. My heart goes out to yuri. ❤
lol cuz shes knows they cant do anything to her weak ass b*
Please people keep your children away from the phone playing with artificial people. Go old school have your child involved in house chores setting the table in the kitchen helping you cook not fact foods. Play with your children picture games chess checker tell your children donot talk to strangers play Scrabble with your children teach your children about being in love with God it Buddha or something else with love and giving we must as adult show our children all children how have love in themselves and see the beauty in all of God's children Lord loves color that why we look over the rainbow 🌈. Parents save our children they are the future. Teach your children to be happy about themselves. World is a lesson for us all. Imhotep
The uncomfortable truth is that black people are discriminating against other people of color in the United States, too.
Especially after COVID-19, black people are beating and killing Asians for no reason. I'm disgusted that black people always pretend to be victims.
You shouldn't have to be black to be angry about hate and racism
'cause she IS an ugly kid 😂 it's all explained... She doesn't care of respecting neither adults nor other children. May be they don't have the chance of having parents enough clever to learn them respect and how to spread love, not hate.
Everything the Dad said was ON POINT, he gave so many great advices and he was perfectly careful with the words, that right there is a GREAT parent.
🙏🏾
Anyone can give great advices and speak good words in front of the camera 📷. Do you even know that?
@@ethereal779 not many ppl can. there are some ppl that lack of communication skills.
@@urmom9837 yeah but some who do are just putting on an act. So great communication skills are no indication of what a good person you are. Just saying
@@lindc1070 That's what I mean. These bunches of people won't know. After all. Likewise all these videos are put on the internet just to get people's attention for views and likes. At the end of the day, they're earning and we are watching LOL
this video made me cry uncontrollably… i wish i had this much support from my parents growing. You guys are so amazing for reassuring her about how she should be brown of who she is❤️
This had me in tears. I feel mom bc I was feeling like her when I was listening and watching the video. It’s sad that our youth have to learn these lessons at such young ages. I love the way you all handled it.
The guy in this video is the guy you want to talk to when your upset. Big respect.
I am black and avry one say i am ugli im stupid like .. 🙁
“I wish I were white” that made my heart hurt so much she’s so beautiful I hope she notices it, me as a black i feel so much pain when I see a black person getting hurt or bullied❤️
Im a bengali speaking person from the indian state of kolkata and i love black people the most in the world my best friend he is a sudanese and speaks arabic 😀🥰🥰🥰
Then there's white people who wish they were another ethnicity because of their ancestors. It's sad that people are now turning racism to the white people too thinking that all white people are racist. Very sad. Racism onto white people to support ALM and BLM, etc. won't help.
I had that phase as i child, i wish not all black kids go through that..
Just to address one thing , All mothers do not let your children use that dark evil game, ROBLOX . There’s children, older teens, young adults, and grown adults in that gaming space and it’s dark and not kid friendly at all.
Now what happened to your beautiful baby girl, i am very sorry and as a young black women I don’t think i will ever understand why there’s a toxic ignorance towards black people.
@@Quinn_Wise1 Lol i play roblox 😂
I am crying as I watch this, my heart is breaking for this beautiful, sensitive little girl having to hear the ugliness of racism.
Very emotional but very inspiring vid!!
Shoutout to the parents they're both very mature and good parenting there! Kudos👏👏
Your husband is so kind, understanding, and sensitive to this little girls emotions. It's honestly the most beautiful thing ever
Fr👏👏
He’s actually the boyfriend but he’s definitely involved in the kids lives. She has 2 girls from a former marriage and he has 3 kids from a former marriage. I think they’ve been dating for about a year and a half but have known each other on and off for about 6 years. When they first met, they were both married and both got divorced the same year in 2021 I think. This is just the information I’ve gathered from videos I’ve seen so far
@@Kpopnoona90 well she better make him the husband fr
@@WillowChambers.. right?! I had no idea he was the boyfriend when I first saw this video. This was my first video of theirs I saw a couple months ago
It’s not his kids so he’s just more chill about it
So many people are speaking about the dad and his words, but no one acknowledge the Mother and how she reaffirmed her daughter her beauty, her blackness, and her strength as well as all her other ethnicities, especially her blackness she spoke life back into her. Good job mama thank you for reaffirming to your daughter that she is beautiful and that she needs to also have the spirit to defend herself if needed. as a woman that was very important to instill in her giving her the tools she needs if she ever faced something like that again her black is beautiful ♥️🙏🏽
💯❤️‼️
I love the fact she called her a ugly white kid i CABT but I would curse them out
Best father and mother sis just a good girl like when she is crying the parents show her their love and information to grow big❤
I am so glad that as parents y'all are parenting. Teaching power educating power guiding power. Words cut deep wounds as expressed by children to other children. The fact that y'all as parents addressed the issue that other children are listening and being taught by other parents is awesome. Then you as parents tell your kids how to defend respectfully.
Stephanie is actually a good person! she was actually scared because of her and she wanted things to be resolved
She was scared of getting in trouble
You riiii
She’s not a good person
She is not good person beacus she said i am sorry a about her but i like her as a friend
I bet she was abusive
This is so disappointing and disgusting. Your daughter doesn’t deserve hate just because of a skin color and that little girls words were ugly. You have the complete right to call that kid ugly. You are such a nice mom and an amazing mom for standing up to your kid like that. We need more moms like you!
Agreed.
@@Frosti12That 12 year old is very immature, she definitely learnt it from their parents.
@@r.0ckzstar Then her parents are NASTY horrible people.
She is beautiful and most of all she has a good heart those bully's are blind for not seeing her true beauty their hearts have hardened. Also very good parenting you taught your daughter to stand up for herself I think God would be proud, May God bless you
love seeing these sweet angels being empowered, defended, supported and uplifted by their incredible parents at their lowest points. you guys are amazing parents and teaching them such beautiful life lessons. they will remember these moments for the rest of their lives!
Wow, Dad did an amazing job talking to Yuri. His words of affirmation to her were so beautiful..
You peoples are evils that why your kids also do the same
@@tijankanteh240 wth are you talking about? you people?! shame on you
@@GMANN83 oh please, grow a brain with some brain cells and empathy, he did an amazing job comforting his daughter
@@skinnny2055 let's not be an idiot let's be real about the situation a lot of you white raise your kids and allow them to say the n-word towards our kids black kids I'm not a parent just going to sit there and tell my child just turned the other cheek ,or just ignore them No !
I came up in a racist California area everyday going to school with predominantly white kids they said N$gger like it was your name, as we grew up we learn to go upside their heads in our parents backed because the school system wouldn't, so miss me with your b******* Karen
@@skinnny2055 my father my mother taught us how to do with those racist white kids by mollywopping them, that kept them away from us.
Dad is right, he’s thought are just like mine…
Racism is a mental disease.
Black is beautiful.
Be strong Yuri.
@@bubbakatevsthestate9290 it really is unlike you
@@bubbakatevsthestate9290 wdym like do you mean racism isn't a mental disease or do you mean black isn't beautiful bc black is beaten
@@Geminitwizz what to point out that the races are different? Not equal and race mixing is disgusting and an act against God and nature? That's just like me I point out these facts all the time. So do all my family and friends we promote pure White bloodlines, beautiful intelligent blue eyes blonde haired aryan pure blood children. That's what we like not some mystery meat mixed species hybrids that are nothing like us.
hate is taught, and the best thing to do is to try to understand the person and what lead to the beliefs they have towards other ethnic groups. I am a mixed race (half Indian, half German) and have experienced racism from both Caucasians and southeast Asians. i do not care if someone is racist toward me. there is no point in telling them how wrong their behavior is until they realize it themselves and understand their wrong actions. until then, you can tell them as much as you want, but it will not change them.
@@Geminitwizz please report them I also did
Awww :( Her hair is very beautiful, very well done locs, you're a great mother too.
This video broke my heart! Kids can be so mean and sometimes it’s really hard for multiracial kids because they don’t feel like they fit in with others. But those kids are gorgeous when they get older those girls are gonna wish they had their genes 🧬!!! And great job mom and dad! ❤
아버지께서 화내지 않으시고 친절하게 딸에게 끝까지 잘 설명해주시는 모습이 넘 인자해보여요
미국이라는 나라는 인종차별로 나라를 만들었다
미국에서 인종차별과 총기난사는 나라의 근본입니다 당연한겁니다
미국이 나치국가라는걸 모르고 살아가는 사람들이 많다
미국은 전세계 침략약탈 전쟁 인종차별과 총기난사로 국가를 운영하고
돈벌이를 하는 나라입니다 당신들이 잘먹고 잘사는 이유가 인종차별을
해서 잘먹고 잘사는거에요 왜 화를 내죠???
very good father, discipline very gently and she(yuri) will remember
맞아요.. 멋진아빠…
그러게요 좋아라 저런 부모님이 정말 꼭 필요하죠
신명기 28장은 이방인들이 "흑인"을 미워하는 이유를 설명합니다.
Chris is a true definition of a real Dad . He doesn't jump to conclusions , he analyses an issue step by step. " SAY NO TO RACISM."
@@lilmamagc I know dear . his not their dad you're not the only one that follows them. Negativity is not needed right now we are talking about parental issues .
@@lilmamagc Chris is not their BIOLOGICAL dad, but he is presently performing a "Dads Role" during the mostly "Absentee" biological fatherhood period 😂😂 There has been many times when a NEW stepdad has taken a larger role in a child's life than the actual biological one.. The former NBA Legend name Shaquille O'Neal is a prime example, and so is the present day NBA star by the name of Zion Williamson whose stepfathers has carried more than a heavy load in helping to raise their stepchildren while the biological father was out of the home..
@@lilmamagc Do you have proof that the children spend one week with mom, then FLYS TO KENYA the next week to spend with dad, and if so PLEASE post a copy of the airline ticket since you are so confident? I recently saw a video of that Kenyan dad living back in Kenya with a African girlfriend who was peeling oranges for him to eat, while he was making "Derogatory" remarks about Black Americans, and that he did not want Chris and his Black biological children making negative Black American impressions on them, as if he considers himself to be superior to us inferior Black (Non African) Americans...🤣🤣😂😂
@@lilmamagc You seem to be all in love with him, so you must be a Kenyan.. By the way they are mostly good intelligent people. But I don't like what he said about Black Americans... Can ya dig it lol
@@etruscancivilization they are Dads who are stepping up to raise them, love them and teach them about life. Amen and grace to God for all the Dads who are stepping up ❤
this broke my heart I started crying bless your family you guys are so patient to your children I love how you just talked to her and explained to her you guys are such lovely parents
You and your husband are a lovely team xxxxx
Your girls are beautiful and so sweet bless them. With Caring parents like you both are, able to talk through things like that with laughter your daughters will be okay in life x❤
유리가 정말 본인을 싫어하는 사람들보다 응원하는 사람들이 훨씬 많다는걸 꼭 알게되었으면 좋겠네요. 그리고 크리스님이 정말 현명하게 아이들에게 잘 이야기해준것 같아요. 유리에게는 아직 와닿지 않는 이야기일지도 모르겠지만 아이들이 성장하면서 크리스의 현명한 조언들이 큰 힘이 될 것 같아요
🙏🏾
동감이요.. 크리스님 진짜 말씀 잘하시네요 ㅠㅠ 유리에게 곁에서 좋은 말을 해줄 수 있는 분이 계셔서 다행이에요 :)
동영상보고 확실히 크리스는 정말 든든한사람이구나 싶었어요 저도!!!
진짜 이번 영상덕에 처음으로 크리스님이 좋은 분이란 걸 깨달음. 내가 힘들때마다 이런 조언을 듣고싶었는데, 간접적으로 힐링됨..
크리스 말 너무 잘하네요~ 정말 멋진 조언이예요 👍👍
"I wish I was white"
I started to cry a little. I felt so bad for Yuri, its sad kids can be so disrespectful and racist, all because their parents definitely teach them like that. I'm so sorry.
Not gonna lie that part sent me too 😢. I think that this is something a lot of mixed kids go through at some point or another. The wishing you were fill in the race name here phase.
why does she speak in 3rd person??
@@probablyprin its most likely a culture/language difference.
It’s very sad , but I’m very sorry this is very true.
Especially, with Asias.
"I wish I was white" oh honey, if only you knew those white people come to island like Bali to get tanned.
darker shades are beautiful too.
this is so sad and the steph kid too i am worried about her as well because she seems so scared of what will happen to her so it makes me worry about her home life as well… this is so depressing and you remind me of my mother, thank you so much for looking after yuri… it is so beautiful to watch you being gentle with with her… i am trying to not cry
No one deserves this you are so beautiful and kind. You go girl 🤩🤩❤️❤️
“I can’t say a bad word because I’m not a bad person.” Yuri baby, you are SO right - you are so beautiful and kind and GOOD. I’m so sorry this happened to you. You were just playing a game and wanting to make friends, and they chose to tear you down. They are bad people, and I hope they see that eventually. Stay true to you. Keep being a light in this world. ❤️
😭🤣😭😭😭😡😋😋🤗🤗🙆💅👶👩❤️💋👩🥀🦁🐕🍌🍒🍗🛶🎀🧸❤️🚮
Deuteronomy 28 explains why Gentiles hate "Black" People
You're exactly right. Hateful people really hate themselves and sadly, misery loves company. All the rest of us can do is our part and keep being good people.
@@secondexodus9105 “Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life; the one who comes to Me will not be hungry, and the one who believes in Me will never be thirsty.”
John 6:35 NASB2020
@@Amplize Jesus also says in
Revelation 13:10-18
10 He that leadeth into captivity shall go into captivity: he that killeth with the sword must be killed with the sword. Here is the patience and the faith of the saints.
No black girl,native girls,pacific island girls,Hispanic girls,carribean girls,asian girls,Muslim girls,Middle Eastern girls,any girl of skin or race shouldn’t be called “ugly”they are beautiful the way they look❤️
Stop vôtre fausse propagande les ASCO pro immigration Sava s'arrêter
except for the ones that have ugly hearts. definitely NOT u Yuri!! we support u!!❤❤❤❤
lol the way 'asian' is consistently listed further down these type of lists. and middle eastern at the end, always. subtle, but deliberate
@@siiiiiuu7 i couldn’t think of any of other races or ethnicity’s😭
Amen
You both are great parents, especially the dad. His advice actually made me change the way I think and I’m 24 years old. Thank you for this video and being a prime example of how parenting should always be.
Please show and tell Yuri that FOR A FACT it IS TRUE THAT SHE IS A VERY BEAUTIFUL GIRL! It breaks my heart to see and hear such comments were said watching your video. I’m also proud of the way you two spoke to your daughters about the incident. Sending you and your BEAUTIFUL family my regaurds and love!!
Man the father was so nice! He explained everything and in such a mature way. Those girls are lucky to have such a gentle father and such a fierce mom💗
Father?
@@africaine4889 the guy in the back talking to the mom
I think that's mom's boyfriend. He doesn't sound like James
@@queenstinga3572 Yeah it is
stepfather became a father that day right there, showed love respect and shared all his knowledge
Yuri cries because she has a beautiful, tender and soft heart. She doesn't want to hurt anybody she just wanted it to be OK. I understand how she feels. Look at how wonderful her parents speaks to her. Huge respect for the parents. Yuri was just minding her own business playing her game, and is being disturb by someone. She's so innocent , she didn't even know how to react but cry. Her heart is so pure, she doesn't even know how to hate or react. I'm black, got bullied, so I understand the baby a lot. But I do love both colours, matter of fact every colour.
your such a great parent to stand up for your daughter.love your channel
!🤍
I wish to have her parents. They are the most understanding, loving, calm parents. This incident has actually happened to me but I was in the 5th grade. Yes, my parents were there for me, but my parents are harsh. I’m grateful for that too, it shows how much they care for me, how much they want to protect me. They are beautiful. From a young age, I wish I had dark skin, I really embrace them and I show appreciation for them. im a Hispanic. I hope they should never experience this again. No one should.
as a 13 year old mexican girl, i cried when yuri said she thought that rotten girl vivi was telling the truth. she is sooo beautiful and she needs to know that she has the looks that would make other people insecure. she is a BEAUTIFUL little girl who deserves better than this. also honorable mention to the dude in the video and the mom for the best parenting ever awards 🏆🏆
So what’s your ethnicity? Mexico is just a nation like many others in Latin America. The Americas were colonized. Spanish is just a language from the colonizers. Latinos is not a real ethnicity. You can be any color any background. In fact if you have Native American features and you are calling yourself Latina and Mexican you are basically denying all of those 500 years of fighting against colonization.
@@kingcatx2 well, my skin is white if that’s what you mean.
@@kingcatx2 did it ever occur to you that the majority(62%) of Mexicans are mestizo, thus meaning the majority of the people's ancestors are both the colonized AND colonizer
@@kingcatx2 if anything us claiming Latino just means we accept the truth not deny
@@espyyyyyyyyyyy By accepting their culture and their language. By discriminating and enslaving those that didn’t want to assimilate to their ways. Think about it.
As a twelve year old, we do not claim that bully. Yeah, some teens are brats, but there are a lot of us the have empathy for others❤️
17:16 most diverse doesn't mean shit when most are radically left leaning over there. Their ideology is based on racism and segregation even tho they'd like to preach otherwise. So when when they go online and become anonymous. They start to show their true colours.
@@happilyevernever4289it’s not just democrat party that’s racist please wake up to reality. Both sides are overflowing with it and always have
I don't know you but I'm proud of you
@@Lunarbutterflytarot thx lol
Fr
I am so sorry that poor girl didnt deserve that! Some people can be so cruel and mean! You handled it very well mom! ❤❤
The way the dad communicates and advices her is very healing to me actually. The way he goes about it seems very understanding and aspires me to be able to communicate and have that same mentality.
Ugh the way she just calmly explained you don’t do that but didn’t focus on that and stuck to the point her daughter had been disrespected is so amazing. 😭😭💓 best mom ever.
아빠가 진짜 차분하게 본인 잘못이 아니라는걸 알려주면서 해결방법도 알려주고 먼훗날 교훈이 될거라고 설명도 해주고 진짜 좋은 아빠다 이제 또 같은 일을 당하더라도 유리 스스로 잘 해쳐나갈 수 있을거야 유리야 당당하고 자존감 높은 멋진 아이로 자라길 바래❤
그러게 한국인은 일단 너가 엄마말 어긴게 잘못이라고부터 나오는데 ㅋㅋ
전형적 한국인스탠스..
Father. ❤ super wise father
@@user-cp4nr1uk6e 진짜야.... ㅋㅋ
I like how supportive this mother is to her daughter, You can the genuine friendship there ♥️🥺
I was bullied in university. Thanks to little sis. I remember my little sisters and best friend always fighting and standing up for me. It gets better lovely ❤
저 아이는 유리가 흑인이 아니었어도 다른거로 괴롭혔을 아이에요. 그냥 심성 자체가 못돼먹은 애들이 어딜 가나 한명씩은 있더라고요. 유리가 자신이 가진 개성과 장점을 항상 기억했으면 좋겠어요. 그리고 슬프지만 저런 사람들은 어딜가나 있기때문에(나이를 먹어도) 이번 기회로 좀더 단단해졌으면 좋겠어요!
맞아요..자존감이 없는 아이가
남의 약점을 학대하면서 자신이 우월하다 느끼는것임.
그렇게 잘못된방식으로 자존감을 채우려하는것임.
충분한 사랑과 보살핌을 못받고 자란 미숙한 아이인거지..
유리는 자기 대신 화내주는 엄마가 있어서 감정적인 위로를 받고
차분하게 문제를 바라봐주는 현명한 Chris가 있어서 정말 든든할듯 하네요.
유리는 행운이네요.
Chris.. 릴리님에게 다른 아이에게 ugly 하다고 말하지말고 부모랑 이야기하라고 할 때, 속상한 릴리님과 유리를 차분히 달래줄 때.
정말 멋진 어른이네요.
그러게여
저두 똑같은 생각 햇는데.. 크리스님 멋져요 지혜로운듯.. 한편으론 릴리님은 엄마니깐 또 이해는 가요.. 저도 같이 막 뭐라고 해주고 싶을거 같아요..
유리에게 일어난 일은 정말 끔찍하고 가슴아프지만 정말 크리스님과 릴리님의 콜라보가 너무 멋져요. 우리 유리는 참 행복한 아이입니다!
신명기 28장은 이방인들이 "흑인"을 미워하는 이유를 설명합니다.
This made me cry I feel so bad for yuri she deserves better . And that is such good parenting best parents award ❤️
This video warms n comforts my heart from my childhood. I do wish parents taught their kids this way more. Which is coming from a girl who's parents used to use violence n lots of negativity to make me feel like the worst daughter/person in the whole world, even when I truly was a good daughter/person. No matter the race or color no one perfect but special in their own ways. Thank you for posting this video sharing how life is fr at some points. I just know ur daughter feels so loved n cared by yall, you both are one of the best parents ever. :)
Someone Get This Mom And Dad An Award 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Nice pfp
especially the dad, he brought the daughter water.
@@MadhavManikandan-uj8yd thx
@@NYC_Rayy but the mom comforted her the whole way through
@@urfavmo1 ik im jus saying
Crazy how a 9 year old is more mature than a 12 year old.
Maturity is not necessarily due to age.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Maybe not but it’s still surprising
I think it's totally depends on your parents
@@iloveyourmom69 Not really..,
@@arandom18yearold77 Parents is one thing but a big part of it is your experiences in life too.
I've never seen someone go through racism before. That was sad.
I really liked how the father handed the situation, trying to understand her point of view and blowing it away... That's really nice way to prevent the feeling from growing with time. I believe when we get hurt it's like a cancerous tumor, we need to take 100% off the bad tissue so it never come back and grow uncontrollably.
I hope she can have her head always free from self destruction, and always full of love for herself, her story and her family.
You both did a good job 🫶
This dad is genuinely such a great man. Good on him
She didn't deserve this at such a young age. It wasn't fair on her, and it won't ever be.
The fact that she said she couldn't say bad things because she wasn't a bad person just shows how innocent she was.
I hope she is doing good now
Df I will Have the next few weeks ago but it urgent
Easy korean
NOBODY Deserves to be Aggressed because of the color of their skin! No matter what age they are. There is NO excuse for that Crap in today's society. I totally agree with Dad 100% , every word spoken by him was cool , calm , collected and Empathetic , Sympathetic and Understanding.
By same token I also get Mom's attitude , she's used to being confronted and cut down for the color of her skin/race! That is SO sad and heartbreaking. I get why she's suggesting fighting back too , but I would only condone that when being Physically aggressed ; Somebody punches you , punch them back twice as hard! Someone kicks you , kick them back Twice as hard, then walk away and immediately go to your parents. Just don't throw the first punch , Ever...no matter how hurt or angry their comments might make you. Walk away , knowing you are the better person , always ; Because Yuri said it best "I can't hurt them because I'm not a bad person"! She's a little sweetheart with a heart of gold❤and I'm SO sorry there are Still people like that Vivi in the world. But Dad was right, it is getting better! Black Lives Matter! ALL innocent Lives matter , no matter what color! We're all the same under that silly skin , that's just the wrapping , it's what's inside that counts!!
We need a ressurgence of the 60s : all we all need is Love !!!
Ya
Tjr fact that she is not in trouble for giving her phone number+ showing her face.. im not trying to be mean but somebody said that he will kidnap me and that how it ended.. it was not even my fault!!! Also poor girl.. she deserve real friends :(
As a 14 yr old it is absolutely shocking for me to personally see 12 year olds saying these kind of things and I’m so sorry Yuri had to deal with that. I hope you guys recover.
ikr..
fr though like sad fact most 10 year olds are probably like that 12 year old
If you need to "recover" from *this* then your family needs a *lot* of help.
As a 16 yr old who plays Roblox, I’m not surprised AT ALL. Kids on there r so racist for no reason at all
@@kissesfrmkj literally. I'm 13 and for my past few years on roblox not suprised because I used to get racist comments about me like people who call me racial slurs
These conversations are so hard and they did a good job and I’m glad we got to see it and experience it in its raw form, to show it is hard and theirs no perfect way to parent. This is real life.
These poor babies. I just want to hug them and say not all people are mean. My heart 💖