Help My Out-Of-Control 14-Year-Old Sister! | KARAMO
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- Eric wants his 14-year-old sister, Melanie, to start acting her age. Eric claims his sister has been arrested 4 times, smokes marijuana, and stays out all night. Melanie feels that her behavior isn’t reckless and thinks her older brother is just being over protective. Will Karamo help this out-of-control teen?
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0:00 - Out Of Control 14-Year-Old Sister
2:46 - Melanie Joins The Show
5:10 - Dancing On TikTok
5:54 - Stop Judging Me
7:38 - Living With Trauma
8:57 - Karamo Sees A Smart Young Woman
11:47 - A Challenge From Karamo
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Nope. I saw enough in the video i watched about a month ago.
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yall say she’s too grown but her innocence was stolen. how can she be a child after that.
EXACTLY
This actually hit me hard😞
Absolutely Right ❤
Exactly
This right here.
The fact that her parents are not there and only her 20 yr brother says a lot.
Exactly
He has a whole yt channel and tiktok and he be putting her on blind dates with people like what 😭
righttttt
@@maje7380 really? What’s his YT channel name ?
@@maje7380 so they faking?
I just love how the 2 grown ass women were so quick to attack her, but got real quiet when she’s told them that she got SA’d
right!
Exactly! I thought the exact same
Naa fr shit pitiful
Literally
@@user-th1tm6vi3s like you’re literally literally arguing with a child when you don’t even know what was going on with their life
the lady in yellow IMMEDIATELY looked down when she heard what happened ☠️
Right😭
shi had me dead😭😭
acting as if you werent judging her at the start asw LOLL
@@cscerr he kept putting his sister in such a bad light which is true.. but he admitted that he knew about the SA.. like what..he aint connect the dots?
Hi@ Adored Meow • 1Mo ago, my name is Tracy Shipman your new friend from Columbus, georgia and #202-D and I think that Melanie should listen 🎶 and learn how to trust her self and I do care about Melaine because I was in the same way like her and brother Erickson, but still don't do that it will happen to them and I hope that Melanie should keep in touch with me (Tracy Shipman from Columbus, georgia and #202-D) ❤😢😅🎉
Them 2 ladies going back and forth w that girl judging her before hearing what’s actually going on is more immature than how they think she’s acting smh 🤦🏽♀️
They shouldn’t have been able to do that to her, she’s still a minor.
Yes it is how can people judge when they acting immature they should know better . And it could of been one of their kids smh it's really not right
tell em
Then you saw how they got quiet and held their heads low after she mentioned why she acts the way she does.
@@lifewithzinnah yup dumb asf
I don't appreciate grown ass women attacking a child like that...this young lady has so much potential to be amazing and she's stronger than I was at that age. That was a disgusting act on the audience's behalf.
Fr
Man she from New York she can handle it
Right.. I just wanted to hug her✨
@@likeprincetj lol we’re done here
@@jaeeluv me too
Crowd went real quiet when she explained what happened to her
For real 😂😂
The self completing prophecy, abused to justify oneself participation to ratchet/ghetto culture
Well I hope they would be quiet
right they just like to judge her 😐 but don’t even know the full story she’s just mature for her age and releasing her pain by just doing her
the audience owes her an apology
Yes
fr bro as soon as i saw the title i knew smt was up
I hate how adults think a child acting out is just "wild behavior" without actually tryna figure out what is wrong with them💔
Fr like sometimes the solution to the problem is to talk to them about it
faxs
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Girl bye your a child your self u wouldn't understand
This!!
She came out angry because she felt that type of energy from the crowd but notice how calm she was when karamo just let her talk and say what she gotta say with no judgement this young lady got a story to tell and she just want someone to listen and not judge her in the process
Exactly
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everyone's got a story to tell... do we all have to listen
yawn
@@akjohnny5997 you don’t..but you’re here so you made a choice.
Having a brother like this who cares and wants the best for you is an undeniable blessing 🙌
I could only wish to have a brother like him!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Like whose helping him?
@@Whykeisha EricksonNYC is his YT & he basically exploits her for views 💀
@@Dutah64 ooooh!
@@Dutah64 Exactly.
She loves the attention Karami is giving. He’s soft spoken and not dictatorial with her.
This is the same brother who let a grown woman talk to his sister crazy I have no respect for him.
@@user-jr9iy5ju4iHe is young but at least he cares.
Hello
How are you doing
@@user-jr9iy5ju4iKaramo isn’t the brother, it’s the guy helping them through their problems
I'm 15 gonna be 16 on 6th April 2024 and now I'm 16
The grown women in the audience trying to argue/belittle this young girl before they even know what she's going thru? It's embarrassing honestly. I hope Melanie keeps her head on right. With her attitude she could achieve great things!
that what I was thinking
They should've put the 📷s back on them after she said that.
Right
Totally out of line, judging her like her family, isolating her from the world more
@@auzy2u845
They did a little bit the woman in the gold shirt had her head down
the fact that those the adults looking down and all shy as soon as she told her story right after they were belittling her will always stick w/ me.
HONESTLY that was my mothers reaction to finding out I was sexually assaulted after I literally could not speak to her about anything for more than 10 years lmao she just randomly asked me one day and I answered, she never even talked about it again. Acted like she was disappointed
@@elsiem7295 Maybe she is disappointed that she did not know and could not protect you from it?
Fr like My mom is very Mean to me for no reason and I wish I was adopted
That’s why he don’t wanna have people call out during the show
People are quick to judge, that's the problem with the world.
This poor baby. My heart broke when she said she was violated & nobody believed her. 💔 I hope she’s okay & her brother can support her how she needs. She’s a bright young lady & she’ll be okay. 🫶🏽
Idk how people don’t seem to understand that this causes RAGE. At least she has one role model that really loves her.
Her brother is an angel, he is so respectful. He will make a good husband
For her
@@Rcecevebb773 lmaooooo
The fact that she seemed so shocked that he understood her perspective speaks mountains. Her being so happy at the end when she realized she wasnt as alone as she thought she was really goes to show you she really only needs an understanding human to take the role of being there for her.
yesss
Nah fr Melly is sweet and how does anyone expect her to be a normal when she experienced all of this stuff
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@@LJDiariess she does seem sweet, and that’s exactly why people who love her need to correct her behavior instead of reinforce it and justify it because it will only hurt her. No one is normal, and lots of people go through horrible things but the ones who make it through and can still have a happy healthy life are the ones who work through it and don’t let their past dictate there every action and emotion.
@@katiekat8329 fr and Erickson wants Melly to get back to reality but he’s been making videos with his friends doing the reality check
the audience changed as soon as they heard her story
Exactly. I don’t think the audience should be able to antagonize the guests, she’s still a minor regardless of how she acts or what she says.
the audience is out of order. not the grown women arguing with a teen..
@@yasmeenmoore577 that’s what I’m saying, I agree 1000000% .
@@3LWSTAN exactly.
@@3LWSTANtrash… those the type that would try to fight a kid too instead of going to the mom.
karamo should really control his audience, the way those women were talking at her and nobody told them to hush was insane.
The host "karamo" is a joke.
Im not sure who is the most stupid... is it the gay guy that is trying to advise straight people on relationship advice, or are the people getting advise from a gay man?
What made you say "karamo" should control his audience?
@@helloeveryoneee the fact that he is the show host and who the show is named after, therefore he is the person who directs the flow of conversation on said show (and the audience by proxy). it is literally *his* audience.
@@FT-vv2lo for you to make such a stupid comment i have to assume you are also gay
now the crowd wanna go quiet after hearing her backstory 🤣
The two ladies in the audience should owe Melanie an apology because the way they were arguing at her was insane. As soon as Melanie told her side of the story, the audience got quiet so quick. It shows that people need to stop judging the book by it's cover and should listen! Shoutout to her brother Erickson for being the big brother and helping her out. I hope Melanie gets well and succeed in the future.
Edit: No, I do not condone her actions but no one should judge because you don’t know what people go through behind closed doors!
ok
@@duchuynhvuong1733 mad asl😂
@@chelseabrown6767 All they said was “ok” there was no emotion behind it. They didn’t even use punctuation and it was likely put there for a reaction.
Why would he support her shaking her ass? He should not
You don't know what judging the book by the cover is. Judging thr book by the cover means you don't know anything at all but you made an assumption. Clearly, everything the brother said and out of her own mouth, nothing but bullshits
As someone who’s went through similar experiences as a child, it really isn’t easy to “act your age” anymore. Someone stole our innocence. Acting older/dressing older is our defence mechanism, not because women don’t experience s.a, but just because we be the adult that should’ve been there to protect us as children..
I’m so sorry to anyone that’s experienced/experiences assault of any kind. My love goes out to you all… 💝
I'm 15 gonna be 16 on 6th April 2024 now I'm 16
Why are the women in the audience arguing with a 14 year old girl like-💀
Same thing I’m thinking 💭
This was my student. She is a very smart young lady. Brilliant matter a fact. She just need guidance, love and support. She’s going places in life. Don’t give up on her
@@noraonitthat’s what they literally said...
@@estela_agbegninou8337 LOL reading is fundamental 😫😂
@@MontanaDior Nah comprehension is fundamental in this case 😂😭
@@lizzyezekiel116 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The way her attitude changed.From Karamo having to ask her to hug him with both arms at the beginning to her basically jumping into his arms with a big smile at the end.she finally felt understood. Good Job Karamo
@@jmoney6825 who tf would stage being raped? maybe those other shows like maury and shit fake but this one not. i follow melly and erickson and she’s been acting like this for the longest.
@@jmoney6825it’s not staged .
Bro is Hella sus , giving off mad Predator vibes
@@catra195 I'm kinda agreed with you,i mean what is up with the hugging her twice though?it seems kinda odd!🤷🤷
@@ryankhan5942 fr man, somethings off with every aspect you could examine about this man tbh.
I feel bad for the brother. No one took the time out to acknowledge his feelings or ask what his needs are. He has been going through this with her and obviously taking on a role that he didn't ask for. He is very young and doing what he thought was right and the best way he knew how to be there for his sister. I'm sure he left feeling just as sad as he came there feeling. All the attention was on her. The expression on his face when the host hugged the sister and not him was sad.
Yea his sis ruined his reputation. His friends must laugh at him .. her sis need to understand that too. It's not only about understanding herself. She seems selfish and doesn't understand bro sis dynamic. But since shes a kid , she has chance to become refined.Both are from same parents and brother is more better mannered
@benj1827 I agree. She's young but definitely selfish and dismissive, but she may change.
@@benj1827you said a bunch of nothing, he shit just like family, he knew she was rape and her innocence was stolen from her and brought her on this show so them grown old ass women can judge her, fuck his reputation and everything.
@@Thekween-sl2wdhow she selfish
helping him help her is the best thing he could do for him
Now compare this to Dr.Phil. Karamo is such a loving and smart and genuine person who is ACTUALLY helping people and not just exploiting them for views. This was so wholesome I'm gonna cry for real now.
I respect the host so much. Unlike other host he acts his age and doesn’t pick on young guests and really tries to understand them. Great show
Huge respect to him 👏👏
hes so lovely
yessss
Like dr Phil
Yeah like Dr. Phill
It’s the two GROWN women arguing with a child for me especially not knowing the whole story . She calmed down when approached the right way 💕
Exactly bro, they pissed me off.
They blew tf out of me! Like she’s a child tf
agree they were literally as immature ad that girl or more its very sad
But what’s stupid is that there are girls who act hyper sexual on the internet and were not raped. This just contributes to that myth that hyper sexual woman or girls must have been raped which although for some it’s true, for others it is not. This just is a way for out of control teens to gain acceptance from the public and their conservative morals/values and so they have to be like, “oh I act this way cause I was raped.” But like I said earlier, some people act sexual and were not raped. This is such a stupid myth that is being fed to the idiotic public. Some teens act up- don’t mean they were raped. This just stupid.
Itz her being disrespectful to her elderz for me. She has no respect for her big brother or parentz meaning she will have NO respect for otherz living selfishly recklessly doing her. My heart hurtz for her Big Brother cuz the same way she came there and told a complete stranger what happened to her she can voice that to her parentz and brother. or write it out in a letter to express her pain or thingz that she experienced. She probably was violated because she was somewhere doing something she wasn’t supposed to be doing az A lil girl! Do NOT get me wrong I know that people handle and deal with traumatic thingz differently and having been a young black girl lost in the streetz HEAVY starting at this same age I identify with that trauma. However because I HAD JESUS at 12 I endured every attack and survived NOT being disrespectful to my elderz, or to those who I knew loved me the best they could. Nobody comez into this world or leavez it perfect. This nigga Karamo was NO help for the brother at all. If you let folk play the victim role they usually stay one! 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
Karamo is such an amazing host. He isn’t exploiting these people for entertainment like so many other hosts. It is clear that he truly cares to understand the perspectives of everyone involved. This show needs more attention!
Also, I have faith that this girl will find her way. She’s so intelligent and has demonstrated so much resilience. Stay strong💜
I feel like that big brother is holding back tears 😢 I think he's the best big brother you could have ever asked for 💙
For people saying being raped isn’t serious or can change someone .. yes it can it can change people & make them come sexually active ALOT . It’s a cry for HELP
As a victim myself, it can make you do a 360. It’s awful and they just need help
@@naiyaalysia5152 , blessings to you ! I am sorry 🥺,EXACTLY people are saying it don’t cause you to act out YES . Same may be hypersexual , or some may act out /outburst
YES. Especially if nobody believed her. That must have been so traumatizing for her and there was no one she could go to. That's a big reason why she would change.
right
It definitely changes u. I didn’t even know I was a different person but my big brother told me one day “I know you’ll never be the same” n it lowkey hurt 🥲
Melanie needs that love that her parents never gave her. Hopefully she turns her life around and make better decisions in her life. Kudos to Erickson for being the protector for his younger sister.
Her parents didn’t give her love? You know them personally?
where did you get that ?
Why are y'all asking "where did you get that" when she quite literally said it herself. Her mother and father was never around and her grandma took care of her?? She was raped and no one believed her, I'm assuming her own parents as well because I'm pretty sure she would clarify that otherwise. She lacks support and her behavior shows that, if her parents truly loved and cared for her they would've been the ones getting her help or would've took her to this show.
Her father works twelve hours a day that’s more than enough support
OnlyFans will be available in a few years 😂😂
What she experienced is why she is that way. She’s hurt and she need love support and counseling to help her release her hurt! God bless her!
She’s so beautiful. She has mad potential 🤍
I got tears in my eyes. Sis needs a huge hug and kind people around her
hug her for talking maruan!!!!
Girl what he’s kind but what is there nice to say about being fast and going to jail ? An flunking in school
@@Veethedon1
Sorry I don’t understand your comment.
First of all she don't need no kind of people around her she shouldn't be smoking and doing other stuff she know what she doing she ain't no baby
@@lizette5392
She’s fucking 14. She’s a child! She needs help from professional and she’s been assaulted as a really young age. Her behaviour is a consequence of deeper things that needs to be fixed. Stop being dumb and judging a child’s behaviour as if she was a grown 25 years old woman.
SHE’S A BABY who’s pretending to be an adult.
As a woman who was molested and raped in college (Have a 27 year old son from the rape which I kept) , I pray for this baby. My mom didn't believe me until I finally saw my abuser at her house and wigged out!! He started to apologize and that's when she realized the truth 30 years later. My method of coping was violence. You can't begin to understand the mentality we have after such trauma. I'm just really starting my healing journey at 47.
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@@lifebehindtheselens who pissed in your cereal
I am sorry to hear about your pain. I will pray for your full healing beautiful soul. I hate to see people going through painful journey.
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💓💓💓💓so sorry to hear that!!!! U r so strong and beautiful
We saw her eyes warm up when Karamo mentioned his support in attaining her goal going up one grade. I love him and his work so much ❤️
Who argues with a child? As an adult you show compassion towards a child and try to understand them.
I was like this when I was 14 as well. I became extremely hypersexual, and I was doing destructive things to self soothe but I had to get it together, and at 22 I’m so proud I did. She will get better, she just needs love and support.
Same ☹️. No one talks about the hyper sexual part
I went thru this same thing and I am 22 years old as well. Honestly sometimes it takes life to teach you in order for this behavior to stop
@@Briisari I wish there was some sort of girls club to talk about this lol. I was exactly the same and I am now in my late 20s
i was the same too, i really relate to her so much
me too. and it’s so just like hard to like tell people why i was the way i was
you see how the crowd switched up after they heard PART of her story???
right??? that actually made me so infuriated
Right and the lady arguing with her.. like ur literally arguin with a child
So what she arguing with her " she want to act growth so let somebody growth argue with her so what she's a child
@@Selfmade_liyahh but the child acts too grown too like she said she acts mature if u gonna act grown u gonna be treated like u grown and those women didn’t like her behavior they telling her to be home not the streets especially talking to her brother like that! she needs to respect adults especially people who care for her !
@@Selfmade_liyahhand the child doesn’t respect 😢adults she think she grown soo i feel those ladies didnt like her behavior! yea her being R@ped isnt the only reason why she’s acting like she does ! her brother obviously wants whats good for her and be around go influence! but she’s feels like she has sum to prove
going out all night, doing drugs, hanging out with sketchy people, stealing stuff just cause you can, and getting arrested (ignoring the repeated behaviors that lead to the arrests), etc. A reality check sounds like it is really needed. her brother is right to be concerned.
The way Karamo was there for her was so moving to watch. 🥺 When you give you people support instead of trying to discipline them, all your relationships will improve. ❤️ I hope they tote can be the family they both needed when they were kids ❤ Thank you so much for this episode. Moved my heart and made my day. ❤
This little girl acts grown because her childhood & innocence was taken from her. Some people can’t just go back to being a kid after that. Then for the adults in her life to not believe her, that probably makes her rebel against them! She needs a mentor that has been through what she’s experienced so that she want spiral out of control & that she doesn’t lose sight of her worth!
For them to NOT believe her...They better be lucky THAT’S ALL she’s doing!!!!!
Young lady please get the help u need
@@myrthasmascary4086 lol who are you speaking to?
What is acting grown
I love how gentle Karamo is, much better than other hosts
I think with Karamo's approach, he achieves more than Dr. Phil.
Sometimes, all a person needs is for someone to SEE them. See the pain, not the behavior. I hope this will lead to positive steps moving forward for her and her family 🙏🏿.
I can relate to the older brother. When parents put siblings in a parental role it can cause challenges in the sibling relationship. Her parents need to be the ones providing discipline and boundaries.
the adult women belittling her in the crowd and karamo just letting her talk and trying to hear her out is a prime example of emotional intelligence in our youth. Like he said “most of these kids need support not discipline.” Of course she’s going to be annoyed at authority now, Nobody cared about her til it started to affect them. I hope things go her way.
Amen so well said! 🙏
This is a prime example of "Dont judge a book by its cover". Rape/ Sexual assault changes a person not only mentally, but emotionally and physically. It will change a person's mindset about every single person they come into contact with. As a victim myself, rape is not something to take lightly. I also work with kids who act just like Melanie. It takes a person to show that child LOVE, and to open our ears and LISTEN because their misbehavior; 9 times out of 10, ITS A CRY FOR HELP
Yes I’m 22 and I struggle to have sex sometime with my man because of what happened to me and we been together for year thank god communication is key 🔑
she seemed so happy at the end oml. I hope shes doing so much better now and i hope her and her brother have a good relationship.
I hope the audience, especially the two GROWN woman going back and fourth with her, know that that particular clip goes nearly viral on multiple platforms like every 2 months… and everyone is laughing at them for how fast they shut the hell up when they actually reminded their place as an audience member and let her talk
She doesn’t realize how much of a blessing her brother is.
I don’t blame her after the shit she’s gon through she probably doesn’t know what it feels like to be cared for.
he’s not he exploits her on social media
Her brother is literally the parent here. Her parents failed woefully in Thier primary duty.
@@adri2584 exactlyy
When Karamo ask do you want better for yourself she ain’t honestly telling. The truth and the fact that you wanna do a lash business u wild Melly
Now that was a powerful episode!
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Every time Karamo was saying things in understanding of this young lady, I could literally see her shoulders, and guard drop little, by little. She is dying for someone to listen, believe, and understand her. Save her before it’s too late.
True 😭❤️
Well because what about his side of the story because trufully even tho someone tried to help I didn't see one person place or thong shut up sit down or listen to let alone ask about him his own self or give a darn about what's bothering him to be pointing our what her flaws could be maybe it's just him being honest with her about her boyfriends problem with himself and it's his brother that is the snack that he set up to test such said hoe that don't even know its the perp that the real vic listened to to make his own kid grandkids or child a vic to the mom or dad that they thinks dear just remember my 1 dear that's false af is equal to your 2 that's real... smmfh
I loved the way Karamo handled this situation because he was able to de-escalate the hostility while identifying the real problem.
Her brother actin like he lookin out for her when but he be supporting those behaviors on social media, putting her on with dates and having her meet boys and all types of stuff
Something wasn’t adding up
No the crowd got me tight when they said “ oh here come the tears🙄”
right smh grow up
dude I didn’t even hear it until you pointed it out….that person is so rude, especially the context of what she was talking about
Them lady’s in the audience owe her an apology you don’t know a person has went through in there life. This is the same way Bhad Bhabie was and I never judged her cause you can tell it’s an act.
YESS
Bhad Bhabie was also molested. Usually girls who are SA end up rebellious and wild.
Exactly knowing she’s 15 it’s crazy how them grow women wanted problems like girl get someone yo age.
@@scooter9657 I know that that’s what I said luv 😂 no one else knew but I did cause I knew it was a deeper meaning behind her.
bhad bhabie racist asf
The way the room changed when she announced that she was sa’d. She is so strong. I love how Karamo got through to her so gently. That hug was everything. ❤
@karamo I’m blown away at your understanding, advice and just everything!! Never seen your show but will watch !
The audience didn’t pass the vibe. They owe an apology
i feel bad for her honestly.. the fact that nobody believed what she was going though is outrageous.. she’s so strong 🤍
What haooened to her?
@@kklol-ee1gzdid u even watch it ?
No duh @@leelee8614
Unfortunately he probably just put his sister in more danger instead of taking her to a therapist. She just got on tv with tons of predators watching
I love that Karamo addresses the behavior but allows the children to talk. He doesn’t just let these parents, siblings, or family members think that they’re doing a good job and that they can’t improve because most of the time they aren’t doing right by the child.
I was 13 DOING THIS. I’m 16, I had to change and I’m still changing . I believe I’m aware and more mature than anyone says . The pain I carry with me. I hope and wish Melanie the best 💗
God loves you
I wish nothing but the best for you❤❤
Stay on the right track young lady. You got this!!
Keep it up! God love you
Im so prouf of you love
As a victim on SA I totally understand this young lady. Pain and hurt is almost always disguised as Anger. I really hope this young lady got the help and support that she needs.
first time watching this show and I must say this interviewer is so refreshing to watch, he is so kind and understanding which you don't get a lot nowadays. lot's of love!!
I wish someone would have still told her that this behavior is still unacceptable. Not just because it’s inappropriate, but because it’s a negative outlet for unregulated emotion. She will have to learn self accountability, but I pray that her brother does at least help her grow and keep her accountable in her actions. She has been hurt deeply and needs a more positive and productive way to express herself outside of sexualization on TikTok.
Amen
i like how calm karamo is the whole time 😭
Ong
Melanie is very intelligent, ambitious, and big-hearted. There's misplaced anger since she's unable to speak freely about her pain due to lack of a support system. With time, healing, and guidance, she will be just fine. Blessings to her and Eric. x
I totally believe that as much as she needs support she also needs discipline. She's still too young, she might think she has it all under control but she needs someone older to show her a way. So that later on in life she'll not blame anyone else if she chooses the same path. Discipline is a must not an option, her brother only wants the best for her that why it's impossible not to ask this questions.
I think she's looking for support, encouragement, understanding, whatever, but also acceptance of the poor choices she's making... I don't think she wants to change, at least not now. (I'm speaking from experience as a troubled teen who went through what she did). She wants acceptance in her being sexually active at 14, her twerking on TikTok, smoking weed, being sexualized, getting in trouble with the law. I understand being raped, it's terrible, and having parents not around much. I also got into drugs young, though I'm sober and cleaned up my act now that I'm an adult. I had sex young, all the girls in my friend group were, and were dressing up to attract attention, so I followed the crowd, lashed out at my parents, etc, but my parents were largely concerned of me, especially my grandma. I needed support, and to be heard, which I wasn't getting, which I'm sure would've helped with my attitude I had at the time, and build a relationship with them, feel comfortable at home, respect them and their rules more.... and maybe encouraged me to make better decisions, but you don't change unless you want to change. Especially with friend groups like that, yes you can branch out but it's harder than it sounds, especially with close knit relationships. And you learn to enjoy and almost crave the attention you get by dressing provocatively, acting like a grown woman, engaging in sex, smoking weed/doing drugs/drinking, and being incredibly mature for your age while also being irresponsible and arrogant. How we are raised, and what happens to us affects us greatly especially as children, but there still needs to be accountability, ownership of our actions and understanding in return of being given a better environment to grow. That rarely happens until you have that big realization that your life isn't the life you want, and that your making poor decisions that may not seem bad until you realize the impact it can have on your life, and personally decide to take action in having a better life. I wish her the best, I completely understand the struggle. Children need to be listened to, but also need some form of discipline. It's just hard to discipline them once they get like this, so sometimes parents start to listen to their kids, understand, and accept that this is how things are, and then the child continues on the bad route, where most of the times consequences (like teen pregnancy, jail time, stds, poor relationships, attitude, heavy drug use), will be faced for the kid and parents, because how do you stop it once it gets to that point that she's at?? How do you discipline that? You could do everything right and they won't change, will keep disrespecting, until they make that realization. I know from personal experience o went through and seen many go through, my psychology experience as well. People can change, I myself have, I don't even recognize my life now from before, I don't rarely ever even drink now, but you can't change until you decide to, and have that realization to.
@@sonder1593 I believe you're absolutely correct and also we need parents presence more than we need their presents
This was so good for me to listen too! Thank you! I hope it works out for her🤗
How she treats her brother really breaks my heart. you can really tell he cares, I wish she would realize how much he cares before she pushes him away, it really makes me sad because you can see the hurt and pain in her eyes. I pray that she's able to grow and become an amazing young adult.
Ericksonnyc
@@Jahkara012 literally
He's toxic probably a covert narcissist. I'm not fooled by his act🙄
Her brother is so fake. He is using his sister for clout on his TH-cam channel
@Kat Brown they literally said the name of the channel…
I feel she needs a therapist by her side to hear her out, but she needs her brother just for comfort, and protection, she aware very aware but she has that aggression from a man taking advantage of her body she have that attitude from lack of support,and a listening ear, she will be okay....she will focus and be successful…she gots this
I was the big sister wish I had a brother like this ! I can relate and I kept getting around the wrong crowd and being out on those streets unfortunately becoming a survivor of more than one rape !
They listen she clearly don’t her attitude is nasty asf an it’s sad
@@Veethedon1 “ they listen “ after she clearly said her family didn’t believe her after she got r*ped and on top of that her parents would barely be around at times. so explain to me how they listen to her.
@@Veethedon1 your not getting the point of the video .
@@Veethedon1 ya old ass not getting it booka😂
This was sweet. I hope these two young people are doing alright
I’m 36 years old and I see my 14 yo self. This shit made me cry…. Literally my life story. I’m praying for her 🙏🏾❤
Parents when your kids start acting out pay attention. Find out what's going on. I wish Melanie all the best. ❤️
The sad shit is they found out and didnt believe her! Neglect!
Yup
I loooooove how those two ladies arguing with her didn't even want to look up at her after she told her story. They know what they did and it showed all over their faces.
Karamo handled this young lady’s situation beautifully!!
What a brave young lady🥺❤she doesn't deserve to be so strong. She's only a child. She deserves to be a child😢❤She's also blessed to have her brother🫂beautiful
As a Sexual Abuse/Physical abuse Survivor my heart really goes out to her & any other young woman or man who’s been thru this . The audience is judgmental is hell. At the end of the day ppl need to realize & understand that Trauma/pain changes you . Being Molested/violated never leaves you . Let’s start normalizing therapy & realize that it’s okay to not be okay . We are as sick as our secrets‼️‼️
💯💯 absolutely
@@Avilounge222 hey bro hope all is well!! Just speaking facts … I’m forever grateful I didn’t become what hurt me
The craziest thing is when her mother told her not to go out because of
Her safety and the fact that she said she went
To her friends house and from there to school what kind of parents does your friend have to do that 😮😮😮😮😮
@@stephenchristian3636 yes ! I understand same same !
Trauma dont excuse being rude asl to everyone including her parents and doing what she did
I'm so sad to see that her parents have failed her and nobody was there to help her through such a traumatic upbringing, but she is honestly so well spoken and poised for her age of 14. I can't even imagine what she's been through... She can go far with the right people guiding her in her life. God bless her and her brother. I'm rooting for her!
Bro her lashes💀💀💀
there is always a reason why kids be acting out! Those adults in the audience should know better! I love how he talked to her and understood how trauma affects people. I wish the best for her and I hope she gets the support she needs
She reminds me SO much of myself at 14 except I didn’t have an older brother to guide me. By the time I hit 15 I was already living with my boyfriend It took for me to hit rock bottom by myself to decide I needed a change. 5 years later at 19 I’m starting my own makeup business and doing better for myself. I hope she realizes that type of life ain’t what u wanna be doing at 14, she has so much potential
Congrats
Exactly
I am so happy for you beautiful 💕🙏🏾
Im so proud of you.
@MyGodIsBest I never said that, I said that I hope she realizes it’s not what she wants to do. Regardless, no 14 year old deserves that for themselves. It’ never hurts to be encouraging and tell your experiences.
She’s lucky to have a brother like him. Imagine having no support youth through adulthood. God bless them both.
No not rlly he allows her to do thesestuff
@@indiannawilson1184 really allow? They can’t control her that’s not how it works. Allow please ? She’s 14 at some point it becomes so much that you have to seek help it takes a village as they say. So don’t say he “allows her to do these things. 💀
@@Sesshomaruwifu actually it’s true he does “allow” it he encourages her to do it on his yt channel EricksonNYC
@@ariiidabrat3152 lmao I just saw it I want to delete my comment now 💀
@@Sesshomaruwifuyou’re not alone 😂😂
You are so lucky to have a brother like him,am sure you're going to understand this. Everything will be fine.
Karamo! I need you to get control over your audience because these grown women talking to a 14 year old like that they don’t know is really weird. Most kids act out for a reason. I love show but the audience kills me.
Yasssssss that irritated me! They really didn’t give her chance , went straight into judging her
Yes! He needs to get that handled bcuz that was ridiculous. Watch the show and stfu. They wouldn’t appreciate grown women talking to their daughter or son that way, regardless of how they act.
He can’t control people opinions
@@sophiebutler5684 but he can control them lashing out on her before she even gets to tell her side
One thing about Karamo he picks and chooses when and who he wanna lash out on. He should’ve made that lady apologize.
That lady feeling mahhhhh stupid 😂😂😂😂😂😂
lmaooooo! 100%! Ashamed and embarrassed!
As she should lmfaoo never judge someone
LOL their head was down the whole time
Lmaooo Already being subscribed to their channel’s and knowing how they are makes seeing this so hilarious.
The crowd bashing her before she even spoke and then when they heard her story it went silent. I like how this host really cares for her feelings unlike other ones who would pick on her , but this host is jst respectful. ❤️
It’s sad she doesn’t feel like a 14 year old and acts the age she feels by the obstacles she’s faced at such a young age. You will be okay girl.
Those 2 women would’ve never heard the end outta me. The whole show would’ve been me violating them. I feel you Melanie, the worst stage of my life was 14-17. She gonna be good !!!
that would just prove the brother right.
@@kimmiemcTHEORIGINAL Those women disrespected her not knowing the full story. If someone did what they did to you, not knowing your truth- you wouldn’t correct them??
Even after she opened up about what happened, one of those women said “oh here comes the tears-“. We need to correct this older generation since they think they know it all. There are things that should not be passed down to children so they can grow in life. Those women should be ashamed.
@@khaosbrownie Nope. I don't need to prove anything to anybody. They could say anything they wanted, I would tell them that whatever tickles their peach, and let it roll off my back.
@@kimmiemcTHEORIGINAL Okay, that’s you. Not everyone is you.
@@khaosbrownie I know, but I was just answering the question you asked about me.
This feels like such an eye opener, ive met people like this before around her age and i knew they were going through something but.. Im not gonna lie I've also judged them without trying to really understand. It makes me wonder how they would have turned out if things turned out differently or what kind of person they will become
This is my first time watching your show and you did a great job man Bravo
The fact that people were judging and attacking her before she even spoke says a lot. That lady that was yelling from the crowd put her head down and all. I'm happy Karamo brought that out of her.
I just love how she opened and understood what she was doing wrong that last hug she felt understood finally the first hug u can tell she ain’t just trust it bc she prolly didnt know if he was gaining to drill her judge her and he didn’t she just need love and support I see a bright future for her ❤
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If she continues like this, she's on a path of self-destruction, and it's either she learns or life would make sure she learns.
Mark my number 56K ,you are awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwesome Karamo! This is my second time watching you on youtube(and you are great!!)Period!!