Trauma not Transformed is Trauma Transferred | Tabitha Mpamira-Kaguri | TEDxOakland

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  • @tabithampamira6494
    @tabithampamira6494 5 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Thank you all for your kind words and validation. I was very nervous, but now I see that it was all worth it. We each can play a part in ending generational traumas. In solidarity and gratitude.

    • @Leota713
      @Leota713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg! Thank you for sharing! Your talk was healing, soothing, and encouraging for me. Thank you. 🌹

    • @nannetteborges
      @nannetteborges 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'd love to connect with you further. I have been speaking about very similar concepts in my Facebook community and I feel led to reach out and see if I can support you and your work.

    • @bedfordreader-malky1729
      @bedfordreader-malky1729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tabitha Mpamira-Kaguri thank you for showing us how! Within your nervousness you show us how we can show up courageously voice shaking, yet strong and vulnerable. Thank you!

    • @mbl882
      @mbl882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am so very grateful that you shared this. Thank you.

    • @alisonknows
      @alisonknows 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Really beautifully communicate. Well done. Very powerful and something I will definitely take on board and share :) You should be proud of yourself.

  • @amyfrancie2395
    @amyfrancie2395 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I truly hope this gets the recognition she deserves

  • @philosophia4749
    @philosophia4749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Brene Brown would be SO proud! I could hear your voice quivering, and I was trembling with you at your words.
    Maybe your nation is gasping, but the rest of the world is gasping in amazement. Thank you, that was powerful.

  • @JohnHittler
    @JohnHittler 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Tabitha, I have been using your concept that trauma (or anger, grief, dysfunction) gets transferred or transformed with corporate clients. I know your heart is to heal women, and the precept seems to be pretty universal, as powerful leadership teams are loving it and making progress! Thanks for delivering such an inspiring and helpful talk.

  • @nannetteborges
    @nannetteborges 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This is a video that needs to be seen by every healer in the world. Every therapist, coach, energy worker, social worker, teacher. This is the urgency we need to connect with. We hold within us the ability to radically change the world in the future. We cannot accept things as they have been. We must tell our stories and do our healing work with conviction.

    • @tabithampamira6494
      @tabithampamira6494 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yaaas!!

    • @ashleighgordon5343
      @ashleighgordon5343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well, I am a college student studying to be a social worker and my prof sent me here soo lol

  • @jenniferspring8741
    @jenniferspring8741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So grateful to the many Ted speakers who show their leadership by being able to stand in front of a crowd and share their story with humility. And it's true, the story generational trauma is common and we need to stop blaming the victims. All of humanity struggles, and we can all help each other. Thank you for this wonderful speech.

  • @divalicious0505
    @divalicious0505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    OMG! I absolutely LOVE HER!!! This video is EVERYTHING!

  • @fatia1612
    @fatia1612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You are a wonderful soul Tabitha and you must have courage and strenght to speak this truth in public!
    Your inner vision and strenght is an example for all of us! Soul touching! RESPECT

  • @brittaniel6834
    @brittaniel6834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is such a powerful conversation to be having, and it reminds me of the stuff I still need to work through rather than to continue passing on.

    • @tabithampamira6494
      @tabithampamira6494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The work never ends..join my channel as we do a weekly session.

  • @simply28sd
    @simply28sd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is excellent. Thank you for opening up about your experience and for opening our eyes to looking at what trauma needs to stop with us.

  • @lebedeineessenz
    @lebedeineessenz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great speach, thank you for breaking up the silence

  • @gretaerlingis877
    @gretaerlingis877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am in tears, thank you Tabitha!!!!!!

  • @jayisdreaming
    @jayisdreaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ABSOLUTELY AMAZING TED TALK. When a woman like you speaks, it activates something for us to do speak too. Wow!

  • @mkshyaka
    @mkshyaka 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What an amazing story Taby. You are doing good work. Imana ikongerere imigisha

  • @rellybrenamy7225
    @rellybrenamy7225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Darling Heart
    Wow..... Thankyou..Your storey is so similar to my own stories..
    Keep speaking LOUDLY....
    Tears see,,, my Love for My Children keeps them safe.... as You speak I speak always of what's happened...
    Your Amazing........ My Lord - WE ALL HAVE LOVE TO SEE AND FEEL OUR PURITY...
    I Thankyou. Hand on my heart Thankyou
    We are - we all are in our next generation--- NO BATON for the past
    We are all Angels of Love 🙏

  • @CarmelWhittle
    @CarmelWhittle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank you for breaking the silence

  • @misspoppins5293
    @misspoppins5293 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Absolutely wonderful! Questioning of traditions.
    Thank you for this talk.

  • @affiluvnpink
    @affiluvnpink 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so powerful and will change lives to come.

  • @ssmccue
    @ssmccue 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    May these brilliant, powerful words be heard far and wide.

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful courageous amazing impressive soul. One of the best use of technology we can share our Stories. With hope n prayers divine intervention will act. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @mariocader
    @mariocader 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Truly inspiring words that will stay with me forever, and yes, will help me break the silence when needed. Thank you.

  • @Beehenry24
    @Beehenry24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful and inspirational!!! Thank you for your authentic speech. I hope the message is one that is felt universally and more persons are called to action.

  • @bedfordreader-malky1729
    @bedfordreader-malky1729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your courage! You move the world, you move me to action, to love and transform.

  • @EyeTunz
    @EyeTunz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful!! Thank you!

  • @wanderingministry4987
    @wanderingministry4987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing talk. Thank you so much for doing your work dear sister.

  • @QueenQueetie
    @QueenQueetie ปีที่แล้ว

    Just incredible!! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @kkbb6856
    @kkbb6856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is beautiful. Thank you for being you and being open to be you.

  • @onkelamejoymarumo132
    @onkelamejoymarumo132 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's the one, trauma and mental health. Wow, keep up the good work girl. I should start. I'm sixty but I feel strongly that I should.

  • @aliceishimwe8658
    @aliceishimwe8658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a powerful story. Thank you for what you are doing in your community and via your TH-cam channel

  • @sammbanda4242
    @sammbanda4242 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Tabitha , May God Continue to bless you more.

  • @sheilahclarke-ekong8475
    @sheilahclarke-ekong8475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you.

  • @destinyjones788
    @destinyjones788 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is so good

  • @laurenfaulds8040
    @laurenfaulds8040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so incredible! & Needed

  • @daphnethenatural4052
    @daphnethenatural4052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    POWERFUL

  • @jnj4065
    @jnj4065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you

  • @mjlight
    @mjlight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow that was amazing especially the analogy of the preparation of the 🍗🦃

  • @yatmadiop6898
    @yatmadiop6898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great Talk!!!

  • @trr7128
    @trr7128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Powerful!

  • @mindfulnesswithkatlyn4236
    @mindfulnesswithkatlyn4236 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much :) this was truly an educational speech and joy to watch

  • @monicadolo5151
    @monicadolo5151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Powerful👏

  • @davidruffii8161
    @davidruffii8161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Way to go!

  • @lets.7860
    @lets.7860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg amazing, thank you🙏❤️

  • @rickynewman9808
    @rickynewman9808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shes beautiful

  • @rukudzotigere
    @rukudzotigere 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awesome Tabi

  • @Leota713
    @Leota713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fabulous!!! ❤🌹🤗

  • @euandykes
    @euandykes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The noose around the neck. European cultures figured out how to make that noose out humiliation and shame instead so women married for submission. The way women have been treated all over the world makes me feel sad. It effects me who I am today because of unheald wounds past down. Such a talk gives me hope we can all heal together.

  • @jayisdreaming
    @jayisdreaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brene Brown would be proud.

  • @sparkwill5337
    @sparkwill5337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sooooooo they had a ted talk in OAKLAND and I MISSED IT!?!?!? 😩😩😩

  • @soupafleye
    @soupafleye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💕

  • @jeandamascenecyuzuzo9551
    @jeandamascenecyuzuzo9551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @Tabitha mpamira

  • @thomasfarrell7079
    @thomasfarrell7079 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cannot hear the second word in your list of things passed on. Please help me hear it: (at 00:53)Early marriage, ???, Poverty that wasn't their choice...
    Thanks

    • @xGabbzx
      @xGabbzx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The second thing was "illiteracy"

    • @tabithampamira6494
      @tabithampamira6494 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Illiteracy

  • @adorabautista6266
    @adorabautista6266 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    every woman is worth more than a goat!
    every individual should learn to respect the individuality of every one.

  • @shulammitetornyie8088
    @shulammitetornyie8088 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am going through one can we talk

  • @BritimaShow
    @BritimaShow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Her voice/accent reminds me of Congresswoman Ilhan Omar