How to Get Better Sleep | A Monk’s Guide

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  • How to Get Better Sleep | A Monk’s Guide
    So many people struggle with sleep on a daily basis. In this video, I share some of the wisdom and lessons I learned regarding sleep in the monk life. Just like everything else, it's important to go back to the basics, to incorporate mindfulness, and develop a strong foundation. #monks #sleep #monk
    5 Tips for Sleep (Timecodes)
    0:00 Intro
    4:42 The Bedroom is for Sleep
    8:09 Have a Consistent Sleep Time
    9:10 Make your Bed
    12:26 Not Sleeping on a High or Luxurious Bed
    14:36 Sleep in a Sea of Merit
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  • @nickkeomahavong01
    @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    How's your current sleep habit? and did you find any tips to be helpful?

    • @juliaangelicaa5395
      @juliaangelicaa5395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I watch yt for an approx 1 hour before bedtime, yes yes yes, every night. It relaxes me 😉 like watching your channel, so ZEN.
      I've been suffering from insomnia for at least 12 years now. Work is extremely stressful 😨
      I will try your tips tho. Thank you 👍🏻 Nick!

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@juliaangelicaa5395 yes please try it out and feel free to update us on your progress :)

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @gautam bk sadhu sadhu

    • @Ciikuwanjiku
      @Ciikuwanjiku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      All the tips are very helpful to me🤗

    • @AmblingAloof
      @AmblingAloof 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My living situation is a bit unconventional at the moment. I am living in a space of approximately 6ft x 5 ft. So my one and only room is, by necessity, a multipurpose room. I do fold up my bedding and place it out of the way when waking in the morning. After using anything, it has to be tucked neatly away into its place to make room for doing something else in the space. I do also tend to a regular sleep time because my work shift has me waking at 4am Monday thru Friday. One thing I do not do is to eat there. I don't want my space getting soiled with food remnants.

  • @muysengheng1686
    @muysengheng1686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    1. The bedroom is for sleep
    2. Have a consistent sleep time
    3. Make your bed
    4. Not sleep on a luxurious bed
    5. Sleep in a sea of merit

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Thank you for your kindness 😊😊😊

    • @junkjunk2493
      @junkjunk2493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      thanks for your summary

    • @athmaraman7136
      @athmaraman7136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you for summarising.

    • @jamesnguyen7069
      @jamesnguyen7069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      so wa de kaaaah

    • @andrewbarry5130
      @andrewbarry5130 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamesnguyen7069 sawadekrup for man. Sawade ka is for lady.

  • @coolestgangsta7164
    @coolestgangsta7164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    I don’t know why, but it feels so peaceful, me as a Muslim watching his videos thinking how if everybody from the different religion background can get along each other. Lol, i’m just sharing, guys.
    Have a nice day 💕💕💕

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ❤❤❤🙏 thank you

    • @MrKhaelee
      @MrKhaelee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      all the religion are the same teaching, people are the one made it different for their own .........

    • @olivercook873
      @olivercook873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You’re not born a Muslim, you’re a human being.

    • @djgenetic111
      @djgenetic111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@olivercook873 actually, we are universal beings 😉

    • @djgenetic111
      @djgenetic111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That is because most religions are dividing the world in good (us) and bad (others), whereas Buddhism is transcending good and bad, it is truly universal including everybody and everything.

  • @manuelpeters446
    @manuelpeters446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +567

    A sea of merit? I'll have to try that. I usually sleep in a vast open ocean of anxiety.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      😂😂😂😂 yes please try it and see if it helps.

    • @risingsun82
      @risingsun82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @anitavandinther7131
      @anitavandinther7131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂

    • @huangjinwei3755
      @huangjinwei3755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same... i usually dun zzz well

    • @unclestuka8543
      @unclestuka8543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I usually listen to BBC world service all night, then fall asleep in the morning

  • @tmb2226
    @tmb2226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Very excellent advice you offer about sleeping. Fifteen years ago a psychotherapist advised me to each night just before going to sleep recall three blessings of the day. I called it my positive event review. I did this every night and it changed my attitude and outlook. I am now positive and I smile and laugh a lot in spite of the dire circumstances of the world and my lack of material success. I like your emphasis on recalling the good deeds of kindness and service done during the day and resting in a sea of merit. I will try this.

  • @AdamMiceli
    @AdamMiceli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When I was living in a monastery in Thailand...meditating all day... not using electronics. I slept like a baby.
    I had the same problem as you did. My mind is very overactive at nighttime. Recently, I've been waking up at 5am and setting a consistent sleep schedule. I sleep less but the quality is much higher.
    I loved this video! You're a great speaker!

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      awww sadhu sadhu adam. thank you so much for your kind words 🙂🙂 hope you are doing well

  • @judecesar4928
    @judecesar4928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Hey man, thank you, that sea of merits, in my 51 years of my life, this is the answer of enlightenment, my life has just got better 🙏

  • @SkillCult
    @SkillCult 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    After watching this about 5 days ago, Immediately tore apart my small livingroom/entertainment/sleeping room threw out the bed frame that was taking up about 1/3rd of it, reorganized, and simplified everything, put a thin futon on the floor and am wondering why I didn't do it all earlier! It's a huge improvement and I've slept for 7 hours through the last two nights, which is definitely unusual. I'm still not totally onboard with giving up some bedtime habits, like laptop or tv, but this inspired me to exist and behave more intentionally in my living space and experiment with separating sleeping more from living. Making the bed up neatly so it is not available to flop onto randomly is helpful. There is a start (rolling out and making bed) and finish (rolling back up and neatly folding bed) to the sleep cycle. I've also been going over my positive achievements at bed and again on waking in the morning. Thanks much!

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Wow. This post is amazing and inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing this update. Its wondeful 💙💙💙🙏 keep up the great work.
      Cheering you on from Thailand 😊

    • @sun0raylight994
      @sun0raylight994 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like you showed that room whose boss 😅 a small challenge for you try turning your cell phone off for at least 48 to 72 hours unplug your TV and laptop . And meditate become familiar with yourself your intelligence . And surely you are not addicted to your phone so this will be an easy task because if you were addicted you would be weak and if you think this is impossible and you can't do it it shows you the truth. There's no better person than yourself to invest time effort love and simply just paying attention to it and not everything else because you're letting your body control you instead of your consciousness it could be the reason your body is waking you up and won't allow you to sleep because it wants to be entertained ☮️ Out

    • @theexperiment8498
      @theexperiment8498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Progress not perfection

  • @vhoy7899
    @vhoy7899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I have been sleeping on a yoga mat for about two years. I don't even sleep in my bedroom. I find it very comfortable for me.
    I don't sleep a lot though. Maybe about 5 to 6 hours and I feel great. I love the sound of water ... it putts me to sleep

  • @keyurshah679
    @keyurshah679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Sleeping in the sea of merits. Never came across such concept before!
    Thank you so much for such a golden sharing. 👍

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awww thank you so much my friend. ❤❤❤🙏

  • @AmbiCahira
    @AmbiCahira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I feel so called out and I am so grateful I get teary eyed. I've struggled with sleep my whole life and this video made me reflect on the few times in my life when I fell asleep the fastest and it was the times I slept in tents and other minimalistic environments. Thank you, I think you gave me answers no doctors or therapists have been able to give me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're so welcome!I hope it's helpful. Hang in there my friend :) you got this.

  • @cultureal9544
    @cultureal9544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My cat is looking at me like why aren't you asleep yet, as she just goes back to sleep on the cold hard floor.

  • @Kris-kv1ve
    @Kris-kv1ve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Thank you for being so caring I will practice this from today I am a sri lankan and a born christian from a christian family too but I'm happy because I am being enlighten by Buddhism it gives me tears as I personally have undergone disaster in my life I have two beautiful most caring kids I make them to understand about the philosophy of Buddhism once again according to our culture May the triple gem bless you and protect you all stay blessed

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sadhu sadhu. May you and your family be safe ❤❤🙏

    • @mikecarmichael5743
      @mikecarmichael5743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Brother same with me, born Christian, and then I found Buddha , abdout 45 years ago, and it made a better person my the people that I meet in life, and for myself also
      good luck too you Kriss 200

  • @Tamarind1
    @Tamarind1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Your story resembles mine with my 4 months of ordination in forest monastery in Thailand. Long before that, I had been suffering from chronic insomnia and alcohol addiction for almost 10 years. Just like you, I had to rely on sleeping pills. At the beginning, it was extremely difficult to adapt to the way the monks were, especially the sleep cycle. Throughout the ordination, it taught me a lot of things I had never known before in the secular world. To sleep with sea of merit is what we hardly considered to do before in the world outside. They never taught us to consider sth like these. Every night is fraught with burdens and duties. I can say that those periods are the most precious time of my life. Now, I have stayed sober and my insomnia has been gone since then. Thanks for sharing these useful suggestions to other people. You definitely got a knack for simplifying and extracting the principles from the story :)
    ขอให้เจริญทางธรรมนะครับ

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Awww thank you so much for sharing your story. That's beautiful. May I rejoice in the merits from your time in monkhood. Also congratulations on your sobriety. That's a very big deal. Keep up the great work. I'm cheering for you from Thailand. Be safe my friend 🙂🙂

  • @maomucmuc4283
    @maomucmuc4283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The last thing you think about before you go to bed is the first thing in your mind when you wake up - it is really true! Thank you Nick for the tips.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sadhu sadhu. Thank you Mao :)

    • @truth8307
      @truth8307 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's similar with rebirth.

  • @TruthTriumphs786
    @TruthTriumphs786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When you start this video and within a few seconds you realise this is the right video to share with your friends, then you know it's worth it.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww. Sadhu. That's so kind of you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @marianasalles242
    @marianasalles242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thailand is a blessed country with beautiful people, history, animals, nature🙏🏻✨❤️☀️🌈🌱🕊

  • @simonerousseau4937
    @simonerousseau4937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you I am in hospital for sleep deprivation on medication, I will take these tips literally, thank you for your wisdom, compassion and energy

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you Simone. Have a speedy recovery my friend. Wishing you well 😃

  • @littleloz2607
    @littleloz2607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I get up at 5am everyday, when I wake up , I get up make my bed & don’t go back until bedtime, so I suppose I’m nearly there, I just need to crack not waking up 3-4 times a night 😊 oh & I always think about what I’m grateful for before going to sleep ❤️

    • @FREE_WILL_AAHhhhhhhhhhhhh
      @FREE_WILL_AAHhhhhhhhhhhhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      adding yoga at sunset in the form of asanas and meditation before you go to bed may help prevent the interruptions you are experiencing. Tiring the body through physical exertion and quieting the mind by meditating has shifted my life in many directions.

    • @littleloz2607
      @littleloz2607 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FREE_WILL_AAHhhhhhhhhhhhh thank you ❤️

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wonderful. Sounds like you're on the right track 😊😊

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😊😊

    • @HassanRaza-ob9em
      @HassanRaza-ob9em 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice one. Yeah most people awaken from sleep its okay. What time do u knock off?

  • @foxmacnamara8809
    @foxmacnamara8809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nick, I've seen so many videos of different people advising me on how to do this, or how to do that....But after following you for so long and watching your content as it comes out you are the only one that I actually take seriously because you truly are keeping everyone's best interest at heart! Beautiful location you're filming from this time too! Thank you for being such a constant in my life my friend and for all of the great videos and advice! ❤️👍🙏

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww thank you for your kind words. I'm still learning also as a newer monk so I'm just trying to share what I can. I'm glad it resonates with you. 🧡🧡🧡🙏

  • @John.W81
    @John.W81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I learn so much from your videos. I personally struggle with laziness and procrastination. The key to personal growth and walking a spiritual path is not waiting for the big life changing realizations, but becoming mindful of the small daily habit we need to cultivate within ourselves. Kind of like digging into the soil of your daily life and tending to those seed we want to ripen. I going to do this. Thanks Nick!

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful ❤❤❤ and you hit it on the head. It really is about deligently making effort each and every single day. It adds up. But keep up the great work ❤❤❤🙏

  • @alexanderplatohakobyan8356
    @alexanderplatohakobyan8356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Your honesty vibes reach even through the video to your followers, thank you for sharing these tips.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sadhu sadhu. thank you for your kind words my friend :) Greetings from thailand.

  • @ThanhPham-tr6gh
    @ThanhPham-tr6gh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    the ocean waves behind him is so soft and peaceful

  • @caroruizdiaz9890
    @caroruizdiaz9890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nick I don't know how to thank you for this, I have tried these little changes in my sleep routine, realized I suffered from overthinking at night so it was a moment for thinking and not for sleeping. Meditating and sleeping on a sea of merit has saved my night's sleep (I stopped sleep medication after two years). Thanks from the bottom of my heart

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow Caro! Thank you for sharing and I’m glad it’s helpful. Keep up the great work and happy sleeping 😴

  • @andyhamilton9459
    @andyhamilton9459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m another video you mentioned eating lightly or not at all in the evening, so your stomach is empty when you sleep. That’s an important one for me. Blessings, Venerable Nick!!

  • @jenniferlee5871
    @jenniferlee5871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You are as bright and warm as your orange robe, “do more good deeds” Good night.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow thank you so much for your kind words Jennifer. So touching ❤❤🙏

  • @reviveramesh
    @reviveramesh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Watching this at 3 am.. instead of sleeping...

  • @mrchips96
    @mrchips96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Excellent advice! One thing that you didn’t mention is to not drink alcohol. This messed up my sleep for years until I quit and my sleep quality immediately improved. Really important to follow all of the 5 (or 8) precepts to experience the benefits! Thanks again for your wonderful videos. A refuge in the midst of a difficult season!

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much my friend. And yes cutting alcohol is critical 😊

    • @somnathmandal5353
      @somnathmandal5353 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear Makarios,please try not to take caffeine 12 hours prior to bed.It has a quarter life of 12 hours and it effects your sleep quality.I would like to recommend you to watch ted talk and interviews of Matt Walker to aqquire some scientific knowledge about sleep.Take care,sleep well.

  • @coreenpedroso7179
    @coreenpedroso7179 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Venerable Nick I thank you for this and all your videos. Thanks for taking the time to educate and enlighten the world. I have watched you for sometime but never commented. I should know better since you've done so much to help get me more balanced. I watch your videos over and over. Never stop sharing. You're making more of a difference than you might know. Namaste 🙏🏾

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awww thank you so much for your kind words and for taking the time to share. Thank you for the support. Hope you are well 😊

  • @danilles.4247
    @danilles.4247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am so looking forward to trying tonight for the first time, sleeping in a sea of merit! Thank you for putting this out there

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful Danielle. Let us know how it goes :-)

  • @KellieEverts--conductsNightTra
    @KellieEverts--conductsNightTra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The last advise I find the most helpful: Before going to sleep, as you lie there, think of your good deeds that day or week. Don't reflect on problems or conflicts. Think positive thoughts in other words, whatever they may be, happy thoughts, no miserable ones that give you anxiety, tension. To rest of course one must relax. How can you relax when you review problems? You can't. That's another reason why our day hopefully should be filled with positive things, so we remember them. It's not always possible, but if it is, fill your day with positive, happy, loving, charitable, Godly things, & then you can relax, feel peace, & sleep. I'm going to work on this as I get bad insomnia & the same as him, I was a dancer, night owl all my life. I want to change.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sadhu. Thank you so much for sharing this 🧡🧡🧡🙏

    • @suryaom-abrao
      @suryaom-abrao 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same for me....it is really a beautifu and positivel way to go into sleep...

  • @shannonjones8004
    @shannonjones8004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This episode was such a gift. You have no idea how you are changing life for the better. Will you be sharing a video on how chanting improves well-being?

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww thank you so much Shannon. And thank you for the feedback. I will try to find a way to incorporate your suggestions 😊😊

  • @lindseyfranklinyoga123
    @lindseyfranklinyoga123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for your openness, honesty and for making your teachings accessible.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow. Sadhu sadhu. Thank you so much ❤❤❤🙏

  • @vioricabalea3799
    @vioricabalea3799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much . The vibe you emanate is one of Purity Compassion Kindness and beauty. I was focused more on this vibe and have not payed much attention to your words . And I guess that’s another way to experience an awesome being . Blessings to you and your teachers it really shows through you who they are .

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww wonderful. Thank you so much for your kind words ❤❤🙏

  • @LishaUdele
    @LishaUdele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is the first time I watched your videos and they’re amazing. Sea of merit is something that I really should practice. Thank you! 🙏

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww thank you so much and welcome to the channel 😊😊😊❤

  • @lurwar2098
    @lurwar2098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need to meditate on these powerful thoughts that you shared. Thanks. 👍
    1) Your outside environment reflects your inner world and
    2) Sleep in a sea of merits.

  • @cathypreddie98
    @cathypreddie98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just love your videos. They are so inspiring, so thoughtful. I learn a tremendous amount from the teachings and truly try to bring them into my everyday life. Thank you so much. 🙏🏼

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you so much Cathy. I'm glad you enjoy them and can utilize these tips 😊😊😊 greetings from Thailand ❤

    • @mariannedovani-shotton4997
      @mariannedovani-shotton4997 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have recently discovered Nick and soooo agree with you. Each video is so genuine, inspiring and carries such clarity and simplicity as well as vibes of peace. Thank you!!!

  • @bridgetcampbell6629
    @bridgetcampbell6629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love all of these, but that last tip really moved me so much--I will definitely do that. Thank you very very much!

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww. Thank you so much. I'm glad that resonates with you 💙💙💙💙🙏

  •  2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Blessing to you Nick for share with us your knowledge! Thank you!

  • @JK-vi2yb
    @JK-vi2yb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have been suffering from insomnia for years, and I thank God I chanced upon your video. Tonight I'm going to try sleeping in a sea of merits.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm glad it can help. Please try it out and keep us updated ❤❤

  • @kgrandchamp
    @kgrandchamp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Nick! Thanks for the lovely video! I will really take away your teachings on procrastination, finishing what one has started and what one is there for, and sleeping in a sea of merit! Loved the ocean sounds and lovely coastline! Thanks !

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Kenneth. I'm glad it was helpful to you. Yes please try it out and keep us updated 😊😊

  • @jLorraineK
    @jLorraineK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for this, it's eye-opening! I'm doing almost everything wrong, apparently, and struggling with PTSD as well, so I barely sleep at all, even with meditation and other mindful practices.
    I will put your advice into practice and perhaps let you know in a few days.
    Your channel has been valuable to me. 🙏🏼

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awww thank you so much and yes please try it out and update us on your progress. Take your time and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Rooting for you all the way from Thailand my friend ❤❤❤🙏

  • @fmaximo1979
    @fmaximo1979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I hope this will help me to get a better sleep tonight, an issue I have had through all my life since I was a child. Thank you for your kind lessons, Monk.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤❤🙏 sadhu. Please keep us updated

  • @jeniefersarmiento4908
    @jeniefersarmiento4908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank You Nick for this another inspirational teaching...I’ve learned a lot from this video and i think its the time for me to change my sleeping habit..Always waiting for your new video and inspirational talk....Be safe always🙏🙏🙏

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww thank you so much. Please try these and keep us updated 😊😊😊

  • @missbiggs9437
    @missbiggs9437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve only recently come across and started to watch your channel; I find it peaceful but also thought provoking. Today's post on better sleep (how it calms and heals not just the body but the spirit and soul) struck a chord. I’m definitely a Nightowl - even as a child it was always a struggle to wake up early and get going. The 9 to 5 work life was immensely difficult until about 35 years ago when I started working nights only. Life changed then … for the better I thought! . I work in a fast paced and stressful corporate environment and for years I actually thrived and fed off it. Lately I feel more fatigued than ever (with just about anything and everything) and many of the things that once excited and drew me in no longer brings satisfaction but mostly leave feelings of antipathy and a general lack of enthusiasm. A regular shift is 12 hours but often I'll work upwards of 14 or more, not to mention the ton of extra O/T hours for the taking. At the end of a shift when I finally get to bed it can take an hour or 2 just to “unwind” before falling asleep so I turn to the TV or TH-cam till I eventually drop off. The TV is always playing in the background; the alarm clock projects on to the ceiling; the phone just a hand's stretch away. For all intent and purpose the bedroom is the everything room - sleeping, dressing, entertainment, dining and, in all honesty, somewhat of a hoarders’ paradise! What's the use making the bed if only to jump back in a few hours later, and why bother putting stuff away when it’s so convenient having them right at hand when you need them? Anyway, thank you Nick for your videos and teachings… there's much to unpack and take on board from today's message; perhaps soon I may be able to come back and tell you I'm starting to see some positive changes. Stay safe and be blessed.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow. thank you for taking the time to share this. I think MANY people can relate to what you just describe. Yes, please try some of these techniques or make small shifts and please keep up updated :) and welcome to the channel my friend :)

  • @annacosta2939
    @annacosta2939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been watching your videos for a while and I love it. I also lived in L.A and just recently moved to Colorado Spings. I left the fast paced crazy L.A life style behind and feel my quality of sleep has improved. Thank you for your tips and for sharing so much wisdom with us 🙏.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you're welcome. thank you so much anna :) Colorado springs sounds peaceful.

  • @novaste1238
    @novaste1238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is such sound advice, thank you Nick. I think many people are taught to never acknowledge themselves and their good deeds or rather they have a skewed sense of when and how to acknowledge their acts of good will (i.e. on a social platform to gain applause from an external source). I hope this video reaches many more people so that we understand just how important it is to see ourselves clearly in order to become better human beings.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much erin 😊 hope you are doing well

  • @kalyanchakravarthymadavara4601
    @kalyanchakravarthymadavara4601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your voice itself is quite healing ,thank you for what you are doing

  • @ezennwadorothyematie5710
    @ezennwadorothyematie5710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It sounds so simple , yet so profound

  • @gratefulchar
    @gratefulchar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The point about having a comfortable bed is new for me. Very interesting and good point

  • @rhondaw.4190
    @rhondaw.4190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just before sleep I pray and think about what I am grateful for. Thank you for this video :)

  • @helenswanton1841
    @helenswanton1841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve just discovered you Nick and I love all the wisdom you offer. Listening to you and all the subjects you talk about and give advise you give is really helping me and lifting me. Thanks you so much!! 😀😀

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful. Thank you so much Helen and welcome to the channel. Glad you are here and glad it's helpful :)

  • @Tue.Ngoc_VIPAZ
    @Tue.Ngoc_VIPAZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love your positive and inspirational messages in every video, dear bhante! I am a Buddhist and I love Three Jewels with all my heart. Thank you so much for your sharings!🙏🙏🙏

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sadhu sadhu. Thank you and I'm glad it was helpful :)

  • @chutulotanbaro2507
    @chutulotanbaro2507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very helpful. Thank you for the wonderful wisdom!

  • @positivethinkingandrelaxat1089
    @positivethinkingandrelaxat1089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such inspiring words. I have lived in a Western culture for 50 years and have been consumed with the ideas of constantly trying to better yourself and living a materialistic life. I married my Thai wife 2 years ago and discovered the Buddhist culture and the concept of Merit. It has totally changed my life from being goal driven to wanting to improve my spiritual wellness. Fortunately our plan is to move back to a small village in Isaan, Thailand in 3 years time and hopefully live this way of life until we depart this world.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wonderful. Yes the concept of merit is so critical. Good luck in your move and if you're ever in Chiang Mai, feel free to come visit us at the papae meditation retreat 😊😊

  • @jaynepuan3213
    @jaynepuan3213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Although I have no problem falling asleep but I watched till the end because I can relate to your tips, thank you for explaining in such a sensible way.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Jayne 😊😊 greetings to you from Thailand

  • @MARIPILIPM
    @MARIPILIPM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent tips, particularly the one about what we think before sleep! Thank you 🙏🏻

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you. I'm glad it was helpful

  • @willowworks
    @willowworks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you brother for this teaching. I am grateful.

  • @dec7691
    @dec7691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful Nick! Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙂

  • @mailerose2309
    @mailerose2309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, Nick!

  • @vishimishra4991
    @vishimishra4991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Life changing ideas! Specially the last one - sleep in a sea of merits! Thank you!

  • @bbs2261
    @bbs2261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you. Your videos are very helpful. This video comes at a perfect time where I need to deal with sleep which is getting affected by being overworked.
    I have become aware and have changed a lot of my habits. Vegan, extreme minimalist, almost zero-waste and now spiritual training to truly be human. While I cannot let go of my responsibilities to my family your videos are very helpful and helping me deal with the pain of awareness, of realising what we humans are, have become and the countless lives we are hurting needlessly. We, the human, have become the problem. This plagues every waking moment of my existence. My awakening was a result of being exposed to the cruelties of animal farming in the developed nations and deforstation that is caused by my consumption which is devastating the orangutans, gorillas and chimps amongst other wildlife. I donate .... a lot of money or as much as I can afford. This is my only solace. I work to earn to donate to save animals and raise awareness of their plight.
    Thank you for also addressing the question of is being a buddhist monk selfish. I have always wondered about this. I get it now. We need to first fix ourselves. I am working on that.
    Thank you and please keep these videos coming. They are very helpful. I am also reading Attisha's lamp to enlightenment and the books by the dalai lama on how to practice.
    I aim to live my life by firstly by NOT being the problem and secondly by reducing the suffering of others.
    Once Covid is over or reduced I plan on visiting the buddhist monastary and seeking spiritual guidance and supporting the community in return.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing this and its wonderful how you are giving and working on yourself. Keep up the great work and greetings to you all the way from Thailand 😊😊😊

  • @tanishsingh3170
    @tanishsingh3170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brother you are so calm I appreciate you for you work and I have gained too much positiveness for your videos

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sadhu sadhu. thank you so much tanish 🙂🙂🙂

  • @tristar2835
    @tristar2835 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i cannot stop listening to your vlog it gives me peace and direction .

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much my friend. Glad it’s helpful 😊

  • @SarthakMishraDance
    @SarthakMishraDance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good to know that you were a dance/artist, I myself is a dancer, and I have huge sleeping problems,
    But thanks for clearing out these real problems. 🙏

  • @suryaom-abrao
    @suryaom-abrao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was a monk and totally relate to you. I have learned so much during the 24 years I was a monk. Thank you for this wonderful vídeo.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow. Sadhu. I rejoice in all your merits while you were a monk. That's wonderful ❤❤🙏

  • @macreato
    @macreato 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very clear and direct, yet loving and sharing from personal experience. Wonderful. Thank you.

  • @irinaalexandru9300
    @irinaalexandru9300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much! There is a lot of wisdom in these advice. Being really grateful that you share it with the world! Please continue.

  • @ngonigriffith1491
    @ngonigriffith1491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I used to have a television in my bedroom and would watch it late at night. I got rid of my TV. And I make sure to go to bed by 10:00 PM. I still need to work on the multifunctional use of my bedroom because I have a desk where I sometimes eat at. Thanks for the video Ven. Nick.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful. Make the little adjustments and please keep us updated ❤❤

    • @ngonigriffith1491
      @ngonigriffith1491 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nickkeomahavong01 I will. Thanks!🙏

    • @ngonigriffith1491
      @ngonigriffith1491 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nickkeomahavong01 I just wanted to say that I am not going to be on TH-cam for a while. I am trying to get off of social media and TH-cam was the last one to get off of. Thank you so much for your videos. You have inspired me to be a better person. Take care and God bless you!

  • @irmabronder
    @irmabronder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have no probleem with sleeping. I always have prioritize sleep. I always sleep at 10am. And I wake up without alarm every morning at the same time. 1hour before bed I stop with technology. I wish everyone who would contact me a good night and I drink my warm milk and chant and meditate. I am someone who loves the time before technology came in our life and try to live like that. My daily life is for focusing on learning and reading. I love cooking vegetarian. I love to live a life that I focus on my body signals of hunger and sleep. The Dutch way of living, what most doesn't do anymore, rest-regularity-cleanniness as looking after your body. Thank you Nick for all your knowledge. I will see if any can be improved in my life. Much love. Xx

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so wonderful Irma. It seems you've been able to develop a good sleep habit and routine. That's great. Keep up the great work and thank you for sharing :)

  • @thibod07
    @thibod07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful! I am sending you a sea of blessing! Now I understand why I always enjoyed so much sleeping and never had any problem sleeping. I guess some time our instinct direct us in the right path. Thank you for sharing.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      sadhu sadhu. thank you so much Marc 🙂🙂🙂

  • @firozdang
    @firozdang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    good to see you nick, take care!

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you my friend. Greetings from thailand :)

  • @matl1483
    @matl1483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So much we can learn.
    Thank you.
    Great inspiration to change life. 🙏🙏🙏❤️

  • @andybrown3016
    @andybrown3016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shower or hot bath before bed, read in bed, go to bed at the same time, magnesium supplements, no caffeine after 5, these are the things that have helped me. The secret is to just keep to a routine so when you go to bed your brain knows it’s time to sleep. I just keep on reading until I fall asleep because a lot of the time if I just turn the lamp off I start overthinking. So reading is the most important thing for me

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome. Glad you found what has worked for you. Thank you for sharing these tips 😊😊

  • @thatwhichis1234
    @thatwhichis1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it. That was so insightful and really sparked something for me. Thank you so much 🙏🏾

  • @rogercanik1925
    @rogercanik1925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Shifu for sharing your subtle yet profound wisdom. It has really improved my sleep. I’m so grateful…🙏🙏🙏

  • @mohammadhosseinsk6469
    @mohammadhosseinsk6469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As a professional athlete, I truly wish I could meet this guy and become a monk!
    From the bottom of my heart!
    If anybody can help me with this let me know

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ❤❤🙏 thank you my friend. If you are interested in ordaining to be a monk, you can apply online at Www.Papaemeditation.org/en/. I hope that helps 😊😊

    • @susydyson1750
      @susydyson1750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nickkeomahavong01 wow cool

  • @meditativemindstudios6108
    @meditativemindstudios6108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Anyone who is reading this, you are special, you are in this world for a reason. Never give up on your dreams. ❤

  • @yukicodes
    @yukicodes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! Your teaching is a true blessing to this world!

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you so much Robson. That's very kind of you ☺️

  • @joeflotta
    @joeflotta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you nick. you are appreciated.

  • @ravenskye6595
    @ravenskye6595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Nick, I so love your tips. The wisdom of simplicity right. 😊 I have a hard time staying asleep thru the night. I normally wake up 2-3 times during the night. Will give some of these a try. I hope all is well with u and your loved ones. 🌺🌺🌺

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful. Yes please keep us updated 😊😊😊

  • @NickyD.Streams
    @NickyD.Streams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you I needed this and my name is Nick as well :). Have a good day anybody reading this and may we all find inner peace.

  • @nancycarroll6184
    @nancycarroll6184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So beautiful....thank you for your time and insight. I love the thought of a "sea of merit". Greetings from Canada 🇨🇦

  • @nikkallamas
    @nikkallamas ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your teachings! Sending love from the Philippines 🇵🇭❤

  • @krissyrandolph9376
    @krissyrandolph9376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love, love, love Thailand! Thank you for this video, enough sleep is important.

  • @downtoearth5108
    @downtoearth5108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you to the Monk. These are all very relevant to me. Back to basics, so effective. Noho ora mai, kia au te moe (be well, sleep well).

  • @TeacherTanyaMeyer
    @TeacherTanyaMeyer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for this 🙏🏻 Loved the last one 💕 I don't think I recognise or acknowledge my good deeds enough and I'll definitely give this a try. Thanks again

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful. Thank you and please give it a try 😊😊

  • @goth00000
    @goth00000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much...loved it!!

  • @sharonl3722
    @sharonl3722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I use my bedroom as a multipurpose room. Guilty! ✋🏼. I am going to make these changes. All I can do is try. Thank you for your wisdom.

  • @elenafreweini6434
    @elenafreweini6434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you.. You are so lucky to live in a fantastic land. 🙏

  • @alexeykulikov2739
    @alexeykulikov2739 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanx bro, definitely rings the bell, will begin using right away.

  • @daniellalyngdoh6211
    @daniellalyngdoh6211 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing with us your wisdom, insights and experience. I am a Christian and i am from India but i find Buddhism has plenty of wisdom and life guidelines that are related to our day to day life . One thing that I've practiced for the past two years when i was stucked in life is gratitude like how you said and also to sleep in time by leaving my thoughts behind and i feel like my anxiety and mood swings also decreased when i have a good sleep .

  • @lizmoore4382
    @lizmoore4382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Brilliant talk, I agree fully with you. I will be taking your points to heart going forward! THANK YOU :)

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 💚💚💚💚🙏

    • @lizmoore4382
      @lizmoore4382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nickkeomahavong01 Thank you, I have already made adjustments to my sleeping arrangements. Such great insight and wisdom you have given me :)

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lizmoore4382 so great to hear. Keep up the great work.

  • @UrAWizard
    @UrAWizard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Im literally in my bedroom, on my computer, eating right now lol

  • @kindcounselor
    @kindcounselor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life changing. Thank you so much.

  • @Ciikuwanjiku
    @Ciikuwanjiku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Nick...am guilty of eating and chatting when in my bedroom and overthinking.I'm going to work on that.The scenery behind you is beautiful 🤗

  • @maksenDK
    @maksenDK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I think I need to have a teacher monk on my shoulder at all times

  • @akshamsha
    @akshamsha 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello LP Nick.
    Congratulations on growing the family to 30K.🤩
    Great video as always.
    Hope you are doing great.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Ak! Hurry up and come visit us in Thailand already. 😂😂😂

  • @lyrabeatriceagnesdsouza1391
    @lyrabeatriceagnesdsouza1391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for your kind help

  • @denicewilkinson6474
    @denicewilkinson6474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank-you for your tips for sleeping 😴