WHY ARE WOMEN SO SELFISH? | Selfless Man Works 50 Hours to Provide for the Wrong Woman
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ต.ค. 2024
- Join Rico Hundo, Erin The Renegade, Amanda, and special guest Nicole for an eye-opening discussion on the challenges faced by men who work long hours to provide for partners who may not reciprocate equally. In this episode, the panel explores the dynamics of traditional gender roles and the complexities of modern relationships.
Discover different perspectives on the impact of unequal contributions in relationships, expectations of homemaking, and navigating the evolving roles within partnerships. Gain insights into effective communication strategies, redefining expectations, and finding balance in relationships.
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More people need to talk about how most women are selfish.
Or rather, what prompts that. Half of the "traits" that men and women possess are not innate but are taught (either directly or indirectly).
It’s mostly black women
Perfect marriages or relationships simply don't exist. There's no one-size-fits-all approach to navigating them. What may be effective for Adam might not resonate with Peter. However, I've come to realize that there's always a solution to every problem. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such difficulties in our marriage that divorce seemed imminent. Despite the ordeal, we persevered, and today, we've triumphed over that rough patch, reunited and stronger than ever
Your words make a lot of sense, and I genuinely hope my thoughts align similarly. Despite our current separation, I can't imagine my life without her; my love for her is immense. I yearn to have her back, and I'm willing to do anything to make that happen. We've explored various avenues, including therapy, in our efforts to reconcile
Letting go of someone you love is always challenging, but in my situation, I had the guidance of a spiritual counselor who prevented my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters..
This guidance is appreciated. I'll search for her online immediately. Thank you. I'm hopeful that this approach will yield results for me as well; I deeply miss her.
You definitely should. You wont regret it
Any man who even least tried to care for a family is automatically selfless
As they should by default but the f boys not going to speak up
Rico is the shining light on this podcast. He continually gives examples of what men honestly think, go through in relationships and life. These women just seem very dismissive to the male experience.
Always
women dont care about what men go through they only care about their feelings and their children , no one else matters
Hats off to Rico because man, to deal with these contrarian women and most of the time being the only man defending us and articulating all his points well and these women STILL stand so extremely biased shows how SELFLESS he is!! 😅 Dealing with them chicks, stressing himself out to get a point across for us men! Thats like Trump almost getting killed just for trying to make america great again and he's still fighting! 😜🇺🇸
God bless Rico.... There is NO way I could refrain from a mental breakdown listening to these women week in and week out.
She literally verbatim, said my dad works more hours and then denied it for the sake of arguing smh
Rico is speaking facts. Kevin Samuels said the same thing. Men with means/options/integrity, etc. are struggling to find marriageable women. But rather then listen to the concerns of men who want family and legacy, the conversation shifts to what Pookie and Ray Ray are doing. Men with options are frustrated as well and I've also felt unappreciated.
She lied in front of the camera. She said her dad pays all the bills and her mom doesn't work as much as her dad. Then she changed her story when rico questioned her. I hope all their significant others are watching this. They are 3 chameleons, don't appreciate what men bring to the table.
Girl with the white/gray hair isn’t no chameleon. She is pretty straight fwd with who she is
You can’t sleep with the covers over your eyes? Living with women like this must be absolute hell. Good luck fellas
Thats what caught my ear immediately! They look for ANY reason to put it on dude no matter what. 🤦🏽♂️
Did that woman say "paper towels"??? When I started viewing this channel I was under the impression that the level of conversation would be much higher. This range of thought isn't even baseline. Low level stuff. What the man is saying is very rational and the women are coming off as feminists who do not appreciate what role men play in society. I won't be viewing any longer.
😢 not me black is black regardless the average woman had no better life of success mutually to say anything from a older selfish mindset anyways
When BLK females are backed in a corner they’ll always say dumb stuff e.g. buying paper towel vs the mortgage.
Lol she actually compared buying paper towels to a mortgage 😂😂😂..Like that's what u bring to the house hold lol
Yeah that shit was crazy. We pay maybe $100 a month on household things (toilet paper, paper towels, laundry pods, bleach, dryer sheets, cleaning supplies). The reason we don't because we don't need to buy a 30 pack of toilet tissue and a 120pack of laundry pods every month. Our house constantly gets complimented because my wife does well with maintaining it the way she wants it to look (she has borderline OCD lol). She should not even try to compare it to the other bills.
Being a real man is truly a thankless job
Or when convenient you may a thank you when one is trying to flex in front of others.
because at the end of the day, you would never be good enough to a woman😂😂. We hear lots of women say it to the extent of saying. Being good is bare minimum. No man should gamble being good to a womanwho is not good to you. Go with drizzle drizzle movement. If she ain't bringing what she is demanding, she is no good. The playing field must be equal
It just amazes me how women belittle or minimize a man's contribution. Like Rico said it's a choice. If I choose to be a provider or an active Father that's a choice. Plenty of women have also met the sad date of getting involved with men who won't contribute in these areas and everyone will line up to admonish them, but you won't give credit to the guys who make a choice to sacrifice some of their money to support everyone financially, or to support their dreams, or those individuals development? They say you don't appreciate what you have till it's gone and this is a typical example.
If a man does house work, cook & clean thats 80/20
Women don't appreciate Good Men they just use them. Keisha only wants Pookie and Ray Ray. Thats the truth.
54:00:00 💯💯💯 Rico said the exact reason why most my married homeboys are punching the steering wheel in the driveway before the go inside, after work…And why me and my single hommies are staying single. #Hundo
This episode made me shed a tear , shoutouts to Rico
I respect rico ´s distance & focus , they tried him again
This man over here quoting Full Metal Alchemist lol
But he's not wrong
💯💯💯@@craigmuhammad3561
Thats crazy the man cant afford the right to be more loved over the mother because he Gotta sacrifice to work harder regardless.
Rico is speaking 100% FACTS. As usual, the ladies on the panel are listening to respond, NOT listeining to understand.
She said all I can do is think of Erin first. What about Erin? What's in it for Erin? If I do that, what about Erin? I got a question. Why did Erin get married with that mindset?
Rico Hundo puts up a triple double every time I come across this channel
This is the problem!!! He expressed what most men feel in relationships for him to be called “dramatic” then the same woman then turns around and says she invites vulnerability in her relationships!!! The delusional thinking is out of control
Being a "good man" is a net negative in modern society
Um…re-evaluate yourself. Why would being a good man be a bad thing?
@@miyamedusax4367 Heres one of many examples of how its worse to be a good man...
ALL MEN (100% no exception) desire sexual variety MORE than relationship monogamy. Good, bad, nice, f-boy, drug dealer, preacher etc....Men settle for regular monogamy (regardless of her great qualities) like women settle for regular guys (regardless of his great qualities).
Modern women reward "bad boys" (selfish men with arousing traits) with ample sexual variety/access. Hookups, FWB, ONS, forgiving cheating, overlooking red flags etc.
Modern women punish "good men" (selfless men with relationship traits) with minimal sexual variety/access. He gets sex for committment only. Not just for funsies. My favorite example...make him wait longer for sex because "I see him as relationship material".
From a male POV (not women). Goodness as a man just means you pay more for less. (time, money, effort, energy nagging, complaining, compromising etc)
"whats wrong with being a good man" isnt the right question. What sexual advantage/benefit do good men get over the F-boys thse days? Its cheaper, easier, funner and women treat you better for less effort.
@miyamedusax4367 because at the end of the day, you would never be good enough to a woman😂😂. We here lots of women say it to the extent of saying. Being good is bare minimum. No man should gamble being good. Go with drizzle drizzle movement. If she ain't bringing what she is demanding, she is no good. The playing field must be equal
Rico was preaching 💯💯💯💯💯💯
That "can't you just pull the cover over your face" was WILD
The more you watch these types of conversations, the more u understand why women do not run the world.. men run it for them
Every time y’all said personal choice i heard RESPOSIBILITY🤔you have kids you HAVE to do right by them, you don’t get a choice, you step out the house you Have to be a descent person, you HAVE to stand for what is RIGHT, what is it nobody get?
Lmaooo because they are slow in the brain and think caring for their household is a chore 😭😭
Ever since Samart Guy came on the podcast , Rico been on one ...
45:40 times stamp she works not as much hours as my dad
None of the women heard that?
If you don’t love YOURSELF FIRST how in the f could you give anybody anything?? Make it make sense lord.
Theres no self love without selfishness
Rico speaking facts
Big up to Rico.
Yo… She said no man is going 80/20 on bills and 50/50 in the house.. 😂😅😅😅
As someone who is 28 and divorced one of the reasons was because my husband COULDNT keep a job always gotten fired after 6 months or so . I always was the breadwinner . Recently he didn't work from March to August and just recently got a job 😂 he is 35 btw .
I freaking love Amanda 😍
why don't yall pay all the bill in let the man by the lil things....Yall will look at that man crazy.
Good lord why did it take so long for her to say her mother works less hours LOL
Yo these birds are delusional, who wants to deal with that friction.
Ay man dont be using that "law of equivalent exchange" bar like you coined it. Acknowledge Full Metal Alchemist for that one.
Only real ones know
Any time u hear them reference "ppl" theyre typically talking about women without calling women out.. another way the sister code stays intact .. because nen are not on any platform talking about "self love" 🤣
Lawd 🤦🏾♀️ ..& I’m only 30 seconds in
Why
Why what?
You guys are doing y’all thang!!!
So now its a personal choice....If the women wont help with the bills what choice do you have....Thats why my choice will be not to pay for a grown woman's bills
Great convo
Wait and ain’t Erin the one talkin about hidden intentions? U only put YOUR feelings up (when his dad died) so he can be mentally good when U needed it… or that’s jus how it came off
Yesssssssssss Amanda
Disingenuous conversation to me
And it's more disrespectful as an adult for somebody to be playing right in front of your face
A partner and a husband/ wife are two different things!
Yeah people gotta stop with this partner talk. Partners are who you do business with. Husband/wife is bigger than that. That is someone you build a family and lineage with. And share the journey of life with.
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 The truth is they dont believe in traditional marriage, they believe in this quasi-marriage where the man do all the husband duties, the woman is not bound to wifely duties while both having 50-50 say so but socially, she had all the power because shes the woman and the woman is always right. Its actually self-sacrificing self-imposed slavery.
When the US Government put women to work,they took their taxes, as a man , if my women wants to work, she has to pay taxes to contribute to the household.
42:00 "IT COSTS ALOT TO MANAGE A HOME" ALL THAT MONEY COMES FROM THE MAN , WITHOUT MEN YOU DONT HAVE SHIT
I can't listen to these female 😕 nowadays
Rico is a full metal alchemist fan
I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING LMAO
Every time i hear ole girl speak, i wonder how she is married 🤔
Alot of people in this comment section need to seek a therapist and get counseling. Rico is literally pandering to yall. He dont experience what yall say yall do.
Mens advocate means shes a honey badger 😍😎
Who works more hours AMANDA 😂 wow you are not being honest . Thank you Rico
Bald head joints is bugged out smh
He's still crossing his leg. At this point, he has to be doing it on purpose after reading the comments. Just for this, i'm gonna make his girl cheat on him. Watch.
Rico. Why do you talk to them?
He just still Innocent 😅😅😅
I bet nobody bet not touch him nor bully him while his Brothers are around.
Man y’all been going bottom of the barrel for a minute smh
Yoooo this new woman is definitely fine though… and Erin and Amanda y’all know y’all fine as always
Lmaooo relax. They don’t know you. 😅
🤷🏿♂️thet doesn’t stop a compliment though…idk you sound like you know them. Because you playing super person where it’s not needed…
Delusional selfless isn't just as simple as liking a man enough
Erin is well spoken and well put together, but I've watched a few of these episodes and seems to have the WORST personality, very abrasive, inconsiderate, and jaded, she may not be like that in real life, who knows, but what I've seen so far, and heard in her comments, is down right discouraging
Many many mother deprived there kids if farther figures being extremely selfish,
45:15 This has to be a joke... i carry more than my weight around this house and financially... and pick up the slack... to make a generalization like that and have the audacity to call yourself a life coach with that type of mentality, c'mon...
And she's supposed to cook clean do the house work and be submissive especially if a man is taking care of all that
Crossed legs?
He might be on some diddy ish