This was a beautiful & encouraging message. I've been struggling, and I know the Lord wants me to be healed. I don't want to be a burden to my husband, but his blessing and gift from above.
@@siphokaziluzipho4197these days it's hard to find someone genuine. Praying for you mamas I've been single since I was born Now 31, and the same Never met anyone who genuinely wanted to be in a meaningful relationship Just perverts who want a good night. But I chose to accept the season and wait on God patiently I no longer stress about it So you're not alone... Just keep praying and believing God 🙏
@@imogenii6920 truth in this. But others have testimony. He is a God of everyone. At any given time, one's life might change. At 31 you still have a chance at this.
dang I didn’t expect to tear up watching this..I been single for years. I never been in a relationship and these past few months I been having a desire for an husband and I just been feeling so discouraged. 😭😭 and the story you told really touched me. I’m trying to trust in God’s timing. 🙏🏽
these days it's hard to find someone genuine. Praying for you mamas I've been single since I was born Now 31, and the same Never met anyone who genuinely wanted to be in a meaningful relationship Just perverts who want a good night. But I chose to accept the season and wait on God patiently I no longer stress about it So you're not alone... Just keep praying and believing God 🙏
I’m 34 years old and I haven’t dated in years. When I do go out no man approaches me. Maybe it’s not Gods will for me to be married. I don’t have any guy friends. I feel like men don’t want a woman like me who is waiting until marriage.
God may have you hidden until the man He has for you finds you. You are special and can't anyone just have you. Wait on God. Its not about your age God can do it no matter how old you are. Focus on God and loving yourself and be ready for the man God has for you
@@MB-xv7erplease don’t say that to people that is not a blessing. A 34 year old is young and beautiful! I married when I was a lot older than her, and my husband is younger than me.
I have a lot of Christian friends who entered menopause celibate not because it was God's will but because they weren't helped out in terms of how to pursue dating. I recommend reading How to Get a Date Worth Keeping by Dr. Henry Cloud (a Christian psychologist).
Great video. Love your perspective. Yes trusting God’s wisdom means to trust God to do what’s best. Enjoyed all of the biblical input as well as your personal views and experience. Thank you. Have a great day. 🙏🏾😊
thank you so much for this video, God led me to watch it as I have been struggling in my wait for the husband He has designed for me. this gave me hope and spoke comfort to my spirit through the trials of singleness and learning to navigate the desire for marriage He has given me. God bless you sister 🤍
I'm watching this video late but I thank God all the same. Thank you for speaking on the devil stealing our blessings, I don't know where that came from and and when one looks at scripture the devil could only do so much: it was God who shut up Rachel and Hannah's womb, and God allowed Satan to touch Job but not his life. You are correct when you say we just have to surrender and trust God, and He will do it in His time so He can get the glory ❤💞
I'm 33 and don't even have a boyfriend. I've been into 3 serious relationship and they all did not end in marriage. I've prayed but still, I'm just tired and feel like giving up.
Keep waiting on God love God first it’s not easy because I’m going through the same thing but with God he works when we’re patient he honours patience. Don’t give up 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
At your age it is wise to give up. You’ll only be getting older and women don’t have forever to marry a quality man. Marriage can always happen, but quality men usually go for certain types of women.
Don’t give up! You’re still very young. Ask God to reveal to you what’s stopping your marriage. Maybe there’s something blocking you. Ask God to reveal it to you. God has a husband for you. I truly believe it.
46 and single was married at 31 but he was very abusive I am divorced now but where I went wrong when I tried to do everything right has me confused 😕 because God's words says that he doesn't want us to be alone
Lately I have been having this feeling, like I’m supposed to be married, but I won’t lie I disobeyed God and dated a guy God said I should not date, now I am struggle to leave that relationship and focus on my husband, and the red flags here are so obvious but I don’t know why I’m attached to this one
🥹 have you prayed about it? The word says the power of God works in us both to will and to do. Pray for help. Pray He breaks up the relationship if you have to. The longer you stay in that relationship, the longer you delay your marriage. I pray over you, that the Lord gives you the grace and discipline to over Him ❤
Have you prayed about it? Did God lead you to dating Apps? You will find your husband in the place of obedience. Only God really knows where you need to be positioned for your husband to find you. I pray the Lord orders your steps, and leads you to the place to be found by the husband He is preparing for you 🙏
So you’re saying, even if I want to be married to a spiritual person, but God has destined me to be single that is so not OK. How does anybody think that’s OK? 9:16
Hey Sabrina! Sorry if that wasn’t clear or if it was confusing. What I’m saying in the video is that God has more wisdom and knowledge than we do in terms of knowing what we need and what he has planned for our lives when it comes to this matter. He puts desires into our hearts that are shaped by Him when we are delighted in Him: Psalm 37:4. Hope that helps as you take not just what I’ve shared but what the Lord has spoken to you through his word and any other avenue in prayer. I’ll be praying for your journey as well. 🙏🏾♥️
Waiting can be tough. I’m reminded of Philippians 4:11-13 KJVS “Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. [12] I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. [13] I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” It is Christ who strengthens us in the wait even when we are in need. I’ve learned to seek Him to fill me during the waiting season.
I was waiting on you after the visit in the spirit. He took me for a year to the holy city. I'm still in the flesh. He put me in the backyard clouds. Future clouds.
Great message, but if you don't mind me saying Paul did not actually walk with Jesus. He was a persecuter of Christians. He became a believer after an encouter on the the road to Damascus and it changed his life and he started his ministry as an Apostle for the Christian Church.
Face it people, God's curses are forever and the worst curse he can lay upon you is the curse of singleness. Nothing hurts worse than being forced by God to walk this earth single, unwanted, and rejected. I remember well those days I told him I'd give my soul to Satan in exchange for the woman I always wanted. Yeah, I've repented of that numerous times. But the pain is real....
Thank you queen for this video!!!🤍🤍🤍 I’m so happy i found your channel!!! Thanking God for you because this was the confirmation I needed to really be isolated with God in this season!!
You’re welcome and thank you for being here! I’m glad the message helped you and steered you toward seeking God’s presence. I’m confident that you’ll find much clarity in this season by doing just that!
Hi Delores, I have prayed for you. Thanks for asking such a special request of me. My prayer for you is that you will feel and know the presence of God in whatever your life situation is at this moment. That his love and comfort are so evident to you. God bless you too.
Every other day I give up hope- I just wish I could stop caring. I wish I didn’t have to feel these lame ass feelings- what a waste of productive time😅.
still waiting and wondering when I'm 25 female ( never had a boyfriend) and I don't know why like I feel like I'm running out of time. but I still wait on GOD
You are definitely not running out of time. At the right time, if you do not give up, He will connect you both together. It's so awesome that you've never had a boyfriend. Relationships that are not Christ centered cause so much brokenness and trauma.
This was a beautiful & encouraging message. I've been struggling, and I know the Lord wants me to be healed. I don't want to be a burden to my husband, but his blessing and gift from above.
I pray for my husband. I swear guys I'm not the group meant to be single.
I know it can be so hard being in a season of the unknown. All I can say is that God certainly has a plan for your life. 🙏🏾
Hi! How have you been? Curious if you feel like
Prayers have been answered yet
@@sparkleboea thank you so much. Somehow I missed this comment.
I remain hopeful.
@@siphokaziluzipho4197these days it's hard to find someone genuine.
Praying for you mamas
I've been single since I was born
Now 31, and the same
Never met anyone who genuinely wanted to be in a meaningful relationship
Just perverts who want a good night.
But I chose to accept the season and wait on God patiently
I no longer stress about it
So you're not alone... Just keep praying and believing God 🙏
@@imogenii6920 truth in this. But others have testimony. He is a God of everyone. At any given time, one's life might change. At 31 you still have a chance at this.
dang I didn’t expect to tear up watching this..I been single for years. I never been in a relationship and these past few months I been having a desire for an husband and I just been feeling so discouraged. 😭😭 and the story you told really touched me. I’m trying to trust in God’s timing. 🙏🏽
Same here, been really discouraged and wondering why
these days it's hard to find someone genuine.
Praying for you mamas
I've been single since I was born
Now 31, and the same
Never met anyone who genuinely wanted to be in a meaningful relationship
Just perverts who want a good night.
But I chose to accept the season and wait on God patiently
I no longer stress about it
So you're not alone... Just keep praying and believing God 🙏
I’m 34 years old and I haven’t dated in years. When I do go out no man approaches me. Maybe it’s not Gods will for me to be married. I don’t have any guy friends. I feel like men don’t want a woman like me who is waiting until marriage.
God may have you hidden until the man He has for you finds you. You are special and can't anyone just have you. Wait on God. Its not about your age God can do it no matter how old you are. Focus on God and loving yourself and be ready for the man God has for you
It’s because you’re older dear. Men are attracted to youth and beauty so you need to adjust to this time in your life
@@MB-xv7erplease don’t say that to people that is not a blessing. A 34 year old is young and beautiful! I married when I was a lot older than her, and my husband is younger than me.
I have a lot of Christian friends who entered menopause celibate not because it was God's will but because they weren't helped out in terms of how to pursue dating. I recommend reading How to Get a Date Worth Keeping by Dr. Henry Cloud (a Christian psychologist).
@Kaylahood1000 if only you had faith.
Thank you for the encouragement. It’s so hard to wait on Him but I know that He will bring me my husband at the right time. 🙏
It's lovely how your sweater matches your stairs😊
Great video. Love your perspective. Yes trusting God’s wisdom means to trust God to do what’s best. Enjoyed all of the biblical input as well as your personal views and experience. Thank you. Have a great day. 🙏🏾😊
Thank you for your input and suggested question. And I’m glad you enjoyed the biblical input! 🤗
I'm definitely tired of being single . I'm ok but I'd rather be in a relationship god approved!🎉 at 46 I'm so ready... been single since 2016
thank you so much for this video, God led me to watch it as I have been struggling in my wait for the husband He has designed for me. this gave me hope and spoke comfort to my spirit through the trials of singleness and learning to navigate the desire for marriage He has given me. God bless you sister 🤍
I’m glad God used this to encourage you. Keep seeking the Lord and wait patiently for Him. 🙏🏾💖
Im really trusting God and his plan for me, regardless of how happy or sad it might make me feel, it will be for my own good.
🙏 Amen
Powerful
Thank you so much! I was so encouraged to trust God and wait on his timing.
I'm watching this video late but I thank God all the same. Thank you for speaking on the devil stealing our blessings, I don't know where that came from and and when one looks at scripture the devil could only do so much: it was God who shut up Rachel and Hannah's womb, and God allowed Satan to touch Job but not his life. You are correct when you say we just have to surrender and trust God, and He will do it in His time so He can get the glory ❤💞
So true! I love those examples of Rachel and Hannah. Good point! 💕
Thank you so much for this video. God bless!
Great video and love the use of scripture, love the calming background
Thank you Sister this is very on point and biblical
All glory be unto God.
Thank you lord for my husband.
I'm 33 and don't even have a boyfriend. I've been into 3 serious relationship and they all did not end in marriage. I've prayed but still, I'm just tired and feel like giving up.
Keep waiting on God love God first it’s not easy because I’m going through the same thing but with God he works when we’re patient he honours patience. Don’t give up 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@Lootcoote Thank you so much, God bless you.
At your age it is wise to give up. You’ll only be getting older and women don’t have forever to marry a quality man. Marriage can always happen, but quality men usually go for certain types of women.
Don’t give up! You’re still very young. Ask God to reveal to you what’s stopping your marriage. Maybe there’s something blocking you. Ask God to reveal it to you. God has a husband for you. I truly believe it.
@@krg854 thank you so much for the assurance, I will do just that. Grateful
Big up sisters.
let's put our trust in God❤❤❤
Lovely video Sparkle ❤❤, such a clear loving message ❤❤
Thanks LadyKay. ♥️👆🏾🙌🏾
The intro sentences summed up my exact situation ✨🙏🏽
Every time I pray for a husband I get a counterfeit
Me too
Trust GOD
☺️☺️ I’m glad you’re on TH-cam 😌
Thank you. God bless you.
I really desire marriage.Im asking God to bless me a husband this year
You spoke wisdom sister❤🎉
46 and single was married at 31 but he was very abusive I am divorced now but where I went wrong when I tried to do everything right has me confused 😕 because God's words says that he doesn't want us to be alone
Thank you for sharing this sis 😊❤️.
You’re welcome sis 💖
Thank you for this.
You’re welcome Tamika!
9:02 is me. Every year I think that is my husband supposed to be with me. And so far every year I’ve been SALTY.
God bless u big sis I need this to be encouraged
I’m happy you’re encouraged and that you’re here. Welcome! 🙌🏾
@@sparkleboea thanks I needed that today the word is am fasting and am a single woman in waiting God bless. U
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Please pray for Shirley 50 years old
Hi Shirley
The Bible says 1 day it's like 1000 yrs and 1000 yrs it's like one day.its never too late,let's put our trust in God.🙏🙏🙏
This is so good!
Thank you so much sis ❤️🙏
You’re welcome! Glad you’re here 💖🙏🏾🤗
You have such a cool name! Thanks for your encouraging videos
Thank you! And so glad you’re encouraged and here!
Lately I have been having this feeling, like I’m supposed to be married, but I won’t lie I disobeyed God and dated a guy God said I should not date, now I am struggle to leave that relationship and focus on my husband, and the red flags here are so obvious but I don’t know why I’m attached to this one
🥹 have you prayed about it? The word says the power of God works in us both to will and to do. Pray for help. Pray He breaks up the relationship if you have to. The longer you stay in that relationship, the longer you delay your marriage. I pray over you, that the Lord gives you the grace and discipline to over Him ❤
This was real good thank you for sharing xx
Thank you! And happy you’re here. 💖
Trust GOD💛
Been doing online dating apps for a while and I have found no one. God help 🙏🏿 me please
Have you prayed about it? Did God lead you to dating Apps? You will find your husband in the place of obedience. Only God really knows where you need to be positioned for your husband to find you. I pray the Lord orders your steps, and leads you to the place to be found by the husband He is preparing for you 🙏
Thank you for sharing 💛
Please pray for me Katarina, thanks, God bless you ...who is my kingdom husband ?
So you’re saying, even if I want to be married to a spiritual person, but God has destined me to be single that is so not OK. How does anybody think that’s OK? 9:16
Don’t get me wrong.. waiting for his timing is great.. but to be single for the rest of my life-that would make me miserable.
Hey Sabrina! Sorry if that wasn’t clear or if it was confusing. What I’m saying in the video is that God has more wisdom and knowledge than we do in terms of knowing what we need and what he has planned for our lives when it comes to this matter. He puts desires into our hearts that are shaped by Him when we are delighted in Him: Psalm 37:4. Hope that helps as you take not just what I’ve shared but what the Lord has spoken to you through his word and any other avenue in prayer. I’ll be praying for your journey as well. 🙏🏾♥️
Good video 😇
This was sooo good thank you for sharing it!
So glad you enjoyed it! 🤗 Thank you!
I am 37 turning 38 next month. I have been trusting God for a partner until I am almost giving up. what's the secret of waiting?
Waiting can be tough. I’m reminded of Philippians 4:11-13 KJVS
“Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. [12] I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. [13] I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” It is Christ who strengthens us in the wait even when we are in need. I’ve learned to seek Him to fill me during the waiting season.
I hear these stories but none of them have 20 30 and 40 years on them.
I was waiting on you after the visit in the spirit. He took me for a year to the holy city. I'm still in the flesh. He put me in the backyard clouds. Future clouds.
Exactly Devil cant still our blessings!
What I struggle is my age
You are hilarious. 😇 Silly Sparkle.
Great message, but if you don't mind me saying Paul did not actually walk with Jesus. He was a persecuter of Christians. He became a believer after an encouter on the the road to Damascus and it changed his life and he started his ministry as an Apostle for the Christian Church.
You are beautiful.
Thank you!
What age did you guys get married?
26
Face it people, God's curses are forever and the worst curse he can lay upon you is the curse of singleness. Nothing hurts worse than being forced by God to walk this earth single, unwanted, and rejected. I remember well those days I told him I'd give my soul to Satan in exchange for the woman I always wanted. Yeah, I've repented of that numerous times. But the pain is real....
Thank you queen for this video!!!🤍🤍🤍 I’m so happy i found your channel!!! Thanking God for you because this was the confirmation I needed to really be isolated with God in this season!!
You’re welcome and thank you for being here! I’m glad the message helped you and steered you toward seeking God’s presence. I’m confident that you’ll find much clarity in this season by doing just that!
hello can you please pray for me ? God bless you. Dolores
Hi Delores, I have prayed for you. Thanks for asking such a special request of me. My prayer for you is that you will feel and know the presence of God in whatever your life situation is at this moment. That his love and comfort are so evident to you. God bless you too.
@@sparkleboea thanks so much. That really means so much. You are in my prayers. God bless you enormously. Dolores
Only bw ask God for a husand die alone❤❤ good luck
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Every other day I give up hope- I just wish I could stop caring. I wish I didn’t have to feel these lame ass feelings- what a waste of productive time😅.
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I'll visit in the spirit. 😇
Have to have a guy pursue.....
still waiting and wondering when I'm 25 female ( never had a boyfriend) and I don't know why like I feel like I'm running out of time. but I still wait on GOD
You are definitely not running out of time. At the right time, if you do not give up, He will connect you both together. It's so awesome that you've never had a boyfriend. Relationships that are not Christ centered cause so much brokenness and trauma.
Thank you for sharing, this is real good advice❤
Thank you soo much sister x