I'm 24 y/o male. I've been single and a virgin my whole life. I'm in good physical condition and life is generally going well I'm just afraid of putting myself out there. I get discouraged easily but I ask God for confidence. I'll pray for others and myself. I just want one girl eventually...
I love that you do preserve yourself bro. Keep going and don't be shy. God has a reward for you. I personally did until age 29. Let no one lie to you that having sex before marriage is beneficial. Besides don't be afraid to associate with people. I can send you a nice video that could help
@Slash Haha hey there! I'm 23 and in the exact same situation.. I have never even dated someone! All my friends keep telling me that I don't seem approachable for a guy to come up and talk to me.. but I'm just shy when I meet new people! So try to develop your trust in God and please don't be afraid to put yourself out there! It's very attractive when a man comes up and talks to us honestly and straight about his feelings!! We really appreciate it. Nowadays such behaviours have almost disappeared. May God help you with your journey! 😊🙏
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I'm 43 and was celibate for 6 1/2 years. I finally open my heart to a person and was cheated on yet last year. I said lord I don't want to be the age of Sarah by the time I get married. My father is getting old and my mom passed away. I was hoping to have both my parents at my wedding.It's hard to keep hope/faith at my age and never been married. Maybe, now I need intercessory prayer. 🙏
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry to hear about all the heartbreak. I know God will restore your life as He did mine when I was also in a damaging relationship. I’ll say a prayer for you today! 🙏🏼
@@lynnk777 stay optimistic sis. Each experience in life is important for your growth, the pleasant and the sad ones. I ask Allah to grant us all strength 🤲🏻❤️
‘You think you know what you want, but it’s not really what you need.’ That is SO a true, my husband is totally different to the kind of person I expected to marry, but he is literally exactly what I need in a husband in ways I never would have imagined. Not sure why I watched your video as a married person but I’m so encouraged by your testimony for my sisters in Christ who are single and seeking marriage. Thank you so much for sharing!
I'm 28 and still single. My friends used to wonder, but for me God is my everything and I'm happy with my single life. If its God's will, I will meet my soul mate someday like u. ❤️❤️❤️
Unless you're single forever which is what prevents people from enjoying it. If they knew for sure they'd get married then of course they'd enjoy it more. Easier to say when you're married
Exactly!! I’m 32 never been in serious relationship. Gave my life to Christ 11 years ago, and I’ve had my seasons of peace but it gets old, it get depressing and when this season leaves, I will not want it back
I guess you have to serve in church to find a nice guy. My friend served and her now husband met her in church. Seek first the kingdom of God and everything will be added unto you
I believe God can do anything, anywhere! Church is just a nice place because you are meeting people with similar values. God will bring you someone at the perfect time 💕
It's not really about serving in church but having a pure intentioned heart for God. Where we make the mistake is doing something for God and expecting a return. But if we truly love him and give ourselves to God nothing is impossible with him. The wife is revealed when we least expect it
She is probably the first person who hasn't "romanticized" marriage. She is giving you the hard truths about marriage, the reality. Whereas everybody are like ... wow marriage is the best, having a husband is the best, I love my life being married blah blah blah. Yes marriage is great but it is sacrifice and hardwork. Thank you Nat for shedding light on that. :)
@@KadenogiI don't think so, it's no more harder than just being a human living life. I find single life harder than marriage, I think it's all about finding the right person.
I’m already 34 😭 and all my family members especially my mum are pressuring me when to get married and have a baby..... I’m also surrendering all my worries to God....🙏🏻
Oh gal, God has you 1000%. I have a friend that got married at 37 and is having her first baby at 40. He has perfect timing and it’ll be worth the wait. 🙏🏼🤍
Girl I feel ya. I’m about to turn 36 😏 but it’s honestly my first time being single ever. I know it’s my time to heal and surrender wholeheartedly to Jesus. I trust in him
I was literally looking for a relationship and ended up having many toxic ones until God spoke to me. He made me see the kind of person He has created for me and the self I’m meant to be to match with that person. I just suddenly realized that I’m still so far from who I’m meant to be. There’s still so much work needs to be done and I’m far not ready for that person or settling down yet. Since then I’ve been working on myself and my relationship with God, and it’s been the most fulfilling time. Amazing changes happening to me due to the work I’ve been doing with God, and I have no doubt that one day God will present that person to me when I’m ready.
As a woman in my later 30s waiting (content though), this is very encouraging to hear. I can feel and sense the joy within your life. God bless you and your marriage!
I am so grateful for this video Nat, thank you so much. I'm 19, almost 20, and I've never dated or had a bf. I'm in college, and it's frustrating sometimes seeing all the couples because I want that sometimes, you know? But at the same time, I want to enjoy my singleness and grow deeper in my relationship with God. But some days I have low points where I just feel like no one will ever love me and that I'll never be married. Today was one of those days. A lot of tears. It was hard. But I stumbled on your video and I am so happy I watched it. I feel encouraged, especially when you said that you didn't feel like anyone would love you and stuff. Thank you Nat. God bless you.
Aw... thank you so much for sharing your story. This is exactly why I started this channel and it makes me heart so happy that it encouraged you at the right time 🤍 I’m uploading a new video this Friday about what helped me in my singleness. I pray that will encourage you as well 🙏🏼🥰
Queen. Once you find someone who sees all the good things in your eyes. You will melt with love. Above all. Learn to express this love to them counted as not deserving you will be amazed.
I needed this 🥺 My 10 years relationship ended when we were planning about marriage, I knew it had to happen since God gave me the peace that I needed when he broke up with me. God told me that he will be with me. I really thought he was the one since he was the guy I was praying for b4 I even met him. Now I'm trusting God with everything, I'm letting him chose the man that he wants me to be with. I'm trying to live my life again being single after so long. I'm turning 29 this year, I kinda panicked because of my age, and everything doesn't make sense to me right now, I still kept thinking if I wasn't worth it. I'm waiting on God's perfect time, I'm still in the process of healing.
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry you’ve been through such a hard breakup I can’t imagine the hurt you’re going through after 10 years! I’ve totally been there. continue to keep a hopeful heart in the process of healing. Trust God that he only has the best for you at the perfect time and you’ll look back and thank Him for his timing 🤍🙏🏼
@@natcunningham I am Indian boy, mom what is the reason for divorce? Foreign country enjoyment life, foreign country my thoughts good fashion, good freedom, happy life 💓
“I think surrendering is important.” I couldn’t agree more. I’d like to discover my Mr. Right sooner rather than later. I’m remaining patient. Thank you for providing reassurance.
I’m 31, single and the waiting process has been hard :(. Just gotta keep trusting God. He will bring him when the time is right 🙏 ps. You’re so beautiful 😍
Your story really touched me. I've been single for almost 2 years now. And this is just so encouraging to me, having come out of a rough place and desiring what is good and what God wants for me. Thank you for sharing.
@@natcunningham I think there's an aspect of singleness that some of us who have had bad marriages and were hurt in the process of separation/divorce where we can embrace singleness again because of the pain and suffering we endured. I don't know what others think ,but I definitely have!
I am almost 30 years and the ONLY one left in my entire family thats not married yet. I have young cousins 17 18 who are married already. I am soo happy being single but ofcourse I do want to have a family. God always gives me whats good for me at the best time and I know marriage he will give it to me. I am a muslim and strongly believe in the power of prayers. Your video has really given me that assurance as well, thank you so much and pls continue to dow what you do best. Take care
Thank you for being the realest girl out here! All these other TH-cam videos show girls who act like they never cared for marriage or never had a desire for it. I’m so glad you were honest about how badly you wanted to marry! I feel like your story is the one I resonate the most with and I truly feel it’s possible for me after hearing your story ❤️ thanks for sharing, it really means a lot
Thank you for the encouragement! Singleness really is a precious season, I wish more single people really understood how fleeting it is compared to being married for the rest of your life.
But I was married, but now I'm separated. So I am returning to single status. I'm not alone, because I live with brothers from my church who are in the same place as I am, and we're all in recovery for various addictions. I don't plan on dating anyone or getting married again. So I have reclaimed my singleness, and I am happy now, because I can get to know myself and draw closer to God!
Your testimony really touched me as a lady in her season of singleness thank you for being used by God, I would really love to hear your husbands journey to this blessed new married life as well!
I really appreciate this story, and as a 22 year old male, it is challenging when you feel very ready to enter into the vocation of the married life that you feel called to, but it's not happening. I think you articulate the mystery of God's plan in all of our lives in a really unique way that I hadn't encountered before, and I thank you for sharing and bringing encouragement to all of us seeking a spouse!
I got my singleness back. I was married to a woman who just clashed with me all the time. She finally asked me for a separation. My daughter told me that I will never be welcomed back, so I have to assume my ex wants a divorce. So now I am single again and this time I'm ok. I live with a group of brothers from church and we're all divorced and in recovery for various addictions. Now I want to get to know myself better, and draw closer to God! I don't plan on getting married again. I enjoy being single now.
If you were addicted, that’s why you and your wife clashed. God bless your recovery, and I hope you are clean for awhile before getting into a relationship.
Thank you, Nat, for your testimony! I grew up with two parents who got married young and had a very turbulent marriage because neither of them resolved their emotional traumas from their childhoods, and I've long lived in fear that I would end up in an abusive marriage. So it's very inspiring to see that you have found the right man for you, who helps bring peace to your heart.
I’m 23, raised by a single mother.. and I do not really know what a real marriage is like so this and my past relationships have made me feel like marriage isn’t for me.. like I’m unlovable.. idk .. I’m so close to god and this story really does inspire me. Thank u so much x
I am so happy to have seen this video. You are glowing by the way! I finally decided to walk away from the most abusive relationship since my early boyfriends in my early 20s. I am now about to be 26. And I am so excited to devote this time with me and God. I have a lot of healing, and inner peace to find. And it is difficult. I had a plan to get married and seeing so many people with kids. Is hard at this age, but I trust God fully. And I have started surrendering my pain and letting go! 💕 it’s amazing the healing that comes from putting God first. He has a plan.
This is exactly what I hope god has in store for me too. Your marriage is #goals. You glow when you talk about your hubby. When you explained the peace in your heart I felt that. I hope to feel that with my future husband some day.
I feel like God led me to this video tonight to encourage me! I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship last year but I have been trying to focus more on God since then. Your video and story gives me so much hope for my future! Thank you so much for sharing!!
You’re so pretty. Thank you for sharing your testimony, I’ll be 35 on Saturday. Trusting God for my husband but most importantly, getting close to God.
I feel the same! God gave me a better husband than I could've imagined. I thought I knew what kind of husband would've been good for me, but God gave me exactly what I needed. Bless you!
I “LOL-ED” when you were talking about your plans and timeline... is that a Latina thing? Bc giiiirl, let me tell you... I swore I was going to get married at 21, kids by 23. Here I am a few months away from 30 super single but finally at a place where I am content with this season. I could relate to a lot of what you mentioned from beginning to end... def so encouraged by your testimony to keep trusting in God’s plan! Ps: the fact that he made 2 different soups to make sure yours fit your diet 🥺💛.
Hahaha I love that!! Maybe it is a Latina thing 😅 I’m so happy this encouraged you and feeling content in your singleness. Keep praying and trusting in Gods plan. He’s got you 🤍
lol, I think it’s just a thing we do when we want to control how our life turns out. I wanted to be graduated from college by 22, married by 25 and kids by 27. When I tell you NONE OF THAT HAPPENED 🤣 I’m 28 now and I did have a kid but at 17 out of wedlock. Went to college but I didn’t finish and still single
@@key_aria3475 I’m 25 still haven’t finished my career and I haven’t had a boyfriend yet. I get what you mean but at this rate it feels like having a proper relationship will never happen for me. I mean I don’t see myself getting married while in my 20s but dating around school is tough. It’s the loneliness and desire to experience romantic love that gets me.
Girl, it’s a woman thing lol I planned out my entire life 👏🏽👏🏽 and I’m 29 and not married with no kids…so life DEFINITELY has turned out different than my plans but I trust the Lord 🙏🏽🎀
I am 27...and it's like I am hearing myself talking. I cried a lot of how everything you said is tooo relatable to be true!!! Writing this, I am single, but I do have hopes in God. I am a Muslim, and I too believe in surrendering. Sis, I feel every word. Thank you
I feel like this was sent to me. I was just broken up with after 4 years and my parents now really dislike the man I thought I would marry.. so now I feel like I'll die alone.
Thank you so much for sharing your testimony. I loved when you said that God gave you more than you thought that you needed. That is so true. I love the fact that you said that you did not turn down going on a coffee because you give others a chance and you do not know who you will meet. This testimony is a blessing to me and others.
I just saw this randomly and decided to watch. Thank you! This is so beautiful. I was smiling the entire time. I never know I needed this much of a "wake up call." I am happy being single and will appreciate my singleness, nurturing my self with God. Thank you so much. ❤️ May God bless you, your husband, and your family!
I know I’m still young, but there are times I feel like I’m never going to get married and sense I was little I dreamt of being a mom with a loving godly husband. Hopefully God gives me a true Godly husband who I can love and grow with.
i’m 19 and currently single, i’ve never been in a relationship before but i wrote down a husband list and left everything in gods hand and i am praying that it works out for me
A husband list ? What is that ? What is beautiful with a person is the unknown any list is useless you don't know which man is actually good for you, open your heart is what you need to do.
just came back say that god is truly so amazing and i’m so extremely thankful for the man of god that he’s blessed me with. truly leave everything in his hands and trust him fully and he will honestly take the reigns and bring you the person that he has most right for you for the good of his kingdom.
l receive my future husband in Jesus's name, Amen, greeting to all who believe that they can move from single life and head to married life, give a thumbs up💏🖒
Waiting on God's timing will teach you so much about yourself. If you are not ready for his blessings then it will become a curse. Learn about yourself and love yourself. Trust in the Lord and watch the blessings come. I just broke up with a really pretty girl but I saw that I was not ready for her! I still need to work on myself! I hope that if we ever get back together it'll be because we are both ready and because that is God's will! Thanks for the video! God bless!
Hello! Nice story! It really hurt me, when you said, "you didn't deserve love"! Wow! I sharedthe same misconception, resulting from being raised without my father. Now, I let God decide what I deserve! Thanks again!!!
I'm 33 married with 2 kids , I surrender everything to God no matter what happened to my life and my family , before my dream is to work as a nurse and earned $ to help my family in my home country BUT God guide me to become a mom 1st and enjoy every single moments with my babies and later on when they're easy to handle/ going to school I can go back to my passion . NOW they're little big enougj and I just started gathering stuff so I can work "as a nurse " my calling.... I trust his process to our God❤
You and me both 😂😂😂 I'm 25. The plan was to be engaged by 25 and get married by 26 then have babies around age 27 or 28. But I am currently single... No persons of interest in my life which means that I will definitely not get married by 26. Also, my body is changing in ways I did not anticipate and it is very hard to have these conversations with elder people because there are no safe spaces for those conversations. Sometimes I feel like I will miss out on my season for getting married especially when I witness younger girls getting married and starting families. But when I am anxious, I remind myself that I am never at the mercy of chance; so if marriage is part of what God has in store for me, in the fullness of time, it will come to pass. If not, He will carry me through the lonely days and my heart will rest in Him always.
I still think that these women are truly blessed first of all with real stunning beauty therefore finding a Godly husband is much easier for beautiful women rather than those who don't feel they look as good or have skin problems etc. So happy for this beautiful woman what an amazing testimony of our Creator once again x
I just want to encourage you that I met my husband when I was having the WORST skin issues of my life and he still wanted to marry me, haha! Truly, the man who is meant for you will love you entirely for you, bad skin and all. If you are solid in your relationship with God I believe that his light will shine out from you and the man you are meant to marry will recognise that and be attracted to it. I hope this is encouraging to you (if you need it)
Amen!! I love this! Yes beauty comes within!! Someone can be “ beautiful “ on the outside and not so pretty on the inside. That’s not someone you’ll want to spend the rest of your life with. Thank you for encouraging her 🥰
@@naomitrollopeillustration big difference between having skin problems and not being beautiful. Even pastors say wives should be attractive and that men are visual. If you are a nice person, a man will not be attracted to that unless you are pretty. He won't even approach you. So at the very least we can be realistic and say that it's much harder if you aren't beautiful. Let's not minimise how hard it is for some women because no amount of niceness will give the same chance as a beautiful woman
@@natcunningham men marry women like that all the time and nice women stay single. Because being nice doesn't get you a spouse but being beautiful does
This was so refreshing to watch. I have also been in several unhealthy relationships that I tried to seek fulfilment in instead of God, so I can resonate with your story. Also the fruit of the spirit is shining out of you so please keep sharing your heart. Thank you for your vulnerability, it is very encouraging (: God bless!
I'm 28 right now and i don't have any plan for marriage until i got my own house and having stable life not before 35 i guess,, but every time i see happy couple i feel sad about my self and all this wasted time.
Your testimony brought hope. Its funny that I could relate to a lot of things you said . Am 28 and by this age I though that I will be married and start to have a family but none of things happen. But I trust God that he still has a plan for me. ☺️
@monica ni You’re looking at the wrong type of men. You’re infatuated with alpha chads, but they just want to spin plates and run the moment she talks commitment, and/or realizes she won’t just open her legs. If you want a keeper, look in your friendzone. Yes, they’ll be far more likely to leave you bored, especially after the seven year itch, but at least they won’t be so likely to leave you, at least on average. Find a really good friend you already have amazing conversations with, see if you can agree on the deep stuff like kids, handling potential in laws, spending habits, life goals, etc., and if you agree on that, consider going physical.
Yes, I’m emotional listening to your testimony. I got here from watching your other video about 3 ways to enjoy singlehood. Im going to be 27 this year and I thought by now I would definitely be Atleast in a stable relationship but this surely gave me more hope and perspective. Thank you for the transparency.
I resonate so much with this comment, I am turning 27 in a month and I wanted to get married before I hit 25 I have been single now for about 3 years and honestly it's a rocky ride but listening to this I'm even more motivated to remain single and stay focused in my faith and being celibate and trust God will bring me a husband that he wants for me
@@leratomosiane2740 I study a lot of things on TH-cam university lol so the first suggestion is don’t ask God or Universe to send you a husband because the good ole saying “be careful what you wish for” is true and you may just get that. A husband BUT it will be somebody else’s and we don’t want that lol! Ask God to send you a special person as a boyfriend and committed partner who will align with most of your values and it will turn into a stable & happy marriage. I’m being very intentional and specific with my words in this season! 🙏🏽❤️
I have been in several toxic relationship, making me feel unwanted at the end of the day.. Right now, I am at peace with just myself. Someone spoke to me and I knew that God really spoke through him.. I am ready to build my relationship with God. When it's time, my own spouse will find me...
I‘m 22 and a single mom. I also grew up with a single parent and always wanted to get married and live with love. I‘m sad that I put my heart and faith into the wrong one. It really hurts and scares me. I know I am a good woman with great qualities regardless but now a man not only has to commit to me but also a child that’s not his. And even though my daughter is truly a blessing and such a sweet and happy girl, it seems a lot of men can’t handle commitment. I‘m so excited about life, to explore and see miracles. I just wish I could love someone again and be loved by them just the same.
Thank you for sharing!! Don’t give up hope and continue to love on your sweet girl. God is so good and there’s amazing men out there that will love you and your daughter together 🤍
Thank you for making this video. I am struggling right now. I am 25, in July I will be 26. My love life has been complicated. I am trying to trust God but I am finding it so hard and painful. I often have immense anxiety that I will never get married and have my soulmate. You are extremely beautiful inside & out. I wish I had your facial features, and also your voice is so soothing. I am so happy I found your video and I am happy for you that God gave you your husband. I'm trying. I'm hanging in there but it hurts and I feel heavy. I'm in tears as I watch this. I kinda experienced something similar to your story growing up, and have always tried finding love through boyfriends instead of God. If you somehow see this please pray for me :( God bless you. Thank you.
I’m so glad this gave you some hope, but I’m so sorry you’re feeling discouraged. Like I said I’ve been there and it’s hard but DONT LOSE HOPE. The best thing is to focus on becoming your best self and being around good friends. God sees you. I’ll be saying a prayer for you today 🤍 Gods timing is PERFECT.
God bless you. I have 45 years old ,and I have dreamed from 11 years to marry, but sometimes , even if I had an intersection with " The One" for the moment I'm still single. I was single for 18 years and nothing happened . This time was for growing up with God. I wished to go to an christian college but God send me to Architecture University. Later He told me that made that with a purpose . It was hard but not I am grateful for that
Thank you Nat. I really needed to hear that. Thanks for obeying God to share you experience. I have been praying for my husband for years. God has recently told me that he is preparing me for my husband. Stay blessed.
This is such a good video. I’m the same, I never had that figure of what a marriage is or that male figure. I’ve been in unhealthy situationships and knew this isn’t what I wanted and had to go to therapy to figure out what I want and address those childhood issues. Now I’ve never been better, happy being by myself and enjoying being single while I can. Trust the process and the time will come when I can allow someone in. Thankyou xx
Amen sister!!! I have a similar story. I grew up in a single mother household wanting to be married and didn’t have an example…. Now I have examples. Now I’ve been single mother for a long time but I feel that I am close to my husband… God is truly amazing. I must learn to trust and wait on him.
Thank you for sharing your story. I feel like I was meant to find your video and watch it. I literally cried while watching it. I know I just have to trust in God's perfect timing! Again, thank you, this was really encouraging ❤️
This is so random. i lterally was srolling my yt and find this video. I am only 22 yo but I pray for a good hustband everyday. I am so unpatient because like you said I think I know what I need now. But the true is that only God knows when, where or how. So I decide to trust His plan. Right now I grabing my rosary and going to pray for you and your hustband and everyone who are single . Jesus I trust in You!
I'm nearing 38 and still single. I've never been married nor even dated. I desire to marry but it seems it's never going to happen. Thanks for sharing your story!
Thank you sooooo much for sharing. Your story of your childhood is similar to mine and rarely do I come across videos where that is the case. This really encouraged me and just blessed me.♥️ please keep them coming!
I’m 23 and single .Also, was asking God what He wants me to do next after this program I’m doing and felt like I should go to Hillsong College Africa and I feel so much peace about it . Just scared that i won’t be able to get a good job as I am not coming from a financial stable family . So I don’t know 😭
My next video is going to be my Hillsong college testimony! Trust me, i didn’t have the finances either but He will provide!!! It was a miracle that I got a job over there. He has you!! Hillsong college Africa would be INCREDIBLE 🥰
I think that people should realize that there's a difference between not immediately realizing that someone is attractive and then it dawns on you, vs. being repulsed by someone that you find unattractive and then lowering your standards and giving them a chance. The latter is called settling and it generally is a bad idea.
So glad this video was recommended to me. 🤍 Thank you for sharing your testimony! Today is Valentine’s Day and it hit me HARD. I lost a good man a few months ago, whom I took for granted. In all honesty I have always had a boyfriend since a teen and now I’m single at 35, turning 36 in April. Although I do trust God and have surrendered, it’s hard sometimes when I’m still heartbroken. Some days I’m on fire for Jesus and other days I’m sad in my bed all day. Asking for prayers 🙏
Thank you for sharing your story! I’ve definitely been in your shoes before. What you are going through will pass... it won’t last forever. And try to keep your eyes focused on what you learned from it. The up and down days are normal so don’t be so hard on yourself. God has your back 🤍
Don't take a man for granted because a man has to put in the work for things to happen in reality meanwhile women wait for this man to manifest in their life by God's will. The n'est you can do is to prepare yourself to be the best for your husband physically, mentally and spiritually. You can't fake it, your energy needs to come from an aura of genuine goodness to attract your husband.
This was soo nice to listen to! I had a smile across my face when you were talking about how God's timing was perfect for you and how you prayed for something and your husband was all the things you asked God about. So so good! Thank you for the video! Even though I'd like to meet my guy someday I'm just getting more and more okay with my singleness. I want peace when I meet someone and that hasn't happened yet, but maybe it is jut my personality idk :D
It’s not just your personality; it’s simply the right way to go in general. You could look in your friendzone. The best, most stable marriages are great friendships, first. Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds, along with the Life Uncontained couple, are great examples.
To have that peace is soooo important. i was with a guy and i didn't feel any peace on my heart. So that's when you know you should move on. ☺️I m glad to watch your video hehe
thanks for sharing with us! God wrote a beautiful story in your lives!! You carry so much of the light of Jesus, i would love to hear more about your journey with the Lord.
I don’t know how this came across my newsfeed but I’m thankful it did. I’ve been questioning if I’m deserving of true love. I just wrote in my journal and prayed to God about my worries. I’m 33 by the way and I don’t feel I’ve ever been properly courted. Praying that God tells me when to look up when it’s time for me to meet my husband❤️❤️
I’m 19 and I’ve already felt like giving up because I’ve used dating apps and it feels like nobody is ever going to truly love me for who I am, I don’t do hookups or friends with benefits which is pretty much the norm in my generation when it comes to dating. ( I’m a pretty cute person but guys still manage to walk all over me ) I feel like I have to lower my standards to even find a man who will be with me. but even still it feels like guys walk all over me. I’m not sure what I’m gonna do to meet someone anymore. Why has god not given me a person who loves me. Why am I stuck with people who don’t truly care about me? I have been given guys that have cheated, hurt me and lied to me. When am I gonna find someone who truly loves me?
Hi Zoe! You’re so young still. Don’t let the ways of the world discourage you! Be confident in who you are! Not your looks or what people think of you but truly know that your worth is in who you are as a person. Don’t lower your standards. Continue to enjoy your life. Do things you love. Embrace the season of being able to focus on yourself and be the best YOU! The right guy will love and care about you for you.. even with your flaws ( we all have them ).
I am getting married in 4 months and I am 20 I never thought I will be married so young I wanted to get married at 24-26 but I am happy maybe its the right time for me
I also don't have a father figure in my life. It's kinda hard being single and at the same time, I can't be with anyone right now because I'm at the point where God is at the centre, where I'm making a relationship with Him. When it's time for the one to come, he'll come. Just let God lead🔥✨💕
Thank you for sharing this! It is so interesting and encouraging hearing your testimony, from a female perspective. I can relate to SO many things you said about the way you grew up, the unhealthy relationships that followed and then the process of surrendering to God and finding your security and identity in Him. Shalom!
Always, i find anotger man to replace the one who broke me off and all the relationship went toxic . Thanks for this video as i have to be happy by my own first instead of asking my partner to complete me
When you said surrender is so important. That is sooo real. Everything you stated in this video was confirmation.. especially the timeline part (lol).Thank you so much for sharing !!
I don’t know why people say enjoy singleness because no one ever truly does...it’s lovely. It may beneficial to be single sometimes and it may be happy for some people sometimes but honestly everyone looks for someone. Including me...I feel it’s over for me I will never find someone like this...I feel like by the time someone does come I won’t believe in love anymore. I’m starting not to
I’m so sorry to hear you losing hope :( I’m uploading a new video on what helped me in my singleness this Friday. I pray it encourages you if you get to watching it 🙏🏼
@@natcunninghamI hope God helps you to see this one day but God redirected me to this post. Long story short, I had forgotten on commented on here and so much has happened in my life. I have continued my journey of singleness and have found what I think is love although God has seperated us and guess what? I am still content being single. More than ever even with hopes of one day having a family like you. I have also become close to God since two year ago and I just see this with new eyes and feel I can relate better. Thank you for taking the time to comment and I hope to continue following your TH-cam journey. God bless 🤍
Good testimony. Thank you very much. I appreciate the fact that you were so open and vulnerable about your testimony. I, too, am trusting God every day. Thank you again! 😀
I think you guys are my favourite reactors. You are one of the few reactors that seem to get it without a lot of explanation. Looking forward to more videos.
I'm 24 y/o male. I've been single and a virgin my whole life. I'm in good physical condition and life is generally going well I'm just afraid of putting myself out there. I get discouraged easily but I ask God for confidence. I'll pray for others and myself. I just want one girl eventually...
props to you!!!!! may God bless you
You have more options as a man so that's good, awesome that you're still a virgin
I love that you do preserve yourself bro. Keep going and don't be shy. God has a reward for you. I personally did until age 29. Let no one lie to you that having sex before marriage is beneficial. Besides don't be afraid to associate with people. I can send you a nice video that could help
@Slash Haha hey there! I'm 23 and in the exact same situation.. I have never even dated someone! All my friends keep telling me that I don't seem approachable for a guy to come up and talk to me.. but I'm just shy when I meet new people! So try to develop your trust in God and please don't be afraid to put yourself out there! It's very attractive when a man comes up and talks to us honestly and straight about his feelings!! We really appreciate it. Nowadays such behaviours have almost disappeared. May God help you with your journey! 😊🙏
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Don't worry if you are single, god's looking at you right now, saying .... I'm saving this girl for someone special 💕
Please pray for me that God sends me a good husband.
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I'm 43 and was celibate for 6 1/2 years. I finally open my heart to a person and was cheated on yet last year.
I said lord I don't want to be the age of Sarah by the time I get married. My father is getting old and my mom passed away. I was hoping to have both my parents at my wedding.It's hard to keep hope/faith at my age and never been married. Maybe, now I need intercessory prayer. 🙏
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry to hear about all the heartbreak. I know God will restore your life as He did mine when I was also in a damaging relationship. I’ll say a prayer for you today! 🙏🏼
@@natcunningham Thank you very much. 🤗
I pray to God that you will meet a great husband soon. Try to do volunteer work, there you can meet good people.
May Allah grant you lovely life🤲🏻💕
I'm also 43 .had a bad breakup .got over him but don't trust anyone anymore😒😒 but I do feel lonely sometimes 😐
@@lynnk777 stay optimistic sis. Each experience in life is important for your growth, the pleasant and the sad ones.
I ask Allah to grant us all strength 🤲🏻❤️
God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory
Yes amen!!! 🙏🏼
@@natcunningham Amen 🙏
i have realized @jada johnson she replies in almost all videos.like.such,
May God bless you with your manifestation.of your divine.husband.
@@queeneplanet4940 amen I prayed for my new future husband
Amen sister!
‘You think you know what you want, but it’s not really what you need.’ That is SO a true, my husband is totally different to the kind of person I expected to marry, but he is literally exactly what I need in a husband in ways I never would have imagined. Not sure why I watched your video as a married person but I’m so encouraged by your testimony for my sisters in Christ who are single and seeking marriage. Thank you so much for sharing!
Haha I love this!! And yes isn’t it so true? I’m glad you enjoyed it 🥰
My spouse is different too in a great way, may I ask what do you mean about what you never imagined?
God will give you a spouse that you hate..
I'm 28 and still single. My friends used to wonder, but for me God is my everything and I'm happy with my single life. If its God's will, I will meet my soul mate someday like u. ❤️❤️❤️
Yes amen!! 🥰🥰
I am also 28 and still single. 💖
Amen
28 is not old . Most of 28 are single
Amennnn!!
"Enjoy your singleness... you will never get it back" I needed to hear this. Thank you😋
Unless you're single forever which is what prevents people from enjoying it. If they knew for sure they'd get married then of course they'd enjoy it more. Easier to say when you're married
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Exactly!! I’m 32 never been in serious relationship. Gave my life to Christ 11 years ago, and I’ve had my seasons of peace but it gets old, it get depressing and when this season leaves, I will not want it back
It's too hard to be alone
Enjoy it as in sleeping around??
"If God can do it for me, then God can do it for you" - I really like that.
I guess you have to serve in church to find a nice guy. My friend served and her now husband met her in church. Seek first the kingdom of God and everything will be added unto you
I believe God can do anything, anywhere! Church is just a nice place because you are meeting people with similar values. God will bring you someone at the perfect time 💕
It's not really about serving in church but having a pure intentioned heart for God. Where we make the mistake is doing something for God and expecting a return. But if we truly love him and give ourselves to God nothing is impossible with him. The wife is revealed when we least expect it
I've served in the church for many years during my still single going on 13 years and I didn't meet a man there. 😭
She is probably the first person who hasn't "romanticized" marriage. She is giving you the hard truths about marriage, the reality. Whereas everybody are like ... wow marriage is the best, having a husband is the best, I love my life being married blah blah blah. Yes marriage is great but it is sacrifice and hardwork. Thank you Nat for shedding light on that. :)
Aw thank you!! 🥰
@@KadenogiI don't think so, it's no more harder than just being a human living life. I find single life harder than marriage, I think it's all about finding the right person.
I’m already 34 😭 and all my family members especially my mum are pressuring me when to get married and have a baby..... I’m also surrendering all my worries to God....🙏🏻
Oh gal, God has you 1000%. I have a friend that got married at 37 and is having her first baby at 40. He has perfect timing and it’ll be worth the wait. 🙏🏼🤍
Thanks for the encouragement 😘😇🙏🏻🙏🏻
Im 31 and freaking out 😱
Girl I feel ya. I’m about to turn 36 😏 but it’s honestly my first time being single ever. I know it’s my time to heal and surrender wholeheartedly to Jesus. I trust in him
@@ennvee1989 lol 😂 same here... I’m pressured already by my family
I was literally looking for a relationship and ended up having many toxic ones until God spoke to me. He made me see the kind of person He has created for me and the self I’m meant to be to match with that person. I just suddenly realized that I’m still so far from who I’m meant to be. There’s still so much work needs to be done and I’m far not ready for that person or settling down yet. Since then I’ve been working on myself and my relationship with God, and it’s been the most fulfilling time. Amazing changes happening to me due to the work I’ve been doing with God, and I have no doubt that one day God will present that person to me when I’m ready.
Thank you for sharing your story! I love this! You won’t regret the hard work you’re doing to becoming your best self 🤍
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Hi ❤❤
As a woman in my later 30s waiting (content though), this is very encouraging to hear. I can feel and sense the joy within your life. God bless you and your marriage!
I’m so glad 🤍🤍🤍
Ha! 37 here. God’s with me. Will find the one this year hopefully.
Hi ❤❤❤😍🌷
Wanna be content , I'm not . Kinda bitter , hopeless , discouraged . Pray for me please .
I am so grateful for this video Nat, thank you so much. I'm 19, almost 20, and I've never dated or had a bf. I'm in college, and it's frustrating sometimes seeing all the couples because I want that sometimes, you know? But at the same time, I want to enjoy my singleness and grow deeper in my relationship with God. But some days I have low points where I just feel like no one will ever love me and that I'll never be married. Today was one of those days. A lot of tears. It was hard. But I stumbled on your video and I am so happy I watched it. I feel encouraged, especially when you said that you didn't feel like anyone would love you and stuff. Thank you Nat. God bless you.
Aw... thank you so much for sharing your story. This is exactly why I started this channel and it makes me heart so happy that it encouraged you at the right time 🤍 I’m uploading a new video this Friday about what helped me in my singleness. I pray that will encourage you as well 🙏🏼🥰
Queen. Once you find someone who sees all the good things in your eyes. You will melt with love. Above all. Learn to express this love to them counted as not deserving you will be amazed.
I relate to this so much. God bless you. ❤️❤️
Love comes when you least expect or when you don't have the intention.
I agree with your comment.
most idiotic comment i have ever heard
So true. After some failures I said I don't want any more boys and in six Days It Will be 2 months since my boyfriend and I are together ❤❤❤
I needed this 🥺
My 10 years relationship ended when we were planning about marriage, I knew it had to happen since God gave me the peace that I needed when he broke up with me. God told me that he will be with me. I really thought he was the one since he was the guy I was praying for b4 I even met him. Now I'm trusting God with everything, I'm letting him chose the man that he wants me to be with. I'm trying to live my life again being single after so long. I'm turning 29 this year, I kinda panicked because of my age, and everything doesn't make sense to me right now, I still kept thinking if I wasn't worth it. I'm waiting on God's perfect time, I'm still in the process of healing.
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry you’ve been through such a hard breakup I can’t imagine the hurt you’re going through after 10 years! I’ve totally been there.
continue to keep a hopeful heart in the process of healing. Trust God that he only has the best for you at the perfect time and you’ll look back and thank Him for his timing 🤍🙏🏼
@@natcunningham I am Indian boy, mom what is the reason for divorce? Foreign country enjoyment life, foreign country my thoughts good fashion, good freedom, happy life 💓
@@brandon556 my heart's still broken and I don't know where to go from here. Thank you for asking.
@@Joy2theworld24 thank you
@@quennierose3325 Hi ❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story! You remind me of Vanessa Hudgens haha :)
Haha I get that a lot 😅🤍
that’s who she reminded me of when i saw the thumbnail
Yes I said the same thing!
And she really sound like her 😂
Yes!!!
“I think surrendering is important.” I couldn’t agree more. I’d like to discover my Mr. Right sooner rather than later. I’m remaining patient. Thank you for providing reassurance.
I'm 28 and still living a single life.God will send me godly husband and I declare in Jesus Name 🙏. Thanks for the encouraging testimony.
Yes amen!! He sees your heart 🙏🏼🤍
He sure will. What do you look for in a godly husband?
@@brandon556 thanks
@@brandon556 I'm from Fiji 🇫🇯
@@bencroacademy loyalty powerful man of God
I’m 31, single and the waiting process has been hard :(. Just gotta keep trusting God. He will bring him when the time is right 🙏 ps. You’re so beautiful 😍
Yes , amen! I’m uploading a new video this Friday on what helped me in my singleness. I pray it encourages you 🙏🏼🤍
Don’t worry same here. I turned 32. It’s hard and can be sad and lonely..🥺 time will come for us....
31 over here too. Trusting in the Lord.
Hello beautiful baby. Please can I discuss with you something important???
Same here. God bless you all, my sisters in Christ. 💕
Your story really touched me. I've been single for almost 2 years now. And this is just so encouraging to me, having come out of a rough place and desiring what is good and what God wants for me. Thank you for sharing.
I’m so glad! 🤍
Being a guy I feel like being single is really hard. Trying to grow in my relationship with the lord and waiting for a spouse its super difficult.
Definitely not easy! But possible!
I agree, it's hard brother
@@Joy2theworld24 thankyou forbthe encouragement but I decided to take the year off and focus on Jesus then I will
Hi nolan maybe we can meet
@@natcunningham I think there's an aspect of singleness that some of us who have had bad marriages and were hurt in the process of separation/divorce where we can embrace singleness again because of the pain and suffering we endured. I don't know what others think ,but I definitely have!
“Everything I didn’t know I needed.” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Im so glad 🤍🤍🤍
It’s the “My cat is a horse” intro for me 😂🐈⬛
Hahaha she sounds like one when she’s hyper!
I am almost 30 years and the ONLY one left in my entire family thats not married yet. I have young cousins 17 18 who are married already. I am soo happy being single but ofcourse I do want to have a family. God always gives me whats good for me at the best time and I know marriage he will give it to me. I am a muslim and strongly believe in the power of prayers. Your video has really given me that assurance as well, thank you so much and pls continue to dow what you do best. Take care
Thank you for sharing your story 🤍 Yes - God is so so good and faithful. Stay hopeful 🙏🏼
Thank you for being the realest girl out here! All these other TH-cam videos show girls who act like they never cared for marriage or never had a desire for it. I’m so glad you were honest about how badly you wanted to marry! I feel like your story is the one I resonate the most with and I truly feel it’s possible for me after hearing your story ❤️ thanks for sharing, it really means a lot
This makes me so happy! 🥰
Thank you for the encouragement! Singleness really is a precious season, I wish more single people really understood how fleeting it is compared to being married for the rest of your life.
I agree!
But I was married, but now I'm separated. So I am returning to single status. I'm not alone, because I live with brothers from my church who are in the same place as I am, and we're all in recovery for various addictions. I don't plan on dating anyone or getting married again. So I have reclaimed my singleness, and I am happy now, because I can get to know myself and draw closer to God!
Your testimony really touched me as a lady in her season of singleness thank you for being used by God, I would really love to hear your husbands journey to this blessed new married life as well!
Thank you for dropping this encouraging comment! I’m so glad it was encouraging for you 🥰
I really appreciate this story, and as a 22 year old male, it is challenging when you feel very ready to enter into the vocation of the married life that you feel called to, but it's not happening. I think you articulate the mystery of God's plan in all of our lives in a really unique way that I hadn't encountered before, and I thank you for sharing and bringing encouragement to all of us seeking a spouse!
I’m so glad!!! 🙏🏼
Update
@@LenzFabian Married man to a beautiful Catholic girl!
I got my singleness back. I was married to a woman who just clashed with me all the time. She finally asked me for a separation. My daughter told me that I will never be welcomed back, so I have to assume my ex wants a divorce. So now I am single again and this time I'm ok. I live with a group of brothers from church and we're all divorced and in recovery for various addictions. Now I want to get to know myself better, and draw closer to God! I don't plan on getting married again. I enjoy being single now.
If you were addicted, that’s why you and your wife clashed. God bless your recovery, and I hope you are clean for awhile before getting into a relationship.
I don't know why this suddenly popped up in my recommended but I guess it's a sign so let me listen
Thank you, Nat, for your testimony! I grew up with two parents who got married young and had a very turbulent marriage because neither of them resolved their emotional traumas from their childhoods, and I've long lived in fear that I would end up in an abusive marriage. So it's very inspiring to see that you have found the right man for you, who helps bring peace to your heart.
I’m so glad this encouraged you! Believing the same happiness for you! 🤍
I’m 23, raised by a single mother.. and I do not really know what a real marriage is like so this and my past relationships have made me feel like marriage isn’t for me.. like I’m unlovable.. idk .. I’m so close to god and this story really does inspire me. Thank u so much x
I’m so happy!! Thank you for sharing 🥰
Same
The best, most stable, longest-lasting marriages are friendships, first. The Life Uncontained couple and Blake Lively / Ryan Reynolds are goals.
Hi ❤❤
Are you married now, I am single and want to marry
That at peace feeling, that’s from God for sure!!
Yes amen 🙏🏼🤍
I am so happy to have seen this video. You are glowing by the way!
I finally decided to walk away from the most abusive relationship since my early boyfriends in my early 20s. I am now about to be 26. And I am so excited to devote this time with me and God. I have a lot of healing, and inner peace to find. And it is difficult. I had a plan to get married and seeing so many people with kids. Is hard at this age, but I trust God fully. And I have started surrendering my pain and letting go!
💕 it’s amazing the healing that comes from putting God first. He has a plan.
Yes, amen!! I love this! You deserve the best. Love yourself and continue to dig deep with God.🤍
This is exactly what I hope god has in store for me too. Your marriage is #goals. You glow when you talk about your hubby. When you explained the peace in your heart I felt that. I hope to feel that with my future husband some day.
Awe 🥰 thank you so much. You definitely will just know when He’s the one. Praying you do! 🙏🏼
“You think you know what you want but it’s not really what you need.” Love that quote!!!
I feel like God led me to this video tonight to encourage me! I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship last year but I have been trying to focus more on God since then. Your video and story gives me so much hope for my future! Thank you so much for sharing!!
I’m so happy you’re doing that. You deserve the best!! I’m so glad this encouraged you🥰🥰
You’re so pretty. Thank you for sharing your testimony, I’ll be 35 on Saturday. Trusting God for my husband but most importantly, getting close to God.
Yes amen!!! And thank you so much 🥰 happy early b-day! 💕
@Brandon Avery I’m fine
@Brandon Avery I’m 35 and my birthday was on the 13th of February.
@Brandon Avery I’m Nigerian
@Brandon Avery I live in Nigeria and yes I’m single
I feel the same! God gave me a better husband than I could've imagined. I thought I knew what kind of husband would've been good for me, but God gave me exactly what I needed. Bless you!
Loved what you said we might think we know what we want but God knows what we need!! this has really encouraged me thanks xox
I’m so glad 🤍
Olivia well said
Hi ❤❤
You don’t even know how much I needed to hear this. Wow God is so faithful🤍
Aweee 🥲 I am so happy to hear that! 🥰🥰
I “LOL-ED” when you were talking about your plans and timeline... is that a Latina thing? Bc giiiirl, let me tell you... I swore I was going to get married at 21, kids by 23. Here I am a few months away from 30 super single but finally at a place where I am content with this season. I could relate to a lot of what you mentioned from beginning to end... def so encouraged by your testimony to keep trusting in God’s plan!
Ps: the fact that he made 2 different soups to make sure yours fit your diet 🥺💛.
Hahaha I love that!! Maybe it is a Latina thing 😅 I’m so happy this encouraged you and feeling content in your singleness. Keep praying and trusting in Gods plan. He’s got you 🤍
It’s just you. I’m latina and can’t wait to pop out my first and last child in my late thirties.
lol, I think it’s just a thing we do when we want to control how our life turns out. I wanted to be graduated from college by 22, married by 25 and kids by 27. When I tell you NONE OF THAT HAPPENED 🤣 I’m 28 now and I did have a kid but at 17 out of wedlock. Went to college but I didn’t finish and still single
@@key_aria3475 I’m 25 still haven’t finished my career and I haven’t had a boyfriend yet. I get what you mean but at this rate it feels like having a proper relationship will never happen for me. I mean I don’t see myself getting married while in my 20s but dating around school is tough. It’s the loneliness and desire to experience romantic love that gets me.
Girl, it’s a woman thing lol I planned out my entire life 👏🏽👏🏽 and I’m 29 and not married with no kids…so life DEFINITELY has turned out different than my plans but I trust the Lord 🙏🏽🎀
I am 27...and it's like I am hearing myself talking. I cried a lot of how everything you said is tooo relatable to be true!!! Writing this, I am single, but I do have hopes in God. I am a Muslim, and I too believe in surrendering. Sis, I feel every word. Thank you
Try Jesus Christ. He loves you ❤️
Congratulations! You're bubbling with joy when you talk about him. May you both be blessed!!
Thank you! 🤍
Amen.
I feel like this was sent to me. I was just broken up with after 4 years and my parents now really dislike the man I thought I would marry.. so now I feel like I'll die alone.
Don’t lose hope!
Thank you so much for sharing your testimony. I loved when you said that God gave you more than you thought that you needed. That is so true. I love the fact that you said that you did not turn down going on a coffee because you give others a chance and you do not know who you will meet. This testimony is a blessing to me and others.
I’m so happy this blessed you!! 🤍
I just saw this randomly and decided to watch. Thank you! This is so beautiful. I was smiling the entire time. I never know I needed this much of a "wake up call." I am happy being single and will appreciate my singleness, nurturing my self with God. Thank you so much. ❤️ May God bless you, your husband, and your family!
Wow! I’m so happy to hear this. Thank you!! God bless 🤍🥰
Delta is hilarious and you are so beautiful and wise, I’m a lucky man😍
love you honey !
Awwn that’s so cute
Super cute you two!!!! Omg😍
I know I’m still young, but there are times I feel like I’m never going to get married and sense I was little I dreamt of being a mom with a loving godly husband. Hopefully God gives me a true Godly husband who I can love and grow with.
Yes, amen! He placed those desires in your heart 🙏🏼🤍
@@joerasiah3519 No it isn't, it's better to serve God in a marriage, it's how it's supposed to be.
i’m 19 and currently single, i’ve never been in a relationship before but i wrote down a husband list and left everything in gods hand and i am praying that it works out for me
wow i should try this too for my future wife i am 29
A husband list ? What is that ? What is beautiful with a person is the unknown any list is useless you don't know which man is actually good for you, open your heart is what you need to do.
Look in your friendzone.
just came back say that god is truly so amazing and i’m so extremely thankful for the man of god that he’s blessed me with. truly leave everything in his hands and trust him fully and he will honestly take the reigns and bring you the person that he has most right for you for the good of his kingdom.
@@annie-ys6nb hi
l receive my future husband in Jesus's name, Amen, greeting to all who believe that they can move from single life and head to married life, give a thumbs up💏🖒
Waiting on God's timing will teach you so much about yourself. If you are not ready for his blessings then it will become a curse. Learn about yourself and love yourself. Trust in the Lord and watch the blessings come. I just broke up with a really pretty girl but I saw that I was not ready for her! I still need to work on myself! I hope that if we ever get back together it'll be because we are both ready and because that is God's will! Thanks for the video! God bless!
Amen!! Thank you for sharing 🤍
Hello! Nice story! It really hurt me, when you said, "you didn't deserve love"! Wow! I sharedthe same misconception, resulting from being raised without my father. Now, I let God decide what I deserve! Thanks again!!!
I'm 33 married with 2 kids , I surrender everything to God no matter what happened to my life and my family , before my dream is to work as a nurse and earned $ to help my family in my home country BUT God guide me to become a mom 1st and enjoy every single moments with my babies and later on when they're easy to handle/ going to school I can go back to my passion . NOW they're little big enougj and I just started gathering stuff so I can work "as a nurse " my calling.... I trust his process to our God❤
Aw I love this!! Thank you for sharing!!! 🤍🤍
I always thought that 26 would be a good age to get married. Almost 29 now and still single 😅 I’m learning to trust in God.
I know how you feel haha God has the perfect timing for you 🤍🙏🏼
Amen! Thank you!
You and me both 😂😂😂
I'm 25. The plan was to be engaged by 25 and get married by 26 then have babies around age 27 or 28.
But I am currently single... No persons of interest in my life which means that I will definitely not get married by 26.
Also, my body is changing in ways I did not anticipate and it is very hard to have these conversations with elder people because there are no safe spaces for those conversations.
Sometimes I feel like I will miss out on my season for getting married especially when I witness younger girls getting married and starting families. But when I am anxious, I remind myself that I am never at the mercy of chance; so if marriage is part of what God has in store for me, in the fullness of time, it will come to pass. If not, He will carry me through the lonely days and my heart will rest in Him always.
I still think that these women are truly blessed first of all with real stunning beauty therefore finding a Godly husband is much easier for beautiful women rather than those who don't feel they look as good or have skin problems etc. So happy for this beautiful woman what an amazing testimony of our Creator once again x
I just want to encourage you that I met my husband when I was having the WORST skin issues of my life and he still wanted to marry me, haha! Truly, the man who is meant for you will love you entirely for you, bad skin and all. If you are solid in your relationship with God I believe that his light will shine out from you and the man you are meant to marry will recognise that and be attracted to it. I hope this is encouraging to you (if you need it)
Amen!! I love this! Yes beauty comes within!! Someone can be “ beautiful “ on the outside and not so pretty on the inside. That’s not someone you’ll want to spend the rest of your life with. Thank you for encouraging her 🥰
This is true, much easier when you are beautiful and that goes for men and women
@@naomitrollopeillustration big difference between having skin problems and not being beautiful. Even pastors say wives should be attractive and that men are visual.
If you are a nice person, a man will not be attracted to that unless you are pretty. He won't even approach you. So at the very least we can be realistic and say that it's much harder if you aren't beautiful. Let's not minimise how hard it is for some women because no amount of niceness will give the same chance as a beautiful woman
@@natcunningham men marry women like that all the time and nice women stay single. Because being nice doesn't get you a spouse but being beautiful does
This was so refreshing to watch. I have also been in several unhealthy relationships that I tried to seek fulfilment in instead of God, so I can resonate with your story. Also the fruit of the spirit is shining out of you so please keep sharing your heart. Thank you for your vulnerability, it is very encouraging (: God bless!
I’m so glad. thank you so much 🥺🫶🏼
am 37yrs single and i really enjoy my single moment coz i know God will soon give me that one guy who will keep me busy.
@@brandon556 wow thank you 🙏
@@brandon556 am from Kenya 🇰🇪
I'm 28 right now and i don't have any plan for marriage until i got my own house and having stable life not before 35 i guess,, but every time i see happy couple i feel sad about my self and all this wasted time.
I feel exactly the same
Your testimony brought hope. Its funny that I could relate to a lot of things you said . Am 28 and by this age I though that I will be married and start to have a family but none of things happen. But I trust God that he still has a plan for me. ☺️
I’m so glad! Amen to that. He definitely has the best plan for you 🤍
@monica ni You’re looking at the wrong type of men. You’re infatuated with alpha chads, but they just want to spin plates and run the moment she talks commitment, and/or realizes she won’t just open her legs. If you want a keeper, look in your friendzone. Yes, they’ll be far more likely to leave you bored, especially after the seven year itch, but at least they won’t be so likely to leave you, at least on average. Find a really good friend you already have amazing conversations with, see if you can agree on the deep stuff like kids, handling potential in laws, spending habits, life goals, etc., and if you agree on that, consider going physical.
Yes, I’m emotional listening to your testimony. I got here from watching your other video about 3 ways to enjoy singlehood. Im going to be 27 this year and I thought by now I would definitely be Atleast in a stable relationship but this surely gave me more hope and perspective. Thank you for the transparency.
I’m so glad!! don’t ever lose hope 🤍
I resonate so much with this comment, I am turning 27 in a month and I wanted to get married before I hit 25 I have been single now for about 3 years and honestly it's a rocky ride but listening to this I'm even more motivated to remain single and stay focused in my faith and being celibate and trust God will bring me a husband that he wants for me
@@leratomosiane2740 I study a lot of things on TH-cam university lol so the first suggestion is don’t ask God or Universe to send you a husband because the good ole saying “be careful what you wish for” is true and you may just get that. A husband BUT it will be somebody else’s and we don’t want that lol! Ask God to send you a special person as a boyfriend and committed partner who will align with most of your values and it will turn into a stable & happy marriage. I’m being very intentional and specific with my words in this season! 🙏🏽❤️
thanks for all the love!! 🥺🤍
I have been in several toxic relationship, making me feel unwanted at the end of the day.. Right now, I am at peace with just myself. Someone spoke to me and I knew that God really spoke through him.. I am ready to build my relationship with God. When it's time, my own spouse will find me...
To ALL ladies trusting and waiting on God for Godly spouses may GOD come thr for us soonest.. He cares
Amen!
Amen! Keep strong gal
I‘m 22 and a single mom. I also grew up with a single parent and always wanted to get married and live with love.
I‘m sad that I put my heart and faith into the wrong one. It really hurts and scares me. I know I am a good woman with great qualities regardless but now a man not only has to commit to me but also a child that’s not his. And even though my daughter is truly a blessing and such a sweet and happy girl, it seems a lot of men can’t handle commitment.
I‘m so excited about life, to explore and see miracles. I just wish I could love someone again and be loved by them just the same.
Thank you for sharing!! Don’t give up hope and continue to love on your sweet girl. God is so good and there’s amazing men out there that will love you and your daughter together 🤍
Wow, you look similar to Vanessa Hudgens :)
Haha I get that a lot
Frrrr
Thank you for making this video. I am struggling right now. I am 25, in July I will be 26. My love life has been complicated. I am trying to trust God but I am finding it so hard and painful. I often have immense anxiety that I will never get married and have my soulmate. You are extremely beautiful inside & out. I wish I had your facial features, and also your voice is so soothing. I am so happy I found your video and I am happy for you that God gave you your husband. I'm trying. I'm hanging in there but it hurts and I feel heavy. I'm in tears as I watch this. I kinda experienced something similar to your story growing up, and have always tried finding love through boyfriends instead of God. If you somehow see this please pray for me :( God bless you. Thank you.
I’m so glad this gave you some hope, but I’m so sorry you’re feeling discouraged. Like I said I’ve been there and it’s hard but DONT LOSE HOPE. The best thing is to focus on becoming your best self and being around good friends. God sees you. I’ll be saying a prayer for you today 🤍 Gods timing is PERFECT.
@@natcunningham Thank you so much
Laughing at my life timeline. But I wouldn't change a thing. Pain brought me true happiness. I now value healthy and whole relationships.
Yea amen!! 🤍
God bless you. I have 45 years old ,and I have dreamed from 11 years to marry, but sometimes , even if I had an intersection with " The One" for the moment I'm still single. I was single for 18 years and nothing happened . This time was for growing up with God. I wished to go to an christian college but God send me to Architecture University. Later He told me that made that with a purpose . It was hard but not I am grateful for that
This is so random, but you remind me so much of Vanessa Hudgens . Thank you for sharing your journey I learned a lot. God bless you xo
Haha I get that a lot! And I’m so glad this blessed you 🤍
LOL I was thinking the same, she does look lik Vanessa Hudgens ^^
Thank you Nat. I really needed to hear that. Thanks for obeying God to share you experience. I have been praying for my husband for years. God has recently told me that he is preparing me for my husband. Stay blessed.
Love that! Thank you :)
This is such a good video. I’m the same, I never had that figure of what a marriage is or that male figure. I’ve been in unhealthy situationships and knew this isn’t what I wanted and had to go to therapy to figure out what I want and address those childhood issues. Now I’ve never been better, happy being by myself and enjoying being single while I can. Trust the process and the time will come when I can allow someone in. Thankyou xx
What an awesome story!! So happy for you! 🤍🙏🏼
Amen sister!!! I have a similar story. I grew up in a single mother household wanting to be married and didn’t have an example…. Now I have examples. Now I’ve been single mother for a long time but I feel that I am close to my husband… God is truly amazing. I must learn to trust and wait on him.
Thank you for sharing your story. I feel like I was meant to find your video and watch it. I literally cried while watching it. I know I just have to trust in God's perfect timing! Again, thank you, this was really encouraging ❤️
I’m so glad!! Makes my heart happy 🥰
This is so random. i lterally was srolling my yt and find this video. I am only 22 yo but I pray for a good hustband everyday. I am so unpatient because like you said I think I know what I need now. But the true is that only God knows when, where or how. So I decide to trust His plan. Right now I grabing my rosary and going to pray for you and your hustband and everyone who are single . Jesus I trust in You!
Ahh can so relate to the growing up without a male figure and the “wrestling” with faith but also wanting something so bad it messes with that.
Yessss it’s such a wild journey ! But trusting God in the process and staying hopeful is so important. He has the best plan for you! 💕
I'm nearing 38 and still single. I've never been married nor even dated. I desire to marry but it seems it's never going to happen. Thanks for sharing your story!
Don’t give up hope!
Guy or girl? I m single 39, sometimes feel like giving up.
I like u really 😍👧❤🌷
Thank you sooooo much for sharing. Your story of your childhood is similar to mine and rarely do I come across videos where that is the case. This really encouraged me and just blessed me.♥️ please keep them coming!
I’m so it encouraged you! Makes my heart happy 🤍
Always encouraging to hear a story of hope, I've been praying for my future husband since I was 13yrs old. Very happy for you 💓
Me too!! I thought I was the only one that had prayed since that young and I will pray you meet a good guy will you pray I do as well
Thank you!! Keep praying 🤍🙏🏼
I’m 23 and single .Also, was asking God what He wants me to do next after this program I’m doing and felt like I should go to Hillsong College Africa and I feel so much peace about it . Just scared that i won’t be able to get a good job as I am not coming from a financial stable family . So I don’t know 😭
My next video is going to be my Hillsong college testimony! Trust me, i didn’t have the finances either but He will provide!!! It was a miracle that I got a job over there. He has you!! Hillsong college Africa would be INCREDIBLE 🥰
Can’t wait to see it! ❤️
I think that people should realize that there's a difference between not immediately realizing that someone is attractive and then it dawns on you, vs. being repulsed by someone that you find unattractive and then lowering your standards and giving them a chance. The latter is called settling and it generally is a bad idea.
I’m literally in tears, this hit hard. Thank you.❤️
Awe 🥲🥲 I’m so glad!!! 🥰
So glad this video was recommended to me. 🤍 Thank you for sharing your testimony!
Today is Valentine’s Day and it hit me HARD. I lost a good man a few months ago, whom I took for granted. In all honesty I have always had a boyfriend since a teen and now I’m single at 35, turning 36 in April. Although I do trust God and have surrendered, it’s hard sometimes when I’m still heartbroken. Some days I’m on fire for Jesus and other days I’m sad in my bed all day. Asking for prayers 🙏
Thank you for sharing your story! I’ve definitely been in your shoes before. What you are going through will pass... it won’t last forever. And try to keep your eyes focused on what you learned from it. The up and down days are normal so don’t be so hard on yourself. God has your back 🤍
Don't take a man for granted because a man has to put in the work for things to happen in reality meanwhile women wait for this man to manifest in their life by God's will. The n'est you can do is to prepare yourself to be the best for your husband physically, mentally and spiritually. You can't fake it, your energy needs to come from an aura of genuine goodness to attract your husband.
This was soo nice to listen to! I had a smile across my face when you were talking about how God's timing was perfect for you and how you prayed for something and your husband was all the things you asked God about. So so good! Thank you for the video! Even though I'd like to meet my guy someday I'm just getting more and more okay with my singleness. I want peace when I meet someone and that hasn't happened yet, but maybe it is jut my personality idk :D
Aw I’m so happy this encouraged you!! And whoever you meet will love you and your personality! Keep a hopeful Heart and trust Gods timing 🤍🙏🏼
It’s not just your personality; it’s simply the right way to go in general. You could look in your friendzone. The best, most stable marriages are great friendships, first. Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds, along with the Life Uncontained couple, are great examples.
To have that peace is soooo important. i was with a guy and i didn't feel any peace on my heart. So that's when you know you should move on.
☺️I m glad to watch your video hehe
I’m so glad! 🥰
thanks for sharing with us! God wrote a beautiful story in your lives!! You carry so much of the light of Jesus, i would love to hear more about your journey with the Lord.
Wow! So encouraging... Thank you so much!!
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I’ll definitely be sharing more in future vids!
I don’t know how this came across my newsfeed but I’m thankful it did. I’ve been questioning if I’m deserving of true love. I just wrote in my journal and prayed to God about my worries. I’m 33 by the way and I don’t feel I’ve ever been properly courted. Praying that God tells me when to look up when it’s time for me to meet my husband❤️❤️
He sees you and knows your desires! Keep your eyes heavenward and trust him 🙏🏼
@@natcunningham thank you!!
I’m 19 and I’ve already felt like giving up because I’ve used dating apps and it feels like nobody is ever going to truly love me for who I am, I don’t do hookups or friends with benefits which is pretty much the norm in my generation when it comes to dating. ( I’m a pretty cute person but guys still manage to walk all over me ) I feel like I have to lower my standards to even find a man who will be with me. but even still it feels like guys walk all over me. I’m not sure what I’m gonna do to meet someone anymore. Why has god not given me a person who loves me. Why am I stuck with people who don’t truly care about me? I have been given guys that have cheated, hurt me and lied to me. When am I gonna find someone who truly loves me?
Hi Zoe!
You’re so young still. Don’t let the ways of the world discourage you! Be confident in who you are! Not your looks or what people think of you but truly know that your worth is in who you are as a person. Don’t lower your standards. Continue to enjoy your life. Do things you love. Embrace the season of being able to focus on yourself and be the best YOU! The right guy will love and care about you for you.. even with your flaws ( we all have them ).
Hi ❤❤❤❤😍😍🌷🌷
I really enjoyed this and felt led to watch. I turn 30 this year and marriage has been in my heart for a while, similar to you. Thank you💜
I’m so glad 🥰
You are so gorgeous!! Thank you for sharing your story and how the Lord worked in your singleness all the way up to your marriage❤️🥰
Aw thank you so much! You’re so kind 🥰
I am getting married in 4 months and I am 20 I never thought I will be married so young I wanted to get married at 24-26 but I am happy maybe its the right time for me
I also don't have a father figure in my life. It's kinda hard being single and at the same time, I can't be with anyone right now because I'm at the point where God is at the centre, where I'm making a relationship with Him. When it's time for the one to come, he'll come. Just let God lead🔥✨💕
Yes amen! He’s got you gal 🥰🤍
this is unreal ! i’m 19 and at this age i’m standing with you on this
@@Mrdownbad- no way! I'm 19 too😹
keep your head up 🖤❤️ i can relate
Thank you for sharing this! It is so interesting and encouraging hearing your testimony, from a female perspective. I can relate to SO many things you said about the way you grew up, the unhealthy relationships that followed and then the process of surrendering to God and finding your security and identity in Him. Shalom!
Always, i find anotger man to replace the one who broke me off and all the relationship went toxic . Thanks for this video as i have to be happy by my own first instead of asking my partner to complete me
When you said surrender is so important. That is sooo real. Everything you stated in this video was confirmation.. especially the timeline part (lol).Thank you so much for sharing !!
Yes!! I’m so glad you enjoyed it 🥰
I don’t know why people say enjoy singleness because no one ever truly does...it’s lovely. It may beneficial to be single sometimes and it may be happy for some people sometimes but honestly everyone looks for someone. Including me...I feel it’s over for me I will never find someone like this...I feel like by the time someone does come I won’t believe in love anymore. I’m starting not to
I’m so sorry to hear you losing hope :( I’m uploading a new video on what helped me in my singleness this Friday. I pray it encourages you if you get to watching it 🙏🏼
@@natcunninghamI hope God helps you to see this one day but God redirected me to this post. Long story short, I had forgotten on commented on here and so much has happened in my life. I have continued my journey of singleness and have found what I think is love although God has seperated us and guess what? I am still content being single. More than ever even with hopes of one day having a family like you. I have also become close to God since two year ago and I just see this with new eyes and feel I can relate better. Thank you for taking the time to comment and I hope to continue following your TH-cam journey. God bless 🤍
Good testimony. Thank you very much. I appreciate the fact that you were so open and vulnerable about your testimony. I, too, am trusting God every day. Thank you again! 😀
Aw thank you! 🥰
"mexican food not mexican people" I died 😂 also couldn't stop smiling at how happy you were describing how y'all met!! So cute. Had to sub :)
Aw thank you!! Haha welcome to the fam! 🤍
I think you guys are my favourite reactors. You are one of the few reactors that seem to get it without a lot of explanation. Looking forward to more videos.
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Haha just realised I commented on the wrong video.
Anyways loved your video too. 😍