I agree to this more than words describe. A man’s job is to provide (if ANYTHING) Safety. It is not only wrong for him, but for the family member. It’s extremely sad to see the state of men and their attitudes towards women. Cheating and abuse is disgusting.
You can see through the screen, her self love and self respect is so low. Her saying 'he can't come home' is the first step to healing. You got this, girl.
Give this woman strength to move on without anymore tears. Give her strength for her to find her happiness. This woman didn’t deserve to waste 20 years of her life to not only someone that cheated, but also slept with one of HER family members. I hope they both get the worst karma that is possible. To her, I pray she gets better fast & that she can move on peacefully & be the best mother to her children. She deserves nothing but the best, & she knows her worth
And please, God, give her a couple napkins with instructions to blow her nose! I couldn't even stay long enough to hear the darn results because of her gross sound effects. 🤧
I usually love cheating stories because they entertain and amuse me . Especially l when the cheater is busted and continues to lie about not cheating . But this particular one was a bit sad because I feel like she poured her whole heart out to him and she really loved him . I also find it quite disturbing because not only was he cheating on her with other women ! It was also with one of her family relatives which is quite unbelievable . Man did he really break her heart after all those years . She deserved so much better what a shame .
Yeah and after all the years they've been together and her relative made fun of her deceased child people like that are the biggest piece of scum I hate people like that so much😡 and Gabriel is definitely a big scumbag for cheating on Antonette with her relative he can go sleep with a bunch of different prostitutes for all I care but yes she does deserve better I hope she finds someone better than that douchebag Gabriel that's for sure
Problems for the last 20 years oh no its time to find someone to depend on like who u can trust,get a kiss on the forehead,and other shit like why tf would this shit happens to certain people its just sad and btw i just got engaged with a woman 2 days ago we made a promise that we'll never cheat on each other or none of that crazy shit but anyways this woman deserve a better man in her life that she can depend on
@@johnnydiaz297 hi I agree with you this man is a creep why be with someone if you're going to cheat he should have split up with her this girl is too far the likes of him to me you stay away from relations and for the relative to make fun of her for losing her child the relative is sick I hope she and the girls boyfriend gets karma congratulations to you and your girl friend getting engaged I hope you have a long and happy life where ever you both live from Mary from the far north of Scotland in Thurso Caithness
@@camilleholmes102 she crossed the line by being a home wrecker; making fun of her losing her baby is way passed the line. I have had a miscarriage and I couldn’t have imagined anyone saying rude things to me about it or making fun of me or gloating about it. That has to hurt so bad. I pray she is okay.
She is a beautiful young woman who needs to love herself more and believe that she deserves to be treated better. He will keep treating you this way as long as you allow him to.
She needs a lot of support and therapy. He strung her along knowing he doesn’t love respect or care about her. He’s complete trash. He wasted so much of her time instead of being a mature adult by walking away he just cheats and disrespects her. Love should never be the reason for staying in a toxic situation because you’ll only suffer.
What a nasty trifling individual.. 19 years! I hope she keeps him at arm's length he is toxic..you can overcome this..l wish her and her children happiness and joy..going forwards!
Cheating is so dirty to me, like there is no coming back from that, but with a family member!!! That’s how you end up on scorned. And then he possibly had a child with her too, like imagine how confusing that would be for the children, also that cousin would be banned from every event.
I feel bad for antoinette but gabriel?! Not only he cheated on her but cheated on her with her family members! i hope she deserves better than that lying cheating clown!
But her vs him? This is why I think the show is all scripted bs. Why would a woman like her be with a no gooder like him. (Plus his looks? ) 🤣 must be fake
That's the same thing I thought. He is too busy cheating and doing everything else and he couldn't commit if he wanted to. He is trying to relive the life that he missed out on as far as being in different relationships and experiencing other females. Sometimes high school sweetheart's relationships work out but for the most part they don't for this reason. Good Luck to her.
Bottom line: She made a decision, on a daily basis, to stay in that mess. Some want to rant about how difficult such decisions are, but it's just a decision. Personally, if it hurts, I'm out. I just don't do pain very well.
This woman has a warped perception of what love is. She misses the cousin that slept with her man and made fun of her baby? She has no self respect. Too bad because she is probably a very loyal lady that deserves better. The guy is garbage, throw him away. Adios amigo.
He’s such a victim. My ex was like this. “It goes both ways!” He cheated on me for almost a year and then I finally started acting crazy. When he couldn’t handle it anymore it was all my fault. That poor woman. Find a real man not some sorry pathetic excuse with a victim complex.
I'm not a person who gets caught up on looks, but she is very pretty and him not so much. But most importantly I hope she heals, finds peace, and when she's ready I hope she finds someone that makes her happy.
Steve said it all....it's hard after a lot of years to end things...I was married to a narcotics for 16 years...divorce for 5 years...still struggling...but it does get better
I never really give the accused cheaters benefit of doubt when watching Steve but, I was really hoping for Antoinette’s sake that he was telling the truth🤦🏽♀️ hearing what her family did to her I really wanted him to be telling the truth. Seeing her cry really broke my heart☹️
I am very proud of her. After 20 years must be very hard. I left my ex after 7 years with him abusing the kids. I can't trust any of the family. So good job hang in there . Wounds will mend with time
The fact that not only did that relative sleep with your partner but is so I secure and jealous that they felt the need to make fun of the fact you lost a baby to a miscarriage says everything you need to know about that person.
Problems for 20 years????? That's the only excuse for not marrying somebody? I'm sorry to say this but if someone is unwilling to commit, she should know that her dude wasn't the one for her in the first place
You know relationships and Marriage will never be what they were in are Grand parents times. Now that you have social media in your relationship it will never more then that. And most relationships with kids they only survive because of the kids. Just my opinion.
My grandparents were married 70 yrs, had 13 children. My grandmother passed last year at 103 yrs old. People these days definitely don't last like that.
@@wendya.presley7316 exactly specially now that Social Media is around. The more people are glued to the phones at the table the more relationships will cease to exist.
@@majinbuu6581 my grandpa had 2 whole wives and multiple kids 😂. Only difference between now and then is social media and laws. They were reckless back then too
@@deebenson135 hi I agree with you I hope you have a great day and evening I hope this lady kicked his arse to the curb and met some one else who treats her better he is one sick bastard to go with the girls relation who made fun of her child when dying I hope the relation and the decent girls boyfriend gets karma they are discusting if he thought anything about his girlfriend he would have told the girls relation she's below the belt I hope the decent girl kicked his arse out the door and met someone who treats her with respect she is far too good for the like of that jerk who treated her like shite enjoy the rest of your day from Mary from the far north of Scotland in Thurso Caithness
Yeah it was obvious he was lying about the family member. No one’s gonna say something like that to hurt someone and it not be true. Then the family member going on social media and talking about this woman and her deceased child..telltale sign of jealousy. He had to make that woman think the relationship was more than it was. I’m just glad she got the truth and now it’ll be tears of moving on rather than betrayal..
Idk how this video ends but this clown is sick and twisted and Everytime they go to hard times he going to do this 19 years is not he is young he will mature and out grow it he is who he is best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior
I know how she feels I recently just buried the best friend of my life that I was with for 25 years who gave me two beautiful children and it is death I found out about three other children I did not know about and a wife. He had me 🏡 built, put me through college. As to how I didn't know because I've got my bachelor's degree and work towards law school and I messed up being cancer and I just stopped being a detective and just started putting God first and loving myself so I did no checking around on or after him. I forgiven him and he will always be the best friend I've ever had. He even took us on vacation twice a year, he stayed over about 2 to 3 times a week and I was going to one of the homes that he owns thinking it was his and his family knew it the whole time but of course they didn't get involved and I'm not angry with them because they have made up for all the love they missed by him keeping us separate too my children and my children love them.
a few things: 1. she deserves so much better and i feel so bad for her that she gave her heart to this man for 20 years and he just threw it back in her face. cheating-awful, cheating with someone who mocked the devasting loss of your baby? FOUL. dont go back to him girl, you're stunning and a sweetheart, you'll find someone better. 2. it could just be my issues with certain sounds but was anyone else annoyed by his CONSTANT loud ass sniffling? like... turn his mic down PLEASE it was every 2 seconds and louder than Steve someone get this man a tissue 3. please change the outro. for some reason it's 8x louder than the rest of the video and it's a bit disturbing to hear a distraught women crying that she was raped after every episode. js
Steve Wilkos I watched you on TV and on TH-cam you are a great person. I hate what this lady has to go though from her husband and was her best friend and to find he cheated on her. A big heartbreaking my heart goes out to her. She can find a man that will really love her for her.
Damn he's got a big face like John cena! But seriously, I don't understand these people. You'll be engaged for x amount of years but not marry cuz of "trust" issues, yet you'll live with them and keep having kids with them. I would never
She deserves a whole lot better this story broke my heart I heard alot of cheating stories but this one is the worse not only is he cheating on her with multiple woman but he cheated one her with a family member and a family member that said nasty things about their deceased baby that's pretty damn low
I miscarried and got made fun of by many people. If my man ever slept with any one who did that or even slept around at all.. I’m don’t with him completely
She seems like a beautiful person but I think he was problematic from the time that they've met. She stuck by him hoping he would change and apparently he couldn't do it. Hopefully she'll heal from this and move on.
Okay who was the one doing those "sniffs" every 5 seconds when the lie detector results were being read? Steve should've told whoever was doing that to stop, so he could concentrate on reading the results without noises in the background.
Sleeping with a relative that made fun of your woman’s baby dying from a miscarriage is something that words cannot describe how wrong that is!
I feel like that’s something your relationship can never recover from, just pathetic and disgusting.
Right! I could never allow that man back in my bed after that
Yea that's a deal breaker we would b done. Can't get much lower than that.
I agree to this more than words describe. A man’s job is to provide (if ANYTHING) Safety. It is not only wrong for him, but for the family member.
It’s extremely sad to see the state of men and their attitudes towards women. Cheating and abuse is disgusting.
just because they did that doesnt meant to hook up with that person for revenge.
You can see through the screen, her self love and self respect is so low. Her saying 'he can't come home' is the first step to healing. You got this, girl.
Give this woman strength to move on without anymore tears. Give her strength for her to find her happiness. This woman didn’t deserve to waste 20 years of her life to not only someone that cheated, but also slept with one of HER family members. I hope they both get the worst karma that is possible. To her, I pray she gets better fast & that she can move on peacefully & be the best mother to her children. She deserves nothing but the best, & she knows her worth
And please, God, give her a couple napkins with instructions to blow her nose! I couldn't even stay long enough to hear the darn results because of her gross sound effects. 🤧
💯 🙂
Cope
Amen
The woman in the video is my mother and she appreciates your comment ! ❤️
This woman deserves BETTER! I pray that y'all do a follow up show about this and I pray and hope she moves on from this creep
Just what im saying
I usually love cheating stories because they entertain and amuse me . Especially l when the cheater is busted and continues to lie about not cheating . But this particular one was a bit sad because I feel like she poured her whole heart out to him and she really loved him . I also find it quite disturbing because not only was he cheating on her with other women ! It was also with one of her family relatives which is quite unbelievable . Man did he really break her heart after all those years . She deserved so much better what a shame .
Yeah and after all the years they've been together and her relative made fun of her deceased child people like that are the biggest piece of scum I hate people like that so much😡 and Gabriel is definitely a big scumbag for cheating on Antonette with her relative he can go sleep with a bunch of different prostitutes for all I care but yes she does deserve better I hope she finds someone better than that douchebag Gabriel that's for sure
Problems for the last 20 years oh no its time to find someone to depend on like who u can trust,get a kiss on the forehead,and other shit like why tf would this shit happens to certain people its just sad and btw i just got engaged with a woman 2 days ago we made a promise that we'll never cheat on each other or none of that crazy shit but anyways this woman deserve a better man in her life that she can depend on
I agree with you on that .
100% agree. She definitely needs to cut her losses cause if he aint changed by now he aint going to. Dudes a chump.
@@johnnydiaz297 hi I agree with you this man is a creep why be with someone if you're going to cheat he should have split up with her this girl is too far the likes of him to me you stay away from relations and for the relative to make fun of her for losing her child the relative is sick I hope she and the girls boyfriend gets karma congratulations to you and your girl friend getting engaged I hope you have a long and happy life where ever you both live from Mary from the far north of Scotland in Thurso Caithness
He cheated with the woman that was making fun of their baby dying? I pray this woman is okay and I also pray with everything in me that she left.
Now that's stupid. And not only that, the woman that he slept with cross the line for saying stuff like that
@@camilleholmes102 she crossed the line by being a home wrecker; making fun of her losing her baby is way passed the line. I have had a miscarriage and I couldn’t have imagined anyone saying rude things to me about it or making fun of me or gloating about it. That has to hurt so bad. I pray she is okay.
She is a beautiful young woman who needs to love herself more and believe that she deserves to be treated better. He will keep treating you this way as long as you allow him to.
She needs a lot of support and therapy. He strung her along knowing he doesn’t love respect or care about her. He’s complete trash. He wasted so much of her time instead of being a mature adult by walking away he just cheats and disrespects her. Love should never be the reason for staying in a toxic situation because you’ll only suffer.
What a nasty trifling individual.. 19 years! I hope she keeps him at arm's length he is toxic..you can overcome this..l wish her and her children happiness and joy..going forwards!
Cheating is so dirty to me, like there is no coming back from that, but with a family member!!! That’s how you end up on scorned. And then he possibly had a child with her too, like imagine how confusing that would be for the children, also that cousin would be banned from every event.
I feel bad for antoinette but gabriel?! Not only he cheated on her but cheated on her with her family members! i hope she deserves better than that lying cheating clown!
She definitely does.
He reminds me of the hunter on bugs bunny…Elmer Fudd…good god girl, what you thinking???
But her vs him? This is why I think the show is all scripted bs. Why would a woman like her be with a no gooder like him. (Plus his looks? ) 🤣 must be fake
Not Only That He Slept With The Woman That Made Fun Of His Wife Having A Miscarriage.
Girl, if after 20 years he hasn't made you his only, ain't gonna happen. 🥺
I will never understand how a lot of “men” can be this heartless. Stories like this are too common.
Because the women let them get away with it
He's not her best friend. She needs to learn respect for herself and protect her children from his toxicity.
YOU GOT THIS BEAUTIFUL! Don’t EVER PUT UP WITH him EVER AGAIN! May God be with you and carry you!
Partners who sleep with friends/relatives … it’s so awful ! It is the worst pain !!!!!
We accept the love we think we deserve🤧
Human layaway definition: More than 4 yrs without a ring. I hope she finds some peace and healing. She way too beautiful to deal with that!!!
He hasnt married her because he's no good. I pray that this Beautiful lady can move on and God sends her a man that deserves her. ♥️♥️🙏🙏
Amen 💯 💖 🙏🏾 🌿 😊
That's the same thing I thought. He is too busy cheating and doing everything else and he couldn't commit if he wanted to. He is trying to relive the life that he missed out on as far as being in different relationships and experiencing other females. Sometimes high school sweetheart's relationships work out but for the most part they don't for this reason. Good Luck to her.
The audacity of him up on stage with the incessant sniffling n shit. She deserves so much better.
Bottom line:
She made a decision, on a daily basis, to stay in that mess.
Some want to rant about how difficult such decisions are, but it's just a decision.
Personally, if it hurts, I'm out.
I just don't do pain very well.
This woman has a warped perception of what love is. She misses the cousin that slept with her man and made fun of her baby? She has no self respect. Too bad because she is probably a very loyal lady that deserves better. The guy is garbage, throw him away. Adios amigo.
He’s such a victim. My ex was like this. “It goes both ways!” He cheated on me for almost a year and then I finally started acting crazy. When he couldn’t handle it anymore it was all my fault. That poor woman. Find a real man not some sorry pathetic excuse with a victim complex.
I'm not a person who gets caught up on looks, but she is very pretty and him not so much. But most importantly I hope she heals, finds peace, and when she's ready I hope she finds someone that makes her happy.
Steve said it all....it's hard after a lot of years to end things...I was married to a narcotics for 16 years...divorce for 5 years...still struggling...but it does get better
That dude scored that girl?
Wow...
A lot of Mexican women stick with mexican guys
I never really give the accused cheaters benefit of doubt when watching Steve but, I was really hoping for Antoinette’s sake that he was telling the truth🤦🏽♀️ hearing what her family did to her I really wanted him to be telling the truth. Seeing her cry really broke my heart☹️
8:35 And With That You Gabriel Can
Get the hell off my stage 👏👏
19 years together & engaged? Stringing you along and playing games
She deserves so much better
this story heartbreaking god bless her no more tears
I am very proud of her. After 20 years must be very hard. I left my ex after 7 years with him abusing the kids. I can't trust any of the family. So good job hang in there . Wounds will mend with time
The fact that not only did that relative sleep with your partner but is so I secure and jealous that they felt the need to make fun of the fact you lost a baby to a miscarriage says everything you need to know about that person.
20 years without a ring is crazyyy
Steve's right he is a snake 🐍. She deserves so much better, she's a beautiful ❤️ woman but Oooh so broken 💔 shame on him for doing this to her...
Gabriel is like my ex cheating since day one. I was happy to hear Antoinette say "He can't come home"
He came home though
And she absolutely beautiful, wow her own family member
sending love and strength 💕
She sounded so broken and hurt when she was talking in the beginning. Words can’t begin to describe how much I felt her pain through the screen.
Problems for 20 years????? That's the only excuse for not marrying somebody? I'm sorry to say this but if someone is unwilling to commit, she should know that her dude wasn't the one for her in the first place
He has "tells" of lying he looks down when he lies and smirks
Steve your amazing love when you catch these type of people and others ❤️
He’s broken her down so much over the years that she just endures it. The trauma bond is that strong. She’ll never leave him. It’s so sad.
I know she’s crying but omggggggg the sniffing was driving me insane.
It’s him sniffing like that lmaaoooo. He should be crying cheating self.
Same! So distracting.
In the west his hair is called the edgar and it is hilarious.
After 19 years, she's going to continue with him. Low self esteem. Doesn't think she can do better, or "This is the only life I know."
sleeping with a relative that made fun of your woman baby is low down disrespectful and foul but like steve said she deserves to be happy
You know relationships and Marriage will never be what they were in are Grand parents times. Now that you have social media in your relationship it will never more then that. And most relationships with kids they only survive because of the kids. Just my opinion.
My grandparents were married 70 yrs, had 13 children. My grandmother passed last year at 103 yrs old. People these days definitely don't last like that.
@@wendya.presley7316 exactly specially now that Social Media is around. The more people are glued to the phones at the table the more relationships will cease to exist.
Grandparents also didn’t have divorce laws like they do now and spousal abuse was legal
@@desireeberman6451 yes i definitely agree
@@majinbuu6581 my grandpa had 2 whole wives and multiple kids 😂. Only difference between now and then is social media and laws. They were reckless back then too
Gabriel is a liar & a cheater
She's a beautiful woman. She can do better. I hope she can heal from this.
@@deebenson135 hi I agree with you I hope you have a great day and evening I hope this lady kicked his arse to the curb and met some one else who treats her better he is one sick bastard to go with the girls relation who made fun of her child when dying I hope the relation and the decent girls boyfriend gets karma they are discusting if he thought anything about his girlfriend he would have told the girls relation she's below the belt I hope the decent girl kicked his arse out the door and met someone who treats her with respect she is far too good for the like of that jerk who treated her like shite enjoy the rest of your day from Mary from the far north of Scotland in Thurso Caithness
Yeah it was obvious he was lying about the family member. No one’s gonna say something like that to hurt someone and it not be true. Then the family member going on social media and talking about this woman and her deceased child..telltale sign of jealousy. He had to make that woman think the relationship was more than it was. I’m just glad she got the truth and now it’ll be tears of moving on rather than betrayal..
More like they're still together because Steve Wilkos is a Scripted show
I can't stop starring at his Shrek ears!
the situation isn't funny but the fake audience reactions had me weak the whole time 😂
This women deserves so much more she is beautiful i know in my heart there is someone out there that will show her the love that she should have
Idk how this video ends but this clown is sick and twisted and Everytime they go to hard times he going to do this 19 years is not he is young he will mature and out grow it he is who he is best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior
I know how she feels I recently just buried the best friend of my life that I was with for 25 years who gave me two beautiful children and it is death I found out about three other children I did not know about and a wife. He had me 🏡 built, put me through college.
As to how I didn't know because I've got my bachelor's degree and work towards law school and I messed up being cancer and I just stopped being a detective and just started putting God first and loving myself so I did no checking around on or after him.
I forgiven him and he will always be the best friend I've ever had.
He even took us on vacation twice a year, he stayed over about 2 to 3 times a week and I was going to one of the homes that he owns thinking it was his and his family knew it the whole time but of course they didn't get involved and I'm not angry with them because they have made up for all the love they missed by him keeping us separate too my children and my children love them.
Don't shed anymore tears over that scumbag! Move on with your life and someone else deserving of you will love you the way it should be!
a few things:
1. she deserves so much better and i feel so bad for her that she gave her heart to this man for 20 years and he just threw it back in her face. cheating-awful, cheating with someone who mocked the devasting loss of your baby? FOUL. dont go back to him girl, you're stunning and a sweetheart, you'll find someone better.
2. it could just be my issues with certain sounds but was anyone else annoyed by his CONSTANT loud ass sniffling? like... turn his mic down PLEASE it was every 2 seconds and louder than Steve someone get this man a tissue
3. please change the outro. for some reason it's 8x louder than the rest of the video and it's a bit disturbing to hear a distraught women crying that she was raped after every episode. js
#3!!! Thank you!!!! So cringy!!!!
#2! I thought someone was ripping a piece of paper
WOW!! SHE IS BEAUTIFUL!!!
I will take her and treat her like a princess..BEAUTIFUL WOMAN
She knew.. 19yrs! This can't be shocking. Give her a got damn tissue
Girlfriend for 19 years? Hell fucking no
If that guy is your best friend I don’t want to see your worst enemy
I need a update on her
I'm actually kinda surprised he failed. Steve's right she deserves better.
Steve Wilkos I watched you on TV and on TH-cam you are a great person. I hate what this lady has to go though from her husband and was her best friend and to find he cheated on her. A big heartbreaking my heart goes out to her. She can find a man that will really love her for her.
Y’all went from no ads to 5 ads in one video 🥴
She always knew the truth...just didn't accept it!
8:34 and with that you Gabriel can get the hell off my stage
i feel like all the sniffling could’ve been cut from the sound cus damn
She already knew.
Damn he's got a big face like John cena!
But seriously, I don't understand these people. You'll be engaged for x amount of years but not marry cuz of "trust" issues, yet you'll live with them and keep having kids with them. I would never
I could NEVER‼️
1️⃣9️⃣ years 🥴
someone get this woman a tissue
20 years?!?!?
When the lice detector comes back lol
The minute he stepped on stage he looked sooo guilty!!! Oh heck no!! Boy bye ✌️
With his looks, if he loses her, he’ll never get anyone so pretty. But she can only easily raise the bar
he kinda gave it away when he said “my special kid” that made me immediately think there were other kids involved
She's so beautiful.
Engaged for 20 years. 🤣America the land of planks 🤣
He got on the show to tell her that
Leave that fool
am I the only one that was annoyingly distracted by Gabriel’s sniffing on his microphone while the results were being read? I couldn’t ignore it lmao
She's a beautiful woman. She deserves a real man!
She deserves a whole lot better this story broke my heart I heard alot of cheating stories but this one is the worse not only is he cheating on her with multiple woman but he cheated one her with a family member and a family member that said nasty things about their deceased baby that's pretty damn low
yes it is
I miscarried and got made fun of by many people. If my man ever slept with any one who did that or even slept around at all.. I’m don’t with him completely
I can't even focus with the constant sniffling!! It's giving me a headache
Damn
Been together for 20 years and not married😭😭😭
She is so beautiful
Even if I was hurt I'd never tell my ex-partner that I had love-children nor that I so
freaking slept with their family member.
His sniffling is irritating. Wow 20 years of her life gone on this waste of time
What a waste of space 😒
God how could he do that with a woman who made fun of a baby dying!!! Absolutely disgusting
She’s definitely not leaving him.
God is with you💔🙏🏽ask him for strength
She seems like a beautiful person but I think he was problematic from the time that they've met. She stuck by him hoping he would change and apparently he couldn't do it. Hopefully she'll heal from this and move on.
Not one tear
She seems to be okay with not being married after almost 20 years, so why should he propose?
what the fuck is with the nose sniff every 3 secs jesus lmao
Where’s he getting these women from??
Okay who was the one doing those "sniffs" every 5 seconds when the lie detector results were being read?
Steve should've told whoever was doing that to stop, so he could concentrate on reading the results without noises in the background.