I'm Pregnant, So Marry Me: Destiny Leonard v Destun Thomas
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.พ. 2025
- Destiny says her boyfriend, Destun, is a serial cheater who allows his mother to run their relationship. Destun’s mother is in court to express her displeasure with her son’s relationship
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Um, why would you want to marry someone who you say is a cheater? Girl bye! He's not the problem at this point, you are.
He's gotta go, NOW!
Exactly! He’s not a good BF but you want him as a husband…WHY?!?!
Just dumb trying to force someone to marry you sir run
Because they think a ring will change them. Or trying to prove a point to the women their “man” cheat on them with. It’s pathetic and heart breaking. But atp it’s her fault.
Marry, get pregnant by…none of it!!! 😂
His first statement was "I'm not ready to be married " They don't need to be together.
Exactly, this episode was done from those words came out of his mouth!
There's always a bootleg female therapist in the chat running their mouth
Should have thought about that before a baby happened
True
They are not ready for marriage
She’s quite a mess. Pregnant on purpose. Foolish to try to control him with a pregnancy. Now she will be a single mother. 😢
I literally said the same thing. She gives baby to keep him vibes.
Right, pregnant on purpose. I feel sorry for him because she is gonna be a very bitter baby mama
She is a hot mess. Checking how many new followers......OMG
He is the 1st of a long line sucession of Baby Daddies.😢
I agree but he is a fool too. You always protect yourself and wrap up. He is going to have to deal with this for 18 years. Play stupid games on both sides.
He keeps referring to her as the "mother of my child".... Sis, he don't want you!¡!
Not at all
Saying that a man you are ALREADY pregnant by has “3 months to marry me” is not an ultimatum. That baby is coming whether or not he marries you. You still gifted him a child.
You think he is a Cheater but you give him ultimatum to Marry you? You think being married gonna change everything? I doubt!
I was wondering the same thing. Doesn't make any sense
It won't change him.
Girl get your life
If he cheating before marriage he gonna cheat during
@@RendorasWalk exactly
She has a very bad attitude and needs to grow up. They do not need to be together at this point in time.
@janetsmith3203 but my thing is if she attitude was so horrible why she having a baby by him why is she in a relationship with him that was so retarded she's stressing herself out she put her situation through that and the baby
I agree. And he needs to get a DNA test. Her whole demeanor is devious as all hell.
@@Shellygrrl2573 well they need to go to paternity court or come back on divorce Cout
@@LethaLong-yi6yjI wish they still had that show because like judge starr judge Lauren lake would have told her about her horrible attitude and destructive behavior damaging people's things.
@@Shellygrrl2573 will she 23 and he's 23 of course she have her ways but he has his ways to because he be cheating on her I guess she have her revenge on him they don't have to be together going to be co-parenting
Damn they’re too young, not ready to get married, and jumped too quick into pregnancy! They’re still both immature, wasted our time 🙄
Girl just co-parent and find a man that wants to be with you. You can’t make a man marry you.
I think she just like the thought of a wedding and not marriage itself
I think she doesn't like the title of Baby Mama. Wife sounds better to her, but it's not going to happen with her baby's father.
NO QUESTION
Exactly smh she wants to be able to say she’s a wife and not just a baby momma
If this boy don't get a DNA test
On hood 👌🏿
Judge Start gave her the truth! She doesn't have the right attitude or mindset to be married.
Doesn't have a married state of mind
*lol* The minute someone says, "They shouldn't've gone through my phone." you know something’s up.
The one I feel sorry for the most is the baby. To be saddled with both of them … *smh*
Destun's Mother look like she could be his sibling! Wow. So young! Seriously, just coparent seperately.
She could have been 15 or so when she had him so she would look young
She also looks like she could be the girlfriend sister
When kids have kids who have kids. Pure buffoonery
I thought she was his sister!
Black Don’t Crack 4real
For the love of Christ, CONTRACEPTION UNTIL A MAN COMMITS TO YOU. A child is a LIFETIME commitment. How are you scared of/not ready for marriage but doing things irresponsibly to have a baby?
AMEN👏👏👏👏👏👍!
ABSTINENCE UNTIL A MAN COMMITS TO YOU
@@LadyFay88 come on, be realistic! Teenagers are driven by their hormones and emotions. Abstinence is NOT a contraceptive, it’s a point of view.
@@jo-annbastingsshe's not a teenager. She's a grown 23 year old devious brat. He needs a DNA test for that child. Her trying to push this marriage after being with another man is sus as hell.
@@jo-annbastings I am being realistic, and I never said abstinence was a contraceptive. Situations like this should deter people from being sexually active with someone is not committed to you. No matter how many hormones are running through your body, no one deserves your body if they cannot make a commitment to you.
If she cheated that baby may not be his! DNA son!!
Who said she physically cheated she was messaging someone but then again so was he
Fast she is crazy for real
@@angelacarlisle1708 if she's sitting in someone's lap, kissing them, talking about she was planning to leave him, you can't really put anything past her.
I would definitely DNA test that child before I sign a birth certificate.
That's what I just said
@@angelacarlisle1708she sat on someone’s lap and kissed them. If he was my brother or son he’d be getting a dna.
She’s doing too much, I hate all that looking in the phone mess. If u have to do all that leave them alone.
Period.
E X A C T L Y!!!!!!!!
If u have to do allat… he ain’t your man. Period. Plus that’s too much energy just for you not to go any damn where.
Smh this young man need to leave her get a DNA test if the baby is his they need to co parents, they should not be together she is toxic!!!
Does nobody enjoy just being young and dating and getting to know each other... figuring out what they like and don't like... Sheesh
Where is her family? Auntie, momma, grandma somebody explain to her that having a baby doesn’t make a man stay. That’s your baby, your responsibility
Absolutely!
I’m pretty sure they told her multiple times.
I'm tired of this question. Many people have a whole community and know right from wrong, yet still don't want to do right. I was never told this, yet put two and two together on my own...
She is every man's worst nightmare! Good luck Mr. Thomas 😭
He needs to leave. Get a DNA & joint custody.
And put on Child Support for the next 24 years (college included). Sad to say it.😢
He won’t get custody in Georgia. Just trust me. It has to be some real busted mom syndrome to maintain custody.
He was in Miami having big fun!
With the Wretched!!! 😂. Thanks, I needed that laugh
@@sabrinar.purnell3869🤣🤣🤣
She doing too much. Why did you get pregnant by a guy who is not interested in getting married🤔
She has made the decision to disappoint herself for the next 18 years.
These couples are crazy. They aren’t doing anything but fighting, cheating and F-ing.
We need to pray for this child because these two are too much!!!
and I promise that bubble girl granny is not going to make it any better.
Never, ever give a man an ultimateum. It never works. It will backfire on her. I agree with Judge Star, the young lady doesn't have a very nice attitude. She seems very immature with the fighting
Hopefully, she will grow up real fast-like in 3 months when her baby's born!!!
WHY DO THESE 20 YRS OLD CONTINUE TO COME TO DIVORCE COURT? THEY'RE STILL TO YOUNG TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE AND ALL THAT COMES WITH IT. STOP GETTING KNOCKED UP AND DUMP - IT'S NOT FAIR TO THE CHILDREN...
SAME REASON WHY 30,40,50,60,70 YEAR OLDS GO TO DIVORCE COURT. CAUSE PEOPLE CANT FIGURE STUFF OUT ON THEIR OWN. IVE SEEN PLENTY OF CASES WHERE ITS NOT ONLY 20 YEAR OLDS.
Nobody has grace with our generation anymore. The generation previously was no different. Only difference is yall were pregnant in unhealthy marriages. Domestic violence, cheating, and no communication. Same thing just different circumstances. Me being 20 I love to see episodes like this, so I don’t be in the same place as these 23 year olds. It doesn’t hit the same seeing 40 year olds in the shit. They can’t teach me nothing because they still in the same situation these 20 year olds are in.
Gets me every time
This generation doesn’t need grace honestly., I’m sick of it… feelings , lies , not listening to their elders and becoming a cycled generation
Why do people keep coming to divorce court and they are not even married!!! 😂
This girl is not playing with a full deck~her non~ chalant attitude is wild
Not even a half deck of cards
Damn not the single worst baby mama in history!
Why is it so hard to keep our legs closed ?
Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
I really want to be happy too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart now, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is big. I really miss her, and I'm determined to bring her back. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to fix things.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I appreciate this guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that this approach will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her dearly
I promise you will not regret it.
You both must love each other.
They are not married and not teenagers.
The defendant is just immature and irresponsible
Both of them
@@kimwilliams1402Exactly! BOTH of them. At this day and age it's not hard to get birth control. They just didn't care and now he resents it and she's trying to push marriage when she should have pushed contraception. Her devious grin is kinda sending she got pregnant on purpose thinking it would stop him from cheating vibes. Slow minded girl didn't realize that NEVER works. Especially when she's a cheater herself. He needs a DNA test
Not just her hes as bad
SHE is as immature as him and manipulative.
Ha ha 😂 judge went HAM on her😂
Church, college, career, marriage then children. Stop trying to be grown too early.
If he got any good sense he'd get that baby tested fresh out the womb. Kid if you find out it's not yours then GHOST HER as if she'd never existed.
If he can't be trusted,why not use protection. They should stay single n co parent
His momma is fine as hell!!!!
Yes indeed she is gorgeous
😍 real fine
The young man has a beautiful face
I just found his mom on TH-cam th-cam.com/users/shortst2widXkxBBo?si=8Z0LF9wixrIm9Uzj
DC producers shouldn't let 24 and younger come on the show!!
I agree this is foolishness and if she was mine….. I would check this shit
hey young man..this is your Auntie....she is crazy! run son and don't look back!
I just found his mom on TH-cam th-cam.com/users/shortst2widXkxBBo?si=8Z0LF9wixrIm9Uzj
Judge Star, thank you for giving her life lesson information!
They will be on Maury next
Karamo 😊
The audacity of this young lady. Her attitude is so bad, you could just feel the anger from the screen. Why are these early 20 somethings getting pregnant? All of these different types of birth control, and she ended up pregnant. In these serious relationships. Have fun and enjoy your life. He better get ready because she's going to make his life hell. I can tell the way she stomped out with those heavy boots .
Them boots😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Protection! I just dont get it. Not married, have your whole life ahead of you so who needs condoms, the pill or anything else?
Or no sex at all.
They have been together too long from childhood. Neither had time to grow up.
Typical story.
Typical hot mess! I’m so grateful my mom was not going for none of that growing up.
They’ve only been together 3 years, they’ve known each other since childhood
me and hubby play a game! when the women say cheat, cheating, cheater, cheated etc hubby takes a shot. If the man says it, I take a shot! poor husband always loses 😂😂😂
I know your husband be in there stumbling and fumbling!😂🤣😂🤣
Dude run for your life
I will never understand why females act out just because they are in a relationship with a man. The way you behave says a lot about your character not the man. It’s important to learn self control. No need to disrespect your self because of someone!
Some men aren't trustworthy even when you trust them.
The mom looks their age omg she’s stunning
Why get pregnant by him then?
She has a long road ahead.
This young man is making the rite decision.This young lady is very immature and controlling. She has a lot of growing up to do.
The parents failed miserably to educate their children on the risk of unwanted pregnancy and STDs. At the beginning of the teenage years they should sit down with their kids and talk with them about it. Some parents seem to think abstinence is the best way to prevent pregnancy but it’s not true! Teenagers drive on their emotions and their hormones take over their good sense. That’s why parents should be practical and realistic about their children and their sexual education. The more children know, the more they are protected.
They can have the best parents in the world!!! The parents could've educated them and they just didn't want to listen sometimes it's not always on the parents it be the hard headed children that think they're grown and can do what they want and think the parents are wrong you don't know how they raised them so you can't speak on people situations y'all perfect patties get on my nerves with this
Just because you’re taught right from wrong doesn’t mean you will always do right
It does take over with some, but not with myself, sister, or my daughter.
Let him go on his way i totally agree with what his mother said 😉 hopefully they can Co-parent successfully.
she’s ridiculous! I would never agree with my son being in a relationship with a girl like that! I pray for the innocent baby she’s about to use against him.
He’s in trouble!
This boy needs to run for hills
@780822 let me ask you a question why does young lady want a young man to marry her after all that crap he put her through if he didn't want to be with her he could have told her that long time ago and put a baby in her stomach I don't get it but that's all her fault she only one that let out with this young man and had a baby with him that's my only thing but that's the reason why she left him because he was talking to other people messing around with the people why you want to stay with a young man that really don't want you I don't get it you can't make somebody to marry you I don't understand how to wear his mother got dragged in this I don't get it like it is so very immature between the both of them I don't get it but the same time this young lady need to calm down and chill out for a bit you know what I'm saying she's pregnant 6 months pregnant you want a young man to marry you that was so ridiculous I don't get it at the same time he only one and doing this and doing that to her why not move on but why she want to be with a young man
@@LethaLong-yi6yj did you watch the entire episode, a woman grabbing her man in front of the two parents. She’s throwing things at him, with so much force that a tail light was busted out of that man’s mother’s car, and she didn’t even offer to pay for it. She also cheated on the man, and only went back to him because she wasn’t feeling the man she was cheating with anymore. I have never seen anyone with so little accountability and remorse for doing things that are blatantly wrong. Not to mention she’s disrespected his family to their faces numerous times. She's absolutely horrible.
@@hiddenjocelyn1088 first of all I'm not retarded I did watch the episode but you're not answering my question all I was saying is why does young lady beg a young man to marry to her and put a baby on her I really don't care you cannot focus a man to marry you focus on being co-parenting it's not that hard it's not that easy we all women don't you get that thank you
@@LethaLong-yi6yjDidn’t sound like her raped her. She had to have willingly slept with him. You know. accountability is for all, not just men.
@@hiddenjocelyn1088I agree. She's BEYOND horrible. She's a mans worst nightmare. I really hope that young man gets a DNA test. She's beyond sneaky and devious and is trying to push marriage on him so that way legally he will be responsible for that kid even if it's NOT his. When u sign that birth certificate it's hard to get your name off when your married, even when proven the child is not yours in most states. It's a darn shame how they do men in family court..smh..
Where is her family
I really think she is lying about being pregnant
FINALLY!!! I was looking for someone in the comments to feel the same way I felt. The only baby weight I saw for a 6 month pregnant woman was her nose. I’m not making fun of it because she’s a beautiful young lady, but I just didn’t see it.
RUN BRO!! RUN FAST
The mama got PTSD? From a smashed light? I wish y’all never learned therapy words.
Thank you! Unless a person is duly _diagnosed_ they have no right using mental disorder diagnoses in everyday language. It's insulting, crass, and infruriating.
Anyone want the mind-numbing brain migraines, soreness, and spasms that come with *my anxiety* episode (that's just one of my symptoms)?
🧠🫨😓🤕
Be my 🦆 ucking guest!
She said she got ptsd because of all the fighting and their toxic behavior.
@@Thegirl1936 my point is from everything we heard and know about this situation we don’t believe her PTSD claims
@@Thegirl1936maybe she has anxiety. I agree with u about the toxicity and maybe she's all wound up because HER property and peace of mind is being messed up by this out of control, bad attitude having trouble maker. Car damages aren't cheap and you know that jerk of a brat girl isn't going to pay for it.
I find it funny that people are saying this is too young to be married but back in the day (the recent back in the day) it was completely normal and common.
Back in the day 20 year olds were a lot more mature. 20 year olds now act like they're still 16.
Exactly
😊 it's because we treat our pre adults and 20 year olds like children these days that's why they are so soft, overly sensitive and needy... Men and Women BOTH....lol
Hell judge Starr comes from that era with young people who made long-standing marriages... So I don't know why she often makes that comment "you two are extremely young" comment...
zulu3274
I’m old. My friends got married and had children late teens early 20s.
But since then we have learned that the human brain isn’t done developing until your mid 20s.
Sone of my friends married early and are still together. Sone are not
@@emilyfeagin2673 I totally understand what you're saying but this has always been the way of the world... We have some 16 year olds that are smarter/mature than others... We have some 60 year olds that are dumber than others... Marriages have a 50% success and 50% failure rate... Nothing is ever perfect but just do the best you can with it all... Most of us would change a lot if we could go back in time... lol
Who lets an 11 year old child date.
LOL NO .. the knew each other from when she was 11 years but they have been dating for 3 years
@@johannleonce7671 Right! Exactly. why does everyone keep saying that? Lol..does no one listen? They have only been dating 3 years and the judge clearly stated that🤣🤣
@@Shellygrrl2573 Yup!! she definitely did
They need to do a “ Divorce Court Disputes “. Because they just have an issue and are not married.
Proof he’s cheating but wants him to marry you 🤔🤦🏾♂️
His mother is absolutely 💯 beautiful and she don’t like this girl… neither do i
I just found his mom on TH-cam th-cam.com/users/shortst2widXkxBBo?si=8Z0LF9wixrIm9Uzj
I wonder what her home life was like.
Wonder if she has a relationship with her parents... Siblings...
I thought that too. She is young , alone and scared. That’s why she’s angry. She thought she had a place where she belonged, now she doesn’t have that
@@emilyfeagin2673 yes...
The judge is styling in this episode ✨❤
PTSD ?? Now ma’am 🤣🤣Shut up.
They shouldn’t be together but she is pushing it
You don't know the extent of what happened. I'm sure his mom didn't want to air his dirty laundry.
I just don't understand. It is nothing wrong with dating and not BEING COMMITTED! Just be up front with your intentions and use birth control and condoms.
Is that baby even his??? 🤔
Is she really pregnant?🤔🤔
I hope he get as far away from her as possible. She is my worst nightmare for my son
You can’t make nobody marry you‼️
Judge Starr was right about this crazy girl. The girl attitude is off the charts #delulu
She has a BIG problem. I hope he just co-parent. He better get a DNA test.
The single worst baby mama in the history of baby mamas. You got that right. However the young man needed to take his own bc in hand.
Get a DNA test!!!!! Don’t you sign nothing until you get a test!
Young lady, this is a 23 year old young man. What's going to happen is, you're going to be "a baby mama". She's trying to hold on too tight. She just wants to say she has a husband.
She's giving stalker vibes!!
The mother looks younger than the girlfriend..lol
I feel like this could’ve been handled outside of court. He’s not ready for marriage, he cheats, she’s manipulative and a possible cheater; no trust … breakup. The end.
Girl. Bye!
I wouldn't marry her. She's controlling. He may be
a cheater but don't demand marriage. I feel sorry for the baby. She's going to try to control him and his family with that baby. If she does that she will be hurting her child.
They are too young and he is not ready for a family. She needs to accept that and focus on her education or whatever her life goals are. These young ladies get wrapped up with boys who are not ready to assume the role of husband or father.
She is going to make his life miserable 😩 😔
With her behaviour I would honestly question the paternity of the baby...
1:35: That's _your_fault you don't have an engagement nor wedding band on your ring Missy.
You did the relationship steps 👏🏾 out 👏🏾 of 👏🏾 order 👏🏾! Get your life together - *both* of you 💯.
Love Judge 's fashion. How does she keep her body in shape
I think she mentioned she plays tennis along with lifestyle change . She had weightloss surgery long time ago
God, marriage, children💯 what happened to that? that’s the only way it would work
Do not settle down in your 20s live learn life as much as possible and learn people too
The mother is beautiful
I hope eventually there is some way to avoid becoming pregnant, seeing as that solution does not exist today...
😂
Buddy wasn’t budging
They definitely don't need to be married. I think she thinks because she's pregnant she believes she should be married...NOT!
She has a terrible attitude. He needed to leave her anyways.
Exactly no home training or common sense
Lil girl and I say that loosely, how you gonna give someone 3 months to marry you and you think he's a cheater? He is clearly not ready. And, at this point neither are you. Just co-parent. And son, PLEASE get a DNA test. She is a TRIP!
Marriage at 23 is the most terrifying thing. It's like you are signing away your future.
What i get from her is she like to talk like she is so poise and mature when really she is very immature
They do things backwards
I agree withthe Judge, this young lady needs more time to mature within herself.
I think the guy drove this young lady crazy, she loves him but he doesn't love her