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- Unraveling the Dark Depths of "Stan" by Eminem: A Mental Health Perspective
Description: Join Dr. Syl as he delves into the chilling narrative of Eminem's iconic song "Stan" through a mental health lens. Analyzing the themes of stalking, entitlement, and emotional dysregulation, Dr. Syl provides insights into the complexities of such behaviors and their psychological implications. From the portrayal of obsessive fandom to the tragic consequences of unmet expectations, this video explores the intersection of music, mental health, and societal issues.
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Timestamps
00:00 - Introduction
What should I react to next?
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Dr Syl please react to Fingers by Chincilla
Oh Caroline by The 1975
If you're looking for something that has a lot of depression/suicidal themes to it you know you're right by nirvana would make a great reaction video.
I had a stalker in high school and I ended up working with him a few years ago. They scheduled just him and I to work one day and he pulled a hand gun out to "show" me. I really thought just was gonna die. Thankfully he didn't but I told my boss and I quit that job. Fast forward to 2020-2021, he decided to go and kill his stepfather and had a list of people. I was second on the list and if the cops hadn't caught up to him after he did that to his stepfather then I wouldn't be here today. Needless to say I'm still traumatized even tho he isn't on this planet anymore. Stalkers are so scary. Keep yourself safe always.
I forgot Stan's gf was pregnant T-T it's been so long since I've watched this video. I'm almost 29 weeks pregnant so that was a bit hard to watch. :o
Holy shit, that's... that's way,way too close of a call.
Yeah imaaa call bs on that sweetheart
@@SerFentanylFloyd look him up his name is Chaz Bennett in cedar city utah
@@margodphd right?!?! I'm still afraid to leave the house now :/
This song even lead to a verb: "to stan".
What a lyricist Em is 🔥
I haven’t watched that video in years. Wow. From the perspective of a Hypnotherapist, I want to let people know that it’s important to check in with your loved ones and their mental health. Sometimes the signs are there but sometimes they aren’t. ❤
On the odd chance people missed it, Eminem's refection changes to Stan's in the last scene of the vid.
"There are better ways to self-regulate, it just takes money and professional help."
I don't suppose that there might be a connection?
I always get so hyped when he uploads
I just enjoy all your different types of videos!! Once again thank you for this video and keep it up:))
I would love to see more Eminem on the album. Check out Walk On Water or (Castle and Arose - These need to be done together).
Hey Doc, wondering if you could do a Q&A sort of video about how you as a mental health professional feel about certain issues around LGBTQ health and relationships and mental health given the upcoming pride month. Ive got tons of unique questions Ive always wanted answers on. For example, at least in the US, when available sometimes a patient will be asked if they would prefer a male or female doctor. (This isnt universal as sometimes there might not be an option.) However Ive had friends ask for LGBTQ doctors only to be told no for some very homophobic reasons. Ive also had friends find out their doctor is LGBTQ by accident and be asked by the doctor not to out them and wonder if its ok to keep seeing that doctor. I dont want to give a 100 what ifs or personal stories, but there are a ton of unique situations out there. Stay handsome and keep making great vids!!
I have been stalked by an ex boyfriend long ago, police does not understand, it was very scary.
He has a sequel to this but with no music video. Bad guy on his marshall mathers lp 2
You should react to the case of Bjork stalker
I don't know if you have seen Soprano's before? I would love your reaction and professional input in to the sessions Tony has. Did they help him or make things worse?
Oooohhhh!!!! Yes!!!
Just to lighten it up, you should react to STU ft Pete Davidson on SNL.
It's a parody of this track.
So Stan talks about cutting himself because Eminem has a couple of songs with lyrics about him doing that & he has a tattoo on his wrist that says slit here
Could you talk to stalking type behaviours and how it could cross over with or relate to Limerence attachment?
When I was in the Navy I had an apartment off base. My neighbor thought he was my boyfriend.
We didn't ever have a relationship. He was a drug abuser with a criminal history. I was clean-cut and had a career. He would have ruined it for me. I also felt a threat of violence.
Something was absent in him. His eyes had a blank distant stare. He was drunk or high a lot. It used to scare me.
When I met him at first, he seemed almost normal. He took my friendly attitude as romantic attention. When I rejected him, he spiraled into more drugs and alcohol. He used to do passive-aggressive bs to get back at me, like disconnect my cable.
I moved to a different apartment but would see him sometimes in town. It gave me creeps.
I finally transferred from California to Puerto Rico. It stopped. I was glad not to worry if he would snap or not.
I was lucky. It could have gotten worse. It knew something was wrong with the dude.
Who has money for 5y of therapy? Even in eu its 2y max with 75% support.
You haven’t seen the video?! How is that possible?
You aren’t called Stan are you ? 😮
Living under a rock??
Are you mentally ill if you sing this with your teenage daughter just for fun? 🤔
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I had a stalker for quite a few years. He was an ex-boyfriend and he’d go to great lengths to try to get in contact with me for YEARS after we broke up (in 8th grade!)
It's as well scary when the psychiatrist stalks you also... and not only
I’m writin’ letters, hopin' you see 'em in the chat,
Got your merch, got your book, even wearin' your hat,
Follow every word, man, your wisdom's my addiction,
Every diagnosis feels like my prediction.
Remember that stream where you talked 'bout anxiety?
Felt like you were speakin' straight to the depths of me,
Been dealin' with it since I was just a little kid,
Now I got your advice, tryin' to fix what I did.
I send messages, comments, never get a reply,
Feelin' like I'm lost, just a shadow in your eye,
Still, I watch and I wait, hangin' on your next line,
Maybe one day, Doc, you'll recognize this sign.
Creepy lol