well just because she comforted him doesn't mean that she will respect him after that, she might think "if a think like a job is too much for him to handle or that I don't appreciate him because he works then how can I feel safe around him when the real danger will arrive? I don't think I can be with him anymore"
Yeah, hence why fake. Anegdotal, but when my first girlfirend saw me cry once, she slapped me in the face. We've been for like 5 and a half years together. My second girlfriend with whom we've been together for 6 years just looked at me with disgust when I cried once. Bottling up emotions is unfortunately what works, being open with emotions isn't. When girls say they want emotionally mature man, they usually want exactly that.
Yeah most girls would completely betray him, kick him when he's down and leave as soon as he expresses bad emotions. They love to dump their negativity on a man but when a man gets sad they look at him like a failure.
@@weakest_serb hold my beer. ”Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will.” - @charlesxll7925 Now it is a real qoute.
Its comparable to children who start to cry more when they know someone saw them fall. Its not a conscious manipulation attempt most of the time, but simply a subconscious adaptation to the fact that this lead to getting more attention in the past. In both cases the behaviour stops very quickly once it is not rewarded anymore. Which is something I would always recommend.
Pro tip, if your girl ever says "you wouldn't understand" just say "yeah, you're probably right" and leave Don't let her manipulate you. You need to establish that you are not to be toyed with, and that if she wants something she needs to ask directly. This is actually the same way you raise small children, you don't reinforce negative behaviors. She wants attention? Great, no problem, she can just ask for it like a fucking adult.
Nah you just begin with “nope nah-uh not doing this shit, you want attention when you’re bored so you’re playing games to get it, not doing this shit you can miss me with that”
Problem is that society at large reinforces that negative behavior. Even if you walk away from it there is never ending horde of feminists and simps telling her how she's in the right you are the problem. The problem is much bigger than two people in this individual relationship.
crying to get your way is like taking on credit card debt that you never have to pay off, cause there is an endless supply of banks (simps) willing to buy that debt.
I grew up with 3 older sisters, the things I've seen them get with a single tear still amazes me. It's also the reason why I instantly shut them down since I know better.
@@jcdenton4685 bro my sister can get accidentally pregnant with a meth-head convict and even convince family to let them stay at our place until he’s “back on his feet” even tho all he causes is problems and keeps breaking bail and going back to prison and receive NO backlash for it. None. And she’s not the only girl I know who gets this treatment.
I've never seen a woman cry irl, but I've heard them cry and sob in visual novels and oh man those scenes always broke my heart. Can't imagine how bad it would feel irl
Behavior that’s rewarded is repeated. OP needs to understand that this creature is not only going to operate this way all the time but that it’s going to ramp up. Call it out, set a boundary. Her reaction will tell you everything.
@Nooy_ The wording is weird but he's not wrong, even if we as humans are complex compared to animals we still do things to achieve basic needs/wants, just in a more complicated manner, if me punching you and bullying you gets me respect and power it's more likely I'll do it because it fulfills a desire to be dominant, if you flirting gets you with a chick it gets you closer to achieving the desire to either sleep with them or become their romantic partner. If this story is real (very unlikely) he needs to confront them and set a boundary, if she's insistent on her bad behavior then he'll either need to compromise or break up
"Bottling up emotions like a real man" can have devastating results. Find a healthy way to shed the pain, some people are just a bad day away from losing control and this old way of thinking is not helping.
@@iddomargalit-friedman3897 if she doesn't realize that she has that problem, how is she going to deal with it? she can't cry every time she's upset he didn't see the minuscule change she made to her appearance like some kid. and if she does realize it but doesn't change then that's worse.
They are genuinely born like that. I grew up with an older sister who was 4 years older then me and she did stuff like this constantly when we lived together. No one taught her, it was just instinct.
@jaytheman It depends, if crying is what gets a person rewarded they would keep doing it from children to adulthood, it might be perhaps that people are willingly going along with her manipulation basically telling her, "crying works, therefore cry more" as compared to us guys, if we did that we would be looked as pathetic and disgusting
Regardless if women say they want you to show emotion…Don’t ever do it. At least with crying specifically. You’re supposed to be her rock. If you show weakness she will think you’re on the same level as her or even look down on you and that’s how some relationships end.
Sometimes. An ex of mine could cry, convincingly, nearly on command. Once I caught her do that and then flip to outright laughter, 2 seconds later. And she wasn't bi-polar. Although I have to give credit where it's due. The only time my ex saw me do that was during a few PTSD episodes, and she was genuinely empathetic. That's the only time I remember her express that towards me, though. I can relate to Anon's story.
Honestly, I think she's fighting a hidden battle if this is even true Knowing this type at least, they tend to hide it like men. The key difference is they show emotions but lead you to a different answer
This is an adult tantrum, most people that exhibit this usually have some kind of personality disorder. Normal ppl usually outgrow such behaviour, so seeing it on an adult may seem... odd and out of place.
Weird thing to say but I think I know what you meant. I get turned on by women crying. Maybe men too. That's probably worse. Although if I've seen them be manipulative then I'd be like you
I find that crying is just infantilzing behavior, as in "Oh idk how to communicate my real feelings because pride/attention, so I'll just cry instead and get what I want" we're freaking adults, we've been conditioned our whole lives to become better, and yet so many people will devolve to this shit. Does that mean becoming an emotionless brick wall? Not if you choose not to be! God damn bro
Man these comment section are always so sad. It's intense how scewed so many realities are, or more likely this is just the reality of people without social skills like a lot of the angry commenters here. Trust me guys, gym and regular activities like sports/hobby clubs to imporve social skills work. It's a hard road out of the comfort zone but there is a light at the end for every one. Become normal, desirable, and your reality, especially with women, will change. It's hard, but it's not complicated
OP doesn't know about the special areas were there are no women so you let out the feelings that cuaes them "ichs" , like "sadness" or "insecurity" or anything that doesn't portray you as a silend confident stoic type but not to confident cause they think you are smug. Also Anon forgot about games so Anon might be gay.
Yeah, that's not a woman thing, it's a human thing. If you're not a shut-in and deal with people on a daily basis, be it on work or whatever else, you're gonna learn that real soon.
Nooo I've been with an emotionally dead girl. That was not fun either tbh. I'd have a bad day and tell her about it and she'd tell me I was looking for attention, and I'm like "??? I just had a shitty day and I wanted to talk about it with someone to get it off my chest". Like I wasn't crying or nothing. Just felt a bit deflated after a couple rough days 🤷🏻♂️ but she'd have never cried over anything. Like her grandmother died while we were together and she let out 2 tears in total, and I think that was only cos she felt like she should cry cos that's the "normal" human response to the death of a family member. I don't think she was actually crying about it.
@@Lefkefb thanks. I get being sucked into generalizations. I am not immune. But the elites are trying to make us fight amongst ourselves. Don't let them turn good people like you and me into monsters. You're a good man too
Sometimes you just gotta get the tears over with so you can move on. Like a good vom. The tears really don’t have to be any more significant than some bad food or an anxiety dookie lmao. I told my fiance the best thing to do if I cry is NOT to make a big deal out of it.
I'm sure many women do this to manipulate, whether they are aware that's what they're doing or not! I cry a lot and I think I might be doing it to manipulate sometimes but I'm not sure, which frustrates me because I try so hard to be perfectly considerate and aware of my actions and all that, and if I am still being manipulative despite all my efforts to be fair and everything, imagine what people are like who aren't trying! Talk to your girlfriend about how you feel and if that doesn't work, look for people who know how to communicate in a mature way (and make sure you do as well, otherwise the mature communicators won't want to spend time around you) - also try saying "I feel like X because Y happened" or "when you did Y it made me feel X" as a template to having a productive conversation about your own emotions! You deserve to not have to bottle stuff up, and the ideal response to emotions is probably about halfway between you two!
The answer is yes. Good response would be to learn how to respond to it. This is pretty pesky tactics, you need to stop overreacting to this emotional outbursts, like it's normal and nothing happened. It's not fine for women to cry over minor problems but I treat it as a personal issue of them rather objective error.
I bottle around people because women are accused of being weak for crying. I cry all the time in private. The first time I couldn't hold it in with my boyfriend he saw that I was trying and failing to hold it in and had genuine empathy. This case might be weaponizing crying, but don't go around assuming crying is on purpose. Many can't help it.
@@Nerthos Whether or not crying is biologically useful depends on the person. Some people feel worse after but the reason I let loose in private is because I always feel better after a good cry. It releases oxytocin! It's healthy.
@@NerthosCrying releases cortisol. Sometimes tears are just chemicals and we gotta be allowed to clear out the cobwebs. All tears don’t have to have some kind of life-changing significance.
@arthurman2233 A lot of regarded people that is unable to appreciate a story, for a story to be real for these people it needs to be very much related to their own life experience.
In your case, no. She is not trying to manipulate you, she is very emotionally volatile and she needs that attention of you to keep going. She legits feels that bad, but as soon as she hears you love her all the problems go away. So basically she is super insecure, or worse: she is projecting that she doesn't love you as much and is losing interest, so she needs that compliments to feel better by switching love for whatever is the term in english for just attention and feeling loved and cared by someone else
So, I think it's less that and more just insecurity. I dont think its anything crazy. My gf does something similar; she tends to just complaining about something to get my attention. Im rather w.e about anything so when she starts complaining, she knows it gets my attention because I get annoyed and want to "fix" it. We do the song and dance of what it might be, then realize how minor it is and we end up cuddling, etc. Bro, Ive no clue, but Im almost sure it's for the cuddle and because they want your attention but dont want to straight up say "cuddle" time. Even though she does that too. Honestly, idk, I thought I had this figured out LOL
I’ve been with only one woman (my wife) for my whole life. 25 years and counting… I speak from experience and authority on this subject. Do not give in to manipulation tactics. Men, it is your job, to love for, care for, and protect you woman. But, it’s also your job to LEAD them. Women live their live’s through emotion and experiences, Men live through logic and reason. Emotions are important, but will lead you astray. So, you must lean to navigate these situations. What the story is describing is a “negative feedback loop” The GF doesn’t want to communicate like an adult, so she manipulates him to get what she wants. Since it worked, she does it again. Once the behavior has been reinforced, she has created a loop that’s difficult to break. Men, your job is to recognize these situations as they happen and then do not fall for it. Instead get to the heart of the issue without emotion. Once the real issue is found, correct it and reinforce it with love and assurance.
Top-tier greentexts right here 👉🏻 th-cam.com/play/PL4pRpbzNHf6CEUP8Qa4VSKSn0DDz288vO.html
Perfect ending. Tried it himself, got it to work, then never touched it again
A scientist always confirms their hypothesis.
It's so powerful, mans didn't feel responsible enough to wield it.
Perfection
The fact she tried to comfort him is a rarity since usually a man showing weakness isn't exactly looked upon in such a caring light.
Because it's a fake story. Most of them are.
well just because she comforted him doesn't mean that she will respect him after that, she might think "if a think like a job is too much for him to handle or that I don't appreciate him because he works then how can I feel safe around him when the real danger will arrive? I don't think I can be with him anymore"
Yeah, hence why fake. Anegdotal, but when my first girlfirend saw me cry once, she slapped me in the face. We've been for like 5 and a half years together. My second girlfriend with whom we've been together for 6 years just looked at me with disgust when I cried once. Bottling up emotions is unfortunately what works, being open with emotions isn't. When girls say they want emotionally mature man, they usually want exactly that.
Yeah most girls would completely betray him, kick him when he's down and leave as soon as he expresses bad emotions. They love to dump their negativity on a man but when a man gets sad they look at him like a failure.
Cognitive dissonance
Ngl stare at wall for hours is lowkey relaxing.
I just love pondering the drywall
Personally I think staring at a candle flame is better or at birds
@Foxtayls Candle flame is great and all but that shit will burn your retinas lol
I personally like to sit outside and listen to the hundreds of lorikeets that eat the flowers on the trees
Just alone with your thoughts. Internet interferes with alone time.
”Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will.”
-Socrates
Thanks good old Charles XII, for the advice!
What I wise fella.
BTW, that is probably a fake quote, as it has no known source
Please explain 🙏🏻
@@weakest_serb hold my beer.
”Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will.” - @charlesxll7925
Now it is a real qoute.
> I wake up
> There is another Pysyop
this entire life is a psyop.
Be a strong man with principles, you shall be fine.
I also suggest moving to Kazakhstan .
@@PancakeProduct
what's in Kazakhstan?
Kazakhstan deez nuts
Crying is the Meta that Human babies mastered but we all forget about it eventually, Girls just re learn this tactic
They never forget it
"women and children" has some redundancy
Its comparable to children who start to cry more when they know someone saw them fall.
Its not a conscious manipulation attempt most of the time, but simply a subconscious adaptation to the fact that this lead to getting more attention in the past.
In both cases the behaviour stops very quickly once it is not rewarded anymore.
Which is something I would always recommend.
Right. It’s what would otherwise be called a “shit test”
You don’t reward or consider behavior like this. It’s not good
This is honestly applicable to all behaviors, unless the person understands what is happening
If he stop reward her, he's single
@@DuelTubeChannel Thats also a favourable outcome.
This raises the chances of finding a more suitable partner.
@
If that’s the case, he’s better with her. I cannot stand behavior like that
"Do women go to school for this?"
No, its a skill that all humans spawn with, but men grow out it.
Wow. Didn't even realize how true this is
Short answer: Ya
Medium Answer: Yeah
Long Answer: Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh
Opening bars of "Won't get fooled again" start playing
Dammit Koolaid guy, stop breaking through my walls. I have to repair those.
"I have the same reaction to a woman crying I have when a toilet starts to overflow.... Oh no, no, no, no!" - Nick Griffin
Is that Nick Griffin from the BNP?
Relax bro, it's just shit is going through pipes you know, literally and as a metaphor.
Pro tip, if your girl ever says "you wouldn't understand" just say "yeah, you're probably right" and leave
Don't let her manipulate you. You need to establish that you are not to be toyed with, and that if she wants something she needs to ask directly. This is actually the same way you raise small children, you don't reinforce negative behaviors.
She wants attention? Great, no problem, she can just ask for it like a fucking adult.
Nah you just begin with “nope nah-uh not doing this shit, you want attention when you’re bored so you’re playing games to get it, not doing this shit you can miss me with that”
Bruh just give her the attention or leave. Why do you try to create a warfare out of this instead of act like it is a silly couples game?
I just grunt a bunch and say “stupid man stupid” and then scratch my butt and sniff my fingers
Is he REALLY the one making it warfare? "Silly little couple game" yeah alright
Problem is that society at large reinforces that negative behavior. Even if you walk away from it there is never ending horde of feminists and simps telling her how she's in the right you are the problem.
The problem is much bigger than two people in this individual relationship.
women sure are top tier communicators
Fake: she wasn't disgusted by him crying and lose all attraction from the "ick"
Dont worry crying doesnt works on me anymore. My mom did a lot when i was a kid and it basically made me desensitized.
Oof... I relate heavy with this.
I wonder how common that is with behavior mothers did that boys found to be illegitimate, and then became desensitized and uncaring towards
Same, but mine was from two sisters.
crying to get your way is like taking on credit card debt that you never have to pay off, cause there is an endless supply of banks (simps) willing to buy that debt.
Same
I teach grade school and before that kindergarden: kids absolutely learn tactical cryin and some never forget or stop using it.
Yes they do and they just cry for no reason.
I never had a girlfriend so I actually dont know
I can relate
I grew up with 3 older sisters, the things I've seen them get with a single tear still amazes me. It's also the reason why I instantly shut them down since I know better.
@@jcdenton4685 bro my sister can get accidentally pregnant with a meth-head convict and even convince family to let them stay at our place until he’s “back on his feet” even tho all he causes is problems and keeps breaking bail and going back to prison and receive NO backlash for it. None. And she’s not the only girl I know who gets this treatment.
@@jcdenton4685 ...since I k̶n̶o̶w̶ am better
90% of the comments of this video would be this exact comment if 4channers were honest and not misogynistic
'Stares at wall' - What a gigachad.
Crying is a powerful move but it needs to be channeled, take a lot of MP, and comes with the “gay” debuff for several hours afterwards.
Easy, just listen to “woman crying sound effect 10hours” and you’ll never be fazed
Resistance Training for Pimps.
I've never seen a woman cry irl, but I've heard them cry and sob in visual novels and oh man those scenes always broke my heart. Can't imagine how bad it would feel irl
I can say feels horrible. Both when it's fake and when it's legit.
you never seen a woman cry?
_Be the change you want to see in the world._
Consider yourself lucky ❤❤❤
It feels horrible, until the 10th time they’re reduced to tears because you didn’t notice their new earrings.
Behavior that’s rewarded is repeated. OP needs to understand that this creature is not only going to operate this way all the time but that it’s going to ramp up. Call it out, set a boundary. Her reaction will tell you everything.
Damn just realised you've all never talked to a woman before
*to a creature
Rofl
@Nooy_ Woman🍵
@@sanich0811 cope and seethe
@Nooy_ The wording is weird but he's not wrong, even if we as humans are complex compared to animals we still do things to achieve basic needs/wants, just in a more complicated manner, if me punching you and bullying you gets me respect and power it's more likely I'll do it because it fulfills a desire to be dominant, if you flirting gets you with a chick it gets you closer to achieving the desire to either sleep with them or become their romantic partner. If this story is real (very unlikely) he needs to confront them and set a boundary, if she's insistent on her bad behavior then he'll either need to compromise or break up
The thing about roller coasters is that you end up right back where you started.
Damn, that's deep!
"Bottling up emotions like a real man" can have devastating results. Find a healthy way to shed the pain, some people are just a bad day away from losing control and this old way of thinking is not helping.
Heavy weightlifting, boxing in a heavy bag or a long run usually gets the emotions out.
Yes.
Yes they do.
Yes, they do. If you had a sister, you'd know.
God gives us sisters so we can learn how awful women can be. If you don’t learn from them, you will be doomed to be manipulated by your partner.
Answer crying by blasting the game at full volume and cheering for your team violently.
Real: op admitted crying is gay
Gay: op cried
Knowing the easy way out and still choosing the right way, respect.
Anon is straight, that’s why
Run
NOW
Nah, she comforted him, that is a green flag.
And being overly emotional is not an automatic deal breaker
@@iddomargalit-friedman3897 if she doesn't realize that she has that problem, how is she going to deal with it? she can't cry every time she's upset he didn't see the minuscule change she made to her appearance like some kid. and if she does realize it but doesn't change then that's worse.
Short answer yes, long answer, most of the time.
>Be most men
>Wake up
>End up looking at ceiling for hours
>Miss out on getting up early
Usually not conciously or intentionally, but the answer is still often yes.
Fake:Has a girlfriend of 8 months
Gay: Cries in front of her
Short answer: Yes.
She also 100% was looking for a new partner after seeing him cry, tears to a woman are a sign you are weak and cannot provide.
"Advanced Cry Tactics" sounds like a knockoff Ubisoft game
They are genuinely born like that. I grew up with an older sister who was 4 years older then me and she did stuff like this constantly when we lived together. No one taught her, it was just instinct.
Erm, bro, thats just what children do for attention. Everyone has done that at some point lmao
@@marcxworld5708 Yea I would agree with you if this didn't continue on beyond our childhood. It only stopped when we stopped living together
@jaytheman It depends, if crying is what gets a person rewarded they would keep doing it from children to adulthood, it might be perhaps that people are willingly going along with her manipulation basically telling her, "crying works, therefore cry more" as compared to us guys, if we did that we would be looked as pathetic and disgusting
It's not instinct. It's a choice. Plenty of women don't do this. I'm sorry yall really have such bad sisters in the comments
how come yall always assume that all women are the same lmao
I used to repair phoned when I was a teenager, yes lots of women take videos of themselves practicing crying
Regardless if women say they want you to show emotion…Don’t ever do it. At least with crying specifically. You’re supposed to be her rock. If you show weakness she will think you’re on the same level as her or even look down on you and that’s how some relationships end.
i read the title in the same tone of "do androids dream of electric sheep?"
Sometimes. An ex of mine could cry, convincingly, nearly on command. Once I caught her do that and then flip to outright laughter, 2 seconds later. And she wasn't bi-polar.
Although I have to give credit where it's due. The only time my ex saw me do that was during a few PTSD episodes, and she was genuinely empathetic. That's the only time I remember her express that towards me, though. I can relate to Anon's story.
This is why I don’t trust actors. They literally learn to change emotions on a whim.
@nickcarroll8565 Amber Heard is, or was, the "Alpha" of both her clique and stereotype.
Honestly, I think she's fighting a hidden battle if this is even true
Knowing this type at least, they tend to hide it like men. The key difference is they show emotions but lead you to a different answer
This is the funniest one lmao
They most certainly do
This is an adult tantrum, most people that exhibit this usually have some kind of personality disorder. Normal ppl usually outgrow such behaviour, so seeing it on an adult may seem... odd and out of place.
…I would’ve walked away the moment she started this shit, no one is worth peace
That last part got me
I cant be the only one that gets completely turned off by people crying, right?
you're not, that's why this is fake
This is why you don’t show emotion, people!
Weird thing to say but I think I know what you meant. I get turned on by women crying. Maybe men too. That's probably worse.
Although if I've seen them be manipulative then I'd be like you
I find that crying is just infantilzing behavior, as in "Oh idk how to communicate my real feelings because pride/attention, so I'll just cry instead and get what I want" we're freaking adults, we've been conditioned our whole lives to become better, and yet so many people will devolve to this shit. Does that mean becoming an emotionless brick wall? Not if you choose not to be!
God damn bro
Fake: gay
Gay: crying
Thats almost the only reason they cry.
Yes.
Man these comment section are always so sad. It's intense how scewed so many realities are, or more likely this is just the reality of people without social skills like a lot of the angry commenters here. Trust me guys, gym and regular activities like sports/hobby clubs to imporve social skills work. It's a hard road out of the comfort zone but there is a light at the end for every one. Become normal, desirable, and your reality, especially with women, will change. It's hard, but it's not complicated
we already fight the world outside
why would i want another problem inside
Leave, if you have the money just leave lol. Pass Go, collect all your shit on the way out, never speak to her again bro.
0:13, "You wouldn't understand."
You're right, I don't. Maybe we should see other people who would better understand one another.
nah, theres no academy for it.
mental manipulation comes pre-installed
Children cry when they dont get their way. And if not corrected early on, you have one of these
Oh boy ☕️☕️☕️
This is why I only date ice queens.
Totally, becareful with a women that cries she knows what shes doing and knows that youll do what she says if she sheds a few tears
yes they do, a womans tears are genuine only when no one else is around to see them, most other times its for show
I went for too many funerals this year i can't feel anything and someone is capable to cry about eyeliner. Everyone is different i guess
Fake: anon has a gf
Gay: sharing emotions
OP doesn't know about the special areas were there are no women so you let out the feelings that cuaes them "ichs" , like "sadness" or "insecurity" or anything that doesn't portray you as a silend confident stoic type but not to confident cause they think you are smug.
Also Anon forgot about games so Anon might be gay.
Without even watching the video, the short answer is yes
Sometimes, yes.
how does one cry on command
Fake: anon has a gf
Gay: anon's girlfriend is a guy
If you are a man, the only person that will accept your crying is your mother. Because loving mothers will always see you as a kid in their eyes.
No. SOME women do
all*
Most. And they don't have to be in a relationship to do it.
Yeah, that's not a woman thing, it's a human thing. If you're not a shut-in and deal with people on a daily basis, be it on work or whatever else, you're gonna learn that real soon.
Nooo I've been with an emotionally dead girl. That was not fun either tbh. I'd have a bad day and tell her about it and she'd tell me I was looking for attention, and I'm like "??? I just had a shitty day and I wanted to talk about it with someone to get it off my chest". Like I wasn't crying or nothing. Just felt a bit deflated after a couple rough days 🤷🏻♂️ but she'd have never cried over anything. Like her grandmother died while we were together and she let out 2 tears in total, and I think that was only cos she felt like she should cry cos that's the "normal" human response to the death of a family member. I don't think she was actually crying about it.
Rare non incel type comment
This is just a bilocigal thing woman always in a rollercoaster of emotions
It’s not dude
@@Inmate16 well most of them they don't even realize this behavior
@Lefkefb that's true. Some really don't. I didn't believe that at first but a woman confirmed it. However that doesn't mean all women
@@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 u are a nice man
@@Lefkefb thanks. I get being sucked into generalizations. I am not immune. But the elites are trying to make us fight amongst ourselves. Don't let them turn good people like you and me into monsters. You're a good man too
Bro crying for attention is like factory installed firmware
Someones parents didn't ween the toddler behavior. I would have ran, I'm not into adult babies.
Fake: Anon has gf
Gay: Anon crying
Sometimes you just gotta get the tears over with so you can move on. Like a good vom. The tears really don’t have to be any more significant than some bad food or an anxiety dookie lmao. I told my fiance the best thing to do if I cry is NOT to make a big deal out of it.
Does Dolly Parton sleep on her back?
Fake: Anon test crying for attention with his girlfriend
Gay: Anon cries because his boyfriend broke up with him
Why is he living with a teenager?
Not all women do this. I think his might be defective. He should take her back to the girlfriend store and exchange her for a new one
All of them do this.
didnt even watch the video. YES
I'm sure many women do this to manipulate, whether they are aware that's what they're doing or not! I cry a lot and I think I might be doing it to manipulate sometimes but I'm not sure, which frustrates me because I try so hard to be perfectly considerate and aware of my actions and all that, and if I am still being manipulative despite all my efforts to be fair and everything, imagine what people are like who aren't trying! Talk to your girlfriend about how you feel and if that doesn't work, look for people who know how to communicate in a mature way (and make sure you do as well, otherwise the mature communicators won't want to spend time around you) - also try saying "I feel like X because Y happened" or "when you did Y it made me feel X" as a template to having a productive conversation about your own emotions! You deserve to not have to bottle stuff up, and the ideal response to emotions is probably about halfway between you two!
didnt watch but the answer is yes
Yes
So women are like puppies basically
some sort of cluster b disorder
The answer is yes. Good response would be to learn how to respond to it. This is pretty pesky tactics, you need to stop overreacting to this emotional outbursts, like it's normal and nothing happened. It's not fine for women to cry over minor problems but I treat it as a personal issue of them rather objective error.
yes
fake: anon has a gf
wall: wall
Fake: Fake GF
Gay: Gay
Look, if you can cry on cue, you EARNED anything you want to manipulate me into doing
I bottle around people because women are accused of being weak for crying. I cry all the time in private. The first time I couldn't hold it in with my boyfriend he saw that I was trying and failing to hold it in and had genuine empathy. This case might be weaponizing crying, but don't go around assuming crying is on purpose. Many can't help it.
Genuine question, what triggers a crying response in you? It's not a particularly useful response biologically so I'm curious why
@@Nerthos Whether or not crying is biologically useful depends on the person. Some people feel worse after but the reason I let loose in private is because I always feel better after a good cry. It releases oxytocin! It's healthy.
@@NerthosCrying releases cortisol. Sometimes tears are just chemicals and we gotta be allowed to clear out the cobwebs. All tears don’t have to have some kind of life-changing significance.
Never heard of women being called weak for crying, where do you live?
@@marcxworld5708a place I wanna move to
Just look at your gf
Say something nice
Problem solved
fake, got sympathy for crying in front of gf
do not attempt irl, you'll only get contempt
Do people actually believe these
Yes, me. 🥴😵💫
His story may not be true but it's 100% believable
Do people insist that everything MUST be a lie?
@arthurman2233 A lot of regarded people that is unable to appreciate a story, for a story to be real for these people it needs to be very much related to their own life experience.
@@elshaddollconstructor2019if it doesn’t paint women in a perfect light many people will think it’s fake
In your case, no. She is not trying to manipulate you, she is very emotionally volatile and she needs that attention of you to keep going.
She legits feels that bad, but as soon as she hears you love her all the problems go away.
So basically she is super insecure, or worse: she is projecting that she doesn't love you as much and is losing interest, so she needs that compliments to feel better by switching love for whatever is the term in english for just attention and feeling loved and cared by someone else
So, I think it's less that and more just insecurity. I dont think its anything crazy. My gf does something similar; she tends to just complaining about something to get my attention.
Im rather w.e about anything so when she starts complaining, she knows it gets my attention because I get annoyed and want to "fix" it. We do the song and dance of what it might be, then realize how minor it is and we end up cuddling, etc.
Bro, Ive no clue, but Im almost sure it's for the cuddle and because they want your attention but dont want to straight up say "cuddle" time.
Even though she does that too. Honestly, idk, I thought I had this figured out LOL
I’ve been with only one woman (my wife) for my whole life. 25 years and counting…
I speak from experience and authority on this subject.
Do not give in to manipulation tactics.
Men, it is your job, to love for, care for, and protect you woman. But, it’s also your job to LEAD them.
Women live their live’s through emotion and experiences, Men live through logic and reason.
Emotions are important, but will lead you astray. So, you must lean to navigate these situations.
What the story is describing is a “negative feedback loop”
The GF doesn’t want to communicate like an adult, so she manipulates him to get what she wants. Since it worked, she does it again. Once the behavior has been reinforced, she has created a loop that’s difficult to break.
Men, your job is to recognize these situations as they happen and then do not fall for it. Instead get to the heart of the issue without emotion.
Once the real issue is found, correct it and reinforce it with love and assurance.
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