You are better than any therapist Miss Faye, thank you for the effort you put into these talks. Nothing is more important to me than my peace of mind. After I listen to you I feel stronger and confident that I can take care of myself.
Therapy is a waste of time and money when you aren’t the one with the problem. What we need is knowledge about dysfunctional people so we can protect ourselves. TH-cam is a wonderful conduit for anyone who has this knowledge to share it.
My mother used to tell me when I was much younger, never depend on a man to take of you. If anything u take care of urself. Never make a man, tell u that he doesn't want u more than once. That advice, never left me.
Never argue or threaten. Have a passport and leave. He or she will eliminate you at your job. If pregnant, you will be eliminated and your baby and family. Stay away from house parties and bars. DO not marry, shack or have babies. Tubes tied and vasectomies from birth.
I didn’t had a daughter, but if I had one, I would have sit her down at a early age of 13,to listen to mrs Faye, and then guide her from there, and then answer all her question, ladies talk to your daughter.
“The devil you know is better than the devil you don’t know.” Well, we are not forced to be in a relationship at all. It’s not like a boss at work, where we have to have one.
I just watched a video where a man gave his perspective on men and sex. He essentially said the same thing as you have said Miss Faye only he tried to soften the message a bit. He said men like sex and basically that is all they are looking for. They don't need to love you or like you or even think you are attractive. They will do and say what you want to get what they are after. I tried going back into dating a few years after my husband passed away and I thought older men would be different but they were the exact same as the younger men just trying to get what they want and then move on to someone else. For me I am staying single because I am too old to play games and try to find a man who isn't going to use me. I really never understood how men who had no feelings for someone and could have sex with them. Like you said Miss Faye you give away your treasure and they just take it and kick you to the curb. Keep up the great work Miss Faye, we need your wise words.
I am so sorry you went through this. I lost my husband too a few years ago and and tried dating. Awful experiences. AWFUL!! I am 60 now nd am going to keep loving myself and I am so happy being alone now. I get lonely sometimes, but I am loving my last child, teaching and having fun with her, enjoying activities in my church community, my hobbies singing, sewing, writing, painting, (creating) and Netflix are great fillers in my life. I have love, peace and am VERY busy and I feel great!!! . good luck!! God bless you.
@@GloriaAnn-Wisdom Thank you for your kind words and yes after some years of dating off and on and being disappointed over and over I've decided I am happy being on my own and doing what I want and not being stressed about some man and how he is treating me. I've been a lot more relaxed and happy and I have too much to lose getting involved with someone. I have a very nice life and home and I want to keep it that way. Blessings to you and yours too.🙏🥰
I have been independent for decades now. I draw men that want ro get married because they have wasted or ruined thenselves isolated and reduced themselves.some are younger and simply isolated.they woke up and realized they dont have a family life.And see me as an asset. I look younger than I am. I had the family life at my expense. And don't require what they offer . At all.
Good for you! It took me awhile to adjust to being on my own but now I am content and don't want to mess up what I have with a man that wants to use me for what I have. All the best to you.💖@@celesteadeanes4478
Aunt Faye I just walked away from a 2 year relationship he was an emotionally unavailable man he did not make any effort did not want to communicate what ever we put up with we furdilize it got worse I was unhappy and unfulfilled. I to am uneasy about starting over at 59 because you just don't know what you're getting. People wear mask just like this guy did I thought I met the one boy did I find out.please sisters walk away because it won't get any better it will make you sick and you will start to age . I'm now doing better health is better and I'm in the gym looking good.
A lot of "emergencies: suddenly happen when you are out the door or during some argument they can't win. Relatives also "become ill or die"...repeatedly... for sympathy.
People stay in dysfunction and abuse many times just because they respect/glorify the word marriage more than themselves. Teen women need to listen to this.
Oh wow yes God hates divorce but he never told us to worship being in love. He hates divorce but he also expects a man to love, cherish and nurture his wife.. The Lord hates divorce but he does not love men abusing women.. no he hates when his children hurt each other.
"You have to know when to get up from the table when LOVE is no longer being served." (Nina Simone) When your relationship has lost communication, respect, loyalty, and love, it's time to walk away. Life is too short to be with anyone who is not showing you sincere love. Walking away means you have self-respect. "What you ALLOW, is what will continue." Set your boundaries, and don't back down.
You're so spot on Miss Faye about needing to get to know a man. I dated this guy for 4 weeks; he treated me very nice at the beginning. He called consistently and took me out on dates every week and said all the right things. I asked him all the right questions at the very beginning. For example, I asked him how he handled conflict, anger, etc. Of course, he gave the answer from a gentleman-like perspective. When I challenged him in a conversation and we had our first conflict, I saw a dark scary side of him. He raised his voice, tried to minimize or discount my opinion even when it was actually based on facts. I gathered from the conversation that he was argumentative and controlling. That was enough to cause me to not walk away but run away!!!
I love your videos Miss Faye. Be careful with potential women friends too. I met someone on a hiking trail. I liked her. I brought her home because I had a pot of soup cooking on the stove and wanted to share it with her. After that, she called me nonstop for advice, to rescue her with car problems, etc. then my mom died, and she wanted to know everything about my inheritance and I could tell she was going to ask to borrow money. I had to start blocking her and it took months before she stopped calling. She didn’t want sex, just everything else!!
Ms Faye, Love the sound of wind chime! Love the bird’s chit chatting! Love the greenery! Thank you for doing your videos in your beautiful peaceful garden!!!
Especially they waste your time, on the phone for hours, if they don't have a crisis they will start insulting you. Always an energy drain. It's awful. I would rather sit and crochet, watch the birds in my yard, go for a walk, or watch Miss Faye! Love you Miss Faye. I didn't ha e a Mom or older sister...only other confused girlfriends. Thank you.
You are right. I see it now because the more I show love and affection to my husband, the more he show his ass. And he believe I'm gonna take him back. Hell to the naw, naw, Naw! Lol
I’m a Christian and I hope Ms. Faye don’t mind me saying this. But to break it down for the Christians in the audience…if you ask the Lord to deliver you from a situation YOU have to do what is necessary to get out of the situation. The Lord will delivery you but you have to use your free will and make moves and the delivery may not look like you want it, but that’s ok. As long as you accept the situation and refuse to leave you are very well blocking your blessings by not leaving when the Lord tells you to. Trust the Lord that it will get better. Ms. Faye keep the content coming!
I have a question, would if you have been praying for a change in your situation and don't know where the change is going to take place? Alright, I have a few questions. How do you know which dimension you are in? How do you change your reality to look like what you are worth and to what you deserve?
@@missfayesworld303 Ms. Faye, you are our very own "Dear Abby". I love how you share your experiences, and give good sound advice from the heart. I love hearing you read them. We all can learn from one another. This may save someone's life.
This poor nurse! I am the same...get called when they need a good friend....but they will never be a friend who cares about you. Now if a relationship is not a two way street I accept it and I do not fret over my decisions. I politely tell people that I can not extend myself in that way. End of story.
So true. My dad has said you can't change someone they have to want to change for themselves. Dr. Phil says the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
That’s right MissFaye is the best if I had a therapist I’d probably cut them off because her advice is priceless but l will start donating when l get a job💯
Therapists can’t prescribe. They can refer you to a psychiatrist or your own doctor for medication, which is handed out like candy. Medication is cheaper for insurance companies than therapy.
I find that with the medical community, they often get into the Rescuer Mentality with manipulative and destructive partners and family. The Rescuers are almost always told that they are the Only Ones who can care for/cure them, understand and heal them. Some of these narcissists will either fake or purposely harm themselves to get your sympathy and attention when all other tactics fail. It's always your fault; X wouldn't have happened if you hadn't left, stopped providing money, shelter, & the list goes on as far as your imagination can stretch to find excuses. They lay a heavy guilt trip on your conscience to keep you hooked in, when other measures fail. Resist that scam, don't enable and don't look back. We for the most part, have a wonderful healthcare system & supports that can take care of these people. Let the professionals do their job. He/she will get back on their feet if they want to (Tough Love). Don't live your life as a Sucker to these nasty people. ❤
I walked away from my mother and exhusband at the same time! It was the best thing I ever did. There are still a lot of good people out there. You are right. Energy atracts energy and whe you are liberated and empowered, you atract like people. God Bless you all.
You are so smart Miss Faye, Him being upset before you had sex with him is so good. If he runs away when he is angry BIG RED FLAG - he is a bomb ready to explode about nothing and very immature emotionally. I think my Dad was a narcissist and I went along with it. He would say bad things about my Mom to me, he had a short temper and was so selfish. When we went out he talked to other people and did not share experiences with us. He would rather talk to others. He missed out. He was not a good provider. I still love him but he was not a good husband to my Mom. Both have passed away but since I dated a narcissist I have been able to reflect on this.
My eyes are opened, my mind at peace thanks Miss Faye and keep it up,really you have taken most women from dark world to the light one,l believe in myself and l can do all things by myself and understand that there is a purpose for me as a woman, l am not by mistake in this world
The lady from England who talking holiday romance is referring to the country The Gambia. Some of those western women go to The Gambia just to smash it. That’s the opportunity time where some of these Gambia men take advantage for marriage and visa. My advice is go to have a good time and use protection. Do it for yourself. As mama Faye said leave them where they are at. Don’t marry them. Please don’t marry especially in the early phase of the relationship. Some rare cases relationships do work out. Only rare cases. Most of these women are older women. They can get benefits out of you. Let them stay where they are at. They always come with this marriage. Like mama Faye said, “it’s a reason why they want to get married.” Leave those broke men broke!! Some of these men already got several wives.
@@genxx2724 I know what Ms. Faye said. I’m very familiar with that topic. If you read my comments, my advice is to use protection and do it for yourself. Realistically, these women who go to The Gambia and Jamaica have sex with these guys. My coworker told me what she did. That’s what they go. In fact, The Gambia government got so mad at those old British women that they wanted to ban them out of their country. I don’t they could do that. They are aware that these women go over there to have sex with those young men.
How disgusting! 🤮 Protection or not, you’re inviting energies & soul tying yourself to complete strangers. How is that “doing it for yourself”. Where’s the benefit in that sick, disgusting, gross, demonic behavior?
Happiness is an emotion. It comes and goes(one minute you are happy, the next minute, you are not). When in a marriage sometimes we have to pray to the most high.
She went to a fully staffed hospital and was the ONLY one who could get him off the respirator? Blahahaha. Who's the narc in this situation? What a load of crap. She should have pulled the plug while she had the chance.
When I was going through a separation and divorce with my narcissistic ex husband he had a plethora of health concerns and life changing events. He allegedly was t boned by a tractor trailer, another occasion mysteriously temporarily paralyzed, brother committed suicide, got surgery for possible cancer, AND MORE. I didn't respond to him regarding any of it and I felt no sympathy for him personally. Some of that was probably lies but I didn't care to figure it out or not. Nothing that happens to your ex narcissist is your concern. The desperation for your energy is REAL and they never stop. Divorcing him was one of the best decisions I ever made in my life. He remarried his latest victim so he can feed off of her support/energy. God bless her heart.
Peace and Blessings Miss Faye....Love your heartfelt content. I am an Elder. I share several of your past experiences with parental, family members and ex husbands who were clinical narcissists. I am so grateful to connect with your channel. I share your platform with anyone who is open to listen. Praying for you to continue this awesome journey in assisting others to partner in their Awakening.💗💓💞💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Hola from Queretaro. RIP Getting older is a blessing, as long as you are mentally and physically fit. Live a moral life and live a blessed life. Treat everyone, like you want to be treated. Hands are for helping and not hurting or begging. We reap what we sow. Do the right thing. Marriage, shacking, and having babies, or living with anyone can cost your life. Best to live alone and have your place off limits. Heavily block your doors and windows and always have weapons all around to protect yourself. NEVER go to sleep, if evil demons can walk into your bedroom and eliminate you. Always have at least two things to protect yourself in and out of your home. No knives on the kitchen counter or drawers. Hide in your bedroom. Celibacy is the most peaceful and safest life. Obey all of the laws of God and live a long and happy life. Never beg anyone for anything, or scam.
Yesterday was Australia Day here in Australia, it was a very important day for me 8 years ago. My ex partner said: I think we should break up. I looked him square in the eye and said, your right. we broke up that day. Australia day is my liberation day. liberated from tyranny and abuse of all forms.
Letter #1. From 1 empath to another. I would write down his history mail it to him and tell him to keep it in a safe place. You’ve helped him and has now equipped him with what he needs to help himself. If he loses the paper, trashes it or whatever that is not your problem and I would not supply him with anything except let ‘lone ie. Let him alone. You did help him and he chose not to accept it. You have to learn how to protect your energy your soul and your heart. I learned it and do not feel sorry about it.
Empaths are people who love to be loved and needed. They are a reverse of narcisstists. Both types are emotionally unstable and need psychological and spiritual help. One destoys otgers whilstvthe empath destoys herself.
"Set you on the shelf" is actually what it felt like when i was with my ex. Forty years after i left, he was still trying to get info on me from my family.
I left him on the cruise as soon as we got back to Tampa last week. I had enough it was so bad he was pushing me out the room at 6:30 am as I was leaving slamming the door in my face. I got a hotel and changed airlines so I wouldn't have to see his face. After that he called me still drunk yelling demanding to come to my room because he was basically homeless in Tampa. He's lucky I didn't cancel his flight instead I paid 500 for another one. Then I got back home before him his things were already packed in my suitcase from a previous argument before the trip... I took the bags suitcases and dropped them off at his baby mother's house. He called me saying he needs 30 days I refused and told him I had videos of the last night on the cruise where he became crazy and violent. So far so good he is staying away from me . One and a half years but I feel like he was aging me stressing me out and causing me to have bad luck. I seem to choose these type of men so I'm taking a 2/3 year break from dating . I went to Sedona last year the lady told me I'm a healer and this is why I attract broken people. It's deeper than that I need to think higher of myself ! period
God has the power to show you who’s God! When you show me my time isn’t valuable…I will not waste it on you! I deserve much better. And better will come..🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽
You can't change the people around you, but you can change the people around you!
AMEN 🙏
Exactly!🙏
Hear! Hear! Well said!
Exactly
Yes!!!.. when you change.. the people around you will change!!..
Listen to Miss Faye!!! If you stay in these toxic situations you lose time, health , money and so much more!!
Right sis I did never again
@@sheliasmith2884 Hi Shelia this topic should be teached in schools..
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Sometimes u lost ur life
Your youth to. Five years here four years there. Can't get your youth back
Walking away was the best thing I ever did for myself
Me too.
I WISHED THAT I WALKED AWAY I WOULD SAVED MY MOM AND MY FAMILY IF I DIDN'T ACCEPT A FAKE APOLOGY
My mom says, if you want something different, you have to do something different...❤
That was your ex-husband
Kenny Rodgers once said know when to walk away & know when to run ! That’s the best advice
Teddy P. said LET IT GO.
@@acajudi100 yep 👍
Knowing when to leave a relationship when its no longer serve you its the best thing anyone can do for themselves
Yup and avoid wasting more time. ⏰
Yes indeed your right.
Don’t stay.. independence is the key! Not worth staying in a toxic relationship! Thank you Miss Faye! ❤❤
Exactly! And Miss Faye is such a wise woman.
Love this ❤
You are better than any therapist Miss Faye, thank you for the effort you put into these talks. Nothing is more important to me than my peace of mind. After I listen to you I feel stronger and confident that I can take care of myself.
Therapy is a waste of time and money when you aren’t the one with the problem. What we need is knowledge about dysfunctional people so we can protect ourselves. TH-cam is a wonderful conduit for anyone who has this knowledge to share it.
Yes, and some therapists haven't spent time in the dating trenches.
She's a whole lot better than those therapist because she bin there while therapist has book sense. Thanks 👍
@@rubydejesus9119 More like been there with 🍫 man nonsense Not book sense.
Ms Faye is awesome Thanks for your wisdom
Narcissist will use you as long as you allow it. Miss Faye your knowledge and wisdom is much appreciated by me!🌷🌹🙏
My mother used to tell me when I was much younger, never depend on a man to take of you. If anything u take care of urself.
Never make a man, tell u that he doesn't want u more than once.
That advice, never left me.
Avoid toxic soul ties by not engaging in sex with a man who hasn’t married you.
Yes I agree
Toxicity exists in marriage too. Delaying sex until marriage isn’t the cure to toxicity after marriage.
Walk away if it has become a WASTE of time ⏰
Preach
Never argue or threaten. Have a passport and leave. He or she will eliminate you at your job. If pregnant, you will be eliminated and your baby and family. Stay away from house parties and bars. DO not marry, shack or have babies. Tubes tied and vasectomies from birth.
I didn’t had a daughter, but if I had one, I would have sit her down at a early age of 13,to listen to mrs Faye, and then guide her from there, and then answer all her question, ladies talk to your daughter.
And I’d have her listen to RC Blakes, too. Protect her from even getting started on any nonsense.
“The devil you know is better than the devil you don’t know.” Well, we are not forced to be in a relationship at all. It’s not like a boss at work, where we have to have one.
I just watched a video where a man gave his perspective on men and sex. He essentially said the same thing as you have said Miss Faye only he tried to soften the message a bit. He said men like sex and basically that is all they are looking for. They don't need to love you or like you or even think you are attractive. They will do and say what you want to get what they are after. I tried going back into dating a few years after my husband passed away and I thought older men would be different but they were the exact same as the younger men just trying to get what they want and then move on to someone else. For me I am staying single because I am too old to play games and try to find a man who isn't going to use me. I really never understood how men who had no feelings for someone and could have sex with them. Like you said Miss Faye you give away your treasure and they just take it and kick you to the curb. Keep up the great work Miss Faye, we need your wise words.
I am so sorry you went through this. I lost my husband too a few years ago and and tried dating. Awful experiences. AWFUL!! I am 60 now nd am going to keep loving myself and I am so happy being alone now. I get lonely sometimes, but I am loving my last child, teaching and having fun with her, enjoying activities in my church community, my hobbies singing, sewing, writing, painting, (creating) and Netflix are great fillers in my life. I have love, peace and am VERY busy and I feel great!!! . good luck!! God bless you.
@@GloriaAnn-Wisdom Thank you for your kind words and yes after some years of dating off and on and being disappointed over and over I've decided I am happy being on my own and doing what I want and not being stressed about some man and how he is treating me. I've been a lot more relaxed and happy and I have too much to lose getting involved with someone. I have a very nice life and home and I want to keep it that way. Blessings to you and yours too.🙏🥰
I have been independent for decades now. I draw men that want ro get married because they have wasted or ruined thenselves isolated and reduced themselves.some are younger and simply isolated.they woke up and realized they dont have a family life.And see me as an asset. I look younger than I am. I had the family life at my expense. And don't require what they offer . At all.
Good for you! It took me awhile to adjust to being on my own but now I am content and don't want to mess up what I have with a man that wants to use me for what I have. All the best to you.💖@@celesteadeanes4478
When the relationship no longer serve you be it as dating, friendships, workplace it is time to walk
Aunt Faye I just walked away from a 2 year relationship he was an emotionally unavailable man he did not make any effort did not want to communicate what ever we put up with we furdilize it got worse I was unhappy and unfulfilled. I to am uneasy about starting over at 59 because you just don't know what you're getting. People wear mask just like this guy did I thought I met the one boy did I find out.please sisters walk away because it won't get any better it will make you sick and you will start to age . I'm now doing better health is better and I'm in the gym looking good.
Guess the moral of the story is Get a gym membership and date a gym rat.
When Miss Faye said I don't know why you thought that. He's still a demon 😈😂😂😂💀
How do these narcissists juggle women even when they’re gravely ill or recovering from surgery? It must be a demonic force.
A lot of "emergencies: suddenly happen when you are out the door or during some argument they can't win. Relatives also "become ill or die"...repeatedly... for sympathy.
Necessity...they can't handle a crisis alone.
They get you to feel sorry for them. 😢
It was hard for me to walk away from a toxic personal relationship, I had to pray constantly and God gave me the power to walk away.
People stay in dysfunction and abuse many times just because they respect/glorify the word marriage more than themselves. Teen women need to listen to this.
Ah, youi may be right about that!
Oh wow yes God hates divorce but he never told us to worship being in love.
He hates divorce but he also expects a man to love, cherish and nurture his wife..
The Lord hates divorce but he does not love men abusing women.. no he hates when his children hurt each other.
"You have to know when to get up from the table when LOVE is no longer being served." (Nina Simone)
When your relationship has lost communication, respect, loyalty, and love, it's time to walk away. Life is too short to be with anyone who is not showing you sincere love. Walking away means you have self-respect. "What you ALLOW, is what will continue." Set your boundaries, and don't back down.
You're so spot on Miss Faye about needing to get to know a man. I dated this guy for 4 weeks; he treated me very nice at the beginning. He called consistently and took me out on dates every week and said all the right things. I asked him all the right questions at the very beginning. For example, I asked him how he handled conflict, anger, etc. Of course, he gave the answer from a gentleman-like perspective. When I challenged him in a conversation and we had our first conflict, I saw a dark scary side of him. He raised his voice, tried to minimize or discount my opinion even when it was actually based on facts. I gathered from the conversation that he was argumentative and controlling. That was enough to cause me to not walk away but run away!!!
🎉walkn away may be gut wrenching but NEVER let him 😢 c u sweat. Dignity over everything!
Our parents didnt teach us these precious gems that Ms Faye offers free of cost . Thank you Ms Faye saving us heartaches ❤❤
Parents are not necessarily listened to and so not heard
Best way to deal with a toxic man is to block him and delete his information....so you're not tempted to be pulled back into his life
The block button is the best feature on the phone , I’m the queen of it now. Then they call from strange # I block that too. No more access to me.😂
Facts!!! Done and Done!!
I love your videos Miss Faye. Be careful with potential women friends too. I met someone on a hiking trail. I liked her. I brought her home because I had a pot of soup cooking on the stove and wanted to share it with her. After that, she called me nonstop for advice, to rescue her with car problems, etc. then my mom died, and she wanted to know everything about my inheritance and I could tell she was going to ask to borrow money. I had to start blocking her and it took months before she stopped calling. She didn’t want sex, just everything else!!
They are the worst. Psychic vampires.
What about her that attracted you to her?
@@avagordon1597 🍑
Ms Faye,
Love the sound of wind chime!
Love the bird’s chit chatting!
Love the greenery!
Thank you for doing your videos in your beautiful peaceful garden!!!
I'm in a sologamous realtionship and have been happier ever since...🤷.. tap in to my inner peace 🕊️☮️
Sure you did not mean polygamous ?
Its true you stay and it just gets worse and worse, and you get more and more hurt.
Amen sis
Especially they waste your time, on the phone for hours, if they don't have a crisis they will start insulting you. Always an energy drain. It's awful. I would rather sit and crochet, watch the birds in my yard, go for a walk, or watch Miss Faye! Love you Miss Faye. I didn't ha e a Mom or older sister...only other confused girlfriends. Thank you.
I hear u loud & clear. I let go fam & so-call friends. I've dumped little immature men. U have a great calling! GOD Bless u wonderful sister!!!
You are right. I see it now because the more I show love and affection to my husband, the more he show his ass. And he believe I'm gonna take him back. Hell to the naw, naw, Naw! Lol
I’m a Christian and I hope Ms. Faye don’t mind me saying this. But to break it down for the Christians in the audience…if you ask the Lord to deliver you from a situation YOU have to do what is necessary to get out of the situation. The Lord will delivery you but you have to use your free will and make moves and the delivery may not look like you want it, but that’s ok. As long as you accept the situation and refuse to leave you are very well blocking your blessings by not leaving when the Lord tells you to. Trust the Lord that it will get better.
Ms. Faye keep the content coming!
Thank you for making it clearer! I knew this in my mind but to read it from
Someone else has definitely opened my eyes❤
@@JT-cl9np You always talking shyt on here. You need to check yourself
I have a question, would if you have been praying for a change in your situation and don't know where the change is going to take place? Alright, I have a few questions. How do you know which dimension you are in? How do you change your reality to look like what you are worth and to what you deserve?
Agreed, prayer requires action.
Yes the narcissist will always try to come back. But going no contact prevents it. It works!
I love when you're answering letters!!😊
Thank you for listening
@@missfayesworld303 Ms. Faye, you are our very own "Dear Abby". I love how you share your experiences, and give good sound advice from the heart. I love hearing you read them. We all can learn from one another. This may save someone's life.
This poor nurse! I am the same...get called when they need a good friend....but they will never be a friend who cares about you. Now if a relationship is not a two way street I accept it and I do not fret over my decisions. I politely tell people that I can not extend myself in that way. End of story.
The nurse needs to block him and his mother. So she won’t have to hear about his problems.
When you can see Yourself clearly,
You can change Anything ...
I love the term ‘situationship’. Perfect word.
They always have at least 2 on the go at the same time, they can't be on their own.
Even 2 sounds draining and exhausting. I don't know where or when they find the time.
@@wisdomdantecourt8179My ex is one of them and he always had at least 2 on go and he is now 64! They never change.
You best believe they doing the bare minimum ….
So true. My dad has said you can't change someone they have to want to change for themselves. Dr. Phil says the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
I accept and appreciate All your messages Miss Faye💯 I see things so much clearer now the universe definitely led me to your channel👏🏾
❤️luv Miss Faye, your advice is priceless! No therapist can compete with you! They only want to provide a temporary solution, medication !
That’s right MissFaye is the best if I had a therapist I’d probably cut them off because her advice is priceless but l will start donating when l get a job💯
Therapists can’t prescribe. They can refer you to a psychiatrist or your own doctor for medication, which is handed out like candy. Medication is cheaper for insurance companies than therapy.
@@genxx2724 You know what she meant
@@gailjones7044 No she didn't know what she meant. Not everyone can be YOU!
Instead of referring to myself as Empath, as a Christian, I believe it is the Holy Spirit within me.
Sometimes you can feel when you need to bounce
Yep. 😂🤣😂
I wish I could be free and walk away , before I wanted to be married, and now I need to be single again , forever
Boy these narcissist just won't go away. They are horrible to the 10th power!!!!!!!!!!😳😳
I just say NO! NO! NO! I Can't deal with the unreasonable ungreatful minds. A narc is a narc living an entitled life.
I find that with the medical community, they often get into the Rescuer Mentality with manipulative and destructive partners and family. The Rescuers are almost always told that they are the Only Ones who can care for/cure them, understand and heal them. Some of these narcissists will either fake or purposely harm themselves to get your sympathy and attention when all other tactics fail. It's always your fault; X wouldn't have happened if you hadn't left, stopped providing money, shelter, & the list goes on as far as your imagination can stretch to find excuses. They lay a heavy guilt trip on your conscience to keep you hooked in, when other measures fail. Resist that scam, don't enable and don't look back. We for the most part, have a wonderful healthcare system & supports that can take care of these people. Let the professionals do their job. He/she will get back on their feet if they want to (Tough Love). Don't live your life as a Sucker to these nasty people. ❤
@@JT-cl9np Good comeback!
Miss Faye’s ❤love your wisdom ❤
I walked away from my mother and exhusband at the same time! It was the best thing I ever did. There are still a lot of good people out there. You are right. Energy atracts energy and whe you are liberated and empowered, you atract like people.
God Bless you all.
I love your letter sessions. Please continue with them
Thank you. I will
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Miss Faye I almost feel out of my bed when you said fast and furry lawd have mercy
You are so smart Miss Faye, Him being upset before you had sex with him is so good. If he runs away when he is angry BIG RED FLAG - he is a bomb ready to explode about nothing and very immature emotionally. I think my Dad was a narcissist and I went along with it. He would say bad things about my Mom to me, he had a short temper and was so selfish. When we went out he talked to other people and did not share experiences with us. He would rather talk to others. He missed out. He was not a good provider. I still love him but he was not a good husband to my Mom. Both have passed away but since I dated a narcissist I have been able to reflect on this.
Kenny Rogers style. Know when to run!
My eyes are opened, my mind at peace thanks Miss Faye and keep it up,really you have taken most women from dark world to the light one,l believe in myself and l can do all things by myself and understand that there is a purpose for me as a woman, l am not by mistake in this world
The lady from England who talking holiday romance is referring to the country The Gambia. Some of those western women go to The Gambia just to smash it. That’s the opportunity time where some of these Gambia men take advantage for marriage and visa. My advice is go to have a good time and use protection. Do it for yourself. As mama Faye said leave them where they are at. Don’t marry them. Please don’t marry especially in the early phase of the relationship. Some rare cases relationships do work out. Only rare cases. Most of these women are older women. They can get benefits out of you. Let them stay where they are at. They always come with this marriage. Like mama Faye said, “it’s a reason why they want to get married.” Leave those broke men broke!! Some of these men already got several wives.
She specifically said not to sleep with them.
@@genxx2724 I know what Ms. Faye said. I’m very familiar with that topic. If you read my comments, my advice is to use protection and do it for yourself. Realistically, these women who go to The Gambia and Jamaica have sex with these guys. My coworker told me what she did. That’s what they go. In fact, The Gambia government got so mad at those old British women that they wanted to ban them out of their country. I don’t they could do that. They are aware that these women go over there to have sex with those young men.
How disgusting! 🤮 Protection or not, you’re inviting energies & soul tying yourself to complete strangers. How is that “doing it for yourself”. Where’s the benefit in that sick, disgusting, gross, demonic behavior?
@@realestatebykemi Ok Ms. Holier than thy🤣🤣 You probably the main one that sleep around or had multiple partners in your past. 🤣🤣🤣
@Kemi
TAKE it easy, she is an adult and it her choice no need to come here to judge people. Let he who have no sin cast the first stone!.
I did Miss Faye. I walked away and I am much better. Bless the Lord.
Give the gift of the "Walk Away" 🚶🏽♀️🎁
Happiness is an emotion. It comes and goes(one minute you are happy, the next minute, you are not). When in a marriage sometimes we have to pray to the most high.
Pray and use E.I. (Emotional Intelligence). 🧐
Keep up the good work Miss Faye. Right on time and on point.
Hallelujah, anyhow!
Thank you grandma. Too many mother-daughter bonds have been broken 😢 💔
Some of these women are just too stupid, for their own good. They should stay at home, and don't give him your cat.
She went to a fully staffed hospital and was the ONLY one who could get him off the respirator? Blahahaha. Who's the narc in this situation? What a load of crap.
She should have pulled the plug while she had the chance.
You like the best friend and Mama and Big Sister with good advice that I never had before. I appreciate you.😇
When I was going through a separation and divorce with my narcissistic ex husband he had a plethora of health concerns and life changing events. He allegedly was t boned by a tractor trailer, another occasion mysteriously temporarily paralyzed, brother committed suicide, got surgery for possible cancer, AND MORE. I didn't respond to him regarding any of it and I felt no sympathy for him personally. Some of that was probably lies but I didn't care to figure it out or not. Nothing that happens to your ex narcissist is your concern. The desperation for your energy is REAL and they never stop. Divorcing him was one of the best decisions I ever made in my life. He remarried his latest victim so he can feed off of her support/energy. God bless her heart.
Peace and Blessings Miss Faye....Love your heartfelt content. I am an Elder. I share several of your past experiences with parental, family members and ex husbands who were clinical narcissists. I am so grateful to connect with your channel. I share your platform with anyone who is open to listen. Praying for you to continue this awesome journey in assisting others to partner in their Awakening.💗💓💞💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Hola from Queretaro. RIP
Getting older is a blessing, as long as you are mentally and physically fit. Live a moral life and live a blessed life.
Treat everyone, like you want to be treated. Hands are for helping and not hurting or begging. We reap what we sow.
Do the right thing. Marriage, shacking, and having babies, or living with anyone can cost your life. Best to live alone and have your place off limits. Heavily block your doors and windows and always have weapons all around to protect yourself. NEVER go to sleep, if evil demons can walk into your bedroom and eliminate you. Always have at least two things to protect yourself in and out of your home. No knives on the kitchen counter or drawers. Hide in your bedroom.
Celibacy is the most peaceful and safest life. Obey all of the laws of God and live a long and happy life. Never beg anyone for anything, or scam.
You are soo true for 20 years I finally got rid off the narcissist but he come back every 3 months just to say hello lol
Yesterday was Australia Day here in Australia, it was a very important day for me 8 years ago. My ex partner said: I think we should break up. I looked him square in the eye and said, your right. we broke up that day. Australia day is my liberation day. liberated from tyranny and abuse of all forms.
You are speaking FACTS Miss Faye. Love your spirit, your beauty inside and out❤❤❤
Letter #1. From 1 empath to another. I would write down his history mail it to him and tell him to keep it in a safe place. You’ve helped him and has now equipped him with what he needs to help himself. If he loses the paper, trashes it or whatever that is not your problem and I would not supply him with anything except let ‘lone ie. Let him alone. You did help him and he chose not to accept it. You have to learn how to protect your energy your soul and your heart. I learned it and do not feel sorry about it.
This was gold. Thank you. 😊
Thank you for this I been walk away I'm single almost a year now
Our last conversation was a eye opener... he doesnt care about me whatsoever. Calling me a name not gentle w me at all.. its disgusting
You’re the best! Thank you!
Preach Ms Faye!
You are soo true. God bless you always. Fays
Don't do nothing for them period
Very, very wise woman-she’s been there done that!! Take her advice, you won’t regret any of it!
I love the advice you give! You are helping so many and it's beautiful. 💖💕💖💕💖💕💖💕
Wow…Miss Faye I wish I would have met you before starting this journey I’m on. I wouldn’t be dealing with what I’m dealing with now.
Never forget the parable about the snake. “Take me in oh tender woman cried the freezing snake”.
Thanks very much I really need this advice. This is what am going through. I need to Walk way. Am living first thing tomorrow morning. I am done
Empaths are people who love to be loved and needed. They are a reverse of narcisstists. Both types are emotionally unstable and need psychological and spiritual help. One destoys otgers whilstvthe empath destoys herself.
"Set you on the shelf" is actually what it felt like when i was with my ex. Forty years after i left, he was still trying to get info on me from my family.
Amen, Ms. Faye! You speak wisdom from your heart and mind. Thanks for assistance with leading our generation. May the good Lord continue to cover you.
Thank you Miss Faye. You are a wise and caring person.❤
Yes Ms Faye it surely helped!! More than you knw. Thank you for your wisdom!!!!!!..❤
Thank you so much for giving your wisdom.
Wow these men are HYPERGAMOUS, the vacay Romeos take it to the max
God will protect you if you believe in him and not make hasty moves
I left him on the cruise as soon as we got back to Tampa last week. I had enough it was so bad he was pushing me out the room at 6:30 am as I was leaving slamming the door in my face. I got a hotel and changed airlines so I wouldn't have to see his face. After that he called me still drunk yelling demanding to come to my room because he was basically homeless in Tampa. He's lucky I didn't cancel his flight instead I paid 500 for another one. Then I got back home before him his things were already packed in my suitcase from a previous argument before the trip... I took the bags suitcases and dropped them off at his baby mother's house. He called me saying he needs 30 days I refused and told him I had videos of the last night on the cruise where he became crazy and violent. So far so good he is staying away from me . One and a half years but I feel like he was aging me stressing me out and causing me to have bad luck. I seem to choose these type of men so I'm taking a 2/3 year break from dating . I went to Sedona last year the lady told me I'm a healer and this is why I attract broken people. It's deeper than that I need to think higher of myself ! period
Thank You for this message❤️!! Time for some changes💫💫
Holiday just means VACATION!!
Great advice Miss Faye :)))
😂🤣🤣😂😂but leave him where you found him😂😂🤣🤣🤣I’m laid out
Right, don’t bring home stray animals!
Thanks to the Universe for leading me to your channel. I'm so grateful. Thank you mama Faye ❤🙏🙏🙏🙏 may God keep you strong and healthy.
Yes can feel the pull 💯
Good advice, Ms. Faye for us ladies, I do appreciate ur wisdom and knowledge. Keep the videos coming.
God has the power to show you who’s God! When you show me my time isn’t valuable…I will not waste it on you! I deserve much better. And better will come..🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽