Mora, you have captured my passion for Mexico, and homesickness for Patzcuaro so well. After 30 years I still feel more homesick for Mexico than I ever do for New Zealand. Two elderly dogs and two arthritic hips are keeping me here, but when that is resolved I will be heading to Mexico, and frankly I will be happy to end my life there . All the best.
Thank you, Mora, for yet another beautifully crafted presentation. The topic and your experiences were thought provoking as well. I moved to MX 10/2023. I have never felt homesick. Instead, I experience anxiety at the thought of having to return to the US. This became apparent while selling my home in Georgia. Fortunately, with a power of attorney, my friend signed documents for me. I really relate to your story, it is very similar to mine. I have greater peace than ever before... and stepping out of the angst and stress back home has improved my life entirely. México may not be for everyone. However, for me, I feel like I have found my people. 🇲🇽 Gracias México 🇲🇽
Agreed! Interesting about feeling the anxiety on returning to the U.S. I've heard someone else say that too. Not to mention the draining of the finances so fast there!
Most "move to mexico" vids avoid the sick/starving dog issue, so thanks for including that "con." There just isn't enough money in some cases, or the dogs are simply strays, in others. Either way, the dogs fall through the cracks. My wife and I always dump $$ on the local animal shelters when we visit mexico (there are sometimes little boxes in the city square for that purpose - for sure in Zihua). In a couple of cases, we simply took dogs to the vet ourselves to get them sorted out. That skinny one looks like it's packing an intestine full of round/hook/whip/tapeworms (from eating garbage) that could be cleaned out with some cheap de-wormer, should be easy, then it can absorb the nutrients you're feeding it. Until then, though, it's going to be a losing battle.
Completely agree. If you can take them to a vet to get de-wormed, teeth checked, and spayed/neutered, you will have done them a great service. I am sure that your viewers would fund your efforts. I will chip in if you do it. Also, aren't there shelters in expat areas that could help because clearly no one will help them when you leave, especially if they start breeding.
You did the right thing by feeding those dogs. I live in Costa Rica and there are so many homeless animals in the streets and it’s really hard to watch. I’ve helped a few animal organizations by being a foster family for some dogs and cats for just a short time and even for a long time because no one else wanted them. Obviously some of them have become mine because we couldn’t find homes. We do what we can, even if we just give them food for one day. We can’t save them all. It’s hard.
Aloha Mora❣️ I was raised in Mexico (6 months old -10y) and other countries. My Mom was an opera/classical singer. I returned with my children in '85-'88 (Rosarito, Baja and Acapulco). I will never stop missing it and loving it. The USA has been very difficult for me bcz, it's got a lot of violence, anger, judgment, racism and hatred. It feels like immense emotional pressure/stress all the time. I feel such relief when I go to another country, where that energy is not present. Living in Hawaii is the easiest as far as those issues go. The people have Sweetness here... I want very much to move back to live in Mexico. I Love the warmth, kindness, the easy laughter and culture of the beautiful Mexican People❣️❣️❣️ I hope that as you are there a for longer time and your Spanish improves, that your world will blossom into more joy, peace and happiness and that you will build beautiful new relationships and friendships. I really enjoy the calm of your videos. You have the right to your point of view, in every arena of your life, so keep on sharing from your gentle heart! Wishing you the best that life has to offer❣️❣️❣️ Blessings on your Journey🙏❣️
Thank you for feeding them, unfortunately there are tons of abandoned dogs here; i'm mexican and I don't get used to it. I have 2 rescued and I always try to help stray dogs but is a very complex problem. Don't worry, no one will mind if you feed them. Get well soon.
Mora, I was born and raised in Los Angeles Ca., and I can totally relate to the stress’s in living in a big city. My adult daughter and I relocated to San Antonio Texas. We came on a vacation 5 years ago. Never planning on staying. But we did. We both agree that we found our life to be extremely peaceful and the pace a lot slower and most importantly affordable. I found the people here to be so friendly for the most part. I truly love it here. Thank you for another beautiful video Mora. I’m looking forward to your next one. 💕
Mora, THANK YOU FOR FEEDING THOSE PUPS!!❤❤ I haven't spent much time in rural México. Just Monterey, Tampico, Vera Cruz and Yucatán (Merida and Progreso). Through your marvelous videos, I travel vicariously through México. HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!
Good morning Mora, I pray you are doing better and the allergies are gone. In about minute 6. Or 7 of this video. You talked about feeling nostalgic about your home country, the language and the surroundings you were used to. I can concur with you to a degree. You see I been living in Barcelona for the last two years, and after walking around several countries around Europe and plenty of cities on each of the countries here. It hit me hard to know that, as a Mexican I do miss my culture, food, aromas and ambiance of Mexico. So, I do understand what you going thru. To me personally, I came to the conclusion to return to my home country in 2025. Keep on traveling around and let your heart tell you, where is the place that brings peace to it. This is my wish for you: Comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, Love to complete your life.” Ralph Waldo Emerson Regards
Wonderful quote, thank you! I love Barcelona but no doubt I would feel a twinge of homesickness even there. I think it's just natural when you're separated from your home country long term. I'm glad you get to come home to Mexico!
Oh Mora, whar a loevly video! I hope you are feeling better. As a now single woman with a sweet GSD, planning a move to Mexico, I am inspired by your journey! Thank you for sharing!
Where I live in the USA, a southern city of 500K, there is a proposed project to build a pedestrian/bicycle suspension bridge over a busy expressway, thereby connecting two parts of town. The reaction in social media has been scathingly negative and completely cynical, which sadly I find to be all too typical. Those who fashion themselves as 'patriots' seem to actually like very little about this great country. My experience after several trips to Mexico is that the people, in general, are not cynical and in fact are quite the opposite. The Mexican people seem proud and optimistic, and believe that strong communities make all things possible. As Mora Margaret points out, their public life is enviable. When people ask what it is that attracts me to Mexico, my response is "I just love being there". I don't know how to explain it other than that.
I think you summed it up very well. We are all so tired of cynicism in our everyday lives. I love the U.S. so much and I think it's the greatest country for so many reasons, but it's having a hard time right now.
Thanks for sharing the good and the bad. That's so important. When I travel, it's delightful to leave behind hair-trigger tempers in America. Some friends back home respond to my travel missives saying my world has shrunk down very small, to just the essentials. There's nothing wrong with that. Focusing on basics let me see and appreciate the joys of every day. Glad you are happy to be back. Who cared for your pups while you traveled? I bet you missed them like crazy!
Mora, We have lived in Mexico over 2 years, my husband and I love it here for many reasons. But unfortunately we have come to miss our home up north. I speak Spanish fluently and it still doesn't help me feel any better about the poverty, street dogs and the lack of compassion by Mexicans for their own, I realize that they probably have learned to be numb about the things they can't change. My husband , I and our sweet dog all got ill in July and felt so alone. I really needed a good friend and or family member to help me feel safe. We are in the process of returning next year. I have taken classes and volunteered with food kitchens, but my heart cannot take it any longer. I will return to Mexico in the future to visit the friends I have made here, but Mexico is not as inexpensive as it once was. We also traveled across the country and seeing great places. Being honest with myself I just miss my kids and family, and friends.
I am not Mexican, but I find it interesting when you said " the lack of compassion by Mexicans for their own", so what do you said about the millions of homeless in the US, or US veterans. Do you think Americans have lost compassion for the unhoused, and veterans?
Ya, I remember being in mexico, There was an american woman who was a bit crazy/ mentally deranged... A local man in town asked me, as an american, How I could do nothing to get this woman help & call her family & return her to the states. I realized then, that americans feel little commaarodery towards eachother.....we are raised to be individuals who are responsible for oneself. Mexico is more community based... there is very little numbers of street/homeless people....because families do care of their people. Also people within a community hold eachother more accountable for their social behavior. Of course everything exist, & there is more than 1 truth.
Fellow Oregonian, dog lover, and fruit fanatic here! I’m looking to relocate to Mexico after getting my TEFL certification in Guadalajara next May. I did a scouting trip to the East Cape of BCS in April and I 100% know what you mean by that intangible lack of “tension”. I remember driving around thinking, “Where is all the aggression? Divisive politics? Distrust of strangers and neighbors?” Didn’t realize how oppressively it weighed on me and dictated my life until it was absent. Appreciate your candor, and hope the allergies are better!
“Where is all the aggression? Divisive politics? Distrust of strangers and neighbors?” Exactly! It's not like that here. Sounds like you have a good plan for moving and I wish you the best!
What an uplifting honest video you’ve made! That you filmed in the midst of a bout of allergies is almost like an affirmation of being forthright and open about your feelings. I thought you would mention being homesick; that’s perhaps the most common feeling of travelers at one time or another. But I think you are very perceptive to recognize the way that living in Mexico has caused you to have a wider, new perspective on the world. That’s the sort of thing that you’re not likely to anticipate beforehand, but then it stays with you long after the trip is over. It’s also the very thing that so many people would benefit from, yet it goes missing in our busy, busy lives. You’ve done a great job on this one; I hope you bounce back from the allergies quickly.
Thank you Mora. You are such an honest person. And, beautiful too. I always look forward to your videos. Your view from your place on the lake is amazing. Take care of those allergies.
I wish I will find a place like your next to you . Not bothering you but having someone else around each other will give a sense of not feeling completely lonely .
Thanks for your sincere honesty and I do hope your doing better with your allergies. The footage of you romping around with your dogs is adorable. I look forward to sharing that contagious happiness when I move there.
I hope today your allergies aren’t bothering you too much, Mora. It must be a drag to deal with that. I think you are lucky to have México, and México is lucky to have you … you add to the culture by simply living here and basking in the warmth of your Mexican brethren. Greetings from Jody here in lovely Querétaro. ❤
Mora, today at the supermarket I felt a lot of happiness. I kept looking with admiration at many of the Mexican folks (granted, I tried not to look like a weird-o while I observed them). There is so much beauty in Mexico … in its people, architecture, and landscapes. I could have been anywhere besides a supermarket … I’d have felt the same thing. One’s attitudinal approach maters a lot. ❤️
Mora, I love your perspective of life and how you seem to have come to know... yourself. It's life-changing, or maybe it is life-creating. Thanks for your perspective; we have a commonality.
Oh man, those puppies broke my heart, bless you for feeding them! I'm so glad that you are pushing on, despite your feelings of isolation. I may be in Mexico alone for a while so any tips to avoid the isolation would be appreciated. Though I won't have a vehicle there so will have to reside near mercados, etc, which will at least give the sounds of people around me. I love your joy and gratitude. You absolutely need to include the bad with the good, we need to see both sides of Mexico and what it's like to live there. Mexico is not just a place filled with all-inclusive resorts, so I thank you for sharing reality.
Hi Mora ! I really enjoy and look forward to watch your videos . I’m coming to Mazetlan and love to travel other parts as well .I love the place you are staying
Thank you for feeding those babies. That string around the little skinny dog's neck looks way too tight. You talked about the thing that is my biggest con too. I want to live in MX but the street dogs always break my heart.
Hi Mora. Just wanted to say, I’m enjoying your videos about life in Mexico. I admire your sense of adventure. Especially, staying in more rural areas and driving alone with your dogs. In the last two years I’ve made six trips down including CDMX, Merida and Ajijic. The Lake Chapala area seems to be my happy place and I hope to be there permanently in 2025. I appreciate your videos have touched on issues of social isolation in a new culture, how gentrification affects the local Mexican population and even the homeless animal issues. I’m hoping all the work and research will lead me to a more happy, fulfilling and peaceful life south of the border. P.S. also a nurse…35 years hospital based RN but the drive and passion have long gone. Chad from Florida.
Gracias Chad! I hope you have a wonderful time at Lake Chapala! I don't know how we did the hospital for 10 years, let alone 35. It takes a while to rest after all that, but then you feel like a new person!
I hope your allergies give you a break soon. I am a sufferer too, so I know what a drag it can be. This was a fair video, I think. So sad about the animals, but here in Canada I know some of this also happens, but is also invisible. It is so wonderful to see people sitting on benches everywhere, to see people more relaxed. I grew up on a Caribbean island where we had that slow pace of life and I could live on my tiny paycheque because there wasn't so much to spend it on. When I moved north I certainly got caught up in the fast pace, but moving to the country and retiring also made life much simpler and easier. I'm heading on a trip to see some old friends and feel like I don't have the right clothing to "measure up" - lol! - what a relief that in my normal life I don't feel I have to "measure up." Enjoy life!
Thank you for sharing life and thoughts with us. So,real and open it’s relaxing. I will be visiting central highlands of Mexico in a week and so look forward to it.
Hi Mora. I’m a hospice nurse and I’m ready to follow in your shoes. Thank you so much for all that you share. I feel like you are my soul sister because I feel all the same things and it’s unexplainable. You take away my fear. Please feel better soon!❤
I love your channel. I live in a southern state…I don’t feel the tension/ stress/pressures. I’m retired healthcare worker. I’m now a nanny part time. I need to work because it keeps me moving and not isolated. I feel needed and valued. Traveled in my youth and am happy I did as it wasn’t as complicated, dangerous or crowded. I’m happy you broke free and are feeling healthy. If you ever consider moving back, explore places in the south.
I appreciate the suggestion, it sounds lovely! I'm glad you don't feel the tension. Maybe it intensifies based on location. I'm glad you are getting what you need from work. The family is lucky to have you!
@ I’m older than you… much older. I’m almost 67. I live in Austin by the lake. I watch your channel because of the travel…I traveled all over Europe and Mexico. Not into Asia…the only thing I want to do is go to Peru… take the train. Eastern Europe like Poland. But that’s about it. But never in my wildest dreams would I drive my car into Mexico. I’m a Texas girl.. born and raised…so you and your two dogs just travel around in Mexico? I’m just checking. I’d never do it myself…train or airplane for sure… let’s keep TH-cam real. Agree?
I don’t believe you is the truth. There are big thing missing… join the vanlife ladies and stop the dancing around with my dogs. Nobody buys it.. join the Vanlife ladies. Mexico is over.
Great video Mora. (Hope those allergic reactions fade soon!) I shared your TY channelbon Facebook. My husband and I enjoy your videos and bring them up often in conversation with others when talking about the culture and diversity of Mexico. (It isn't all touristy beach towns! 😉)
We are conditioned in the USA to have goals, to make something of ourselves and stand out. In doing so we become stressed in disconnecting from who we are and what we really need. I have been to Mexico. My father was from Ireland and my mother was from Poland and I have visited both countries. Mexico reminds me of rural Ireland and the honesty and simplicity of the old people and in fact Mexico and Ireland share many cultural values. Keep up the great work!
Thank you for sharing, I enjoy your videos, especially to see how you manage with the two larger dogs. I have 4 Cane Corso (Italian Mastiffs) and Pitbull. I'm considering retiring in Mexico and would be looking for a place like the one you are living in now, with the large yard. Please continue doing these videos so we can see beautiful Mexico from your lens and point of view. Also, thank you for feeding the pups. I wonder if a dewormer may help her to gain some weight, too.
I Thank Goddess for You that You would be so kind, caring, and loving enough to feed the animals in need. I pray You stay Blessed, Happy, and Healthy Always 💯🙏🌹
I went through the same thing and even after 2 1/2 yrs living here I get home sick sometimes but I rather be here then back in the USA you be fine just give it some time and you’ll be fine 😊
I love everything about Mexico and its people from travel their over 30 years. But the dog situation is so hard for me. Makes me wish I could become a veterinarian and makea dent with fixing stray pups. Too late for me. I just hate seeing the suffering of these wonderful creatures. 😢
I'm glad that you are very honest about the cons of living in Mexico. I feel the same, living here in California. I'm tired of feeding the homeless and see around me that nobody cares. Is very discouraged to see how people care just for themselves.😢I'm going back to Mexico in the next month.
I am currently trialing a life in Todos Santos and I am still connected to people at home in England. My mental health only gets affected when handling people at 'home'. As you said always worried you have upset people or they are want to trip you up etc. Being here while connected to England really highlights the issues at home.
Love your videos - the straightforward way you think. I think it would be wonderful if you took us to your market, how you get there, how you shop, not omitting any difficulties.
Mora thank you for sharing your life. I have been watching videos on Mexico, Portugal, Italy and Canada for at least 2 years now. 6 months ago I started to downsize my things, sold my camper, my hot tub and numerous other items that I realized don’t make me happy. I too am a nurse of 27 yrs and only 7 years away from retirement. I feared the election would finally make me move if it meant radical change and that seems to be what’s next for America. I keep circling back to Mexico as the country I could possibly just finally retire, sell my home and have a piece of mind. I can’t tell you enough how much I admire your courage and adventure. 20 yrs ago I had done traveling nurse for 5 yrs with my cat and went across the country and you remind me of that time when I explored everywhere. But eventually I settled and bought a house in the SF Bay Area and it’s been good for 12 years here but I’m just tired of being a nurse too. I still care about people but the constraints of the demands of the job and the micromanaging is difficult. I keep my suv to tow if I leave but I am just a little nervous and yes I do get annoyed when people always say oh Mexico is dangerous when they don’t even know or ever visited. The vast amount of research I’ve done says it can be safe if you know what your doing and know where not to go. It would be the same here in the United States and I know the very dangerous places and I just don’t go there. My one biggest barrier is my two cats and I want to adopt a dog but I’ve heard of the large amounts of strays in Mexico so I figured I’d rather wait until I found a place I loved and then welcome a dog into my new life. I wonder if you might start a side business of phone consults for people like me who have questions? I noticed some do this but I’m looking for someone to answer my questions such as driving to Mexico with two cats. Anyway, sorry for such a long message. I am prepared to fly to Mexico soon in December or January but have not decided yet where but hoping it’s a place I could see myself moving to and I’m searching for that spot. BTW, just love your dogs❤ . Last, I think you’re doing all the right things to get acclimated to a new country and making good decisions for what’s best for you.
I am so glad you are on this journey. It can be daunting but it sounds like you are doing all the right things. I haven't started consulting but if you want to talk more you can be my first client for free! Get a hold of me by email: Mora@MoraMargaret.com What part of the Bay Area are you living in? Bringing animals to Mexico was very easy by car.
Mora, thank you for another awesome video and for sharing the lows and highs of living in Mexico. Your lakeside views are spectacular, thank you for feeding the pups. I look forward to another video. Stay safe and Happy Thanksgiving. ❤
Great video and first time listening to your channel. I am 73, moved to a very small town but as I have grown older, you change and lose contact with friends etc. My sisters older than me have their own lives. Having said that I feel isolated in my small town here in the USA so the same as "relocation isolation". The healthcare also is really bad. I lived in Spain for a brief period and loved it.(long ago) Now I have an elderly cat but expect to travel, move by car with her to Mexico within 2025. I am hoping to better the quality of my life, live without "stuff" and feel I am alway struggling to make ends meet. I want to have parks and outdoor cafes, perhaps meet other expats or people my age. There is too much drama now in the US and ongoing issues like healthcare, gun violence, mass shootings and nasty politics. It is exhausting living here. Thank you for sharing and yes, seeing those dogs broke my heart. BUT I moved here as I said to a small town and now feeding 4 strays, - cats, and have spent my own money neutering/spaying, vaccinating, rabies etc to help. There were 6 but feel someone killed two of them. My neighbor reported me to animal control for feeding them which is against the law here. Like you, can't watch them search for food. Hopefully my neighbors will continue with their care when I move to Mexico. Your cons ironically exist right here in small town USA.
Thanks for the real life lows and highs my dad is a subscriber and sent me this video .He is planning on movie to Mexico to retire in a few years ..He is working with Mexico Relocation Guide Services. I really enjoyed ur honesty especially about the dogs I've seen that first hand in many places I've visited in the US and Mexico it just girls truly heart breaking . Hope u continue with ur videos and ur allergies get better..I'm now also a subscriber.Much love and positive vibes ur way .😊
Beautiful and honest video, thank you! I am fully fluent in Spanish and still sometimes feel the longing to be with “my” people. I was surprised you didn’t mention the consumerism of the US, “Buy Buy Buy!”, as that’s what hits me the most when I visit after 2.5 years living in Mexico. Another enormous downside to Mexico for me is the massive littering and contamination of water sources. Really hard to live with that!☹️ I find your videos very enjoyable and real, honest. Very happy for you! Keep up the Spanish learning, it will come…❤️🇲🇽❤️🇲🇽❤️
Muchas gracias! Good point about the consumerism, you are so right! And the water pollution too. But the last time I was in a big city in the States was Portland, when I went to the Mexican embassy for residency visa, and it was really gross. It far surpassed the visible contamination I've found anywhere in Mexico so far. Thanks for the language encouragement!
I appreciate your honest opinion of living in Mexico. The poor dogs, the starving puppy with that tight kind of collar around it's neck is heartbreaking, no animal should suffer. Couldn't someone remove it in case it is restricting it's eating? I saw a video with dogs for adoption in Puerto Vallarta where American Tourist even adopted and take them home with them to the US. Maybe there is a rescue group who can help this sweet puppy. I'm glad you found a place of peace and comfort where you are, I totally get the going to work reluctantly every day dilemma. There just seems to be more to life than work and paying bills, lucky that you discovered a way. Thanks again for sharing your adventures in both a positive and not so positive way. It's nice for those of us not so able to escape how the US has become to be able to see how other regions are.
Mora I enjoy your videos thanks for sharing your experience! I’ve traveled a lot in Mexico but haven’t lived there yet. Another low for me would be the culture of police corruption but definitely so many highs. Your spot with a lake view looks so wonderful and you have your sweet dogs to keep you company.
I'm very lucky with my two canine companions and my rental! I've heard a lot about corruption and I agree, it's a real low. I didn't mention it because I've had no first hand experience with it, thankfully.
Mora, a couple years ago I retired because I was feeling exactly like you did. I am now planning our move to Mexico, but I’m worried about going back and forth with our dog. When you flew to the US to visit your son, what did you do with your dogs? Can you board them in Mexico? My husband is from Mexico and on many trips to visit my in-laws I saw how dogs were neglected and assumed boarding would not be an option there. If you fly with them, how does that work? As a woman, I am so proud of your courage and independence. The US has become an angry, inhospitable place for so many of us. Thank you for sharing your adventure. ❤
Gracias Crone! When I left town I did the same thing I did in the States: hire a house/dog sitter to come to my house and stay with the two perros. These two are so big and spoiled! So that's always worked for me. I don't know if there are boarding options, probably there are! Bringing the dogs into Mexico by car was a breeze. Taking them back to the States might be a little more complicated (they've changed the rules recently) but I think it's doable. Flying with animals makes it more complicated too, depending on the airline and their rules, the size of your animal and the time of year etc.. Thank you for the encouragement!
Fortunately there are outposts in the US that are easy to live in. Thankfully I happen to live in one of them. If you happened to see the movie "Ground Hog Day", that's actually my small town. We really do sit on the benches or on a blanket on the lawn in the lovely city square on a summer evening and listen to the city band in the bandstand while eating ice cream served by the lady's auxiliary in the Spring House. 😁 That said, I am hiding out here as a lot of the culture and society in the US is getting surly and down right mean. Outside of my rural county I am not terribly comfortable. I often dream of moving to a quieter country but need to stay close to high level medical care. I envy you your little slice of heaven. Mine is smaller but I think both serve their purpose admirably. Thanks for that wonderful video. Enjoy your new life. You are truly blessed. Give the doggies a hug for me.
I've traveled a lot of the world and the animal abuse is among the top of the list of hardest things to witness and accept. I keep saying that I think my next chapter involves an off-grid animal sanctuary (mostly dogs), maybe in Mexico (live in CA now). I appreciate your travels and sharing your experiences. Look forward to seeing where you land. And...if you're ever up for a caravan trip (me and my dog), perhaps we could meet for a coffee to see if we'd make good travel buddies. It's a bit rare to find like-minded travelers with dogs in our age range.
Your tension comments hit home. I try to ignore the triggers here in Florida but not successful. May prove to be unwise, but am exploring getting German citizenship which, if it happens, opens up all of EU. i was born there a long time ago. But Mexico is still high on my list, partly because I want to live a low key live well within my means. And the people seem so nice. Thank you for your insights.
Hi Mora... another exquisite video. As another commenter asked...who took care of your pups while you were in States? By the way... May I suggest honey to help with your allergies? Especially local raw honey. Also, a teeny bit on your clean finger then touch your eyeball. Yes, there is an initial "sting" but oh my your eyes will feel so soothed afterwards!! I honestly don't think one can overdue it cuz it's such a little dab and quite healing. Best to each of you
Most people in the United States don’t even realize the hum of the tension that is in their environment until they move or spend some time abroad, and they realize that hum of the tension isn’t there. I know what you mean, but I don’t think everybody who lives in the United States knows what you mean unless they have spent some time outside the country.
Also there are so many “rules” in the United States such as how women over 50 should dress, or what time of year it’s appropriate to wear white or when you are supposed to decorate for Christmas…it’s exhausting.
This was a wonderful video. I admire that you are doing this with just yourself and your two dogs. The starving puppies caused me to get very anxious. I noticed quite a few expats try to help dogs and find them homes or work with rescues. I wonder if you could worm those puppies to help them gain weight. They look so sweet. 😢 Thanks for feeding them. ♥️
Great video, great points. Every place has plus and minuses, and it's up to the individual to weigh the good against the not-so-good and make an informed decision. Mexico isn't a good fit for everyone, and the best way to find out is to experience it first hand. My wife and I don't know if Mexico will be a great retirement home-base for us, but after a few months, perhaps a year traveling through Mexico, we'll know. If we stay, great; if I we feel it's great for vacationing but not residency, no problem. In that case we had a 1-year vacation on a budget and can move back to the United States of America. It's also not a problem that we'll be selling our overpriced California starter home. No matter where we end up, it won't be in California with $10,000 annual property tax and (soon) $6-per-gallon gasoline.
It's crazy! The prices in Ca. I think you have a perfect point of view before you get to Mexico! It's not for everyone and that's fine. There are other countries to consider. First hand experience can't be beat!
I have been just binging your vids!!! Lolololololol going to Los algodones in a week for dental. I want to travel in Mexico too!!!! I don’t want to live permanently there because I have 3 kids here in Indiana/Ky. And 4 grandchildren. I can’t live without them. However, I can travel awhile. 😅 I also was a nurse for many years. I was so unhappy. The stress. The bureaucracy is maddening!!!! Happy trails and much love!!!!!!❤
Regarding the street dogs... In mexico, the peps do not sterilize animals the same as in the north..... They do not sterilize the humans either....as is done in the north. In mexico, One can notice that there are very few homeless peps & yet a high number of street dogs... Whereas in the state, there is a high number of street people & a low number of street dogs. Every culture has their priorities.
Sorry about those allergies, I have just enough of them too; so I know what it is like! That white horse running around would be interesting to know where it was going! I wouldn’t mind having a horse and maybe a little farm like where I grew up; like spending my last part of life living like when I was a kid. Well, keep safe and keep making videos! ❤
Well said words. Couldn’t agree more with you. I also love Morelia and Pátzcuaro etc. But I always forget to ask are you driving with your Oregon plates on your car?
@ Thks for quick response. Always thought that was the almost impossible thing to do and easier just to buy a car in Mexico. But then how does one get all their belongings there without driving there. I would love to drive there so I can load up a lot of tools and etc. I’ll think about it. Lot of paperwork for that and a time frame??
The temporary import permit for the car was not bad and it lasts as long as my temp residency visa lasts. I brought as much stuff as I could carry in the car and was not searched. If you get a temp residency visa I understand you could bring all your household stuff and not be taxed, but I haven't tried that.
😢 I so feel you, I traveled and lived in different countries. Animals and the different culture around the care of street animals is difficult. Try and participate in spay and neuter programs. Or take them to get fixed. See if there are like-minded people around. Is very difficult to get them used to food and you as a person and nobody takes "over the job" when you leave. I really enjoy your Videos.
I so agree with you. I find the most difficult thing about living in Mexico is the poor treatment of animals. The best you could do for the female dog before you ever leave, is to get her sterilized. I love your videos. I know you didn't love Ajijic, but we've decided to leave the coast and try that area out. Lots of nice hiking in Patzcauro and it seems also in the Lake Chapala area. Thanks for such great videos of your travels
I can't go to Mexico because I would be adopting too many animals. I hate seeing them suffer. I visited one day and found the people constantly coming up to me to sell something, was quite annoying. Of course, I was in a border town, so maybe that's why.
I appreciate your videos. The street dogs are heart breaking. Maybe if you feel comfortable enough, when you leave, to find a person sympathetic to the dogs and leave some food with them for the dogs. Vigo and Olive are such great companions. On another subject, would you say on average, if you stay in one location long term, that your cost of living in Mexico to be about $2,000 a month all inclusive?
It's less, about half of that, but I didn't include personal medical insurance and the cost of keeping a car. Please see my video on living in Mexico for less than $1K per month: th-cam.com/video/OA_cRqX3Uus/w-d-xo.html
As I've said, I get so excited when I see a notification from you. What a lovely video and what a beautiful outlook on life. I connect completely, and my move to New Mexico did that for me. The Mexican cultural is gentle, giving and uplifting. That area in Mexico where you are now is like a slice of heaven. The view on that patio is outstanding, what peace of mind you must get and what a way to start a day and end a day. Music,food, flowers and butterflies 🦋 plus two forever furry friends🐕🐕, what else would you want. Thank you Mora, Peace in your heart. Joy in Mexico 🇲🇽 See you down the road ✨️🤝
Gracias Joan! You summed it all up very well. Sometimes I feel myself pushing to go out traveling again and I remind myself that there is no hurry! This place is so nice! Thanks for commenting :)
Can the strings around their necks be removed, so they dont get embedded? And have you had the 3 shot rabies pre-exposure prophylaxis series? I am rooting for you!! If you need an amiga, I'm there! I have a dog and a cat, and want to drive to México, get Away from the horrible political devisevness in the USA. 2025 is Not going to be 'great'.
Only one pup has the string and I test it every time I see her. It's not too tight and I get the feeling someone else is loosening it as she grows, or I would cut it off myself. That's a good question about rabies prophylaxis, I didn't even think of it. I guess I should.
Nice video. Where you’re at is not surrounded by tourists. Also , not in an foreigner resident enclave overrun by foreigners? In other words, many foreign residents prefer not to live near other foreigners. They say they didn’t move to Mexico to live by so many foreigners.
Mora, you have captured my passion for Mexico, and homesickness for Patzcuaro so well. After 30 years I still feel more homesick for Mexico than I ever do for New Zealand. Two elderly dogs and two arthritic hips are keeping me here, but when that is resolved I will be heading to Mexico, and frankly I will be happy to end my life there . All the best.
Same to you!
Thank you, Mora, for yet another beautifully crafted presentation. The topic and your experiences were thought provoking as well. I moved to MX 10/2023. I have never felt homesick. Instead, I experience anxiety at the thought of having to return to the US. This became apparent while selling my home in Georgia. Fortunately, with a power of attorney, my friend signed documents for me. I really relate to your story, it is very similar to mine. I have greater peace than ever before... and stepping out of the angst and stress back home has improved my life entirely. México may not be for everyone. However, for me, I feel like I have found my people. 🇲🇽 Gracias México 🇲🇽
Agreed! Interesting about feeling the anxiety on returning to the U.S. I've heard someone else say that too. Not to mention the draining of the finances so fast there!
Most "move to mexico" vids avoid the sick/starving dog issue, so thanks for including that "con." There just isn't enough money in some cases, or the dogs are simply strays, in others. Either way, the dogs fall through the cracks. My wife and I always dump $$ on the local animal shelters when we visit mexico (there are sometimes little boxes in the city square for that purpose - for sure in Zihua). In a couple of cases, we simply took dogs to the vet ourselves to get them sorted out. That skinny one looks like it's packing an intestine full of round/hook/whip/tapeworms (from eating garbage) that could be cleaned out with some cheap de-wormer, should be easy, then it can absorb the nutrients you're feeding it. Until then, though, it's going to be a losing battle.
Completely agree. If you can take them to a vet to get de-wormed, teeth checked, and spayed/neutered, you will have done them a great service. I am sure that your viewers would fund your efforts. I will chip in if you do it. Also, aren't there shelters in expat areas that could help because clearly no one will help them when you leave, especially if they start breeding.
I think you are right. Going to get de-wormer. Gracias!
@@MoraMargaret de nada - and thank you for doing good where you are, and when you can.
Sula Society in Puerto Vallarta rescues dogs. Maybe you can ask them to take the dogs in when you move on. Thank you so much for feeding them. ❤
In San Antonio Texas mayor Nirenberg kills almost 100 cats and dogs every week.
Espero que te sientas mucho mejor muy pronto!
You did the right thing by feeding those dogs. I live in Costa Rica and there are so many homeless animals in the streets and it’s really hard to watch. I’ve helped a few animal organizations by being a foster family for some dogs and cats for just a short time and even for a long time because no one else wanted them. Obviously some of them have become mine because we couldn’t find homes. We do what we can, even if we just give them food for one day. We can’t save them all. It’s hard.
It is tough, but it's great you've helped so many!
Aloha Mora❣️ I was raised in Mexico (6 months old -10y) and other countries. My Mom was an opera/classical singer.
I returned with my children in '85-'88 (Rosarito, Baja and Acapulco). I will never stop missing it and loving it.
The USA has been very difficult for me bcz, it's got a lot of violence, anger, judgment, racism and hatred. It feels like immense emotional pressure/stress all the time. I feel such relief when I go to another country, where that energy is not present.
Living in Hawaii is the easiest as far as those issues go. The people have Sweetness here...
I want very much to move back to live in Mexico. I Love the warmth, kindness, the easy laughter and culture of the beautiful Mexican People❣️❣️❣️
I hope that as you are there a for longer time and your Spanish improves, that your world will blossom into more joy, peace and happiness and that you will build beautiful new relationships and friendships.
I really enjoy the calm of your videos. You have the right to your point of view, in every arena of your life, so keep on sharing from your gentle heart! Wishing you the best that life has to offer❣️❣️❣️
Blessings on your Journey🙏❣️
Thank you so much! I hope you come back to Mexico, although I love Hawaii too :)
Thank you for feeding them, unfortunately there are tons of abandoned dogs here; i'm mexican and I don't get used to it. I have 2 rescued and I always try to help stray dogs but is a very complex problem. Don't worry, no one will mind if you feed them. Get well soon.
Mora, I was born and raised in Los Angeles Ca., and I can totally relate to the stress’s in living in a big city. My adult daughter and I relocated to San Antonio Texas. We came on a vacation 5 years ago. Never planning on staying. But we did. We both agree that we found our life to be extremely peaceful and the pace a lot slower and most importantly affordable. I found the people here to be so friendly for the most part. I truly love it here.
Thank you for another beautiful video Mora. I’m looking forward to your next one. 💕
I appreciate your candor about life abroad generally and the positives in Mexico. Your videos are delightful. Thank you.😊
Mora,
THANK YOU FOR FEEDING THOSE PUPS!!❤❤
I haven't spent much time in rural México. Just Monterey, Tampico, Vera Cruz and Yucatán (Merida and Progreso).
Through your marvelous videos, I travel vicariously through México.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!
Good morning Mora, I pray you are doing better and the allergies are gone.
In about minute 6. Or 7 of this video. You talked about feeling nostalgic about your home country, the language and the surroundings you were used to.
I can concur with you to a degree. You see I been living in Barcelona for the last two years, and after walking around several countries around Europe and plenty of cities on each of the countries here. It hit me hard to know that, as a Mexican I do miss my culture, food, aromas and ambiance of Mexico. So, I do understand what you going thru.
To me personally, I came to the conclusion to return to my home country in 2025.
Keep on traveling around and let your heart tell you, where is the place that brings peace to it.
This is my wish for you: Comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, Love to complete your life.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Regards
Wonderful quote, thank you! I love Barcelona but no doubt I would feel a twinge of homesickness even there. I think it's just natural when you're separated from your home country long term. I'm glad you get to come home to Mexico!
Oh Mora, whar a loevly video! I hope you are feeling better. As a now single woman with a sweet GSD, planning a move to Mexico, I am inspired by your journey! Thank you for sharing!
I'm so glad this video inspired you! It's good to know there are others thinking of Mexico.
Where I live in the USA, a southern city of 500K, there is a proposed project to build a pedestrian/bicycle suspension bridge over a busy expressway, thereby connecting two parts of town. The reaction in social media has been scathingly negative and completely cynical, which sadly I find to be all too typical. Those who fashion themselves as 'patriots' seem to actually like very little about this great country.
My experience after several trips to Mexico is that the people, in general, are not cynical and in fact are quite the opposite. The Mexican people seem proud and optimistic, and believe that strong communities make all things possible. As Mora Margaret points out, their public life is enviable. When people ask what it is that attracts me to Mexico, my response is "I just love being there". I don't know how to explain it other than that.
I think you summed it up very well. We are all so tired of cynicism in our everyday lives. I love the U.S. so much and I think it's the greatest country for so many reasons, but it's having a hard time right now.
Thanks for sharing the good and the bad. That's so important. When I travel, it's delightful to leave behind hair-trigger tempers in America. Some friends back home respond to my travel missives saying my world has shrunk down very small, to just the essentials. There's nothing wrong with that. Focusing on basics let me see and appreciate the joys of every day. Glad you are happy to be back. Who cared for your pups while you traveled? I bet you missed them like crazy!
My question as well regarding the pups!!
It is good to be back. My friends took care of the pups. I agree with you about focusing on the basics!
Mora, We have lived in Mexico over 2 years, my husband and I love it here for many reasons. But unfortunately we have come to miss our home up north. I speak Spanish fluently and it still doesn't help me feel any better about the poverty, street dogs and the lack of compassion by Mexicans for their own, I realize that they probably have learned to be numb about the things they can't change. My husband , I and our sweet dog all got ill in July and felt so alone. I really needed a good friend and or family member to help me feel safe. We are in the process of returning next year. I have taken classes and volunteered with food kitchens, but my heart cannot take it any longer. I will return to Mexico in the future to visit the friends I have made here, but Mexico is not as inexpensive as it once was. We also traveled across the country and seeing great places. Being honest with myself I just miss my kids and family, and friends.
"I just miss my kids and family, and friends." There are the very end, I think you hit the core issue.
I am not Mexican, but I find it interesting when you said " the lack of compassion by Mexicans for their own", so what do you said about the millions of homeless in the US, or US veterans. Do you think Americans have lost compassion for the unhoused, and veterans?
Great video. I love Mexico.
Ya, I remember being in mexico,
There was an american woman who was a bit crazy/ mentally deranged...
A local man in town asked me, as an american,
How I could do nothing to get this woman help & call her family & return her to the states.
I realized then, that americans feel little commaarodery towards eachother.....we are raised to be individuals who are responsible for oneself.
Mexico is more community based... there is very little numbers of street/homeless people....because families do care of their people.
Also people within a community hold eachother more accountable for their social behavior.
Of course everything exist,
& there is more than 1 truth.
Fellow Oregonian, dog lover, and fruit fanatic here! I’m looking to relocate to Mexico after getting my TEFL certification in Guadalajara next May.
I did a scouting trip to the East Cape of BCS in April and I 100% know what you mean by that intangible lack of “tension”. I remember driving around thinking, “Where is all the aggression? Divisive politics? Distrust of strangers and neighbors?” Didn’t realize how oppressively it weighed on me and dictated my life until it was absent.
Appreciate your candor, and hope the allergies are better!
“Where is all the aggression? Divisive politics? Distrust of strangers and neighbors?” Exactly! It's not like that here. Sounds like you have a good plan for moving and I wish you the best!
What an uplifting honest video you’ve made! That you filmed in the midst of a bout of allergies is almost like an affirmation of being forthright and open about your feelings.
I thought you would mention being homesick; that’s perhaps the most common feeling of travelers at one time or another. But I think you are very perceptive to recognize the way that living in Mexico has caused you to have a wider, new perspective on the world. That’s the sort of thing that you’re not likely to anticipate beforehand, but then it stays with you long after the trip is over. It’s also the very thing that so many people would benefit from, yet it goes missing in our busy, busy lives.
You’ve done a great job on this one; I hope you bounce back from the allergies quickly.
Muchas gracias! What a kind comment, thank you!
Thank you Mora. You are such an honest person. And, beautiful too. I always look forward to your videos. Your view from your place on the lake is amazing. Take care of those allergies.
I wish I will find a place like your next to you . Not bothering you but having someone else around each other will give a sense of not feeling completely lonely .
Thanks for your sincere honesty and I do hope your doing better with your allergies. The footage of you romping around with your dogs is adorable. I look forward to sharing that contagious happiness when I move there.
Thank you for feeding the animals . I would have done the same thing.
I hope today your allergies aren’t bothering you too much, Mora. It must be a drag to deal with that. I think you are lucky to have México, and México is lucky to have you … you add to the culture by simply living here and basking in the warmth of your Mexican brethren. Greetings from Jody here in lovely Querétaro. ❤
Mora, today at the supermarket I felt a lot of happiness. I kept looking with admiration at many of the Mexican folks (granted, I tried not to look like a weird-o while I observed them). There is so much beauty in Mexico … in its people, architecture, and landscapes. I could have been anywhere besides a supermarket … I’d have felt the same thing. One’s attitudinal approach maters a lot. ❤️
Love your videos Mira, brings me peace and hope.
Mora, wonderful video. I cant wait to move down to this area and experience what you have described.
Excellent compilation, so lovely! Great job! Hope you are feeling much better Mora:)
Thank you for sharing your life with me. You and your dogs look so happy.
I am glad to watch when someone has the time to appreciate and enjoys God’s Creations like you!
I loved seeing footage from many of the delightful places you've visited too.
Mora, I love your perspective of life and how you seem to have come to know... yourself. It's life-changing, or maybe it is life-creating. Thanks for your perspective; we have a commonality.
Right on! Gracias!
Oh man, those puppies broke my heart, bless you for feeding them! I'm so glad that you are pushing on, despite your feelings of isolation. I may be in Mexico alone for a while so any tips to avoid the isolation would be appreciated. Though I won't have a vehicle there so will have to reside near mercados, etc, which will at least give the sounds of people around me. I love your joy and gratitude. You absolutely need to include the bad with the good, we need to see both sides of Mexico and what it's like to live there. Mexico is not just a place filled with all-inclusive resorts, so I thank you for sharing reality.
Gracias! You are so right. When I was making my plan to come here I wanted realistic facts!
Hi Mora ! I really enjoy and look forward to watch your videos . I’m coming to Mazetlan and love to travel other parts as well .I love the place you are staying
Thanks! I hope you love Mazatlan!
Thank you for feeding those babies. That string around the little skinny dog's neck looks way too tight. You talked about the thing that is my biggest con too. I want to live in MX but the street dogs always break my heart.
Hi Mora. Just wanted to say, I’m enjoying your videos about life in Mexico. I admire your sense of adventure. Especially, staying in more rural areas and driving alone with your dogs. In the last two years I’ve made six trips down including CDMX, Merida and Ajijic. The Lake Chapala area seems to be my happy place and I hope to be there permanently in 2025. I appreciate your videos have touched on issues of social isolation in a new culture, how gentrification affects the local Mexican population and even the homeless animal issues. I’m hoping all the work and research will lead me to a more happy, fulfilling and peaceful life south of the border. P.S. also a nurse…35 years hospital based RN but the drive and passion have long gone.
Chad from Florida.
Gracias Chad! I hope you have a wonderful time at Lake Chapala! I don't know how we did the hospital for 10 years, let alone 35. It takes a while to rest after all that, but then you feel like a new person!
I hope your allergies give you a break soon. I am a sufferer too, so I know what a drag it can be. This was a fair video, I think. So sad about the animals, but here in Canada I know some of this also happens, but is also invisible. It is so wonderful to see people sitting on benches everywhere, to see people more relaxed. I grew up on a Caribbean island where we had that slow pace of life and I could live on my tiny paycheque because there wasn't so much to spend it on. When I moved north I certainly got caught up in the fast pace, but moving to the country and retiring also made life much simpler and easier. I'm heading on a trip to see some old friends and feel like I don't have the right clothing to "measure up" - lol! - what a relief that in my normal life I don't feel I have to "measure up." Enjoy life!
Well said!
I look forward to seeing your videos because I see the genuineness which inspires me to get ready for a move.
Thank you, that means a lot to me :)
Love it and I hope you find a rescue to help with the sweet pups 😢 Thank you for feeding them!
Thank you for sharing life and thoughts with us. So,real and open it’s relaxing. I will be visiting central highlands of Mexico in a week and so look forward to it.
I hope you have a wonderful time. I'm loving the mountain areas!
Hi Mora. I’m a hospice nurse and I’m ready to follow in your shoes. Thank you so much for all that you share. I feel like you are my soul sister because I feel all the same things and it’s unexplainable. You take away my fear. Please feel better soon!❤
It's wonderful to meet soul sister who feels the same way! Thank you for the kind words.
Appreciate your insights. You seem to have found what fills your soul and that is amazing!
Really put well, Mora. Sorry you’re having issues. Allergies are awful! We have a lot to be thankful for!!
I love your channel. I live in a southern state…I don’t feel the tension/ stress/pressures. I’m retired healthcare worker. I’m now a nanny part time. I need to work because it keeps me moving and not isolated. I feel needed and valued. Traveled in my youth and am happy I did as it wasn’t as complicated, dangerous or crowded. I’m happy you broke free and are feeling healthy. If you ever consider moving back, explore places in the south.
I appreciate the suggestion, it sounds lovely! I'm glad you don't feel the tension. Maybe it intensifies based on location. I'm glad you are getting what you need from work. The family is lucky to have you!
@ I’m older than you… much older. I’m almost 67. I live in Austin by the lake. I watch your channel because of the travel…I traveled all over Europe and Mexico. Not into Asia…the only thing I want to do is go to Peru… take the train. Eastern Europe like Poland. But that’s about it. But never in my wildest dreams would I drive my car into Mexico. I’m a Texas girl.. born and raised…so you and your two dogs just travel around in Mexico? I’m just checking. I’d never do it myself…train or airplane for sure… let’s keep TH-cam real. Agree?
I don’t believe you is the truth. There are big thing missing… join the vanlife ladies and stop the dancing around with my dogs. Nobody buys it.. join the Vanlife ladies. Mexico is over.
Are you drunk?
@ you are the one dancing outside with your dogs?
Great video Mora. (Hope those allergic reactions fade soon!)
I shared your TY channelbon Facebook. My husband and I enjoy your videos and bring them up often in conversation with others when talking about the culture and diversity of Mexico. (It isn't all touristy beach towns! 😉)
We are conditioned in the USA to have goals, to make something of ourselves and stand out. In doing so we become stressed in disconnecting from who we are and what we really need. I have been to Mexico. My father was from Ireland and my mother was from Poland and I have visited both countries. Mexico reminds me of rural Ireland and the honesty and simplicity of the old people and in fact Mexico and Ireland share many cultural values. Keep up the great work!
Thank you! I like your point of view, and the cultural similarities are very interesting.
Thank you for sharing, I enjoy your videos, especially to see how you manage with the two larger dogs. I have 4 Cane Corso (Italian Mastiffs) and Pitbull. I'm considering retiring in Mexico and would be looking for a place like the one you are living in now, with the large yard. Please continue doing these videos so we can see beautiful Mexico from your lens and point of view. Also, thank you for feeding the pups. I wonder if a dewormer may help her to gain some weight, too.
Excellent idea! I bet you have your hands full with those pups, but the hardest part is getting here, and then you're set!
I Thank Goddess for You that You would be so kind, caring, and loving enough to feed the animals in need. I pray You stay Blessed, Happy, and Healthy Always 💯🙏🌹
Thanks so much, you're very kind!
Great video, Mora...thanks for sharing!
es bueno verle bien, saludos 🎉
I went through the same thing and even after 2 1/2 yrs living here I get home sick sometimes but I rather be here then back in the USA you be fine just give it some time and you’ll be fine 😊
I love everything about Mexico and its people from travel their over 30 years. But the dog situation is so hard for me. Makes me wish I could become a veterinarian and makea dent with fixing stray pups. Too late for me. I just hate seeing the suffering of these wonderful creatures. 😢
I do too. Luckily it has been a rare site in my travels so far.
I'm glad that you are very honest about the cons of living in Mexico. I feel the same, living here in California. I'm tired of feeding the homeless and see around me that nobody cares. Is very discouraged to see how people care just for themselves.😢I'm going back to Mexico in the next month.
It's easy to get burnt out from giving continuously on every street corner. Something has to change. I hope you have a smooth trip!
I am currently trialing a life in Todos Santos and I am still connected to people at home in England. My mental health only gets affected when handling people at 'home'. As you said always worried you have upset people or they are want to trip you up etc. Being here while connected to England really highlights the issues at home.
Same here!
Great video… spot on 😅
Love your videos - the straightforward way you think. I think it would be wonderful if you took us to your market, how you get there, how you shop, not omitting any difficulties.
That's a great idea! I will work on that, thank you :)
Such a useful and great video as always ..hope u feel better soon❤
Mora thank you for sharing your life. I have been watching videos on Mexico, Portugal, Italy and Canada for at least 2 years now. 6 months ago I started to downsize my things, sold my camper, my hot tub and numerous other items that I realized don’t make me happy. I too am a nurse of 27 yrs and only 7 years away from retirement. I feared the election would finally make me move if it meant radical change and that seems to be what’s next for America. I keep circling back to Mexico as the country I could possibly just finally retire, sell my home and have a piece of mind. I can’t tell you enough how much I admire your courage and adventure. 20 yrs ago I had done traveling nurse for 5 yrs with my cat and went across the country and you remind me of that time when I explored everywhere. But eventually I settled and bought a house in the SF Bay Area and it’s been good for 12 years here but I’m just tired of being a nurse too. I still care about people but the constraints of the demands of the job and the micromanaging is difficult. I keep my suv to tow if I leave but I am just a little nervous and yes I do get annoyed when people always say oh Mexico is dangerous when they don’t even know or ever visited. The vast amount of research I’ve done says it can be safe if you know what your doing and know where not to go. It would be the same here in the United States and I know the very dangerous places and I just don’t go there. My one biggest barrier is my two cats and I want to adopt a dog but I’ve heard of the large amounts of strays in Mexico so I figured I’d rather wait until I found a place I loved and then welcome a dog into my new life. I wonder if you might start a side business of phone consults for people like me who have questions? I noticed some do this but I’m looking for someone to answer my questions such as driving to Mexico with two cats. Anyway, sorry for such a long message. I am prepared to fly to Mexico soon in December or January but have not decided yet where but hoping it’s a place I could see myself moving to and I’m searching for that spot. BTW, just love your dogs❤ . Last, I think you’re doing all the right things to get acclimated to a new country and making good decisions for what’s best for you.
I am so glad you are on this journey. It can be daunting but it sounds like you are doing all the right things. I haven't started consulting but if you want to talk more you can be my first client for free! Get a hold of me by email: Mora@MoraMargaret.com What part of the Bay Area are you living in? Bringing animals to Mexico was very easy by car.
Mora, thank you for another awesome video and for sharing the lows and highs of living in Mexico. Your lakeside views are spectacular, thank you for feeding the pups. I look forward to another video. Stay safe and Happy Thanksgiving. ❤
Thank you for watching!
Great video and first time listening to your channel. I am 73, moved to a very small town but as I have grown older, you change and lose contact with friends etc. My sisters older than me have their own lives. Having said that I feel isolated in my small town here in the USA so the same as "relocation isolation". The healthcare also is really bad. I lived in Spain for a brief period and loved it.(long ago) Now I have an elderly cat but expect to travel, move by car with her to Mexico within 2025. I am hoping to better the quality of my life, live without "stuff" and feel I am alway struggling to make ends meet. I want to have parks and outdoor cafes, perhaps meet other expats or people my age.
There is too much drama now in the US and ongoing issues like healthcare, gun violence, mass shootings and nasty politics. It is exhausting living here. Thank you for sharing and yes, seeing those dogs broke my heart. BUT I moved here as I said to a small town and now feeding 4 strays, - cats, and have spent my own money neutering/spaying, vaccinating, rabies etc to help. There were 6 but feel someone killed two of them. My neighbor reported me to animal control for feeding them which is against the law here. Like you, can't watch them search for food. Hopefully my neighbors will continue with their care when I move to Mexico. Your cons ironically exist right here in small town USA.
wow, you are so right! I hope you can come and have as wonderful an experience as I have had in Mexico!
Thanks for the real life lows and highs my dad is a subscriber and sent me this video .He is planning on movie to Mexico to retire in a few years ..He is working with Mexico Relocation Guide Services. I really enjoyed ur honesty especially about the dogs I've seen that first hand in many places I've visited in the US and Mexico it just girls truly heart breaking . Hope u continue with ur videos and ur allergies get better..I'm now also a subscriber.Much love and positive vibes ur way .😊
So kind of you! Is he happy with the MRG services? I should call them and see what they offer. Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment :)
I live in Mexico in beautiful Ensenada part time of the year and California and love it
Beautiful and honest video, thank you! I am fully fluent in Spanish and still sometimes feel the longing
to be with “my” people. I was surprised you didn’t mention the consumerism of the US, “Buy Buy Buy!”, as that’s what hits me the most when I visit after 2.5 years living in Mexico. Another enormous downside to Mexico for me is the massive littering and contamination of water sources. Really hard to live with that!☹️
I find your videos very enjoyable and real, honest. Very happy for you! Keep up the Spanish learning, it will come…❤️🇲🇽❤️🇲🇽❤️
Muchas gracias! Good point about the consumerism, you are so right! And the water pollution too. But the last time I was in a big city in the States was Portland, when I went to the Mexican embassy for residency visa, and it was really gross. It far surpassed the visible contamination I've found anywhere in Mexico so far. Thanks for the language encouragement!
I appreciate your honest opinion of living in Mexico. The poor dogs, the starving puppy with that tight kind of collar around it's neck is heartbreaking, no animal should suffer. Couldn't someone remove it in case it is restricting it's eating?
I saw a video with dogs for adoption in Puerto Vallarta where American Tourist even adopted and take them home with them to the US. Maybe there is a rescue group who can help this sweet puppy.
I'm glad you found a place of peace and comfort where you are, I totally get the going to work reluctantly every day dilemma. There just seems to be more to life than work and paying bills, lucky that you discovered a way.
Thanks again for sharing your adventures in both a positive and not so positive way. It's nice for those of us not so able to escape how the US has become to be able to see how other regions are.
Mora I enjoy your videos thanks for sharing your experience! I’ve traveled a lot in Mexico but haven’t lived there yet. Another low for me would be the culture of police corruption but definitely so many highs. Your spot with a lake view looks so wonderful and you have your sweet dogs to keep you company.
I'm very lucky with my two canine companions and my rental! I've heard a lot about corruption and I agree, it's a real low. I didn't mention it because I've had no first hand experience with it, thankfully.
You have a very good attitude, all will work out with your new start.
Mora, a couple years ago I retired because I was feeling exactly like you did. I am now planning our move to Mexico, but I’m worried about going back and forth with our dog. When you flew to the US to visit your son, what did you do with your dogs? Can you board them in Mexico? My husband is from Mexico and on many trips to visit my in-laws I saw how dogs were neglected and assumed boarding would not be an option there. If you fly with them, how does that work? As a woman, I am so proud of your courage and independence. The US has become an angry, inhospitable place for so many of us. Thank you for sharing your adventure. ❤
Gracias Crone! When I left town I did the same thing I did in the States: hire a house/dog sitter to come to my house and stay with the two perros. These two are so big and spoiled! So that's always worked for me. I don't know if there are boarding options, probably there are! Bringing the dogs into Mexico by car was a breeze. Taking them back to the States might be a little more complicated (they've changed the rules recently) but I think it's doable. Flying with animals makes it more complicated too, depending on the airline and their rules, the size of your animal and the time of year etc.. Thank you for the encouragement!
Fortunately there are outposts in the US that are easy to live in. Thankfully I happen to live in one of them. If you happened to see the movie "Ground Hog Day", that's actually my small town. We really do sit on the benches or on a blanket on the lawn in the lovely city square on a summer evening and listen to the city band in the bandstand while eating ice cream served by the lady's auxiliary in the Spring House. 😁 That said, I am hiding out here as a lot of the culture and society in the US is getting surly and down right mean. Outside of my rural county I am not terribly comfortable. I often dream of moving to a quieter country but need to stay close to high level medical care. I envy you your little slice of heaven. Mine is smaller but I think both serve their purpose admirably. Thanks for that wonderful video. Enjoy your new life. You are truly blessed. Give the doggies a hug for me.
I will! Thanks for your comment. It's so interesting to hear others' point of view. What a great place you live in!
I've traveled a lot of the world and the animal abuse is among the top of the list of hardest things to witness and accept. I keep saying that I think my next chapter involves an off-grid animal sanctuary (mostly dogs), maybe in Mexico (live in CA now). I appreciate your travels and sharing your experiences. Look forward to seeing where you land. And...if you're ever up for a caravan trip (me and my dog), perhaps we could meet for a coffee to see if we'd make good travel buddies. It's a bit rare to find like-minded travelers with dogs in our age range.
What a great idea! The meetup and the animal sanctuary!
Wow your description of the tension here in the US is so right on, sadly.
Your tension comments hit home. I try to ignore the triggers here in Florida but not successful. May prove to be unwise, but am exploring getting German citizenship which, if it happens, opens up all of EU. i was born there a long time ago. But Mexico is still high on my list, partly because I want to live a low key live well within my means. And the people seem so nice. Thank you for your insights.
It's important to know what your options are! I always wanted an EU passport!
I can't handle animal abuse at all. Love your channel young lady.
get Loratadina in any pharmacy. I take one each day....
Thanks for the video 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊
Hi Mora... another exquisite video.
As another commenter asked...who took care of your pups while you were in States?
By the way... May I suggest honey to help with your allergies? Especially local raw honey. Also, a teeny bit on your clean finger then touch your eyeball. Yes, there is an initial "sting" but oh my your eyes will feel so soothed afterwards!! I honestly don't think one can overdue it cuz it's such a little dab and quite healing.
Best to each of you
Good tip about the honey! My house sitter didn't show up so the other residents at the property stepped in and saved the day. Thanks for watching!
Most people in the United States don’t even realize the hum of the tension that is in their environment until they move or spend some time abroad, and they realize that hum of the tension isn’t there. I know what you mean, but I don’t think everybody who lives in the United States knows what you mean unless they have spent some time outside the country.
Also there are so many “rules” in the United States such as how women over 50 should dress, or what time of year it’s appropriate to wear white or when you are supposed to decorate for Christmas…it’s exhausting.
I agree. It's like the air you breath and you just don't know till it's gone.
Ty, for feeding the dogs. I love dogs... great video..
This was a wonderful video. I admire that you are doing this with just yourself and your two dogs. The starving puppies caused me to get very anxious. I noticed quite a few expats try to help dogs and find them homes or work with rescues. I wonder if you could worm those puppies to help them gain weight. They look so sweet. 😢 Thanks for feeding them. ♥️
That's a very good point about the worming. I'm sorry to have shown you something distressing. I know how you feel.
Great video, great points.
Every place has plus and minuses, and it's up to the individual to weigh the good against the not-so-good and make an informed decision. Mexico isn't a good fit for everyone, and the best way to find out is to experience it first hand.
My wife and I don't know if Mexico will be a great retirement home-base for us, but after a few months, perhaps a year traveling through Mexico, we'll know. If we stay, great; if I we feel it's great for vacationing but not residency, no problem. In that case we had a 1-year vacation on a budget and can move back to the United States of America.
It's also not a problem that we'll be selling our overpriced California starter home. No matter where we end up, it won't be in California with $10,000 annual property tax and (soon) $6-per-gallon gasoline.
It's crazy! The prices in Ca. I think you have a perfect point of view before you get to Mexico! It's not for everyone and that's fine. There are other countries to consider. First hand experience can't be beat!
I have been just binging your vids!!! Lolololololol going to Los algodones in a week for dental. I want to travel in Mexico too!!!! I don’t want to live permanently there because I have 3 kids here in Indiana/Ky. And 4 grandchildren. I can’t live without them. However, I can travel awhile. 😅 I also was a nurse for many years. I was so unhappy. The stress. The bureaucracy is maddening!!!! Happy trails and much love!!!!!!❤
I hear you! I'm glad you have family you want to be close to. Hope you can have the best of both worlds and travel back and forth!
Thank you❤️
Really enjoyed this one. Thanks. What did you do with your lovely dogs when you went to the US?
Left with friends on the property. I should have mentioned that in the video :)
Regarding the street dogs...
In mexico, the peps do not sterilize animals the same as in the north.....
They do not sterilize the humans either....as is done in the north.
In mexico, One can notice that there are very few homeless peps
& yet a high number of street dogs...
Whereas in the state, there is a high number of street people
& a low number of street dogs.
Every culture has their priorities.
Sorry about those allergies, I have just enough of them too; so I know what it is like! That white horse running around would be interesting to know where it was going! I wouldn’t mind having a horse and maybe a little farm like where I grew up; like spending my last part of life living like when I was a kid. Well, keep safe and keep making videos! ❤
Gracias! I agree, a little farm would be so nice!
good for you!
You are very courageous and inspirational.
Gracias!
I think the poor pup is not gaining weight because of parasites, could get meds for that. Thanks for caring Mora.
You are so right! I should have thought of that. I will get something ASAP.
Well said words. Couldn’t agree more with you. I also love Morelia and Pátzcuaro etc. But I always forget to ask are you driving with your Oregon plates on your car?
Yes, I am. You don't see many Oregon plates here, or Lexus for that matter, but no one stares or makes any kind of issue of it.
@ Thks for quick response. Always thought that was the almost impossible thing to do and easier just to buy a car in Mexico. But then how does one get all their belongings there without driving there. I would love to drive there so I can load up a lot of tools and etc. I’ll think about it. Lot of paperwork for that and a time frame??
The temporary import permit for the car was not bad and it lasts as long as my temp residency visa lasts. I brought as much stuff as I could carry in the car and was not searched. If you get a temp residency visa I understand you could bring all your household stuff and not be taxed, but I haven't tried that.
Thank you 👍👍👍👍
Thanks for watching!
😢 I so feel you, I traveled and lived in different countries. Animals and the different culture around the care of street animals is difficult.
Try and participate in spay and neuter programs. Or take them to get fixed.
See if there are like-minded people around.
Is very difficult to get them used to food and you as a person and nobody takes "over the job" when you leave.
I really enjoy your Videos.
I so agree with you. I find the most difficult thing about living in Mexico is the poor treatment of animals. The best you could do for the female dog before you ever leave, is to get her sterilized. I love your videos. I know you didn't love Ajijic, but we've decided to leave the coast and try that area out. Lots of nice hiking in Patzcauro and it seems also in the Lake Chapala area. Thanks for such great videos of your travels
Gracias. I hope you have a wonderful time in Ajijic! I don't think I can live at the coast full time so it's great there are so many options :)
She taking a must needed break. But she can come home to America and be happy.
What is the candle lit scene at night at 20:51? I love it.
I understand and I would feed them as well.
I can't go to Mexico because I would be adopting too many animals. I hate seeing them suffer. I visited one day and found the people constantly coming up to me to sell something, was quite annoying. Of course, I was in a border town, so maybe that's why.
I appreciate your videos. The street dogs are heart breaking. Maybe if you feel comfortable enough, when you leave, to find a person sympathetic to the dogs and leave some food with them for the dogs. Vigo and Olive are such great companions. On another subject, would you say on average, if you stay in one location long term, that your cost of living in Mexico to be about $2,000 a month all inclusive?
It's less, about half of that, but I didn't include personal medical insurance and the cost of keeping a car. Please see my video on living in Mexico for less than $1K per month: th-cam.com/video/OA_cRqX3Uus/w-d-xo.html
I don't think anyone will have problems with you feeding the dogs
I'm curious about the quality of the lake water? Are you able to go swimming in it? :) It's a lovely view!
It really is! I have heard that it is very polluted unfortunately.
As I've said, I get so excited when I see a notification from you.
What a lovely video and what a beautiful outlook on life.
I connect completely, and my move to New Mexico did that for me.
The Mexican cultural is gentle, giving and uplifting.
That area in Mexico where you are now is like a slice of heaven.
The view on that patio is outstanding, what peace of mind you must get and what a way to start a day and end a day.
Music,food, flowers and butterflies 🦋 plus two forever furry friends🐕🐕, what else would you want.
Thank you Mora,
Peace in your heart.
Joy in Mexico 🇲🇽
See you down the road ✨️🤝
Gracias Joan! You summed it all up very well. Sometimes I feel myself pushing to go out traveling again and I remind myself that there is no hurry! This place is so nice! Thanks for commenting :)
Not to mention how the lakes are polluted..live I the US. I’d love to live in Mexico but it looks bad.
Can the strings around their necks be removed, so they dont get embedded?
And have you had the 3 shot rabies pre-exposure prophylaxis series?
I am rooting for you!!
If you need an amiga, I'm there!
I have a dog and a cat, and want to drive to México, get Away from the horrible political devisevness in the USA.
2025 is Not going to be 'great'.
Only one pup has the string and I test it every time I see her. It's not too tight and I get the feeling someone else is loosening it as she grows, or I would cut it off myself. That's a good question about rabies prophylaxis, I didn't even think of it. I guess I should.
Nice video. Where you’re at is not surrounded by tourists. Also , not in an foreigner resident enclave overrun by foreigners? In other words, many foreign residents prefer not to live near other foreigners. They say they didn’t move to Mexico to live by so many foreigners.
I agree with that. I like being surrounded by Mexicans and I'm learning Spanish faster that way!
Do you drive to the border evey month to renew your car import tax or how do you do it