How to Deal With Toxicity & NOT Get Mad While Playing

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  • @Flying_V
    @Flying_V 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    The biggest takeaway from this video should be that if you're pissed, don't be a bitch to those around you.

    • @tomkrawec
      @tomkrawec 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      The person who doesn't take out their anger on others is the true winner in life.

    • @herpderp4078
      @herpderp4078 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I think some people try to make you mad on purpose, it's strategy, it's easier to fight a person who you know their thoughts. Stay calm and shit on them.

  • @TeEZyClapZ-
    @TeEZyClapZ- 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

    Game audio needs to be a little louder. I can almost hear you talking 😂

  • @LouStreets
    @LouStreets 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    “How do you deal with toxicity?” - to the player with TOXICMAN as his tag 🤣

    • @hollownuisance
      @hollownuisance 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @TheWizardofMNT
      @TheWizardofMNT 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It can help to understand why someone would even choose to be toxic in a fighting game. One reason is that, it's a way to take someone's mind out of the game and make them focus on their own "salt" instead of what is actually going on in the game. This is actually a thing for those who don't know or never thought about it. It can be considered a dirty way of playing, but it is something that exists within competition.

  • @senX
    @senX 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    anakin: "i never had an issue with it"
    also anakin: beats all of the bad manner guys anyways

    • @garaktartv3647
      @garaktartv3647 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      yeah but he also earns money playing this game

    • @baconbitz7804
      @baconbitz7804 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He did get a little salty against a Lars but he did a really good job of keeping it under control and ended up winning

  • @Fudge_bc
    @Fudge_bc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Anytime i see someone t bagging or ki charging, i just think to myself, "Someone hasn't grown up yet."
    Some people really just need to stretch that win because they got nothing else going for them.
    Plus, one thing i like to qoute from my boxing days was a saying someone shared with me.
    "If you can't handle losing, then you don't deserve to win."

    • @TkAnakin
      @TkAnakin  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Good quote! Please teach me how to box lol

    • @Fudge_bc
      @Fudge_bc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@TkAnakin Hands up, chin down, aim for the jaw/liver, return whatever hand you threw back to your chin.
      Godspeed

  • @blakengard82
    @blakengard82 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Awesome vid Anakin, Highly agree with all of your points. got this same mindset. This is your ole ole friend Blake, that azn guy who hosted that southern GA tourney that you went to back in T5dr days p

    • @TkAnakin
      @TkAnakin  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ling xiaoyu Blake!

    • @blakengard82
      @blakengard82 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm a Jun main now and I go by Mr. Chu, if you are ever in socal, let us know bud

  • @TheWizardofMNT
    @TheWizardofMNT 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    At some point in your journey, the only way to get better is to learn how to control the salt. You'll either learn to control it by harnessing it's power, or you'll somehow learn to squash it. Either way, you'll find that once you can get passed it, new lessons and abilites are capable of being unlocked at a much faster rate beyond this point. It can take a person years and it doesn't happen over night. Good luck to you on your journey, y'all ✌️

  • @thisninja11
    @thisninja11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I realized this game pisses me off more than any other fighting game

    • @ikronex_8147
      @ikronex_8147 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same bro lmfao

    • @thisninja11
      @thisninja11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@ikronex_8147 the bullshit I’ve seen on this game because of the way people play man… makes me wanna join the fucking dark side

  • @BigZesusTekken
    @BigZesusTekken 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    2:21 perfectly said.
    As a psychologist, you are actually giving amazing life advice that can be used in many different aspects of life. Reasons I love video games:

  • @TheSLashera
    @TheSLashera 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Equip magic mirror. Problem solved. Lmao. But seriously when some fool is somehow beating me with their braindead shit and Ki charging, yes that can rattle me up a bit, but I am not angry at the guy's antics I am annoyed that I cannot deal with things that should be easy to counter. I guess in the end all boils down to git gud.

    • @kensshi5461
      @kensshi5461 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's the right mindset brother

    • @epicon6
      @epicon6 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No magic mirror in T8

    • @levi26448
      @levi26448 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@epicon6there is in player customization. Not character

    • @epicon6
      @epicon6 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@levi26448 Awesome

    • @tomkrawec
      @tomkrawec 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@epicon6 There is magic mirror in T8. As levi said, in player customization.

  • @Shade84
    @Shade84 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Probably one of the most important Tekken videos you'll ever watch.

  • @Gboythunda
    @Gboythunda 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    No, hold onto that anger. Train super hard for weeks then pray the universe matches you up again. Then stomp and ki charge when you win. Didn't know anakin was toxicman I fought him several times.

  • @Kraken_at_War
    @Kraken_at_War 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for the video, it helped me a lot to understand many things.

  • @EdwardGordington
    @EdwardGordington 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Guru of destruction Anakin spittin facts.

  • @darrellwiley7874
    @darrellwiley7874 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Anyone else playing this game experiencing buttons not being imputed but you know you’re on time? Swear this has been happening since I got the game on Feb

  • @Herbotis
    @Herbotis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said and really cool hearing it from a pro like you. You're one of my favorite players.

  • @TheTrueNarthumpulous
    @TheTrueNarthumpulous 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The best way to deal with toxic players and tactics if you're not trying to play into that kind of attitude is to just register to yourself that the guy is being toxic and then just accept it. Just shake your head and chuckle it off. The person is just being egotistical and there's no reason to let yourself be drawn into or torn down by it.
    It's just a game!
    From that point just change your motivation from trying to win to just riding things out until the end of the match. Just stop trying to get the upper hand on them and be okay with whatever happens.
    Then just don't rematch them.

  • @hot-_-fries1254
    @hot-_-fries1254 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here’s my advice, as a now Fujin rank player( as of today😅) it took blood sweat and tears just to get to that rank, and let me tell you, going from loss to loss to win to win, you start to get fatigued and I often find myself enjoying the experience the more I play, even if the opponent is toxic, I have fun and learn the match up the more I play against different characters. Sure you’re gonna have your spammers and pluggers, but as long as you respect the grind, take the time to learn your character by playing unranked, you’ll be set. I was stuck in battle ruler for this entire week and I was getting frustrated, but the more you play the more you start to learn.
    Hope this advice helps anyone🙌

  • @walduskiepski5312
    @walduskiepski5312 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think most people for example of they swallow any 2hit or 3 hit string and during fight they see how they can punish...
    On block or duck before last hit we're saying.
    "No problem I will punish this and this next time during even tournament fight but they never did"
    Only during labbing in practice mode we see it wasn't so easy as we're thinking and knowing and doing this and this punish are 2 different things.
    For 1st time during labbing any string or 1 hit punisher we're saying "yeah yeah I will crush it in 1st time 😒" but when it comes to it it takes at least 3 times to figure out correct timing and control that stress

  • @Jasonbowgaming
    @Jasonbowgaming 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I sometimes get mad when I run into a spammer player or dealing with mind games players and also having a hard time fighting patience players because they are hard to beat. Sometimes, it makes me don’t want to play, tekken 8 anymore because there’s so many toxic people in the game I am also at level 50 and taking a break from tekken 8 it gets so frustrating that some players that are being toxic gets me trigger like I get it is a game but I hate it when players are backing away the fight and wasting time and also have the nerve to teabag and trolling Every time the fight starts they beat the crap outta me and won the match and I didn’t even get a chance to fight back or play is just frustrating and annoying that they are try hard players that take the game seriously

  • @tomkrawec
    @tomkrawec 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Any reason why Anakin's in-game name is Toxicman, except as a joke? His vids on YT are all super chill and not toxic, that I've seen (unless taking losses calmly and trying to beat the opponent next game is toxic).

    • @nick5zone827
      @nick5zone827 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s toxic to people who are actually toxic because they can’t you don’t have the same negative mindset that they have! 😌

    • @TkAnakin
      @TkAnakin  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s a name I used in StarCraft 2 so I just used it for tekken because I thought it was funny

    • @tomkrawec
      @tomkrawec 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TkAnakin It is funny, because you're not toxic. Thank you for being awesome.

  • @rensmay
    @rensmay 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The guys claiming 500+ hrs of T8 already probably need a deodorant check.

  • @Icycrackedpanda
    @Icycrackedpanda 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just accept that I’m a loser and lower the expectations but play as if there’s a lot on the line however I have gotten upset to the point it’s gotten the better of me and I’m not proud of it but seeing progression does help easy the anger

  • @marchaoz9649
    @marchaoz9649 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's easier to ignore toxicity in a fighting game since the matches are quick and you can just quickly go to the next match even if the opponent is kicharging unlike team based games where you have to sit for almost an hour while your teammates are flaming you

  • @LaTaleFanatic1985
    @LaTaleFanatic1985 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This doesn't just apply to Tekken but to other fighters such as SF6 and so on. Either way, this was pretty helpful overall whenever playing your fighting game of choice whether it's 2D or 3D. 👍

    • @epicon6
      @epicon6 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Even applies to your mum. Deep

    • @watchmesquatch
      @watchmesquatch 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@epicon6 DIESOFCRINGE

    • @OctopusH2O
      @OctopusH2O 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@epicon6you’re 40 making 6th grade jokes 🤣

    • @epicon6
      @epicon6 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@OctopusH2O Yeah and?

  • @johnysimps1191
    @johnysimps1191 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah i just want to say that gane audio is going CRAZY

  • @neweartharmy3923
    @neweartharmy3923 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sure, having a positive mentality can be helpful but a lot of different factors come into play during the learning process in Tekken. If you're not comfortably playing at the highest online rank yet, then there is this constant doubt and fear that you're not improving fast enough, falling behind and losing against people who have put in way less time than you, ultimately leading to a situation where you feel that your own physical and mental limits will always keep you from ranking up further. And this is where I think the source for most of the frustration lies. I feel it too after a significant losing streak. Because spending a lot of time practicing and then being rewarded by losing more often really hammers home the futility of what you're doing and the time you could've spent on more productively. The rage stems from feelings of inadequacy, regret for the time spent as well as the very direct and blunt confrontation with these feelings when losing consistently. I think for that reason it's less stressful to be a complete Beginner and lose. Because you can always say: "I only lost because my opponent has more experience than me and I have barely spent any time with the game."

  • @maui954
    @maui954 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The only thing that gets me mad is when people one and done. They win the first game and when I know the mistake I made I can’t even apply it in the match because they quit out. And no it’s not my connection. They just genuinely don’t rematch and I’m playing a bottom 5 character…

  • @MegaMoonski
    @MegaMoonski 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Winner Talk right there homie! Like MJ#23

  • @kazamastylebatsurealmofbea6269
    @kazamastylebatsurealmofbea6269 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ive been getting kinda salty lately especially since I got demoted twice with 2 of the only characters im decent with steve and jun. I hate losing to players I know Im better than. It gets me heated

  • @km_1911
    @km_1911 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How to Deal With Toxicity.
    By: Toxicman
    😂

  • @benm2362
    @benm2362 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    anakin is way nicer than me man, if you get upset because your opponent is proud of themselves and celebrates their win id just say "idk man self reflect, figure out where your value comes from, consider therapy"

    • @EldritchMephi
      @EldritchMephi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have no value lol.

  • @shoyu_hashira9390
    @shoyu_hashira9390 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your thumbnail is hilarious

  • @shoyu_hashira9390
    @shoyu_hashira9390 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I only get mad, because A.v.g.n said that its best to express it in momemnt. But he also freaksout in every episode too, so there's that.

  • @LouStreets
    @LouStreets 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yo Anakin, how do you not get tilted? Be better than everyone else 🤣😊

  • @Nimblo-py4zd
    @Nimblo-py4zd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    can u turn down game volume in the future?

    • @TkAnakin
      @TkAnakin  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Will do

  • @call2arms
    @call2arms 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This thumbnail is so funny! LOLOLOL

  • @funkrates4778
    @funkrates4778 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I never get upset in Tekken but I can get annoyed. Dropping combos can be annoying. Also, weird game mechanics that put me in positions that I shouldn’t be in. I do, however, get upset in team games when my team members are terrible.

  • @zazenbo
    @zazenbo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thanks man

  • @Lipto1337
    @Lipto1337 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    imagine getting mad at a virtual character moving

  • @Ock_mantis
    @Ock_mantis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes i love running into toxic players. Because what usually happens is they try hard so bad. That they get predictable. At that point im just sitting and waiting for the salty flow chart. These types tend to have 0 def. So ill just sit and wait. Let them get comfortable spamming they lil shit and then. Im gonna find one thing i know they cant block. And im doing it over and over again. Tell they ither do somthing about or loose. Soon as they try to block i do somthing els and spam that. Basically i giving them exactly what they put out. And when i win..i will absolutely run it back to crush ur ass even harder. Cuz now i know exactly what your going for
    And of course im ending it with a bag and taunt when able.
    If I loose. All well, on to the next one. Could care less. That person had no interest in playing tekken. They was on somthing els. Strictly self gratification, no growth will happen for those players they will forever be stagnant. In game and in life. I'll pick what little I can from the experience and go to the next one.
    It's so satisfying lol

  • @roi-dzyl5870
    @roi-dzyl5870 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    anakin with the casual one & done at the end 😂

    • @TkAnakin
      @TkAnakin  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      MY BAD!

  • @Zenkai.boost.Kekkei.Genkai
    @Zenkai.boost.Kekkei.Genkai 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    pro players are immune to the online garbage cause they can easily destroy any online idiot

  • @Latino_Burrito
    @Latino_Burrito 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The reason you get annoyed when someone tbags you KI charges you and a bunch of other things is because you have preconceived expectations you put on yourself, and you want to believe you’re better than them so when you lose and they start taunting you, you get pissed off and you’re like “you’re taunting?! Bro you’re garbage run it back RIGHT NOW” then they one and done you because they know that’s just gonna piss you off even more. Leave your ego at the front door when playing ranked. The way I’ve always handled it is, don’t taunt back, just ignore them, because once you’re frustrated and annoyed you immediately lose the quality of your play and gameplan. Most trolls don’t wanna finish a set, they simply want to win game one, then leave. However once you beat them they always rematch because their hope is they can win game 2 and leave again because to them the only thing that matters is they leave on a high note for their ego. As always though if you’re just annoyed and not having fun take a break. Cuz at the end of the day the goal is to have fun and enjoy the game while you learn. 9 times out of 10 you can tell who’s gonna one and done you. EVERY troll that’s ever one and doned me in T8 I called it a mile away. They’d win game 1 and I’d sit there in my room and say out loud “I bet my life savings you’re gonna leave after game 1” and I was ALWAYS correct. But yeah, in general, take breaks, don’t let them get to you be the bigger person, if you really wanna get your revenge and make them salty in return you can only do that by keeping your head cool, play how you play and download them. Which isn’t too difficult cuz most trolls aren’t skilled players, they just want to abuse a gimmick and hope and pray you don’t know how to deal with it. So go beat their ass I believe in you!

  • @jacoblarson8113
    @jacoblarson8113 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this guy is a fucking G

  • @ajna513
    @ajna513 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "A goal is something you work for, it's not something you're entitled to."

  • @Triforcebro
    @Triforcebro 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kinda hard to take advice from someone who doesn't have to deal with anger or passion when losing.

  • @basilisk5620
    @basilisk5620 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Imagine getting tilted over losing rps

  • @Straaaayyyy
    @Straaaayyyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I only teabag when people use simplified controls or mash random buttons. I don’t understand how you expect getting better in this game playing like this

  • @R3alcheezy15
    @R3alcheezy15 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ,You lil Majin ,phidx,shinblade my fav players

  • @TheBoneCharmer93
    @TheBoneCharmer93 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People are getting salty over that nowadays? What do they also get annoyed when the opponent hits a combo? lmao

  • @LudenTK
    @LudenTK 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you're going to lose, bottom line.
    How you take that loss is on you.
    If you're losing to scrubby stuff, that ain't nobodys fault but your own. However, if you just accept that you messed up and dedicate time to fix it, its only up from there.
    You gotta handle loss before you can get better, getting pissy at loss only makes it worse, hence taking breaks when you get mad, which is just healthy in general.
    Good vid Anakin, as always.

  • @aghilesbessad6946
    @aghilesbessad6946 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How to deal with toxicity? Update to software 7.0

  • @ItsJpex
    @ItsJpex 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Editor needs a demotion for that intro 😅

    • @TkAnakin
      @TkAnakin  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m fired 😓

  • @malcolmhall8872
    @malcolmhall8872 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shirt answer: grow up. Its just a game. Lol

  • @Fatah3.14
    @Fatah3.14 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    هذا هو التراشق.. فهم يختلفون على أشياء و يتفقون على شيء و هو العدو المشترك الإسلام السني

  • @oZiiix
    @oZiiix 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    TLDR if you get tilted by ki charge you're mentally weak.

  • @Kujomon28
    @Kujomon28 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I only tbag when I get a nice comeback on braindead mashers

  • @marcvigar6396
    @marcvigar6396 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't hear shit.

  • @wolfmanjack9959
    @wolfmanjack9959 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    5:42 fool talks about not caring about rank, and you shouldn’t care about it and then proceeds to not finish a set. Every high rank clown says the same thing and does this when they almost loss their win streak.

    • @utubeisawsomeify
      @utubeisawsomeify 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      3 frame delay wifi is why he ain’t rematch

    • @Deathhead198
      @Deathhead198 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      We found the wifi warrior amongst us….
      No but for real even if I manage a win against someone with shitty internet/ping I won’t rematch. Idk how someone can play or want to play with over 100 ping

    • @wolfmanjack9959
      @wolfmanjack9959 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Deathhead198 hey fool, I couldn’t see the Wi-Fi icon in the corner because of the subgoals covering over it. Get off my back.

    • @ko-yoshi
      @ko-yoshi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      consider trying to understand why he might one and done instead of immediately calling him a fool and lumping him in with clowns. ppl will jump on ya when you’re negative AND wrong

    • @wolfmanjack9959
      @wolfmanjack9959 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ko-yoshi i’m not perfect like you I make mistakes.

  • @watchmesquatch
    @watchmesquatch 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If you get mad at fighting games, you will always get mad at fighting games. It's who you are. No epiphany is going to suddenly hit you, making you less angry at the game. BUT you can learn when to walk away before the anger takes hold.

    • @burn_Burn_BURNNN
      @burn_Burn_BURNNN 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      hard disagree, you can definitely learn to keep your cool.

    • @watchmesquatch
      @watchmesquatch 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@burn_Burn_BURNNN never seen it, and seeing is believing.

    • @bloomerz9020
      @bloomerz9020 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      damn 😔 this comment hits too hard

    • @FerventFourEyes
      @FerventFourEyes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I disagree, but you're onto something with the last part

    • @karllcorlins1434
      @karllcorlins1434 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When I was a kid playing tekken 6, I used to pull my hair out. People can change now I'm probably the most chill in my house with fighting games.

  • @TheSidekickking
    @TheSidekickking 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    lol say the guy who get salty when lost a tournament lmaoo smh

    • @azteckjumbie9344
      @azteckjumbie9344 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Everyone has this thing called emotions ..

    • @mafelion6901
      @mafelion6901 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Why is this guy trying to make anakin mad or smth? I saw his previous comments, and I was like.. Wtf lol

    • @dj_tlox3534
      @dj_tlox3534 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I never knew people actually needed attention this bad 🤣

    • @julienloriaux1823
      @julienloriaux1823 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Welll yeah sure I mean , losing a tournament for hundreds of thousand of dollars and losing in ranked on your couch is the same thing 💀

    • @utubeisawsomeify
      @utubeisawsomeify 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thousands of dollars, sponsorship opportunities, brand partnerships + more are on the line. Can’t compare that to a rank PNG

  • @tristentamatea4325
    @tristentamatea4325 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @lowtiergod