The Pains Of Marrying A Stingy Person - The Benjamin Zulu Show

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  • @sarahnyambura1634
    @sarahnyambura1634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Zulu's wife dresses him very well!

  • @BantuLioness
    @BantuLioness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I was married to a very stingy man. It was very painful

  • @clare_jordin
    @clare_jordin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    ‘A very small TV you have to close one eye to see it’ hahahahahahahaha that statement has finished me 🤣🤣🤣

  • @msjo1jjjandt821
    @msjo1jjjandt821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    People who bargained until are embarrassed. This is a real quality of a selfish person, watch out. Thanks always Benjamin Zulu 👏🏽

  • @patiencempirirwe5449
    @patiencempirirwe5449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I once dated a guy who would watch closely his card everytime he would hand it over to the cashier,it was so embarrassing, he thought everyone wanted to cheat him,he never spent anything on me,anyway I ran away from him.

    • @yasnyne
      @yasnyne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Smart move

  • @joanshee1816
    @joanshee1816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    If you are dating a man and still doing all your bills and treatments normally why do you even have him at the first place 😂

  • @binti_jannet
    @binti_jannet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Once dated a stingy and jealous man. You cannot grow in peace. Benjamin you're right

    • @homeoffavours
      @homeoffavours ปีที่แล้ว

      Mimi i married, aki mhh its hell on earth

  • @ireenshapi6871
    @ireenshapi6871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wow this is great Benjamin continue educating our young ones. By the way nice suit.it is the green for me

  • @sparklesparkle9352
    @sparklesparkle9352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I have dated someone for 7 years snd her has never given me any money. I.was.so.stupid that he tricked me into downing projects together but he never gives me any proceeds from the businesses! Recently he said his afraid that when he gives me money, I might end up giving it to other people because am too kind!😢. This man goes crazy when I give my family money including my parents. I am now doing my own projects under cover.

    • @elizabethmuhuga9512
      @elizabethmuhuga9512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Run

    • @lilianthuo8446
      @lilianthuo8446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You've dated for 7 years,,,??? You have a problem too

    • @kiniyabh8646
      @kiniyabh8646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😳😳dating for 7yrs 🤔what were you studying in that relationship, you only date for 1year if it's too long

    • @sparklesparkle9352
      @sparklesparkle9352 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lilianthuo8446 it became completed when I had a child with him. You then start thinking let me stay for the child's sake. Your right I totally fucked up my life . My son is now 5 years old

    • @sparklesparkle9352
      @sparklesparkle9352 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kiniyabh8646 silly me got pregnant and had a baby after 1 year. It became so difficult to leave the relationship.

  • @mollywambui5360
    @mollywambui5360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I once dated a guy who would start an argument coz I have "left soup on my plate" 🤦‍♀️. His phone would go off because the back cover was loose so he would restart it severally in one afternoon and he refused to buy a new phone. He was earning a six-figure salary. I ran and never looked back.

    • @yasnyne
      @yasnyne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are 1st class student

    • @gracewaithira7000
      @gracewaithira7000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂hiyo part ya simu imenimaliza

    • @Girlygirl24
      @Girlygirl24 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wah🙆

  • @ritahsworld608
    @ritahsworld608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    One dislike is from a stingy man lol

  • @faithamanto4999
    @faithamanto4999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Zulu your star is shinning.....
    Umenitoa mbali

  • @stayhealthywithdot9969
    @stayhealthywithdot9969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you for the advice. Please talk more on this topic. I think some people do not realise that they have stingy tendancies probably because of the environment they grew up in.

  • @RoseMary-fe2pu
    @RoseMary-fe2pu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    🤣🤣😆😆haki Zulu sometimes you sounds funny but it's the realities.. your preparing Bramwel ...I like your dress code 👌👌👌

  • @msjo1jjjandt821
    @msjo1jjjandt821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    They will hold you back from developing. Am a living witness of this particular point. Am fighting my way out of that marriage now.

    • @tetelomampe3064
      @tetelomampe3064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sending love and strength towards you dear❤❤

    • @veronicahndungu4353
      @veronicahndungu4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sad.

    • @msjo1jjjandt821
      @msjo1jjjandt821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tetelomampe3064 thanks so much 👏🏽

    • @msjo1jjjandt821
      @msjo1jjjandt821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@veronicahndungu4353 yes it is very sad.

    • @yasnyne
      @yasnyne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good luck

  • @AnikaDavidson
    @AnikaDavidson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Benjamin did not talk enough about the stingy men in this video.

  • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
    @durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sex outside marriage is either, fornication or adultery or child abuse or perversion says the Word of God.

  • @Gracia_Habibi
    @Gracia_Habibi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The jungle green suit is cute Benjamin

  • @okeyocynthia3114
    @okeyocynthia3114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    L can relate to that Benjamin my boss is too stingy and to make it worse the wife also is stingy too so l wonder 🤔🤔🤔🤔how they met, l have worked for them for five years now and there's no achievement or Even, change l had to stood up and stand on my own decision and leave for a better job to be able to achieve my goals,, what you said it's true and l really learned from it, because staying or even working for a stingy person drows you back and you will be die in pain and agony, you're good mentor, l love your talks, 🤝🤝🤝🤝🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏may God bless you🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @estherphilip7211
    @estherphilip7211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Facts .....my sister is married to a stingy man no progress at all .when she suggests they buy something like furniture's the husband says no need 😭😭😭😭I feel so bad for her

  • @easybaby5296
    @easybaby5296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thumbs up for the wise man Mr Zulu

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great vibes

  • @blessedchosen1582
    @blessedchosen1582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Looking smart mr. Zulu. Appreciation to your beautiful wife

  • @wananotsetse853
    @wananotsetse853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Go on Zulu 🇧🇼🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jenniffermueni
    @jenniffermueni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The micro 2 bedroom aki zimejaa. so our landlords are stingy 🤣

  • @peakiematthew9312
    @peakiematthew9312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh! my gosh, I can't stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣 very interesting topic

  • @maimapassawe7822
    @maimapassawe7822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so true!

  • @rayrayndiema
    @rayrayndiema 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First for once in the comment section. Maybe because this topic is one of my BIGGEST fears but somehow I have found myself in a relationship na mtu big G

  • @rutholudhe5956
    @rutholudhe5956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    am alwayz happy to be here

  • @ethankiprop781
    @ethankiprop781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yaani MTU anashona slippers...and he earns half m monthly. He bargains... Woi woi

  • @wangarivirginia9547
    @wangarivirginia9547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bramwell ilike your trauser good quality👌

  • @tinachristine4573
    @tinachristine4573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was just chatting about this with a girlfriend 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rispathequeen
    @rispathequeen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am used in this class l end up too laughing.

  • @sandrasitole4224
    @sandrasitole4224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    its painful, yesterday i asked my boyfriend for R100 to add on to what i have so that i can go see a doctor. He said no! lol.....

  • @supervisoryclassmalindi6435
    @supervisoryclassmalindi6435 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do not mess because of anger. Kali sana

  • @kagoyaasinati578
    @kagoyaasinati578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love and giving move hand in hand

  • @irenewachira1584
    @irenewachira1584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good advice full of wisdom ,good sense of humor to pass very serious issues,thanks mr Benjamin Zulu for that and God bless yu .Try to laugh less .

  • @maureenmbugua1978
    @maureenmbugua1978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Zulu 😘😘😘😘😘

  • @knowledgeonnarcissisim5210
    @knowledgeonnarcissisim5210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    But just a question is it Okey for a man to go out there and help with fundraising but can't give even 100bob for kids upkeep?

    • @joycekimani2073
      @joycekimani2073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Narcissist alert!!!!!!

    • @elizabethmuhuga9512
      @elizabethmuhuga9512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Narcissist wants to look good outside but in the house demon

    • @mollywambui5360
      @mollywambui5360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      charity begins at home. That man isn't generous, he is just managing his image.

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Charity must always start at home

    • @melvineowango6747
      @melvineowango6747 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Charity begins at home,very well stated madam

  • @wisdomlife
    @wisdomlife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Following....

  • @ethankiprop781
    @ethankiprop781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Drunk purchases... I spent some 30k kwa supaa...kwa snacks na sijui mini...regret

  • @clarecheche8423
    @clarecheche8423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a very stingy husband…

  • @rabut.j.1829
    @rabut.j.1829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Naked truth 🙂.....waaaaah...more about this topic Benjamin

  • @leahwaweru7056
    @leahwaweru7056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Most stingy men give Roly pop.

  • @ritahsworld608
    @ritahsworld608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Talk about stingy men almost 90% of the video is about women

  • @judyadoyo8098
    @judyadoyo8098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How about stingy men?

  • @Madukaokeukwa
    @Madukaokeukwa ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mrsgondwe
    @mrsgondwe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sex before marriage is pure lust not love making
    Sexually infatuation

  • @elainehope4841
    @elainehope4841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The studio deco is clashing - the host makes it funny too looking guilty

    • @brilliantmind9729
      @brilliantmind9729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kwenda uko. Kafungue studio yako. Wivu itakuua.

    • @maryjulius2863
      @maryjulius2863 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brilliantmind9729 V for violence 😂

  • @christinebarasa3359
    @christinebarasa3359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I once had such a guy, he was very stincy, burgaining even sickness.

  • @jonesjois3169
    @jonesjois3169 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dated 4 2 yrs & he never gifted me anything....Relationship...realm of sharing ....Run...reduce the agony🤩

  • @feliciaindimuli8442
    @feliciaindimuli8442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Whey is the host faking the laugh like that and it's s serious topic bana anyway love your wisdom Benjamin

    • @PhiloLutta
      @PhiloLutta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i dont believe Bramwel is faking anything. I have watched many shows with him and Zulu..and I equally laugh that way..cos the things Zulu ie explaining are both funny but really serious..and the way he explains them..with humour and seriousness,,which person can't help laughing?

    • @samanadine5001
      @samanadine5001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PhiloLutta the host is Brawel....he is just co presenting with zulu

  • @naretmamagidado3506
    @naretmamagidado3506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4dislikes from stingy men association of Africa.