In The Waiting Room- What to Say and What Not to Say.

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  • While we battle with infertility and childlessness, dozens of suggestions are brought to our attention. Some littered with an aura of scorn and others a genuine plea to ameliorate the condition. As one looks in retrospect, you feel you have been a fruitless person. You walk with the burden of the stigma-lensed society weighing down on your shoulders. A feeling of insignificance malignantly hangs over your troubled soul. Could it be that some friends or family genuinely want to help but they have no idea just how to? You are welcome to join in the discussion and share your views with us.
    #HadassaTrip, #Kambua, #Tabby #waitingwombstrust

ความคิดเห็น • 219

  • @ireneachieng5648
    @ireneachieng5648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I used to cry secretly during children dedication in church. But I still trusted in God for His perfect time. I am now a mother of two beautiful girls.

    • @Omi1865
      @Omi1865 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Praise God. Faithful is His name.

    • @evolvetrue816
      @evolvetrue816 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      AW Glory to God

  • @milkahmwangi1178
    @milkahmwangi1178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    This reminds of my cousin she had lost 9 pregnancies it was very hard for her but when God visited her she is now a mother of 4.my prayer to every waiting lady may God bless them at His own time

  • @kambua
    @kambua 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Thank you Hadassa. It is an honor walking this journey with you. I pray that God will continue to use us to encourage, lift, and educate others on the waiting journey. Tabby, we celebrate what the Lord has done 🙌🏾

    • @waitingwombstrust953
      @waitingwombstrust953  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen 🙏. Thanks dear Kambua, it’s an honor serving with you. Praying for you too . May The Lord meet you at your exact points of need always.

    • @cerlinemwadeghu5616
      @cerlinemwadeghu5616 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kambua you are a testimony

  • @maggiewangari
    @maggiewangari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Someone once said,when you see God blessing your friend,family member or anyone around you,feel encouraged that the God who did it for them will also do it for you.. keeping on waiting friends💓

  • @Kelly-ek7fh
    @Kelly-ek7fh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Waiting can be painful. I remember one time I had to quit job after I lost my baby and the questions were too unbearable 😒😒. Luckily God answered my prayers am now a proud mother of a very healthy baby. To those waiting don't give up.

  • @tabbiemwas7478
    @tabbiemwas7478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Power of tongue..am encouraged by Kambua's husband calling her mother of his beautiful children n talking to her intestines....Tabbie u a beautiful soul namesake..You shall carry ur babies to terms n raise them in the Lord.
    Hadasa u r awesome soul... yesterday after watching the video shortly I fell asleep n dreamt ur wumb is blessed n a voice told me am next in line..may this came to pass soonest.
    Loving the Room

  • @gracewairimu9567
    @gracewairimu9567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    May God visit all of us ladies in waiting

  • @revloism.manundu9228
    @revloism.manundu9228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I hear you girls, I hear you. I am a Pastor and I know we have failed the waiting wombs. For sure we need to encourage them. May the Lord help us. You are great women with a great ministry not only for waiting wombs but to all of us. God bless you 💕🙏

  • @ladydee5573
    @ladydee5573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The journey of infertility is sooo... painful....May our Good Lord 🙏🙏🙏 remember us

  • @annettesinafq1019
    @annettesinafq1019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Kambua u were in my prayer list every time ,I really had your burden I give God all the glory,when u got ur first child I was happy ungethani niyangu. Indeed we serve a living God.nikwa neemaa tu

  • @BeattaBeatrice
    @BeattaBeatrice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Waiting Wombs Trust thank you for holding my hand,After suffering two miscarriages,and failing to conceive again, I've been following your page and getting encouraged.Finally God did it again and we're 2months pregnant.If I had to make a wish to God, It would be God to bless the beautiful heart I've ever met(Editah Hadassa). You're amazing dear and I pray my wish to come true. Can't wait to share my story one day.God bless you all.

    • @waitingwombstrust953
      @waitingwombstrust953  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen! Thank you so much.

    • @rhinakiza
      @rhinakiza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen praise God almighty 🙌 🙏 ❤

    • @joanchepkirui3052
      @joanchepkirui3052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omari.... Congratulations and God bless you

  • @sharonnzuki2747
    @sharonnzuki2747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I wish the whole world would know the phrase, "you will get other babies" is the most horrific and traumatic thing you can tell a grieving mom. It breaks the heart a million pieces! I personally could do everything and anything to have the baby I lost leave alone the others that The Lord will bring

  • @sarahkaranjajoe
    @sarahkaranjajoe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Am standing on the gap for my friend who I won't mention her name.May God remember her.Amen.

  • @wambuiWaOchieng
    @wambuiWaOchieng 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    God is faithful my second pregnancy after 13years, I'm forever greaful

  • @waihiga124
    @waihiga124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    1 Samuel 1:8
    Her husband Elkanah would say to her, "Hannah, why are you weeping? Why don't you eat? Why are you downhearted? DON'T I MEAN MORE TO YOU THAN TEN SONS?"
    Let us agree that husbands wanakuanga in a special class of their own - all husbands. They see and process issues very differently when it comes to many issues including waiting wombs.

  • @sarahnyambuu
    @sarahnyambuu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ministry of Silence.... This is what we need in church and society in general

  • @sylviaforest3001
    @sylviaforest3001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am really loving this lady Tabby finally a kenyan who was on waiting telling us how she did it...she researched about it and told the doctor what to do this information i really love may Tabby be blessed and may she have a healthy delivery ❤️

  • @verahbenson
    @verahbenson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Waiting is haaaaard... questions from friends and family are harder, but in His own time, he makes things beautiful..
    Psalms 127:3 Children are an heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is His reward...
    May the Lord bless all waiting wombs
    Hadassah, you doing a great job and God shall surely reward you for that..keep doing it..

  • @valarynmakhamara8859
    @valarynmakhamara8859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hadassah I pray for You .God is doing it sooon .and to All waiting wombs out here .Thanks for this Chanel

  • @davidogweno5427
    @davidogweno5427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A wise man once said that the heart knows its own bitterness and no stranger can share it's joys. I love the conversations: seasoned with experience, wisdom and grace. Hadassah, you are a blessing for hosting this platform. Through the testimonies of grief, despair, hurt, pain and encouraging conception and childbirth stories, you bring hope to many and educate us as a society on how compassionate we all need to be. May God remember you. Keep up the good work, your labor is not in vain - 1 Corinthians 15:58.

  • @eunicematano8440
    @eunicematano8440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with you Hadassah it's in church where instead of them giving you hope...they break you down into peaces so bad chirstians not all of them but some.May God help the church.

  • @Heaven_Bound
    @Heaven_Bound 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Mothers in waiting...💪🏽🙏🏽
    We serve a faithful & understanding God...

    • @Ed-wt8hp
      @Ed-wt8hp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

  • @jw8856
    @jw8856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Dear God . Please let haddasah’s time come soon . As somebody who waited for years before getting a baby, the wait can be so hard .

  • @margaretodirah5797
    @margaretodirah5797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    In His own time, He will make my time beautiful

  • @ruthwagathu8282
    @ruthwagathu8282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I continue watching these episodes as I trust God for some good friends of mine. I know God will remember them some day!

  • @lisamuthoni2900
    @lisamuthoni2900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This journey is not for the faint hearted by the Lord stands with us & strengthens us to keep holding on to His promises which is yes &Amen

  • @maureennjunge9510
    @maureennjunge9510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    May all the waiting wombs receive hope that comes from above, you are enough!! Always was and always will be. His timing is perfect. God bless you all❤️❤️

  • @gracekimani627
    @gracekimani627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    At His own time He makes everything beautiful.

  • @cardiobush9672
    @cardiobush9672 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May God answer the prayers of all waiting wombs.

  • @rosalesabrahams732
    @rosalesabrahams732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You remind me of how I carried a dead baby for 3 days waiting for my delivery 😪😪😪
    I thank God I came out alive though
    Hopefully God will bless me with another angel soon

  • @Kruzanzinza
    @Kruzanzinza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kambua and Tabby am so happy for you and Hadassah the Lord sees, thank you for this beautiful platform... Tabby you reminded me of my prayer to God to use me... 3 ectopics later a miscarriage and a handsome boy later, He is still using me and I have grown to appreciate the opportunity to be an encouragement to others

  • @joymutiga3219
    @joymutiga3219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love this Tabby. She is so full of life and glowing

  • @miriammutanu5722
    @miriammutanu5722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kambua i saw your story,how you warned people from questioning why you are not getting a baby and they don't know your battles,I prayed for you.And had trust that you going to come back with a testimony 🙏. Am happy for God mamifested like immediately .
    Thank you lord for answering my prayer to you'

  • @wanjathairu7919
    @wanjathairu7919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tabby you look so beautiful in your pregnancy and outfit and the purple colour scheme dresscode is Ur all wearing is amaaaazing , such an encouraging show av learnt alot am watching this at 3am , thanks Kambua he's a miracle working God

  • @rhinakiza
    @rhinakiza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am glad to find this, I am waiting for right husband dear Jesus hear my prayers 🙏 🧎🏼‍♀️🧎🏼‍♀️🧎🏼‍♀️

  • @medrinenyambura284
    @medrinenyambura284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow so educative trusting GOD for giving me children,had fibroids and wrre removed I believe Jesus will do it for me

  • @cleodee7288
    @cleodee7288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As for the church. I love my church Parklands Baptist church. When I lost my 3week old son they really walked with me and supported me. Two years later God restored my sorrow and gave me another boy and we celebrated more with the pastor and counsellors I walked with. More than even my own family it's one of the few amazing churches I know

  • @lenaviator85
    @lenaviator85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ministry of silence I love that

  • @brendamutuku8491
    @brendamutuku8491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    oh my sisters i cant say that i understand cos i cant understand what you guys have been through i really feel for mums who battle infertility and childlessness...i have friends who are battling the same but what i know Gods time is always the best wait for God

  • @Minnie718
    @Minnie718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yes Tabs..If u hear from God there are things you wouldn't say to people...I feel that so deep!

  • @marykibunja1912
    @marykibunja1912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sure church break alot of people's hearts not only for waiting ladies
    I love this talk my 1st time but yeeah love it

  • @sarahnyambuu
    @sarahnyambuu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am encouraged... "My womb is not anyone's business"

  • @candidtalkswithlauvena1835
    @candidtalkswithlauvena1835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Praying for Sis Hadassah, beautiful part of your story I personally believe that the Lord has a beautiful reason for your journey, I wonder how it would had been if he had not allowed this in your path, your passion for waiting woumb wouldn't have been born, and He know that only you can do this ministry. .to Mrs Kanbua and Mrs Tabi may the Lord continue to protect you and bless your families ❤️💕💖
    I love you so much ss 💖💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @mwariwambuthia1081
    @mwariwambuthia1081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Woiihhh,this is what i really needed to hear.They have called me names starting fro barren,aborter,ad i dont know which is remaining.Having fibroids removed and the healing journey was not easy. Aki its a journey that the walkers know the pain.

    • @serahmaneno7614
      @serahmaneno7614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      take heart dear nko na shida kama hiyo but our GOD is faithfully lets not loss hope

    • @judithkawira7018
      @judithkawira7018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Take heart sister am also going through this kind of situation,having fibroids removed and regrown in my womb its discouraging.but I trust God I will be a mother one day.

    • @judithnyaboke4112
      @judithnyaboke4112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May the almighty God come through for you in a mighty way.You will soon testify in Jesus Name

    • @mwariwambuthia1081
      @mwariwambuthia1081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@judithnyaboke4112 asante

  • @maureenmacharia5164
    @maureenmacharia5164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    New to this channel, so glad I bumped into it. In as much as the talk is in relation to infertility and childlessness ...I have been ministered “waiting” in other aspects of life. And yes, grief is there, mental health is challenged but I am choosing hope and faith alive. Be blessed.

  • @mercywangui9645
    @mercywangui9645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is powerful and I have learnt alot especially being sensitive to women in this situation.

  • @moureenndunda9370
    @moureenndunda9370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God has already approved lets leave the process to God.🙏Thanks ladies

  • @tabbiemwas7478
    @tabbiemwas7478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kambua the encouraging words.Jehova sees me as enough n He is in business of miracles.i am one waiting for the baby now

  • @eunicewangari5607
    @eunicewangari5607 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my Waiting My husband told me no one manufatures children it's God who bless so no one should bother you that alone gave me strength and courage to carry on.Ladies im happy for your journey.

  • @susanmosago6056
    @susanmosago6056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i love that part of ministry of silence.....

  • @carolinekarimi6832
    @carolinekarimi6832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    May God bless u wonderful ladies ...n those too are waiting God has the final say ,his blessings wil eventually come...amen God open my womb too

  • @maryndegwa6822
    @maryndegwa6822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very encouraging waiting for my second born now its 12 years and I am trusting God.

  • @gladysmwangi22
    @gladysmwangi22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This tabby lady is quite a vibe nimempenda

  • @SM-th6cm
    @SM-th6cm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for the discussion
    I really felt when they discussed on church ignoring this waiting time ...yes you are not a youth, and you're married yet you don't have kids,then where do you stand🤔

  • @ephy.g.abuto1459
    @ephy.g.abuto1459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow! The music sends a cold chill all over me. Hakika ni kwa neema. Thank you Jesus.

  • @gracekariungi3625
    @gracekariungi3625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We went for premarital counseling at St.Andrews pcea and am glad there was a topic on parenting and childlessness

    • @elsiewanjiru5423
      @elsiewanjiru5423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Grace would you have a copy of the premarital counseling manual . Or would you connect me to a leader or your premarital and counseling pastor who can assist us with the manual to improve our premarital curriculum . Thank

  • @edanangila6912
    @edanangila6912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Waiting upon the lord for marriage

  • @nyasanjeofficial
    @nyasanjeofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The singing at the beginning...goood Loooord!!!!!!!

  • @rosebelljuma6500
    @rosebelljuma6500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Church leaders should also be called on set and educated that their is a gap.

    • @waitingwombstrust953
      @waitingwombstrust953  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True. We are working on creating awareness even in churches. They need to get this important message too

    • @rosebelljuma6500
      @rosebelljuma6500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It has really got to me when they speak about baby dedication and we should remember waiting wombs.

    • @faithmumbi
      @faithmumbi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @susanmuthoni2937
    @susanmuthoni2937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    God is indeed faithful and at His own time he does wonders ,blessed by this platform am also a waiting womb.

    • @susanmuthoni2937
      @susanmuthoni2937 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tendai Amen amen ,I receive in Jesus name .

  • @ruthgitau1285
    @ruthgitau1285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow...!am encouraged and believing God for the fruit of my womb.He'll make everything beautifl in it's tyme.

  • @lucygeorge5609
    @lucygeorge5609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been in waiting room for 4years suffered s miscarriage, but God has remembered me this year am 4months pregnant, may God remember everyone who is in waiting for a Blessing 🙇

  • @yrimu1
    @yrimu1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So happy for these two women...i resonate 100%with Tabitha

  • @verahbellah2465
    @verahbellah2465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these cute ladies...good words of encouragement....... Kudoz ladies...more blessing on your ways ladies...

  • @helgaouma
    @helgaouma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Waiting Wombs is always a blessing to me. Each video comes with a lesson, a correction and an encouragement. Be blessed ladies🙏❤️

  • @Gshixs
    @Gshixs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen, the God who sees (Jehovah Elohim) is still working behind the scenes. Great testimonies ladies.

  • @annwanyoike8165
    @annwanyoike8165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so deep, appear and be silent

  • @doreenwairimu2572
    @doreenwairimu2572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This topic is so so so encouraging for anyone waiting on God even for any other blessing....I am blessed

  • @marynjuguna7795
    @marynjuguna7795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He's a faithful God.. Indeed we serve a living God. Congratulations Tabby and Kambua

  • @ENjesh
    @ENjesh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the encouragement and educative video. Am not a waiting womb, but am waiting in other aspects.

  • @lucywambui1598
    @lucywambui1598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hadassah was my neighbour.. I am so proud of you.. You are blessing so many others..

  • @queenexellent9854
    @queenexellent9854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My friend lost 8 pregnancies.i never thought or imagine i will be next.my own sister told me since you have money ,why can't you buy babies?i was so hurt .its a painful journey

  • @ruthwanjiru8738
    @ruthwanjiru8738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey,this is what i needed to hear,blessed women in deed, thanks for encouragements.I had to subscribe.

  • @lillianomondi8033
    @lillianomondi8033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God is really faithful. I am so happy for Tabitha

  • @esthermungai9332
    @esthermungai9332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Take home be a listening ear and minister in silence if you have nothing hopeful to say we give God the glory for the miracles and more on the way🙏

  • @marymuthoni4525
    @marymuthoni4525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much I am a waiting womb

  • @berylallando
    @berylallando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Hadassa, Kambua and Tabby for this beautiful and enlightening conversation😊
    May God continually abundantly bless y'all🙏

  • @mtuwetu3728
    @mtuwetu3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    God is God he is faithfull still waiting from him

  • @marionogada2677
    @marionogada2677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this interview ladies, such an eye opener, very informative and educative, Thank you Tabby and Kambua for being open and saying the things we all wish we could say out loud....you have ministered to alot of women. Hadassah, may God continue to empower you and your team to continue ministering. You are a blessing.

  • @annitahkirumba9975
    @annitahkirumba9975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I say waiting its like God want to give us something good like the biggest reward after the wait,my waiting is different but when i see other people progress in what ive been praying for sometimes i'm envious and then i say if God can do that to them then He can do it to me.

  • @betsyk.9780
    @betsyk.9780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful talk! May the church arise and take it's place in so many areas of brokenness... more ministries should be birthed.

  • @dianamuthoka3691
    @dianamuthoka3691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow...God is indeed faithful🙏💃💞💞

  • @Crabtree1844
    @Crabtree1844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen. Praise be to God.

  • @wanjakaranja5295
    @wanjakaranja5295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amazing testimonies.. I have wore that shoes n i feel your joy already

  • @Minnie718
    @Minnie718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Jehovah who sees!With you on my side ..I know I am Enough.

  • @abigaeledward4165
    @abigaeledward4165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Good conversation ladies

  • @makausarana
    @makausarana 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even though I'm not in the exact boat this was so eye opening and encouraging. Like Tabby was saying we all have different storms we are always facing. Mungu awabariki note🥰🥰

  • @nitflexx8745
    @nitflexx8745 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was left Cz "i took long". I was then introduced to seeing a doctor which i was given meds to "boost" but never worked. I went for tests, hsg and another one can't remember the name.. Which showed I'm perfect. Anyway this journey is very hard. As long as God is on the throne... Things will be okay for the waiting wombs.

  • @gracemasava3745
    @gracemasava3745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God is really faithful..

  • @medrinenyambura284
    @medrinenyambura284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tabby you are amazing

  • @leocadiahosore7996
    @leocadiahosore7996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love being part of this forum, you educate and inspire many sisters and brothers in waiting...

  • @callensausi2076
    @callensausi2076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The intro 💕😊😊

  • @carolinesome3506
    @carolinesome3506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wow. this is so amazing. it's very very educative.. i am a mum but i have learnt so much. thank you..

  • @elizabethndoka4172
    @elizabethndoka4172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great conversation ladies, His time...

  • @elizabethmodani1414
    @elizabethmodani1414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God will bless them that process is very painful only God can understand He gives you a baby when you least expect

  • @matildaabwok4529
    @matildaabwok4529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you hear from God.... There are things you don't say..... This is so deep

  • @susanmosago6056
    @susanmosago6056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    very nice discussions... such great testimonies

  • @Sella41223
    @Sella41223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing this information ladies!

  • @muuwowambua1310
    @muuwowambua1310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so educative....thanks gals for coming through. This is so timely ...

  • @gracewambui2796
    @gracewambui2796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you ladies. Amen