There are even those who bring 30% ,and they are morethan hell , their leadership is verbal always trying to remind how they are the leader of the family,
You have spoken well and everything you said is the truth Benjamin, God bless you for the good work. Am watching you and Bramwel from Ghana , keep it up
Couldn't miss the Live,no destructions of Ads🥰. If you are a stingy man or woman,stay away from marriage💯 Love is about Generosity(Sacrificial generosity) But one should be Subtle❗ Thank you Sir for the Fountain of wisdom🙌
What a great session! I love it when Benjamin describes a healthy relationship! Those simple examples about how a couple in a healthy relationship manage money was fantastic!
Wow, what an Excellent topic it was today, have learnt and unlearn alot Thank you for always destroying our own ignorance and fill us with knowledge we need in our lifes . Asante sana be blessed
Well said Benjamin, wish young couples and those aspiring to marry should watch your content. This is a platform that empowers men and women with matters that a lot of people don't want to talk about. Keep up the good work Mr Zulu, God bless you. You say it raw as it is...... telling the naked truth
That’s the problem we have with some marriages! Sprinting bills , even when a woman is feeling unwell or have a newborn nobody to pay her bills unless she borrows 😁 America is the best place for investment however marriages are breaking every day. No love no respect.
I love the words of the wise,I agree with the verse that ladies who have put up something are not very hard to maintain but they want to see if the man can also add something to the family. But I don't know why men tend to get scared of this.and these ladies are very nice and not expensive to maintain coz they can also add something.
I really needed this... thanks Mr Benjamin n Bram.... I love Bram how he acts as a listener and never interupts. I think it helps ur fountain of wisdom to flow freely. Thanks again Bram . ( I also learn English.and words pronouncation...like today .. subtle.... I was doing it wrong. Thanks be blessed. Always happy n longing for new shows)
Good topic....we need to take charge and women follow..its a good topic...possibly next time u can include cultural innuendos that compromise our thought processes in relationships
Sometimes men can lead by not trying to- think of it this way-a man who is relaxed and generous ELICITS warmth and affection from a woman because her heart opens up to him and she WANTS to dote on him. She will defer to him andnfuss over him because his warm and giving nature continuously attracts her and turns her on. Generous and reasonable men who are not controlling are like catnip to women
What are you enjoying in your money as a woman if the first expenses do not go to your basic needs and the basic needs of your family if you are married? A marriage is a partnership not a kupe lifestyle!
Can someone help me with this issue please? I've met a man who is much older with 4 kids from previous marriage & relationship. I don't have any. Now he proposes me the marriage but only if I sign a prenup. In this marriage contract he wants to protect all he had before marriage (he wants to give it all to his kids and protect himself). After marriage he wants to buy a place for us but I need to contribute to it financially. In case of divorce I can only keep my part and his part goes for his adult kids. I don't feel it's fair. What would you advice me?
@@leahnkg That's what I wanted to do but now he changed his mind and no need for prenup. He found out that the law protects his assets from before martiage. Somehow I don't feel same way as before...
Run! This guy just wants to use you, and probably exhaust you financially, emotionally and even physically. If you agree to that then it will send him signals that you are needy, desperate for marriage to the point where you can do anything to be married. Are you getting me? Please rethink on this issue, but my instincts are right
He wants a nanny for his kids and a warm body to have intimacy with you have no value to him beyond that. Why marry someone with that many kids? Don’t you want kids if your own?
@Tyty Partridge Thank you for your reply. I haven't found anyone to trust enough to have a family with. And now I'm even more convinced not to have any. It turns out that he was seeing a few other women at the same time. Another bad apple in a messy dating world. I finished it off
Please help me answer this,i have a guy who says he loves me and i love him too he want to marry me but the problem is he does not give me money( am working and take care of myself but i just need him to show atleast he cares)he wants me to join money together to start a business i dont knnow what to do.
Don't join money with him for business UNLESS you get a lawyer to make legal documents showing u as part owner of the business incase the relationship ends, he won't take everything. Many black men use women for their resources.
"Life is hardship by itself, don't marry a hardship" i like this, well spoken Benjamin
Yes !..Can men underline that word...A woman wants a man who has "sensitivity"...I just love the way you hit it right ❤️
And i quote,"If you bring in 50/50, don't consider yourself a leader"
Absolutely
There are even those who bring 30% ,and they are morethan hell , their leadership is verbal always trying to remind how they are the leader of the family,
Exactly 💯
@@namubirushirat6472Ha that will not last.
If we going 50/50, you are not a leader to me,it is a equal partnership.Big difference between a Owner vs a Share holder Partnership.
Bramwel's one liners 👏 "Ladies when money is your everything, you are about to lose everything too."
Oh my he's spoken to me direct
Being with a man who has no instinct to give is exhausting
The most exhausting, I tell you..smh...
You have spoken well and everything you said is the truth Benjamin, God bless you for the good work. Am watching you and Bramwel from Ghana , keep it up
Benjamin's laughter is therapy itself😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Learn to take losses without taking them personal
Couldn't miss the Live,no destructions of Ads🥰.
If you are a stingy man or woman,stay away from marriage💯
Love is about Generosity(Sacrificial generosity)
But one should be Subtle❗
Thank you Sir for the Fountain of wisdom🙌
Life has its own battles, don’t marry a battle ~Benjamin Zulu quotes💪🏽
What a great session! I love it when Benjamin describes a healthy relationship! Those simple examples about how a couple in a healthy relationship manage money was fantastic!
God bless this man for being a truth teller.
NOT EVERY WIND REQUIRES YOU TO START SAILING
Execellent!! Well Said!! High class but not expensive....
Wow, what an Excellent topic it was today, have learnt and unlearn alot
Thank you for always destroying our own ignorance and fill us with knowledge we need in our lifes .
Asante sana be blessed
😂😂😂 haki this guy huchukia sana watu wa colle na Campo 😂😂 akiskia tu pre25 Wacha tu eniwei you always on point benja
I even stopped what i was doing to watch this ur content are 100%
Today you're looking sharp Mr. Zulu.👍
Well said Benjamin, wish young couples and those aspiring to marry should watch your content. This is a platform that empowers men and women with matters that a lot of people don't want to talk about. Keep up the good work Mr Zulu, God bless you. You say it raw as it is...... telling the naked truth
I like your proverbial quotes. So on point
We thank God for your wisdom Benjamin. Wow.
😂😂😂Boys are born to battle hahaha Zulu
As long as the hearts are together, the Money will come together ❤️.
Once again🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. South Africa is here🇿🇦
Beautiful message ❤much love from 🇺🇬
I like it Benjamin . Always on point .
Deep.........very deep. Thank you Benjamin🥰
That’s the problem we have with some marriages! Sprinting bills , even when a woman is feeling unwell or have a newborn nobody to pay her bills unless she borrows 😁 America is the best place for investment however marriages are breaking every day. No love no respect.
I love the words of the wise,I agree with the verse that ladies who have put up something are not very hard to maintain but they want to see if the man can also add something to the family. But I don't know why men tend to get scared of this.and these ladies are very nice and not expensive to maintain coz they can also add something.
Wow! Amazing information thanks Benjamin
Mimi nacheka tu apa yaani Benjamin u really teach ple very very important things. Good Job broo pls open ur show like Steve Harvey.
I love ur prog my dearest thanks for serving us
Wisdom reload... 👌👌🙌🔥🔥🔥
Actually you are a blessing
Where are this kind of men I need one
I really needed this... thanks Mr Benjamin n Bram.... I love Bram how he acts as a listener and never interupts. I think it helps ur fountain of wisdom to flow freely. Thanks again Bram
. ( I also learn English.and words pronouncation...like today .. subtle.... I was doing it wrong. Thanks be blessed. Always happy n longing for new shows)
Great show!
I love, love your discussions.
However Zulu, is every man in the army?
Wow! So educative
My Mentor " the wisdom of God is working in you" Sir.
Hello
Bring this topic on citizen often, men should hear this,
Zulu a good one there
😅😅😅😅Benja and Bram let's tell each other the truth 💯
Wish to date a good man who listen to Benjamin zulu.
Zulu you are 💯 % right .
Thanks benjamin n bramwel....Soo informative
Good topic....we need to take charge and women follow..its a good topic...possibly next time u can include cultural innuendos that compromise our thought processes in relationships
Sometimes men can lead by not trying to- think of it this way-a man who is relaxed and generous ELICITS warmth and affection from a woman because her heart opens up to him and she WANTS to dote on him. She will defer to him andnfuss over him because his warm and giving nature continuously attracts her and turns her on. Generous and reasonable men who are not controlling are like catnip to women
Benja 🙏👏👏👏
What are you enjoying in your money as a woman if the first expenses do not go to your basic needs and the basic needs of your family if you are married? A marriage is a partnership not a kupe lifestyle!
Waaah. Don't marry another battle
Answer to question starts at 26:00
Brutal!
@@pip_rake I'm sorry my brother you are using the wrong word it's ''Convenience''.
Thank you
Am not sure I hear what these two say because I am always laughing with them.
Ikr 🤣🤣🤣❤️
We are together 😂
Ug,life has its own battle s,don't marry a Battle
What if the men are lazy
When a flag flies half mast, it's not a good time to sing national anthem😂😂😂
The excessive laughing takes away from the impact of the topic. And it takes away from the ability to understand the topic clearly….
👏👏👏👏👏
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Sometimes they reject you with a struggle 👀🤣
Thank you I’m sitting up here waiting an I need to get in the shower.
My money is my money. His money is our money.
Wooooow
What about single mothers
🤣🤣 "women that are tick that suck blood". Made me laugh. Those that have the mantra "my money is mine, your money is ours". Blood sucking.
😂
Can someone help me with this issue please? I've met a man who is much older with 4 kids from previous marriage & relationship. I don't have any. Now he proposes me the marriage but only if I sign a prenup. In this marriage contract he wants to protect all he had before marriage (he wants to give it all to his kids and protect himself). After marriage he wants to buy a place for us but I need to contribute to it financially. In case of divorce I can only keep my part and his part goes for his adult kids. I don't feel it's fair. What would you advice me?
Run
@@leahnkg That's what I wanted to do but now he changed his mind and no need for prenup. He found out that the law protects his assets from before martiage. Somehow I don't feel same way as before...
Run!
This guy just wants to use you, and probably exhaust you financially, emotionally and even physically.
If you agree to that then it will send him signals that you are needy, desperate for marriage to the point where you can do anything to be married.
Are you getting me?
Please rethink on this issue, but my instincts are right
He wants a nanny for his kids and a warm body to have intimacy with you have no value to him beyond that. Why marry someone with that many kids? Don’t you want kids if your own?
@Tyty Partridge Thank you for your reply. I haven't found anyone to trust enough to have a family with. And now I'm even more convinced not to have any. It turns out that he was seeing a few other women at the same time. Another bad apple in a messy dating world. I finished it off
If house is empty head empty
The way bro Bramuel responds
Please help me answer this,i have a guy who says he loves me and i love him too he want to marry me but the problem is he does not give me money( am working and take care of myself but i just need him to show atleast he cares)he wants me to join money together to start a business i dont knnow what to do.
Don't join money with him for business UNLESS you get a lawyer to make legal documents showing u as part owner of the business incase the relationship ends, he won't take everything. Many black men use women for their resources.
I love your vlogs..but the laughing is too much
Stingy people will always be there. Just don't go and marry them pass them bye
😂😂😂😂
I can get a roommate to go 50/50 with and save my energy to get up every morning to do what I need to do.I can keep my exual energy and get more done.
The way this guy talks so fast makes it hard for some of us to understand what he is saying
Follow the subtitles
There is no better way than to learn and luagh ata the same time. Benjamin is just so good at it.My sincere appreciation, good 👍 job.
Vamoose🤣