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Hi Pastor Vlad, if we read from the KJV, galations 5, the works of the flesh, the first 4 are sexual related works of the flesh.. But do a study on the 3rd, UNCLEANNES, and you will find out, that menstruation, fluids, urine, all come out of the penis/vagina.. This perverted/ungodly world teaches us the opposite things of what God originally made.. If we are standing, man and woman, our eyes meet, down there too.. Even if we lay.. Do u wonder why oral sex "feels" good.. Because the flesh is feeling good about it.. Its done out of love we think, but its truly out of lust.. How can u picture intimacy between Jesus and His bride.. Would He allow perversion ??
This is honestly an answer to prayer. I went through a lot of trauma and sexual abuse as a child and was raped and molested as well even later on in life. I was so fearful that I wouldn’t be able to have sex with my future husband in the right way and this honestly just answered so many questions. I’m so grateful that God is a Father and that He restores all things in time. ❤
I love Pastors who aren't afraid to speak on the topics that you cover. So glad I found you! No more watered down teaching. That's not what Jesus did. Amen.
Lolol stop belivimg in fairy tales and stp feeling guilty...Just because some ken wrote somthing in an old book doesnt mean its real...Just because your parents indocturnated you , doesnt mean tgey are right...
Fifty years ago, the pastor who performed our marriage said this to us. Do what you feel makes your spouse complete as a woman or man. This has served us well. We still enjoy intimacy in our mid-seventies. We continue to honor and enjoy each other sexually.
@@sah1681 Our focus is on each other and our honor for our creator. The idea of “the more the merrier” deals with license over fidelity. You’ve missed the point completely. How can I respect my wife by adding adultery into our relationship? That’s what you’re recommending. Self satisfaction doesn’t work when trying to please your spouse.
let me tell you what HE did for me. I was a sex maniac for years. meaning I had enough porn to fill up several hard drives. to the point I said you have a problem. in 2015 I couldnt go to sleep without dipping in masturbation. disease had got so bad I had give in to porn and masturbation only. I realized that having sex with one person open the doors to every single person she has had sex with for.. we dont really know how long. any kind of germ she had you open the door for. (and if you think a condom makes it safe read the package...( MAY you will find is a key word.) on the flip side it MAY not. it got stronger and stronger then I got saved in 2016 since then my thought has multiplied till I find sex disgusting. I say this as a single man that couldn't feel right having sex with a wife if I got married again. not only did HE break the chain but also turned me against sex all together. never saw a woman beautiful enough to forget what GOD did for me. Im so afraid any kind of sex may awaken that thing I use to be . so I became a none!! not a nun I am a proud none!!
I think there is a misconception that marriage means I have any kind of sex want. But sex is still sacred, even within marriage. It’s to be practiced with respect and self-control.
@avg gym dude gamer Is Vlad wrong, though? It would be one thing to say that some pastors have been too controlling over the matter. But I don't see why anything he or Tertius said would be unreasonable.
My ex husband not only brought pornography to our marriage bed but it also led to adultery and that was the end of a healthy intimacy that led to divorce. Thank you Pastor Vlad for your courage to have discussed this sensitive topic. This is very important for believers to understand not just what the bible says but also possible medical implications on our bodies. Couples in the body of Christ need to hear teachings like this.
In his fantasy he imagined it was his penis on screen doing that. That’s why deceitful men get erections. He pulled away from her intimately because of his sneaking around committing lust in his heart and wives can feel his fakeness. Being a fake husband she would of sensed The lust in his heart for another women’s body which effected their intimacy. Fights and words follow and she was intimately starved out. Husband and wife are supposed to be as one. But if he pulled it off for a time then he serves two masters.
This confirms my belief in what God says is ok and not ok. I've been with my husband 27 years and we both were in sexual sin. We both made a decision to stop every sexual sin. Wow, the transformation of our intimate life has turned completely around for the most heavenly intimacy that only married couples can experience when you do it right with the Holy Spirits guidance. There is nothing that can replace the desire to fulfill each other. This transformation has also caused us to have a better relationship with our Abba Father. I totally commend what you put out on your videos, we need more pastors like you 100%. Keep up the good work, Jesus is coming quickly!!!
When you remember that the Bible says our bodies are temples and that we are not our own you won’t engage in certain acts. If you don’t feel comfortable engaging in certain acts with your spouse or those acts seem degrading to you, don’t do it just to please your spouse. If your spouse truly loves you they shouldn’t want you to do things that are degrading or uncomfortable to you. When you do that you make them an idol.
Because its seeking someone else just like in sexting seeking someone else and bringing another person into a relationahip bonding of spirits that was only meant to be blessed and godly for 1 man and 1 woman. A marriage is supposed and needs to resemble your relationship and holy spirit union with Christ. Means he was not ready to be in a marriage yet not to pursue you and did not give all these things fully to Christ during his time of singleness before he meets someone that God ordained him to meet and marry.
As a born again, Christian from the age of five that has struggled immensely with sexual sin outside of marriage and with pornography addiction. I appreciate this so very much.
@@robertlegault9226 baptism, full emersion. In His name, Lord Jesus Christ.after repentance. Thank you Robert for your comment. My motive for my comment is for people reading comments. So many churches donot baptize correctly. God Bless.
That doesn’t make sense. If you were born again at age 5, then that’s the last thing you would’ve been dealing with is that issue because that spirit would not have been able to attach itself to you. New creatures come out of perversion, not be drawn to it
@johnnylongshlong3677 I said that persons comment doesn’t make sense in regards to when she was 5 years old. I know what salvation means, and I didn’t ask for your life story. I said hers does not add up. And if you’ve only been saved 5 months, there’s nothing you can tell me because I’ve been saved over 23 years - I got delivered from a perverse spirit at 23, I didn’t get saved, and struggle with it. I got saved, and STOPPED because I had no desire as a new creature to do what GOD hates
I confess that as I clicked I was highly skeptical and prepared to disagree with a lot of points. So many times in the church there can be skewed ideas about sex. I was pleasantly surprised by the video. Even handed, well spoken, and more importantly biblical.Thank you
@@Former_Pastor well, a couple of things. First off, as I’m sure you know, it’s not from the dark ages at all. It predates it quite a bit. The creator of the heavens and earth is the king and Lord of my life. He calls the shots. Simple as that. The reality of a loving and powerful God is a Truth that you are well aware of and you will never be able to run from.
I’m getting married in January, and my fiancé and I had a conversation on this. We are abstinent until marriage; but we did have questions based on what we have read. Thank you for this!!!
Congratulations on your engagement and oncoming marriage. I wish you a very God filled, joyful and successful marriage. I’m also getting married in January 🙏🏼 .
For sure avoid anal sex as this is abomination, not only spiritual but physical too. Your anus was created for expelling toxic waste from your body, not to put anything in it.
Sexual toys are definitely harmful to intimacy and sex with your spouse. It also creates a dependency for more than what your spouse can give. Works the same as porn.
God gave me a revelation regarding sexual purity in marriage. 1.When using sex toys, you are having sex with an inanimate objects to fulfil the lust of flesh. 2. When using a sex toy, you are being intimate with a dead thing, these are portals to spiritual spouses and lustful spirits. 3.They were created to separate the husband from the wife. 4.They are representations of idol worships. 5. These items have been used as offerings to fertility deities.
@johnnylongshlong3677 "What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them." Matthew 15:11
Animals when they have sex they don't do different styles or types of sex and us the unique creatures of God want to use different styles of sex. Just a thought Pastor.
IN ADDITION TO THAT Hebrews 13 v 4 Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ Are . 1) Use of sex toys 2) Anal sex 3) Oral sex 4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object. Or Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse. 5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc. . The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman. . . ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
Animals “have sex” only for the propagation of the species. For humans, it is not only that but also for enjoyment. It is the “glue” that holds the relationship together.
I appreciate this video because it not only normalizes sex within marriage, but it gives a biblical POV of what is holy when it comes to the marriage bed
IN ADDITION TO THAT Hebrews 13 v 4 Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ Are . 1) Use of sex toys 2) Anal sex 3) Oral sex 4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object. Or Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse. 5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc. . The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman. . . ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
Thank you for this upfront video . I have been married for 11 years. My husband is struggling with pornography and social media. But he has been open with me more recently. And has made effort and admitted he he knows its a problem. I've never liked porn. Even before I was saved. I know it's an abomination. And a snare catch 22. I feel like sexual intimacy is something to be shared between man and his wife and no one else. And I have no desire to look at things like that. He knows this. And I'm praying for him to be delivered from this addiction. Please pray for me, for us. if anyone feels moved to. Thank you. God bless everyone.
I attend an addiction recovery group at church. We have a brother who comes because he's battling a porn addiction. My heart hurts for him the most because of how it directly affects his family and there is access to it in his pocket at all times. I would have two step way out of line to come in contact with my demons again. This sort of thing usually happens to people who need lots of mental stimulation. It helps to find a productive and positive thing to obsess over. A lot of addicts also have undiagnosed ADHD. Sending prayers to you and your family.
I was sexually abused as a child and never been successful in past marriages. God Bless you Vlad for the courage and honesty to discuss this awkward topic. I really needed to hear it before I marry again to a wonderful Christian man with God as our Core. ✝🙏
Hi please remember what the word says about divorce, Jesus talks in Matthew that divorce is only permissable if there was adultery Not here to judge it's not my job but I won't you to know
Fantasy, Imagination, and Images play a huge part in sexual desires, sexual activities. Which is sad in my opinion, because I feel In a marriage, we should be able to enjoy each other freely,with acceptance, and satisfaction in the way where we're happy with our bodies and who we are with. Not painting a picture over what we "imagine" or "fantasize" while engaging in sex. Thank you for this video, really. It gives closure on topics and relief on questions that needed answers. God Bless.🙏🏻
Thank you for your courage for this topic that I think a lot of us needed to hear. And love you for asking the Lord's permission and your wife's permission in advance! I do believe you were led by the Holy Spirit. God bless u and I don't think anybody is going to unsubscribe after watching this!
Today you can share your opinions and thoughts with anyone around the world only because someone sometime ago had a vision, imagination and a very vivid fantasy and created the phone you are using right now, the same thing is true to everything that you are using in a daily basis, someone had the imagination and creativity to make life better and easier. Same is true for sex. Why we should not try to make it better or more exciting, to improve it, whiteout any remorse or guilt, when we can get so many good things as a result, happyer people, less broken relationships, less stress, less people feeling guilty because of their desires.. The result will be a more mentally stable non stressed happy society. Happy, no stress, no anger no fear means less crimes. SO WHY NOT??? WHAT'S THE ARGUMENT AGAINST???
Marriage is intended to be two virgins coming together and sharing each other, learning to please one another. It rarely is these days though, how many people getting married these days are actually both virgins? I mean a real virgin... never touched anyone in a sexual manner or seen another person naked. Even if you're technically a virgin but have viewed porn, your mind is no longer a virgin.
IN ADDITION TO THAT Hebrews 13 v 4 Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ Are . 1) Use of sex toys 2) Anal sex 3) Oral sex 4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object. Or Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse. 5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc. . The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman. . . ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
This is the most intelligent, articulate and compassionate christian teaching I have ever encountered on the subject on the internet. I watched some christians teachers who argued that oral sex is inherently sinful without any justification rooted in Scriptures or Christian tradition. Thank you for your arguments.
I am so thankful for God blessing me with a husband that is so tender and loving and not sinful with sex! I was sexually/emotionally abused as a child and knew too much about my own fathers sexual issues and traumas. It really messed me up! So I’m very thankful that things in my marriage bed have become healthier as Jesus heals me! Praise God! I have had my struggles in the past but God has always brought me back to focusing on JESUS and all my issues melt away with his healing ! ♥️🙏
I love that you spoke on this topic! It’s NOT taboo! We as Christians need to know and need to talk about these things amongst other believers! I am so blessed to have a circle of female friends and elders I can turn to and discuss such things, but many don’t. Thank you Vlad for being that for them!
What about having male friends to talk to also? Wha tif the female friends you are talking to about this are lesbians and are afraid to admit it? The church is a have for sinners and my own sister was gay and Dad never even knew, even though he as the pastor! It made me sick to know what was really going on behind closed doors.
@@saxmanjpr5092 Not sure if this was addressed to me but in my opinion, if you’re single, I think it’s best to have such talks with the same gender; men talking with men, women with women. If you know someone who’s struggling with their sexual identity, the topic of sex wouldn’t be something I’d personally be discussing with them, I’d be more intentional about discussing who they are in Christ. If this topic is too heavy to do with your friends, maybe have them speak with an elder in the church about their same sex desires if they’re open to it and seeking to repent.
@@appleopps4540 Fist off, go back and re read what I wrote about lesbians! "Women talking with women?" That is a recipe for disaster. Second, if I were gay and are too talk to an elder in the church, he would turn me on and I I would make a pass at him to let him know that I was interested. You need to ask yourself if you are truly a Christian, or a PHARISEE! Dude! The church is known for being a haven for sinners and I have personally talked to gay people who think that God made them that way. They interpret "who you are in Christ" as meaning ""God made me gay!" WAKE UP! Gays to go church to find their next hook up because they KNOW that Preachers think that everyone goes to church to repent! NOT SO! You need to study what is called, "Having sex on the down low!" Would will find that people that talk about being in this lifestyle will TELL YOU that the FIRST PLACE the go to find a romp in the hay is a CHURCH! Also, the first time I met a lesbian in the church, it was a PREACHERS DAUGHTER and the preacher had NO CLUE of what was taking place in his kids bedroom during the teenage sleepovers! - This Father also had to talk with me because I became too emotionally close with his kid and he had to set some boundaries as I was a late bloomer and did not know any better...and when "the talk" came, it took place with his daughters LESBIAN LOVER sitting next to her and I was forced to keep my mouth shut when Daddy said, "Even if there as something going on with those two, I would have to step in." - You Christians have NO CLUE of what is really going on....cutie! ;) And by the way, I dont have any friends because the only friend I did have, a man who took me into his life from the church and MENTORED ME, suddenly turned his back on me after TWO DECADES of mentoring and told me that he NEVER believed in Christ all along and was "faking it." I am walking my walk with Christ completely alone, trust HIM, not wart some man made interpretation of the bible is! - And dont get me started on the countless men who "too me under their wing" in the mens groups who ALL eventually got caught FORNICATING! - SO! That only tells me what YOU are really doing. You just have not been caught yet!
@@saxmanjpr5092 I’m so sorry that was your experience. My response was simply from my experience. And when I said “women talking with women, I’m not talking one on one but more of a group setting where this topic can be discussed openly. there are churches like mine who have groups for people/family who have gender confusion or same sex attraction for anyone who chooses to join or just wants to have the conversation. I’ve have friends and family in the LGBTQ community but the church was and is a safe space for them. I’m sorry it wasn’t for you. I can’t negate your experience but what I will say is, it’s not everyone’s, certainly not mine.
Thank you for this 🧡. It's actually very comforting, because I have always wondered if the problems in our sex life were my fault, but you have helped me see that I was the victim of rape, adultery ( porn) and pressure to do things I wasn't comfortable with from my husband ( who left me in the end for a young woman). Your video has brought me peace instead of the confusion I've always felt. Bless you brother, for being brave enough to tackle this head on.
God loves you and may He heal you from the abuse of such a marriage. He is with you always. And all who do evil and wrong in His sight will be dwelt with. And it's a fearful thing to fall into the hands of a living God! 📖✝️🙏🛐✨
be careful! He is wrong when it comes to oral sex..this is a sin even in marriage..a lot of people went go hell, came back and saud that these perversion, even if they are dine in marriage, are sins!!
Thank you so much for this video! Even though I grew up Christian, sex was a forbidden topic to talk about and all that was said was to abstain from it. I always thought it was bad and was never taught that sex is actually a gift from God that He meant for us to enjoy with our spouse. We desperately NEED people like you talking about this, especially for the young and unmarried because porn is rampant and normalizing sexual abuse against women in our culture and it is sickening...
No we don't need that we need a healthy relationship with sex which is not what the Church offers. Abstinence until marriage is actually been the cause of quite a bit of adultery I mean let's face it if you've never had anybody else you're going to be a lot more likely to really want to try. America was founded by religious zealots they literally left Europe because they wanted to be more devout and it hasn't served us well that's actually the exact same reason we have such a problem with sex you have a healthy relationship with from the beginning you don't base a huge industry on p*** like America does. Kind of the same thing like during prohibition drinking actually went up. You make something unspeakable and unforgivable and banish it from society it's going to fester and grow and get way worse than if you accept it as it is from the beginning
These questions run through all of our minds and it’s very hard to ask a pastor in person so this was majorly helpful!! I agreed with everything you said too 🔥
Thank you pastor. My husband and I are in our late 50’s with health issues and I’ve been wanting biblical guidance on our marriage bed and this has helped. God bless you!
I love that you directly speak out like this, lay it out, and go over scriptures... other pastors who tried to answer these questions regarding sex really didn't answer anything but leave you more confused with more questions than you started with. So, thank you for this!! These are the clearest answers I've ever heard.
Omg..Thank you for this..I literally asked the Lord about this in my spirit..and he answered this question..in this video..God bless you brother Vlad ..keep doing what you doing
Well, you might want to go back and ask him again. Because that oral sex part is wrong. God condemns that. And he better repent for telling people it’s OK.
‘May the Lord bless you and take care of you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord watch over you and give you peace.’ Numbers 6:24-26 FBV 💗
Thank you Pastor Vlad for speaking on this subject. Yes it is a very sensitive subject, but it needed to be talked about. The marriage counselor that my husband and I go to basically said the same things that you said. I actually got bashful when he brought up sex (amongst other things) because sex was never discussed in church, nor in my household. All we were told is "don't get pregnant".😔 We weren't taught that sex is beautiful within the context of marriage. Now that I know it is, I can enjoy intimacy freely with my hubby.😊
It's just your opinion right? Others may think differently, does that make them evil? As God has given us FREE CHOICE how dare any human to try to enforce their own beliefs and views on others?
Greatful for the topic, found myself repenting just for simply being intimate with my spouse bc I thought "sex" was a dirty thing. But with the clarification I am now aware of whats acceptable and whats not, now I can enjoy that time without guilt and shame. Thank you Pastor Vlad for this, the truth sets us free!
I think this is awesome, thank you... I am divorced and desire a marriage ordained by God. This needed to be said I believe it helped me and I hope this help to open the door for others to be okay to talk about. The world is teaching it all wrong so we need someone to teach it right. Thanks. ❤️
Very balanced and sound minded approach. I think porn and alcohol consumption were two things that definitely caused the ultimate failure of my marriage 😔
Pastor I am old enough to be your mother and I just want to say I think you handled this very sensitive subject with dignity and compassion. I believe this teaching is in exact alignment with God's teaching. As a survivor of severe childhood abuse, rape and domestic violence it is my experience that God will heal a woman of terrible trauma through the love of a godly man in a sanctified relationship. If anyone else feels that they will never recover abuse to experience physical intimacy with peace, joy and love; I assure you God cares about every aspect of your life, including this. God bless you Pastor. Thank you for your very important work. 🙏❤️🙏
Thank you for talking about it! This is the transparency we need among Christians! This answered so many personal questions for me as well as it makes think and see things differently.
Thank you pastor Vlad. You never seize to bless me. My heart was broken into pieces when I was talking to one pastor's wife many years ago about the dangers of pornography. She said she doesn't see anything wrong with watching porn with her husband and enjoying each other from what they were seeing. The points she was making, in my heart I was like 'No but how can you be so naive and untaught and you are a pastor's wife!' I was broken because the Holy Spirit taught me about this when I was still single. I would toss and turn and groan in my bed just travailing before God concerning this trap that my Christian brothers and sisters get caught in. I didn't even know why God was teaching me about this because it's not like I was going to teach married people at church on it, I was single. Ohhh but I loved how those moments brought me closer to God. Those teachings from the Holy Spirit are now helping me in my marriage and helping me to help other women. Yoh there is just so much to say on this. God bless you pastor Vlad and your team. God bless every brother and sister who is praying and teaching about sex in marriage for believers and the dangers of porn. I love how wise our Lord is. Hallelujah!
I see a great need for chiristians believers to stop walling up this blessed gift. Why? Many reasons... The most personal one to me is that, as a child, within my home, a wall was put in place around any discussion that touched on sexuality. It was this wall that gave the enemy a hiding place to torment me. Through the Holy Spirit's leading, I have since become aware how parents, family members, youth leaders, peers, and many others who are hiding there own guilt, not openly seeking God for it,.. tend to resort to shaming any subject of it. That is not a Godly environment for a child. Rather, it sets up a dynamic of taboos that sin will fester in, both in the child and the others that reflect shame. I am learning to be thankful for my fellow christian believers' who strive to maintain Godly openess. A lot of support has come to me from a christian blog site titled the generous husband.
Thank you SO much for this video. I was raised in the COGIC, and these things were never discussed back then. You gave realness as well as scriptural backing on this topic and this is what is needed today. Keep doing God’s work and may he continue to bless your ministry❤️
Thank you for this video Pastor Vlad. It is definitely something we need to talk about more in the body of Christ. Like you said, the world has polluted our minds to what is ok and not ok. It is always good to hear a man of God clarify the grey areas! God bless you! 💜🙏🏼💜
Great video! How about this topics as well: 1. Tattoos 2. Seeing doctors (some believe going to a doctor is a sin. 3. Smoking 4. Depression 5. Suicidal 6. Eating too much 8. Abortion 9. Contraceptives 10. Remarrying 11. Common law marriage I am new at this. I really want to learn about Jesus. I have so many questions
Tattoos are an open door for demons, or a gate to let them in... Seeing doctors for medical health is not bad if like ur having a flu or whatever happened to u as food poisoning and these stuff etc... Smoking is a demon spirit, also depression, and suicidal thoughts or acts... And of course abortion is also sin and an open door for the demonic, blessings 😊🔥😊🔥
Thank-you so much for covering all of these topics!! I think these are real life questions that married (or single) people have but are way too embarrassed to ask anyone in person 😊
Oh my goodness thank God that someone finally talked about this. I've been wondering about what type of sex was right since guys nowadays want to do all. This questions about sex has been on my mind and God led me to this so thank you pastor. We need more topics like these. God bless.
I'm glad you spoke on this. Alot of us married people have questions about this topic that we can't really ask in public, and most pastors won't touch this topic with a 10 foot pole. We need more education as Christians so we can be better as the spiritual people that we are. Thank you, God Bless you Man of the Most High God!
This is needed information. As Christians, we have to be able to fully discuss every topic. Satan does not sensor his attacks. We can not sensor our responses and remain relevant. Good job! I wish I would have heard this discussion earlier in my life to help me define my issues and marital sin. It would have allowed me to confront and come out of a very dysfunctional marriage much sooner! Or perhaps never entered the deception to begin with! Good work on this.
Are you referring to CENSORING rather than sensoring? There is a difference. You obviously had a dysfunctional marriage because you and/or your significant other chose to make it dysfunctional. Contrary to what was stated in the video, there is nothing wrong with what two married prople do in the bedroom, as long as both are consenting. If there in fact there is dysfunction in marriage, it is because there was too much assumption of the other BEFORE making the vows.
@@RobertWilliams-mb9jb I believe God gave married men & woman a gift of sex for them in turn to give pleasure and show there bond for one another. Allthou i remember somewhere resding he did give instruction that a man shouldnt lay down the same way with a man as he does a woman? It just might be Satan at work when the church or human being taking away Gods marriage gift by accusitions stating God says oral sex is bad nakedness is bad its all bad unless your blind folded and do it missionary style and there will be no moans and groans no lusts to desire your partner Orgasms with a smile there shall be none of this or else lmao .... Wake up people satan has decieved you into brain washing married couples into feeling guilt for Gods gift of love to one another in marriage to make 2 Into 1 not 2 into none think about it. Is all im saying and quit judging people for thinking for themselves and not being you for what ever reason I could be wrong but he didnt put us on this earth to just pay Taxes and that your going to hell because you and your wife were trying out anal sex.. Come on man.. With that being said they might give some hope that if you repent and if you only put half way in her prison wallet or just passed the balloon knot God might say its only half bad then.. Lol Anyway when we spend our time telling others there sinners on how we interpret the bible then were probably the real sinners O yea did jesus read and wright in English? Nope i dought it when there wasnt even a J in the english alphabet till mid 1800s im thinkin . Probably many people are confused that if anal sex is so bad why do the cathlic priests seem to abuse the young boys???? Answer this so the confused will understand. Im just saying its no wonder theres so much confusion in this world today let your own personal relationship with God our Father & Savior Jesus Christ to be together in heavin guide ourselves to another gift gift of grace from God that there is forgiveness threw our Savior Christ. That he has made a place for us in heavin because our sinns were forgivin . Just the way i believe or interprit. might not be the way you interprit.
@@brianstumo8581 your beliefs are your beliefs, tempered one way or the other by your upbringing and the culture where you feel most comfortable. You mention what you perceive are Christian morays regarding sex, but you obviously fail to realize that there were religions before Jesus Christ who had their morays. And you reference Jesus Christ as the ultimate leader without knowing his sexuality. He was the human manifestation of God, and as a human he had to have feelings on sexuality. But whatever his sexuality is irrelevant.
@@brianstumo8581 actually you misspelled many words, but I prefer not to çomment on either grammar or spelling. What I am saying is that Christianity is not the only religion in the world and each have their own morays regarding human sexuality. Throughout western civilization ( mostly Christian) women were chattels to either their parents or their husbands. So I suppose until about 100 years ago, in the US, before women's emancipation, that a husband could do almost anything he pleased with his wife, without any consequences. Remember, before women's emancipation, not only could they not vote, they could not own property, take out a bank loan, or negotiate a contract for that matter. The reason was that they were property themselves. But as far as modern day, I do not see anything a consenting couple can do which would be immoral or sinful. But again, there are different morays among the various Christian denominations.
Thank you for addressing a very difficult subject. These are the things I feel the Holy Spirit revealed to me and I view this video as confirmation. God bless.
Thank you, I was once married because of greed, jealousy, fornication(?). I bore 4 beautiful children but my marriage suffered because of me, pre-marriage sex, pornography and adultery - even same sex sex. I agree with you on pornography and the topics, I am now a single middle aged man who fights against thoughts, and I have learnt to run away from such things. It has taken over 4 years of wanting to give it all up for me to be able to say no and stick to it. I still get thoughts, but as The Bible says RUN and FLEE from such desires and thoughts. I am just grateful that God, Jesus and The Holy Spirit is able to forgive me and still walk with me, after I turned my back, and put myself before others/all.
IN ADDITION TO THAT Hebrews 13 v 4 Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ Are . 1) Use of sex toys 2) Anal sex 3) Oral sex 4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object. Or Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse. 5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc. . The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman. . . ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
Pornography watching gives you demons and you need deliverance if you are still struggling with it This is the best I’ve ever heard so free of religion and giving the best advice going forward 😀
IN ADDITION TO THAT Hebrews 13 v 4 Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ Are . 1) Use of sex toys 2) Anal sex 3) Oral sex 4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object. Or Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse. 5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc. . The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman. . . ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
This is a topic most pastors don't touch and as believers we end being too confused and seem too holy for our spouses thank you for this, at least now I know what's right and wrong and will walk with so much confidence in marriage when the time is right. Thank you pastor
Sensitive subjects Well presented. I am an old lady now and twice divorced. My experiences in life lead me to absolutely agree with everything you said. God bless.
Man! So glad you took it upon yourself and went out of your way on speaking on such a topic. You were clear, concise yet respectful. Loved this for so many reasons, Keep thriving and growing VLAD, you just earned my subscription !
People better start going to God instead of listening to all of these, TH-cam videos -Oral sex is a sin. So is using sex toys- That’s what the baphomet people do. It’s wicked! Period!!!!! As someone who did it, and was delivered from all sexual perversion. I know! Yes the Bible does condemn it. This is the thing. people start out making good TH-cam videos. And then they get off track, start giving their opinions - But the followers who shouldn’t be listening to TH-cam videos anyway because they are weak, and Philippians don’t know when to get off the bus. people are going to be lose their souls because they went to him instead of God. One of the only two preachers, who preach against it, said, God didn’t put it in the Bible, because he took it for granted that we had enough sense to not want to lick feces, urine, and menstrual blood. Also there’s a higher rate of oral cancer because of this. It’s called s---y! Oh wait. He just said s--y is not in the Bible. And that it’s a little ok. He’s gone. He better repent! Unsubscribing
It is strange to me that sex is such a taboo topic in the church. I think we are setting our kids up for a lifetime of heartache when we speak about sex like it’s a bad topic or one we should avoid.
Thank you Pastor Vlad. This was a very informative video and I enjoyed it. I must say that I’m glad to see that there is consistency among Christian leaders as to what is permissible in the marital bed. It’s quite a relief as it removes the confusion and sometimes guilt that you might might be doing something wrong. May God continue to increase you in wisdom
Thanks for answering a question that I’ve always had in the back of my mind. I definitely got a clarity so, I can now move on without feeling guilty or condemn. Thanks for this video. It really helped me. God bless 🙏❤️
I had a lot of anxiety in the past about certain things in my marriage and you confirmed what the Bible told me. I just want to honor God even with my body in this area.
I know personally , The Lord told me that oral sex was wrong and certain sex positions were wrong. I read up on it , and oral sex/certain positions were used in pagan sex rituals. The Father said not to worship him like the heathens. So what we do in the bedroom is definitely important as well. Thank you Pastor Vlad. We need more teachings to keep us clean in marriage or if we get married. Also , King Solomon had "strange wives" women who worshipped other pagan gods , so I'm not surprised about the song of Solomon verses. I just suggest praying about it for clarity. God bless everyone.
Hi sister. Can you elaborate on the specific positions you were warned about? And when you say God told you not to worship Him like the heathens, was it something He told you or are you paraphrasing a biblical teaching?
@@brandonjames6266 if you read it properly, it’s not. you should not be putting your mouth on genitals. that’s not God’s design for sex. you just don’t want it to be wrong because you like it.
God told me that oral sex and anal sex are carnal. And I know it was Him because I had to look up the word carnal, as I had never used it before. That is not how God designed sex. People don’t want to hear that because they enjoy receiving/giving it, but it is not right.
@@teribarker1021 if you didn't even know what the word carnal meant shows how young in the faith you are and probably shouldn't be giving advice on these platforms
I enjoyed this lesson because it crosses my mind several times wondering what would be okay with my husband and what wouldn’t. It really shed some light for me Thankyou so much.
People better start going to God instead of listening to all of these, TH-cam videos -Oral sex is a sin. So is using sex toys- That’s what the baphomet people do. It’s wicked! Period!!!!! As someone who did it, and was delivered from all sexual perversion. I know! Yes the Bible does condemn it. This is the thing. people start out making good TH-cam videos. And then they get off track, start giving their opinions - But the followers who shouldn’t be listening to TH-cam videos anyway because they are weak, and Philippians don’t know when to get off the bus. people are going to be lose their souls because they went to him instead of God. One of the only two preachers, who preach against it, said, God didn’t put it in the Bible, because he took it for granted that we had enough sense to not want to lick feces, urine, and menstrual blood. Also there’s a higher rate of oral cancer because of this. It’s called s---y! Oh wait. He just said s--y is not in the Bible. And that it’s a little ok. He’s gone. He better repent! Unsubscribing
Thank you for this! I’ve been asking other Christian couples but nobody wants to tell . I’ve been going online to look for answers and I’m shocked to see this
God bless you pastor Vlad for shedding some light on the topic which i feel you did amazingly as you never shy away from or try "beat around the bush" but spoke openly and directly and any normal married Christian husband and wife who listened should be able to now enjoy a loving, open, healthy sex life. Awesome stuff pastor Vlad. Thank you once again for sharing and imparting. God bless.🙏👌💯🔥
Pastor first time I ever heard a pastor explain so explicit! Thanks for being so bold , the church really needs to hear on this matters! Also you said it so calmly! 👍
It is refreshing to hear a pastor talk about one of the most basic functions in life. I think sex comes down to mutual respect for each other and honoring each other in marriage. If we look at sex as a gift from God and are tender with each other and focus on God’s principles, everything else falls in place!❤️
IN ADDITION TO THAT Hebrews 13 v 4 Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ Are . 1) Use of sex toys 2) Anal sex 3) Oral sex 4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object. Or Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse. 5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc. . The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman. . . ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
People better start going to God instead of listening to all of these, TH-cam videos -Oral sex is a sin. So is using sex toys- That’s what the baphomet people do. It’s wicked! Period!!!!! As someone who did it, and was delivered from all sexual perversion. I know! Yes the Bible does condemn it. This is the thing. people start out making good TH-cam videos. And then they get off track, start giving their opinions - But the followers who shouldn’t be listening to TH-cam videos anyway because they are weak, and Philippians don’t know when to get off the bus. people are going to be lose their souls because they went to him instead of God. One of the only two preachers, who preach against it, said, God didn’t put it in the Bible, because he took it for granted that we had enough sense to not want to lick feces, urine, and menstrual blood. Also there’s a higher rate of oral cancer because of this. It’s called s---y! Oh wait. He just said s--y is not in the Bible. And that it’s a little ok. He’s gone. He better repent! Unsubscribing
Thank you pastor. I had so many doubts and was completely worried if I was displeasing God in any way. I thank the Lord for speaking to me through you. God bless you and your family abundantly ❤️
IN ADDITION TO THAT Hebrews 13 v 4 Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ Are . 1) Use of sex toys 2) Anal sex 3) Oral sex 4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object. Or Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse. 5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc. . The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman. . . ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
As a Christian woman and wife I appreciate this video on so many levels. I wish more pastors would openly tackle this topic and user their platform for this level of transparency.
IN ADDITION TO THAT Hebrews 13 v 4 Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ Are . 1) Use of sex toys 2) Anal sex 3) Oral sex 4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object. Or Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse. 5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc. . The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman. . . ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
He did not tackle anything. Oral sex is a sin. So is using sex toys- That’s what the baphomet people do. It’s wicked! Period!!!!! As someone who did it, and was delivered from all sexual perversion. I know! Yes the Bible does condemn it. This is the thing. people start out making good TH-cam videos. And then they get off track, start giving their opinions - But the followers who shouldn’t be listening to TH-cam videos anyway because they are weak, and Philippians don’t know when to get off the bus. Those people are going to be lose their souls because they went to you instead of God. One of the only two preachers, who preach against it, said, God didn’t put it in the Bible, because he took it for granted that we had enough sense to not want to lick feces, urine, and menstrual blood. Also there’s a higher rate of oral cancer because of this. It’s called s---y!
Much needed in the body of Christ , thanks for stepping out and speaking out on some hard topics. May God pour out much more grace and make known more and more his wonderful love to you. Amen!
Thank You, Vlad for talking about these topics!!! You are teaching us so that we have a better grasp on the subject. Of course, everybody is different and we must use discernment from The Holy Spirit, but these videos are leveling us up!! Thank you❤️
Great teaching! I agree with your points, very thorough and definitely needed in the body of Christ. If the pastors cannot teach on it then the believers are left wondering…thank you for your boldness🔥
Things like this are so important, I feel that there are so many misconceptions and misunderstandings when it comes to marriage, thank you for making this, like a lot of people here are saying, not enough pastors/churches/etc, are talking about this and this needs to talked about
I agreed with everything 100% Thank you for breaking this topic down! So many people this day in age don't have the knowledge in this area. On the topic of sex tools, as we think of them, for some married couples it is necessary due to medical issues. Early on in our intimate relationship my husband noticed that I never was able to have an orgasim during intercourse. I thank the Lord that he is so compassionate and wanted to make sure I was having pleasure too. I had to figure out myself how to have one and it was hard to do physically. As the years went on it became impossible to do it on my own that's when we started looking for a tool to help. I am confident that we are not sinning by using the assistance. I hope this helps someone!
I would argue that using a sex toy is still sinful doesn't matter what your intention is. For something to be morally good it has to have both a moral means and a moral intention. So your intention might be seem good but your are still using an immoral means so therefore the action itself is not morally good. The same as robbing a bank can never be morally good, doesn't matter if you have a good intention or not (for example to give the money to the poor) you are still using an evil means and the end can never justify the means. You are meant to become one with your spouse. By using a toy you are becoming one and having sex with something that is not your spouse. Masturbation reconditions our bodies to only be able to respond to a hand or a foreign object, that's why a lot of women can not orgasm during normal intercourse anymore. The more you are going to use a toy the more you are reconditioning your body and the less likely it will be that you will orgasm during natural intercourse. Forget about orgasms for now and first focus on getting right with God. It's more important for you and your soul that you are in right standing with God than for you to orgasm.
Am from India...According to Indian custom our Pastors and Parents keep guiding us each Children's guidance classes every Sunday.... "The more your eyes is pure, the more your heart is pure....the more pleasure will be pure in your marriage..." When I heard these words I was amazed to hear and know that even there are God fearing children in western countries....Because here in India marriage is done with whole purity which includes the purity in our mind, soul & body.... God bless you Pastor and your Family.....Be a blessed mentor 🙏 🙏
I think this was a good sound biblically based teaching. I think it is important to talk about these things to keep the marriage bed pure but also realize the liberties we do have in marriage. Thank you sir!
I think you handled this conversation very well 👏👏👏 biblical, focused, and authentic. This is how I viewed these topics already, and I'm glad to hear a godly man express a healthy perspective on this VERY important marital / adult topic. Well done 👏👏👏
This brought a lot of clarity and I love how you brought scripture with context in correct manner of understanding. I want to be prepared as possible and want purity in the highest form to honor God
People better start going to God instead of listening to all of these, TH-cam videos -Oral sex is a sin. It’s NOT pure. So is using sex toys- That’s what the baphomet people do. It’s wicked! Period!!!!! As someone who did it, and was delivered from all sexual perversion. I know! Yes the Bible does condemn it. This is the thing. people start out making good TH-cam videos. And then they get off track, start giving their opinions - But the followers who shouldn’t be listening to TH-cam videos anyway because they are weak, and Philippians don’t know when to get off the bus. people are going to be lose their souls because they went to him instead of God. One of the only two preachers, who preach against it, said, God didn’t put it in the Bible, because he took it for granted that we had enough sense to not want to lick feces, urine, and menstrual blood. Also there’s a higher rate of oral cancer because of this. It’s called s---y! Oh wait. He just said s--y is not in the Bible. And that it’s a little ok. He’s gone. He better repent! Unsubscribing
Thank you for talking about these things The only other option for marriages and young people is the wrong information This NEEDS to be addressed in this healthy forum
A very difficult topic that most speakers would avoid, although teaching on this topic is very much needed. Salute you, brother for your courage in teaching uncompromising values on this subject.
Thank God for your insights on this challenging topic. Even the local churches will not touch these subjects but God cares about the marriage bed and wants us not to destroy ourselves in it.
This was awesome! Thank you for clarifying on this topic which is so sensitive to us as Christians. I feel it’s better to know then to be deceived and especially having the topic being connected with scripture and making sure that we understand and not taking it in wrong context. Praise God! 🙌🏾
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Hi Pastor Vlad, if we read from the KJV, galations 5, the works of the flesh, the first 4 are sexual related works of the flesh.. But do a study on the 3rd, UNCLEANNES, and you will find out, that menstruation, fluids, urine, all come out of the penis/vagina.. This perverted/ungodly world teaches us the opposite things of what God originally made.. If we are standing, man and woman, our eyes meet, down there too.. Even if we lay.. Do u wonder why oral sex "feels" good.. Because the flesh is feeling good about it.. Its done out of love we think, but its truly out of lust.. How can u picture intimacy between Jesus and His bride.. Would He allow perversion ??
@@aashishloetawan2629 no one's 100 percent perfect and will never be
@@godschild7909 , I did not say to be perfect.. But should we not try to overcome sin, once we know and get convinced by the Holy Spirit what sin is ?
@@tamsintarshish3905 lol you are weird
@@tamsintarshish3905 , yes, so is it God's will His childeren continue with it ?
This is honestly an answer to prayer. I went through a lot of trauma and sexual abuse as a child and was raped and molested as well even later on in life. I was so fearful that I wouldn’t be able to have sex with my future husband in the right way and this honestly just answered so many questions. I’m so grateful that God is a Father and that He restores all things in time. ❤
@Spirit Man 505 Amen! Yes Lord!
@Spirit Man 505 amen I agree
Amen
Sad to hear may God bless you and confort you
This is actually good to know, and there's no shame.
I love Pastors who aren't afraid to speak on the topics that you cover. So glad I found you! No more watered down teaching. That's not what Jesus did. Amen.
Absolutely! I've not heard one touch on these topics
I totally agree. Finally🗣🔥🔥🔥🔥
Lolol stop belivimg in fairy tales and stp feeling guilty...Just because some ken wrote somthing in an old book doesnt mean its real...Just because your parents indocturnated you , doesnt mean tgey are right...
If he's Catholic keep him away from your kids why I listen to him anyhow
The Bible is written by man to control man and changes to Superman try using the immaculate conception excuse in divorce court nowadays
Fifty years ago, the pastor who performed our marriage said this to us. Do what you feel makes your spouse complete as a woman or man. This has served us well. We still enjoy intimacy in our mid-seventies. We continue to honor and enjoy each other sexually.
That's Awesome
God bless you guys. How blessed you are to still enjoy each other intimately. Many couples wish they still could have that intimacy.
God bless you, your wife and marriage. Beautiful❤
Powerharp62
That’s wonderful!!
God bless you both ❤️
@@sah1681 Our focus is on each other and our honor for our creator. The idea of “the more the merrier” deals with license over fidelity. You’ve missed the point completely. How can I respect my wife by adding adultery into our relationship? That’s what you’re recommending. Self satisfaction doesn’t work when trying to please your spouse.
I honor you, Pastor Vlad, for having the courage and a shepherd’s heart to instruct the body of Christ. The church needs this teaching!❤️🇺🇸
this guy is an idiot
So true
God has forgiven and healed my wife's and my marriage from premarital sex and pornography early. Praise God for our healing.
let me tell you what HE did for me. I was a sex maniac for years. meaning I had enough porn to fill up several hard drives. to the point I said you have a problem. in 2015 I couldnt go to sleep without dipping in masturbation. disease had got so bad I had give in to porn and masturbation only. I realized that having sex with one person open the doors to every single person she has had sex with for.. we dont really know how long. any kind of germ she had you open the door for. (and if you think a condom makes it safe read the package...( MAY you will find is a key word.) on the flip side it MAY not. it got stronger and stronger then I got saved in 2016 since then my thought has multiplied till I find sex disgusting. I say this as a single man that couldn't feel right having sex with a wife if I got married again. not only did HE break the chain but also turned me against sex all together. never saw a woman beautiful enough to forget what GOD did for me. Im so afraid any kind of sex may awaken that thing I use to be . so I became a none!! not a nun I am a proud none!!
Pray for me my marriage is trouble in this matter.
@@selftech2828 Done! It is rough but God can restore you both and as one flesh.
@@starskeymaid wait. Is it done by repentance?
@@starskeymaid I mean I know God can do everything but how do we become one together again or whatever your talking about?
Type AMEN if you live in purity unto the Lord! 🙏
AMEN!!!
Amen
Amen!
AMEN 🙏🏼
Amen
I think there is a misconception that marriage means I have any kind of sex want. But sex is still sacred, even within marriage. It’s to be practiced with respect and self-control.
Truth
Perfectly said
@avg gym dude gamer right on! It should be between Husband & wife. Not what a pastor says.
@avg gym dude gamer Is Vlad wrong, though? It would be one thing to say that some pastors have been too controlling over the matter. But I don't see why anything he or Tertius said would be unreasonable.
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My ex husband not only brought pornography to our marriage bed but it also led to adultery and that was the end of a healthy intimacy that led to divorce. Thank you Pastor Vlad for your courage to have discussed this sensitive topic. This is very important for believers to understand not just what the bible says but also possible medical implications on our bodies. Couples in the body of Christ need to hear teachings like this.
The end of healthy intimacy was what led you to divorce?
@@joshhigdon4951I'd say adultery more so than intimacy. Intimacy can be restored, but trust? That's a hard one...
In his fantasy he imagined it was his penis on screen doing that. That’s why deceitful men get erections. He pulled away from her intimately because of his sneaking around committing lust in his heart and wives can feel his fakeness. Being a fake husband she would of sensed The lust in his heart for another women’s body which effected their intimacy. Fights and words follow and she was intimately starved out. Husband and wife are supposed to be as one. But if he pulled it off for a time then he serves two masters.
@@angiew2324 It all started with po rn. That's a tough one. I watch some, but I'm faithful to my wife
How many years did you both watch it for before it ended?
This confirms my belief in what God says is ok and not ok. I've been with my husband 27 years and we both were in sexual sin. We both made a decision to stop every sexual sin. Wow, the transformation of our intimate life has turned completely around for the most heavenly intimacy that only married couples can experience when you do it right with the Holy Spirits guidance. There is nothing that can replace the desire to fulfill each other. This transformation has also caused us to have a better relationship with our Abba Father. I totally commend what you put out on your videos, we need more pastors like you 100%. Keep up the good work, Jesus is coming quickly!!!
Praise God!!
What a bunch of stupid shit
@@joegil6443 thnx for clearing it up so succinctly joe .
@@TheMichaelseymour you're very welcome
@@joegil6443 go away troll
When you remember that the Bible says our bodies are temples and that we are not our own you won’t engage in certain acts. If you don’t feel comfortable engaging in certain acts with your spouse or those acts seem degrading to you, don’t do it just to please your spouse. If your spouse truly loves you they shouldn’t want you to do things that are degrading or uncomfortable to you. When you do that you make them an idol.
Amen
@@malindawilliams5605 -AMEN!!! God bless you!!!
Spot on sister
Maybe you both need different spouse because you should love what makes your spouse full filled .?
Well said!
My partner introduced porn into our loving relationship....our 10 year unity ended. Well said. It's disgusting.
So sorry to hear that. Porn is virtual adultery.
Because its seeking someone else just like in sexting seeking someone else and bringing another person into a relationahip bonding of spirits that was only meant to be blessed and godly for 1 man and 1 woman. A marriage is supposed and needs to resemble your relationship and holy spirit union with Christ. Means he was not ready to be in a marriage yet not to pursue you and did not give all these things fully to Christ during his time of singleness before he meets someone that God ordained him to meet and marry.
Wow smh 🤦🏾♂️
Andrea Moscoso so true
@@hoganlooloowaa3027 yes
As a born again, Christian from the age of five that has struggled immensely with sexual sin outside of marriage and with pornography addiction. I appreciate this so very much.
You need to get baptised as an adult. A child cannot understand what is going on to take a conscious decision to give your life to Christ.
@@robertlegault9226 baptism, full emersion.
In His name, Lord Jesus Christ.after repentance.
Thank you Robert for your comment. My motive for my comment is for people reading comments. So many churches donot baptize correctly. God Bless.
That doesn’t make sense. If you were born again at age 5, then that’s the last thing you would’ve been dealing with is that issue because that spirit would not have been able to attach itself to you. New creatures come out of perversion, not be drawn to it
@johnnylongshlong3677 her comment doesn’t even make sense
@johnnylongshlong3677 I said that persons comment doesn’t make sense in regards to when she was 5 years old. I know what salvation means, and I didn’t ask for your life story. I said hers does not add up. And if you’ve only been saved 5 months, there’s nothing you can tell me because I’ve been saved over 23 years - I got delivered from a perverse spirit at 23, I didn’t get saved, and struggle with it. I got saved, and STOPPED because I had no desire as a new creature to do what GOD hates
I confess that as I clicked I was highly skeptical and prepared to disagree with a lot of points. So many times in the church there can be skewed ideas about sex. I was pleasantly surprised by the video. Even handed, well spoken, and more importantly biblical.Thank you
It's sad that you let a book from the dark ages dictate your life and restrict your choices...smh
@@Former_Pastor well, a couple of things. First off, as I’m sure you know, it’s not from the dark ages at all. It predates it quite a bit. The creator of the heavens and earth is the king and Lord of my life. He calls the shots. Simple as that. The reality of a loving and powerful God is a Truth that you are well aware of and you will never be able to run from.
@@mayorrodgers7446 it all rubbish sex is just animal passion and is all about pleasure and having kids you must lead a very shallow life
@@ivorjones6618 I don’t even know what you’re saying or what your point is
@@mayorrodgers7446 my point is all these things you ay are wrong are the fun things in life sex is FUN
I’m getting married in January, and my fiancé and I had a conversation on this. We are abstinent until marriage; but we did have questions based on what we have read. Thank you for this!!!
Congratulations on your engagement and oncoming marriage. I wish you a very God filled, joyful and successful marriage. I’m also getting married in January 🙏🏼 .
Congegats! Yes this was helpful!
Congratulations! May God bless your marriage❤️
@@BLUEBICEP Congratulations! May God bless your marriage❤️
For sure avoid anal sex as this is abomination, not only spiritual but physical too. Your anus was created for expelling toxic waste from your body, not to put anything in it.
I believe that it is a very important topic and I applaud you for bringing it to the forefront in a mature manner in line with scripture.👏🏻👏🏻
Sexual toys are definitely harmful to intimacy and sex with your spouse. It also creates a dependency for more than what your spouse can give. Works the same as porn.
God gave me a revelation regarding sexual purity in marriage.
1.When using sex toys, you are having sex with an inanimate objects to fulfil the lust of flesh.
2. When using a sex toy, you are being intimate with a dead thing, these are portals to spiritual spouses and lustful spirits.
3.They were created to separate the husband from the wife.
4.They are representations of idol worships.
5. These items have been used as offerings to fertility deities.
@Johnny Longshlong Porn is a sin, and this person is right with regards to toys for the most part
@Johnny Longshlong shellfish is not sin, it was unclean but not sin.
@Johnny Longshlong that doesn't prove your point....in my opinion
@johnnylongshlong3677
"What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them."
Matthew 15:11
This is the first time ever I received a light in this topic from a Spirit filled minister and all the clouds being cleared fully. Thank you Father 🙏🏽
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Animals when they have sex they don't do different styles or types of sex and us the unique creatures of God want to use different styles of sex. Just a thought Pastor.
IN ADDITION TO THAT
Hebrews 13 v 4
Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ
Are
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1) Use of sex toys
2) Anal sex
3) Oral sex
4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object.
Or
Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse.
5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc.
.
The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman.
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ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
Animals “have sex” only for the propagation of the species. For humans, it is not only that but also for enjoyment. It is the “glue” that holds the relationship together.
I appreciate this video because it not only normalizes sex within marriage, but it gives a biblical POV of what is holy when it comes to the marriage bed
IN ADDITION TO THAT
Hebrews 13 v 4
Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ
Are
.
1) Use of sex toys
2) Anal sex
3) Oral sex
4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object.
Or
Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse.
5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc.
.
The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman.
.
.
ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
Thank you for this upfront video . I have been married for 11 years. My husband is struggling with pornography and social media. But he has been open with me more recently. And has made effort and admitted he he knows its a problem. I've never liked porn. Even before I was saved. I know it's an abomination. And a snare catch 22. I feel like sexual intimacy is something to be shared between man and his wife and no one else. And I have no desire to look at things like that. He knows this. And I'm praying for him to be delivered from this addiction. Please pray for me, for us. if anyone feels moved to. Thank you. God bless everyone.
Prayers for you!💗
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Prayed in Jesus name also May your marriage be whole in Jesus name to where the marriage bed is undefiled and pure !
Prayer for you and willing to help him with his addiction I am recovering from addiction
I attend an addiction recovery group at church. We have a brother who comes because he's battling a porn addiction. My heart hurts for him the most because of how it directly affects his family and there is access to it in his pocket at all times. I would have two step way out of line to come in contact with my demons again. This sort of thing usually happens to people who need lots of mental stimulation. It helps to find a productive and positive thing to obsess over. A lot of addicts also have undiagnosed ADHD. Sending prayers to you and your family.
I was sexually abused as a child and never been successful in past marriages. God Bless you Vlad for the courage and honesty to discuss this awkward topic. I really needed to hear it before I marry again to a wonderful Christian man with God as our Core. ✝🙏
Sexual impurity brings damage into a marriage from the start. That's why marriage is for the pure.
Hi please remember what the word says about divorce, Jesus talks in Matthew that divorce is only permissable if there was adultery
Not here to judge it's not my job but I won't you to know
@@teacherify1168God will judge us all
You are bound to your first husband till he dies.
This is for my future reference:)
I'm single since birth, staying pure for my future spouse :)🙏
....staying pure for God. And for you.
then i predict your marriage will fail
WOW! I Can't wait. It is my desire to do only what God has allowed.
Amen
Good heart!
Fantasy, Imagination, and Images play a huge part in sexual desires, sexual activities. Which is sad in my opinion, because I feel In a marriage, we should be able to enjoy each other freely,with acceptance, and satisfaction in the way where we're happy with our bodies and who we are with. Not painting a picture over what we "imagine" or "fantasize" while engaging in sex. Thank you for this video, really. It gives closure on topics and relief on questions that needed answers. God Bless.🙏🏻
AMEN!!! God bless you!!!
Thank you for your courage for this topic that I think a lot of us needed to hear. And love you for asking the Lord's permission and your wife's permission in advance! I do believe you were led by the Holy Spirit. God bless u and I don't think anybody is going to unsubscribe after watching this!
Today you can share your opinions and thoughts with anyone around the world only because someone sometime ago had a vision, imagination and a very vivid fantasy and created the phone you are using right now, the same thing is true to everything that you are using in a daily basis, someone had the imagination and creativity to make life better and easier. Same is true for sex. Why we should not try to make it better or more exciting, to improve it, whiteout any remorse or guilt, when we can get so many good things as a result, happyer people, less broken relationships, less stress, less people feeling guilty because of their desires.. The result will be a more mentally stable non stressed happy society. Happy, no stress, no anger no fear means less crimes. SO WHY NOT??? WHAT'S THE ARGUMENT AGAINST???
Marriage is intended to be two virgins coming together and sharing each other, learning to please one another. It rarely is these days though, how many people getting married these days are actually both virgins? I mean a real virgin... never touched anyone in a sexual manner or seen another person naked. Even if you're technically a virgin but have viewed porn, your mind is no longer a virgin.
IN ADDITION TO THAT
Hebrews 13 v 4
Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ
Are
.
1) Use of sex toys
2) Anal sex
3) Oral sex
4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object.
Or
Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse.
5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc.
.
The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman.
.
.
ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
This is the most intelligent, articulate and compassionate christian teaching I have ever encountered on the subject on the internet. I watched some christians teachers who argued that oral sex is inherently sinful without any justification rooted in Scriptures or Christian tradition. Thank you for your arguments.
I'm sorry but oral sex is sinful. It is not natural sex. Take this to the Lord and pray about it but it is not ok.
I am so thankful for God blessing me with a husband that is so tender and loving and not sinful with sex! I was sexually/emotionally abused as a child and knew too much about my own fathers sexual issues and traumas. It really messed me up! So I’m very thankful that things in my marriage bed have become healthier as Jesus heals me! Praise God! I have had my struggles in the past but God has always brought me back to focusing on JESUS and all my issues melt away with his healing ! ♥️🙏
Pastor that was good teaching. Thumbs up for addressing the elephant in the churches room. Holy boldness I love it.
@officialsaintsean_ God bless you 🙏
@@monicadrake223 Amen ♥️
I'm not married but I went through abuse also, was it scary? I don't want to get married and then learn that I couldn't go through with it :(
Hi ness, how are you
I love that you spoke on this topic! It’s NOT taboo! We as Christians need to know and need to talk about these things amongst other believers! I am so blessed to have a circle of female friends and elders I can turn to and discuss such things, but many don’t. Thank you Vlad for being that for them!
What about having male friends to talk to also? Wha tif the female friends you are talking to about this are lesbians and are afraid to admit it? The church is a have for sinners and my own sister was gay and Dad never even knew, even though he as the pastor! It made me sick to know what was really going on behind closed doors.
@@saxmanjpr5092 Not sure if this was addressed to me but in my opinion, if you’re single, I think it’s best to have such talks with the same gender; men talking with men, women with women. If you know someone who’s struggling with their sexual identity, the topic of sex wouldn’t be something I’d personally be discussing with them, I’d be more intentional about discussing who they are in Christ. If this topic is too heavy to do with your friends, maybe have them speak with an elder in the church about their same sex desires if they’re open to it and seeking to repent.
@@appleopps4540 Fist off, go back and re read what I wrote about lesbians! "Women talking with women?" That is a recipe for disaster. Second, if I were gay and are too talk to an elder in the church, he would turn me on and I I would make a pass at him to let him know that I was interested. You need to ask yourself if you are truly a Christian, or a PHARISEE! Dude! The church is known for being a haven for sinners and I have personally talked to gay people who think that God made them that way. They interpret "who you are in Christ" as meaning ""God made me gay!" WAKE UP! Gays to go church to find their next hook up because they KNOW that Preachers think that everyone goes to church to repent! NOT SO! You need to study what is called, "Having sex on the down low!" Would will find that people that talk about being in this lifestyle will TELL YOU that the FIRST PLACE the go to find a romp in the hay is a CHURCH! Also, the first time I met a lesbian in the church, it was a PREACHERS DAUGHTER and the preacher had NO CLUE of what was taking place in his kids bedroom during the teenage sleepovers! - This Father also had to talk with me because I became too emotionally close with his kid and he had to set some boundaries as I was a late bloomer and did not know any better...and when "the talk" came, it took place with his daughters LESBIAN LOVER sitting next to her and I was forced to keep my mouth shut when Daddy said, "Even if there as something going on with those two, I would have to step in." - You Christians have NO CLUE of what is really going on....cutie! ;) And by the way, I dont have any friends because the only friend I did have, a man who took me into his life from the church and MENTORED ME, suddenly turned his back on me after TWO DECADES of mentoring and told me that he NEVER believed in Christ all along and was "faking it." I am walking my walk with Christ completely alone, trust HIM, not wart some man made interpretation of the bible is! - And dont get me started on the countless men who "too me under their wing" in the mens groups who ALL eventually got caught FORNICATING! - SO! That only tells me what YOU are really doing. You just have not been caught yet!
@@saxmanjpr5092 Im a sinner cuz id probably want to peek in order to see what does go on behind them closed doors of lesbians.
@@saxmanjpr5092 I’m so sorry that was your experience. My response was simply from my experience. And when I said “women talking with women, I’m not talking one on one but more of a group setting where this topic can be discussed openly. there are churches like mine who have groups for people/family who have gender confusion or same sex attraction for anyone who chooses to join or just wants to have the conversation. I’ve have friends and family in the LGBTQ community but the church was and is a safe space for them. I’m sorry it wasn’t for you. I can’t negate your experience but what I will say is, it’s not everyone’s, certainly not mine.
Love how you’re open about this!! We need more people willing to speak up about things like this❤️
Yes! And Amen.
Thank you for this 🧡. It's actually very comforting, because I have always wondered if the problems in our sex life were my fault, but you have helped me see that I was the victim of rape, adultery ( porn) and pressure to do things I wasn't comfortable with from my husband ( who left me in the end for a young woman). Your video has brought me peace instead of the confusion I've always felt.
Bless you brother, for being brave enough to tackle this head on.
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God loves you and may He heal you from the abuse of such a marriage. He is with you always. And all who do evil and wrong in His sight will be dwelt with. And it's a fearful thing to fall into the hands of a living God! 📖✝️🙏🛐✨
Sending love ❤❤
be careful! He is wrong when it comes to oral sex..this is a sin even in marriage..a lot of people went go hell, came back and saud that these perversion, even if they are dine in marriage, are sins!!
@@dozadetrezire7455 where do you find this in the bible? Also where in the bible do you find the possibility of going to hell and coming back?
Thank you so much for this video! Even though I grew up Christian, sex was a forbidden topic to talk about and all that was said was to abstain from it. I always thought it was bad and was never taught that sex is actually a gift from God that He meant for us to enjoy with our spouse.
We desperately NEED people like you talking about this, especially for the young and unmarried because porn is rampant and normalizing sexual abuse against women in our culture and it is sickening...
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Exactlyyy they forget sex is a sacred gift from God
No we don't need that we need a healthy relationship with sex which is not what the Church offers. Abstinence until marriage is actually been the cause of quite a bit of adultery I mean let's face it if you've never had anybody else you're going to be a lot more likely to really want to try. America was founded by religious zealots they literally left Europe because they wanted to be more devout and it hasn't served us well that's actually the exact same reason we have such a problem with sex you have a healthy relationship with from the beginning you don't base a huge industry on p*** like America does. Kind of the same thing like during prohibition drinking actually went up. You make something unspeakable and unforgivable and banish it from society it's going to fester and grow and get way worse than if you accept it as it is from the beginning
Look around the world at teen pregnancy rates and see where they're worse. Do the same across America
@@darkeen42 I see what you are saying, and I think it’s mostly because a lot of churches don’t like to talk about sex, when they should.
These questions run through all of our minds and it’s very hard to ask a pastor in person so this was majorly helpful!! I agreed with everything you said too 🔥
Thank you pastor. My husband and I are in our late 50’s with health issues and I’ve been wanting biblical guidance on our marriage bed and this has helped. God bless you!
Hi 😊, how are you
Sorry,what health issues which Jesus cannot heal? Just present it to God and he will sort it out for you.share them .
Sex isn’t something you must do in marriage especially with health issues.
Thank you Pastor Vlad. I'm single and praying for a life partner. This was quite helpful. God bless you, your team and your family 🙏
I love that you directly speak out like this, lay it out, and go over scriptures... other pastors who tried to answer these questions regarding sex really didn't answer anything but leave you more confused with more questions than you started with. So, thank you for this!! These are the clearest answers I've ever heard.
Same
I appreciate that you talk about issues that most churches won’t touch. Thank you for being open and obedient to speak truth! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Omg..Thank you for this..I literally asked the Lord about this in my spirit..and he answered this question..in this video..God bless you brother Vlad ..keep doing what you doing
Well, you might want to go back and ask him again. Because that oral sex part is wrong. God condemns that. And he better repent for telling people it’s OK.
‘May the Lord bless you and take care of you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord watch over you and give you peace.’
Numbers 6:24-26 FBV 💗
Thank you for being brave enough to address this topic 🙏🏼
Thank you Pastor Vlad for speaking on this subject. Yes it is a very sensitive subject, but it needed to be talked about. The marriage counselor that my husband and I go to basically said the same things that you said. I actually got bashful when he brought up sex (amongst other things) because sex was never discussed in church, nor in my household. All we were told is "don't get pregnant".😔 We weren't taught that sex is beautiful within the context of marriage. Now that I know it is, I can enjoy intimacy freely with my hubby.😊
When love is pure there is enough pleasure that no extras are needed
True!!! God bless you!
It's just your opinion right? Others may think differently, does that make them evil? As God has given us FREE CHOICE how dare any human to try to enforce their own beliefs and views on others?
@@romyhezser7630 Why you seem so defensive?
I absolutely love how you worded this! So true! ♥️
You nailed it so well that the devil tried to attack this truth in your comments.
Amen and I agree 150%! Such an important and timely message. Thank you for this word.
Greatful for the topic, found myself repenting just for simply being intimate with my spouse bc I thought "sex" was a dirty thing. But with the clarification I am now aware of whats acceptable and whats not, now I can enjoy that time without guilt and shame. Thank you Pastor Vlad for this, the truth sets us free!
I think this is awesome, thank you... I am divorced and desire a marriage ordained by God. This needed to be said I believe it helped me and I hope this help to open the door for others to be okay to talk about. The world is teaching it all wrong so we need someone to teach it right. Thanks. ❤️
Hi Rolanda, how are you doing
Very balanced and sound minded approach. I think porn and alcohol consumption were two things that definitely caused the ultimate failure of my marriage 😔
I can testify that both cause destruction. Praise God for his grace and healing.
Pastor I am old enough to be your mother and I just want to say I think you handled this very sensitive subject with dignity and compassion. I believe this teaching is in exact alignment with God's teaching. As a survivor of severe childhood abuse, rape and domestic violence it is my experience that God will heal a woman of terrible trauma through the love of a godly man in a sanctified relationship. If anyone else feels that they will never recover abuse to experience physical intimacy with peace, joy and love; I assure you God cares about every aspect of your life, including this. God bless you Pastor. Thank you for your very important work. 🙏❤️🙏
Thank you for talking about it! This is the transparency we need among Christians! This answered so many personal questions for me as well as it makes think and see things differently.
Can a husband and wife take a shower together?
Thank you pastor Vlad. You never seize to bless me. My heart was broken into pieces when I was talking to one pastor's wife many years ago about the dangers of pornography. She said she doesn't see anything wrong with watching porn with her husband and enjoying each other from what they were seeing. The points she was making, in my heart I was like 'No but how can you be so naive and untaught and you are a pastor's wife!' I was broken because the Holy Spirit taught me about this when I was still single. I would toss and turn and groan in my bed just travailing before God concerning this trap that my Christian brothers and sisters get caught in. I didn't even know why God was teaching me about this because it's not like I was going to teach married people at church on it, I was single. Ohhh but I loved how those moments brought me closer to God. Those teachings from the Holy Spirit are now helping me in my marriage and helping me to help other women.
Yoh there is just so much to say on this. God bless you pastor Vlad and your team. God bless every brother and sister who is praying and teaching about sex in marriage for believers and the dangers of porn. I love how wise our Lord is. Hallelujah!
Apparently that pastor & wife had not had a experience with our Lord. Since they watch porn, what a pervertion.
I see a great need for chiristians believers to stop walling up this blessed gift. Why? Many reasons... The most personal one to me is that, as a child, within my home, a wall was put in place around any discussion that touched on sexuality. It was this wall that gave the enemy a hiding place to torment me.
Through the Holy Spirit's leading, I have since become aware how parents, family members, youth leaders, peers, and many others who are hiding there own guilt, not openly seeking God for it,.. tend to resort to shaming any subject of it. That is not a Godly environment for a child. Rather, it sets up a dynamic of taboos that sin will fester in, both in the child and the others that reflect shame.
I am learning to be thankful for my fellow christian believers' who strive to maintain Godly openess. A lot of support has come to me from a christian blog site titled the generous husband.
Hi ☺️, how are you doing
Thank you SO much for this video. I was raised in the COGIC, and these things were never discussed back then. You gave realness as well as scriptural backing on this topic and this is what is needed today. Keep doing God’s work and may he continue to bless your ministry❤️
Hi Sandra, how are you doing
Thank you for this video Pastor Vlad. It is definitely something we need to talk about more in the body of Christ. Like you said, the world has polluted our minds to what is ok and not ok. It is always good to hear a man of God clarify the grey areas! God bless you! 💜🙏🏼💜
Great video! How about this topics as well:
1. Tattoos
2. Seeing doctors (some believe going to a doctor is a sin.
3. Smoking
4. Depression
5. Suicidal
6. Eating too much
8. Abortion
9. Contraceptives
10. Remarrying
11. Common law marriage
I am new at this. I really want to learn about Jesus. I have so many questions
I agree with most on your list here, contraceptives is also really controversial
Tattoos are an open door for demons, or a gate to let them in...
Seeing doctors for medical health is not bad if like ur having a flu or whatever happened to u as food poisoning and these stuff etc...
Smoking is a demon spirit, also depression, and suicidal thoughts or acts... And of course abortion is also sin and an open door for the demonic, blessings 😊🔥😊🔥
Ask Jesus, sis?
Abortion is murder of an innocent child. Remarrying is also condemned in the bible by both Jesus and Paul
Listen to Minister Kevin Ewing's videos! You will learn so much! Wishing you all the best in your walk with our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ!
Thank-you so much for covering all of these topics!! I think these are real life questions that married (or single) people have but are way too embarrassed to ask anyone in person 😊
Hi Daniela, how are you doing
Oh my goodness thank God that someone finally talked about this. I've been wondering about what type of sex was right since guys nowadays want to do all. This questions about sex has been on my mind and God led me to this so thank you pastor. We need more topics like these. God bless.
True 🤭, but hope to find the right one, gentleman
Thank you for speaking on this topic❤ I’m sure many Christian’s including myself had questions in regards to this!
Sex and religious stuff 🤮🤮
I'm glad you spoke on this. Alot of us married people have questions about this topic that we can't really ask in public, and most pastors won't touch this topic with a 10 foot pole. We need more education as Christians so we can be better as the spiritual people that we are. Thank you, God Bless you Man of the Most High God!
This is needed information. As Christians, we have to be able to fully discuss every topic. Satan does not sensor his attacks. We can not sensor our responses and remain relevant. Good job! I wish I would have heard this discussion earlier in my life to help me define my issues and marital sin. It would have allowed me to confront and come out of a very dysfunctional marriage much sooner! Or perhaps never entered the deception to begin with! Good work on this.
Are you referring to CENSORING rather than sensoring? There is a difference. You obviously had a dysfunctional marriage because you and/or your significant other chose to make it dysfunctional. Contrary to what was stated in the video, there is nothing wrong with what two married prople do in the bedroom, as long as both are consenting. If there in fact there is dysfunction in marriage, it is because there was too much assumption of the other BEFORE making the vows.
@@RobertWilliams-mb9jb I believe God gave married men & woman a gift of sex for them in turn to give pleasure and show there bond for one another. Allthou i remember somewhere resding he did give instruction that a man shouldnt lay down the same way with a man as he does a woman? It just might be Satan at work when the church or human being taking away Gods marriage gift by accusitions stating God says oral sex is bad nakedness is bad its all bad unless your blind folded and do it missionary style and there will be no moans and groans no lusts to desire your partner Orgasms with a smile there shall be none of this or else lmao .... Wake up people satan has decieved you into brain washing married couples into feeling guilt for Gods gift of love to one another in marriage to make 2 Into 1 not 2 into none think about it. Is all im saying and quit judging people for thinking for themselves and not being you for what ever reason I could be wrong but he didnt put us on this earth to just pay Taxes and that your going to hell because you and your wife were trying out anal sex.. Come on man.. With that being said they might give some hope that if you repent and if you only put half way in her prison wallet or just passed the balloon knot God might say its only half bad then.. Lol Anyway when we spend our time telling others there sinners on how we interpret the bible then were probably the real sinners O yea did jesus read and wright in English? Nope i dought it when there wasnt even a J in the english alphabet till mid 1800s im thinkin . Probably many people are confused that if anal sex is so bad why do the cathlic priests seem to abuse the young boys???? Answer this so the confused will understand. Im just saying its no wonder theres so much confusion in this world today let your own personal relationship with God our Father & Savior Jesus Christ to be together in heavin guide ourselves to another gift gift of grace from God that there is forgiveness threw our Savior Christ. That he has made a place for us in heavin because our sinns were forgivin . Just the way i believe or interprit. might not be the way you interprit.
@@brianstumo8581 your beliefs are your beliefs, tempered one way or the other by your upbringing and the culture where you feel most comfortable.
You mention what you perceive are Christian morays regarding sex, but you obviously fail to realize that there were religions before Jesus Christ who had their morays.
And you reference Jesus Christ as the ultimate leader without knowing his sexuality. He was the human manifestation of God, and as a human he had to have feelings on sexuality. But whatever his sexuality is irrelevant.
@@RobertWilliams-mb9jb maybe she meant dissfucksionable did i spell this wrong? Id need more information Brenda F to be honest.
@@brianstumo8581 actually you misspelled many words, but I prefer not to çomment on either grammar or spelling.
What I am saying is that Christianity is not the only religion in the world and each have their own morays regarding human sexuality.
Throughout western civilization ( mostly Christian) women were chattels to either their parents or their husbands. So I suppose until about 100 years ago, in the US, before women's emancipation, that a husband could do almost anything he pleased with his wife, without any consequences.
Remember, before women's emancipation, not only could they not vote, they could not own property, take out a bank loan, or negotiate a contract for that matter. The reason was that they were property themselves.
But as far as modern day, I do not see anything a consenting couple can do which would be immoral or sinful. But again, there are different morays among the various Christian denominations.
Thank you for talking about sex. Not many pastors talk on this subject!
I don't find it interesting at all...help!🥵🥶🥵🥶🥵🥶
Melanie Martin what you need help on
Hello Liz, how are you doing
Thank you for addressing a very difficult subject. These are the things I feel the Holy Spirit revealed to me and I view this video as confirmation. God bless.
Thank you, I was once married because of greed, jealousy, fornication(?). I bore 4 beautiful children but my marriage suffered because of me, pre-marriage sex, pornography and adultery - even same sex sex. I agree with you on pornography and the topics, I am now a single middle aged man who fights against thoughts, and I have learnt to run away from such things. It has taken over 4 years of wanting to give it all up for me to be able to say no and stick to it. I still get thoughts, but as The Bible says RUN and FLEE from such desires and thoughts. I am just grateful that God, Jesus and The Holy Spirit is able to forgive me and still walk with me, after I turned my back, and put myself before others/all.
IN ADDITION TO THAT
Hebrews 13 v 4
Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ
Are
.
1) Use of sex toys
2) Anal sex
3) Oral sex
4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object.
Or
Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse.
5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc.
.
The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman.
.
.
ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
Pornography watching gives you demons and you need deliverance if you are still struggling with it
This is the best I’ve ever heard so free of religion and giving the best advice going forward 😀
IN ADDITION TO THAT
Hebrews 13 v 4
Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ
Are
.
1) Use of sex toys
2) Anal sex
3) Oral sex
4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object.
Or
Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse.
5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc.
.
The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman.
.
.
ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
This is a topic most pastors don't touch and as believers we end being too confused and seem too holy for our spouses thank you for this, at least now I know what's right and wrong and will walk with so much confidence in marriage when the time is right. Thank you pastor
Sensitive subjects Well presented. I am an old lady now and twice divorced. My experiences in life lead me to absolutely agree with everything you said. God bless.
Man! So glad you took it upon yourself and went out of your way on speaking on such a topic. You were clear, concise yet respectful. Loved this for so many reasons, Keep thriving and growing VLAD, you just earned my subscription !
People better start going to God instead of listening to all of these, TH-cam videos -Oral sex is a sin. So is using sex toys- That’s what the baphomet people do. It’s wicked! Period!!!!! As someone who did it, and was delivered from all sexual perversion. I know! Yes the Bible does condemn it. This is the thing. people start out making good TH-cam videos. And then they get off track, start giving their opinions - But the followers who shouldn’t be listening to TH-cam videos anyway because they are weak, and Philippians don’t know when to get off the bus. people are going to be lose their souls because they went to him instead of God. One of the only two preachers, who preach against it, said, God didn’t put it in the Bible, because he took it for granted that we had enough sense to not want to lick feces, urine, and menstrual blood. Also there’s a higher rate of oral cancer because of this. It’s called s---y! Oh wait. He just said s--y is not in the Bible. And that it’s a little ok. He’s gone. He better repent! Unsubscribing
It is strange to me that sex is such a taboo topic in the church. I think we are setting our kids up for a lifetime of heartache when we speak about sex like it’s a bad topic or one we should avoid.
Thank you Pastor Vlad. This was a very informative video and I enjoyed it. I must say that I’m glad to see that there is consistency among Christian leaders as to what is permissible in the marital bed. It’s quite a relief as it removes the confusion and sometimes guilt that you might might be doing something wrong. May God continue to increase you in wisdom
Thanks for answering a question that I’ve always had in the back of my mind. I definitely got a clarity so, I can now move on without feeling guilty or condemn. Thanks for this video. It really helped me. God bless 🙏❤️
I’m glad you made this video. As a new again Christian I was wondering about this myself. Thank you pastor!
Hi Elizette, how are you doing
I had a lot of anxiety in the past about certain things in my marriage and you confirmed what the Bible told me. I just want to honor God even with my body in this area.
Hi Elizabeth, how are you
I know personally , The Lord told me that oral sex was wrong and certain sex positions were wrong. I read up on it , and oral sex/certain positions were used in pagan sex rituals. The Father said not to worship him like the heathens. So what we do in the bedroom is definitely important as well. Thank you Pastor Vlad. We need more teachings to keep us clean in marriage or if we get married.
Also , King Solomon had "strange wives" women who worshipped other pagan gods , so I'm not surprised about the song of Solomon verses. I just suggest praying about it for clarity. God bless everyone.
Hi sister. Can you elaborate on the specific positions you were warned about? And when you say God told you not to worship Him like the heathens, was it something He told you or are you paraphrasing a biblical teaching?
Oral sex is in song of solom if you read the passages propely
@@brandonjames6266 if you read it properly, it’s not. you should not be putting your mouth on genitals. that’s not God’s design for sex. you just don’t want it to be wrong because you like it.
God told me that oral sex and anal sex are carnal. And I know it was Him because I had to look up the word carnal, as I had never used it before.
That is not how God designed sex. People don’t want to hear that because they enjoy receiving/giving it, but it is not right.
@@teribarker1021 if you didn't even know what the word carnal meant shows how young in the faith you are and probably shouldn't be giving advice on these platforms
I enjoyed this lesson because it crosses my mind several times wondering what would be okay with my husband and what wouldn’t. It really shed some light for me Thankyou so much.
People better start going to God instead of listening to all of these, TH-cam videos -Oral sex is a sin. So is using sex toys- That’s what the baphomet people do. It’s wicked! Period!!!!! As someone who did it, and was delivered from all sexual perversion. I know! Yes the Bible does condemn it. This is the thing. people start out making good TH-cam videos. And then they get off track, start giving their opinions - But the followers who shouldn’t be listening to TH-cam videos anyway because they are weak, and Philippians don’t know when to get off the bus. people are going to be lose their souls because they went to him instead of God. One of the only two preachers, who preach against it, said, God didn’t put it in the Bible, because he took it for granted that we had enough sense to not want to lick feces, urine, and menstrual blood. Also there’s a higher rate of oral cancer because of this. It’s called s---y! Oh wait. He just said s--y is not in the Bible. And that it’s a little ok. He’s gone. He better repent! Unsubscribing
Thank you for this! I’ve been asking other Christian couples but nobody wants to tell . I’ve been going online to look for answers and I’m shocked to see this
Have you decided how to approach this in your own married life?
Thank you for talking on this topic. My husband and I have been talking about pursuing Holiness and we had some questions that this podcast answered.
God bless you pastor Vlad for shedding some light on the topic which i feel you did amazingly as you never shy away from or try "beat around the bush" but spoke openly and directly and any normal married Christian husband and wife who listened should be able to now enjoy a loving, open, healthy sex life. Awesome stuff pastor Vlad. Thank you once again for sharing and imparting. God bless.🙏👌💯🔥
Pastor first time I ever heard a pastor explain so explicit! Thanks for being so bold , the church really needs to hear on this matters! Also you said it so calmly! 👍
It is refreshing to hear a pastor talk about one of the most basic functions in life. I think sex comes down to mutual respect for each other and honoring each other in marriage. If we look at sex as a gift from God and are tender with each other and focus on God’s principles, everything else falls in place!❤️
IN ADDITION TO THAT
Hebrews 13 v 4
Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ
Are
.
1) Use of sex toys
2) Anal sex
3) Oral sex
4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object.
Or
Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse.
5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc.
.
The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman.
.
.
ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
Amen. I totally agree.
People better start going to God instead of listening to all of these, TH-cam videos -Oral sex is a sin. So is using sex toys- That’s what the baphomet people do. It’s wicked! Period!!!!! As someone who did it, and was delivered from all sexual perversion. I know! Yes the Bible does condemn it. This is the thing. people start out making good TH-cam videos. And then they get off track, start giving their opinions - But the followers who shouldn’t be listening to TH-cam videos anyway because they are weak, and Philippians don’t know when to get off the bus. people are going to be lose their souls because they went to him instead of God. One of the only two preachers, who preach against it, said, God didn’t put it in the Bible, because he took it for granted that we had enough sense to not want to lick feces, urine, and menstrual blood. Also there’s a higher rate of oral cancer because of this. It’s called s---y! Oh wait. He just said s--y is not in the Bible. And that it’s a little ok. He’s gone. He better repent! Unsubscribing
@@danielleceleste1811he better repent!!!!
Thank you pastor. I had so many doubts and was completely worried if I was displeasing God in any way. I thank the Lord for speaking to me through you. God bless you and your family abundantly ❤️
Hi Lynette, how are you doing
IN ADDITION TO THAT
Hebrews 13 v 4
Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ
Are
.
1) Use of sex toys
2) Anal sex
3) Oral sex
4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object.
Or
Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse.
5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc.
.
The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman.
.
.
ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
As a Christian woman and wife I appreciate this video on so many levels. I wish more pastors would openly tackle this topic and user their platform for this level of transparency.
IN ADDITION TO THAT
Hebrews 13 v 4
Some of the things which defile the bed as revealed by our Lord Jesus Christ
Are
.
1) Use of sex toys
2) Anal sex
3) Oral sex
4) Lust in the minds....having perverted thoughts towards your spouse...looking at them as a sex object.
Or
Thinking of sexing your Ex while your making love to your spouse.
5)) Ungodly sex styles....porn styles... Kamasutra styles...like dog styles etc.
.
The only sex style allowed by God is the Missionary style...a Man on top of a woman.
.
.
ALL DEAD CHRISTIANS WHO PRACTISE THESE THINGS WHO ARE DEAD ARE IN HELL FIRE AS WE SPEAK
He did not tackle anything. Oral sex is a sin. So is using sex toys- That’s what the baphomet people do. It’s wicked! Period!!!!! As someone who did it, and was delivered from all sexual perversion. I know! Yes the Bible does condemn it. This is the thing. people start out making good TH-cam videos. And then they get off track, start giving their opinions - But the followers who shouldn’t be listening to TH-cam videos anyway because they are weak, and Philippians don’t know when to get off the bus. Those people are going to be lose their souls because they went to you instead of God. One of the only two preachers, who preach against it, said, God didn’t put it in the Bible, because he took it for granted that we had enough sense to not want to lick feces, urine, and menstrual blood. Also there’s a higher rate of oral cancer because of this. It’s called s---y!
God has strengthened your voice,... That you are not afraid to speak. Truly god bless you Pastor.
Much needed in the body of Christ , thanks for stepping out and speaking out on some hard topics. May God pour out much more grace and make known more and more his wonderful love to you. Amen!
Thank you pastor I really enjoy listening to you. I love how your teaching never feels condemning but still truthful. Thank you my brother in Christ!
Thank You, Vlad for talking about these topics!!! You are teaching us so that we have a better grasp on the subject. Of course, everybody is different and we must use discernment from The Holy Spirit, but these videos are leveling us up!! Thank you❤️
Hi Amy, how are you doing
We needed this Pastor, God Bless you for touching the subjects others would rather not.
Great teaching! I agree with your points, very thorough and definitely needed in the body of Christ. If the pastors cannot teach on it then the believers are left wondering…thank you for your boldness🔥
Things like this are so important, I feel that there are so many misconceptions and misunderstandings when it comes to marriage, thank you for making this, like a lot of people here are saying, not enough pastors/churches/etc, are talking about this and this needs to talked about
I agreed with everything 100% Thank you for breaking this topic down! So many people this day in age don't have the knowledge in this area. On the topic of sex tools, as we think of them, for some married couples it is necessary due to medical issues. Early on in our intimate relationship my husband noticed that I never was able to have an orgasim during intercourse. I thank the Lord that he is so compassionate and wanted to make sure I was having pleasure too. I had to figure out myself how to have one and it was hard to do physically. As the years went on it became impossible to do it on my own that's when we started looking for a tool to help. I am confident that we are not sinning by using the assistance. I hope this helps someone!
I would argue that using a sex toy is still sinful doesn't matter what your intention is. For something to be morally good it has to have both a moral means and a moral intention. So your intention might be seem good but your are still using an immoral means so therefore the action itself is not morally good. The same as robbing a bank can never be morally good, doesn't matter if you have a good intention or not (for example to give the money to the poor) you are still using an evil means and the end can never justify the means. You are meant to become one with your spouse. By using a toy you are becoming one and having sex with something that is not your spouse. Masturbation reconditions our bodies to only be able to respond to a hand or a foreign object, that's why a lot of women can not orgasm during normal intercourse anymore. The more you are going to use a toy the more you are reconditioning your body and the less likely it will be that you will orgasm during natural intercourse. Forget about orgasms for now and first focus on getting right with God. It's more important for you and your soul that you are in right standing with God than for you to orgasm.
k@@ABezuidenhout370thank u very much for not covering up the sin
Am from India...According to Indian custom our Pastors and Parents keep guiding us each Children's guidance classes every Sunday....
"The more your eyes is pure, the more your heart is pure....the more pleasure will be pure in your marriage..." When I heard these words I was amazed to hear and know that even there are God fearing children in western countries....Because here in India marriage is done with whole purity which includes the purity in our mind, soul & body....
God bless you Pastor and your Family.....Be a blessed mentor 🙏 🙏
Excellent job on this sensitive subject Vlad. As an ob/gyn doctor and minister of the gospel of Christ, I wholeheartedly agree with this teaching.
I think this was a good sound biblically based teaching. I think it is important to talk about these things to keep the marriage bed pure but also realize the liberties we do have in marriage. Thank you sir!
AMEN! Thank you vlad, this was very helpful, a topic nobody wants to talk about sometimes, but yet very necessary 👏
I think you handled this conversation very well 👏👏👏 biblical, focused, and authentic. This is how I viewed these topics already, and I'm glad to hear a godly man express a healthy perspective on this VERY important marital / adult topic. Well done 👏👏👏
Thank you for being brave enough to discuss this subject, it's so needed in the current times we live in.
This brought a lot of clarity and I love how you brought scripture with context in correct manner of understanding. I want to be prepared as possible and want purity in the highest form to honor God
People better start going to God instead of listening to all of these, TH-cam videos -Oral sex is a sin. It’s NOT pure. So is using sex toys- That’s what the baphomet people do. It’s wicked! Period!!!!! As someone who did it, and was delivered from all sexual perversion. I know! Yes the Bible does condemn it. This is the thing. people start out making good TH-cam videos. And then they get off track, start giving their opinions - But the followers who shouldn’t be listening to TH-cam videos anyway because they are weak, and Philippians don’t know when to get off the bus. people are going to be lose their souls because they went to him instead of God. One of the only two preachers, who preach against it, said, God didn’t put it in the Bible, because he took it for granted that we had enough sense to not want to lick feces, urine, and menstrual blood. Also there’s a higher rate of oral cancer because of this. It’s called s---y! Oh wait. He just said s--y is not in the Bible. And that it’s a little ok. He’s gone. He better repent! Unsubscribing
Thank you for talking about these things
The only other option for marriages and young people is the wrong information
This NEEDS to be addressed in this healthy forum
A very difficult topic that most speakers would avoid, although teaching on this topic is very much needed.
Salute you, brother for your courage in teaching uncompromising values on this subject.
Great job Pastor! I have never seen a pastor address such private matters….definitely answered some questions for me..thanks you!
Such an important topic. So glad to see it finally being talked about - real life questions.
Thank you Pastor. This is a sensitive topic that definitely needed to be addressed. Very well done. God bless you❤🙏
Thank God for your insights on this challenging topic. Even the local churches will not touch these subjects but God cares about the marriage bed and wants us not to destroy ourselves in it.
This was awesome! Thank you for clarifying on this topic which is so sensitive to us as Christians. I feel it’s better to know then to be deceived and especially having the topic being connected with scripture and making sure that we understand and not taking it in wrong context. Praise God! 🙌🏾
Thank you Pastor. This makes so much sense. As for those that disagree, it's their decision. Just go to GOD. No need to be rude. Blessings. 🙏🙏🙏
I was just praying to God about this subject. Thank you.