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Can a guy you’re friends with caught feelings you because a guy friend zoned me but I would still like a relationship with him. I just hope all hope isn’t lost.
From experience you will know if they are love bombing you and move way too fast in the beginning. The tricky part is narcissists are very smart and manipulative. They will make everything seem so natural and genuine but this is not the case. Any time someone moves too fast.. RUN!
I like this suggestion a great deal, Kimberly 👌 I'm putting together a great video on this one because this is a subject I know all too well. Thanks for chiming in! 😊
Also they seduce talking about themselves and how wonderful they are, so you start admiring them. He won't show too much interest in you or the things that he could admire from you.
My husband connected most with his mother. Being young and naive I did not realize that it would become a problem in our marriage. Many times I felt that her desires and wants came before mine with my husband. I dealt with it as best I could and am still married. But if a man tells you his mother is super important to him or he is very close to his mother you may really want to think about that one.
I went through the same thing and it was a nightmare! I dated my last boyfriend years back who was very close to his mother. Thankfully, we weren’t married. She was very dominant and intrusive. She didn’t like any of the women he dated, including me. One day she wrote me a nasty letter and literally mailed it to me. It got so bad that I had to file a restraining order and I hadn’t even met her yet at that time. I believe it was during the second or third year into our relationship. He was so torn between me and his parents. Then a year later I was diagnosed with breast cancer. He stayed by my side throughout my entire cancer treatment and he didn’t talk to his parents for months. It was one of the most difficult situation I’ve ever been in and the most heartbreaking experience after we broke up. Very, very painful. We were emotionally burned out and just couldn’t stay together. I’ve been single ever since. I would never want to be in that situation ever again. So, through that experience, I’ve been very mindful about the relationship with men and their mothers when I date. I was seeing one guy two years ago who doesn’t get along with his mother who is very controlling. That was a big red flag for me and I ended that relationship fast!
@@accesstotheredcarpet I am sorry to hear of what you went through. Two key words you mentioned where dominant and intrusive. Those sure ring true with my experience. I hope that you are doing well and I am sending you love, happiness and a big hug.🌹
Def worth a little more investigating. Although I believe you DO want a man to have a good relationship with his mother, absolutely. The question becomes whether or not he's "flown the nest" psychologically and is living his own independent life and not still taking marching orders from either parent 🤦🏻♂️
If I may suggest: #1 is the only question I'd ask on the first date. Ask the others at a time you think is appropriate. I'd never mention family or how I might fit into his life on the first, second or even third get together. If I were a man, those question would freak me out at the beginning.
I like you're videos... I'm a women of a particular age. I find that men these days speak like politicians. These questions are great but if he knows how to work ppl to get what he wants, he's going to answer in ways that he knows u want to hear. I look at actions and how he treats me. I always follow my intuition. Never steers me wrong.
I don’t believe in love or relationships anymore, but I still find these types of videos interesting and on my feed.. glad I found you, Ryan! Keep up the good work and happy holidays, you and yours! 😊
The more I listen to his videos the less hope I have of a relationship. It's like the women have to do all the hoop jumping for them so they dont have to change. Win/win or keep talking until it is. I've been dating and learning and practicing for 25 years and I don't feel any closer to achieving and maintaining a successful relationship. I think achieving a Banner relationship with myself is my future final endeavor and I'm at peace with that.
Its because the advice he gives sets up the narrative that man have to do stuff to make things work which makes it seem like you do more then you actually do....Men can spot that about woman if they expect too much from the beginning. A relationship is build casually and grows slowly...its like going to the gym....you dont have fit instantly you gotta respect the work progress. I suggest you should stop with these video's and focus more on yourself and less about finding "the one" cause working on yourself is a very attractive characteristic many men AND woman would want to find in somebody
If Marker #4 doesn't work for you because you don't want kids or marriage, flip it around and state that you don't want kids and/or marriage. I don't want kids and I make sure that my potential partner feels the same. Saves a lot of grief down the road! Thanks for the vids, Ryan!
This was an absolutely awesome video Ryan! I just started exclusively dating a guy last night and I asked the first 2 questions you mentioned. It helped me out tremendously on whether or not Josh(bf) was looking to settle down. Your videos have helped me out in so many ways! Thank you so much!! The only down fall is, I work with this man but on different shifts at work. However, we were friends years before we ever decided to start dating. :) I'm sharing this video with all my single girlfriends so you will have some new subs coming your way!!🤙
Awesome, Katie, thanks! 😀 And good luck! I'm happy to help! Just make sure to lean back, and don't be afraid to let things grow incrementally over time. Marathon, not the sprint 😉 You got this!
This was one of the most immediately applicable and informative videos you've put out. thank you ♥️ love the simple format where I can change the verbs or nouns to fit whatever my boundaries are
i generally dont rly like the videos about how to test a person as it often seems to be quite toxic, so not sure why i even clicked on this video, but these are some legit good questions to ask to get to know a person. thank you
A friend told me see how he treats his mom. She had a few dates with a guy who wasn't very nice at times and she found out later from a friend of his that he treated his mom terribly.
These are gems!!!! Thanks 🙏🏾 I’ve always known these were the things to say but did not know how to say them directly, u know without all the blah blah inbetween! I can’t wait to try these things out! Definitely a craft I plan to practice and make my own! Thanks again
Ryan!! Please make a video for us who are struggling to figure out the whole "love" situation... When is it a good time to say it? How can you tell if your boyfriend loves you?
I do have a video on my channel about "how to say I love you to a man" somewhere, Olivia, although I can't find it at first glance... It was one of my earlier videos and is only a few minutes long, but it will be at least a good start 😉
I absolutely love your videos! You seem so real an down to earth. You also know the right subjects to bring up and give sound and actually useful advice. So many of these proclaimed "dating coaches" (personally I hate that name) give really wishy washy advice or advice that just isn't applicable to real life and real situations! You hit the nail on the head in pretty much most of these videos! What I like most is the fact it's not about manipulating someone or playing games. It's more about being real, open and secure as a way of "getting what you want" from life and saying no to the things which aren't good for you! Personally I struggle with slight anxious attachment which I'm working on, so things like setting boundaries can be difficult because you don't want the person to leave so you put up with toxic behaviours! --> IDEA ---> Perhaps you could do some advice on how people with different attachments deal with dating!!?? Hi from London!
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Well let's say you asked on the first date what are his intentions and he tells you basically he's not looking for anything serious. Then there's no point to continue peeling the onion, right?
@@FarahwantsPeace You're going to know if he's serious or not based on his actions early on, not so much his words or by asking him that particular question. I'd rather see y'all watch his actions closely... is he initiating texts and setting up dates regularly with you? That kind of thing 🙂 Think of that question as something you maybe ask on date #3 or #4 to size up his personality and get a more informed sense of what he's looking for on a deeper level
Thank you! This is some good advise, love it❤️...I will put into practice some time in the near future, because as of now I haven’t had any luck with the people I have met online yet. In fact I didn’t like online dating at all. It was my 1st time trying online dating and I’m disappointed big time😞 but I can certainly use your advice the near future for sure!
Do you have any recommendations on how to tell if someone likes you during covid? Of course, being safe is the top priority. But having masks makes it super hard to read people. Any suggestions?
Rule number 1: get to a place where you are figuring out if you like THEM. Total game changer. You’re interviewing them to see if they are good enough for YOU. Who cares if they like you? If they don’t they aren’t to your standards anyway bc the guy for you likes you and shows it so there’s no guessing: next!
This was a really great video. I watched this after watching the one about how men test women and both were spot on in terms of important cues, I feel a bit more confident about the types of questions and markers to be mindful of on a date,
I’m upfront with my likes and dislikes, my mental condition, why I can’t drink socially, my plans for the next five years, and yet I still don’t always get a date even after I give him my number. What am I doing wrong?
Avoid it if you can. If you aren't mentally strong or have low self esteem or lonely you could end up making really wrong decisions. It isn't bad but be careful
How about the guy looking for Barbie instead of learning to love you from the inside out. I had a guy who enjoyed my wit but when he saw me he was turned off immediately.
The thing about these questions is you should only be asking them if he tells you specifically or is giving you the impression that he wants to be exclusive or if you guys have been on a few dates and the spark is there from his side as well. It's too much like an interview and the purpose is obvious. It might come across as too much if you're meeting up for the first date and don't even know what you guys are about. I have a problem with guys telling me what they're looking for in the very beginning (even online sometimes before we even meet). It spoils everything because 1. if you tell me you just got out of a relationship and want fun I know for a fact rebounds won't enjoy their time because they are not priorities so I won't go for it when I can go for someone else (even if I wanted fun I still want to be respected). 2. if you tell me you're in it to stay I'll worry about having to reject you if it doesn't work out and we haven't even been out yet, it's pressure. I say stop stating what you're looking for in the beginning and just enjoy the moments before jumping into these interviews.
I imagine you wouldn't bombarded him with all these questions at once. Let's use our common sense ☺ We wouldn't ask these questions to just any man either. Again common sense hehe
Anna nailed it here. You've got to "pepper" these in over multiple dates. You may even use them all, in fact, you probably don't need to. You may even only use two, or one. Def DON'T use these in back-to-back, rapid fire question-asking or *anything close* to that 🙅🏻♂️
One thing I think needs to be added to that 'not the casual sex type' point is that it most likely wont work in the situation where the guy is really young and the girl is considerably older than him. Putting that out there to him will probably scare him away as you being too serious and seeking a commitment,rather than have a possible casual fun:)That assuming you are open for it of corse..
Patrick what age group are you talking about usually in your videos? What about older women (35+)? What about online dating? This seems to be only for younger women who date offline. I wonder, if for example in online dating it is always better for the guy to initiate first?
What about doing a background check on the guy you fell in love with? I'm trying to do a marine/military background check while he's not around me and criminal background checks on him.
Umm yikes, that seems a little over the top, I would probably recommend asking him, and if it's a guy you feel like you would absolutely need to ask him that, I would look for other red flags first.
Subject for you : interested in a guy but kinda messed the vibe by explaning to much of your self/past/defaults.. he searches for friendship or else...
What about people who don't come from a picture perfect family? Most men I date are raised by their mom. I find it a bit discriminating the picture perfect questions.
I addressed the family question/issue pretty clearly in this video, Olivia. Not all questions will be appropriate to use with men; they’re meant to only be examples of things to bring up 🙂
9 of out 10 guys who are out there "looking" for interaction will not pass this kind of test - which is good, it cuts down a possible dissapointment early. Any human being who becomes avoidant and flaky, or just vague when asked early about their possible intentions is not a wise time investment(man or woman).
Hi Ryan, I had guy who kept messaging me on FB since like 6 to 7 years. Just a Hi, hello. Finally I replied and he gave his number. I added him. And we started chatting. He wanted me to meet him at his house. I denied. So now he stopped chatting and he is so angry with me. What should I do?? I want his attention now.
*NEW SUMMER 2024*
I now offer self-guided *online courses* to help women of ANY age and experience level CRUSH those single streets FASTER and more efficiently! 🙂
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Can a guy you’re friends with caught feelings you because a guy friend zoned me but I would still like a relationship with him. I just hope all hope isn’t lost.
I also feel like he’s catching feelings for me
Ryan is that guy best friend we all need in our lives
True talk
Google is bro, no one will replace Google...
Agree 100 percent, Kayleigh!
I wished he were my neighbor
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I would love to see a video on how to avoid a narcissist because they're very clever and I'd like to avoid them at all cost.
From experience you will know if they are love bombing you and move way too fast in the beginning. The tricky part is narcissists are very smart and manipulative. They will make everything seem so natural and genuine but this is not the case. Any time someone moves too fast.. RUN!
I like this suggestion a great deal, Kimberly 👌 I'm putting together a great video on this one because this is a subject I know all too well. Thanks for chiming in! 😊
Yes, moving too fast is a HUGE tell, but there are a few others. I'll try to cover all of them in an upcoming video indeed 🙌
Also they seduce talking about themselves and how wonderful they are, so you start admiring them. He won't show too much interest in you or the things that he could admire from you.
I attract narcs... tips are always good x
I honestly look at his actions. It says a lot. And remember no communication is communicating no interest!
Yup and yup!!! 🥺🥺🥺
Hurts but true 🥲
I've been watching this everyday this week because I'm back in the dating game...so many gold nuggets in this.
He is the big brother we never had🙏
My husband connected most with his mother. Being young and naive I did not realize that it would become a problem in our marriage. Many times I felt that her desires and wants came before mine with my husband. I dealt with it as best I could and am still married. But if a man tells you his mother is super important to him or he is very close to his mother you may really want to think about that one.
Yesss 👏🏽👏🏽
I went through the same thing and it was a nightmare! I dated my last boyfriend years back who was very close to his mother. Thankfully, we weren’t married. She was very dominant and intrusive. She didn’t like any of the women he dated, including me. One day she wrote me a nasty letter and literally mailed it to me. It got so bad that I had to file a restraining order and I hadn’t even met her yet at that time. I believe it was during the second or third year into our relationship. He was so torn between me and his parents. Then a year later I was diagnosed with breast cancer. He stayed by my side throughout my entire cancer treatment and he didn’t talk to his parents for months. It was one of the most difficult situation I’ve ever been in and the most heartbreaking experience after we broke up. Very, very painful. We were emotionally burned out and just couldn’t stay together. I’ve been single ever since. I would never want to be in that situation ever again. So, through that experience, I’ve been very mindful about the relationship with men and their mothers when I date. I was seeing one guy two years ago who doesn’t get along with his mother who is very controlling. That was a big red flag for me and I ended that relationship fast!
@@rw4898 Here here 🙌
@@accesstotheredcarpet I am sorry to hear of what you went through. Two key words you mentioned where dominant and intrusive. Those sure ring true with my experience. I hope that you are doing well and I am sending you love, happiness and a big hug.🌹
Def worth a little more investigating. Although I believe you DO want a man to have a good relationship with his mother, absolutely. The question becomes whether or not he's "flown the nest" psychologically and is living his own independent life and not still taking marching orders from either parent 🤦🏻♂️
If I may suggest: #1 is the only question I'd ask on the first date. Ask the others at a time you think is appropriate. I'd never mention family or how I might fit into his life on the first, second or even third get together. If I were a man, those question would freak me out at the beginning.
I like you're videos... I'm a women of a particular age. I find that men these days speak like politicians. These questions are great but if he knows how to work ppl to get what he wants, he's going to answer in ways that he knows u want to hear. I look at actions and how he treats me. I always follow my intuition. Never steers me wrong.
You're so pure Ryan
You're too kind, Oluchi 🙂
I don’t believe in love or relationships anymore, but I still find these types of videos interesting and on my feed.. glad I found you, Ryan! Keep up the good work and happy holidays, you and yours! 😊
Same here. These videos caused me to just see more red flags. What is the point moving on to the next if there is no next, or no better men.
That’s just you lmao it’s a you problem
Love yourself and love God. If a good man comes around that's great but we all can survive without a mate.
Same here ❤ I believe in love , but not able to believe in romantic love due to the way guys play mind games. Some are aggressive ,some are confused.
Met this girl. Going out in three days. Taking notes, gotta be prepared. She's very well behaved, I can't miss this.
Just LOVE your sense of humor, Patrick! You're hilarious and help viewers to keep a healthy perspective...
Thanks LJ! 🤗
For me, this has been Ryan Patrick's MOST USEFUL advice 👍👍👍
Great to hear! 🙂
#2 actually short circuits quite a few right pretty quickly. It's super frustrating, but yet saves a lot of time too.
The more I listen to his videos the less hope I have of a relationship. It's like the women have to do all the hoop jumping for them so they dont have to change. Win/win or keep talking until it is. I've been dating and learning and practicing for 25 years and I don't feel any closer to achieving and maintaining a successful relationship. I think achieving a Banner relationship with myself is my future final endeavor and I'm at peace with that.
Its because the advice he gives sets up the narrative that man have to do stuff to make things work which makes it seem like you do more then you actually do....Men can spot that about woman if they expect too much from the beginning.
A relationship is build casually and grows slowly...its like going to the gym....you dont have fit instantly you gotta respect the work progress.
I suggest you should stop with these video's and focus more on yourself and less about finding "the one" cause working on yourself is a very attractive characteristic many men AND woman would want to find in somebody
I feel the same way!!
Trust me, men feel the same way. My brother has the worst time finding a woman willing to work on herself.
I thought i already knew the power questions til i watched this. Pure genius. Thanks ryan
If Marker #4 doesn't work for you because you don't want kids or marriage, flip it around and state that you don't want kids and/or marriage. I don't want kids and I make sure that my potential partner feels the same. Saves a lot of grief down the road! Thanks for the vids, Ryan!
I will say, the police interrogator advice is useful in WAY more situations than just that.
This was an absolutely awesome video Ryan! I just started exclusively dating a guy last night and I asked the first 2 questions you mentioned. It helped me out tremendously on whether or not Josh(bf) was looking to settle down. Your videos have helped me out in so many ways! Thank you so much!! The only down fall is, I work with this man but on different shifts at work. However, we were friends years before we ever decided to start dating. :) I'm sharing this video with all my single girlfriends so you will have some new subs coming your way!!🤙
Awesome, Katie, thanks! 😀 And good luck! I'm happy to help! Just make sure to lean back, and don't be afraid to let things grow incrementally over time. Marathon, not the sprint 😉 You got this!
This was one of the most immediately applicable and informative videos you've put out. thank you ♥️ love the simple format where I can change the verbs or nouns to fit whatever my boundaries are
i generally dont rly like the videos about how to test a person as it often seems to be quite toxic, so not sure why i even clicked on this video, but these are some legit good questions to ask to get to know a person. thank you
A friend told me see how he treats his mom. She had a few dates with a guy who wasn't very nice at times and she found out later from a friend of his that he treated his mom terribly.
Always look at the dude how he treats his mother, sisters or female strangers. If he treats em bad then u know how hes gonna treat u in da future
Well..idk. i just knew that his mother is rlly "stressed" him out. Bc she wants to know a lot and yeah he isn't so good with her. 🤨😂 Hmm haha
Ryan is so cute! Doesn't he talk just like one of the girls? Love this channel.
Your videos are so helpful. I’m dealing with a guy who’s very confusing right now so watching your videos are helpful to me!!
Omg. The most important video ever. !!! Will be watching again n taking notes. You’re the best. Thanks Ryan 😘😘😘
I can’t wait to try these once lockdown is over in Melbourne!
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These are gems!!!! Thanks 🙏🏾 I’ve always known these were the things to say but did not know how to say them directly, u know without all the blah blah inbetween! I can’t wait to try these things out! Definitely a craft I plan to practice and make my own! Thanks again
Ryan!! Please make a video for us who are struggling to figure out the whole "love" situation... When is it a good time to say it? How can you tell if your boyfriend loves you?
I do have a video on my channel about "how to say I love you to a man" somewhere, Olivia, although I can't find it at first glance... It was one of my earlier videos and is only a few minutes long, but it will be at least a good start 😉
Oh, lord! Those first questions would have helped me out so much with my ex-BF.
Use em with the next one, Lisa 😉
I feel like I’m in a job interview for dating. 😂
I absolutely love your videos! You seem so real an down to earth. You also know the right subjects to bring up and give sound and actually useful advice. So many of these proclaimed "dating coaches" (personally I hate that name) give really wishy washy advice or advice that just isn't applicable to real life and real situations! You hit the nail on the head in pretty much most of these videos! What I like most is the fact it's not about manipulating someone or playing games. It's more about being real, open and secure as a way of "getting what you want" from life and saying no to the things which aren't good for you! Personally I struggle with slight anxious attachment which I'm working on, so things like setting boundaries can be difficult because you don't want the person to leave so you put up with toxic behaviours! --> IDEA ---> Perhaps you could do some advice on how people with different attachments deal with dating!!?? Hi from London!
My x always used to say "you just tell them what you know they want/like to hear".
Yes he did and it took me a while to read between the lines.
Ryan fabulous questions...i would really like to see more videos on how to online date...omg been on at least 10 dud dates and more!
Great video Patrick wish I had seen a video like this 4 months ago!!!
Haha thanks Holly! ✨
Have watched 3 or 4 videos of yours tonight - very useful into. Thanks.
Thanks, I'm just getting into a new relationship. This would be the perfect time for questions about our future.
Good questions to determine if you are on the same page
Awesome stuff Ryan! These questions are gold!!!
I'm very good at this and I will not stop
These are all so helpful, I wonder if you should ask these questions on the FIRST date?
I might sprinkle them in after a few dates have taken place. One here, one there - that kind of thing over a couple months of dating 😉
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Well let's say you asked on the first date what are his intentions and he tells you basically he's not looking for anything serious. Then there's no point to continue peeling the onion, right?
@@FarahwantsPeace You're going to know if he's serious or not based on his actions early on, not so much his words or by asking him that particular question. I'd rather see y'all watch his actions closely... is he initiating texts and setting up dates regularly with you? That kind of thing 🙂 Think of that question as something you maybe ask on date #3 or #4 to size up his personality and get a more informed sense of what he's looking for on a deeper level
Thank you! This is some good advise, love it❤️...I will put into practice some time in the near future, because as of now I haven’t had any luck with the people I have met online yet. In fact I didn’t like online dating at all.
It was my 1st time trying online dating and I’m disappointed big time😞 but I can certainly use your advice the near future for sure!
I love Ryan's way of explaining 😀🇦🇺
Very informative. Thanks for sharing
Hi Ryan great video! I did #3 and found out that he didn’t like anybody so that was a big game changer🤷♀️
Nice one, Kathy 👌
New subscriber here from Philippines. Hoping for your more advices and tips. 😇🙌
Do you have any recommendations on how to tell if someone likes you during covid? Of course, being safe is the top priority. But having masks makes it super hard to read people. Any suggestions?
Rule number 1: get to a place where you are figuring out if you like THEM. Total game changer. You’re interviewing them to see if they are good enough for YOU. Who cares if they like you? If they don’t they aren’t to your standards anyway bc the guy for you likes you and shows it so there’s no guessing: next!
I love all ur advices because I've been learning from what u say, Keep up the great work 💛
Binge watching your channel
Love it 🙌
Ryan this is a jewel box of invaluable information! Thank you.
This was a really great video. I watched this after watching the one about how men test women and both were spot on in terms of important cues, I feel a bit more confident about the types of questions and markers to be mindful of on a date,
very good, especially coming from someone younger.. impressive.
Ryan is the typical elder brother every girls would want to have
Thank you so much Ryan this is so useful! One of your best videos so far...actually i love them all haha 🙏🙏
Patrick is the best 🙂 Thank you for helping us ladies
My pleasure, Lili! 😀
I really like your videos. They are helpful. You are the best. Thanks so much for sharing great advice.
Woow you have nailed this video, love this
Awesome, I’m putting these to the test! Thanks Ryan!
Much love, Ryan!
Hi Ryan
I really love this topic👍 very helpful
Glad it was helpful! 🤟
Great questions thanks Ryan. Will deffinitely ask them whilst dating and see the reactions. Very curious now... 😃
These are good questions...Thanks Ryan🤔
I need to learn how to communicate with guys through sports metaphors
❤️thank you.
Great info!
I’m upfront with my likes and dislikes, my mental condition, why I can’t drink socially, my plans for the next five years, and yet I still don’t always get a date even after I give him my number. What am I doing wrong?
Thank you very much I used this to my boyfriend 😁😁😁😁
Hi Ryan I love your video
Best advice for dating in college or early 20s?
Avoid it if you can. If you aren't mentally strong or have low self esteem or lonely you could end up making really wrong decisions. It isn't bad but be careful
Don't! Support your BFF. Live together, uplift each other.
You are very entertaining to watch
Ryan. What if you can't have kids? When do you bring this up and how do you say it?
I wonder if there are more appropriate questions for dating over 60 retired etc men????
I love this channel
"Want to know how to know a guys true intentions, the answer is very tactical, are you ready... just ask him." That was the gist of this video 😂
This really helped me thank u so much I love watching all ur videos xx
He’s like, I love my family and my mom. 🤷♀️ lol!
Thanks, Ryan!
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How about the guy looking for Barbie instead of learning to love you from the inside out. I had a guy who enjoyed my wit but when he saw me he was turned off immediately.
Can't do much about him really. He wants barbie, he can go get barbie.
The thing about these questions is you should only be asking them if he tells you specifically or is giving you the impression that he wants to be exclusive or if you guys have been on a few dates and the spark is there from his side as well. It's too much like an interview and the purpose is obvious. It might come across as too much if you're meeting up for the first date and don't even know what you guys are about. I have a problem with guys telling me what they're looking for in the very beginning (even online sometimes before we even meet). It spoils everything because 1. if you tell me you just got out of a relationship and want fun I know for a fact rebounds won't enjoy their time because they are not priorities so I won't go for it when I can go for someone else (even if I wanted fun I still want to be respected). 2. if you tell me you're in it to stay I'll worry about having to reject you if it doesn't work out and we haven't even been out yet, it's pressure. I say stop stating what you're looking for in the beginning and just enjoy the moments before jumping into these interviews.
I imagine you wouldn't bombarded him with all these questions at once. Let's use our common sense ☺ We wouldn't ask these questions to just any man either. Again common sense hehe
Anna nailed it here. You've got to "pepper" these in over multiple dates. You may even use them all, in fact, you probably don't need to. You may even only use two, or one. Def DON'T use these in back-to-back, rapid fire question-asking or *anything close* to that 🙅🏻♂️
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@@annamarie3288 well thanks for your input. I must add though, what's common sense to you may not be to another, otherwise we wouldn't be here ;)
@@datingcoachryanpatrick hahaha. Alright that I can work with, thanks
I love these 🤩🤩
One thing I think needs to be added to that 'not the casual sex type' point is that it most likely wont work in the situation where the guy is really young and the girl is considerably older than him. Putting that out there to him will probably scare him away as you being too serious and seeking a commitment,rather than have a possible casual fun:)That assuming you are open for it of corse..
Patrick what age group are you talking about usually in your videos? What about older women (35+)? What about online dating? This seems to be only for younger women who date offline. I wonder, if for example in online dating it is always better for the guy to initiate first?
I'd like some in put in online dating. Where when communicating online from other states and countries. Do think a true relationship can be true?
Oh yes babe I’m saving this!
What about doing a background check on the guy you fell in love with? I'm trying to do a marine/military background check while he's not around me and criminal background checks on him.
I HIGHLY recommend this
Umm yikes, that seems a little over the top, I would probably recommend asking him, and if it's a guy you feel like you would absolutely need to ask him that, I would look for other red flags first.
Subject for you : interested in a guy but kinda messed the vibe by explaning to much of your self/past/defaults.. he searches for friendship or else...
The 3rd question 💯💯🤔
This is good information
Thank you 🙏
What about people who don't come from a picture perfect family? Most men I date are raised by their mom. I find it a bit discriminating the picture perfect questions.
I addressed the family question/issue pretty clearly in this video, Olivia. Not all questions will be appropriate to use with men; they’re meant to only be examples of things to bring up 🙂
I think many of us come from dysfunctional families and relationships. Just finding a great guy would be nice.
Definitely try and read the closed captions on this, wow...someone was smoking something lol
What's going on! Caption guy/girl is having a huge laugh at his expense...
“Tonight you and artifacts when the contract treatment...” 😂😂😂😂
Awesome tips
Glad you think so, Ruth! 😄
Thanks Ryan
Sure thing, Melinda!
Wished I had these questions 7 years ago🤦🏾♀️😂
This is fantastic Ryan, thank you!
"He is not my guy if he does not want a family? Not my choice, and surely not the only woman not to want children...
9 of out 10 guys who are out there "looking" for interaction will not pass this kind of test - which is good, it cuts down a possible dissapointment early. Any human being who becomes avoidant and flaky, or just vague when asked early about their possible intentions is not a wise time investment(man or woman).
It's useful for cutting out people with avoidant/anxious attachment styles, for sure
Definitely not love r relationship
Why can’t we bang and still have mutual respect for one another?
Hi Ryan, I had guy who kept messaging me on FB since like 6 to 7 years. Just a Hi, hello. Finally I replied and he gave his number. I added him. And we started chatting. He wanted me to meet him at his house. I denied. So now he stopped chatting and he is so angry with me. What should I do?? I want his attention now.
Love it, thank you.