buzzfeed told me how gay i am

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  • @sammjaisais7135
    @sammjaisais7135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    Awwwww, so we're parasocial friends? Yayyy!

  • @DellCTRL
    @DellCTRL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    I feel like a straight person made the “How Gay Are You?“ Buzzfeed quiz.

    • @Niniminns
      @Niniminns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Probably. They went to a gay bar once and saw that gay people like drinking and hooking up and said wow I understand the gay community I'm gonna make a quiz about it.

    • @yerinbaekscandlelight
      @yerinbaekscandlelight 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ya think lmao

    • @snowyowlss
      @snowyowlss 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      now i, a gay person, want to make a “how straight are you” with a bunch of homophobic questions making fun of myself

  • @ethevillagecryptid2293
    @ethevillagecryptid2293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    Half of the questions: are you sexually attracted to/do you want to have sex with people of the same sex???
    Me, an asexual lesbian:

  • @Winter-nr6gb
    @Winter-nr6gb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I mean these quizzes are horrible anyway, but imagine how confused they left the grayaro ace 12 year old me

  • @doyoulikemyhat1404
    @doyoulikemyhat1404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    uquizzes has some really fun quizzes centered around being gay that aren’t just “do you like people of the same gender”
    they actually have lots of different quizzes, they can be pretty fun

  • @certifiednerd542
    @certifiednerd542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Fun facts about JFK: 1. He was most likely bisexual, as he had a gay friend who lived IN THE WHITE HOUSE with him, they also went to Italy and adopted a puppy. 2. His notes from the Cuban Missile Crisis are “decision” over and over again with a rug drawn in the middle. He was pretty cool.

    • @NonBinary_NonHuman
      @NonBinary_NonHuman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      If I recall correctly Abraham Lincon was either gay or bisexual. He had men lovers who loved to comment on his thighs.

    • @certifiednerd542
      @certifiednerd542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@NonBinary_NonHuman Cool!! I’ll look into that!!

    • @bannedaccount540
      @bannedaccount540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He also had connections with the Italian Mafia through his father and it's theorized that they helped get him elected thinking that they would be able to control him and when this turned out not to be the case they killed him.
      Also his VP was almost certainly a Klansman given his origins and how powerful the KKK were in the Democratic party until the mid 1970s

    • @certifiednerd542
      @certifiednerd542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bannedaccount540 Oh wow, I love new knowledge that’s pretty cool. But not cool at the same time

    • @solsystem1342
      @solsystem1342 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We learned about JFK and his "close friend" in history. I think my teacher kind if tried to explain it but my aro/ace spec poly heart just latched onto multiple life partners, yes please😂

  • @jrichard88
    @jrichard88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    4:14 "Gender binaries, what the fuck?" needs to be a video title at some point.

  • @kyleesh217
    @kyleesh217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    As an aro/ace that is bi-orientated, taking those quizzes was painful and the lack of representation...😔

    • @divabhardwaj6381
      @divabhardwaj6381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If you don’t mind me asking, how can you be bi oriented AND aroace? Doesn’t that rule out both, or are you just on the aroace spectrum (like Demisexual/Demiromantic)

    • @dolcebelcanto3626
      @dolcebelcanto3626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      saaaaaaaame
      when I was trying to figure out if I was bi, I was taking these quizzes and the focus on sex was really off-putting
      now I know I'm grey-ace, and possibly grey-romantic

    • @copper.canary
      @copper.canary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@divabhardwaj6381 Hey there! I can't speak for the commenter but I'm also an oriented aroace and these are my thoughts. There are other types of attraction than sexual and romantic (alterous, sensual, platonic, etc. if you don't know what those are, feel free to google them :)) and being an oriented aroace means you feel attraction other than romantic and sexual that's significant enough to warrant a label outside of your aroace identity. I personally don't identify with a label alongside it because I don't feel like I need one (such as bi-oriented, lesbian oriented, etc,) I feel like my orientedness is enough of a label itself with the way I experience my attraction. Other terms I recommend looking into if you're curious is queer platonic partner and appromour. I hope this helped!

    • @kyleesh217
      @kyleesh217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@copper.canary explained perfectly. for me, it just means i want to be in a relationship and maybe be in a relationship with a man, woman, or androgynous person (hence the bi) but i dont feel romantic or sexual attraction. hope this helps!

    • @solsystem1342
      @solsystem1342 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@divabhardwaj6381
      Also bi oriented aro/ace
      I'm kind of fuzzy because I'm nearly sex repulsed and romance repulsed but I still want a life partner or partners to live with and raise children

  • @Itri_Vega
    @Itri_Vega 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I think the reason I never really bothered with these quizzes was because they are so heavily centred around sexual attraction. Which of course makes sense for most people but from the moment I learnt what sex was I knew I didn't want it. But good luck finding anything on asexuality 15-20 years ago... To this day I don't know what romantic attraction feels like, either, though I understand aesthetic attraction. Hence, quoiromantic and aegosexual or, for the sake of brevity, aroace.

  • @queen_strawberries
    @queen_strawberries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Flashbacks to 12 year old me taking this test and absolutely shitting myself

  • @thecraziestcrayon
    @thecraziestcrayon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The "how gay are you?" quiz was made by two dudes. And I have a sneaking suspicion they're straight. I took so many of those quizzes when I started questioning my sexuality. Ones like "am I bisexual?" or "Am I really gay?" and "what's my sexuality?" younger me was like "trust my own feelings?? Nonsense! We are trusting buzzfeed!!"

  • @auggienussbaum1794
    @auggienussbaum1794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm genderfluid-- and ace- what am I supposed to choose--- AHAHAHAHAH

  • @wm9482
    @wm9482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I feel like my general social anxieties would affect my results on these quizzes. I'd probably wind up in a weird one way argument/rant with/at buzzfeed where I'm trying to convince them that I'm bi, just with social anxieties that make being around people difficult.

  • @mafaldacosta13
    @mafaldacosta13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    My demi ace ass would fail these tests

    • @DatNinjaCow03
      @DatNinjaCow03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same, my aro ace ass would be like "what do you mean,,, Attraction??" lmao

  • @rx500android
    @rx500android 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Gotta say, I love your new haircut, it's really cute!

  • @ic3yr0
    @ic3yr0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    idk why but when she said we were her best friends and that you loved us I just felt super happy all of a sudden. It really makes me feel loved even just doing small things like that. So thank you

  • @thelittlestpika
    @thelittlestpika 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm just like "What is gender? Why does it matter, Buzzfeed?"

  • @arklestudios
    @arklestudios 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video was an excellent reminder of why I don't take Buzzfeed quizzes anymore. Your frustration was palpable.

  • @doplop
    @doplop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i like how the buzzfeed one was basically
    how gay are you quiz
    1. pick a color
    2. pick a song
    3. how gay are you

  • @thughyung
    @thughyung 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love this parasocial friendship, i watch your vids while eating usually so it feels like sitting and hanging out w a friend

  • @transmaddie
    @transmaddie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like this channel's vibes. It's so much more calming and comforting than the main. Not that the main is bad, just prefer different moods on different days y'know? This feels much more friendly is the best way to put it. Cuz you generally are more intense on the main channel cuz like, it's what appeals ig, but this feels more genuine, not that I don't think the main feels genuine... I over explain stuff, sorry.

    • @Winter-nr6gb
      @Winter-nr6gb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your profile-pic is really cute. And i like your name :) /gen

  • @sammy_chan_6423
    @sammy_chan_6423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I remember this one BuzzFeed quiz my friend did about Harry Potter what Hogwarts class would be in in the quiz had the most stupidest questions lmao 🤣

  • @vg1384
    @vg1384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I used to take so many of those and always chose the straightest answer. Also the sexually attracted questions were always a no from me because I'm demi so sexual attraction is rare

  • @anonymwlw
    @anonymwlw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Also used to take quite a few of these quizzes back when I was questioning, and let me tell you, even as an allosexual person the "are you attracted to the same sex/gender" questions were NOT helpful because that was exactly what I wasn't sure about!

  • @jsxnjsxnxn2305
    @jsxnjsxnxn2305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yes! Do more quizzes! I took these quizzes with you and that was quite fun lol

  • @PKMNResearcherSkyler
    @PKMNResearcherSkyler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    4:10 While the questions on this quiz are overall useless, that one actually serves some use for ace people who are sex indifferent or favorable. Pretty much for anyone that doesn't feel sexual attraction, but still enjoys sex.
    Even with that said I doubt the quiz was actually going for that and had asexual people in mind while writing the questions

  • @ariangelcub1695
    @ariangelcub1695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel like most of these quizs forget asexual can be gay too..

  • @onecargoshort
    @onecargoshort 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    if all the questions in these quizzes are based on being sexually attracted to the same gender, then all these quizzes would declare me, an asexual lesbian, not gay

  • @sunflowerspirited4974
    @sunflowerspirited4974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These quizzes knew I was pan before I even knew. I took so many in middle school XD

  • @lindseytaylor3793
    @lindseytaylor3793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    can't believe i was just undiagnosed with gay by buzzfeed

  • @somebodynowhere
    @somebodynowhere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel like some of those quizzes should have a secret immediate ending after you express the exact thing the quiz is asking about. question 1 do you feel ____? Yes. Okay quiz over no need for 29 more questions. also the quiz trying to find several ways to ask the exact same question like you were going to somehow going to give a different answer 2 questions later makes it feel really tedious

  • @ellaronci2703
    @ellaronci2703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "now a little backstory about yellow...."

  • @samaradejonge1011
    @samaradejonge1011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you invented the color yellow. i don't make the rules.

  • @elzepan3130
    @elzepan3130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the fact that you missed such a great opportunity to make a felix sunshine joke makes me irrationally uneasy, but ill have to live with that

    • @itsqiwi
      @itsqiwi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this is my biggest regret

    • @Travel_and_kittens
      @Travel_and_kittens 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@itsqiwi a) it was a missed opportunity.
      b) happy birthday!

  • @halcyonmoon
    @halcyonmoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    me taking these as a nonbinary (agender) person: wtf is a same sex I don't have a gender does that mean they have all the genders?

  • @DGAMINGDE
    @DGAMINGDE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    James Buchanan was the gay answer.

  • @pinkbunnyskyedoesthings7762
    @pinkbunnyskyedoesthings7762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I felt second hand offence by the 'kinda gay' result as I am bi

  • @_..jolene.._
    @_..jolene.._ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The intro ayeee I finally have a friend🐸
    PLS YOUR WALLPAPER😭

  • @marygracemcgrath
    @marygracemcgrath 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was a fun video! I'm down if you do more quizzes👀👀👀

  • @Niniminns
    @Niniminns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The buzzfeed quiz is so annoying. I had to pretend to like alcohol, and the sex questions were weird and there were too many of them. There was no good alternative for me since I don't know if I like having sex with ppl of the same gender, probably, maybe...

  • @parker6765
    @parker6765 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    buying a yellow hoodie is what also made me obsessed with the color yellow

  • @bee2068
    @bee2068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    GayquizGayquizGayquiz

  • @jusounds
    @jusounds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your yellow hair were iconic!

  • @fruehlinglich
    @fruehlinglich 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "This was fun, I hated that" is me everytime I finish a buzzfeed quiz

  • @colef2345
    @colef2345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now that you’ve done the am I gay quizzes you should do general quizzes! Let’s find out what your favourite squash would be if you were a Disney princess

  • @abigalevandeven3517
    @abigalevandeven3517 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    not me crying at the first 10 seconds of this video after 2 years of isolation 😂😭

  • @oliwiamatylda8258
    @oliwiamatylda8258 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    do a few of uquiz ones, theyre honestly the funniest and most stupid. i love them sm

  • @in.cod.we.trust1312
    @in.cod.we.trust1312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    pov me at 11 and in denial

  • @emmareadsbooks9631
    @emmareadsbooks9631 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you have no idea how happy you saying hello friends made me😍

  • @Travel_and_kittens
    @Travel_and_kittens 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy birthday!!!!!

  • @eli-aleth
    @eli-aleth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Now I am going to try those too lmao 🤣

  • @emmareadsbooks9631
    @emmareadsbooks9631 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was really fun!!! am 100% guilty of taking these quizzes in my youth *dramatic jane austen style sigh*, and i am equally up for similar videos! love ya!

  • @orvynn
    @orvynn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    12:20 hmmm, I'm not completely sure about that🤔
    /j

  • @1321MrHappy
    @1321MrHappy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got very gay, which ig, I'm in a "gay" relationship. But not @ me doing this 5 years ago and saying the results were wrong lol

  • @elaexplorer
    @elaexplorer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ball lightning is extremely terrifying.

  • @Charlie-oeskypp
    @Charlie-oeskypp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not me looking up gay quizzes (cause I was bored) and finding the first one exactly. I also got the same answer

  • @qquack1950
    @qquack1950 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love ur hair so cuteeeee

  • @TheEllieBree
    @TheEllieBree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't realize you had a second channel ngl

  • @biandanxious3438
    @biandanxious3438 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you!
    Thanks for posting.
    We don't reaaaaally know each other but I always feel so much better when i watch your vids 😅

  • @gofornicatethyself
    @gofornicatethyself 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Are you attracted to people of the same sex?” “Maybe... for instance I could be attracted to a man” “You were born a man?!” “No. I am AFAB” *visible confusion*

  • @caliowiel
    @caliowiel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you can try some uquiz stuff, they're pretty cool

  • @ashleyoverthinkslots
    @ashleyoverthinkslots 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i am very gay yay

  • @freakatron-3000
    @freakatron-3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fucking plane one... I should not have laughed so hard...

  • @CynderWolff
    @CynderWolff 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    intro is sooo cute~

  • @Contemplater
    @Contemplater 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this video ❤❤❤

  • @maggieleslie9860
    @maggieleslie9860 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy belated birthday!

  • @AmmyTheGhost
    @AmmyTheGhost 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got “traditional labels are meaningless”

  • @cassieopeiia
    @cassieopeiia ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Saying sex is fine if you wanna explain your AGAB but if you're referring to sexuality just say gender. I'm gay, which means i like men. I don't like trans women, cause I'm not attracted to an agab, I'm attracted to a certain GENDER

  • @emeraldlily673
    @emeraldlily673 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The lack of music at the end really threw me lol

  • @annaaahhhz
    @annaaahhhz ปีที่แล้ว

    when i was little (5th grade with my moms computer) i would take these quizzes all the time and here i am now a raging bisexual

  • @tatjanajana_
    @tatjanajana_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i remember taking the buzzfeed quiz when i had first realised i was bisexual. i was so desperate to score the gay result because i craved validation. yeah . . . those were the days.

  • @Malevolent_Maya
    @Malevolent_Maya 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bestie status? I'm flattered bestie

  • @ellouisebadger849
    @ellouisebadger849 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    physically laughing at this 😂

  • @ChloePotaters
    @ChloePotaters 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve watched almost all the videos on your other channel so it was time😈💖

  • @emilybonham4020
    @emilybonham4020 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i just want to say that i love your oat milk tshirt

  • @SgtSnuggles2008
    @SgtSnuggles2008 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Sunshine isn't a phenomenon". How long have you lived in the UK?

  • @souwen266
    @souwen266 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    And when you are ace, but romantically gay they call you straight

  • @bell58137
    @bell58137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you do like vegan stuff content. Like a grocery haul or a pantry tour? I would LOVE that

    • @itsqiwi
      @itsqiwi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i would love to one day!
      maybe when i move after i come back from new zealand and we have our life together haha. at the moment we order delivery most days and then just eat a lot of toast and pasta with pesto and peas 😭 not very creative nor much to show.
      my family pantry in new zealand might be good though, that’s always super full and my mum does meal prep sometimes and my sister bakes a lot. so maybe when i’m there!

    • @bell58137
      @bell58137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsqiwi sounds awesome! (tho i think that trashvegans if i might say so are always good representation since that s what most of us eat yet others only see the celeryjuice folks and get scared)

  • @swampfae8309
    @swampfae8309 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Second quiz be like:
    ✨⭐Homosexual Tendencies✨🌈

  • @dolcebelcanto3626
    @dolcebelcanto3626 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    apparently President James Buchanan was suspected to be gay lmao
    probably why they had that question in

  • @tuturtley
    @tuturtley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    as a gay trans person whenever the "opposite/same sex" question comes in I never know how to answer because ????? do you mean if I fantasy about cis men only, then it's not the same sex but I'm not straight so saying opposite is weird???? if it's about cis women no I don't think of them because I'm gay but I don't care about genitalia so if the man I'm into do have the "same sex" as me then it's okay??????? I just like men regardless my guy 😭 I'm too gay for these quizes ig

    • @paristonhill2199
      @paristonhill2199 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      THIS!! As a gay trans guy I never know how to answer those questions! A lot of the time those quizzes don’t include trans people! I wish they would just get rid of the term same sex in the quizzes! 😅

  • @yellowutella
    @yellowutella 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The buzz feed quiz felt straight. Like you can still be gay without having had sex or feeling sexual attraction. Idk why they put so much emphasis on sex. Also “the one could be either sex” Why does there have to be “the one?” Polyamorous people exist.

  • @EmilieTheFail
    @EmilieTheFail 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My homescreen is the same…just Ateez instead of Stray Kids 😌 we love to see it 😌.

    • @itsqiwi
      @itsqiwi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      taste.
      who’s your bias?

    • @EmilieTheFail
      @EmilieTheFail 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsqiwi
      In Ateez it’s Yeosang ( he’s also my ult bias and general love if my life 😭). (But also Hongjoong & Jongho) In Skz it’s Chan 💓

  • @manicpixiedreamgrl
    @manicpixiedreamgrl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Try wine with 7up, you will love wine after this :)

    • @itsqiwi
      @itsqiwi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this is legit the only way i’ll drink it. wine with sprite >>>>

  • @haunted7937
    @haunted7937 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i would pick jfk cus i love clone high

  • @sadiesavanna8369
    @sadiesavanna8369 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmao the intro gave me nostalga I think from sssniperwolf (Ik she's not a good person now but I used to watch her as a kid a lot)

  • @roxannewalter4384
    @roxannewalter4384 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay, but who else went looking for am I gay quizzes when they were 12 and started questioning , and when it said that you were gay you deleted the whole search history so it never happened😂😂 I'm out as lesbian and non-binary now👍

  • @michaelalpert8328
    @michaelalpert8328 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    bi≠half gay

  • @pompitousoflove
    @pompitousoflove 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Buchanan was the gay president. Weird question tho.