ngl i thought she was a guy in the thumbnail, not ugly, just a normal guy. when saw her face closer up and realized she was a girl i thought it was really cool. idk but i definitely wouldn't say she's ugly. something about her facial features just work together so well that make her look so much more interesting (not in a bad way) to look at than any instagram model i've seen (cause they all look the same). idk her face is may not be beautiful but i like looking at it
How special to hear this 10 years after you recorded this! I hope you are still finding hope and inspiration and living and loving life in beautiful ways! 💕
I hope she comes back and tells us if her thoughts have changed or still the same, who she is ten years later as we all change so much when we are young
@@K-a-n-d-i-s What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also. Our judgments should always be: John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge. 2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says? Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind. What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.” We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word. KJV Bible says; Matthew 6:31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? Luke 12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
i literally cried today about how I am not as pretty and feminine as all the other girls and this popped up on my feed … thank you so much … needed this ❤
I love this attitude. There's such emotional intelligence and strength behind being able to find fulfillment in yourself, and to not feel the need to compare yourself to other people and to realize that attractiveness is arbitrary and insignificant in a lot of ways
I feel like this is what the internet is about. A woman simply expressing her inner thoughts about existence, broadcasted for anyone to see and kept online forever. It's history documented
The fact that a good portion of these comments are debating whether or not she's actually "physically ugly" defeats the purpose of the video and what she's trying to say. Sad.
Cora LovesGlam I know what she is trying to say. But she does it because she thought a lot about her apperiance in the past. We all want to be loved and seen as beautifull on the insde AND outside. Its a fact. And its not ok saying: its ok I may see myself as ugly, but there are other things important than that. Because and this is the sad truth: its very important in this society to be beautifull. And being ugly, I mean physically ugly, is only possible if you see yourself like that. You can accept it and stay ugly, you can avoid it and also stay ugly or you can deny it and voila you are beautifull. Without surgery, without makeup, without anything. Beauty is not always something that is physical, its something in your attitude. If you are physically beautifull and you know that, well congrats. But if you are not, but you think it anyways, you are also beautifull. But if you think, well I am not beautifull, but it doesn't matter, other things are more important. Well they are, but it doesn't change the fact that you think you are ugly. And so will other people see you too. And I think its all started, because other people told her once she is ugly. And instead of finding out her outer beauty, she tells a lot about other things that matter in this life. I know its not the most important thing in the world to be beautifull. For me its health and independence. But even I lay in hospital, when I had a good day, I did my make up. I care for myself with doing make up, because it was the only way I could care for myself at all.
I agree. With comments like that, people are just admitting that physical appearance means everything to them. They can't understand that there are some other people that simply don't care about physical appearance. Why would you have say to anyone that he/she is pretty or ugly? Only shallow people do that. To me, personality is everything. If you're good and intelligent person, that's all I need to be good with someone.
Cora LovesGlam everyone these days is so obsessed with physical appearance that it doesn’t matter how ‘beautiful’ we are on the inside anymore ... also sad
Yup. I think they're just projecting their own insecurities on her. For people who base their entire self-worth on their looks it's probably intimidating to meet someone who gives zero fucks, so they try to pull her down to their level.
Love this! I have a sister who just passed away, and she said while she was sick that she wished she'd worried less about how she looked and more that she had a body and it worked and was healthy! ❤
You are wise beyond your years and your not ugly in the slightest. Not physically, mentally or spiritually. The world needs more people like you in it. God bless.
i dont think she's ugly at all either, shes just.. normal. i think the fact this video has been made really goes to show social media ruins our perspective.
Yeah, the point isn’t whether or not she’s ugly. The point is that there’s so much more to life than just your appearance. And that being ugly isn’t the end of the world.
We can get the point of the video and still tell her we don't think she's ugly. We want to say nice things to other people. We're also so used to people fishing for compliments in life and social media that we're almost programmed to compliment people when they say they don't measure up in some way. She's not actually fishing for compliments, of course, but comes off as such a sweet, smart, interesting person that it's like a natural instinct for me to want to comfort her and tell her she's fucking beautiful and amazing. I won't though. But I understand why people would.
You took words out of my mind and actually made them less chaotic and incoherent. I'm ugly and fat. And that's absolutely fine with me. My attractivness to other people is not what I take a sense of worth from. And there is so many other things I want to be: be a more confident artist, be more dedicated pagan, be able to rollerblade, be a better friend, be more able to cope with life... pretty is so low on priorities right now it's not even on the list. There is so many people in my life (hi mom!) that just can't wrap their head around the idea.
As an ugly girl, I just want to share the most important thing I’ve learned: that I shouldn’t let what beauty I have go to waste just because I don’t have the beauty that I wanted. There’s a lot of beauty in kind eyes, work worn hands, and smiling lips.
you don't born to be convectionally beautiful, but you do it trough a process of self improvement, fitness, chirurgy and so on, being beatiful isn't just having a pretty face, but also a strong personality and an "healthy" body both things were people nowayds don't care about enough, they don't take care of themselves by letting themselves become obese, without gettin any decent air cut, by dressing decently and so onn then they blame the society for not considering them attractive, start do as much as you can to improve yourself and stop comparing to the others, that's whrn you will reach success.
Well if you don’t think you’re beautiful you could just fix it. These days you can go as far as plastic surgery. The girl in this video would be super good looking if she grew out her hair, got rid of her glasses, straightened her teeth, got some acne creams etc. Most women that are good looking today weren’t born like that. They artificially changed how they looked. Most women would look like this girl if there wasn’t so much pressure to be pretty
@@putinsgaytwin4272 bruh..I see your perspective and that you are suggesting because you care but people are more then their bodies. I have a friend that’s so incredibly beautiful. was a plus size model and a weather girl. she got a surgery to make her stomach tiny so she wouldn’t be plus sized. and had some ribs removed. she can’t feel if her mouth is open or closed due to a facial procedure. she only eats 4 ounces of food a day. now i’m her only friend. the only one that’s not grossed out when she dry heaves, hiccups, vomit comes out of her nose if she burps and she passes gas pretty much all day. sometimes she can’t make it to the bathroom :( her instagram pictures are very popular. the guys who show interest in her and want to meet up have no idea what she goes through…. I will always protect her. I’m not pretty but I’m emotionally strong and street smart. I do hope she finds a partner one day though..
No one is really ugly nor is anyone really beautiful. We are multidimensional and can actually exhibit both qualities simultaneously, but those terms should not define us. I grew up in a very shallow community where the standard of beauty or attractiveness is a very narrow list of certain characteristics. Since I was the only member of my family who didn’t meet this standard, I am referred to as “the ugly sister” in those circles. Fortunately, I moved far away from that place many years ago and refuse to see people in such a ridiculous way. You articulated this position magnificently. Thank you so much!
Feeling beautiful IS though. She said she avoids mirrors, and feels insecure sometimes. Anytime she goes to the restroom she cannot avoid the mirrors. Her features are symmetrical, eyes are pretty. It would be low maintenance to have a short haircut that won't allow the hair to stick upward & a shampoo/conditioner for her hair type plus a facewash for her skin type. I'm not a makeup type of girl, barely brush my hair, but I use some inexpensive yet proper products for skin and hair, my hair is layered, short, and frayed for easy care. Daily hair washing would be even easier if she rocked a shorter haircut and it might make her feel as beautiful as she actually IS.
Indiawalker27 it's not people's fault for thinking that way when society has been feeding us all these beauty standards, on what is considered beautiful or handsome, and what isn't, since the dawn of time. Whether that's through media, advertisements, or peer pressure, it ultimately creates this narrow perspective into your mind that you start following. I mean, we've been subconsciously told to do this our whole lives. Edit: Its also completely natural to want to look beautiful. Animals such as peacocks and certain birds "show off" their feathers in order to attract mates and get partners. We do the same thing when trying to look for a partner. It's completely natural and instinctual. It's just that the standards these days are ridiculously high.
Indiawalker27 Nobody give a shit. Subconsciously everyone loves beautiful people and hates ugly people. Looks are the only thing that matters in modern society.
In a time when looks and superficiality reign tyrannically over all virtues, your words and character have been a breath of spring garden air and a most refreshing break from the sulfur and waste of contemporary standards. Thank you. Clearly, you are beautiful.
When this video came out I was 4, but I still resonate with it a lot! Recently I've started thinking this way too, noticing that sometime we get too wrapped around being "beautiful" that we forget the beautifully absurd things that make us all human. At the end of the day, defined jaw line or not, we're all just silly little human beings on this crazy, diverse planet. So don't waste your time being sad about being pretty or ugly, just live your life happy! Love this vid! :)
That was truly beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing that. Also I think that everyone feels "ugly" or "beautiful" from time to time but it comes down to the meaning we give to these labels
but we can have both. my god, it's almost like pretty people cannot be good people. life is not black or white, we can focus on our appearance and still focus on our internal journey.
@@LauraLaura-mv4xh The point is that society holds beauty in an overly high place and makes people forget other things they have and could do. That's what the video is about, not that pretty people aren't good people or that caring about your appearance is bad.
Turk Means Strong! Oh my god fuck off! Our generation definitely still reads books, and stop acting like you’re so above people playing PS4 when you’re commenting on a TH-cam video
no, actually, everyone in comments be like “omg everyone stop saying she’s pretty did you even watch the video”. I’ve seen two comments actually saying she’s pretty. Fuck outa here hypocrite
it feels like you really do just have to accept it and stop viewing it as such a negative thing, but it’s so hard…. it’s so hard to keep telling myself that looks don’t matter
Made 10 years ago and still making an impact. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes it's very hard to keep things in perspective. This coming from someone who was never conventionally pretty, but in recent years just keeps losing what little there was to various health conditions... permanent hairloss and facial discolouration being the worst offenders :')
@@aerbald beauty can be an accomplishment. Going to the gym requires time and dedication. Yes those people are born with good bone structure but the accomplishment is maintaining that appearance so that they can be happy with themselves
That is kinda BS I used to be hella fat and put in hella work and stuff and I look way better I think it does come easier for some people (being good looking) but really you can work out your facial muscles and get a jawline/ basically what I'm saying is it is an accomplishment
Thank you for posting this as much as people think this is sad this is how many ugly people feel when we know we are different some days I can’t leave the house because I feel so ugly and I know it’s outrageous but knowing other people who I don’t think are ugly feel this way gives me hope maybe one day I can be care free like all the naturally pretty people.
Physically she would do just fine with a better haircut, contacts instead of glasses and some makeup... but what she really says is that the physical beauty is the least important one, because it's superficial
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@@Danuxsy I mean humans probably do look really weird if you're looking from an Aliens perspective lol. Upright walking meat sacks, with fur only growing out of the top of their heads, all different shapes and sizes. Pretty wild
And the people telling her to put on makeup and that she could potentially be attractive, all of you are missing the point. You're all reflective of the media and society we live in, trying to change a person to fit your perception of how they should be instead of accepting them as who they truly are.
+reyom neraul and what world do you live in? I'm sorry to break it to you but there are standards whether you like it or not. She is obviously not happy so people are making suggestions on how she can change it. And she can. There are a lot of tv shows there people get a make-over and feel much better, their eyes shine. Everyone loves feeling pretty. And she is not ugly. I can just see what I would change in her (hair, make-up, glasses). She can be really pretty. She actually reminds me of Emily Bett Rickards.
+IrinNovy If she liked makeup she would wear it. She's made another video to say that she doesn't wear makeup because it doesn't interest her currently. And yes society has its standards haha! But no one is required to mold themselves to them. Society's standards are the reason she is depressed to begin with, and if she chooses not to abide by them that's her choice to make. And yes I believe that she is attractive as well. Beauty isn't always about changing yourself, it can be about changing your mindset. She views herself as different, and realizes that it's okay to be that way.
reyom neraul of course it's her choice but if she's unhappy (and she clearly is) why not become conventionally pretty? I see a weird contradiction here. She doesn't like makeup - ok. Her choice. But she feels really miserable because she is not considered pretty by some standards. But guess what? Those people, who are pretty by the standards, spend hours taking care of their appearance. Even Hollywood celebrities don't look as perfect without make-up. So she doesn't wanna do anything and wants to be pretty (and she does, all this talk is just self-deceptiveness), that is just lazy to me.
People keep telling her to put on makeup and style her hair to be pretty. Apparently the point was not clear enough. Her intelligence, depth of thinking, and understanding are far, far more beautiful than some mascara and foundation. Ah society, we have been labelling the wrong things as beautiful
@@equim7363 the point?; not being so disgustingly ugly and unattractive like me making people gag and get sick at the very hideous sight of my ugliness and that’s the truth
What a wonderful video. We all need to hear this more often. Thank you for being you and sharing this. I hope one day you’ll share your thoughts with the world again.
It was spoken poetically in Russian, there will always be slight differences in interpretations and translations of a saying from one language to another hence the phrase "lost in translation." Taking into account how expressive Russian is; what I and what you translated it as, the context of it still stands.
Being beautiful could be a sign of many things which are beneficial. General health to start with, stronger progeny and very likely chance of a healthier mental state.
What about the countless infertile 'pretty' women and the 'ugly' women that pop out babies like a machine gun? What about the 'pretty' women that can't do shit but look 'pretty'?
It's 10 years later, and I hope you are doing well. These are very wise words, or in today's parlance, you're 'spitting facts'. It took me close to 3 decades to start crawling out from under the 10 ton f**king weight of my supposed "ugliness ". It's still a constant struggle to disconnect my worth as a person from my appearance though. Thank you for this.
If you made a podcast I would listen to you for hours! You have such awesome philosophical takes on beauty and life! It was quite soothing to listen to this
100% agree....I see comments saying "you are beautiful"....its all fucking bullshit...............she is an ugly person..FACT.....an ugly person who is just coping with her situation,,thats the point of this video................I cant stand good looking people who tell ugly people that they are "beautiful" when they know its pure B.S.
@Brother Paul It’s not coping, it’s the simple truth. Nobody works hard to be beautiful, you were born beautiful or you weren’t. No effort put in at all. Do you think being born with a pretty face is an accomplishment?
@Brother Paul That does not make it an accomplishment. To me, being beautiful is something you were born with. Do you train to become beautiful in the womb? No, there was no effort put in at all. Nothing. An accomplishment is something you gain after working towards it. I have good eyesight, is that an accomplishment of mine or is it something I was born with?
@Brother Paul Yes, I have. I think having successful surgery is an accomplishment and they can be proud of that accomplishment because it’s something they worked towards getting IE money, time, etc.
the beauty radiates from inside you. looking into your eyes as the viewer and listening to your thoughts, so articulate, makes me see you as beautiful.
I honestly found her quite attractive, even more so when she started talking and expressing her feelings. She seems very intelligent, strong and articulate. Those things are very attractive qualities
I usually focus on one thing at a time but this time I forgot to pause the video while changing tabs to do my work. Your voice is so relaxing or smooth that I kept it on for the entirety of my work and I listened to what you were saying in the back of my head too.
I was listening to her and realised that I spend so much time thinking about the way I look, its sad actually. And there are many people that spend more time than me thinking about it..
Anja R TRUE. I waste a lot of time worrying and thinking about my looks and it’s so ridiculous. I’m getting better though! I think many aspects in society just make girls or just people in general a bit insecure no matter how you look!
I found this when I was around 12-15 years old and I just had to come back to it to just say how grateful I was for this video and accepting myself through highschool.
Lottie J-Urie Is it weird that I don't really look at people as ugly or beautiful? Like I have to have a relationship with someone before I can view them as ugly or beautiful. But it's not even beauty I'm seeing, it's kindness and intellect. And it's not ugly that I'm seeing, it's a shitty personality. Did any of that make sense or is there just something wrong with me?
I don't agree with that. Don't be proud to be ugly because if you would be proud, that would mean that we never have to brush our teeth, never take a shower etc. Don't be proud to be ugly. Just don't care what other think about you and try to get the best out of you. Inside and outside.
The thing that helps me the most is hanging out with my friends/family, because then it is very easy to realize that people who are actually important to me don't give a damn about my looks and neither do I. You have an extraordinary mind which makes you beautiful and I think that all of us has something what makes us unique and beautiful. This video helped me a lot, thank you.
Andy Genett I know you’re trying to say something positive, but idk I still don’t think it’s quite right to compare people’s beauty like that. There’s just so much to consider when it comes to beauty.
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This video is beautiful, just realized you posted this 10 years ago. I hope life is good for you and that you are being happy. It's not easy to find sensitive people like you in this world. I'm glad YT recommended me this video.
Me too- at least it was over 20 years ago so there was no social media or cyber bullying back then....I feel sad for ugly girls going through school these days.
Oh God, I 'm going to high school in August. I am really ugly. Freckles and glasses and soon-to-be braces and facial hair and more, you scared me to death.
Zippy make it work for you....a little secret we males don't care so much about pretty...we care about fitness and health..and a kind heart...a kind hearted smile will make you look hot
I always wonder - who all that people who terror ? When we grown up they disappear ! I realli wish al my heart to those evil little bastard expelled from the school and their parents forced to pay a really heavy fine! Such evil people can not benefit society.
SuburbanoidMisfit111 Uh. I know what you mean. And kind of not know. I know girls that have horrible personality, are ugly asf and are a brat, basically they shouldn't live and are popular. I don't really get it.
What’s beautiful is that you have the capacity to think this way, when much of the world now tends to define beauty arbitrarily. What a brilliant mind you have. Bless you, friend🙏
Being “beautiful” is objective But having a beautiful soul is extraordinary, and is way more important I love that you are letting others know ways to appreciate themselves when they might feel lost🫶
Watching this with three recommended videos on the side about other peoples amazing flawless lifestyle vlogs, and overnight glow up videos. Its so easily being pressured into feeling like you need to be constantly making yourself prettier and better all the times instead of being who you are in the moment. I worry about my looks alot and I think we need more videos like this.
It's not though. When you're lonely or trying to find a life partner, men care about one thing above all else=looks. Look at porn, for instance. The guys in porn can be Ugly, fat, hairy, etc. The females? They all have to be perfect, insanely perfect, beyond expectation of normal people.
Loki Well, I know plenty of hideous females who have gotten married and had lovely, fulfilling lives, so obviously that can't be true. I think your comment is, frankly, baseless, sexist, and narrow minded.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, and not in an unconventional way - in a TRUE way! Your heart, mind and authenticity make you GLOW! 💖✨ Truly, energy is the first thing I see, when I look at someone. I clicked on this video because, seeing you in the title card (or whatever they’re called), I was GENUINELY confused! Looking a certain way becomes irrelevant when there is hate in a person’s heart. You are absolutely, unquestionably more beautiful to me than SO many people who “society” counts as beautiful. As for that part - the insecurities that beauty standards thrust upon us, finding a look and a style you love and totally rocking it, without caring what anyone else thinks is so HOT and the authenticity that comes with it is positively beautiful, in every way!! And fuck any dummies that disagree!! You just keep on shining!! 🥰😍✨🍀♥️♥️
Her: "I don't want to be told I'm not ugly. I'm happy as I am." Commemts: "OMG but u are NOT ugly!!! Yu just need some mascara and foundation- ur NOT ugly believe me trust me ur NOT UGLY!!!!" ...Did everyone just completely MISS THE FUCKING POINT???
There is a difference between accepting who you are and persuading yourself that you have some flaws, which just aren't there. That girl may be plain looking, but certainly _ugly_ is a huge exaggeration. This has nothing to do with 'accepting yourself'.
Suiseiseki Desu Perception is reality. And people telling her something has nothing to do with her accepting herself, they just want to say she's beautiful because it's the accepted convention that someone MUST be physically beautiful in order to be worthy.
loveandlucky3 I don't see how your reply has _anything_ to do with what I wrote. At no point did I in any way imply that someone has to be pretty to be worthy. She says that she sees herself as ugly, which simply isn't true. That's like if a black haired person would say that he accepted that he is a ginger and doesn't want anyone to tell him that his hair isn't really red.
Where are you today? You have stunning eyes… how is your life? How are you 11 years later…? I loved this video… i am hormonal before period and cried all day… wow … you saved my day
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"Being 'beautiful' is not an accomplishment. - And being 'ugly' doesn't have to stop you from making accomplishments." Word.
PrisK woah I read this comment exactly the time she was saying it😂
PrisK TF , she is not ugly
"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment.", neither is being ugly, you don't get points for either but I would take it over being ugly any day.
Anastasia Nikki when did I say that she is
PrisK your comment is too paradoxical , it s no compliment either .
Most regular women look like this in the morning, without make up, bleached hair and styling... she just looks like a regular woman to me.
ikr? blonde? blue eyes?
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ngl i thought she was a guy in the thumbnail, not ugly, just a normal guy. when saw her face closer up and realized she was a girl i thought it was really cool. idk but i definitely wouldn't say she's ugly. something about her facial features just work together so well that make her look so much more interesting (not in a bad way) to look at than any instagram model i've seen (cause they all look the same). idk her face is may not be beautiful but i like looking at it
She looks like Scarlet Johanson without makeup 😁
How special to hear this 10 years after you recorded this! I hope you are still finding hope and inspiration and living and loving life in beautiful ways! 💕
I hope she comes back and tells us if her thoughts have changed or still the same, who she is ten years later as we all change so much when we are young
@@K-a-n-d-i-s What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also.
Our judgments should always be:
John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge.
2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says?
Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child.
1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV
32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons.
John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind.
What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.”
We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word.
KJV Bible says;
Matthew 6:31
Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?
Luke 12:22
And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on.
Matthew 6:25
Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?
Matthew 6:33
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
i literally cried today about how I am not as pretty and feminine as all the other girls and this popped up on my feed … thank you so much … needed this ❤
HONEY YOUR MIND IS ART
lisa Xvxv amen
Preach Sister
lisa Xvxv AGREEEEE
It totally is. I feel tears jerking out of no where
yes yes
she doesn’t act ugly, that’s all anyone should notice
'Should'
@@natasharules770 what about it?
@@thatsEforEveryone well, most people don't. Seriously, the first thing people see is looks, not personality
@@natasharules770 which is why they said should , people should care more about personality than looks
First Class Experience exactly.
I love this attitude. There's such emotional intelligence and strength behind being able to find fulfillment in yourself, and to not feel the need to compare yourself to other people and to realize that attractiveness is arbitrary and insignificant in a lot of ways
"Being beautiful is not an Accomplishment
And being ugly does not have to stop you
from making an Accomplishment"
These words touch my soul deeply❤
I feel like this is what the internet is about. A woman simply expressing her inner thoughts about existence, broadcasted for anyone to see and kept online forever. It's history documented
Overdosed Mia Wallace YESS
Ok philosopher 😂
@@geanidrl7527 ok comment that apports nothing to the conversation😘✨
@@overdosedmiawallace What do u mean
@@overdosedmiawallace i mean it kinda did. It was a joke about the conversation
The fact that a good portion of these comments are debating whether or not she's actually "physically ugly" defeats the purpose of the video and what she's trying to say. Sad.
very true
Cora LovesGlam I know what she is trying to say. But she does it because she thought a lot about her apperiance in the past. We all want to be loved and seen as beautifull on the insde AND outside. Its a fact. And its not ok saying: its ok I may see myself as ugly, but there are other things important than that. Because and this is the sad truth: its very important in this society to be beautifull.
And being ugly, I mean physically ugly, is only possible if you see yourself like that. You can accept it and stay ugly, you can avoid it and also stay ugly or you can deny it and voila you are beautifull. Without surgery, without makeup, without anything.
Beauty is not always something that is physical, its something in your attitude. If you are physically beautifull and you know that, well congrats. But if you are not, but you think it anyways, you are also beautifull. But if you think, well I am not beautifull, but it doesn't matter, other things are more important. Well they are, but it doesn't change the fact that you think you are ugly. And so will other people see you too.
And I think its all started, because other people told her once she is ugly. And instead of finding out her outer beauty, she tells a lot about other things that matter in this life.
I know its not the most important thing in the world to be beautifull. For me its health and independence. But even I lay in hospital, when I had a good day, I did my make up. I care for myself with doing make up, because it was the only way I could care for myself at all.
I agree. With comments like that, people are just admitting that physical appearance means everything to them. They can't understand that there are some other people that simply don't care about physical appearance. Why would you have say to anyone that he/she is pretty or ugly? Only shallow people do that. To me, personality is everything. If you're good and intelligent person, that's all I need to be good with someone.
Cora LovesGlam everyone these days is so obsessed with physical appearance that it doesn’t matter how ‘beautiful’ we are on the inside anymore ... also sad
Yup. I think they're just projecting their own insecurities on her. For people who base their entire self-worth on their looks it's probably intimidating to meet someone who gives zero fucks, so they try to pull her down to their level.
Love this! I have a sister who just passed away, and she said while she was sick that she wished she'd worried less about how she looked and more that she had a body and it worked and was healthy! ❤
You are wise beyond your years and your not ugly in the slightest. Not physically, mentally or spiritually. The world needs more people like you in it. God bless.
i dont think she's ugly at all either, shes just.. normal. i think the fact this video has been made really goes to show social media ruins our perspective.
Everyone commenting how she's not ugly in your opinion.. You're completely missing the point
thank you.
They're probably not missing the point, but rather commenting their opinion... Just like you.
Yeah, the point isn’t whether or not she’s ugly. The point is that there’s so much more to life than just your appearance. And that being ugly isn’t the end of the world.
We can get the point of the video and still tell her we don't think she's ugly. We want to say nice things to other people. We're also so used to people fishing for compliments in life and social media that we're almost programmed to compliment people when they say they don't measure up in some way. She's not actually fishing for compliments, of course, but comes off as such a sweet, smart, interesting person that it's like a natural instinct for me to want to comfort her and tell her she's fucking beautiful and amazing. I won't though. But I understand why people would.
She just needs to looksmax
Having this sharp and insightful mind at a young age is way more exceptional than having nice cheekbones.
The Libtard exactly
naaa she's depressed so this "insight mind" is irrelevant lol
I prefer nice cheekbones
Ok
Malevolent GG agreed
You might never see this comment, but you just saved my life.
You took words out of my mind and actually made them less chaotic and incoherent. I'm ugly and fat. And that's absolutely fine with me. My attractivness to other people is not what I take a sense of worth from. And there is so many other things I want to be: be a more confident artist, be more dedicated pagan, be able to rollerblade, be a better friend, be more able to cope with life... pretty is so low on priorities right now it's not even on the list. There is so many people in my life (hi mom!) that just can't wrap their head around the idea.
TH-cam:
31 year old virgin
21 with no friends
On being ugly
Being ugly: my experience
Me:
Are you trying to tell me something
The fact that I’ve watched all of those 😭
I know I am ugly 🐸
Nobody needs to tell me thattttuyyytt
Broooo😭😭😭😭 the same thing just happened. Now u got me thinking.....
@0 0 seriously! It’s honestly sad
Ikr
As an ugly girl, I just want to share the most important thing I’ve learned: that I shouldn’t let what beauty I have go to waste just because I don’t have the beauty that I wanted. There’s a lot of beauty in kind eyes, work worn hands, and smiling lips.
this is beautiful
Unfortunately that's what i did. Stay away from alcohol. It's a trap.
you don't born to be convectionally beautiful, but you do it trough a process of self improvement, fitness, chirurgy and so on, being beatiful isn't just having a pretty face, but also a strong personality and an "healthy" body both things were people nowayds don't care about enough, they don't take care of themselves by letting themselves become obese, without gettin any decent air cut, by dressing decently and so onn then they blame the society for not considering them attractive, start do as much as you can to improve yourself and stop comparing to the others, that's whrn you will reach success.
Well if you don’t think you’re beautiful you could just fix it. These days you can go as far as plastic surgery. The girl in this video would be super good looking if she grew out her hair, got rid of her glasses, straightened her teeth, got some acne creams etc. Most women that are good looking today weren’t born like that. They artificially changed how they looked. Most women would look like this girl if there wasn’t so much pressure to be pretty
@@putinsgaytwin4272 bruh..I see your perspective and that you are suggesting because you care
but people are more then their bodies.
I have a friend that’s so incredibly beautiful. was a plus size model and a weather girl.
she got a surgery to make her stomach tiny so she wouldn’t be plus sized.
and had some ribs removed. she can’t feel if her mouth is open or closed due to a facial procedure. she only eats 4 ounces of food a day.
now i’m her only friend. the only one that’s not grossed out when she dry heaves, hiccups, vomit comes out of her nose if she burps and she passes gas pretty much all day. sometimes she can’t make it to the bathroom :( her instagram pictures are very popular. the guys who show interest in her and want to meet up have no idea what she goes through…. I will always protect her. I’m not pretty but I’m emotionally strong and street smart. I do hope she finds a partner one day though..
Given this was 10 years ago, it was a bit ahead of its time
No one is really ugly nor is anyone really beautiful. We are multidimensional and can actually exhibit both qualities simultaneously, but those terms should not define us. I grew up in a very shallow community where the standard of beauty or attractiveness is a very narrow list of certain characteristics. Since I was the only member of my family who didn’t meet this standard, I am referred to as “the ugly sister” in those circles. Fortunately, I moved far away from that place many years ago and refuse to see people in such a ridiculous way.
You articulated this position magnificently. Thank you so much!
"being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow I wish people could understand this.
more like a privilege.
Feeling beautiful IS though. She said she avoids mirrors, and feels insecure sometimes. Anytime she goes to the restroom she cannot avoid the mirrors. Her features are symmetrical, eyes are pretty. It would be low maintenance to have a short haircut that won't allow the hair to stick upward & a shampoo/conditioner for her hair type plus a facewash for her skin type. I'm not a makeup type of girl, barely brush my hair, but I use some inexpensive yet proper products for skin and hair, my hair is layered, short, and frayed for easy care. Daily hair washing would be even easier if she rocked a shorter haircut and it might make her feel as beautiful as she actually IS.
Indiawalker27 it's not people's fault for thinking that way when society has been feeding us all these beauty standards, on what is considered beautiful or handsome, and what isn't, since the dawn of time. Whether that's through media, advertisements, or peer pressure, it ultimately creates this narrow perspective into your mind that you start following. I mean, we've been subconsciously told to do this our whole lives.
Edit: Its also completely natural to want to look beautiful. Animals such as peacocks and certain birds "show off" their feathers in order to attract mates and get partners. We do the same thing when trying to look for a partner. It's completely natural and instinctual. It's just that the standards these days are ridiculously high.
Indiawalker27 Nobody give a shit. Subconsciously everyone loves beautiful people and hates ugly people. Looks are the only thing that matters in modern society.
I'm Purrito In what way? If beauty is determined by genetics, then what is the accomplishment? What - popping out of the right vagina? Lol
I get back to this video once a year to cleanse my mind lmao
@@joys8634 are u happy now
Please remember me
@@joys8634 lmaooo thanks sis
@@fee6145 i will :))
@@megbubbz thanks c:
In a time when looks and superficiality reign tyrannically over all virtues, your words and character have been a breath of spring garden air and a most refreshing break from the sulfur and waste of contemporary standards. Thank you. Clearly, you are beautiful.
When this video came out I was 4, but I still resonate with it a lot! Recently I've started thinking this way too, noticing that sometime we get too wrapped around being "beautiful" that we forget the beautifully absurd things that make us all human. At the end of the day, defined jaw line or not, we're all just silly little human beings on this crazy, diverse planet. So don't waste your time being sad about being pretty or ugly, just live your life happy!
Love this vid! :)
Why did TH-cam recommend me this ? Is that a sign...
it is! same here 😆
Guess I’ve joined the club 😂
X maybe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
X facts what they tryna say
same lol
I wonder how she’s doing now
Ilya K ( laughs in logan paul)
Ilya K “not dead! just living the good ugly life!” in the description of her channel :)
@Ilya K ????
Same! I wish she had instagram or something. She just seems like such a nice person
Il mio Nome. @moonsludge
People who are "ugly" always have much better personalities
Thank you for the message Kara ❤ I hear you and I see you and you helped me today 🙏🏽
Damn. She is like...the best therapist ever. I think I can finally accept myself.
The fuckin point!!
I was the 666th like
This was posted 4 years ago but was recommended to me today 🤔
winnieheart's adventures girrrrlll me too lol I was feeling real ugly lately too 😅
winnieheart's adventures ME TOO
winnieheart's adventures same
saaame
winnieheart's adventures SAME!
That was truly beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing that. Also I think that everyone feels "ugly" or "beautiful" from time to time but it comes down to the meaning we give to these labels
Honestly i don't see you ugly
“I never want to get into this place where I feel like what I look like, is more important than what I do.” Wow. I loved that.
That is beautiful
but we can have both. my god, it's almost like pretty people cannot be good people. life is not black or white, we can focus on our appearance and still focus on our internal journey.
@@LauraLaura-mv4xhOut of all, Your comment touched my heart ❤
@@LauraLaura-mv4xh The point is that society holds beauty in an overly high place and makes people forget other things they have and could do. That's what the video is about, not that pretty people aren't good people or that caring about your appearance is bad.
Holy crap please write a book
wait... I thought she did write a book. A story book.
Turk Means Strong! Oh my god fuck off! Our generation definitely still reads books, and stop acting like you’re so above people playing PS4 when you’re commenting on a TH-cam video
Turk Means Strong! I read this over like 3 times and I still can’t understand wtf you’re saying lmao
@@womp9465
This is why you people aren't in managerial positions.
Tea Times Two shes so ugly
Hands down, the best TH-cam video I've ever watched. Thank you for this, I really needed it. God bless you.
your wisdom has brought me to tears 10 years later. I have so much love for you stranger.
she is someone I would genuinely love to have a conversation with
Everyone on the comments be like "you're not ugly!" completely missing the point of the video
Kala Meet beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Forreal I think she is ugly and that's ok
no, actually, everyone in comments be like “omg everyone stop saying she’s pretty did you even watch the video”. I’ve seen two comments actually saying she’s pretty. Fuck outa here hypocrite
True but no point in think you se rugby when you aren’t. That’s just believing a lie
I honestly dont think shes ugly tho shes average
it feels like you really do just have to accept it and stop viewing it as such a negative thing, but it’s so hard…. it’s so hard to keep telling myself that looks don’t matter
Made 10 years ago and still making an impact. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes it's very hard to keep things in perspective. This coming from someone who was never conventionally pretty, but in recent years just keeps losing what little there was to various health conditions... permanent hairloss and facial discolouration being the worst offenders :')
TH-cam lowkey calling me ugly by recommending this.
akalink77 same
Same 😂
No, it's saying that you might like this, not saying that you are ugly
or that you seem insecure
right
"being beautiful is not an accomplishment" Thank you for saying that. However not even gonna lie your eyes are stunning.
It is. But for your ancestors, not yours made.
@@aerbald beauty can be an accomplishment. Going to the gym requires time and dedication. Yes those people are born with good bone structure but the accomplishment is maintaining that appearance so that they can be happy with themselves
@@michaelg9082 Aye, and never underestimate prestance and presentation
Being beautiful is absolutely an accomplishment, you just don't try hard enough.
That is kinda BS I used to be hella fat and put in hella work and stuff and I look way better I think it does come easier for some people (being good looking) but really you can work out your facial muscles and get a jawline/ basically what I'm saying is it is an accomplishment
i hope she is living well, love you💚
Thank you for posting this as much as people think this is sad this is how many ugly people feel when we know we are different some days I can’t leave the house because I feel so ugly and I know it’s outrageous but knowing other people who I don’t think are ugly feel this way gives me hope maybe one day I can be care free like all the naturally pretty people.
Whether shes ugly or not, she has an amazing outlook on life and damn.... Shes an inspiration. Im happy i clicked on this vid. Subbed x
Lottie J-Urie this was recommended to me and at first I was like???? excuse you TH-cam??? but then I actually loved the video
she just needs makeup and she's fine
and a better haircut
Physically she would do just fine with a better haircut, contacts instead of glasses and some makeup... but what she really says is that the physical beauty is the least important one, because it's superficial
She isn't ugly. And doesn't need to change anything. She is perfect the way she is.
I agree with her that humans are super bizarre looking as a species.
That doesn't make sense, everything is relative.
@@Danuxsy it does how is it relative when we are literally the only species with completeley different looking specimen each generation
Tigers are the most beautiful species. Humans are funny looking lol
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@@Danuxsy I mean humans probably do look really weird if you're looking from an Aliens perspective lol. Upright walking meat sacks, with fur only growing out of the top of their heads, all different shapes and sizes. Pretty wild
This is old and just popped up. You are not ugly at all.
Her brain is beautiful. She seems like an amazing friend to talk too and hang out with
And the people telling her to put on makeup and that she could potentially be attractive, all of you are missing the point. You're all reflective of the media and society we live in, trying to change a person to fit your perception of how they should be instead of accepting them as who they truly are.
Truesay
+reyom neraul and what world do you live in? I'm sorry to break it to you but there are standards whether you like it or not. She is obviously not happy so people are making suggestions on how she can change it. And she can. There are a lot of tv shows there people get a make-over and feel much better, their eyes shine. Everyone loves feeling pretty. And she is not ugly. I can just see what I would change in her (hair, make-up, glasses). She can be really pretty. She actually reminds me of Emily Bett Rickards.
+IrinNovy If she liked makeup she would wear it. She's made another video to say that she doesn't wear makeup because it doesn't interest her currently. And yes society has its standards haha! But no one is required to mold themselves to them. Society's standards are the reason she is depressed to begin with, and if she chooses not to abide by them that's her choice to make. And yes I believe that she is attractive as well. Beauty isn't always about changing yourself, it can be about changing your mindset. She views herself as different, and realizes that it's okay to be that way.
reyom neraul of course it's her choice but if she's unhappy (and she clearly is) why not become conventionally pretty? I see a weird contradiction here. She doesn't like makeup - ok. Her choice. But she feels really miserable because she is not considered pretty by some standards. But guess what? Those people, who are pretty by the standards, spend hours taking care of their appearance. Even Hollywood celebrities don't look as perfect without make-up. So she doesn't wanna do anything and wants to be pretty (and she does, all this talk is just self-deceptiveness), that is just lazy to me.
+05candyman Those people arent worth it.
People keep telling her to put on makeup and style her hair to be pretty. Apparently the point was not clear enough. Her intelligence, depth of thinking, and understanding are far, far more beautiful than some mascara and foundation. Ah society, we have been labelling the wrong things as beautiful
Bella Bastien who cares how smart she is being smart isn't physical beauty, that's not the point the point is she's happy who she is and that's all.
Intelligence isn't physically appealing dumbass.
Rachel Anderson being attractive is everything
Bobby Hill I never said it wasn't, so you might wanna read my comment again.
Bella Bastien Easy by you to say it unless your pic. isn't you. Don't you think?
Such an insightful young person, these words are coming from a place of inner wisdom, there's nothing more beautiful than that 🥰
You're a star. Shining so brightly. Thank you so much for this❤❤❤
Who else is watching this after '21 years old: NO friends' ?
I watched this BEFORE that.
me 😂 i love TH-cam algorithms
@@hazy92 I feel like my FBI agent was th one who recommended me this (┬┬﹏┬┬)
@@TheDaha is they trying to tell us something..... it makes sense now..
@@hazy92 mhm! 😂
"In a blind world, how many people will you impress?"
What
@@jamalempfehlung9841 if everyone was blind would you still be beautiful
The world isn’t blind in seeing how ugly I am cuz that’s exactly what I am and it’s obvious😔😣
The problem is, we don't live in a blind world.
Alternative version: "In a hermaphrodite world, what will be the point of being beautiful?"
@@equim7363 the point?; not being so disgustingly ugly and unattractive like me making people gag and get sick at the very hideous sight of my ugliness and that’s the truth
What a wonderful video. We all need to hear this more often. Thank you for being you and sharing this. I hope one day you’ll share your thoughts with the world again.
your Intelligence and openness is so beautiful! Thanks for sharing those thoughts! They're really eye-opening and take away a lot of pressure! ❤
I’m not just saying this bc ur calling ur self ugly but when I first clicked on the video I fell in love with ur eyes
Tru
Same
Me too!
Me too
Why the fuck you lyin'?
"What a strange illusion it is to suppose that beauty is goodness." - Leo Tolstoy
it's actually "It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness." lol
It was spoken poetically in Russian, there will always be slight differences in interpretations and translations of a saying from one language to another hence the phrase "lost in translation." Taking into account how expressive Russian is; what I and what you translated it as, the context of it still stands.
Being beautiful could be a sign of many things which are beneficial.
General health to start with, stronger progeny and very likely chance of a healthier mental state.
What about the countless infertile 'pretty' women and the 'ugly' women that pop out babies like a machine gun? What about the 'pretty' women that can't do shit but look 'pretty'?
Teresa Benites omg yes.. amazing quote
It's 10 years later, and I hope you are doing well. These are very wise words, or in today's parlance, you're 'spitting facts'. It took me close to 3 decades to start crawling out from under the 10 ton f**king weight of my supposed "ugliness ". It's still a constant struggle to disconnect my worth as a person from my appearance though. Thank you for this.
If you made a podcast I would listen to you for hours! You have such awesome philosophical takes on beauty and life! It was quite soothing to listen to this
You guys are missing the entire point of the video. She didnt ask how she could make herself look "pretty" she said she is content with her appearence
100% agree....I see comments saying "you are beautiful"....its all fucking bullshit...............she is an ugly person..FACT.....an ugly person who is just coping with her situation,,thats the point of this video................I cant stand good looking people who tell ugly people that they are "beautiful" when they know its pure B.S.
You guys need to return to the way of the prophets
"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow. I needed to hear everything she just said.
Right on ✊
@Brother Paul It’s not coping, it’s the simple truth. Nobody works hard to be beautiful, you were born beautiful or you weren’t. No effort put in at all. Do you think being born with a pretty face is an accomplishment?
@Brother Paul That does not make it an accomplishment. To me, being beautiful is something you were born with. Do you train to become beautiful in the womb? No, there was no effort put in at all. Nothing. An accomplishment is something you gain after working towards it. I have good eyesight, is that an accomplishment of mine or is it something I was born with?
@Brother Paul Yes, I have. I think having successful surgery is an accomplishment and they can be proud of that accomplishment because it’s something they worked towards getting IE money, time, etc.
It actually is if were ugly and put the effort in becoming better looking like going to the gym, eating better and healthier, sleep better and etc.
the beauty radiates from inside you. looking into your eyes as the viewer and listening to your thoughts, so articulate, makes me see you as beautiful.
I just want to say, your eyes are so pretty! I'm so envious of their colour and how vibrant they are ✨️
I honestly found her quite attractive, even more so when she started talking and expressing her feelings. She seems very intelligent, strong and articulate. Those things are very attractive qualities
The way she speaks really attractive to me,she talks like a lady
Gay
Lay Soe your mother...
Hamm lol daddy’s mad
Lay Soe you probably have the intellect of a fetus if that’s your only comeback. You sound like a 9 year old
The irony is that being comfortable with being unattractive is... attractive? Think its a confidence thing!
For sure!
The most unattractive people to me are the people who knows they are attractive, it’s weird ngl
@@agirlhasnoname3580 completely agree
A girl has no name why tho. I love people who are confident and know that they are atttractive. I just don’t like people who boast about it.
it just comes of as creepy and cocky
if she's ugly then im insanely hideous
I usually focus on one thing at a time but this time I forgot to pause the video while changing tabs to do my work. Your voice is so relaxing or smooth that I kept it on for the entirety of my work and I listened to what you were saying in the back of my head too.
This should be a Ted Talk.
YES! So much more people should hear that!
I was listening to her and realised that I spend so much time thinking about the way I look, its sad actually. And there are many people that spend more time than me thinking about it..
Anja R TRUE. I waste a lot of time worrying and thinking about my looks and it’s so ridiculous. I’m getting better though! I think many aspects in society just make girls or just people in general a bit insecure no matter how you look!
Anja R me too
If you worry about it when you’re young, it’s hell when you get older... It will bury you.
this actually opened my eyes a lot, even ten years later. thank you :]
I found this when I was around 12-15 years old and I just had to come back to it to just say how grateful I was for this video and accepting myself through highschool.
“Being beautiful is not an accomplishment”
japan iraq could I ask why
It is if you had to lose a lot of weight and change your lifestyle to achieve it
oh the facts
to me it is
funny how "ugly" people almost always think that "good looking" people do nothing to maintain their "beauty"
This video is too pure for me. I loved this so much. Amazing person.
Lottie J-Urie. I wish she'd come back and make more videos. I'm going to sub in the hopes...
I love ur profile picture!!
Lottie J-Urie what when you look like a model in your photo ???
Lottie J-Urie Is it weird that I don't really look at people as ugly or beautiful? Like I have to have a relationship with someone before I can view them as ugly or beautiful. But it's not even beauty I'm seeing, it's kindness and intellect. And it's not ugly that I'm seeing, it's a shitty personality. Did any of that make sense or is there just something wrong with me?
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That's kali uchis (a singer) on their pp
You're actually so smart. I love it when people think things through this much.
You are NOT ugly. You are beautiful.....where did you ever get the idea youre ugly????
You have an amazing outlook on life.
Clarence , you’re a virgin judging by your attitude
I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD
I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD
I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD
Wow spongebob was already talking about it a long time ago lol
@@heinzlitzel3818 was seconds away from commenting this then i saw ypur comment XD
@@harbear7325 HAHAHAHAHA
I don't agree with that. Don't be proud to be ugly because if you would be proud, that would mean that we never have to brush our teeth, never take a shower etc. Don't be proud to be ugly. Just don't care what other think about you and try to get the best out of you. Inside and outside.
I think I am ugly I just accepted how I look, oddly people say I am not ugly, it don't change my opinion about my self thou.
The thing that helps me the most is hanging out with my friends/family, because then it is very easy to realize that people who are actually important to me don't give a damn about my looks and neither do I. You have an extraordinary mind which makes you beautiful and I think that all of us has something what makes us unique and beautiful.
This video helped me a lot, thank you.
You are a true Angel!!! Thank you for your gift, I really needed it
A deep thinker is infinitely more beautiful than a person who is physically attractive and cannot think deeply. Your perspective is wonderful.
Andy Genett I know you’re trying to say something positive, but idk I still don’t think it’s quite right to compare people’s beauty like that. There’s just so much to consider when it comes to beauty.
She became a deep thinker because she is ugly
not really
soo you're saying that people cant be both physically attractive and 'deep thinking'? xd
Zaid abdulla this is so true. I feel like when you are not pretty, you have the time to think deeper and realize stuff that people don’t see
"I'm ugly and I'm proud"
--Spongebob Squarepants
inspirational stuff
SpongeBob was on to something then...
ATTENTION THERE IS HOPE
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This Is hope, and never give up, it's going to be hard if your in a bad state but never give up.
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"Is that what he calls it?"
-Squidward OG Tentacles
I feel ugly is an attitude, not what someone looks like. I believe personality is beautiful and how someone treats others.
This video is beautiful, just realized you posted this 10 years ago.
I hope life is good for you and that you are being happy. It's not easy to find sensitive people like you in this world.
I'm glad YT recommended me this video.
Being ugly in high school = night terror. Boy I do not miss my teen years.
Me too- at least it was over 20 years ago so there was no social media or cyber bullying back then....I feel sad for ugly girls going through school these days.
Oh God, I 'm going to high school in August. I am really ugly. Freckles and glasses and soon-to-be braces and facial hair and more, you scared me to death.
Zippy make it work for you....a little secret we males don't care so much about pretty...we care about fitness and health..and a kind heart...a kind hearted smile will make you look hot
I always wonder - who all that people who terror ? When we grown up they disappear ! I realli wish al my heart to those evil little bastard expelled from the school and their parents forced to pay a really heavy fine! Such evil people can not benefit society.
SuburbanoidMisfit111 Uh. I know what you mean. And kind of not know. I know girls that have horrible personality, are ugly asf and are a brat, basically they shouldn't live and are popular. I don't really get it.
The passion in her voice... wow
*Hitler speech plays quietly in the distance*
What’s beautiful is that you have the capacity to think this way, when much of the world now tends to define beauty arbitrarily. What a brilliant mind you have. Bless you, friend🙏
Being “beautiful” is objective
But having a beautiful soul is extraordinary, and is way more important
I love that you are letting others know ways to appreciate themselves when they might feel lost🫶
She is pretty she just loves her self the way she is and that's the most attractive thing I found in one person
YEAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH
yes i've watched this video so many time and i fall for her every. damn. time.
Yoo I legit see nothing ugly about her!!!!! Am I trippin?????
Is when you don't like yourself that you're ugly. I'm ugly.
@@melissavezzoli2554 that's why she pretty
Your energy is so pure and clear I feel it from my screen
^^
Lol ikr
Can you feel her Chakra too?
Aaron White no it’s nen
lel yeah i bet. I bet she can sense her ki as well.
Watching this with three recommended videos on the side about other peoples amazing flawless lifestyle vlogs, and overnight glow up videos. Its so easily being pressured into feeling like you need to be constantly making yourself prettier and better all the times instead of being who you are in the moment. I worry about my looks alot and I think we need more videos like this.
Good for you, young lady! You have an acute mind, a beautiful soul and a great personality. It takes courage to speak out the way you do. ❤
I think you're eyes are a beautiful shade of blue. I also think your voice is super soft and soothing.
Kaylee B that's literally what I thought!!
I think by calling her pretty, everyone's kind of missing the point of her video. Beauty is kind of irrelevant.
I don't get how people call her pretty to begin with she the type of girl you'd be embarassed to be seen with.
Whether I'm superficial or not does not matter, she is objectively ugly.
try telling that to natural selection.
It's not though. When you're lonely or trying to find a life partner, men care about one thing above all else=looks. Look at porn, for instance. The guys in porn can be Ugly, fat, hairy, etc. The females? They all have to be perfect, insanely perfect, beyond expectation of normal people.
Loki Well, I know plenty of hideous females who have gotten married and had lovely, fulfilling lives, so obviously that can't be true. I think your comment is, frankly, baseless, sexist, and narrow minded.
I love that you referenced My Mad Fat Diary. That show is spectacular and was really inspiring for me too
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, and not in an unconventional way - in a TRUE way! Your heart, mind and authenticity make you GLOW! 💖✨ Truly, energy is the first thing I see, when I look at someone. I clicked on this video because, seeing you in the title card (or whatever they’re called), I was GENUINELY confused! Looking a certain way becomes irrelevant when there is hate in a person’s heart. You are absolutely, unquestionably more beautiful to me than SO many people who “society” counts as beautiful.
As for that part - the insecurities that beauty standards thrust upon us, finding a look and a style you love and totally rocking it, without caring what anyone else thinks is so HOT and the authenticity that comes with it is positively beautiful, in every way!!
And fuck any dummies that disagree!! You just keep on shining!! 🥰😍✨🍀♥️♥️
Blud missed the entire point
@@ketsu_kit8920I don’t think so. They’re not commenting on physical attractiveness, which is what the video is about
Who TF decided what beauty is anyway
evolution, that's who
babies lol
Natural selection
white people
NonStopParis Society.
Her: "I don't want to be told I'm not ugly. I'm happy as I am."
Commemts: "OMG but u are NOT ugly!!! Yu just need some mascara and foundation- ur NOT ugly believe me trust me ur NOT UGLY!!!!"
...Did everyone just completely MISS THE FUCKING POINT???
+loveandlucky3 maybe she does not want to wear mascara and foundation?
+MaryStellaRose That's what the OP was saying...
There is a difference between accepting who you are and persuading yourself that you have some flaws, which just aren't there. That girl may be plain looking, but certainly _ugly_ is a huge exaggeration. This has nothing to do with 'accepting yourself'.
Suiseiseki Desu Perception is reality. And people telling her something has nothing to do with her accepting herself, they just want to say she's beautiful because it's the accepted convention that someone MUST be physically beautiful in order to be worthy.
loveandlucky3
I don't see how your reply has _anything_ to do with what I wrote. At no point did I in any way imply that someone has to be pretty to be worthy.
She says that she sees herself as ugly, which simply isn't true. That's like if a black haired person would say that he accepted that he is a ginger and doesn't want anyone to tell him that his hair isn't really red.
What a wonderful video. You're a special person. Thanks for sharing with so many.
Where are you today? You have stunning eyes… how is your life? How are you 11 years later…? I loved this video… i am hormonal before period and cried all day… wow … you saved my day