Feeling beautiful IS though. She said she avoids mirrors, and feels insecure sometimes. Anytime she goes to the restroom she cannot avoid the mirrors. Her features are symmetrical, eyes are pretty. It would be low maintenance to have a short haircut that won't allow the hair to stick upward & a shampoo/conditioner for her hair type plus a facewash for her skin type. I'm not a makeup type of girl, barely brush my hair, but I use some inexpensive yet proper products for skin and hair, my hair is layered, short, and frayed for easy care. Daily hair washing would be even easier if she rocked a shorter haircut and it might make her feel as beautiful as she actually IS.
Indiawalker27 it's not people's fault for thinking that way when society has been feeding us all these beauty standards, on what is considered beautiful or handsome, and what isn't, since the dawn of time. Whether that's through media, advertisements, or peer pressure, it ultimately creates this narrow perspective into your mind that you start following. I mean, we've been subconsciously told to do this our whole lives. Edit: Its also completely natural to want to look beautiful. Animals such as peacocks and certain birds "show off" their feathers in order to attract mates and get partners. We do the same thing when trying to look for a partner. It's completely natural and instinctual. It's just that the standards these days are ridiculously high.
Indiawalker27 Nobody give a shit. Subconsciously everyone loves beautiful people and hates ugly people. Looks are the only thing that matters in modern society.
I love this attitude. There's such emotional intelligence and strength behind being able to find fulfillment in yourself, and to not feel the need to compare yourself to other people and to realize that attractiveness is arbitrary and insignificant in a lot of ways
Yeah, the point isn’t whether or not she’s ugly. The point is that there’s so much more to life than just your appearance. And that being ugly isn’t the end of the world.
We can get the point of the video and still tell her we don't think she's ugly. We want to say nice things to other people. We're also so used to people fishing for compliments in life and social media that we're almost programmed to compliment people when they say they don't measure up in some way. She's not actually fishing for compliments, of course, but comes off as such a sweet, smart, interesting person that it's like a natural instinct for me to want to comfort her and tell her she's fucking beautiful and amazing. I won't though. But I understand why people would.
@@burpreynolds3250 Theyre not commenting their opinnion. Theyre trying to make this person feel better by saying "youre beautiful" when actually they dont think that. This person has heard those words probably a billion times to the point where even she knows that its bullshit. Thats the point.
The fact that a good portion of these comments are debating whether or not she's actually "physically ugly" defeats the purpose of the video and what she's trying to say. Sad.
Cora LovesGlam I know what she is trying to say. But she does it because she thought a lot about her apperiance in the past. We all want to be loved and seen as beautifull on the insde AND outside. Its a fact. And its not ok saying: its ok I may see myself as ugly, but there are other things important than that. Because and this is the sad truth: its very important in this society to be beautifull. And being ugly, I mean physically ugly, is only possible if you see yourself like that. You can accept it and stay ugly, you can avoid it and also stay ugly or you can deny it and voila you are beautifull. Without surgery, without makeup, without anything. Beauty is not always something that is physical, its something in your attitude. If you are physically beautifull and you know that, well congrats. But if you are not, but you think it anyways, you are also beautifull. But if you think, well I am not beautifull, but it doesn't matter, other things are more important. Well they are, but it doesn't change the fact that you think you are ugly. And so will other people see you too. And I think its all started, because other people told her once she is ugly. And instead of finding out her outer beauty, she tells a lot about other things that matter in this life. I know its not the most important thing in the world to be beautifull. For me its health and independence. But even I lay in hospital, when I had a good day, I did my make up. I care for myself with doing make up, because it was the only way I could care for myself at all.
I agree. With comments like that, people are just admitting that physical appearance means everything to them. They can't understand that there are some other people that simply don't care about physical appearance. Why would you have say to anyone that he/she is pretty or ugly? Only shallow people do that. To me, personality is everything. If you're good and intelligent person, that's all I need to be good with someone.
Cora LovesGlam everyone these days is so obsessed with physical appearance that it doesn’t matter how ‘beautiful’ we are on the inside anymore ... also sad
Yup. I think they're just projecting their own insecurities on her. For people who base their entire self-worth on their looks it's probably intimidating to meet someone who gives zero fucks, so they try to pull her down to their level.
How special to hear this 10 years after you recorded this! I hope you are still finding hope and inspiration and living and loving life in beautiful ways! 💕
I hope she comes back and tells us if her thoughts have changed or still the same, who she is ten years later as we all change so much when we are young
@@K-a-n-d-i-s What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also. Our judgments should always be: John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge. 2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says? Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind. What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.” We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word. KJV Bible says; Matthew 6:31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? Luke 12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
As an ugly girl, I just want to share the most important thing I’ve learned: that I shouldn’t let what beauty I have go to waste just because I don’t have the beauty that I wanted. There’s a lot of beauty in kind eyes, work worn hands, and smiling lips.
you don't born to be convectionally beautiful, but you do it trough a process of self improvement, fitness, chirurgy and so on, being beatiful isn't just having a pretty face, but also a strong personality and an "healthy" body both things were people nowayds don't care about enough, they don't take care of themselves by letting themselves become obese, without gettin any decent air cut, by dressing decently and so onn then they blame the society for not considering them attractive, start do as much as you can to improve yourself and stop comparing to the others, that's whrn you will reach success.
Well if you don’t think you’re beautiful you could just fix it. These days you can go as far as plastic surgery. The girl in this video would be super good looking if she grew out her hair, got rid of her glasses, straightened her teeth, got some acne creams etc. Most women that are good looking today weren’t born like that. They artificially changed how they looked. Most women would look like this girl if there wasn’t so much pressure to be pretty
@@NegativeAccelerate bruh..I see your perspective and that you are suggesting because you care but people are more then their bodies. I have a friend that’s so incredibly beautiful. was a plus size model and a weather girl. she got a surgery to make her stomach tiny so she wouldn’t be plus sized. and had some ribs removed. she can’t feel if her mouth is open or closed due to a facial procedure. she only eats 4 ounces of food a day. now i’m her only friend. the only one that’s not grossed out when she dry heaves, hiccups, vomit comes out of her nose if she burps and she passes gas pretty much all day. sometimes she can’t make it to the bathroom :( her instagram pictures are very popular. the guys who show interest in her and want to meet up have no idea what she goes through…. I will always protect her. I’m not pretty but I’m emotionally strong and street smart. I do hope she finds a partner one day though..
I feel like this is what the internet is about. A woman simply expressing her inner thoughts about existence, broadcasted for anyone to see and kept online forever. It's history documented
but we can have both. my god, it's almost like pretty people cannot be good people. life is not black or white, we can focus on our appearance and still focus on our internal journey.
@@LauraLaura-mv4xh The point is that society holds beauty in an overly high place and makes people forget other things they have and could do. That's what the video is about, not that pretty people aren't good people or that caring about your appearance is bad.
Turk Means Strong! Oh my god fuck off! Our generation definitely still reads books, and stop acting like you’re so above people playing PS4 when you’re commenting on a TH-cam video
Love this! I have a sister who just passed away, and she said while she was sick that she wished she'd worried less about how she looked and more that she had a body and it worked and was healthy! ❤
no, actually, everyone in comments be like “omg everyone stop saying she’s pretty did you even watch the video”. I’ve seen two comments actually saying she’s pretty. Fuck outa here hypocrite
Physically she would do just fine with a better haircut, contacts instead of glasses and some makeup... but what she really says is that the physical beauty is the least important one, because it's superficial
You are wise beyond your years and your not ugly in the slightest. Not physically, mentally or spiritually. The world needs more people like you in it. God bless.
i dont think she's ugly at all either, shes just.. normal. i think the fact this video has been made really goes to show social media ruins our perspective.
@@aerbald beauty can be an accomplishment. Going to the gym requires time and dedication. Yes those people are born with good bone structure but the accomplishment is maintaining that appearance so that they can be happy with themselves
That is kinda BS I used to be hella fat and put in hella work and stuff and I look way better I think it does come easier for some people (being good looking) but really you can work out your facial muscles and get a jawline/ basically what I'm saying is it is an accomplishment
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@@Danuxsy I mean humans probably do look really weird if you're looking from an Aliens perspective lol. Upright walking meat sacks, with fur only growing out of the top of their heads, all different shapes and sizes. Pretty wild
I honestly found her quite attractive, even more so when she started talking and expressing her feelings. She seems very intelligent, strong and articulate. Those things are very attractive qualities
ngl i thought she was a guy in the thumbnail, not ugly, just a normal guy. when saw her face closer up and realized she was a girl i thought it was really cool. idk but i definitely wouldn't say she's ugly. something about her facial features just work together so well that make her look so much more interesting (not in a bad way) to look at than any instagram model i've seen (cause they all look the same). idk her face is may not be beautiful but i like looking at it
It was spoken poetically in Russian, there will always be slight differences in interpretations and translations of a saying from one language to another hence the phrase "lost in translation." Taking into account how expressive Russian is; what I and what you translated it as, the context of it still stands.
Being beautiful could be a sign of many things which are beneficial. General health to start with, stronger progeny and very likely chance of a healthier mental state.
What about the countless infertile 'pretty' women and the 'ugly' women that pop out babies like a machine gun? What about the 'pretty' women that can't do shit but look 'pretty'?
@Brother Paul It’s not coping, it’s the simple truth. Nobody works hard to be beautiful, you were born beautiful or you weren’t. No effort put in at all. Do you think being born with a pretty face is an accomplishment?
@Brother Paul That does not make it an accomplishment. To me, being beautiful is something you were born with. Do you train to become beautiful in the womb? No, there was no effort put in at all. Nothing. An accomplishment is something you gain after working towards it. I have good eyesight, is that an accomplishment of mine or is it something I was born with?
@Brother Paul Yes, I have. I think having successful surgery is an accomplishment and they can be proud of that accomplishment because it’s something they worked towards getting IE money, time, etc.
No one is really ugly nor is anyone really beautiful. We are multidimensional and can actually exhibit both qualities simultaneously, but those terms should not define us. I grew up in a very shallow community where the standard of beauty or attractiveness is a very narrow list of certain characteristics. Since I was the only member of my family who didn’t meet this standard, I am referred to as “the ugly sister” in those circles. Fortunately, I moved far away from that place many years ago and refuse to see people in such a ridiculous way. You articulated this position magnificently. Thank you so much!
People keep telling her to put on makeup and style her hair to be pretty. Apparently the point was not clear enough. Her intelligence, depth of thinking, and understanding are far, far more beautiful than some mascara and foundation. Ah society, we have been labelling the wrong things as beautiful
I was listening to her and realised that I spend so much time thinking about the way I look, its sad actually. And there are many people that spend more time than me thinking about it..
Anja R TRUE. I waste a lot of time worrying and thinking about my looks and it’s so ridiculous. I’m getting better though! I think many aspects in society just make girls or just people in general a bit insecure no matter how you look!
You took words out of my mind and actually made them less chaotic and incoherent. I'm ugly and fat. And that's absolutely fine with me. My attractivness to other people is not what I take a sense of worth from. And there is so many other things I want to be: be a more confident artist, be more dedicated pagan, be able to rollerblade, be a better friend, be more able to cope with life... pretty is so low on priorities right now it's not even on the list. There is so many people in my life (hi mom!) that just can't wrap their head around the idea.
Andy Genett I know you’re trying to say something positive, but idk I still don’t think it’s quite right to compare people’s beauty like that. There’s just so much to consider when it comes to beauty.
+Clarence Lannister Well. lets see. The use of her words and the meaning behind them gives me the impression she is an intelligent human. I could be wrong but usually if it looks, sounds and acts like a duck, it is one. What's the problem? Because I never insulted anyone calling them sad and miserable or making assumptions about peoples feelings towards themselves just because I see someone give a compliment SMH
Wow! Jeezus. I just gave another person a compliment. It doesn't mean I'm a homo or that I'm literally jealous of her. Jealous is just a figure of speech, meaning that I think she's got a lot going for her and she impressed me. Get a grip. +MrVin whoever said shit about being good looking, stop hating and just accept that sometimes humans give other humans compliment! Dayum
I think ugly is a state in which someone presents themselves. It is an attitude and demeanor which goes beyond physical terms. The fact that you can accept what you think is "ugly" is the reason why you are so much more beautiful than so many people out there. Your vast understanding and high level reasoning makes me feel so superficial due to the importance I've put on looks. It has no substance. You have substance. You have something real. You have something intangible. Keep your magic forever.
Lottie J-Urie Is it weird that I don't really look at people as ugly or beautiful? Like I have to have a relationship with someone before I can view them as ugly or beautiful. But it's not even beauty I'm seeing, it's kindness and intellect. And it's not ugly that I'm seeing, it's a shitty personality. Did any of that make sense or is there just something wrong with me?
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A quote that resonates with me through this video was by F. Scott Fitzgerald, “No, she wasn't beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful, deep down to her soul. She is beautiful.”
@@equim7363 the point?; not being so disgustingly ugly and unattractive like me making people gag and get sick at the very hideous sight of my ugliness and that’s the truth
I found this when I was around 12-15 years old and I just had to come back to it to just say how grateful I was for this video and accepting myself through highschool.
@@tomaspalomaki5814 what? I was saying that most people don't have a mindset like hers and most likely the person who made that comment is just as superficial as most people.
Exactly. No matter how much you love yourself it will never change what other people see when they look at you... and if you're not attractive you will be rejected and alone, simple as that. Having a great personality doesn't help at all either
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sam bandora Believe me but no matter how attractive you are everyone has something they don’t like about themselves, we are all beautiful remember that :)
That was truly beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing that. Also I think that everyone feels "ugly" or "beautiful" from time to time but it comes down to the meaning we give to these labels
I don't agree with that. Don't be proud to be ugly because if you would be proud, that would mean that we never have to brush our teeth, never take a shower etc. Don't be proud to be ugly. Just don't care what other think about you and try to get the best out of you. Inside and outside.
She has beautiful features and eyes. If she wore make up and did her hair, she would be ‘beautiful.’ She doesn’t choose to do that and I think it’s great.
Me too- at least it was over 20 years ago so there was no social media or cyber bullying back then....I feel sad for ugly girls going through school these days.
Oh God, I 'm going to high school in August. I am really ugly. Freckles and glasses and soon-to-be braces and facial hair and more, you scared me to death.
Zippy make it work for you....a little secret we males don't care so much about pretty...we care about fitness and health..and a kind heart...a kind hearted smile will make you look hot
I always wonder - who all that people who terror ? When we grown up they disappear ! I realli wish al my heart to those evil little bastard expelled from the school and their parents forced to pay a really heavy fine! Such evil people can not benefit society.
SuburbanoidMisfit111 Uh. I know what you mean. And kind of not know. I know girls that have horrible personality, are ugly asf and are a brat, basically they shouldn't live and are popular. I don't really get it.
You are not ugly. It is strange that you think that. You have a very pleasant face. I like looking at it. You have beautiful eyes and great teeth. And your smile is very bright. I just think we all need to realize that 80 to 90% of us are average. And that is okay. That isnt bad. We enhance what we have if we want and call it a day. But the best thing about you is your mind. You are an amazing communicator. Sharp, crisp and sparkly.
Well, she looks like a teenage gamer/rocker boy during puberty. And I bet you would be terrified if overnight you would exchange faces and bodies :) I understand you want to be somewhat nice, but if you wake up looking like her you would cry. do I say she is "ugly" ? Not really, but she is not pretty either, she looks unconventional, boyish, she is cool tho, she can rock this tomboy look and be attractive.
Pls stop lying. We all know that we should treat everyone the same but pls stop denying that she isn’t ugly. now don’t go rage at me for saying “everyone has different standards” but trust me, most people don’t find her attractive. Lying does nothing and people can see through it. spread positive messages but not lies. Thank you
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This was EXACTLY the way I used to think during elementary and most of middle school, but somewhere along the way it just slowly faded. I'm pretty sure it was social media, though it was honestly so subtle I couldn't even tell until the damage was done.
it could be a gift, but I actually think life can get way too easy when you're someone who is considered to be very beautiful. it could be a bad thing too, is what I'm saying so I don't completely agree with what he says.
With that quote, the same thing could be said for having love. Not many have it but it always seems to be the worst of people who can so easily get it.
This is so true so many times I have come across someone who is beautiful but so ugly on the inside whereas someone who would be considered 'ugly' is the nicest person you could ever come across
I’m blown away by your mind. You’re obviously a deep thinker and you’re able to see things in an new way and communicate it clearly and concisely to us, which I really admire
Once I started accepting the fact that I am ugly, the word "ugly" took on a new definition. It became more of a concept. An ever changing opinion. Ugly and pretty are two sides of the same coin. Honestly, I don't find anyone ugly anymore. I feel like I have been released from society's idea of the ideal body and beauty standards have become so trivial. I also became less judgmental of others. I see people as humans. There are still days where I feel terrible about myself, but I'm trying to look at myself how I look at others. I still see people that are "ugly" "pretty" "cute" "fat" "skinny" but they are still people. We are conditioned to label people the moment we see them. I've learned to look past that and I've begun to realize how beautiful everyone is. Not because of how they look, but simply because they are human. Humans are amazing! You can be ugly and beautiful at the same time :) You are beautiful. I'm not saying it as a compliment. It's simply my belief. Thank you for this video.
I thought I was the only one. Like when I was a kid I thought of everyone as beautiful. No one was ugly to me when it comes to appearance. As in no one. I didn't focus much on the looks, I focused on people's character n' how they treated me. But now I'm all grown up and I've got a taste of society's beauty standards, it started to mess up with my perception of everyone. Now I'm slowly getting the hang of not being obsessed with looks
I love your comment. You are right. We are all beautiful. Regardless of the beauty standards. There is much more to humans than the outward appearance.
"Ugly and pretty are two sides of the same coin" BINGO. In just the same way that love and hate are side-by-side whereas apathy is at the other side of the circle or emotions. Contrary to what the media will tell you, the cookie-cutter, magazine 'bunnies' are the boring, unattractive ones.
I remember watching this video 10 years ago, a year after you put it out and changed my life. It morphed my entire perspective. I came back to say thank you very much. ❤
she's not only fucking intelligent - the way she talks you can really HEAR it - her voice and eyes also are so damn beautiful it's so sad to see wonderful, inspiring and interesting people disliking their appeareance but YOU GO GIRL
Vro when i saw the thumbnail i thought she was a guy lmao, she could trick a girl to date her if she didnt talk, except she wouldn't even get a girl cuz shes ugly af
Oh come off it Nina there's nothing more frustrating than condescension through comments like "you are beautiful for this that or the other" No, leave it out. If you're physically ugly then beauty is immediately ruled out because it's a measure of physical appearance. Don't try to push this nonsense mangling of the term. Ugly people like myself still like to admire beauty and it's hard to do when you bastardise the term for "muh feelings".
Honestly, you’re not even ugly. It’s the way your hair is styled and the shape of the glasses don’t flatter you very much in my opinion. But It’s your style and if you are happy with it, that’s all that matters! I also like the points you made in the video :)
Right? That's what i thought too. A nice haircut/hairstyle and glasses that actually suit is all she needs. She's Pretty too. It's just we're over exposed to fake altered beauty
I don’t like the comments of “you’re pretty” or “you’re not ugly” because that totally defeats this whole topic. That’s like saying yes it’s important to not be ugly, let me convince you that you’re not ugly. This is about even if you are ugly or are judged by someone as ugly, how to not be hurt by it, not feel like shit, not let it impact on your self esteem, not be self conscious of your looks, not feel inadequate or not good enough. It’s an incredibly hard thing to be ok with and I like how Kara is trying to adopt a mindset whereby she can be ok if she ever feels or thinks or is judged as ugly.
But what if we a) really don't agree that she's ugly and b) worry that she's coming up with all this other stuff but actually isn't able to shield herself from feeling bad?
But very very few people in the world are ugly (they are usually deformed in some way) and this girl is in no way ugly. It’s important to have a realistic view, somebody calling her ugly does not mean she’s actually ugly. So you don’t accept you’re ugly and then not get hurt but realize you’re actually not ugly and the other person currently holds a fantasy image in their head they deem as beautiful and that has nothing to do with you, your looks or reality. Reality and objectivity is important. Learn to discern truth not adapt your emotions according to other people’s views, that’ll get you in trouble in life.
@@LovelyDay11 There are so many flaws in your comment. Lots of people hate looking at their image in mirrors or photographs, they don’t like how they look, they think they are ugly. What you say in believing you’re not ugly is impossible if you do believe you’re ugly. What if you have been called ugly many times in your life and you know you’re not good looking, how can you believe you’re not ugly and that anyone who says you’re ugly is wrong? What you say does nothing to address being hurt at being or being judged as ugly. Ugly is subjective, attractiveness is subjective. But the whole subject here is how to be ok with being ugly, how to not be hurt if judged or seen as ugly by others. What you say does nothing to address these issues, you’re actually pouring fuel on the fire because what you are saying is “ugly is a terrible thing, it’s so important to not be ugly, let me tell you that you are not ugly, so it’s ok”. You do think being ugly is a terrible thing don’t you?
@@EyeLean5280 but that’s not what this is about. What if someone wants to do a video about “how to be ok with being ugly, how to not be hurt if you are judged as ugly by others”. Are you going to just respond - oh you’re not ugly so it doesn’t matter. This is a topic lots of people want to try and change their mindset on. I wish Kara did this video by saying “I know I’m not ugly but I want to do a video on why you shouldn’t be hurt if you think you are ugly or judged as ugly - so that people don’t keep responding by dismissing the topic by saying “you’re not ugly so let’s not even go there”.
@@carltonjohnston8408i think you are reading into their comments too much. Most people watch like 10s of a video then comment. The only context the commenters have is a video title implying the person is ugly, and the face of a person who most certainly isn’t ugly.
And the people telling her to put on makeup and that she could potentially be attractive, all of you are missing the point. You're all reflective of the media and society we live in, trying to change a person to fit your perception of how they should be instead of accepting them as who they truly are.
+reyom neraul and what world do you live in? I'm sorry to break it to you but there are standards whether you like it or not. She is obviously not happy so people are making suggestions on how she can change it. And she can. There are a lot of tv shows there people get a make-over and feel much better, their eyes shine. Everyone loves feeling pretty. And she is not ugly. I can just see what I would change in her (hair, make-up, glasses). She can be really pretty. She actually reminds me of Emily Bett Rickards.
+IrinNovy If she liked makeup she would wear it. She's made another video to say that she doesn't wear makeup because it doesn't interest her currently. And yes society has its standards haha! But no one is required to mold themselves to them. Society's standards are the reason she is depressed to begin with, and if she chooses not to abide by them that's her choice to make. And yes I believe that she is attractive as well. Beauty isn't always about changing yourself, it can be about changing your mindset. She views herself as different, and realizes that it's okay to be that way.
reyom neraul of course it's her choice but if she's unhappy (and she clearly is) why not become conventionally pretty? I see a weird contradiction here. She doesn't like makeup - ok. Her choice. But she feels really miserable because she is not considered pretty by some standards. But guess what? Those people, who are pretty by the standards, spend hours taking care of their appearance. Even Hollywood celebrities don't look as perfect without make-up. So she doesn't wanna do anything and wants to be pretty (and she does, all this talk is just self-deceptiveness), that is just lazy to me.
Made 10 years ago and still making an impact. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes it's very hard to keep things in perspective. This coming from someone who was never conventionally pretty, but in recent years just keeps losing what little there was to various health conditions... permanent hairloss and facial discolouration being the worst offenders :')
100% agree....I see comments saying "you are beautiful"....its all fucking bullshit...............she is an ugly person..FACT.....an ugly person who is just coping with her situation,,thats the point of this video................I cant stand good looking people who tell ugly people that they are "beautiful" when they know its pure B.S.
Y’all don’t have to put down other girls in order to praise her. You don’t need to put down the girls that love makeup or really care about the way they look in order to praise this girl
Calm down, girls who are into makeup are praised anywhere, if they can finally find a corner in the world where they are not, at least you will know how disadvantaged ugly people feel when they are looked down on most of the time, just because of how they look. Pretty people are not "victims" just because occasionally someone appreciates goodness and intelligence more than phisical feautures. It' s as if someone praised the strenght of deseased people, and a bunch of healthy people came along crying "we are good tooo you don' t need to bring us down to appreciate them". Perspectives. Btw, I' m a person who likes chlotes, style and looking good.
I think the point is more that beauty and intelligence are not exclusive to each other (you can be attractive and smart). Also beauty is subjective, a “super model” could think she was ugly and feel bad about herself and benefit from this video. I don’t think the point of this video is to say “ugly” and intelligent people are better than pretty people. It’s just that if you don’t give as much weight to the terms ugly and pretty you can feel better about yourself. We all have insecurities.
Sienna C I am not trying to be disrespectful at all, and if it comes off in that manner I apologize in advance. Your comment bothers me for this reason. Aside from others comments, that have zero to do with this girls absolutely amazing message, I feel you missed the point of her video & are concerned with the comments of others, again, which has nothing to do with this video. Also, from your allegations that people are “putting others down,just to praise her”, I went ahead & read through about 20 comments & haven’t found ANY comments downing others, nor “praising” this girls honest,deeply profound personal opinion at such a young age. Maybe if you actually Watched, Really Listened to the incredibly true message, instead of gearing your focus on primarily on a handful of comments by people, you may or should “get” the actual point of her Video & the very real topic she is speaking on..... and I don’t want to sound like I’m attacking you, because that isn’t my intention, but when you read your comment, the way it comes across it is as if you are the like the very people she is speaking about, but rather then “pretty” or “ugly” in appearance by this world’s “standard” , Your doing the same thing with the comments, caring about what the masses have to say, which equates to meaningless, mindless self indulgence & takes away from her excellent message, directs it to nonsense, division & confusion. Again, this is just my observational opinion. I agree that NOONE should constantly & maliciously put others down because of their appearance. We all have many things to offer this world & “beauty” isn’t an ability, and shouldn’t be praised, because “beauty” on the outside does & will, with age, time & life circumstances fade, where internal beauty, kindness, intelligence, skills, trades & life experiences will only continue to grow, thus deepening each individual’s strength’s, bonds, friendships & relationships that are formed throughout this journey we ALL travel & call LIFE✌🏼💯🖤👏🌹 Hope you have a good day, and that my comment helped in some way, and didn’t hurt anyone. Peace, LoVe, and Many HarMoNieS❤️🎶✌🏼
HONEY YOUR MIND IS ART
lisa Xvxv amen
Preach Sister
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It totally is. I feel tears jerking out of no where
yes yes
"Being 'beautiful' is not an accomplishment. - And being 'ugly' doesn't have to stop you from making accomplishments." Word.
PrisK woah I read this comment exactly the time she was saying it😂
PrisK TF , she is not ugly
"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment.", neither is being ugly, you don't get points for either but I would take it over being ugly any day.
Anastasia Nikki when did I say that she is
PrisK your comment is too paradoxical , it s no compliment either .
"being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow I wish people could understand this.
more like a privilege.
Feeling beautiful IS though. She said she avoids mirrors, and feels insecure sometimes. Anytime she goes to the restroom she cannot avoid the mirrors. Her features are symmetrical, eyes are pretty. It would be low maintenance to have a short haircut that won't allow the hair to stick upward & a shampoo/conditioner for her hair type plus a facewash for her skin type. I'm not a makeup type of girl, barely brush my hair, but I use some inexpensive yet proper products for skin and hair, my hair is layered, short, and frayed for easy care. Daily hair washing would be even easier if she rocked a shorter haircut and it might make her feel as beautiful as she actually IS.
Indiawalker27 it's not people's fault for thinking that way when society has been feeding us all these beauty standards, on what is considered beautiful or handsome, and what isn't, since the dawn of time. Whether that's through media, advertisements, or peer pressure, it ultimately creates this narrow perspective into your mind that you start following. I mean, we've been subconsciously told to do this our whole lives.
Edit: Its also completely natural to want to look beautiful. Animals such as peacocks and certain birds "show off" their feathers in order to attract mates and get partners. We do the same thing when trying to look for a partner. It's completely natural and instinctual. It's just that the standards these days are ridiculously high.
Indiawalker27 Nobody give a shit. Subconsciously everyone loves beautiful people and hates ugly people. Looks are the only thing that matters in modern society.
I'm Purrito In what way? If beauty is determined by genetics, then what is the accomplishment? What - popping out of the right vagina? Lol
I love this attitude. There's such emotional intelligence and strength behind being able to find fulfillment in yourself, and to not feel the need to compare yourself to other people and to realize that attractiveness is arbitrary and insignificant in a lot of ways
Everyone commenting how she's not ugly in your opinion.. You're completely missing the point
thank you.
They're probably not missing the point, but rather commenting their opinion... Just like you.
Yeah, the point isn’t whether or not she’s ugly. The point is that there’s so much more to life than just your appearance. And that being ugly isn’t the end of the world.
We can get the point of the video and still tell her we don't think she's ugly. We want to say nice things to other people. We're also so used to people fishing for compliments in life and social media that we're almost programmed to compliment people when they say they don't measure up in some way. She's not actually fishing for compliments, of course, but comes off as such a sweet, smart, interesting person that it's like a natural instinct for me to want to comfort her and tell her she's fucking beautiful and amazing. I won't though. But I understand why people would.
@@burpreynolds3250 Theyre not commenting their opinnion. Theyre trying to make this person feel better by saying "youre beautiful" when actually they dont think that. This person has heard those words probably a billion times to the point where even she knows that its bullshit. Thats the point.
The fact that a good portion of these comments are debating whether or not she's actually "physically ugly" defeats the purpose of the video and what she's trying to say. Sad.
very true
Cora LovesGlam I know what she is trying to say. But she does it because she thought a lot about her apperiance in the past. We all want to be loved and seen as beautifull on the insde AND outside. Its a fact. And its not ok saying: its ok I may see myself as ugly, but there are other things important than that. Because and this is the sad truth: its very important in this society to be beautifull.
And being ugly, I mean physically ugly, is only possible if you see yourself like that. You can accept it and stay ugly, you can avoid it and also stay ugly or you can deny it and voila you are beautifull. Without surgery, without makeup, without anything.
Beauty is not always something that is physical, its something in your attitude. If you are physically beautifull and you know that, well congrats. But if you are not, but you think it anyways, you are also beautifull. But if you think, well I am not beautifull, but it doesn't matter, other things are more important. Well they are, but it doesn't change the fact that you think you are ugly. And so will other people see you too.
And I think its all started, because other people told her once she is ugly. And instead of finding out her outer beauty, she tells a lot about other things that matter in this life.
I know its not the most important thing in the world to be beautifull. For me its health and independence. But even I lay in hospital, when I had a good day, I did my make up. I care for myself with doing make up, because it was the only way I could care for myself at all.
I agree. With comments like that, people are just admitting that physical appearance means everything to them. They can't understand that there are some other people that simply don't care about physical appearance. Why would you have say to anyone that he/she is pretty or ugly? Only shallow people do that. To me, personality is everything. If you're good and intelligent person, that's all I need to be good with someone.
Cora LovesGlam everyone these days is so obsessed with physical appearance that it doesn’t matter how ‘beautiful’ we are on the inside anymore ... also sad
Yup. I think they're just projecting their own insecurities on her. For people who base their entire self-worth on their looks it's probably intimidating to meet someone who gives zero fucks, so they try to pull her down to their level.
she doesn’t act ugly, that’s all anyone should notice
'Should'
@@natasharules770 what about it?
@@thatsEforEveryone well, most people don't. Seriously, the first thing people see is looks, not personality
@@natasharules770 which is why they said should , people should care more about personality than looks
First Class Experience exactly.
How special to hear this 10 years after you recorded this! I hope you are still finding hope and inspiration and living and loving life in beautiful ways! 💕
I hope she comes back and tells us if her thoughts have changed or still the same, who she is ten years later as we all change so much when we are young
@@K-a-n-d-i-s What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also.
Our judgments should always be:
John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge.
2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says?
Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child.
1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV
32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons.
John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind.
What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.”
We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word.
KJV Bible says;
Matthew 6:31
Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?
Luke 12:22
And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on.
Matthew 6:25
Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?
Matthew 6:33
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
As an ugly girl, I just want to share the most important thing I’ve learned: that I shouldn’t let what beauty I have go to waste just because I don’t have the beauty that I wanted. There’s a lot of beauty in kind eyes, work worn hands, and smiling lips.
this is beautiful
Unfortunately that's what i did. Stay away from alcohol. It's a trap.
you don't born to be convectionally beautiful, but you do it trough a process of self improvement, fitness, chirurgy and so on, being beatiful isn't just having a pretty face, but also a strong personality and an "healthy" body both things were people nowayds don't care about enough, they don't take care of themselves by letting themselves become obese, without gettin any decent air cut, by dressing decently and so onn then they blame the society for not considering them attractive, start do as much as you can to improve yourself and stop comparing to the others, that's whrn you will reach success.
Well if you don’t think you’re beautiful you could just fix it. These days you can go as far as plastic surgery. The girl in this video would be super good looking if she grew out her hair, got rid of her glasses, straightened her teeth, got some acne creams etc. Most women that are good looking today weren’t born like that. They artificially changed how they looked. Most women would look like this girl if there wasn’t so much pressure to be pretty
@@NegativeAccelerate bruh..I see your perspective and that you are suggesting because you care
but people are more then their bodies.
I have a friend that’s so incredibly beautiful. was a plus size model and a weather girl.
she got a surgery to make her stomach tiny so she wouldn’t be plus sized.
and had some ribs removed. she can’t feel if her mouth is open or closed due to a facial procedure. she only eats 4 ounces of food a day.
now i’m her only friend. the only one that’s not grossed out when she dry heaves, hiccups, vomit comes out of her nose if she burps and she passes gas pretty much all day. sometimes she can’t make it to the bathroom :( her instagram pictures are very popular. the guys who show interest in her and want to meet up have no idea what she goes through…. I will always protect her. I’m not pretty but I’m emotionally strong and street smart. I do hope she finds a partner one day though..
I get back to this video once a year to cleanse my mind lmao
@@joys8634 are u happy now
Please remember me
@@joys8634 lmaooo thanks sis
@@fee6145 i will :))
@@megbubbz thanks c:
I feel like this is what the internet is about. A woman simply expressing her inner thoughts about existence, broadcasted for anyone to see and kept online forever. It's history documented
Overdosed Mia Wallace YESS
Ok philosopher 😂
@@geanidrl7527 ok comment that apports nothing to the conversation😘✨
@@overdosedmiawallace What do u mean
@@overdosedmiawallace i mean it kinda did. It was a joke about the conversation
"Being beautiful is not an Accomplishment
And being ugly does not have to stop you
from making an Accomplishment"
These words touch my soul deeply❤
Damn. She is like...the best therapist ever. I think I can finally accept myself.
The fuckin point!!
I was the 666th like
“I never want to get into this place where I feel like what I look like, is more important than what I do.” Wow. I loved that.
That is beautiful
but we can have both. my god, it's almost like pretty people cannot be good people. life is not black or white, we can focus on our appearance and still focus on our internal journey.
@@LauraLaura-mv4xhOut of all, Your comment touched my heart ❤
@@LauraLaura-mv4xh The point is that society holds beauty in an overly high place and makes people forget other things they have and could do. That's what the video is about, not that pretty people aren't good people or that caring about your appearance is bad.
she is someone I would genuinely love to have a conversation with
Given this was 10 years ago, it was a bit ahead of its time
Holy crap please write a book
wait... I thought she did write a book. A story book.
Turk Means Strong! Oh my god fuck off! Our generation definitely still reads books, and stop acting like you’re so above people playing PS4 when you’re commenting on a TH-cam video
Turk Means Strong! I read this over like 3 times and I still can’t understand wtf you’re saying lmao
@@womp9465
This is why you people aren't in managerial positions.
Tea Times Two shes so ugly
Why did TH-cam recommend me this ? Is that a sign...
it is! same here 😆
Guess I’ve joined the club 😂
X maybe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
X facts what they tryna say
same lol
I wonder how she’s doing now
Ilya K ( laughs in logan paul)
Ilya K “not dead! just living the good ugly life!” in the description of her channel :)
@Ilya K ????
Same! I wish she had instagram or something. She just seems like such a nice person
Il mio Nome. @moonsludge
Love this! I have a sister who just passed away, and she said while she was sick that she wished she'd worried less about how she looked and more that she had a body and it worked and was healthy! ❤
Sorry for your loss❤😢 but thank you for sharing this perspective
Everyone on the comments be like "you're not ugly!" completely missing the point of the video
Kala Meet beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Forreal I think she is ugly and that's ok
no, actually, everyone in comments be like “omg everyone stop saying she’s pretty did you even watch the video”. I’ve seen two comments actually saying she’s pretty. Fuck outa here hypocrite
True but no point in think you se rugby when you aren’t. That’s just believing a lie
I honestly dont think shes ugly tho shes average
TH-cam:
31 year old virgin
21 with no friends
On being ugly
Being ugly: my experience
Me:
Are you trying to tell me something
The fact that I’ve watched all of those 😭
I know I am ugly 🐸
Nobody needs to tell me thattttuyyytt
Broooo😭😭😭😭 the same thing just happened. Now u got me thinking.....
@0 0 seriously! It’s honestly sad
Ikr
Whether shes ugly or not, she has an amazing outlook on life and damn.... Shes an inspiration. Im happy i clicked on this vid. Subbed x
Lottie J-Urie this was recommended to me and at first I was like???? excuse you TH-cam??? but then I actually loved the video
she just needs makeup and she's fine
and a better haircut
Physically she would do just fine with a better haircut, contacts instead of glasses and some makeup... but what she really says is that the physical beauty is the least important one, because it's superficial
She isn't ugly. And doesn't need to change anything. She is perfect the way she is.
You are wise beyond your years and your not ugly in the slightest. Not physically, mentally or spiritually. The world needs more people like you in it. God bless.
i dont think she's ugly at all either, shes just.. normal. i think the fact this video has been made really goes to show social media ruins our perspective.
"being beautiful is not an accomplishment" Thank you for saying that. However not even gonna lie your eyes are stunning.
It is. But for your ancestors, not yours made.
@@aerbald beauty can be an accomplishment. Going to the gym requires time and dedication. Yes those people are born with good bone structure but the accomplishment is maintaining that appearance so that they can be happy with themselves
@@michaelg9082 Aye, and never underestimate prestance and presentation
Being beautiful is absolutely an accomplishment, you just don't try hard enough.
That is kinda BS I used to be hella fat and put in hella work and stuff and I look way better I think it does come easier for some people (being good looking) but really you can work out your facial muscles and get a jawline/ basically what I'm saying is it is an accomplishment
I agree with her that humans are super bizarre looking as a species.
That doesn't make sense, everything is relative.
@@Danuxsy it does how is it relative when we are literally the only species with completeley different looking specimen each generation
Tigers are the most beautiful species. Humans are funny looking lol
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@@Danuxsy I mean humans probably do look really weird if you're looking from an Aliens perspective lol. Upright walking meat sacks, with fur only growing out of the top of their heads, all different shapes and sizes. Pretty wild
I honestly found her quite attractive, even more so when she started talking and expressing her feelings. She seems very intelligent, strong and articulate. Those things are very attractive qualities
The way she speaks really attractive to me,she talks like a lady
Gay
Lay Soe your mother...
Hamm lol daddy’s mad
Lay Soe you probably have the intellect of a fetus if that’s your only comeback. You sound like a 9 year old
Her brain is beautiful. She seems like an amazing friend to talk too and hang out with
Pretty privilige > inteligence
Most regular women look like this in the morning, without make up, bleached hair and styling... she just looks like a regular woman to me.
ikr? blonde? blue eyes?
facts
True
ngl i thought she was a guy in the thumbnail, not ugly, just a normal guy. when saw her face closer up and realized she was a girl i thought it was really cool. idk but i definitely wouldn't say she's ugly. something about her facial features just work together so well that make her look so much more interesting (not in a bad way) to look at than any instagram model i've seen (cause they all look the same). idk her face is may not be beautiful but i like looking at it
She looks like Scarlet Johanson without makeup 😁
This was posted 4 years ago but was recommended to me today 🤔
winnieheart's adventures girrrrlll me too lol I was feeling real ugly lately too 😅
winnieheart's adventures ME TOO
winnieheart's adventures same
saaame
winnieheart's adventures SAME!
"What a strange illusion it is to suppose that beauty is goodness." - Leo Tolstoy
it's actually "It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness." lol
It was spoken poetically in Russian, there will always be slight differences in interpretations and translations of a saying from one language to another hence the phrase "lost in translation." Taking into account how expressive Russian is; what I and what you translated it as, the context of it still stands.
Being beautiful could be a sign of many things which are beneficial.
General health to start with, stronger progeny and very likely chance of a healthier mental state.
What about the countless infertile 'pretty' women and the 'ugly' women that pop out babies like a machine gun? What about the 'pretty' women that can't do shit but look 'pretty'?
Teresa Benites omg yes.. amazing quote
I feel ugly is an attitude, not what someone looks like. I believe personality is beautiful and how someone treats others.
This should be a Ted Talk.
YES! So much more people should hear that!
You have an amazing outlook on life.
Clarence , you’re a virgin judging by your attitude
"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow. I needed to hear everything she just said.
Right on ✊
@Brother Paul It’s not coping, it’s the simple truth. Nobody works hard to be beautiful, you were born beautiful or you weren’t. No effort put in at all. Do you think being born with a pretty face is an accomplishment?
@Brother Paul That does not make it an accomplishment. To me, being beautiful is something you were born with. Do you train to become beautiful in the womb? No, there was no effort put in at all. Nothing. An accomplishment is something you gain after working towards it. I have good eyesight, is that an accomplishment of mine or is it something I was born with?
@Brother Paul Yes, I have. I think having successful surgery is an accomplishment and they can be proud of that accomplishment because it’s something they worked towards getting IE money, time, etc.
It actually is if were ugly and put the effort in becoming better looking like going to the gym, eating better and healthier, sleep better and etc.
No one is really ugly nor is anyone really beautiful. We are multidimensional and can actually exhibit both qualities simultaneously, but those terms should not define us. I grew up in a very shallow community where the standard of beauty or attractiveness is a very narrow list of certain characteristics. Since I was the only member of my family who didn’t meet this standard, I am referred to as “the ugly sister” in those circles. Fortunately, I moved far away from that place many years ago and refuse to see people in such a ridiculous way.
You articulated this position magnificently. Thank you so much!
People keep telling her to put on makeup and style her hair to be pretty. Apparently the point was not clear enough. Her intelligence, depth of thinking, and understanding are far, far more beautiful than some mascara and foundation. Ah society, we have been labelling the wrong things as beautiful
Bella Bastien who cares how smart she is being smart isn't physical beauty, that's not the point the point is she's happy who she is and that's all.
Intelligence isn't physically appealing dumbass.
Rachel Anderson being attractive is everything
Bobby Hill I never said it wasn't, so you might wanna read my comment again.
Bella Bastien Easy by you to say it unless your pic. isn't you. Don't you think?
I was listening to her and realised that I spend so much time thinking about the way I look, its sad actually. And there are many people that spend more time than me thinking about it..
Anja R TRUE. I waste a lot of time worrying and thinking about my looks and it’s so ridiculous. I’m getting better though! I think many aspects in society just make girls or just people in general a bit insecure no matter how you look!
Anja R me too
If you worry about it when you’re young, it’s hell when you get older... It will bury you.
The passion in her voice... wow
*Hitler speech plays quietly in the distance*
You took words out of my mind and actually made them less chaotic and incoherent. I'm ugly and fat. And that's absolutely fine with me. My attractivness to other people is not what I take a sense of worth from. And there is so many other things I want to be: be a more confident artist, be more dedicated pagan, be able to rollerblade, be a better friend, be more able to cope with life... pretty is so low on priorities right now it's not even on the list. There is so many people in my life (hi mom!) that just can't wrap their head around the idea.
okay but your eyes are some of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen
Yea...no
Exactly wut I was thinkin they r nice
I agree. :)
you're missing the point sis
Maddie Perkins
Ugh, can you just watch the vid
A deep thinker is infinitely more beautiful than a person who is physically attractive and cannot think deeply. Your perspective is wonderful.
Andy Genett I know you’re trying to say something positive, but idk I still don’t think it’s quite right to compare people’s beauty like that. There’s just so much to consider when it comes to beauty.
She became a deep thinker because she is ugly
not really
soo you're saying that people cant be both physically attractive and 'deep thinking'? xd
Zaid abdulla this is so true. I feel like when you are not pretty, you have the time to think deeper and realize stuff that people don’t see
TH-cam lowkey calling me ugly by recommending this.
akalink77 same
Same 😂
No, it's saying that you might like this, not saying that you are ugly
or that you seem insecure
right
Hands down, the best TH-cam video I've ever watched. Thank you for this, I really needed it. God bless you.
I'm so jealous of her mind
But you're too busy being good looking? Or why are you still jealous and not thinking already?
Mr Vin why do you have to take a negative out of what he said tho?
Mr Vin is talking about himself.
+Clarence Lannister Well. lets see. The use of her words and the meaning behind them gives me the impression she is an intelligent human. I could be wrong but usually if it looks, sounds and acts like a duck, it is one. What's the problem? Because I never insulted anyone calling them sad and miserable or making assumptions about peoples feelings towards themselves just because I see someone give a compliment SMH
Wow! Jeezus. I just gave another person a compliment. It doesn't mean I'm a homo or that I'm literally jealous of her. Jealous is just a figure of speech, meaning that I think she's got a lot going for her and she impressed me. Get a grip. +MrVin whoever said shit about being good looking, stop hating and just accept that sometimes humans give other humans compliment! Dayum
Your energy is so pure and clear I feel it from my screen
^^
Lol ikr
Can you feel her Chakra too?
Aaron White no it’s nen
lel yeah i bet. I bet she can sense her ki as well.
She is pretty she just loves her self the way she is and that's the most attractive thing I found in one person
YEAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH
yes i've watched this video so many time and i fall for her every. damn. time.
Yoo I legit see nothing ugly about her!!!!! Am I trippin?????
Is when you don't like yourself that you're ugly. I'm ugly.
@@melissavezzoli2554 that's why she pretty
People who are "ugly" always have much better personalities
I think ugly is a state in which someone presents themselves. It is an attitude and demeanor which goes beyond physical terms. The fact that you can accept what you think is "ugly" is the reason why you are so much more beautiful than so many people out there. Your vast understanding and high level reasoning makes me feel so superficial due to the importance I've put on looks. It has no substance. You have substance. You have something real. You have something intangible. Keep your magic forever.
Who else is watching this after '21 years old: NO friends' ?
I watched this BEFORE that.
me 😂 i love TH-cam algorithms
@@hazy92 I feel like my FBI agent was th one who recommended me this (┬┬﹏┬┬)
@@TheDaha is they trying to tell us something..... it makes sense now..
@@hazy92 mhm! 😂
This video is too pure for me. I loved this so much. Amazing person.
Lottie J-Urie. I wish she'd come back and make more videos. I'm going to sub in the hopes...
I love ur profile picture!!
Lottie J-Urie what when you look like a model in your photo ???
Lottie J-Urie Is it weird that I don't really look at people as ugly or beautiful? Like I have to have a relationship with someone before I can view them as ugly or beautiful. But it's not even beauty I'm seeing, it's kindness and intellect. And it's not ugly that I'm seeing, it's a shitty personality. Did any of that make sense or is there just something wrong with me?
Zac Loves Yaaa
That's kali uchis (a singer) on their pp
This is old and just popped up. You are not ugly at all.
Who TF decided what beauty is anyway
evolution, that's who
babies lol
Natural selection
white people
NonStopParis Society.
"I'm ugly and I'm proud"
--Spongebob Squarepants
inspirational stuff
SpongeBob was on to something then...
ATTENTION THERE IS HOPE
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This Is hope, and never give up, it's going to be hard if your in a bad state but never give up.
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"Is that what he calls it?"
-Squidward OG Tentacles
I’m not just saying this bc ur calling ur self ugly but when I first clicked on the video I fell in love with ur eyes
Tru
Same
Me too!
Me too
Why the fuck you lyin'?
Thank you for the message Kara ❤ I hear you and I see you and you helped me today 🙏🏽
A quote that resonates with me through this video was by F. Scott Fitzgerald, “No, she wasn't beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful, deep down to her soul. She is beautiful.”
expreshayne ☺
That was very beautiful, I'm sure you're beautiful as well.
totally agree
that is amazing quote thanks for sharing
expreshayne do we have microscopes to look inside?
"In a blind world, how many people will you impress?"
What
@@jamalempfehlung9841 if everyone was blind would you still be beautiful
The world isn’t blind in seeing how ugly I am cuz that’s exactly what I am and it’s obvious😔😣
The problem is, we don't live in a blind world.
Alternative version: "In a hermaphrodite world, what will be the point of being beautiful?"
@@equim7363 the point?; not being so disgustingly ugly and unattractive like me making people gag and get sick at the very hideous sight of my ugliness and that’s the truth
A lot of these comments are missing the point. Thank you for sharing.
Honesly... Like people just make me cringe now of days.
Yeah. Theyre all 'oh just wash ur face" "oh dear ur so beautiful" and the entire video flies past their heads.
Queen_Jay honestly*
Alot of idiots that can't see beyond looks
shook lizard A lot*
I found this when I was around 12-15 years old and I just had to come back to it to just say how grateful I was for this video and accepting myself through highschool.
It’s so sad that 95% of the world doesn’t have a mind like hers 😩🙌🏾🔥
Including you.
Alessia S. Am I ugly? U don't even know what I look like.
@@tomaspalomaki5814 what? I was saying that most people don't have a mindset like hers and most likely the person who made that comment is just as superficial as most people.
That's a random number
If you really think like this you won t give a fuck about what others think
I wish life was as simple as loving yourself because there are always people that have something to say
Exactly. No matter how much you love yourself it will never change what other people see when they look at you... and if you're not attractive you will be rejected and alone, simple as that. Having a great personality doesn't help at all either
Well i belive that if you dont love yourself you can change and be the person that you want to love.
I love your comment and love uall i need self confiance follow my instagram and send me a message about it i want to talk about that my IG : purpose69_
Heri Demsas it’s easy to say this if u are attractive
sam bandora Believe me but no matter how attractive you are everyone has something they don’t like about themselves, we are all beautiful remember that :)
Your eyecolour is so beautiful
Mia Wallace I know! I couldn't stop staring at her eyes. The colour is incredible
Still ugly tho
thomascampr haha calm the fook down, just a lil joke
Axel 1010 a joke... right..... haha...ha...ha
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That was truly beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing that. Also I think that everyone feels "ugly" or "beautiful" from time to time but it comes down to the meaning we give to these labels
I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD
I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD
I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD
Wow spongebob was already talking about it a long time ago lol
@@heinzlitzel3818 was seconds away from commenting this then i saw ypur comment XD
@@harbear7325 HAHAHAHAHA
I don't agree with that. Don't be proud to be ugly because if you would be proud, that would mean that we never have to brush our teeth, never take a shower etc. Don't be proud to be ugly. Just don't care what other think about you and try to get the best out of you. Inside and outside.
I think I am ugly I just accepted how I look, oddly people say I am not ugly, it don't change my opinion about my self thou.
I think you have gorgeous eyes.
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I love the " When Grapes Pop. That is wonderful.
Centsible Living With Money Mom right!
I wish she would post more videos.
She has beautiful features and eyes. If she wore make up and did her hair, she would be ‘beautiful.’ She doesn’t choose to do that and I think it’s great.
Being ugly in high school = night terror. Boy I do not miss my teen years.
Me too- at least it was over 20 years ago so there was no social media or cyber bullying back then....I feel sad for ugly girls going through school these days.
Oh God, I 'm going to high school in August. I am really ugly. Freckles and glasses and soon-to-be braces and facial hair and more, you scared me to death.
Zippy make it work for you....a little secret we males don't care so much about pretty...we care about fitness and health..and a kind heart...a kind hearted smile will make you look hot
I always wonder - who all that people who terror ? When we grown up they disappear ! I realli wish al my heart to those evil little bastard expelled from the school and their parents forced to pay a really heavy fine! Such evil people can not benefit society.
SuburbanoidMisfit111 Uh. I know what you mean. And kind of not know. I know girls that have horrible personality, are ugly asf and are a brat, basically they shouldn't live and are popular. I don't really get it.
You are not ugly. It is strange that you think that. You have a very pleasant face. I like looking at it. You have beautiful eyes and great teeth. And your smile is very bright. I just think we all need to realize that 80 to 90% of us are average. And that is okay. That isnt bad. We enhance what we have if we want and call it a day. But the best thing about you is your mind. You are an amazing communicator. Sharp, crisp and sparkly.
Well, Im baffeled because this person is not ugly.
We're just so used to seeing people with so much makeup and plastic surgery that anyone with out it looks "ugly".
If she's ugly, then imagine what we all in the comments section are.
Well, she looks like a teenage gamer/rocker boy during puberty.
And I bet you would be terrified if overnight you would exchange faces and bodies :)
I understand you want to be somewhat nice, but if you wake up looking like her you would cry.
do I say she is "ugly" ? Not really, but she is not pretty either, she looks unconventional, boyish, she is cool tho, she can rock this tomboy look and be attractive.
She just needs to do something with that hair and she'd be very cute
Pls stop lying. We all know that we should treat everyone the same but pls stop denying that she isn’t ugly. now don’t go rage at me for saying “everyone has different standards” but trust me, most people don’t find her attractive. Lying does nothing and people can see through it. spread positive messages but not lies. Thank you
damn she's so smart. she has an amazing way of thinking.
I've been called ugly so many times it doesn't even hurts or feel meaningful lmao
Opposite for me
Right?
Lmao for me it's fat. (In my childhood)
Like *yawn* tell me something new, it's not an insult anymore.
ATTENTION THERE IS HOPE
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This Is hope, and never give up, it's going to be hard if your in a bad state but never give up.
Science behind mewing :
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Same here, I get mad when someone says I'm cute or pretty, I turn into a monster and ask why are you lying to me, tell me how ugly I am and I'm good.
Ugly
This was EXACTLY the way I used to think during elementary and most of middle school, but somewhere along the way it just slowly faded. I'm pretty sure it was social media, though it was honestly so subtle I couldn't even tell until the damage was done.
I re watch this video every so often. Please don't ever take it down.
Reminds me of a khaled hosseini quote that goes "beauty is an enormous, unmerited gift given randomly, stupidly."
Marielle Muro- Buckingham love that guy
it could be a gift, but I actually think life can get way too easy when you're someone who is considered to be very beautiful. it could be a bad thing too, is what I'm saying so I don't completely agree with what he says.
With that quote, the same thing could be said for having love. Not many have it but it always seems to be the worst of people who can so easily get it.
This is so true so many times I have come across someone who is beautiful but so ugly on the inside whereas someone who would be considered 'ugly' is the nicest person you could ever come across
You mean the Khaleesi, mother of dragons?
The irony is that being comfortable with being unattractive is... attractive? Think its a confidence thing!
For sure!
The most unattractive people to me are the people who knows they are attractive, it’s weird ngl
@@agirlhasnoname3580 completely agree
A girl has no name why tho. I love people who are confident and know that they are atttractive. I just don’t like people who boast about it.
it just comes of as creepy and cocky
i hope she is living well, love you💚
I'm jealous of how eloquent she is.
Same
write your words then read them out load slowly even if you stumble. that helped me. let your heart filter through
She is really eloquent indeed.
I’m blown away by your mind. You’re obviously a deep thinker and you’re able to see things in an new way and communicate it clearly and concisely to us, which I really admire
agreed! love it
Agree
I would add: ...which I think is beautiful :)
Once I started accepting the fact that I am ugly, the word "ugly" took on a new definition. It became more of a concept. An ever changing opinion. Ugly and pretty are two sides of the same coin. Honestly, I don't find anyone ugly anymore. I feel like I have been released from society's idea of the ideal body and beauty standards have become so trivial. I also became less judgmental of others. I see people as humans.
There are still days where I feel terrible about myself, but I'm trying to look at myself how I look at others. I still see people that are "ugly" "pretty" "cute" "fat" "skinny" but they are still people. We are conditioned to label people the moment we see them. I've learned to look past that and I've begun to realize how beautiful everyone is. Not because of how they look, but simply because they are human. Humans are amazing! You can be ugly and beautiful at the same time :)
You are beautiful. I'm not saying it as a compliment. It's simply my belief. Thank you for this video.
Everyone is beautiful in their own unique ways. Everyone is amazing. I know how corny I sound but I truly beleive it.
I thought I was the only one. Like when I was a kid I thought of everyone as beautiful. No one was ugly to me when it comes to appearance. As in no one. I didn't focus much on the looks, I focused on people's character n' how they treated me. But now I'm all grown up and I've got a taste of society's beauty standards, it started to mess up with my perception of everyone. Now I'm slowly getting the hang of not being obsessed with looks
I love your comment. You are right. We are all beautiful. Regardless of the beauty standards. There is much more to humans than the outward appearance.
"Ugly and pretty are two sides of the same coin" BINGO. In just the same way that love and hate are side-by-side whereas apathy is at the other side of the circle or emotions. Contrary to what the media will tell you, the cookie-cutter, magazine 'bunnies' are the boring, unattractive ones.
I remember watching this video 10 years ago, a year after you put it out and changed my life. It morphed my entire perspective. I came back to say thank you very much. ❤
I think you're eyes are a beautiful shade of blue. I also think your voice is super soft and soothing.
Kaylee B that's literally what I thought!!
she's not only fucking intelligent - the way she talks you can really HEAR it - her voice and eyes also are so damn beautiful it's so sad to see wonderful, inspiring and interesting people disliking their appeareance but YOU GO GIRL
Vro when i saw the thumbnail i thought she was a guy lmao, she could trick a girl to date her if she didnt talk, except she wouldn't even get a girl cuz shes ugly af
elliott marcel stfu
elliott marcel you must be insecure
Oh come off it Nina there's nothing more frustrating than condescension through comments like "you are beautiful for this that or the other"
No, leave it out. If you're physically ugly then beauty is immediately ruled out because it's a measure of physical appearance. Don't try to push this nonsense mangling of the term. Ugly people like myself still like to admire beauty and it's hard to do when you bastardise the term for "muh feelings".
Amen
Her soul is beautiful
Lilian ' worst comment
So she is ugly outside? What a stupid comment
ElAcaciobatista well she said it in the title
ElAcaciobatista i never said that tf
ElAcaciobatista who the f cares about outside?! Her soul is beautiful !
Honestly, you’re not even ugly. It’s the way your hair is styled and the shape of the glasses don’t flatter you very much in my opinion. But It’s your style and if you are happy with it, that’s all that matters! I also like the points you made in the video :)
Right? That's what i thought too. A nice haircut/hairstyle and glasses that actually suit is all she needs. She's Pretty too. It's just we're over exposed to fake altered beauty
I don’t like the comments of “you’re pretty” or “you’re not ugly” because that totally defeats this whole topic. That’s like saying yes it’s important to not be ugly, let me convince you that you’re not ugly.
This is about even if you are ugly or are judged by someone as ugly, how to not be hurt by it, not feel like shit, not let it impact on your self esteem, not be self conscious of your looks, not feel inadequate or not good enough.
It’s an incredibly hard thing to be ok with and I like how Kara is trying to adopt a mindset whereby she can be ok if she ever feels or thinks or is judged as ugly.
But what if we a) really don't agree that she's ugly and b) worry that she's coming up with all this other stuff but actually isn't able to shield herself from feeling bad?
But very very few people in the world are ugly (they are usually deformed in some way) and this girl is in no way ugly. It’s important to have a realistic view, somebody calling her ugly does not mean she’s actually ugly. So you don’t accept you’re ugly and then not get hurt but realize you’re actually not ugly and the other person currently holds a fantasy image in their head they deem as beautiful and that has nothing to do with you, your looks or reality. Reality and objectivity is important. Learn to discern truth not adapt your emotions according to other people’s views, that’ll get you in trouble in life.
@@LovelyDay11 There are so many flaws in your comment. Lots of people hate looking at their image in mirrors or photographs, they don’t like how they look, they think they are ugly. What you say in believing you’re not ugly is impossible if you do believe you’re ugly.
What if you have been called ugly many times in your life and you know you’re not good looking, how can you believe you’re not ugly and that anyone who says you’re ugly is wrong? What you say does nothing to address being hurt at being or being judged as ugly. Ugly is subjective, attractiveness is subjective. But the whole subject here is how to be ok with being ugly, how to not be hurt if judged or seen as ugly by others. What you say does nothing to address these issues, you’re actually pouring fuel on the fire because what you are saying is “ugly is a terrible thing, it’s so important to not be ugly, let me tell you that you are not ugly, so it’s ok”. You do think being ugly is a terrible thing don’t you?
@@EyeLean5280 but that’s not what this is about. What if someone wants to do a video about “how to be ok with being ugly, how to not be hurt if you are judged as ugly by others”. Are you going to just respond - oh you’re not ugly so it doesn’t matter. This is a topic lots of people want to try and change their mindset on.
I wish Kara did this video by saying “I know I’m not ugly but I want to do a video on why you shouldn’t be hurt if you think you are ugly or judged as ugly - so that people don’t keep responding by dismissing the topic by saying “you’re not ugly so let’s not even go there”.
@@carltonjohnston8408i think you are reading into their comments too much. Most people watch like 10s of a video then comment. The only context the commenters have is a video title implying the person is ugly, and the face of a person who most certainly isn’t ugly.
what a beautiful human being.
- camilla I mean it’s okay if someone is ugly tho.
@@kimmyymmik that's not the point of her comment.
- camilla virtue signallers, it's not bad being ugly
netflix and electrical bill no chill that's not the point
Plastic
she should do a TED talk!!!!
Amalia Hannove No, she's too good for Ted
Agreed! I’d give her an award
she's the definition of deep
And the people telling her to put on makeup and that she could potentially be attractive, all of you are missing the point. You're all reflective of the media and society we live in, trying to change a person to fit your perception of how they should be instead of accepting them as who they truly are.
Truesay
+reyom neraul and what world do you live in? I'm sorry to break it to you but there are standards whether you like it or not. She is obviously not happy so people are making suggestions on how she can change it. And she can. There are a lot of tv shows there people get a make-over and feel much better, their eyes shine. Everyone loves feeling pretty. And she is not ugly. I can just see what I would change in her (hair, make-up, glasses). She can be really pretty. She actually reminds me of Emily Bett Rickards.
+IrinNovy If she liked makeup she would wear it. She's made another video to say that she doesn't wear makeup because it doesn't interest her currently. And yes society has its standards haha! But no one is required to mold themselves to them. Society's standards are the reason she is depressed to begin with, and if she chooses not to abide by them that's her choice to make. And yes I believe that she is attractive as well. Beauty isn't always about changing yourself, it can be about changing your mindset. She views herself as different, and realizes that it's okay to be that way.
reyom neraul of course it's her choice but if she's unhappy (and she clearly is) why not become conventionally pretty? I see a weird contradiction here. She doesn't like makeup - ok. Her choice. But she feels really miserable because she is not considered pretty by some standards. But guess what? Those people, who are pretty by the standards, spend hours taking care of their appearance. Even Hollywood celebrities don't look as perfect without make-up. So she doesn't wanna do anything and wants to be pretty (and she does, all this talk is just self-deceptiveness), that is just lazy to me.
+05candyman Those people arent worth it.
This is 7 years old!!!!! Where is this girl now! We need an update
Y E S P L E A S E
I swear to god
she ded
@@YaNansCrustyToe 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 my mommm
Yes .. indeed
Made 10 years ago and still making an impact. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes it's very hard to keep things in perspective. This coming from someone who was never conventionally pretty, but in recent years just keeps losing what little there was to various health conditions... permanent hairloss and facial discolouration being the worst offenders :')
This woman has both walked and articulated an emotionally deep journey that an extreme few are capable of . ABSOLUTE BOSS. 👍🏻👊🏼👏👍🏻👊🏼👏
❤❤❤
Your only ugly if you're non-Christian but fear not, this means that you can become beautiful.
im high of the za but i totally agree with what you said drewkiely
That's beauty
@@TheVirginGary
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You have beautiful blue eyes
RIGHT! that what i thought as well. I wish i had beautiful eyes like hers. omg.
“Being beautiful is not an accomplishment”
japan iraq could I ask why
It is if you had to lose a lot of weight and change your lifestyle to achieve it
oh the facts
to me it is
funny how "ugly" people almost always think that "good looking" people do nothing to maintain their "beauty"
your wisdom has brought me to tears 10 years later. I have so much love for you stranger.
You're really intelligent, which makes you 10x more attractive tbh
OrigamiLester bruh , , , , , , , rather ,,,,,bruh
OrigamiLester being attractive isn't important. Woah. way to go lol.
+OrigamiLester Are you ugly?
RZA DAGZA well, beauty is subjective, but i would say im pretty average. why?
RZA DAGZA is my opinion less valid if im considered ugly by society?
You guys are missing the entire point of the video. She didnt ask how she could make herself look "pretty" she said she is content with her appearence
100% agree....I see comments saying "you are beautiful"....its all fucking bullshit...............she is an ugly person..FACT.....an ugly person who is just coping with her situation,,thats the point of this video................I cant stand good looking people who tell ugly people that they are "beautiful" when they know its pure B.S.
You guys need to return to the way of the prophets
Y’all don’t have to put down other girls in order to praise her. You don’t need to put down the girls that love makeup or really care about the way they look in order to praise this girl
I've seen comments like, "She's more beautiful than any supermodel because of her intelligence", like way to completely miss the point.
AGREED like the entire point of the video was not comparing herself to others, then other people come along and do it anyways smh
Calm down, girls who are into makeup are praised anywhere, if they can finally find a corner in the world where they are not, at least you will know how disadvantaged ugly people feel when they are looked down on most of the time, just because of how they look.
Pretty people are not "victims" just because occasionally someone appreciates goodness and intelligence more than phisical feautures.
It' s as if someone praised the strenght of deseased people, and a bunch of healthy people came along crying "we are good tooo you don' t need to bring us down to appreciate them".
Perspectives.
Btw, I' m a person who likes chlotes, style and looking good.
I think the point is more that beauty and intelligence are not exclusive to each other (you can be attractive and smart). Also beauty is subjective, a “super model” could think she was ugly and feel bad about herself and benefit from this video. I don’t think the point of this video is to say “ugly” and intelligent people are better than pretty people. It’s just that if you don’t give as much weight to the terms ugly and pretty you can feel better about yourself. We all have insecurities.
Sienna C I am not trying to be disrespectful at all, and if it comes off in that manner I apologize in advance. Your comment bothers me for this reason. Aside from others comments, that have zero to do with this girls absolutely amazing message, I feel you missed the point of her video & are concerned with the comments of others, again, which has nothing to do with this video. Also, from your allegations that people are “putting others down,just to praise her”, I went ahead & read through about 20 comments & haven’t found ANY comments downing others, nor “praising” this girls honest,deeply profound personal opinion at such a young age. Maybe if you actually Watched, Really Listened to the incredibly true message, instead of gearing your focus on primarily on a handful of comments by people, you may or should “get” the actual point of her Video & the very real topic she is speaking on..... and I don’t want to sound like I’m attacking you, because that isn’t my intention, but when you read your comment, the way it comes across it is as if you are the like the very people she is speaking about, but rather then “pretty” or “ugly” in appearance by this world’s “standard” , Your doing the same thing with the comments, caring about what the masses have to say, which equates to meaningless, mindless self indulgence & takes away from her excellent message, directs it to nonsense, division & confusion. Again, this is just my observational opinion. I agree that NOONE should constantly & maliciously put others down because of their appearance. We all have many things to offer this world & “beauty” isn’t an ability, and shouldn’t be praised, because “beauty” on the outside does & will, with age, time & life circumstances fade, where internal beauty, kindness, intelligence, skills, trades & life experiences will only continue to grow, thus deepening each individual’s strength’s, bonds, friendships & relationships that are formed throughout this journey we ALL travel & call LIFE✌🏼💯🖤👏🌹 Hope you have a good day, and that my comment helped in some way, and didn’t hurt anyone. Peace, LoVe, and Many HarMoNieS❤️🎶✌🏼
You might never see this comment, but you just saved my life.
And that is a beautiful thing!
beauty fades. personality, actions, love, and kindness dont.
Isabella Caterina this comment ✨
Easier said than done, love!
Well all of those things can fade if you wanna get technical