How special to hear this 10 years after you recorded this! I hope you are still finding hope and inspiration and living and loving life in beautiful ways! 💕
I hope she comes back and tells us if her thoughts have changed or still the same, who she is ten years later as we all change so much when we are young
@@K-a-n-d-i-s What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also. Our judgments should always be: John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge. 2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says? Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind. What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.” We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word. KJV Bible says; Matthew 6:31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? Luke 12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
I love this attitude. There's such emotional intelligence and strength behind being able to find fulfillment in yourself, and to not feel the need to compare yourself to other people and to realize that attractiveness is arbitrary and insignificant in a lot of ways
Love this! I have a sister who just passed away, and she said while she was sick that she wished she'd worried less about how she looked and more that she had a body and it worked and was healthy! ❤
You are wise beyond your years and your not ugly in the slightest. Not physically, mentally or spiritually. The world needs more people like you in it. God bless.
i dont think she's ugly at all either, shes just.. normal. i think the fact this video has been made really goes to show social media ruins our perspective.
The fact that a good portion of these comments are debating whether or not she's actually "physically ugly" defeats the purpose of the video and what she's trying to say. Sad.
Cora LovesGlam I know what she is trying to say. But she does it because she thought a lot about her apperiance in the past. We all want to be loved and seen as beautifull on the insde AND outside. Its a fact. And its not ok saying: its ok I may see myself as ugly, but there are other things important than that. Because and this is the sad truth: its very important in this society to be beautifull. And being ugly, I mean physically ugly, is only possible if you see yourself like that. You can accept it and stay ugly, you can avoid it and also stay ugly or you can deny it and voila you are beautifull. Without surgery, without makeup, without anything. Beauty is not always something that is physical, its something in your attitude. If you are physically beautifull and you know that, well congrats. But if you are not, but you think it anyways, you are also beautifull. But if you think, well I am not beautifull, but it doesn't matter, other things are more important. Well they are, but it doesn't change the fact that you think you are ugly. And so will other people see you too. And I think its all started, because other people told her once she is ugly. And instead of finding out her outer beauty, she tells a lot about other things that matter in this life. I know its not the most important thing in the world to be beautifull. For me its health and independence. But even I lay in hospital, when I had a good day, I did my make up. I care for myself with doing make up, because it was the only way I could care for myself at all.
I agree. With comments like that, people are just admitting that physical appearance means everything to them. They can't understand that there are some other people that simply don't care about physical appearance. Why would you have say to anyone that he/she is pretty or ugly? Only shallow people do that. To me, personality is everything. If you're good and intelligent person, that's all I need to be good with someone.
Cora LovesGlam everyone these days is so obsessed with physical appearance that it doesn’t matter how ‘beautiful’ we are on the inside anymore ... also sad
Yup. I think they're just projecting their own insecurities on her. For people who base their entire self-worth on their looks it's probably intimidating to meet someone who gives zero fucks, so they try to pull her down to their level.
In a time when looks and superficiality reign tyrannically over all virtues, your words and character have been a breath of spring garden air and a most refreshing break from the sulfur and waste of contemporary standards. Thank you. Clearly, you are beautiful.
Feeling beautiful IS though. She said she avoids mirrors, and feels insecure sometimes. Anytime she goes to the restroom she cannot avoid the mirrors. Her features are symmetrical, eyes are pretty. It would be low maintenance to have a short haircut that won't allow the hair to stick upward & a shampoo/conditioner for her hair type plus a facewash for her skin type. I'm not a makeup type of girl, barely brush my hair, but I use some inexpensive yet proper products for skin and hair, my hair is layered, short, and frayed for easy care. Daily hair washing would be even easier if she rocked a shorter haircut and it might make her feel as beautiful as she actually IS.
Indiawalker27 it's not people's fault for thinking that way when society has been feeding us all these beauty standards, on what is considered beautiful or handsome, and what isn't, since the dawn of time. Whether that's through media, advertisements, or peer pressure, it ultimately creates this narrow perspective into your mind that you start following. I mean, we've been subconsciously told to do this our whole lives. Edit: Its also completely natural to want to look beautiful. Animals such as peacocks and certain birds "show off" their feathers in order to attract mates and get partners. We do the same thing when trying to look for a partner. It's completely natural and instinctual. It's just that the standards these days are ridiculously high.
Indiawalker27 Nobody give a shit. Subconsciously everyone loves beautiful people and hates ugly people. Looks are the only thing that matters in modern society.
I feel like this is what the internet is about. A woman simply expressing her inner thoughts about existence, broadcasted for anyone to see and kept online forever. It's history documented
Turk Means Strong! Oh my god fuck off! Our generation definitely still reads books, and stop acting like you’re so above people playing PS4 when you’re commenting on a TH-cam video
That was truly beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing that. Also I think that everyone feels "ugly" or "beautiful" from time to time but it comes down to the meaning we give to these labels
You took words out of my mind and actually made them less chaotic and incoherent. I'm ugly and fat. And that's absolutely fine with me. My attractivness to other people is not what I take a sense of worth from. And there is so many other things I want to be: be a more confident artist, be more dedicated pagan, be able to rollerblade, be a better friend, be more able to cope with life... pretty is so low on priorities right now it's not even on the list. There is so many people in my life (hi mom!) that just can't wrap their head around the idea.
When this video came out I was 4, but I still resonate with it a lot! Recently I've started thinking this way too, noticing that sometime we get too wrapped around being "beautiful" that we forget the beautifully absurd things that make us all human. At the end of the day, defined jaw line or not, we're all just silly little human beings on this crazy, diverse planet. So don't waste your time being sad about being pretty or ugly, just live your life happy! Love this vid! :)
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@@Danuxsy I mean humans probably do look really weird if you're looking from an Aliens perspective lol. Upright walking meat sacks, with fur only growing out of the top of their heads, all different shapes and sizes. Pretty wild
@@aerbald beauty can be an accomplishment. Going to the gym requires time and dedication. Yes those people are born with good bone structure but the accomplishment is maintaining that appearance so that they can be happy with themselves
That is kinda BS I used to be hella fat and put in hella work and stuff and I look way better I think it does come easier for some people (being good looking) but really you can work out your facial muscles and get a jawline/ basically what I'm saying is it is an accomplishment
but we can have both. my god, it's almost like pretty people cannot be good people. life is not black or white, we can focus on our appearance and still focus on our internal journey.
@@LauraLaura-mv4xh The point is that society holds beauty in an overly high place and makes people forget other things they have and could do. That's what the video is about, not that pretty people aren't good people or that caring about your appearance is bad.
As an ugly girl, I just want to share the most important thing I’ve learned: that I shouldn’t let what beauty I have go to waste just because I don’t have the beauty that I wanted. There’s a lot of beauty in kind eyes, work worn hands, and smiling lips.
you don't born to be convectionally beautiful, but you do it trough a process of self improvement, fitness, chirurgy and so on, being beatiful isn't just having a pretty face, but also a strong personality and an "healthy" body both things were people nowayds don't care about enough, they don't take care of themselves by letting themselves become obese, without gettin any decent air cut, by dressing decently and so onn then they blame the society for not considering them attractive, start do as much as you can to improve yourself and stop comparing to the others, that's whrn you will reach success.
Well if you don’t think you’re beautiful you could just fix it. These days you can go as far as plastic surgery. The girl in this video would be super good looking if she grew out her hair, got rid of her glasses, straightened her teeth, got some acne creams etc. Most women that are good looking today weren’t born like that. They artificially changed how they looked. Most women would look like this girl if there wasn’t so much pressure to be pretty
@@putinsgaytwin4272 bruh..I see your perspective and that you are suggesting because you care but people are more then their bodies. I have a friend that’s so incredibly beautiful. was a plus size model and a weather girl. she got a surgery to make her stomach tiny so she wouldn’t be plus sized. and had some ribs removed. she can’t feel if her mouth is open or closed due to a facial procedure. she only eats 4 ounces of food a day. now i’m her only friend. the only one that’s not grossed out when she dry heaves, hiccups, vomit comes out of her nose if she burps and she passes gas pretty much all day. sometimes she can’t make it to the bathroom :( her instagram pictures are very popular. the guys who show interest in her and want to meet up have no idea what she goes through…. I will always protect her. I’m not pretty but I’m emotionally strong and street smart. I do hope she finds a partner one day though..
What a wonderful video. We all need to hear this more often. Thank you for being you and sharing this. I hope one day you’ll share your thoughts with the world again.
If you made a podcast I would listen to you for hours! You have such awesome philosophical takes on beauty and life! It was quite soothing to listen to this
Me too- at least it was over 20 years ago so there was no social media or cyber bullying back then....I feel sad for ugly girls going through school these days.
Oh God, I 'm going to high school in August. I am really ugly. Freckles and glasses and soon-to-be braces and facial hair and more, you scared me to death.
Zippy make it work for you....a little secret we males don't care so much about pretty...we care about fitness and health..and a kind heart...a kind hearted smile will make you look hot
I always wonder - who all that people who terror ? When we grown up they disappear ! I realli wish al my heart to those evil little bastard expelled from the school and their parents forced to pay a really heavy fine! Such evil people can not benefit society.
SuburbanoidMisfit111 Uh. I know what you mean. And kind of not know. I know girls that have horrible personality, are ugly asf and are a brat, basically they shouldn't live and are popular. I don't really get it.
It was spoken poetically in Russian, there will always be slight differences in interpretations and translations of a saying from one language to another hence the phrase "lost in translation." Taking into account how expressive Russian is; what I and what you translated it as, the context of it still stands.
Being beautiful could be a sign of many things which are beneficial. General health to start with, stronger progeny and very likely chance of a healthier mental state.
What about the countless infertile 'pretty' women and the 'ugly' women that pop out babies like a machine gun? What about the 'pretty' women that can't do shit but look 'pretty'?
Thank you for posting this as much as people think this is sad this is how many ugly people feel when we know we are different some days I can’t leave the house because I feel so ugly and I know it’s outrageous but knowing other people who I don’t think are ugly feel this way gives me hope maybe one day I can be care free like all the naturally pretty people.
no, actually, everyone in comments be like “omg everyone stop saying she’s pretty did you even watch the video”. I’ve seen two comments actually saying she’s pretty. Fuck outa here hypocrite
Made 10 years ago and still making an impact. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes it's very hard to keep things in perspective. This coming from someone who was never conventionally pretty, but in recent years just keeps losing what little there was to various health conditions... permanent hairloss and facial discolouration being the worst offenders :')
Yeah, the point isn’t whether or not she’s ugly. The point is that there’s so much more to life than just your appearance. And that being ugly isn’t the end of the world.
We can get the point of the video and still tell her we don't think she's ugly. We want to say nice things to other people. We're also so used to people fishing for compliments in life and social media that we're almost programmed to compliment people when they say they don't measure up in some way. She's not actually fishing for compliments, of course, but comes off as such a sweet, smart, interesting person that it's like a natural instinct for me to want to comfort her and tell her she's fucking beautiful and amazing. I won't though. But I understand why people would.
It's 10 years later, and I hope you are doing well. These are very wise words, or in today's parlance, you're 'spitting facts'. It took me close to 3 decades to start crawling out from under the 10 ton f**king weight of my supposed "ugliness ". It's still a constant struggle to disconnect my worth as a person from my appearance though. Thank you for this.
I found this when I was around 12-15 years old and I just had to come back to it to just say how grateful I was for this video and accepting myself through highschool.
100% agree....I see comments saying "you are beautiful"....its all fucking bullshit...............she is an ugly person..FACT.....an ugly person who is just coping with her situation,,thats the point of this video................I cant stand good looking people who tell ugly people that they are "beautiful" when they know its pure B.S.
Physically she would do just fine with a better haircut, contacts instead of glasses and some makeup... but what she really says is that the physical beauty is the least important one, because it's superficial
it could be a gift, but I actually think life can get way too easy when you're someone who is considered to be very beautiful. it could be a bad thing too, is what I'm saying so I don't completely agree with what he says.
With that quote, the same thing could be said for having love. Not many have it but it always seems to be the worst of people who can so easily get it.
This is so true so many times I have come across someone who is beautiful but so ugly on the inside whereas someone who would be considered 'ugly' is the nicest person you could ever come across
I usually focus on one thing at a time but this time I forgot to pause the video while changing tabs to do my work. Your voice is so relaxing or smooth that I kept it on for the entirety of my work and I listened to what you were saying in the back of my head too.
I was listening to her and realised that I spend so much time thinking about the way I look, its sad actually. And there are many people that spend more time than me thinking about it..
Anja R TRUE. I waste a lot of time worrying and thinking about my looks and it’s so ridiculous. I’m getting better though! I think many aspects in society just make girls or just people in general a bit insecure no matter how you look!
the beauty radiates from inside you. looking into your eyes as the viewer and listening to your thoughts, so articulate, makes me see you as beautiful.
Danny DeVito is not exactly handsome. And he's short to boot! But he managed to marry and from all accounts has had a very good marriage. He's also had a great career. If he'd moped around about being "ugly" instead of focusing on the things that REALLY matter, how far do you think he'd have gotten? You people put FAR too much importance on beauty. And yeah, if you're not particularly physically beautiful, maybe you won't attract the most beautiful woman - but you could find a real gem of a woman beneath that "average" or even "homely" exterior. Beauty, after all, DOES NOT GUARANTEE A HAPPY AND FULFILLING LOVE LIFE OR MARRIAGE! Plenty of Hollywood divorces attest to that.
Rebecca's Videos I agree, I'm not saying being physically attractive doesn't have it's benefits... It just doesn't guarantee anything...It doesn't equal happiness and it never will.
+Clarence Lannister Well. lets see. The use of her words and the meaning behind them gives me the impression she is an intelligent human. I could be wrong but usually if it looks, sounds and acts like a duck, it is one. What's the problem? Because I never insulted anyone calling them sad and miserable or making assumptions about peoples feelings towards themselves just because I see someone give a compliment SMH
Wow! Jeezus. I just gave another person a compliment. It doesn't mean I'm a homo or that I'm literally jealous of her. Jealous is just a figure of speech, meaning that I think she's got a lot going for her and she impressed me. Get a grip. +MrVin whoever said shit about being good looking, stop hating and just accept that sometimes humans give other humans compliment! Dayum
No one is really ugly nor is anyone really beautiful. We are multidimensional and can actually exhibit both qualities simultaneously, but those terms should not define us. I grew up in a very shallow community where the standard of beauty or attractiveness is a very narrow list of certain characteristics. Since I was the only member of my family who didn’t meet this standard, I am referred to as “the ugly sister” in those circles. Fortunately, I moved far away from that place many years ago and refuse to see people in such a ridiculous way. You articulated this position magnificently. Thank you so much!
this was so good to watch. I spent most of my teenage years being the ugly one, especially at school, and I let myself believe and suffer for that for a long time, even in college. it took me a long time to realize all of this you're saying, but when that happened it was one of the happiest and satisfying moments of my life. don't let any sucker define you like that.
your comment just shows even good looking people like yourself are pushed to believe they are not pretty enough. Sadly bullies want you to believe the worst about yourself because it makes themselves feel better.
What the hell? If that's your real pic and you think you're physically ugly, you have a distorted view of yourself vs how the world sees you. The only thing I think is ugly is your opinion of yourself. get out of that warpped mindset and get comfy with yourself so you can take part in life
@@equim7363 the point?; not being so disgustingly ugly and unattractive like me making people gag and get sick at the very hideous sight of my ugliness and that’s the truth
Oh. My. Lord. You. I'm speechless. You're so smart and so confident, why is this video not famous? You're gonna make it big, please keep being the way you are. Your way of thinking is truly a gift.
You just said so many important wonderful and true things and I think I will come back to this video really often! It really reminded me what‘s important and what things i do not have to care about. Thank you for this video and being so honest humble and intelligent!
Andy Genett I know you’re trying to say something positive, but idk I still don’t think it’s quite right to compare people’s beauty like that. There’s just so much to consider when it comes to beauty.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, and not in an unconventional way - in a TRUE way! Your heart, mind and authenticity make you GLOW! 💖✨ Truly, energy is the first thing I see, when I look at someone. I clicked on this video because, seeing you in the title card (or whatever they’re called), I was GENUINELY confused! Looking a certain way becomes irrelevant when there is hate in a person’s heart. You are absolutely, unquestionably more beautiful to me than SO many people who “society” counts as beautiful. As for that part - the insecurities that beauty standards thrust upon us, finding a look and a style you love and totally rocking it, without caring what anyone else thinks is so HOT and the authenticity that comes with it is positively beautiful, in every way!! And fuck any dummies that disagree!! You just keep on shining!! 🥰😍✨🍀♥️♥️
I honestly found her quite attractive, even more so when she started talking and expressing her feelings. She seems very intelligent, strong and articulate. Those things are very attractive qualities
Watching this with three recommended videos on the side about other peoples amazing flawless lifestyle vlogs, and overnight glow up videos. Its so easily being pressured into feeling like you need to be constantly making yourself prettier and better all the times instead of being who you are in the moment. I worry about my looks alot and I think we need more videos like this.
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Lottie J-Urie Is it weird that I don't really look at people as ugly or beautiful? Like I have to have a relationship with someone before I can view them as ugly or beautiful. But it's not even beauty I'm seeing, it's kindness and intellect. And it's not ugly that I'm seeing, it's a shitty personality. Did any of that make sense or is there just something wrong with me?
The thing that helps me the most is hanging out with my friends/family, because then it is very easy to realize that people who are actually important to me don't give a damn about my looks and neither do I. You have an extraordinary mind which makes you beautiful and I think that all of us has something what makes us unique and beautiful. This video helped me a lot, thank you.
HONEY YOUR MIND IS ART
lisa Xvxv amen
Preach Sister
lisa Xvxv AGREEEEE
It totally is. I feel tears jerking out of no where
yes yes
"Being 'beautiful' is not an accomplishment. - And being 'ugly' doesn't have to stop you from making accomplishments." Word.
PrisK woah I read this comment exactly the time she was saying it😂
PrisK TF , she is not ugly
"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment.", neither is being ugly, you don't get points for either but I would take it over being ugly any day.
Anastasia Nikki when did I say that she is
PrisK your comment is too paradoxical , it s no compliment either .
How special to hear this 10 years after you recorded this! I hope you are still finding hope and inspiration and living and loving life in beautiful ways! 💕
I hope she comes back and tells us if her thoughts have changed or still the same, who she is ten years later as we all change so much when we are young
@@K-a-n-d-i-s What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also.
Our judgments should always be:
John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge.
2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says?
Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child.
1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV
32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons.
John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind.
What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.”
We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word.
KJV Bible says;
Matthew 6:31
Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?
Luke 12:22
And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on.
Matthew 6:25
Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?
Matthew 6:33
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
I love this attitude. There's such emotional intelligence and strength behind being able to find fulfillment in yourself, and to not feel the need to compare yourself to other people and to realize that attractiveness is arbitrary and insignificant in a lot of ways
Having this sharp and insightful mind at a young age is way more exceptional than having nice cheekbones.
The Libtard exactly
naaa she's depressed so this "insight mind" is irrelevant lol
I prefer nice cheekbones
Ok
Malevolent GG agreed
she is someone I would genuinely love to have a conversation with
Love this! I have a sister who just passed away, and she said while she was sick that she wished she'd worried less about how she looked and more that she had a body and it worked and was healthy! ❤
You are wise beyond your years and your not ugly in the slightest. Not physically, mentally or spiritually. The world needs more people like you in it. God bless.
i dont think she's ugly at all either, shes just.. normal. i think the fact this video has been made really goes to show social media ruins our perspective.
she doesn’t act ugly, that’s all anyone should notice
'Should'
@@natasharules770 what about it?
@@thatsEforEveryone well, most people don't. Seriously, the first thing people see is looks, not personality
@@natasharules770 which is why they said should , people should care more about personality than looks
First Class Experience exactly.
The fact that a good portion of these comments are debating whether or not she's actually "physically ugly" defeats the purpose of the video and what she's trying to say. Sad.
very true
Cora LovesGlam I know what she is trying to say. But she does it because she thought a lot about her apperiance in the past. We all want to be loved and seen as beautifull on the insde AND outside. Its a fact. And its not ok saying: its ok I may see myself as ugly, but there are other things important than that. Because and this is the sad truth: its very important in this society to be beautifull.
And being ugly, I mean physically ugly, is only possible if you see yourself like that. You can accept it and stay ugly, you can avoid it and also stay ugly or you can deny it and voila you are beautifull. Without surgery, without makeup, without anything.
Beauty is not always something that is physical, its something in your attitude. If you are physically beautifull and you know that, well congrats. But if you are not, but you think it anyways, you are also beautifull. But if you think, well I am not beautifull, but it doesn't matter, other things are more important. Well they are, but it doesn't change the fact that you think you are ugly. And so will other people see you too.
And I think its all started, because other people told her once she is ugly. And instead of finding out her outer beauty, she tells a lot about other things that matter in this life.
I know its not the most important thing in the world to be beautifull. For me its health and independence. But even I lay in hospital, when I had a good day, I did my make up. I care for myself with doing make up, because it was the only way I could care for myself at all.
I agree. With comments like that, people are just admitting that physical appearance means everything to them. They can't understand that there are some other people that simply don't care about physical appearance. Why would you have say to anyone that he/she is pretty or ugly? Only shallow people do that. To me, personality is everything. If you're good and intelligent person, that's all I need to be good with someone.
Cora LovesGlam everyone these days is so obsessed with physical appearance that it doesn’t matter how ‘beautiful’ we are on the inside anymore ... also sad
Yup. I think they're just projecting their own insecurities on her. For people who base their entire self-worth on their looks it's probably intimidating to meet someone who gives zero fucks, so they try to pull her down to their level.
"Being beautiful is not an Accomplishment
And being ugly does not have to stop you
from making an Accomplishment"
These words touch my soul deeply❤
In a time when looks and superficiality reign tyrannically over all virtues, your words and character have been a breath of spring garden air and a most refreshing break from the sulfur and waste of contemporary standards. Thank you. Clearly, you are beautiful.
"being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow I wish people could understand this.
more like a privilege.
Feeling beautiful IS though. She said she avoids mirrors, and feels insecure sometimes. Anytime she goes to the restroom she cannot avoid the mirrors. Her features are symmetrical, eyes are pretty. It would be low maintenance to have a short haircut that won't allow the hair to stick upward & a shampoo/conditioner for her hair type plus a facewash for her skin type. I'm not a makeup type of girl, barely brush my hair, but I use some inexpensive yet proper products for skin and hair, my hair is layered, short, and frayed for easy care. Daily hair washing would be even easier if she rocked a shorter haircut and it might make her feel as beautiful as she actually IS.
Indiawalker27 it's not people's fault for thinking that way when society has been feeding us all these beauty standards, on what is considered beautiful or handsome, and what isn't, since the dawn of time. Whether that's through media, advertisements, or peer pressure, it ultimately creates this narrow perspective into your mind that you start following. I mean, we've been subconsciously told to do this our whole lives.
Edit: Its also completely natural to want to look beautiful. Animals such as peacocks and certain birds "show off" their feathers in order to attract mates and get partners. We do the same thing when trying to look for a partner. It's completely natural and instinctual. It's just that the standards these days are ridiculously high.
Indiawalker27 Nobody give a shit. Subconsciously everyone loves beautiful people and hates ugly people. Looks are the only thing that matters in modern society.
I'm Purrito In what way? If beauty is determined by genetics, then what is the accomplishment? What - popping out of the right vagina? Lol
I feel like this is what the internet is about. A woman simply expressing her inner thoughts about existence, broadcasted for anyone to see and kept online forever. It's history documented
Overdosed Mia Wallace YESS
Ok philosopher 😂
@@geanidrl7527 ok comment that apports nothing to the conversation😘✨
@@overdosedmiawallace What do u mean
@@overdosedmiawallace i mean it kinda did. It was a joke about the conversation
Given this was 10 years ago, it was a bit ahead of its time
Thank you for the message Kara ❤ I hear you and I see you and you helped me today 🙏🏽
I get back to this video once a year to cleanse my mind lmao
@@joys8634 are u happy now
Please remember me
@@joys8634 lmaooo thanks sis
@@fee6145 i will :))
@@megbubbz thanks c:
Holy crap please write a book
wait... I thought she did write a book. A story book.
Turk Means Strong! Oh my god fuck off! Our generation definitely still reads books, and stop acting like you’re so above people playing PS4 when you’re commenting on a TH-cam video
Turk Means Strong! I read this over like 3 times and I still can’t understand wtf you’re saying lmao
@@womp9465
This is why you people aren't in managerial positions.
Tea Times Two shes so ugly
That was truly beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing that. Also I think that everyone feels "ugly" or "beautiful" from time to time but it comes down to the meaning we give to these labels
You took words out of my mind and actually made them less chaotic and incoherent. I'm ugly and fat. And that's absolutely fine with me. My attractivness to other people is not what I take a sense of worth from. And there is so many other things I want to be: be a more confident artist, be more dedicated pagan, be able to rollerblade, be a better friend, be more able to cope with life... pretty is so low on priorities right now it's not even on the list. There is so many people in my life (hi mom!) that just can't wrap their head around the idea.
This was posted 4 years ago but was recommended to me today 🤔
winnieheart's adventures girrrrlll me too lol I was feeling real ugly lately too 😅
winnieheart's adventures ME TOO
winnieheart's adventures same
saaame
winnieheart's adventures SAME!
Why did TH-cam recommend me this ? Is that a sign...
it is! same here 😆
Guess I’ve joined the club 😂
X maybe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
X facts what they tryna say
same lol
When this video came out I was 4, but I still resonate with it a lot! Recently I've started thinking this way too, noticing that sometime we get too wrapped around being "beautiful" that we forget the beautifully absurd things that make us all human. At the end of the day, defined jaw line or not, we're all just silly little human beings on this crazy, diverse planet. So don't waste your time being sad about being pretty or ugly, just live your life happy!
Love this vid! :)
Hands down, the best TH-cam video I've ever watched. Thank you for this, I really needed it. God bless you.
Damn. She is like...the best therapist ever. I think I can finally accept myself.
The fuckin point!!
I was the 666th like
I agree with her that humans are super bizarre looking as a species.
That doesn't make sense, everything is relative.
@@Danuxsy it does how is it relative when we are literally the only species with completeley different looking specimen each generation
Tigers are the most beautiful species. Humans are funny looking lol
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@@Danuxsy I mean humans probably do look really weird if you're looking from an Aliens perspective lol. Upright walking meat sacks, with fur only growing out of the top of their heads, all different shapes and sizes. Pretty wild
You might never see this comment, but you just saved my life.
your wisdom has brought me to tears 10 years later. I have so much love for you stranger.
"being beautiful is not an accomplishment" Thank you for saying that. However not even gonna lie your eyes are stunning.
It is. But for your ancestors, not yours made.
@@aerbald beauty can be an accomplishment. Going to the gym requires time and dedication. Yes those people are born with good bone structure but the accomplishment is maintaining that appearance so that they can be happy with themselves
@@michaelg9082 Aye, and never underestimate prestance and presentation
Being beautiful is absolutely an accomplishment, you just don't try hard enough.
That is kinda BS I used to be hella fat and put in hella work and stuff and I look way better I think it does come easier for some people (being good looking) but really you can work out your facial muscles and get a jawline/ basically what I'm saying is it is an accomplishment
“I never want to get into this place where I feel like what I look like, is more important than what I do.” Wow. I loved that.
That is beautiful
but we can have both. my god, it's almost like pretty people cannot be good people. life is not black or white, we can focus on our appearance and still focus on our internal journey.
@@LauraLaura-mv4xhOut of all, Your comment touched my heart ❤
@@LauraLaura-mv4xh The point is that society holds beauty in an overly high place and makes people forget other things they have and could do. That's what the video is about, not that pretty people aren't good people or that caring about your appearance is bad.
Such an insightful young person, these words are coming from a place of inner wisdom, there's nothing more beautiful than that 🥰
i hope she is living well, love you💚
I wonder how she’s doing now
Ilya K ( laughs in logan paul)
Ilya K “not dead! just living the good ugly life!” in the description of her channel :)
@Ilya K ????
Same! I wish she had instagram or something. She just seems like such a nice person
Il mio Nome. @moonsludge
As an ugly girl, I just want to share the most important thing I’ve learned: that I shouldn’t let what beauty I have go to waste just because I don’t have the beauty that I wanted. There’s a lot of beauty in kind eyes, work worn hands, and smiling lips.
this is beautiful
Unfortunately that's what i did. Stay away from alcohol. It's a trap.
you don't born to be convectionally beautiful, but you do it trough a process of self improvement, fitness, chirurgy and so on, being beatiful isn't just having a pretty face, but also a strong personality and an "healthy" body both things were people nowayds don't care about enough, they don't take care of themselves by letting themselves become obese, without gettin any decent air cut, by dressing decently and so onn then they blame the society for not considering them attractive, start do as much as you can to improve yourself and stop comparing to the others, that's whrn you will reach success.
Well if you don’t think you’re beautiful you could just fix it. These days you can go as far as plastic surgery. The girl in this video would be super good looking if she grew out her hair, got rid of her glasses, straightened her teeth, got some acne creams etc. Most women that are good looking today weren’t born like that. They artificially changed how they looked. Most women would look like this girl if there wasn’t so much pressure to be pretty
@@putinsgaytwin4272 bruh..I see your perspective and that you are suggesting because you care
but people are more then their bodies.
I have a friend that’s so incredibly beautiful. was a plus size model and a weather girl.
she got a surgery to make her stomach tiny so she wouldn’t be plus sized.
and had some ribs removed. she can’t feel if her mouth is open or closed due to a facial procedure. she only eats 4 ounces of food a day.
now i’m her only friend. the only one that’s not grossed out when she dry heaves, hiccups, vomit comes out of her nose if she burps and she passes gas pretty much all day. sometimes she can’t make it to the bathroom :( her instagram pictures are very popular. the guys who show interest in her and want to meet up have no idea what she goes through…. I will always protect her. I’m not pretty but I’m emotionally strong and street smart. I do hope she finds a partner one day though..
What a wonderful video. We all need to hear this more often. Thank you for being you and sharing this. I hope one day you’ll share your thoughts with the world again.
If you made a podcast I would listen to you for hours! You have such awesome philosophical takes on beauty and life! It was quite soothing to listen to this
Being ugly in high school = night terror. Boy I do not miss my teen years.
Me too- at least it was over 20 years ago so there was no social media or cyber bullying back then....I feel sad for ugly girls going through school these days.
Oh God, I 'm going to high school in August. I am really ugly. Freckles and glasses and soon-to-be braces and facial hair and more, you scared me to death.
Zippy make it work for you....a little secret we males don't care so much about pretty...we care about fitness and health..and a kind heart...a kind hearted smile will make you look hot
I always wonder - who all that people who terror ? When we grown up they disappear ! I realli wish al my heart to those evil little bastard expelled from the school and their parents forced to pay a really heavy fine! Such evil people can not benefit society.
SuburbanoidMisfit111 Uh. I know what you mean. And kind of not know. I know girls that have horrible personality, are ugly asf and are a brat, basically they shouldn't live and are popular. I don't really get it.
"What a strange illusion it is to suppose that beauty is goodness." - Leo Tolstoy
it's actually "It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness." lol
It was spoken poetically in Russian, there will always be slight differences in interpretations and translations of a saying from one language to another hence the phrase "lost in translation." Taking into account how expressive Russian is; what I and what you translated it as, the context of it still stands.
Being beautiful could be a sign of many things which are beneficial.
General health to start with, stronger progeny and very likely chance of a healthier mental state.
What about the countless infertile 'pretty' women and the 'ugly' women that pop out babies like a machine gun? What about the 'pretty' women that can't do shit but look 'pretty'?
Teresa Benites omg yes.. amazing quote
You're a star. Shining so brightly. Thank you so much for this❤❤❤
this actually opened my eyes a lot, even ten years later. thank you :]
I think you're eyes are a beautiful shade of blue. I also think your voice is super soft and soothing.
Kaylee B that's literally what I thought!!
Your eyecolour is so beautiful
Mia Wallace I know! I couldn't stop staring at her eyes. The colour is incredible
Still ugly tho
thomascampr haha calm the fook down, just a lil joke
Axel 1010 a joke... right..... haha...ha...ha
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Thank you for posting this as much as people think this is sad this is how many ugly people feel when we know we are different some days I can’t leave the house because I feel so ugly and I know it’s outrageous but knowing other people who I don’t think are ugly feel this way gives me hope maybe one day I can be care free like all the naturally pretty people.
your Intelligence and openness is so beautiful! Thanks for sharing those thoughts! They're really eye-opening and take away a lot of pressure! ❤
This should be a Ted Talk.
YES! So much more people should hear that!
Everyone on the comments be like "you're not ugly!" completely missing the point of the video
Kala Meet beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Forreal I think she is ugly and that's ok
no, actually, everyone in comments be like “omg everyone stop saying she’s pretty did you even watch the video”. I’ve seen two comments actually saying she’s pretty. Fuck outa here hypocrite
True but no point in think you se rugby when you aren’t. That’s just believing a lie
I honestly dont think shes ugly tho shes average
Made 10 years ago and still making an impact. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes it's very hard to keep things in perspective. This coming from someone who was never conventionally pretty, but in recent years just keeps losing what little there was to various health conditions... permanent hairloss and facial discolouration being the worst offenders :')
You are a true Angel!!! Thank you for your gift, I really needed it
Everyone commenting how she's not ugly in your opinion.. You're completely missing the point
thank you.
They're probably not missing the point, but rather commenting their opinion... Just like you.
Yeah, the point isn’t whether or not she’s ugly. The point is that there’s so much more to life than just your appearance. And that being ugly isn’t the end of the world.
We can get the point of the video and still tell her we don't think she's ugly. We want to say nice things to other people. We're also so used to people fishing for compliments in life and social media that we're almost programmed to compliment people when they say they don't measure up in some way. She's not actually fishing for compliments, of course, but comes off as such a sweet, smart, interesting person that it's like a natural instinct for me to want to comfort her and tell her she's fucking beautiful and amazing. I won't though. But I understand why people would.
She just needs to looksmax
I re watch this video every so often. Please don't ever take it down.
It's 10 years later, and I hope you are doing well. These are very wise words, or in today's parlance, you're 'spitting facts'. It took me close to 3 decades to start crawling out from under the 10 ton f**king weight of my supposed "ugliness ". It's still a constant struggle to disconnect my worth as a person from my appearance though. Thank you for this.
I found this when I was around 12-15 years old and I just had to come back to it to just say how grateful I was for this video and accepting myself through highschool.
The passion in her voice... wow
*Hitler speech plays quietly in the distance*
You guys are missing the entire point of the video. She didnt ask how she could make herself look "pretty" she said she is content with her appearence
100% agree....I see comments saying "you are beautiful"....its all fucking bullshit...............she is an ugly person..FACT.....an ugly person who is just coping with her situation,,thats the point of this video................I cant stand good looking people who tell ugly people that they are "beautiful" when they know its pure B.S.
You guys need to return to the way of the prophets
I REALLY LOVE YOUR EYESSS, THEY ARE SO PRETTY 😭💕
What a wonderful video. You're a special person. Thanks for sharing with so many.
Whether shes ugly or not, she has an amazing outlook on life and damn.... Shes an inspiration. Im happy i clicked on this vid. Subbed x
Lottie J-Urie this was recommended to me and at first I was like???? excuse you TH-cam??? but then I actually loved the video
she just needs makeup and she's fine
and a better haircut
Physically she would do just fine with a better haircut, contacts instead of glasses and some makeup... but what she really says is that the physical beauty is the least important one, because it's superficial
She isn't ugly. And doesn't need to change anything. She is perfect the way she is.
Reminds me of a khaled hosseini quote that goes "beauty is an enormous, unmerited gift given randomly, stupidly."
Marielle Muro- Buckingham love that guy
it could be a gift, but I actually think life can get way too easy when you're someone who is considered to be very beautiful. it could be a bad thing too, is what I'm saying so I don't completely agree with what he says.
With that quote, the same thing could be said for having love. Not many have it but it always seems to be the worst of people who can so easily get it.
This is so true so many times I have come across someone who is beautiful but so ugly on the inside whereas someone who would be considered 'ugly' is the nicest person you could ever come across
You mean the Khaleesi, mother of dragons?
Her brain is beautiful. She seems like an amazing friend to talk too and hang out with
Thankyou for sharing this beautiful message 💖
TH-cam lowkey calling me ugly by recommending this.
akalink77 same
Same 😂
No, it's saying that you might like this, not saying that you are ugly
or that you seem insecure
right
You have an amazing outlook on life.
Clarence , you’re a virgin judging by your attitude
I usually focus on one thing at a time but this time I forgot to pause the video while changing tabs to do my work. Your voice is so relaxing or smooth that I kept it on for the entirety of my work and I listened to what you were saying in the back of my head too.
I just want to say, your eyes are so pretty! I'm so envious of their colour and how vibrant they are ✨️
Who else is watching this after '21 years old: NO friends' ?
I watched this BEFORE that.
me 😂 i love TH-cam algorithms
@@hazy92 I feel like my FBI agent was th one who recommended me this (┬┬﹏┬┬)
@@TheDaha is they trying to tell us something..... it makes sense now..
@@hazy92 mhm! 😂
I was listening to her and realised that I spend so much time thinking about the way I look, its sad actually. And there are many people that spend more time than me thinking about it..
Anja R TRUE. I waste a lot of time worrying and thinking about my looks and it’s so ridiculous. I’m getting better though! I think many aspects in society just make girls or just people in general a bit insecure no matter how you look!
Anja R me too
If you worry about it when you’re young, it’s hell when you get older... It will bury you.
the beauty radiates from inside you. looking into your eyes as the viewer and listening to your thoughts, so articulate, makes me see you as beautiful.
You're actually so smart. I love it when people think things through this much.
You're probably the most inspirational human being on this planet, to me anyway.
I’m not just saying this bc ur calling ur self ugly but when I first clicked on the video I fell in love with ur eyes
Tru
Same
Me too!
Me too
Why the fuck you lyin'?
this video is such a smart and beautiful take that i needed. thanks for the perspective
I'll reflect on this video a lot, I really loved this. Thank you
You seem happy and honestly that is the best thing many of us could ask for.
Hey shes not ugly
santiago carreño I agree w/ you, but the video is much deeper in meaning.
Danny DeVito is not exactly handsome. And he's short to boot! But he managed to marry and from all accounts has had a very good marriage. He's also had a great career. If he'd moped around about being "ugly" instead of focusing on the things that REALLY matter, how far do you think he'd have gotten? You people put FAR too much importance on beauty. And yeah, if you're not particularly physically beautiful, maybe you won't attract the most beautiful woman - but you could find a real gem of a woman beneath that "average" or even "homely" exterior. Beauty, after all, DOES NOT GUARANTEE A HAPPY AND FULFILLING LOVE LIFE OR MARRIAGE! Plenty of Hollywood divorces attest to that.
Rebecca's Videos I agree, I'm not saying being physically attractive doesn't have it's benefits... It just doesn't guarantee anything...It doesn't equal happiness and it never will.
Yep - And the older you get, the more you realize that truth.
I'm so jealous of her mind
But you're too busy being good looking? Or why are you still jealous and not thinking already?
Mr Vin why do you have to take a negative out of what he said tho?
Mr Vin is talking about himself.
+Clarence Lannister Well. lets see. The use of her words and the meaning behind them gives me the impression she is an intelligent human. I could be wrong but usually if it looks, sounds and acts like a duck, it is one. What's the problem? Because I never insulted anyone calling them sad and miserable or making assumptions about peoples feelings towards themselves just because I see someone give a compliment SMH
Wow! Jeezus. I just gave another person a compliment. It doesn't mean I'm a homo or that I'm literally jealous of her. Jealous is just a figure of speech, meaning that I think she's got a lot going for her and she impressed me. Get a grip. +MrVin whoever said shit about being good looking, stop hating and just accept that sometimes humans give other humans compliment! Dayum
No one is really ugly nor is anyone really beautiful. We are multidimensional and can actually exhibit both qualities simultaneously, but those terms should not define us. I grew up in a very shallow community where the standard of beauty or attractiveness is a very narrow list of certain characteristics. Since I was the only member of my family who didn’t meet this standard, I am referred to as “the ugly sister” in those circles. Fortunately, I moved far away from that place many years ago and refuse to see people in such a ridiculous way.
You articulated this position magnificently. Thank you so much!
this was so good to watch. I spent most of my teenage years being the ugly one, especially at school, and I let myself believe and suffer for that for a long time, even in college. it took me a long time to realize all of this you're saying, but when that happened it was one of the happiest and satisfying moments of my life. don't let any sucker define you like that.
your comment just shows even good looking people like yourself are pushed to believe they are not pretty enough. Sadly bullies want you to believe the worst about yourself because it makes themselves feel better.
What the hell? If that's your real pic and you think you're physically ugly, you have a distorted view of yourself vs how the world sees you. The only thing I think is ugly is your opinion of yourself. get out of that warpped mindset and get comfy with yourself so you can take part in life
I feel the same way about my average weiner size. ☺️
Who TF decided what beauty is anyway
evolution, that's who
babies lol
Natural selection
white people
NonStopParis Society.
TH-cam:
31 year old virgin
21 with no friends
On being ugly
Being ugly: my experience
Me:
Are you trying to tell me something
The fact that I’ve watched all of those 😭
I know I am ugly 🐸
Nobody needs to tell me thattttuyyytt
Broooo😭😭😭😭 the same thing just happened. Now u got me thinking.....
@0 0 seriously! It’s honestly sad
Ikr
i’m so glad i came across this video. needed to hear this.
I love that you referenced My Mad Fat Diary. That show is spectacular and was really inspiring for me too
"In a blind world, how many people will you impress?"
What
@@jamalempfehlung9841 if everyone was blind would you still be beautiful
The world isn’t blind in seeing how ugly I am cuz that’s exactly what I am and it’s obvious😔😣
The problem is, we don't live in a blind world.
Alternative version: "In a hermaphrodite world, what will be the point of being beautiful?"
@@equim7363 the point?; not being so disgustingly ugly and unattractive like me making people gag and get sick at the very hideous sight of my ugliness and that’s the truth
Oh. My. Lord. You. I'm speechless. You're so smart and so confident, why is this video not famous? You're gonna make it big, please keep being the way you are. Your way of thinking is truly a gift.
Thank you so much for making this video. You helped me a lot, really.
You just said so many important wonderful and true things and I think I will come back to this video really often! It really reminded me what‘s important and what things i do not have to care about. Thank you for this video and being so honest humble and intelligent!
TH-cam recommended me two videos about being ugly and a video about having no friends! You got beef TH-cam?
lmao so it's not just me
Same.
The sad thing is that it’s my reality
Same
LMAO
Same what the hell
A deep thinker is infinitely more beautiful than a person who is physically attractive and cannot think deeply. Your perspective is wonderful.
Andy Genett I know you’re trying to say something positive, but idk I still don’t think it’s quite right to compare people’s beauty like that. There’s just so much to consider when it comes to beauty.
She became a deep thinker because she is ugly
not really
soo you're saying that people cant be both physically attractive and 'deep thinking'? xd
Zaid abdulla this is so true. I feel like when you are not pretty, you have the time to think deeper and realize stuff that people don’t see
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, and not in an unconventional way - in a TRUE way! Your heart, mind and authenticity make you GLOW! 💖✨ Truly, energy is the first thing I see, when I look at someone. I clicked on this video because, seeing you in the title card (or whatever they’re called), I was GENUINELY confused! Looking a certain way becomes irrelevant when there is hate in a person’s heart. You are absolutely, unquestionably more beautiful to me than SO many people who “society” counts as beautiful.
As for that part - the insecurities that beauty standards thrust upon us, finding a look and a style you love and totally rocking it, without caring what anyone else thinks is so HOT and the authenticity that comes with it is positively beautiful, in every way!!
And fuck any dummies that disagree!! You just keep on shining!! 🥰😍✨🍀♥️♥️
Blud missed the entire point
@@ketsu_kit8920I don’t think so. They’re not commenting on physical attractiveness, which is what the video is about
This is meaningful. Thanks for this.
damn she's so smart. she has an amazing way of thinking.
I honestly found her quite attractive, even more so when she started talking and expressing her feelings. She seems very intelligent, strong and articulate. Those things are very attractive qualities
The way she speaks really attractive to me,she talks like a lady
Gay
Lay Soe your mother...
Hamm lol daddy’s mad
Lay Soe you probably have the intellect of a fetus if that’s your only comeback. You sound like a 9 year old
Watching this with three recommended videos on the side about other peoples amazing flawless lifestyle vlogs, and overnight glow up videos. Its so easily being pressured into feeling like you need to be constantly making yourself prettier and better all the times instead of being who you are in the moment. I worry about my looks alot and I think we need more videos like this.
I like the video and the message you put into it.
"I'm ugly and I'm proud"
--Spongebob Squarepants
inspirational stuff
SpongeBob was on to something then...
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This Is hope, and never give up, it's going to be hard if your in a bad state but never give up.
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"Is that what he calls it?"
-Squidward OG Tentacles
“Being beautiful is not an accomplishment”
japan iraq could I ask why
It is if you had to lose a lot of weight and change your lifestyle to achieve it
oh the facts
to me it is
funny how "ugly" people almost always think that "good looking" people do nothing to maintain their "beauty"
girl people would die for ur eyes-
ur getting ur glow up soon + u look fine!!
This is beautiful. You are beautiful.
beauty fades. personality, actions, love, and kindness dont.
Isabella Caterina this comment ✨
Easier said than done, love!
Well all of those things can fade if you wanna get technical
This video is too pure for me. I loved this so much. Amazing person.
Lottie J-Urie. I wish she'd come back and make more videos. I'm going to sub in the hopes...
I love ur profile picture!!
Lottie J-Urie what when you look like a model in your photo ???
Lottie J-Urie Is it weird that I don't really look at people as ugly or beautiful? Like I have to have a relationship with someone before I can view them as ugly or beautiful. But it's not even beauty I'm seeing, it's kindness and intellect. And it's not ugly that I'm seeing, it's a shitty personality. Did any of that make sense or is there just something wrong with me?
Zac Loves Yaaa
That's kali uchis (a singer) on their pp
The thing that helps me the most is hanging out with my friends/family, because then it is very easy to realize that people who are actually important to me don't give a damn about my looks and neither do I. You have an extraordinary mind which makes you beautiful and I think that all of us has something what makes us unique and beautiful.
This video helped me a lot, thank you.
I don't know how I stumbled upon this video but thank you for sharing. I hope you're well wherever you are!