It's so contrary to the realities involved in two persons who don't have any commitment with each other, to speak about how to know if there's a commitment on his behalf. Ask her how many sexual encounters she has had throughout her life and right there you're going to find out that this video is absolute nonsense.
Loool. Who broke your heart to pieces cause honestly this is not a video about one night stand but for those in committed relationships and With one partner. By the way why the double standards on body counts?! Why doesn’t the woman need to ask a man about his own body counts throughout his life so that she realizes how nonsensical this video is?! Smh!!!
@@JaneLawrence my comment flew above your head. That explains a lot. When I said that outside of a real commitment, no one can speak about the other person's commitment, was to point out that outside of what happens when two persons commit to wait up until marriage to have sex and put God first in their lives; to speak about the signs that prove a commitment on the other person's heart is absurd. The only thing that they are proving is that they can have sex with a person they are not married to and if you read the statistics you'll find out that a great number of people are saying that they have been unfaithful to their spouses. As for saying that you should be asked about the number of men you have slept with, it's because you're pretending to teach other women that they can find out if the man they are sleeping with is really committed to them, when in reality you have not been able to find out if men you have slept with were committed to you. Seek the statistics of catholic marriages where the persons waited up until marriage, are opened to having children and pray together: Less than 1% end up divorced. Read the statistics of couples who have lived together before marriage: Up to 75% of them end up divorced.
If you had taken the time to explain it to elaborately in the first place, I prolly would have understood where you are coming from… However I do agree with what you just said and to be honest the percentage of lovers who practice abstinence is infinitesimal because be as it may we live in a very sexually charged era and thus the reason for this video. Yes, sèx takes away from the integral part of what courtship should be and that’s the reason people fall apart when they realize it’s nothing deeper than fleeting emotion. Again, not all Christian courtship end up forever… Doesn’t that also tell you something. I have seen Christian couples divorce… Honestly there is no rule that fits all. One can have a one night stand and get married till death do them part. Others can pray and abstain till marriage and Still call it quit. It only takes two people willing to never exit to make it a long lasting relationship. By the way I’m a born again Christian and I practice abstinence… not because I’m a Christian but because I have phobia for bodily fluid.
Please, allow me to answer to your arguments, starting with the last. For you to say that you have seen christian couples divorced, doesn't mean that catholic marriages that remain open to having children, practice their faith and pray together have a divorce rate of less than 1%. One thing is your personal opinion about things and another are the realities proven with statistics. As for the statistics of marriages of people who live together before they marry, their divorce rate goes up to 75%. When you say that waiting up until marriage to have sex, is not something that fits all because we live in a very sexualized world, what you're saying is that God's will must be ignored because human beings have changed the way we want to live. It'll only suffice to go to the statistics, to prove that the consequences of not living according to God's will. You see... people can say and argue whatever they want, the reality of what God has told us will never change, nor will the statistical proven realities of disobeying Him, change.
1) When he says he loves you outside of the bedroom 2) When he looks into your eyes during sex 3) During sex when he wants full body contact e.g. hugs, caressing, hands all over your body 4) Expressing with feelings and emotions 5) Spending time before and after sex 6) Being intimate afterwards cuddling, pillow talk, playing, sleeping together closely 7) Prioritizes your pleasure and attends to your needs and the things you like 8) When he initiates head willingly and doesn’t require that you always do the same 9) when he pulls you close during sex 10) When he compliments your personality 11) Kissing you with passion 12) Fan of slow seductive, sensual lovemaking 14) Open and vulnerable e.g. shows his body, insecurities, fantasies w/o fear of judgement 15) When he wants to meet your needs and wants you to be satisfied 16) He understands when you don’t want sex and doesn’t push or pressure 17) When it’s not just about sex, when he interested in conversation and outings and connecting outside the bedroom
@@JaneLawrenceHaving sex but man doesn't ejaculate... does that mean i don't turn him on? I enjoy giving head so he gets that, he says he enjoys what we do but he never ejaculates.
Another sign is when he has the patience to truly learn your body in every way. He wants to know everything that brings the utmost pleasure to you, and is gentle with you! He eventually gives you what your body needs, and not just what he thinks it wants. True love making begins before sex and lasts even after sex! It's ultimate intimacy; there's nothing like it.
Some of us just be watching out of nosiness but I already know am love. Love doesn’t confuse and you will know when you’re love instantly. It a beautiful thing & I wish it on everyone ❤
My biggest turn on when it comes to sex is asking you okay during one even if you not a virgin anymore. Or telling "you so beautiful" like you gotta make the women feel comfortable. Instead of them just sticking it in.
@@erikaclausell8097 I mean I still listen in hopes of hearing something different 🤣 but it happened oh yea and he came back after 3 days I responded once and he’s been blocked for 5 days now
I was 20 years married to a narcissist. He was very selfish in the bedroom and it never felt like doing love. Never! And I rarely enjoyed it also because in hindsight I never trusted him and never felt emotionally secure to get completely loose.
Jane u make clear to know what’s love is … n your skills just amazing thanks so much help me a conquer my confidence back after the hard time I endured with ex narc.
I'm 16 years older than him He is cute,rich and smart. Yet still shy when we are alone. He looks big and very responsible, but will like a turn off light.... What could that mean?
In the description of your channel you state that you are going to talk about "... all things Love. Sex & Relationships." My question is, what are your qualifications to talk about these things? Do you have a degree in sex or couple's therapy? Or do you have extensive life experience to share? What is the source of your knowledge? Just curious. 🤔
@@RavenNe88 OK, so opinions, not necessarily based on experience or facts. Got it. 😁😁 Seriously though, I've watched a few of the videos on this channel. They were good. God bless you.
She was indirectly saying that. His father did kill him due to his music not being of a Christian message. So technically due to Marvin's choice in music, his father made that selfish decision, thinking he was doing God's work. Nonetheless, still sad.
@@1983eby I saw the documentary about Marvin. Marvin mom and dad was arguing and Marvin interviewed and either pushed or hit his dad. Then his dad went and got a gun and shot Marvin to death. Marvin and his dad didn't have a good relationship and his dad was jealous of Marvin. I wish Marvin was still here because he was a amazing single like Michael Jackson.
@@angieang26 Oh, my! 😢 I'm gonna find one of those documentaries you mentioned, bc I want to see/hear the rest of what went down. The end result was terrible.
NO! One way to be sure he is Making love and Not just SEX...He is in love with you and NOT With anyone ELSE!!! If you run your Mouth and disrespect like MOST (Women...then he is probably getting it other places)
It's so contrary to the realities involved in two persons who don't have any commitment with each other, to speak about how to know if there's a commitment on his behalf. Ask her how many sexual encounters she has had throughout her life and right there you're going to find out that this video is absolute nonsense.
Loool. Who broke your heart to pieces cause honestly this is not a video about one night stand but for those in committed relationships and With one partner. By the way why the double standards on body counts?! Why doesn’t the woman need to ask a man about his own body counts throughout his life so that she realizes how nonsensical this video is?!
Smh!!!
@@JaneLawrence my comment flew above your head. That explains a lot. When I said that outside of a real commitment, no one can speak about the other person's commitment, was to point out that outside of what happens when two persons commit to wait up until marriage to have sex and put God first in their lives; to speak about the signs that prove a commitment on the other person's heart is absurd. The only thing that they are proving is that they can have sex with a person they are not married to and if you read the statistics you'll find out that a great number of people are saying that they have been unfaithful to their spouses. As for saying that you should be asked about the number of men you have slept with, it's because you're pretending to teach other women that they can find out if the man they are sleeping with is really committed to them, when in reality you have not been able to find out if men you have slept with were committed to you. Seek the statistics of catholic marriages where the persons waited up until marriage, are opened to having children and pray together: Less than 1% end up divorced. Read the statistics of couples who have lived together before marriage: Up to 75% of them end up divorced.
If you had taken the time to explain it to elaborately in the first place, I prolly would have understood where you are coming from…
However I do agree with what you just said and to be honest the percentage of lovers who practice abstinence is infinitesimal because be as it may we live in a very sexually charged era and thus the reason for this video.
Yes, sèx takes away from the integral part of what courtship should be and that’s the reason people fall apart when they realize it’s nothing deeper than fleeting emotion.
Again, not all Christian courtship end up forever…
Doesn’t that also tell you something. I have seen Christian couples divorce…
Honestly there is no rule that fits all.
One can have a one night stand and get married till death do them part.
Others can pray and abstain till marriage and
Still call it quit.
It only takes two people willing to never exit to make it a long lasting relationship.
By the way I’m a born again Christian and I practice abstinence… not because I’m a Christian but because I have phobia for bodily fluid.
Please, allow me to answer to your arguments, starting with the last. For you to say that you have seen christian couples divorced, doesn't mean that catholic marriages that remain open to having children, practice their faith and pray together have a divorce rate of less than 1%. One thing is your personal opinion about things and another are the realities proven with statistics. As for the statistics of marriages of people who live together before they marry, their divorce rate goes up to 75%. When you say that waiting up until marriage to have sex, is not something that fits all because we live in a very sexualized world, what you're saying is that God's will must be ignored because human beings have changed the way we want to live. It'll only suffice to go to the statistics, to prove that the consequences of not living according to God's will. You see... people can say and argue whatever they want, the reality of what God has told us will never change, nor will the statistical proven realities of disobeying Him, change.
Not everyone is catholic. It’s mind-blowing how ignorant you are.
1) When he says he loves you outside of the bedroom
2) When he looks into your eyes during sex
3) During sex when he wants full body contact e.g. hugs, caressing, hands all over your body
4) Expressing with feelings and emotions
5) Spending time before and after sex
6) Being intimate afterwards cuddling, pillow talk, playing, sleeping together closely
7) Prioritizes your pleasure and attends to your needs and the things you like
8) When he initiates head willingly and doesn’t require that you always do the same
9) when he pulls you close during sex
10) When he compliments your personality
11) Kissing you with passion
12) Fan of slow seductive, sensual lovemaking
14) Open and vulnerable e.g. shows his body, insecurities, fantasies w/o fear of judgement
15) When he wants to meet your needs and wants you to be satisfied
16) He understands when you don’t want sex and doesn’t push or pressure
17) When it’s not just about sex, when he interested in conversation and outings and connecting outside the bedroom
Woooooow🤗🤗😩🤍
Thanks for summarizing the whole video. It deserves to be pinned!
K mm😂😮
@@JaneLawrenceHaving sex but man doesn't ejaculate... does that mean i don't turn him on? I enjoy giving head so he gets that, he says he enjoys what we do but he never ejaculates.
Thank you
Each and every one of these points is my man🥺🥺🤌🏼thats why we have been together for 7 years♡♡❤
Another sign is when he has the patience to truly learn your body in every way. He wants to know everything that brings the utmost pleasure to you, and is gentle with you! He eventually gives you what your body needs, and not just what he thinks it wants. True love making begins before sex and lasts even after sex! It's ultimate intimacy; there's nothing like it.
I love this comment!!!
Goals 2 ppl 1 Energy
Too much experience with 1 sided (not mine) gratification
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On point
Making love is a deep bond. The connection and chemistry must be there to have the magic.
A man can do all this and still not be in love with you
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On point
you don’t have to be in love to make love to someone. you dont gotta love to fuck
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YEP 💯
I also think certain positions. If he's doing missionary but lays close to your body while doing it
Yea true
Love making is sharing a deeper connection in the most intimate, vulnerable way
Spot on. 🤚🏾🥂🤍
That's what my mama taught me 😅
Some of us just be watching out of nosiness but I already know am love. Love doesn’t confuse and you will know when you’re love instantly. It a beautiful thing & I wish it on everyone ❤
True love making is when sex is over you want them and them only.
This just practically sums up this video🤍🥂
I’m so grateful that there’s a Man in my life (now) that makes love to me both emotionally, mentally, and physically.
Woooow amazing 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
This is beautiful.
My biggest turn on when it comes to sex is asking you okay during one even if you not a virgin anymore. Or telling "you so beautiful" like you gotta make the women feel comfortable. Instead of them just sticking it in.
I must say a guy did all this and ghosted me after 😂😂
Right 😂😂😂💀 that make 2 of us lol
Well with that being said no need to watch this video 🤦🏽♀️
@erikaclausell8097 ❤️🤣🤣🤣please watch it my love
@@erikaclausell8097 I mean I still listen in hopes of hearing something different 🤣 but it happened oh yea and he came back after 3 days I responded once and he’s been blocked for 5 days now
Girl me too 😂😂😂
The last part- that comfortable silence and maybe a tear. I just cried out of nowhere. Felt like the world stopped.
When tears fall
I was 20 years married to a narcissist. He was very selfish in the bedroom and it never felt like doing love. Never! And I rarely enjoyed it also because in hindsight I never trusted him and never felt emotionally secure to get completely loose.
I can relate to this
Jane u make clear to know what’s love is … n your skills just amazing thanks so much help me a conquer my confidence back after the hard time I endured with ex narc.
Oh woooow I’m so glad you are getting your confidence back. I’m sorry for what you endured from a narcissist. I couldn’t even imagine the turmoil.
@@JaneLawrence thanks to u!!! May I call you a love Doctor .. beautiful work God bless you for help so many ppl Grateful always all success!!!
Thank you so much for making this video.
It really helped me to understand better.
I love your content and those RED LIPS girl.......YESSSSSS!!!!🥰
I enjoyed your talks. Was always confused about the two.
Beautifully explained ❤
Thanks for this, premium content
You welcome hunnay🤍
I love your videos! Thank you so much ❤
Thank you so much hunnay🤍🤍🤍
I'm 16 years older than him
He is cute,rich and smart.
Yet still shy when we are alone.
He looks big and very responsible, but will like a turn off light....
What could that mean?
Date your age not boys
Wish I’d found your before now. Love your videos!❤
Loooool better late than never. I’m glad you are here now🤍🤍
What lipstick colour and brand is that. I love it PLEASE :)
Lmao I just clicked this to say damn 17! Reasons 🤣 did you try to find every possible sign to fit your narrative.
What is strafing?
Hi Ms.Lawrence how do i get a one o one conversation with you please
Loved this video ❤
Thank You 💚💚💚💚
🤍🤍🤍you are welcome
He was not killed for singing about it.
Ohhh so I heard growing up😩
Great job Queen!🎉
Thank you Mami🤣🤍🤍
Informative
Thanks baby🤍🤍
It’s been 3 1/2 years, and he still won’t say I love you. He said he cares deeply, but said he will never say he loves me
It's been 3 1/2 years since you broke up with him?
@@blahblah7050 we’ve been together for 3 1/2 years
@@blahblah7050riiight…cause umm…🫤
Then you might be a idiot
He doesn’t deserve to touch your body sweetheart. Love yourself enough to let him go.❤
Thank you ❤❤
In the description of your channel you state that you are going to talk about "... all things Love. Sex & Relationships." My question is, what are your qualifications to talk about these things? Do you have a degree in sex or couple's therapy? Or do you have extensive life experience to share? What is the source of your knowledge? Just curious. 🤔
Wena are you a sex student?
If you know - you know
Understanding emotional physical & spiritual doesn’t require a degree but that’s just me 💁🏻♀️
@@RavenNe88 OK, so opinions, not necessarily based on experience or facts. Got it. 😁😁 Seriously though, I've watched a few of the videos on this channel. They were good. God bless you.
Love this
Thank you my love🤍❤️🤍
My lover stops now and again cause he says he wants to prolong Cummings.
❤ this!!!
😁🤍🤍🤍
Very good video appreciate it ❤❤🤍🤍💕💕💕
You are sooo beautiful ❤️❤️
And you are most pretty too🌷🌷🌷here’s your flowers
Marvin Gaye wasn't killed because of the song or any of his songs. Research that- please.
I sent you a direct message. And marvin gaye father killed him. He wasn't killed over a song.
She was indirectly saying that. His father did kill him due to his music not being of a Christian message. So technically due to Marvin's choice in music, his father made that selfish decision, thinking he was doing God's work. Nonetheless, still sad.
@@1983eby I saw the documentary about Marvin. Marvin mom and dad was arguing and Marvin interviewed and either pushed or hit his dad. Then his dad went and got a gun and shot Marvin to death. Marvin and his dad didn't have a good relationship and his dad was jealous of Marvin. I wish Marvin was still here because he was a amazing single like Michael Jackson.
True! Parental jealousy is all too real. Marc & Mike both legends
@@angieang26 Oh, my! 😢 I'm gonna find one of those documentaries you mentioned, bc I want to see/hear the rest of what went down. The end result was terrible.
🙏 🙏 4an Attentive partner as I Am Selah
Why does my partner’s eyes roll back into his head when he is f*ing (sorry if that sounds vulgar; I don’t know how else to describe it) me?
I like the part where he will repeatedly tell you that he loves you during sex🫠
He loves your Pusey not you
And not only just saying I love you during sex .. most important throughout the day
ok interesting....
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What if a man keep telling you he wants you?
Well you ave got to ask him the specifics… what does he want you for?
A relationship or for sex?
Let him tell you!
What if he doesn't give u an answer and says I have ? But hasnt
@@KatbeautyG I have what?!
Unless you were once a man, I don't think a woman should speak as a man about when he is or isn't making love to a woman lol
Is this a joke
Why you don't have to be a gender to understand something because everything she said is facts or are you scared she is giving out your secrets.
We enjoy mutual 69 it's fabulous.
NO! One way to be sure he is Making love and Not just SEX...He is in love with you and NOT With anyone ELSE!!! If you run your Mouth and disrespect like MOST (Women...then he is probably getting it other places)
I don't get what you wrote,if he run your mouth or if he runs his mouth explain further please
Not true.