Even today Sue, there is good money on the black market for skulls. And for those of high birth to become so low in death. Money as we have seen cannot buy us a peacefull resting place, as my old nan used to say to me, there are no pockets in shrouds. Lovely place xx
When I walk through places like these, I always feel..."something." Not necessarily supernatural or paranormal, just something I can't quite describe, almost in my soul. Thank you for another beautiful graveyard adventure, Sue!!
The lid of the coffin on the top right was laying against the wall, it looks to have been ripped off. Someone must have disturbed the coffins. There are some really sick people in this world.😢
The Blake mausoleum is BEAUTIFUL!! The craftsmanship is exquisite!! I dread to think what those missing skulls are being used for!!😱😱 Thanks for sharing this with us, Sue!! XXXX ❤💞💕💙👍👏🤗
Good evening Sue and GV. The church ruins were lovely. It must have been a wonderful church in Its day. Fantastic masionary and the flowers made it bright and cheerful.Thank you so much❤❤
I have been binge watching your channel today 😊 Thank you for all the beautiful places of rest and peace, it’s almost like your audience is right there with you ❤ Big fan from Georgia, USA 🇺🇸
Beautiful cemetery and the "crown" at the top of the mausoleum is gorgeous. I've never seen anything like that before. Just beautiful. I like hearing the cows. It shows how beautiful the countryside around the cemetery is. Thank you, Sue. I really enjoyed this.
Thank you so much Sue! What a gorgeous location and so we'll kept. Yes it looked as if both skeletons were missing their skulls. So disrespectful to steal pieces of the dead
It did look like a turret Sue. I loved seeing the beautiful floral colours against the green! Many thanks for a memorable walkabout. Take care and stay safe. Deb of Oz XXX
Love this area. The church and grounds are beautiful, so lovely to see flowers 💐 all around. Thank you so much for sharing and everything you do to bring us these videos. God bless you both and be careful. Kathy
Gorgeous lush grave yard, beautiful stone work and so well kept. We need to add "the cow whisperer" to GV's title as he's always chit chatting with them 😆Bless, I love animals... Thank you so much my lovelies xx Teresa 🇦🇺💖
Looking at the beautiful scenery in your vidios allows me to understand why my ancestors from Scotland and Ireland were drawn to my east Tennessee home...love your visits Sue!
Sue, now you are getting in on the moo cow sounds! That is hysterical! What a beautiful piece of land and surrounded by farm land no less. That must go back a far ways to have just stones indicating most of the dead there. A lovely, peaceful place. These are the places of dreams; what I see when I dream of Ireland. Thank you, love you Sue. ♥️ ☘️ 🇮🇪
They wayward cow just wanted to come see you, Sue! 🐄 What a lovely area. So we’ll-kept and so pretty with the flowers 💐 there. That one castle 🏰 like vault was quite something! That took a lot of work to make such a gorgeous & unique a marker as that! Thank you, Sue. I pray 🙏 things are going well for you & yours. 💚 🍀 ☘️ 💚
Beautiful cemetery. The cows gave me a flashback to when we would visit the Amish country in Pennsylvania. Such beauty on farms. And a beautiful mausoleum.
Hi sue Sue. Ireland has lovely looking cemeteries. Lovely place not as good as the last one with the sisters. Magnificent monument. Shame inside about the inhabitants. Sue you and GV find some wonderful places. Lovely video Steve from England.
Beautiful place and fabulous video Sue, thank you. The headless remains were sad to see 😢. Made me laugh though with the cows, GV adding cattle herding to his CV!!!! 😂😂
Thankyou Sue I- three hour drive! Well yes, it was worth it to share with as as we would never get to see these beautiful places without you and GV as our own personal guides! It’s lovely as you say that some thoughtful person or persons have taken the time and trouble to leave all those beautiful flower arrangements dotted around to show that those resting there and the place itself is cared for. Please bring GV home with you! Don’t leave him starting a new vocation as a herdsman next!! 😂 Much love and light Helen xxx👩🦳💕🙏🫶🌻🌻😘😘👏👏
What brand of torch is that ,that you use to read the names on the stones? I love the wonderful,beautiful walks you take us on! And the history you tell us,is so well done! Thank you.❤
Brilliant video Sue, I watched it with my other half .. she called me a weirdo 😂 but by the end she was enjoying it also . Always a top quality production brilliant video Sue
What beautiful, well cared for ruins! The contrast of fresh flowers and the old stones made this a pleasant place despite the sad state of the crown mausoleum.
Thanks for the video i always love seeing all the old churches and the history... looked loved by the flowers spread about and the mausoleum was very different...sad that the skull was missing so thanks again from Aussie pete stay safe
Beautiful graveyard and church ruins. Cool looking mausoleum. It looked like someone dumped the remains on the ground, put the coffins on their side, and reassembled the remains on the side of the coffins. This is disgusting. Thank you very much Sue and GV, for another great video. Have a great weekend. 😊⁰
Hi Sue! Great video! The castle look on the mausoleum is very interesting. Having a large opening in the grill over the door, allows animals to enter and do a lot of damage. When I first saw the outside of it, I thought it may be bigger underground, with like two side chambers, but seeing the interior, it looks as if they kept it simple.
What a beautiful old place, it's just too bad people break into those vaults and damage and steal things. Let the dead rest. Thanks so much for sharing your adventures and these beautiful old sites! 👍 I've seen many of GV's videos and getting hooked on yours too! 😁😊 Have a great weekend! Pete, watching from Nova Scotia! 🇨🇦
Hello Serenity Sue, The Mausoleum blew my mind. I am curious how do you and Grave Visitations find these awesome places to visit. Greally appreciated videos from both of you. Cheers Jean Crosby Nashville TN USA
Sad to see that such a beautiful mausoleum would be vandalised and the dead bodies obviously disturbed. May all the dead RIP. Thank you Sue for this lovely video and take care!
I know it's not your responsibility, but have you ever considered taking a bag along with you and collecting some of the rubbish? In this manner, you would be leaving these sacred places even better than you found them. Maybe others would notice and do likewise!
I have to admit that the sight of the mausoleum made me think of a giant chess piece, perhaps a rook, or maybe even a King or a Queen, partly buried in the ground.
I was just going to say that sue it looks like a crown it's so beautiful there is no head's sue how all fall that is hope they are all resting in peace 💐🙏 lovely video sue take care 👍
Hi Sue, I am new to your channel but I find your videos very interesting. My name is Mark and I am from the U.S.A. Just north of Boston, Massachusetts. I just wanted to say how much I appreciate and enjoy watching your many videos. They are so much fun and informative to watch. I look forward to your next video, Sue. Your videos are like a history lesson into the past. Sue, you have a wonderful day, dear friend and until I see your next video, take care dear friend. 🫠♥️🙏🏻
Very sad to see such damage ,at least their souls can R.I.P Great to see its well kept and maintained.safe travels sue,take care care god bless you both,🙏🙏👋👋👍🇦🇺
@@SerenitySueGraveyards it is thanks just got caught done the rabbit hole if other videos.But it’s grand to enjoy our own lovely cemeteries.Hoping you both are well too 🍀
The cemetery is beautiful, but it is sad, because people expected that their loved ones remains to remain safe and resting in peace. I can't imagine how I'd react to someone plundering my families final resting place.
Hello Sue that cemetery was beautiful but I think something has happened to that vault. There is a song about Ireland called 40 Shades of Green and I think you captured them all in your video 😄👍
That is very interesting about the name above the door? That is the same way my name is spelled And I think that is where my ancestors are from? And it is Scotland ? I'm almost positive because I have scottish - Irish and English? I believe that is how it works? But I might be mistaken? And I was always told that our ancestors came over to America on the mayflower. I wonder if anyone is still around from our family? And how I would go about tracking down any of my family over there? And would they be my real family members? At least from my mother's side of the family?. Thanks for sharing this with us and showing us the historic grave yard and the building, that was once a church building? I wonder what it was like back in the day when it was full of life and energy?
Why would they leave the bodies opened up to the air and moisture? That would cause them to decay more quickly and they would no longer be in their Graves anymore? How Sad is that?
Even today Sue, there is good money on the black market for skulls. And for those of high birth to become so low in death. Money as we have seen cannot buy us a peacefull resting place, as my old nan used to say to me, there are no pockets in shrouds. Lovely place xx
I didn't think it happened still, ohh that's super creepy to me, yes, your nan was very much correct
Didn’t know that😮. Eww!!!
Terrible Liz
There are many jackals in this world.
@@spazmonkey3815 way too many
When I walk through places like these, I always feel..."something." Not necessarily supernatural or paranormal, just something I can't quite describe, almost in my soul. Thank you for another beautiful graveyard adventure, Sue!!
I understand that completely
me too, sometimes my stomach hurts, times cant explain this weird feeling
Gorgeous graveyard so much history ,no matter how wealthy nature treats all the same 🦋
Absolutely correct
The lid of the coffin on the top right was laying against the wall, it looks to have been ripped off. Someone must have disturbed the coffins. There are some really sick people in this world.😢
Yes, it seems to have been moved to one side, definitely someone was in there
Relax. They are just rotting bodies.
@chuckfriebe843 yes, clearly
Beautiful grave yard! Love seeing beautiful flowers! Seeing cows always adds a little something ❤😂❤. Thanks Sue💕👍🏻
It is Liz and these ones were naughty lol
@@SerenitySueGraveyards 😂
@@SerenitySueGraveyards because Cathal didn’t pay attention to them!
The Blake mausoleum is BEAUTIFUL!! The craftsmanship is exquisite!!
I dread to think what those missing skulls are being used for!!😱😱
Thanks for sharing this with us, Sue!! XXXX ❤💞💕💙👍👏🤗
It is really beautiful, strange to see the body there yet no skull
You're fearless about getting the perfect shot for us. You're awesome. Thank you again.
Thanks!
Ahh toms, thanks so much ❤️
Thank you Sue for bringing this to our attention,some of us are not aware of these crimes and are disgraceful.
Sure is terrible
Good evening Sue and GV. The church ruins were lovely. It must have been a wonderful church in Its day. Fantastic masionary and the flowers made it bright and cheerful.Thank you so much❤❤
I loved seeing the fresh flowers, shows many visit
I have been binge watching your channel today 😊
Thank you for all the beautiful places of rest and peace, it’s almost like your audience is right there with you ❤
Big fan from Georgia, USA 🇺🇸
Thanks so much
Beautiful cemetery and the "crown" at the top of the mausoleum is gorgeous. I've never seen anything like that before. Just beautiful. I like hearing the cows. It shows how beautiful the countryside around the cemetery is. Thank you, Sue. I really enjoyed this.
Thank you so much 💓
You have serious courage. I don't think I could just put my face into a windows of a crypt. SUE THE FEARLESS. Another very informative video.
Thank you kindly
Thank You Sue and Many Blessings! Such a very beautiful place on Mother Earth! A Lovely old church and place of rest! DaveyJO in Pennsylvania
Thanks so much ❤️
The Monahan stone is so beautiful with the birds on top. The font for the lettering is gorgeous!
Yes, I agree, each stone was beautiful
Thank you so much Sue! What a gorgeous location and so we'll kept. Yes it looked as if both skeletons were missing their skulls. So disrespectful to steal pieces of the dead
It's crazy and more importantly, why??
Someone Practicing Necromancy unfortunately.
@@mallardtheduck406 oh no
That grate is easy for thief’s to loot that grave👹😲RIP
Well done, Sue. I always look forward to your shows. Much love from Chicago and thanks!
Thank you so much! ❤️
It did look like a turret Sue. I loved seeing the beautiful floral colours against the green! Many thanks for a memorable walkabout. Take care and stay safe. Deb of Oz XXX
This place was so beautiful, loved seeing the flowers blooming, thanks Deb ❤️
Nicely kept graveyard and a beautiful mausoleum. The cows were great. Made me feel at home. 😁🐶
Very busy farm, it is a familiar sight in Ireland
What an amazing creation the mausoleum is !! Absolutely incredible ❤ Thank you Sue for sharing xx
You're very welcome 🙏
Love this area. The church and grounds are beautiful, so lovely to see flowers 💐 all around. Thank you so much for sharing and everything you do to bring us these videos. God bless you both and be careful. Kathy
God Bless
You can tell that church was a good size. The shapes of the windows alone are quite elegant. Very well kept. Tc and ty for the tour. 16:14
Thank you ❤️
Gorgeous lush grave yard, beautiful stone work and so well kept. We need to add "the cow whisperer" to GV's title as he's always chit chatting with them 😆Bless, I love animals... Thank you so much my lovelies xx Teresa 🇦🇺💖
Thank you ❤️
What another beautiful place, thank you Sue and GV. Gorgeous. I love Galway!
I love Galway too
Looking at the beautiful scenery in your vidios allows me to understand why my ancestors from Scotland and Ireland were drawn to my east Tennessee home...love your visits Sue!
Glad you enjoyed it
Sue, now you are getting in on the moo cow sounds! That is hysterical! What a beautiful piece of land and surrounded by farm land no less. That must go back a far ways to have just stones indicating most of the dead there. A lovely, peaceful place. These are the places of dreams; what I see when I dream of Ireland. Thank you, love you Sue. ♥️ ☘️ 🇮🇪
Thanks so much Janet ❤️
They wayward cow just wanted to come see you, Sue! 🐄
What a lovely area. So we’ll-kept and so pretty with the flowers 💐 there.
That one castle 🏰 like vault was quite something! That took a lot of work to make such a gorgeous & unique a marker as that!
Thank you, Sue. I pray 🙏 things are going well for you & yours. 💚 🍀 ☘️ 💚
Thanks Brenda ❤️
Beautiful cemetery. The cows gave me a flashback to when we would visit the Amish country in Pennsylvania. Such beauty on farms. And a beautiful mausoleum.
Thanks so much ❤️
I live in Amish Country PA.
@carriebaker5161 my sister in law is from Pennsylvania
@@carriebaker5161 I miss that area so much. I have been there in almost 40 years.
Thank you Sue. Such a peaceful resting spot for those souls. The flowers are a very nice touch.
You are so welcome
Only their earthly remains are there, their souls have departed for places unknown…😮
Hi sue Sue. Ireland has lovely looking cemeteries. Lovely place not as good as the last one with the sisters. Magnificent monument. Shame inside about the inhabitants. Sue you and GV find some wonderful places. Lovely video Steve from England.
Thanks so much
Awesome 👌 like and shared out in you tube community. ⌚
Thanks
This video was fantastic! Thank you Sue. I did not get a notification so I hit the bell again ❤
You're the best!
What a beautifull Resting Community.Thank you for sharing these amazing tombs with us.God Bless 🌿🌿🌿🌿
My pleasure 🙏
Beautiful place and fabulous video Sue, thank you. The headless remains were sad to see 😢. Made me laugh though with the cows, GV adding cattle herding to his CV!!!! 😂😂
Haha, yes he ended up herding a cow who tried to jump the wall 🤣
New subscriber here Serenity Sue. I was directed to yours after finding Grave Visitations channel. I am very glad to have found you both!
Thank you so much for being here ❤️
Sue, u do the greatest videos. They r so welcome and loved. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you ❤️
Thankyou Sue I- three hour drive! Well yes, it was worth it to share with as as we would never get to see these beautiful places without you and GV as our own personal guides! It’s lovely as you say that some thoughtful person or persons have taken the time and trouble to leave all those beautiful flower arrangements dotted around to show that those resting there and the place itself is cared for. Please bring GV home with you! Don’t leave him starting a new vocation as a herdsman next!! 😂
Much love and light Helen xxx👩🦳💕🙏🫶🌻🌻😘😘👏👏
@helencheadle5709 we're home, off on our next adventures soon, thank you, it's all of you that keep us going and allow us to share these places x x
That mausoleum and graveyard were beautiful! It’s a shame someone broke in and made a mess. I guess it takes all kinds in the world.
So true
What brand of torch is that ,that you use to read the names on the stones?
I love the wonderful,beautiful walks
you take us on! And the history you tell us,is so well done!
Thank you.❤
It's called shadow hawk
very beautiful graveyard.....great video (as always) 👍👍👋👋👋 love from Holland
Thank you very much!
Sue you've been to many interesting places and seen some very interesting things....Thanks i really enjoy your travels....
Thanks for watching ❤️
What Beautiful Country and resting place! Thank You Sue! Many Blessings! DaveyJO in Pennsylvania
You are so welcome
Great video and tour as always Sue and GV!! I just lost my head over that masoleum!!!😢😅😂 ❤❤❤
😆 thanks ❤️
Brilliant video Sue, I watched it with my other half .. she called me a weirdo 😂 but by the end she was enjoying it also . Always a top quality production brilliant video Sue
Haha now you can be weirdo's together 🤣
What beautiful, well cared for ruins! The contrast of fresh flowers and the old stones made this a pleasant place despite the sad state of the crown mausoleum.
Agree
Thank you ❤️
What a lively spot. The recent graveyards you’ve shown us have been especially well kept.
Thanks so much ❤️
Beautiful graveyard Sue. Great history of the mausoleum and graveyard. So sad the skulls are missing. Thank you Sue!!
Glad you enjoyed it
Oh my gosh, the last scene with the cows and the stone fence and the green! You live in such a beautiful place
I do, I'm so blessed
Thanks for the video i always love seeing all the old churches and the history... looked loved by the flowers spread about and the mausoleum was very different...sad that the skull was missing so thanks again from Aussie pete stay safe
Thanks Pete ❤️
Beautiful graveyard and church ruins. Cool looking mausoleum.
It looked like someone dumped the remains on the ground, put the coffins on their side, and reassembled the remains on the side of the coffins. This is disgusting. Thank you very much Sue and GV, for another great video. Have a great weekend. 😊⁰
Thanks Michael ❤️
@SerenitySueGraveyards You are very much welcome! Thank you very much for getting back to me Sue. Take care.
Hi Sue what a beautiful grave yard. And the red flower is beautiful too do you know the name of it? I would love one . Thank you for sharing with us x
I think it's lucifer but not 100 percent sure on that
Thank you Sue . I like 👍 the flowers 💐 ☺️.
You’re welcome 😊, me too
Great video Sue and the cemetery was beautiful thank you
Glad you enjoyed it Joel
Hi Sue! Great video!
The castle look on the mausoleum is very interesting.
Having a large opening in the grill over the door, allows animals to enter and do a lot of damage.
When I first saw the outside of it, I thought it may be bigger underground, with like two side chambers, but seeing the interior, it looks as if they kept it simple.
Yes, it's just a small room inside
It's nice to see such an old cemetery being well kept and maintained.
Thanks
Thank you for the walk through ❤. I love your videos.
You are so welcome!
Hi Sue great video as always that Mausoleum was magnificent ❤
@@maureenalder8905 thanks ❤️
Hope no strangers come along as the cows get vocal! An amazing look at artwork and loss. Thank you.
Thanks ❤️
Love the beauty of your Country !!
Thank you! 😃
beautiful old cemetery Sue loved all the flowers around ❤
Glad you enjoyed it Julia 😊
What a beautiful old place, it's just too bad people break into those vaults and damage and steal things. Let the dead rest.
Thanks so much for sharing your adventures and these beautiful old sites! 👍 I've seen many of GV's videos and getting hooked on yours too! 😁😊
Have a great weekend!
Pete, watching from Nova Scotia! 🇨🇦
Thank you Pete ❤️
Hello Serenity Sue, The Mausoleum blew my mind. I am curious how do you and Grave Visitations find these awesome places to visit. Greally appreciated videos from both of you. Cheers Jean Crosby Nashville TN USA
A lot of research and driving, plus I have a friend too and we exchange locations
Stunning video. Thank you for your work videoing
Many thanks!
cracking video Sue maybe somebody has been in there but its a lovely grave yard
Thanks David
Another great video Sue 👍🏻😊☘️🇮🇪💚
Thanks for watching
Sad to see that such a beautiful mausoleum would be vandalised and the dead bodies obviously disturbed.
May all the dead RIP. Thank you Sue for this lovely video and take care!
You're welcome
Well kept. It must be difficult to mow the grass with all the various field stones, etc.
I'd imagine it is but they manage to take care of the area very well
I know it's not your responsibility, but have you ever considered taking a bag along with you and collecting some of the rubbish? In this manner, you would be leaving these sacred places even better than you found them. Maybe others would notice and do likewise!
What a beautiful ruins/church and graveyard. The stonework on the church is magnificent ❤😊❤😊
It sure is Deborah
You make these videos so interesting. Keep it up and thank you.
Glad you like them!
What a beautiful graveyard that is. Really loved it thanks. Please take care
Thank you, I will
I have to admit that the sight of the mausoleum made me think of a giant chess piece, perhaps a rook, or maybe even a King or a Queen, partly buried in the ground.
Oh yes, it does
Beautiful graveyard and that mausoleum is stunning! I bet GV was mooing at those cows. 😊 Thanks, Sue!
He was lol 😆
I was just going to say that sue it looks like a crown it's so beautiful there is no head's sue how all fall that is hope they are all resting in peace 💐🙏 lovely video sue take care 👍
Thanks Shel
Hi Sue, I am new to your channel but I find your videos very interesting. My name is Mark and I am from the U.S.A. Just north of Boston, Massachusetts. I just wanted to say how much I appreciate and enjoy watching your many videos. They are so much fun and informative to watch. I look forward to your next video, Sue. Your videos are like a history lesson into the past. Sue, you have a wonderful day, dear friend and until I see your next video, take care dear friend. 🫠♥️🙏🏻
Hi Mark, thanks so much ❤️
Wow ty Sue. I have never seen anything like that
Thanks Feral ❤️
Love you guys! ❤ You always make me smile.
Thanks Robin
Strange mausoleum. Beautiful 🌺🌹
Loved the flowers, makes the area so sweet
Very sad to see such damage ,at least their souls can R.I.P Great to see its well kept and maintained.safe travels sue,take care care god bless you both,🙏🙏👋👋👍🇦🇺
Thanks Peter ❤️
I imagine the skulls had gold teeth and someone took them home to retrieve those teeth.💀😱
Terrible now
Stunning graveyard Sue & so well kept.
Thank you kindly
What a fantastic little walk 😊⚓️🧲👍
Glad you enjoyed it
Great video! What a view in all directions.
It really is!
I was waiting fore someone to knock back.😮
Can you imagine 😨
Beautiful cemetery, interesting ruins and mausoleum.
Thank you
Another great video has always sue and grave visitations 👍
Thanks 👍
Those flowers are beautiful. The cows are cute.
Loved the flowers too
Thanku Sue just came back to channel after an absence.Lovely to hear the bird song.Death is a great leveller ❤
Hope all is OK x x
@@SerenitySueGraveyards it is thanks just got caught done the rabbit hole if other videos.But it’s grand to enjoy our own lovely cemeteries.Hoping you both are well too 🍀
@maryb1783 all good here thank you x x
Are you ever going to Nunhead cemetery London Or have I missed your visit keep up the good work ❤
Maybe one day!
What kind of torch have you there ? Impressive
Shadow hawk
I live in the USA and have never seen such a beautiful mausoleum!❤
Thanks so much
i bet when it rains it fills with water. sad if the remains were disturbed and taken. thank you for showing us. appreciate your adventures!
Thank you ❤️
The cemetery is beautiful, but it is sad, because people expected that their loved ones remains to remain safe and resting in peace. I can't imagine how I'd react to someone plundering my families final resting place.
Unfortunately all the money in the world does not help us in death
Brilliant video again sue xxx
Thank you ❤️
I know that I would never want to go to my family's grave-site and see that, and what state of preservation my family members were in?
It's up to family usually to sort that out, I'd say a group got funding to restore the mausoleum, which they did.
Hello Serenity Sue and everyone one😊😊😊😊😊😊
Hi Tina ❤️
Hello Sue that cemetery was beautiful but I think something has happened to that vault. There is a song about Ireland called 40 Shades of Green and I think you captured them all in your video 😄👍
I love that song, one cow tried to jump the wall, GV saved the day lol
That is very interesting about the name above the door? That is the same way my name is spelled
And I think that is where my ancestors are from? And it is Scotland ? I'm almost positive because I have scottish - Irish and English? I believe that is how it works? But I might be mistaken? And I was always told that our ancestors came over to America on the mayflower. I wonder if anyone is still around from our family? And how I would go about tracking down any of my family over there? And would they be my real family members? At least from my mother's side of the family?. Thanks for sharing this with us and showing us the historic grave yard and the building, that was once a church building? I wonder what it was like back in the day when it was full of life and energy?
This is Ireland, maybe they are your ancestors
Fancy place to rest ...
Tho for me I would pick the one
with all the ivy ... a living hug
Thanks Sue
Thanks William
How long did it take to build a mausoleum like that before the time of death?
Who knows, weeks I'd say, if not months
Why would they leave the bodies opened up to the air and moisture? That would cause them to decay more quickly and they would no longer be in their Graves anymore? How Sad is that?
I see it a lot, family are gone, no one to care for them