Man, this doesn't even just apply to dating. I could be at a trade show with the goal of exchanging numbers with as many professional contacts as possible, and I'd still turn that down. You have to give a reason for exchanging contact info
They're forgetting to establish a mental connection first. Like, without having a conversation first, how do you know you even want their contact, lol? It kind of makes it obvious these guys are going after visual appearance alone and they come off as shallow. I get why that doesn't work for most girls. Last night I went to a bar and struck conversation with 2 girls and only after talking about random sht for a while(and some karaoke) we exchanged contacts.
This is what happens when sex is the focus of pickup . The maths is ,see woman, find hot , know you would have sex , ask for contact . The mental connection doesn't matter .
@felixkemp2122 For me, finding a partner just for sex doesn't make sense. We need other people for the emotional intimacy. If it's just the sex, I can do it alone. xD
@kurtslavain it's called just building connection and escalating . I literally approached a girl a couple of weeks ago and within two minutes we were hugging to fulfil our need of intimacy , it was pretty amazing , and that did not need to be a relationship 😂
You are without a doubt the most encouraging dating expert I have found. You give me hope.
Man, this doesn't even just apply to dating. I could be at a trade show with the goal of exchanging numbers with as many professional contacts as possible, and I'd still turn that down. You have to give a reason for exchanging contact info
They're forgetting to establish a mental connection first. Like, without having a conversation first, how do you know you even want their contact, lol? It kind of makes it obvious these guys are going after visual appearance alone and they come off as shallow. I get why that doesn't work for most girls.
Last night I went to a bar and struck conversation with 2 girls and only after talking about random sht for a while(and some karaoke) we exchanged contacts.
This is what happens when sex is the focus of pickup . The maths is ,see woman, find hot , know you would have sex , ask for contact . The mental connection doesn't matter .
@felixkemp2122 For me, finding a partner just for sex doesn't make sense. We need other people for the emotional intimacy. If it's just the sex, I can do it alone. xD
@@kurtslavain I want both not a partner though lmao .
@@felixkemp2122 How are you gonna get both emotional and physical intimacy without a partner? Friends with benefits?
@kurtslavain it's called just building connection and escalating . I literally approached a girl a couple of weeks ago and within two minutes we were hugging to fulfil our need of intimacy , it was pretty amazing , and that did not need to be a relationship 😂
These guys are at Game Level 0 - Joe