I'm platonic love for sure! It took me over 3 years of friendship/"dating" (we were in middle/high school so it wasnt really dating as much as it was closer friends with a new title XD) before I even felt comfortable with my partner touching me (just casual autism things lol)! However after those 3 years of growing close as friends, I finally felt comfortable enough to get serious and really open up! 5 years later and I'm so glad I really took my time getting to know such a wonderful man. He was and always will be my best friend! Even in a few years when he's my husband, I'll always love him for being the best friend, partner, and family I could ever ask for!
Autistic people need to stop being so relatable fr, everything I read something an autistic person has said I'm like "yeah, that's totally me". Maybe I need to get checked
0:46 Eros | Passionate Love 1:24 Mania | Obsessive Love 2:00 Ludus | Game-Playing Love 2:33 Pragma | Practical Love 3:11 Storge | Platonic Love 4:06 Agape | Selfless Love ❤️
0:46 Eros | Passionate Love ❤ 1:24 Mania | Obsessive Love 2:00 Ludus | Game-Playing Love 2:33 Pragma | Practical Love ❤ 3:11 Storge | Platonic Love ❤ 4:06 Agape | Selfless Love ❤
I’ve been Agape in several relationships. My daughter is this way, too. In my experience the other person gets conditioned to it and learns to expect it, not reciprocate as much, and take it for granted, unfortunately. So now I’m Storge
Hold up ... i had this SAME exact transition. Also realized some people are literally narcissists who no matter how much selfless love you give ... it only serves as supply to them and they actually in their twisted minds hate you more for it and respect you less. Humanity is plagued with stupidity honestly its sad but i digress. Honestly especially as a guy its been hard to navigate trying to date women through the storge approach. (Agape didnt work either but i wasnt really on any active pursuit when that was my initial style nor did i have a mature idea of love then. Well im never on "active pursuit" regardless) But girls dont seem to like a dude that goes the friendship route usually and im seen as disingenuous like i was attracted to them romantically before. But thats not even true the times i was friends with them i really didnt see myself liking them we were just acquainted in some way before. In general, people avast tend to only start off the foundation of mutual physical/sexual attraction to start relationships then learn about people as part of their experience which i believe is a weak foundation that leads to you needing like 50 dates to find someone. Women tend to appreciate it more when the guy makes it clear early their intentions which again fucks me over because i dont just look at someone good looking or not and tell myself "man id love to date this person" In fact i see a good looking person my instinct is to think they are probably absorbed in looks and id be wasting my time cuz i dont value superficial ass temporary people. So idk ... but im still committed to the storge to agape approach. But i may have to fit in there like more of a flirty nonserious vibe even if at times i am not in a mood to be playful. Ive been very serious in recent years which i believe scares girls ive liked because i think it becomes a lot of pressure for the girl when i seem way more interested in her than she may have ever thought of being with me ya know. Also when im depressed i can definitely come off needy unfortunately. I got a lot of self work i need to do Oh also my conversations never become talking about sexually arousing topics idk if thats an issue to or not ... not that i cant i just dont really think much about things like that naturally and would only care to talk about it with someone i know is open minded not some random i find physically attractive but is wack. But maybe i should be more open to that cuz it would be odd if i finally get someone and we are both so unfamiliar with how to be sexual in anyway xD. Im aware of all these things tho now so hope i can figure it out
@@matthewcuriel991 That was a very emotionally mature response. When I had a TikTok, some psychiatrist guy did results of what women and men look for in a mate. It came down to the same argument: men want beauty, women want money. I commented and said “My first thought is how is he going to treat me?” The men that replied called BS and I had to argue that I have a career that pays me well, but I’ve had some terrible relationships because I’d give my all and they’d lose interest. The best thing I’ve learned is to walk with quiet confidence and I speak to as many men at work as I do women and basically in the same manner with the same energy. I think people see that as sincere, I don’t know. I’m married now so I don’t worry about that anymore. However, we took our relationship really slow because I got out of a relationship with a narcissist and everything I tried to do was wrong and I felt reduced to ashes. I had to learn to trust again. I was ready to call it quits at 35 years old.
I gotta say I try to fight it, but I sometimes feel the mania in my love style because I do get jealous and lonely and sometimes I have been too codependent in past relationships. I've found it's easier for me to be single and seek more of a platonic bond with someone that develops naturally rather than trying to go looking for romantic relationships. Platonic stuff feels so much better because then I'm less uncertain about a person which makes me more comfortable and confident in our relationship.
I'm a mix of Pragma (Practical love), Storge (Platonic love), and Agape (Selfless love). However, I'm mainly in the Storge category and pretty much always have been. Everything in this video that was said about Storge fits my love style perfectly. I do have a little bit of other love styles mixed in, too. I'm just mainly in the Storge category right now
❤ _Timestamps_ ❤ 0:46 - Eros - Passionate Love 1:24 - Mania - Obsessive Love 2:00 - Ludus - Game-Playing Love 2:34 - Pragma - Practical Love 3:10 - Storge - Platonic Love 4:05 - Agape - Selfless Love
“Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough” ― Oprah Winfrey ✨ Being grateful is a TOTAL GAME CHANGER! ❤️
I find myself a mixture of pretty much all these love styles but I most relate to Agape because me and my significant other are both making sure the other is comfortable or okay. I tend to over look my own feelings and focus more on my partner's but they also understand that and try to make me feel better in turn. We also decided to get to know eachother first before starting anything serious so we were friends before hand.
My crush cares deeply about me. I was on the verge of having a panic attack for like a week, and I couldn't hold out anymore. I just text her "Help" and she calls me as soon as she saw my text. We hung out for about 3 hours the next day, and cuddled for a bit. She tells me I'm one of the most important people in her life. Yet I still think I'm in the friend zone. I'm definitely a Storge love kind of guy.
@@azrael4771 I lightly flirt with her all the time. Last one was just before we parted ways, when we were about to drive off, I knocked on her window and said "Hey.. I gotta say something. You don't have to reply. I just want to say you're extremely gorgeous." And ran away before I started blushing. I heard her say "awwe, you just made my day.". This was an especially difficult day for her. I'm bad at this stuff haha. I'm very shy.
learning about these different types of love would have really helped me when i was struggling with my sexual orientation. it makes so much sense that my love style is platonic because i’ve recently come to the conclusion that i’m aroace since i’ve never experienced any kind of romantic or sexual attraction to others
...this showed up in my feed after I commented on someone's post about being demotivated and feeling guilty for not posting. Where I made myself cry with how emotional said comment was getting. This feels very relevant.
Agape love is talked abt frequently in my religion. How followers should be selfless and kind to one another even with ppl who hurt us we are expected to turn the other cheek. It's hard sometimes and not always do we live up to expectations but it's wonderful having agape love as our standard.
This video in particular is amazing! The voice is as calming and relaxing as usual, the drawings are really cute too! Don't know who the artist is, but they really did an awesome work! Thank you Psych2Go for being here ♡ I really appreciate your company over though times and your videos that always cheer me up! 🧡
i'm a platonic+selfless definitely the selfless is mostly because id definitely destroy my sanity to help make someone happy. cuz them being happy gives me instant dopamine
I learned something new today! definitely have a mix of Mania and Pragma. Basically I won't become obsessed with someone unless I think the relationship is practical.... It's a strange combination and I've found many girls can find it off putting at times. I've definitely been trying to change more to Pragma over Mania, but I also have OCD so that can be very difficult at times.
I'm bisexual , tho.. most of the time I feel like Im not attracted to anybody.. I have one bestie , other people think we're couple , but actually we're not , it's platonic
Love and sex are not the same thing, although people often confuse the two. Love is emotional. Sex is physical. You can love someone and not want / need to have sex with them, and you can have sex with someone without loving them.
As someone who's balancing on Pragma, Storge and Agabe but is like zero Eros, i find it difficult to be with someone because most of the time they all have Eros love style, im uncapable of it. Like showing my love is such a private intimate process for me, that either i distance myself from them when they want to show that much affection or i start "cringing". And than they mistake it as me disliking them or finding it creepy. But it's not that, I show my love through cooking you hearty meals, taking care of you and your stuff and as a payback a simple thank you or listening to me how my day was, is plenty enough. However by far no one really understood that, because media's potrayal of love is really only shown in eros style, and once you have different lovestyle, especially being young and being girl, they find it weird.
Definitely Storge! I often have to be friends with potential partners for a long while before anything happens! Unfortunately a little bit of Mania sprinkled in too, In past relationships I can become too attached and obsessive, but getting older I've been able to reel that in and I'm much less obsessive now
The beauty of Storge is that you have a chance to decide if the relationship would be healthy or fulfilling, and there's a possibility that you could walk away with a great friend even if it doesn't work out. I'm speaking as someone who has 3 friends who I've known for 5+ years, and I still talk to them all consistently, but I would never want to date any of them.
I was watching this thinking "well, I'm not that... I'm not that either... wow, that's not me at all... am I none of these??" But then the last one, selfless love, came on and I was like oh, there it is, 100% for sure. I will say though, it sounds great, but it can actually be a super destructive and unhealthy love style. I've been in several very toxic relationships because my desire to please them and put their needs before my own often creates an uneven power balance in the relationship. Relationships should be a give-and-take situation. Not just take, but not just give either.
Yes, you shouldn't have to prove your worth to others to earn love. Love is a kindness that is meant to be shared. With over 8 billion people in the world, a lot of love is to be shared!
Oh, my is Mania for sure. She is litteraly the only person who can comfort me, and can fullfil the need of human warm touch. And pretty much the only person who did *not* gave me any traumas.
Really loved this video. I didn't even know there were 6 styles. I think I'm agape. I've had instances where I felt I was taken for granted, but I'm glad now I'm found some people that don't make me feel that way.
I think I'm a pretty big mix of eros and agape, it all fits very well with my personality, ideals and my general identity that my close friends seems to agree I'm like. edit: after reflecting, and realising I am bi, I have different love styles for either gender. that first set was for female attraction. for men it's more Eros, mania, pragma and agape.
OMG THIS VIDEO SAVED ME FROM THINKING I'M CRAZY !!! I was starting to feel desperate about somehow having "chosen to play against the meta" by making all the "wrong decisions" in respect to maximizing my chances of finding a mate that accepts me... Turns out I'm just the Storge Type. And yeah, it's out of the meta right now, since we have had so much advertising for Eros, and Ludus... because it sells well...
Mine for sure is 7: no love. Have never experienced love and know never will. Have only experienced rejections, and his lack of opportunity only makes it even more impossible, people still try to fool him by saying there's still hope, but the truth is there were never a chance from the begining, but lying is the only thing they could offer to him.
what r u talking about :( yknow there are soooooo many people in the world so saying u will never find love is IMPOSSIIBLLLE!! the only thing that makes it impossible to find love is ur mindset!! if u have a negative mindst with relationships, then negative things will happen in that area. for me i haven't really had a love bc i dont really commit to them and just get anxious and depressed when i think about it idk whyyyyy. but i will try and see if i an fix it! good luck to u though!
This is the absolute insanely cutest animation/drawing I’ve ever seen on this channel or quite frankly, anywhere 🥺🥰😙💕💙💖💗💞💜💖💜💛💛💙💖💛💓💙💗💕💙💕💞💛💛💕💗💜 huge props to the artist!!
wow, the last one hit home, the only time that I have actually felt real love and not just a crush, was on my best friend! After 5 years I realised I was in love with her and I could not focus on anything else! xD Though I told her too late and she was straight sooo.. :') Edit: I thought platonic love was the last one, but hey both are very accurate lol
I’m a mix between mania and agape, I put other people above me at times because of my low self esteem and I am very co dependent. However after talking a lot I’m becoming more laid back and independent. It’s not easy but if you guys have been going through something similar all you need to do it’s communicate and take a break. Trust me you’ll feel a lot better that way.
When I used to get into relationships, I used to be a mix of Eros, Mania, Storge, and Agape. I really loved my partner, and I would give the world to them for their happiness, because that made me happy. I trusted them, and I made sure that every day, they were happy and felt reassured. I guess that's why I never had one last longer than a year, because I trusted them and never believed they would turn their back on me, but they did. Felt like every girl and guy I dated was Ludus, and sometimes Pragma. They never seemed to care about me or how I felt, despite how much affection I gave them. Only one relationship never ended in cheating, out of, I think, about 30+ relationships. Maybe I'm just a horrible person. I haven't been in a relationship or had any friends for 3 years. I'm desperate for love, but I know no one's going to give it to me. Besides, I missed my chance with my dream girl, which was that one relationship that hadn't ended. If I failed that, who's to say I won't fail the rest? Or that they'll just cheat on me again?
Ah there is a girl I like soo muchh. But she has a boyfriend. I just can't get over this girll. It's been a month since I know she has a bf but i can't forget about her. This video is definitely a sign. Either to keep thinking abt her or to forget her. Thanks for the video!!
Thank you again for this insightful video. Personally, I recognized myself in the last three categories of love. First, I'm more into platonic love (Storge), followed by practical love (Pragma) and, finally, selfless love (Agape). Probably, the first three ones are too much for me! (lol!) I've always have a quiet, intellectual, shy and introverted personality. So, that could explain, at least partially, my three dominant styles of love. In my conception of love, love is a version of friendship carried to a higher degree. I know very well that it could easily sound boring and that doesn’t make strong children, as they say. 😆 But, that's the way I am!
I think the last one fits me the most but I don't have an interest in a person so truly I don't know but if I fell in love with someone the 6th one is the way I show love to the partner ☺❤
Actually I have bipolar disorder so mania comes easy for me, sadly. This opened my eyes, I'll try to love myself first before heading straight into love again.
Not sure how much of this is defined by the style that a person loves universally or moreso that they have a certain type of love for different people in their lives. For instance - someone may have the agape love style towards their children, but may have a pragma love style with their partner.
I feel the love styles I fall under are Pragma (I do expect the future partner to be kind hearted), Storge (Being demiromantic (originally thought I was aromantic), though I still would consider friendship a critical stepping stone towards romance regardless), and Agape (I feel people deserve to be loved unconditionally with no strings attached and expect nothing in return). I actually more likely use the latter two as I value genuine friendships and make sure others get loved. Especially, with how difficult life is for many others.
My way has always been Agape, but people do not understand and reciprocate and take it for granted, they've been so used to my kindness that they don't value it anymore...So now I'm trying to be a Pragma and trying to value myself a bit more instead of others.
Definitely started as eros, as I experience my first relationship I've learned that storge is the way my mind is heading after I'm done healing from this break up.
That's me, I'm the platonic one and agape as well. I've been known to connect with people I feel a friendly connection with. However it hasn't lead me to the happiest places or situations. I think it's time to switch up my strategy. Also I don't know when to show agape love to others now. I've kind of built walls around myself for those early days due to past experiences. However if I feel more of a platonic love I naturally show those sides of me. And I can see how this would make romantic partners jealous of my kindness at times. It's down right hurtful to be excessively giving to someone the opposite sex and to put limitations on the love you give your partner. This can also come off as flirty or worse make your partner feel like theirs a valid reason you're going to cheat. Why put that much effort into a platonic relationship and not show up for your own.
For the majority of my life I’ve considered myself a demi-romantic (although I might also be aro-flux.) I definitely relate to storge the most of all of them. And can relate a little bit pragmatic and Eros too but not as much. :)
I am definitely Storge. I like to associate the description in the video with my asexuality because all the times I've ever fallen in love it's because I've been friends with them for a long time, people who value me and gain my trust while playing fair. But Agape also hits close to home, so I'm assuming I'm both! haha
I love the videos of this channel, it really helps to be relaxed; I think my love style is a mixture of selfless love, agape love, and platonic love, a bit more selfless love than the other two (even though I have never been in a relationship 😅)
I'm aroace, so I've never really felt love that would translate into a romantic relationship. The closest I've ever gotten is platonic, and it's never gotten to the point described by this video
I'm a mix of Storge and Ludus, but my love style changes a lot over time. I like spending quality time with my crush/male friend (who knows that I like him back) and I also love exploring relationships and sometimes feel the urge to just end a relationship. I've cheated many times on my online boyfriends, and I'm glad I'm not with them anymore as they're not people I've met in real life.
I am definitely a Storge. Thank you posting this video. I didn't even know that there was more than one love style until a while ago. I'm glad I found mine
Not a real story, but I used to imagine the time that my partner always has good success in her education while for me, even if I’m not low esteemed in education, my grades are average but aren’t as high hers, but she always sees me interesting because I’m very special compared to other boys she met. For her it felt like, something magical inside me, and she wants to use that not only for her, but for me as well, that’s why she wants to pair with me so the magic that I have helps me and her.
I feel like everyone may have a unique mix of multiple of these. At least about me I am pretty sure I only fall into one of these categories. Everyone is unique and special.
I am definitely a mix of Platonic and Selfless love . Would do anything for my SO , but I want the relation to be intimate and stable . Don’t need to be friends for long , but I am scared of ruining any friendships Anyways , here is a little confession . I might ask out my long-term crush out for a date tomorrow , but I am a 4/10 , 5/10 at best . She is like truly gorgeous , but I don’t think she feels the same way . Gonna ask her out if she thinks I am cool enough
I'm Eros with a touch of Mania. I get really REALLY head-over-heels obsessed, but I'm not controlling or jealous as someone with the Mania love style. I just get really sad and lonely when I'm without my partner. But it is all worth it the next time you meet, because the waiting is finally over!
my last relationship was mania love, I was very obsessive with my partner and even stalked them, however they were very aware of this and allowed me to continue After the breakup (which was an issue unrelated to my obsession, but the fact they are dealing with past relationship issues) After I somewhat healed from it all, I'm now dating someone who has been crushing on me for a long time, and for once I'm not as obsessive Instead, I am finally in a poly relationship without the urge to return to obsessive mania
Never actually been in love, but with the closest people to me now (friends), I'm Agape, and I feel like the closest I could get is a mix of that and Storge with a bit of Mania sprinkled in from Anxiety-related past experiences
Hey Psych2Go, I wondered if U would make a video to help me with my situation and I understand that others might be struggling with this too. So I’ve had a massive crush on this boy in my class since January. He’s really sweet and funny and he’s always smiling lol but the thing is... he isn’t my friend, he’s just like a class mate so I can’t really do what I guess other people would do in this situation. I feel like I’ve already blown it with him as when we used to talk to me in computing I would literally just smile and laugh a little and I didn’t actually say anything back :/ So what I’m asking for is some advice on how to move on. I think about him 24/7 (it’s hard to explain but there’s a song called one day by Tate McRae that summons it up perfectly lol) I don’t think he likes me back and I’m too scared to tell him but say another really nice guy came up to me and asked me out, even if I could see us together in the future, I’d have to refuse cos I’m in love with my crush!
@@Gree_Fi lol I guess you’re right but even if he says he doesn’t like me I’ll still love him and I’ll always be thinking about him but then that means that I am focusing on something for no reason and I don’t know how to get out of it :”(
As a high functioning autistic with anger stress anxiety and depression issues I consider myself more of a practical love style, while the very last style of love reminds me of Tilla mayday from the hell of a boss fanfiction, and that love style is what I'm looking for in a life-partner
I learned about these in communications class and we took a quiz. When the teacher asked about our types I raised my hand over-enthusiastically and looked my crush in class and no one else raised their hand and I felt very awkward lol!
I feel like my style is somewhere between Agape and Storge. I've not actually fallen in love that I know of, but I've been in multiple relationships where I'm usually trying to make the other person happy. But with the Agape love style, I do tend to give a lot to whoever I'm with at the time whenever I can, but I tend to feel a sense of guilt when they try to give me stuff. I have troubles accepting gifts from my friends and partners, even if they're cheap dollar store things. I think I'd rather my thank you from them in hugs and attention rather than gifts? I'm not really sure bout this stuff. And I have no idea how to tell if I love someone. Whenever someone's overly kind to me or just little complements, I start to blush or my heart "flutters". This has caused a lot of confusion and I have no idea what to do. Any advice?
Started off with Mania and Agape until one heartbreak changed me to Pragma and Storge. It took a while but I appreciate the life lessons because now I'm in a happier place for it
The problem with this kind of pigeonholing is always... there is not a total of 6 types or 10 types, or you name it. Every single human is different, so every try to categorize covers only a few colors of the spectrum. We need to keep this in mind while watching pigeonhole-videos. Of course they are pleasant to watch too.
They said they're were gonna use the color wheel theory of love and explaining. They didn't say there is just two, six, ten or thousand types of love, just explained the theory. No one has a tag or a fabric-setting where everyone is the same. You should learn to comprehend a text next time.
If I have to be honest,the one I felt the closest to myself is number 5-storge(platonic love) because I always dream to have a friendship with that person and then to start a relationship...if the friendship doesn't go well,that means he/she isn't right for you...and if a friend disappoints you,he/she may not be a good partner as well who you can trust.You should trust that person really well,in my opinion.
John 3:16 [16]For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Luke 13:3 [3]I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish. John 14:6 [6]Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. Jeremiah 29:13 King James Version 13 And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart. Matthew 18:11 For the Son of man is come to save that which was lost. John 8:12 [12]Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life. Matthew 4:17 From that time Jesus began to preach, and to say, Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand. Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. Romans 10:13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. Luke 6:27-38 But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, 6:28 Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. 6:29 And unto him that smiteth thee on the one cheek offer also the other; and him that taketh away thy cloak forbid not to take thy coat also. 6:30 Give to every man that asketh of thee; and of him that taketh away thy goods ask them not again. 6:31 And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise. 6:32 For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them. 6:33 And if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? for sinners also do even the same. 6:34 And if ye lend to them of whom ye hope to receive, what thank have ye? for sinners also lend to sinners, to receive as much again. 6:35 But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil. 6:36 Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful. 6:37 Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven: 6:38 Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again. Ephesians 2:8-9 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast. 2 Chronicles 7:14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land. Matthew 5:2-12 King James Version 2 And he opened his mouth, and taught them, saying, 3 Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 4 Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted. 5 Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth. 6 Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled. 7 Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy. 8 Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God. 9 Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God. 10 Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 11 Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. 12 Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you. Matthew 24:4-14 And Jesus answered and said unto them, Take heed that no man deceive you. 24:5 For many shall come in my name, saying, I am Christ; and shall deceive many. 24:6 And ye shall hear of wars and rumours of wars: see that ye be not troubled: for all these things must come to pass, but the end is not yet. 24:7 For nation shall rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom: and there shall be famines, and pestilences, and earthquakes, in divers places. 24:8 All these are the beginning of sorrows. 24:9 Then shall they deliver you up to be afflicted, and shall kill you: and ye shall be hated of all nations for my name's sake. 24:10 And then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another. 24:11 And many false prophets shall rise, and shall deceive many. 24:12 And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold. 24:13 But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved. 24:14 And this gospel of the kingdom shall be preached in all the world for a witness unto all nations; and then shall the end come. Exodus 20 King James Version 20 And God spake all these words, saying, 2 I am the Lord thy God, which have brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. 3 Thou shalt have no other gods before me. 4 Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. 5 Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me; 6 And shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments. 7 Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain; for the Lord will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain. 8 Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy. 9 Six days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work: 10 But the seventh day is the sabbath of the Lord thy God: in it thou shalt not do any work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter, thy manservant, nor thy maidservant, nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is within thy gates: 11 For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: wherefore the Lord blessed the sabbath day, and hallowed it. 12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee. 13 Thou shalt not kill. 14 Thou shalt not commit adultery. 15 Thou shalt not steal. 16 Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour. 17 Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's. ..,..,..,.., .......... .,........,. ,..,,,,,,,,.., ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ..........,,
Here are the ones that I am part of : somewhat Eros (Passionate), very much Storge (Platonic), and also part Agape (Selfless). Probably like a 20 - 50 - 30 (right now, and probably the best ratio I could have done).
i relate a lot to storge but also a lil bit to agape !! also, i am questioning aromantic (tho i literally have a cursh on someone rn--) so this was actually rly helpful!! i figured out a few weeks ago that im aromantic in the sense that i develop crushes/etc but dont necessarily want to be in a romantic relationship with said crush, at least not physically (as in, i'd wanna be their partner but only label-wise, i have 0 interest in doing "coupley" things) so i feel like storge fits pretty well!! im rly happy i found this, thank u psych2go
I feel like this is something that keeps changing throughout my whole life and also depends on the person I love... (also I feel like I have a little bit of all of these🤷🏻♀️)
Remember guys, love is different for everyone.
Cringe af 🤮
@@Lamiishere says you
@@Lamiishere ??🗿
@@Lamiishere Eww
Love is none existent for me
I'm platonic love for sure! It took me over 3 years of friendship/"dating" (we were in middle/high school so it wasnt really dating as much as it was closer friends with a new title XD) before I even felt comfortable with my partner touching me (just casual autism things lol)! However after those 3 years of growing close as friends, I finally felt comfortable enough to get serious and really open up! 5 years later and I'm so glad I really took my time getting to know such a wonderful man. He was and always will be my best friend! Even in a few years when he's my husband, I'll always love him for being the best friend, partner, and family I could ever ask for!
same but he ended up being obsessive L
Platonic love seems to be a really desirable love style for autistic people, including myself.
Autistic people need to stop being so relatable fr, everything I read something an autistic person has said I'm like "yeah, that's totally me". Maybe I need to get checked
@@cokiecat1013 same
i'm also platonic love, took some time to spend with people to fall in love, but by the time i have a feeling for them, they already have a partner 😂
fun fact, 5/6 of these words are actually Greek!
Eros = Έρωτας
Mania = Μανία
Pragma = Πράγμα
Storge = Στοργή
Agape = Αγάπη
no shit
@@saple3688 it's not that deep, you don't have to be mean about it
And Ludus is latin
"Pragma"
Google Translate: *"THING"*
Ludus=ඞmρosτör
"The magic of our first love is our ignorance that it can never end." :,)
🥺🥺
My first love cheated on me :,)
@@littlecharizard426 sorry about that bro 😔
@@un4m3dnerd44 thank you. And the wounds are fresh, but I'll heal eventually. I don't need people who hurt me
One sided love
0:46 Eros | Passionate Love
1:24 Mania | Obsessive Love
2:00 Ludus | Game-Playing Love
2:33 Pragma | Practical Love
3:11 Storge | Platonic Love
4:06 Agape | Selfless Love ❤️
Thank you
0:46 Eros | Passionate Love ❤
1:24 Mania | Obsessive Love
2:00 Ludus | Game-Playing Love
2:33 Pragma | Practical Love ❤
3:11 Storge | Platonic Love ❤
4:06 Agape | Selfless Love ❤
I’ve been Agape in several relationships. My daughter is this way, too. In my experience the other person gets conditioned to it and learns to expect it, not reciprocate as much, and take it for granted, unfortunately. So now I’m Storge
Same🙌
Yikes, that sounds really painful, sorry to hear that happened. I'm agape but have fortunately been valued
Hold up ... i had this SAME exact transition. Also realized some people are literally narcissists who no matter how much selfless love you give ... it only serves as supply to them and they actually in their twisted minds hate you more for it and respect you less. Humanity is plagued with stupidity honestly its sad but i digress.
Honestly especially as a guy its been hard to navigate trying to date women through the storge approach. (Agape didnt work either but i wasnt really on any active pursuit when that was my initial style nor did i have a mature idea of love then. Well im never on "active pursuit" regardless)
But girls dont seem to like a dude that goes the friendship route usually and im seen as disingenuous like i was attracted to them romantically before. But thats not even true the times i was friends with them i really didnt see myself liking them we were just acquainted in some way before.
In general, people avast tend to only start off the foundation of mutual physical/sexual attraction to start relationships then learn about people as part of their experience which i believe is a weak foundation that leads to you needing like 50 dates to find someone. Women tend to appreciate it more when the guy makes it clear early their intentions which again fucks me over because i dont just look at someone good looking or not and tell myself "man id love to date this person"
In fact i see a good looking person my instinct is to think they are probably absorbed in looks and id be wasting my time cuz i dont value superficial ass temporary people.
So idk ... but im still committed to the storge to agape approach. But i may have to fit in there like more of a flirty nonserious vibe even if at times i am not in a mood to be playful. Ive been very serious in recent years which i believe scares girls ive liked because i think it becomes a lot of pressure for the girl when i seem way more interested in her than she may have ever thought of being with me ya know. Also when im depressed i can definitely come off needy unfortunately. I got a lot of self work i need to do
Oh also my conversations never become talking about sexually arousing topics idk if thats an issue to or not ... not that i cant i just dont really think much about things like that naturally and would only care to talk about it with someone i know is open minded not some random i find physically attractive but is wack. But maybe i should be more open to that cuz it would be odd if i finally get someone and we are both so unfamiliar with how to be sexual in anyway xD.
Im aware of all these things tho now so hope i can figure it out
@@matthewcuriel991 good for you, honestly you sound like an awesome guy. If I wasn't already taken... haha
But anyway, good wishes in your search!
@@matthewcuriel991 That was a very emotionally mature response. When I had a TikTok, some psychiatrist guy did results of what women and men look for in a mate. It came down to the same argument: men want beauty, women want money. I commented and said “My first thought is how is he going to treat me?” The men that replied called BS and I had to argue that I have a career that pays me well, but I’ve had some terrible relationships because I’d give my all and they’d lose interest. The best thing I’ve learned is to walk with quiet confidence and I speak to as many men at work as I do women and basically in the same manner with the same energy. I think people see that as sincere, I don’t know. I’m married now so I don’t worry about that anymore. However, we took our relationship really slow because I got out of a relationship with a narcissist and everything I tried to do was wrong and I felt reduced to ashes. I had to learn to trust again. I was ready to call it quits at 35 years old.
I gotta say I try to fight it, but I sometimes feel the mania in my love style because I do get jealous and lonely and sometimes I have been too codependent in past relationships. I've found it's easier for me to be single and seek more of a platonic bond with someone that develops naturally rather than trying to go looking for romantic relationships. Platonic stuff feels so much better because then I'm less uncertain about a person which makes me more comfortable and confident in our relationship.
I'm a mix of Pragma (Practical love), Storge (Platonic love), and Agape (Selfless love). However, I'm mainly in the Storge category and pretty much always have been. Everything in this video that was said about Storge fits my love style perfectly. I do have a little bit of other love styles mixed in, too. I'm just mainly in the Storge category right now
I’m almost exactly the same. How neat!
I'm similar; same mix, though I lean more into Agape
It's so wonderful to know that we're not alone in this sense
oh.. look at you, aren't you special...
@@Dm3qXY I don't understand. Did I say something to offend you? I'm very sorry if I did
Love yourself, be you. Take care of yourself and put yourself first. That's the most beautiful love.
❤ _Timestamps_ ❤
0:46 - Eros - Passionate Love
1:24 - Mania - Obsessive Love
2:00 - Ludus - Game-Playing Love
2:34 - Pragma - Practical Love
3:10 - Storge - Platonic Love
4:05 - Agape - Selfless Love
“Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough” ― Oprah Winfrey ✨
Being grateful is a TOTAL GAME CHANGER! ❤️
Aww Natalie your so sweet i just want to hug you
When I was younger, I definitely had Manic Love Style.
Now I'm Storge and Agape depending on who it is.
Amazing how we grow.
I find myself a mixture of pretty much all these love styles but I most relate to Agape because me and my significant other are both making sure the other is comfortable or okay. I tend to over look my own feelings and focus more on my partner's but they also understand that and try to make me feel better in turn. We also decided to get to know eachother first before starting anything serious so we were friends before hand.
My crush cares deeply about me. I was on the verge of having a panic attack for like a week, and I couldn't hold out anymore. I just text her "Help" and she calls me as soon as she saw my text. We hung out for about 3 hours the next day, and cuddled for a bit. She tells me I'm one of the most important people in her life. Yet I still think I'm in the friend zone.
I'm definitely a Storge love kind of guy.
Make a move!
@@azrael4771 I lightly flirt with her all the time. Last one was just before we parted ways, when we were about to drive off, I knocked on her window and said "Hey.. I gotta say something. You don't have to reply. I just want to say you're extremely gorgeous." And ran away before I started blushing. I heard her say "awwe, you just made my day.". This was an especially difficult day for her.
I'm bad at this stuff haha. I'm very shy.
@@ZancoIntel She definitely likes you. By the way, it's been 2 years, did you ever tell her how you feel?
learning about these different types of love would have really helped me when i was struggling with my sexual orientation. it makes so much sense that my love style is platonic because i’ve recently come to the conclusion that i’m aroace since i’ve never experienced any kind of romantic or sexual attraction to others
Hello other aroace
@@average-neco-arc-enjoyer hello!
...this showed up in my feed after I commented on someone's post about being demotivated and feeling guilty for not posting. Where I made myself cry with how emotional said comment was getting.
This feels very relevant.
Agape love is talked abt frequently in my religion. How followers should be selfless and kind to one another even with ppl who hurt us we are expected to turn the other cheek. It's hard sometimes and not always do we live up to expectations but it's wonderful having agape love as our standard.
Amen to that, brother/sister!
Yes! I love in the agape style, but do have boundaries for who I spend my time with. 💗💜💙
This video in particular is amazing! The voice is as calming and relaxing as usual, the drawings are really cute too! Don't know who the artist is, but they really did an awesome work! Thank you Psych2Go for being here ♡ I really appreciate your company over though times and your videos that always cheer me up! 🧡
I’ve learned that your love style changes and grows with you and thanks okay 💜
i'm a platonic+selfless definitely
the selfless is mostly because id definitely destroy my sanity to help make someone happy. cuz them being happy gives me instant dopamine
I like to think that the person making these is actually every one of these at the same time.
LOL how come ?
@@Psych2go because you seem to know each love type, personality type, just everything as if you were that kind of person 🤣
“Everything that is made beautiful and fair and lovely is made for the eye of one who sees.”
-Rumi
I learned something new today! definitely have a mix of Mania and Pragma. Basically I won't become obsessed with someone unless I think the relationship is practical.... It's a strange combination and I've found many girls can find it off putting at times. I've definitely been trying to change more to Pragma over Mania, but I also have OCD so that can be very difficult at times.
I'm bisexual , tho.. most of the time I feel like Im not attracted to anybody.. I have one bestie , other people think we're couple , but actually we're not , it's platonic
hey I've got a suggestion for ya :D
check out the aro-spec and the ace-spec :]
I feel the same, at least not romantically attracted so I think I’m on the aromantic spectrum
Idk sounds p aro to me...
sounds aromantic to me
Love and sex are not the same thing, although people often confuse the two. Love is emotional. Sex is physical. You can love someone and not want / need to have sex with them, and you can have sex with someone without loving them.
As someone who's balancing on Pragma, Storge and Agabe but is like zero Eros, i find it difficult to be with someone because most of the time they all have Eros love style, im uncapable of it. Like showing my love is such a private intimate process for me, that either i distance myself from them when they want to show that much affection or i start "cringing". And than they mistake it as me disliking them or finding it creepy. But it's not that, I show my love through cooking you hearty meals, taking care of you and your stuff and as a payback a simple thank you or listening to me how my day was, is plenty enough. However by far no one really understood that, because media's potrayal of love is really only shown in eros style, and once you have different lovestyle, especially being young and being girl, they find it weird.
Ah, it's reassuring to hear that others have that love style too; makes me feel less alone. Cheers from one human to another! 💕
@@simpette_2.0 💖 We know we're not the only ones like that, but it's hard finding people who understand
Great Info, Really Had no Idea there is soo many Love Styles, Thanks For Sharing.
Definitely Storge! I often have to be friends with potential partners for a long while before anything happens! Unfortunately a little bit of Mania sprinkled in too, In past relationships I can become too attached and obsessive, but getting older I've been able to reel that in and I'm much less obsessive now
The beauty of Storge is that you have a chance to decide if the relationship would be healthy or fulfilling, and there's a possibility that you could walk away with a great friend even if it doesn't work out.
I'm speaking as someone who has 3 friends who I've known for 5+ years, and I still talk to them all consistently, but I would never want to date any of them.
this channel help me SO MUCH ^^
like, i'm saying *seriously* i learned a ton of things just watching your videos
Thanks psyche2go you are my go to channel on TH-cam! I love everything you do!
Glad you enjoy it! Which love style did you relate to?
I ended up with agape!
I was watching this thinking "well, I'm not that... I'm not that either... wow, that's not me at all... am I none of these??" But then the last one, selfless love, came on and I was like oh, there it is, 100% for sure.
I will say though, it sounds great, but it can actually be a super destructive and unhealthy love style. I've been in several very toxic relationships because my desire to please them and put their needs before my own often creates an uneven power balance in the relationship. Relationships should be a give-and-take situation. Not just take, but not just give either.
Everyone deserves to be loved 😊
Ikr. I used to think I had to earn it until I saw this one TH-camr Jordan green explain it.
Yes, you shouldn't have to prove your worth to others to earn love. Love is a kindness that is meant to be shared. With over 8 billion people in the world, a lot of love is to be shared!
Oh, my is Mania for sure. She is litteraly the only person who can comfort me, and can fullfil the need of human warm touch. And pretty much the only person who did *not* gave me any traumas.
Really loved this video.
I didn't even know there were 6 styles.
I think I'm agape. I've had instances where I felt I was taken for granted, but I'm glad now I'm found some people that don't make me feel that way.
Right now I just enjoy being physical & spending time together, literally just being on a room together & chatting a little bit here & there
I think I'm a pretty big mix of eros and agape, it all fits very well with my personality, ideals and my general identity that my close friends seems to agree I'm like.
edit: after reflecting, and realising I am bi, I have different love styles for either gender. that first set was for female attraction. for men it's more Eros, mania, pragma and agape.
OMG THIS VIDEO SAVED ME FROM THINKING I'M CRAZY !!!
I was starting to feel desperate about somehow having "chosen to play against the meta" by making all the "wrong decisions" in respect to maximizing my chances of finding a mate that accepts me...
Turns out I'm just the Storge Type. And yeah, it's out of the meta right now, since we have had so much advertising for Eros, and Ludus... because it sells well...
Mine for sure is 7: no love. Have never experienced love and know never will. Have only experienced rejections, and his lack of opportunity only makes it even more impossible, people still try to fool him by saying there's still hope, but the truth is there were never a chance from the begining, but lying is the only thing they could offer to him.
what r u talking about :( yknow there are soooooo many people in the world so saying u will never find love is IMPOSSIIBLLLE!! the only thing that makes it impossible to find love is ur mindset!! if u have a negative mindst with relationships, then negative things will happen in that area. for me i haven't really had a love bc i dont really commit to them and just get anxious and depressed when i think about it idk whyyyyy. but i will try and see if i an fix it! good luck to u though!
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This is the absolute insanely cutest animation/drawing I’ve ever seen on this channel or quite frankly, anywhere 🥺🥰😙💕💙💖💗💞💜💖💜💛💛💙💖💛💓💙💗💕💙💕💞💛💛💕💗💜 huge props to the artist!!
wow, the last one hit home, the only time that I have actually felt real love and not just a crush, was on my best friend! After 5 years I realised I was in love with her and I could not focus on anything else! xD Though I told her too late and she was straight sooo.. :')
Edit: I thought platonic love was the last one, but hey both are very accurate lol
I’m a mix between mania and agape, I put other people above me at times because of my low self esteem and I am very co dependent. However after talking a lot I’m becoming more laid back and independent. It’s not easy but if you guys have been going through something similar all you need to do it’s communicate and take a break. Trust me you’ll feel a lot better that way.
When I used to get into relationships, I used to be a mix of Eros, Mania, Storge, and Agape.
I really loved my partner, and I would give the world to them for their happiness, because that made me happy. I trusted them, and I made sure that every day, they were happy and felt reassured.
I guess that's why I never had one last longer than a year, because I trusted them and never believed they would turn their back on me, but they did. Felt like every girl and guy I dated was Ludus, and sometimes Pragma. They never seemed to care about me or how I felt, despite how much affection I gave them. Only one relationship never ended in cheating, out of, I think, about 30+ relationships.
Maybe I'm just a horrible person. I haven't been in a relationship or had any friends for 3 years. I'm desperate for love, but I know no one's going to give it to me. Besides, I missed my chance with my dream girl, which was that one relationship that hadn't ended. If I failed that, who's to say I won't fail the rest? Or that they'll just cheat on me again?
Well, I'm not old enough to date people but we can be friends if you give me some way of contacting you (if I ever get my new phone working lol)
When I watched this, I matched 3 love styles. 1, 2, and 4. So, I'm a mixture of love styles and that's just who I am.
Ah there is a girl I like soo muchh. But she has a boyfriend. I just can't get over this girll. It's been a month since I know she has a bf but i can't forget about her. This video is definitely a sign. Either to keep thinking abt her or to forget her. Thanks for the video!!
Forget her, it's the right thing to do. I was in a similar situation and I've been really happy since.
@@estevano.5139 You're right but i already said I am not able to
Honestly you could make a video talking about the end of the world and I would still feel relaxed like how is your voice so g*sh darn soothing?!
Thank you again for this insightful video. Personally, I recognized myself in the last three categories of love. First, I'm more into platonic love (Storge), followed by practical love (Pragma) and, finally, selfless love (Agape). Probably, the first three ones are too much for me! (lol!) I've always have a quiet, intellectual, shy and introverted personality. So, that could explain, at least partially, my three dominant styles of love. In my conception of love, love is a version of friendship carried to a higher degree. I know very well that it could easily sound boring and that doesn’t make strong children, as they say. 😆 But, that's the way I am!
Same to all of this
Agape is also known as "Unconditional love" and is the kind God feels for his children. 😊
I think the last one fits me the most but I don't have an interest in a person so truly I don't know but if I fell in love with someone the 6th one is the way I show love to the partner ☺❤
Actually I have bipolar disorder so mania comes easy for me, sadly. This opened my eyes, I'll try to love myself first before heading straight into love again.
I relate a lot to Eros and Storge love, but I want to include Agape as I consider the most valuable kind of love ☺️
Samee
Yea I'm definitely Agape! My partners happiness always puts a smile on my face and makes me feel good!
Not sure how much of this is defined by the style that a person loves universally or moreso that they have a certain type of love for different people in their lives. For instance - someone may have the agape love style towards their children, but may have a pragma love style with their partner.
I think that’s ambiguous which is fine
i think it can be change for a moment or mood. Cuz i can be 2 of them (love styles) to a partner?
I feel the love styles I fall under are Pragma (I do expect the future partner to be kind hearted), Storge (Being demiromantic (originally thought I was aromantic), though I still would consider friendship a critical stepping stone towards romance regardless), and Agape (I feel people deserve to be loved unconditionally with no strings attached and expect nothing in return). I actually more likely use the latter two as I value genuine friendships and make sure others get loved. Especially, with how difficult life is for many others.
Good and bad news: I’m a mix of Eros, Storge, Mania, and Agape so my emotions are a rollercoaster :,)
Also Psi is so cute 😍🌱
I'm a mix of all of them 😭
My way has always been Agape, but people do not understand and reciprocate and take it for granted, they've been so used to my kindness that they don't value it anymore...So now I'm trying to be a Pragma and trying to value myself a bit more instead of others.
Definitely started as eros, as I experience my first relationship I've learned that storge is the way my mind is heading after I'm done healing from this break up.
Good wishes on your healing and future loves!
Nice for you
That's me, I'm the platonic one and agape as well. I've been known to connect with people I feel a friendly connection with. However it hasn't lead me to the happiest places or situations. I think it's time to switch up my strategy. Also I don't know when to show agape love to others now. I've kind of built walls around myself for those early days due to past experiences. However if I feel more of a platonic love I naturally show those sides of me. And I can see how this would make romantic partners jealous of my kindness at times. It's down right hurtful to be excessively giving to someone the opposite sex and to put limitations on the love you give your partner. This can also come off as flirty or worse make your partner feel like theirs a valid reason you're going to cheat. Why put that much effort into a platonic relationship and not show up for your own.
wait this is unlisted
the problem with having agape love is realizing your partner is not reciprocating back into you like you are them
For the majority of my life I’ve considered myself a demi-romantic (although I might also be aro-flux.) I definitely relate to storge the most of all of them. And can relate a little bit pragmatic and Eros too but not as much. :)
demiromantic and storge are basically the same thing so that makes sense
I am definitely Storge. I like to associate the description in the video with my asexuality because all the times I've ever fallen in love it's because I've been friends with them for a long time, people who value me and gain my trust while playing fair. But Agape also hits close to home, so I'm assuming I'm both! haha
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Whatchu got in store
LMAOO-
Thanks for pointing it out, I greatly appreciate it :')
I love the videos of this channel, it really helps to be relaxed; I think my love style is a mixture of selfless love, agape love, and platonic love, a bit more selfless love than the other two (even though I have never been in a relationship 😅)
I'm aroace, so I've never really felt love that would translate into a romantic relationship. The closest I've ever gotten is platonic, and it's never gotten to the point described by this video
Agape and Storge. I only trust close friends, but, I definitely go out of my way to help and compliment strangers more than most people. 🤔
Amazing, just amazing.
Thanks :)
it's also important to remember that all those kind of love can blend with each other, in general our love style is a combination of those.
I'm a mix of Storge and Ludus, but my love style changes a lot over time. I like spending quality time with my crush/male friend (who knows that I like him back) and I also love exploring relationships and sometimes feel the urge to just end a relationship. I've cheated many times on my online boyfriends, and I'm glad I'm not with them anymore as they're not people I've met in real life.
LMAOOO 🤣 😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣 ne too ahhhahahahahaha
God’s love is AGAPE ❤️
I am definitely a Storge. Thank you posting this video. I didn't even know that there was more than one love style until a while ago. I'm glad I found mine
Came as fast as I could. Maybe this is a sign someone out there is for me, as in couple shit.
Did you relate to any of these styles?
Did you relate to any of these styles?
@@Psych2go I did see myself as an eros and storge
Not a real story, but I used to imagine the time that my partner always has good success in her education while for me, even if I’m not low esteemed in education, my grades are average but aren’t as high hers, but she always sees me interesting because I’m very special compared to other boys she met. For her it felt like, something magical inside me, and she wants to use that not only for her, but for me as well, that’s why she wants to pair with me so the magic that I have helps me and her.
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I feel like everyone may have a unique mix of multiple of these. At least about me I am pretty sure I only fall into one of these categories. Everyone is unique and special.
I am definitely a mix of Platonic and Selfless love . Would do anything for my SO , but I want the relation to be intimate and stable . Don’t need to be friends for long , but I am scared of ruining any friendships
Anyways , here is a little confession . I might ask out my long-term crush out for a date tomorrow , but I am a 4/10 , 5/10 at best . She is like truly gorgeous , but I don’t think she feels the same way . Gonna ask her out if she thinks I am cool enough
What happened?
@@Artsu1993 well , what I expected . It was a no . But she said that we could be good friends , so I guess that’s a win? Maybe?
@@thelaw11 proud of you for asking out. The same happened to me when I asked a girl out. It's maybe w
@@Artsu1993 hope so its a W . Best of luck for our future endeavors
Storge seems to be how I'll handle things when getting in a relationship.
Here while it has a pending thumbnail lol
wow, 4weeks ago…
@@urami54 it finally has a thumbnail
I'm Eros with a touch of Mania. I get really REALLY head-over-heels obsessed, but I'm not controlling or jealous as someone with the Mania love style. I just get really sad and lonely when I'm without my partner. But it is all worth it the next time you meet, because the waiting is finally over!
Haha i still can’t get Over the cute animations lol
Thank you :) Would you like to see more of this animation?
@@Psych2go I definitely would :)
@@Psych2go yes! Definitely:D
“I just want to be loved”
-more than one person on the internet
my last relationship was mania love, I was very obsessive with my partner and even stalked them, however they were very aware of this and allowed me to continue
After the breakup (which was an issue unrelated to my obsession, but the fact they are dealing with past relationship issues)
After I somewhat healed from it all, I'm now dating someone who has been crushing on me for a long time, and for once I'm not as obsessive
Instead, I am finally in a poly relationship without the urge to return to obsessive mania
Animation was super cute, please keep this up
Love your videos :)
Glad you like them! Which point did you relate to the most?
@@Psych2go eros ❤
Never actually been in love, but with the closest people to me now (friends), I'm Agape, and I feel like the closest I could get is a mix of that and Storge with a bit of Mania sprinkled in from Anxiety-related past experiences
You need CC (Arabic & many language) in your channel.
That was amazing! I love this channel very much. Thank u.
Hey Psych2Go, I wondered if U would make a video to help me with my situation and I understand that others might be struggling with this too. So I’ve had a massive crush on this boy in my class since January. He’s really sweet and funny and he’s always smiling lol but the thing is... he isn’t my friend, he’s just like a class mate so I can’t really do what I guess other people would do in this situation. I feel like I’ve already blown it with him as when we used to talk to me in computing I would literally just smile and laugh a little and I didn’t actually say anything back :/
So what I’m asking for is some advice on how to move on. I think about him 24/7 (it’s hard to explain but there’s a song called one day by Tate McRae that summons it up perfectly lol) I don’t think he likes me back and I’m too scared to tell him but say another really nice guy came up to me and asked me out, even if I could see us together in the future, I’d have to refuse cos I’m in love with my crush!
If he's funny and smiles alot, asking him out is the best solution. He's going to be friendly, even if he doesn't love you back.
@@Gree_Fi lol I guess you’re right but even if he says he doesn’t like me I’ll still love him and I’ll always be thinking about him but then that means that I am focusing on something for no reason and I don’t know how to get out of it :”(
As a high functioning autistic with anger stress anxiety and depression issues I consider myself more of a practical love style, while the very last style of love reminds me of Tilla mayday from the hell of a boss fanfiction, and that love style is what I'm looking for in a life-partner
Mixed: 60% PLATONIC LOVE 20% SELFLESS LOVE 20% EROS😜
I learned about these in communications class and we took a quiz. When the teacher asked about our types I raised my hand over-enthusiastically and looked my crush in class and no one else raised their hand and I felt very awkward lol!
I feel like my style is somewhere between Agape and Storge. I've not actually fallen in love that I know of, but I've been in multiple relationships where I'm usually trying to make the other person happy. But with the Agape love style, I do tend to give a lot to whoever I'm with at the time whenever I can, but I tend to feel a sense of guilt when they try to give me stuff. I have troubles accepting gifts from my friends and partners, even if they're cheap dollar store things. I think I'd rather my thank you from them in hugs and attention rather than gifts? I'm not really sure bout this stuff. And I have no idea how to tell if I love someone. Whenever someone's overly kind to me or just little complements, I start to blush or my heart "flutters". This has caused a lot of confusion and I have no idea what to do. Any advice?
Who love their lover in all of those way .....raise it hand .🙋
My love style is not having a partner😐
I felt that...
Started off with Mania and Agape until one heartbreak changed me to Pragma and Storge. It took a while but I appreciate the life lessons because now I'm in a happier place for it
The problem with this kind of pigeonholing is always... there is not a total of 6 types or 10 types, or you name it. Every single human is different, so every try to categorize covers only a few colors of the spectrum. We need to keep this in mind while watching pigeonhole-videos. Of course they are pleasant to watch too.
They said they're were gonna use the color wheel theory of love and explaining. They didn't say there is just two, six, ten or thousand types of love, just explained the theory. No one has a tag or a fabric-setting where everyone is the same. You should learn to comprehend a text next time.
In the beginning she did say it's a theory
If I have to be honest,the one I felt the closest to myself is number 5-storge(platonic love) because I always dream to have a friendship with that person and then to start a relationship...if the friendship doesn't go well,that means he/she isn't right for you...and if a friend disappoints you,he/she may not be a good partner as well who you can trust.You should trust that person really well,in my opinion.
John 3:16
[16]For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
Luke 13:3
[3]I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.
John 14:6
[6]Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
Jeremiah 29:13
King James Version
13 And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.
Matthew 18:11
For the Son of man is come to save that which was lost.
John 8:12
[12]Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.
Matthew 4:17
From that time Jesus began to preach, and to say, Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.
Romans 10:9
That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
Romans 10:13
For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Luke 6:27-38
But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you,
6:28 Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you.
6:29 And unto him that smiteth thee on the one cheek offer also the other; and him that taketh away thy cloak forbid not to take thy coat also.
6:30 Give to every man that asketh of thee; and of him that taketh away thy goods ask them not again.
6:31 And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise.
6:32 For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them.
6:33 And if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? for sinners also do even the same.
6:34 And if ye lend to them of whom ye hope to receive, what thank have ye? for sinners also lend to sinners, to receive as much again.
6:35 But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
6:36 Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.
6:37 Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:
6:38 Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.
Ephesians 2:8-9
For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
Not of works, lest any man should boast.
2 Chronicles 7:14
If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
Matthew 5:2-12
King James Version
2 And he opened his mouth, and taught them, saying,
3 Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4 Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.
5 Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.
6 Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.
7 Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.
8 Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.
9 Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.
10 Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
11 Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.
12 Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.
Matthew 24:4-14
And Jesus answered and said unto them, Take heed that no man deceive you.
24:5 For many shall come in my name, saying, I am Christ; and shall deceive many.
24:6 And ye shall hear of wars and rumours of wars: see that ye be not troubled: for all these things must come to pass, but the end is not yet.
24:7 For nation shall rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom: and there shall be famines, and pestilences, and earthquakes, in divers places.
24:8 All these are the beginning of sorrows.
24:9 Then shall they deliver you up to be afflicted, and shall kill you: and ye shall be hated of all nations for my name's sake.
24:10 And then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another.
24:11 And many false prophets shall rise, and shall deceive many.
24:12 And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.
24:13 But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved.
24:14 And this gospel of the kingdom shall be preached in all the world for a witness unto all nations; and then shall the end come.
Exodus 20
King James Version
20 And God spake all these words, saying,
2 I am the Lord thy God, which have brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage.
3 Thou shalt have no other gods before me.
4 Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth.
5 Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me;
6 And shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments.
7 Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain; for the Lord will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain.
8 Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy.
9 Six days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work:
10 But the seventh day is the sabbath of the Lord thy God: in it thou shalt not do any work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter, thy manservant, nor thy maidservant, nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is within thy gates:
11 For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: wherefore the Lord blessed the sabbath day, and hallowed it.
12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.
13 Thou shalt not kill.
14 Thou shalt not commit adultery.
15 Thou shalt not steal.
16 Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour.
17 Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's.
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Here are the ones that I am part of : somewhat Eros (Passionate), very much Storge (Platonic), and also part Agape (Selfless). Probably like a 20 - 50 - 30 (right now, and probably the best ratio I could have done).
I really enjoyed the art style on this one!
Storge and Pragma resonate with me, ...and that's something new I learnt about myself.
i relate a lot to storge but also a lil bit to agape !! also, i am questioning aromantic (tho i literally have a cursh on someone rn--) so this was actually rly helpful!! i figured out a few weeks ago that im aromantic in the sense that i develop crushes/etc but dont necessarily want to be in a romantic relationship with said crush, at least not physically (as in, i'd wanna be their partner but only label-wise, i have 0 interest in doing "coupley" things) so i feel like storge fits pretty well!! im rly happy i found this, thank u psych2go
I feel like this is something that keeps changing throughout my whole life and also depends on the person I love...
(also I feel like I have a little bit of all of these🤷🏻♀️)