She won't leave...it's sad...🤦🏾♀️...I hope her son will try again to talk some sense into her. I am surprised TLC doesn't promote premarital counseling though...but, not really...they are just interested in making money🤷🏾♀️
@@klaird_h4727 True. TLC is all about the money. That's why Angela the horror woman is still on the show. Kims son Jamal is intelligent, loves his mother, I hope he will take a long talk with Kim.
Agreed!! That's why he never mentioned the 2nd wife so he could have kids! Unless that's on next episode ciz he never told his mom when he saw her alone
@@lovahgurl if you don't understand nor care about other cultures just say that. You have been crying all over this comment section judging this woman. Clearly she DIDN'T raise him this way because she doesn't approve.
When the brother said she’s trying to bribe us I almost died. Usman didn’t even look bothered by the family not excepting her, he was just doing enough to make her feel confident in him
Usman wants children more than anything and he knows that Kim is so insanely jealous that she would never accept a second or even third wife for Usman . She could never handle it . He is not the man for her at all .
She's crazy, but same question for Usman, why is he so desperate? He already knows his other will not approve and he keep saying he wants children yet keeps dating older women.
@@toluani7690 yep, it is like kids playing. Usman display little boy behavior over and over again and Kim being older you would think she would use her brain but no.
I agree she does need some counselling, she is not seeing things the way they really are. She need to wake up and see that man for what he really is. WAKE UP KIM!!!
Amen! In his culture [not race, God made one race] certain principles apply, and Usman need to either respect them or just decide not to follow them and stop trying to get his Mum and family to bless his mess. Children are your future!!!
You are right her ex is in prison for murder,so now she thinks he loves her face it kim stop buying and he will throw u back to the US.Go visit a good psycho Dr
@@myrtleborodziuk7163 Kim listen everyone is concerned about you. Go home take care of yourself, spend time with your son, mother, family and good friends.🤚
You right about that. I still haven't heard any of his music. What a shame and Kim is still thinking he got something going on. Usman grow up and stop using older women who just don't know any better.
@@zeezeeabbas4190 The way I see it, they are both using each other. One to get a green card while the other to fulfill a dream to be with a singer/rapper/MJ wannabe
@@malaika2863 He those not need the American to be popular, we like him here in Africa just like that .. and what is even in America that he want to go it is not save for him ..
I could do a pretty good job of judging her from over here how about that. Allow me to start with the fact that her son uses human beings to get what he wants in the world I would say that's a pretty disgusting upbringing if you ask me see how that works everybody can be f****** judged
Listen to another Nigerian who knows what he is talking about. Go home and find that man who is looking to find you and live happily ever after. Forget about Usman he is really a userman
@@zeezeeabbas4190 but I don’t think he really wants to leave Nigeria, do you? I’ve never heard him actually say that or even elude to it. I think he’s only on this show to promote his music “career” (I use that term loosely)
Frankly I think that Kim is in love with the idea of Usman, of falling in love with her fantasy man.... someone exotic, creative, young and sexy (to her).... and not the reality of life with Usman (multiple wives, large hostile extended family, multiple thirsty fans, large blocks of time spent apart, different customs, age prejudice, etc) When he picked her out of a crowd of female admirers to be with her, that was her super fan crush dream come true. No doubt she feels as if she has won the lottery. Eventually reality will catch up with her. But for now she's too busy wearing her rose colored glasses while building her house in the clouds and picking out furniture.
Shouldn't say eew.. She is who she is at least she has the confidence to put herself out there. Her problem is that she fell for his bullshit but then again that's all we see. Maybe he needed to get himself out there again to put his career out in front and TLC found somebody to put him in the front running again. For all we know this whole thing could be a bunch of crap. I just feel bad for her if it's real and I think he is a freaking asshole for playing at this far. He knew what he was doing he knew his mom needed a cow so hey let's take it one step further and have somebody give her a cow for free oh hey this is a class of case of Why by the cow when you can get the milk for free only she ended up buying the cow🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@NinaSimone3 she's not the most attractive woman but I don't think any of us should be making fun of her looks. I really don't that bugs me when people talk about people being ugly and icky and gross it's not their fault I mean unfortunately she's got one of those face compositions that even a makeover isn't going to help her there's just some people that make up it doesn't work for other people that transforms. Like I said before she's at least how's the self-esteem to put herself out there and who knows maybe it is her heart and maybe it's just for the paycheck who knows we don't know we aren't there. But of usman's sister and mother think that they're anything to look at and his brothers as well, they need to take a good look in the mirror because they are not the most attractive people in the world Kim is better looking than they are. Usman's sick obsession with old women he really needs some therapy. Basically he's pimping himself off and that's the eeeeeew part.
@@annaseidita7276 his obsession is pretty much the thought process of "the older the desperate" and ups his chances of getting a green card, gifts and money while simultaneously seeing other women (his type aka Zara). He's a straight up F boy. I'm pretty sure his family members don't think that they are super models. I have to empathize with them wanting him to be with someone he actually likes for love and have a family. He's a user. Too bad she doesn't love herself more while having all this courage to show herself to the world..... On word: YIKES 😬
Can you imagine going through your bank statement and seeing a $500 purchase and saying to yourself “oh that’s the time I bought a cow…” 😅 How often do we get to say that lol
I noticed that too.. you know, I think that Usman’s mother is not just trying to protect him, she’s trying to protect Kimbally. I think she has a sense that her son is using women, and his mom is a tough woman herself. I think she’s trying to stop him from using women for green cards.
Stop Kim. Second old woman thinking his family accept her. No one in his family cares for you, she is old. TLC needs to stop these type of relationships, old woman, young boy in third world countries. Stop.
I bet Usman told his mom, "whatever you do, do not allow me to marry this old American lady when she comes over!" If he really wanted to marry Kim he would just do it as he did with that old Lisa lady!
Thing is, Kim shouldn't have gotten her hopes so high. She already knew his mom was not gonna approve. Ngl I didn't expect the bribe claim this time around 😂😂 I can see why his family said that tho lol
Usman is such a jerk. Using that poor old insecure woman knowing he will never marry her regardless of what his family said. He is using her for whatever he can get.
Came here after seeing her at the reunion attacking Ximena for being a "gold digger" meanwhile she's a whole sugar mama, the lack of self awareness and hypocrisy wow
I am an African-American woman, and I would feel intimidated sitting in that room for one not understanding what a word they are saying and for two not fully understanding their culture whole heartedly. Kim is BOLD!
you would be accepting more. it wouldn't matter if you knew the language or not. as long as you are young fertile African woman. sent your genetically connected to the continent you would make the perfect wife. only thing is this dude is just straight trash.
Usmans mom is my hero! She's literally no drama mama! When Usmans brother said "she's trying to bribe us" I was on the floor😂😂😂, Then sister said" May God take her from our home" that was it....may I say something👋🏽6× was the icing. Kim deserves 👏🏽 all this bull$hit! She need a therapist not a young African husband!
He knew his mom and the rest of his family wouldn't approve and he still took her.🤦🏾♀️ and she knew it to and still followed his lead into the lions den.
I don't think he's all that popular. I know with all these world wide women than why does he go for older women..think he has a problem. Even if he wants American women geese least find one his age
@@carolynwindham3264 yes I think the many many women are only in his head. Zara was very pretty and from the US, but she wasn’t going to let him use her or put up with all his crap.
Unfortunately in this culture the men listen to whatever their mother says. Kim get back to the USA and find another man, I'm sure there is a man here waiting to meet you. Good luck and forget about Usman he doesn't really loves you. He has been using you all along.
She may not speak their language, but she can see their faces. She knows they’re not happy. For whatever reason, because she can’t understand the words, the sentiment is super clear. It’s like when I first met the parents of my partner who didn’t speak the same language as I did at that time, I could tell they were happy to meet and know me. And they pressed him to translate every single thing I said. Now I speak enough of that language that I can understand what they say a fair bit of the time. And yes, they like me. They have even joked with one another about how “she’s the child we should have had and just never did.” Which sounds awful, but culturally, that’s a common point of humour.
I find it really odd that he didn’t mention to his mom that Kim would be his first wife. If he had more than one wife one that could have children I don’t think she would care as much.
She still wouldn't approve of old, white, American Kim. Too many Housa women would happily take care of Usman, happily marry him and give him all the children he wants.
@@susanmorales5433 I believe in the muslum/islamic culture its is normally tradition for the husband to have more than one wife, however, generally speaking, it is not common for them to go into the first marriage already thinking about the second. That talk normally happens after the first marriage, so maybe that is why he didn’t bring it up. Or perhaps TLC maybe cut it out the segment or something idk
Lol a nigerian man especiallyba hausa that that does not know how to count money??? Lol they can do that eyes close. Nah he already knew how much was inside. Money comes in pack snd he know how mucj is in each pack
Oh. I thought she pulled out all the stops (big expensive gifts, whining, harassing, threatening to have her Son beat him up) to make Usman like her. And now it's his mother she wants to persuade.🤦🤷 oh, Kim.
That You ,,, someone gets it . I say this show is Acting mostly not their real lives ,,None of them , meaning even the ones are married a while.they act to bring the Drama; as they can’t get along with each other families, or they are arguing over this or that , most FamiliesLOVE each OTHER FAMILIES and they Enjoy Family time with in Laws , I followed and watch them on other channel Happily Ever After enjoying each other ,, Black jack is one of the TH-cam channels , I watched some on, Some Are Making that Money,, and get payed on their Social media accounts to promote Items to buy Ask me it’s like a Tv Soda Channel.
@@Blue-jq9wu these reality shows are just to entertain us ha! Even I have moments and yell at the TV in anger. But then I have to remind myself these people are getting paid to act like fools ha! It's for our entertainment but I sometimes take these shows too seriously😊
He keeps telling everyone he is instantly famous, yet no one from his country or town they don't know anything about him, not even his music hes a conman I feel sorry for kim in a way, her heart of giving., Usman knew his mum already the answer was no no. I think hes in all this for anything he can get. Kim hes using you come home I live alone I have plenty of friends please he won't change they never do.
I think Usman was aware of how his family would react before he brought Kim there; he simply wanted an excuse to claim that they are the main roadblock for their relationship not to move forward +so his mom could have a free cow to herself! 🐄🐮
Why is it Usman always says that the women love him, he doesn't ever say he fell in love with anyone? Its like he makes it sound like he's doing them a favor!
Usman is full of crap. He want a green card so bad but he is using American women and hurting them on the way. Women beware of men like Usman there are plenty of them out there. BEWARE!!!
@@africaine4889 yes and because he said, "I wants my Green card" we all know now that is all he wants. I hope she leaves him soon, so he doesn't get his Green card 🥊
@D&B I can't read this. You're too invested. Treating someone with decency, no matter how much you disapprove of your own son's choice, is the least they could have done.
What kind of woman would intentionally wants to move to a place where she has to ask if she can speak?? He's a zero in most categories, ticks no boxes in appearance education talent kindness etc. Hell no!!!
@@pearlsplumvlog1746 It was male. Females are cows and males are bulls. Watch again, when they delivered it they said that the bull was there. This confused me also. I grew up on a farm and bulls are for breeding and females milk/babies/meat. I guess some people may eat bulls, but I don’t think a lot of people do. Supposedly it is more tough. Poor Kim….
@@keekat65 it's a cultural thing we refer to both sex as Cow, when we say bull we are talking of an actual bull... translation translated it to bull,if you go to the goat market to buy a bull they'll be looking at you in a funny way ,but when you say cow they know what you want 😄
@@pearlsplumvlog1746 9:20 that's 100% a bull, and every culture that keeps cattle eats bulls (unless by "bull" you mean an older and/or uncastrated adult). half of the calves born will always be bulls, and they can only be used for meat or as beasts of burden, or for breeding, but that requires typically only one bull per herd of cows. I think this looks like quite a young bull, not yet fully grown, so it may well be good for slaughter within the next couple of months. I would expect bulls to be cheaper than cows (except for very special bulls for breeding, those can be the most expensive since one bull with good genes can produce hundreds of times more calves than a cow with good genes), so this must have been because kim wanted something cheaper. either that, or usman said that his family would only be interested in meat, not in milking a cow or breeding more calves, in which case a bull would have been the more reasonable option (or also if it's intended for use as a working animal, as bulls grow bigger and stronger... though I'm not sure how early those need to be castrated and if this one already was). edit: 'bull' does mean uncastrated, but that's definitely a male either way.
@@Ass_of_Amalek are you Nigerian? Going by your name you're definitely not 😊I said what I said and only a Nigerian would understand what I meant, I didnt say it's not a bull,I said we refer to both sex as cows ...
🤣🤣 FINALLY! Someone said it! They really need to put their feet down with Usman bringing all these white women home. Just ridiculous and I’m sure they’re sick of these women making utter and complete fools of themselves. Where does it end?🙄
Kim should have just spoke her mind after all of that. She had absolutely nothing to lose. If I was there I would have spoken my mind. She won't be leaving there with her man anyway. What was there to lose. Respect is given when respect is due. Kim was totally disrespected. MOVE ON KIM!!
Remember when Kim told her girlfriends that she studied Islam ☪️ 😂. FYI she was 🤥 lying! And it shows in how disrespful she is of his religion, she couldn't even be bothered in wearing a dress. Her head scarf slipped and she has no clue she's being disrespful. I sure hope this storyline is fake?
I agree with this comment. I'm even more shocked about her ignorance considering she mentioned she was overseas during Desert Storm, which, last time I checked, was fought in/against Islamic countries? How is she so obtuse? That was really cringey - all it would have taken was a bobby pin not that magnetic filing cabinet clip she's got there. It HAD to have come from the producer, I doubt that she had one laying around and his family wouldn't give her one - heck, they were so rude they didn't even serve her the tea, just left it there in contempt and ignorance.
I bet he told her the same thing he told baby girl Lisa, that it is a sign of respect to bring a form of cattle as a gift when meeting a romantic prospects family.
The way they all looked after they got the cow lollll I actually felt bad for her bc at that moment they also saw her as pathetic. I’d be happy if I got meats though 😂🤣
Don't be so mean, she is a woman in love and love makes people do stupid thing. Maybe that's what happened to you. If so, you got over it, I hope, now let's just hope she gets over this. She need support and some true love from friend. Thank God she has her son, he is giving her her space but we all know he will be there for her when she needs him and his support. Kim don't worry soon you will be out of this relationship and back on your feet. Keep your chin up and get going😊
The look on his mother's face .. that says it all.. I honestly wished she found someone that will treat her right. Usman really thinks money buys everything. It's darn shame!!!
Please Kim take this as a huge sign. You were given an out to this nightmare go home meet a decent American man closer to your age and forget this User! It might not be easy but, you deserve much better and it's about time you gave yourself that opportunity.
Its comical how desperate these women and men are. Kim makes a fool of herself over and over and doesn't seem to understand there isn't going to be a marriage.
Let him marry her , in what world that Muslim , virgin , properly raised lady would want a man that drinks alcohol , a singer and divorced ? No Muslim father would approve of him either.
She should keep her mouth shut if she wants them to like her. These are the people who approve or disapprove of Kim, they aren't use to women talking back. She's done everything exactly the way his ex did! It appears Usman has mommy issues!!
What is wrong with this woman??? There seems to be something really wrong with Kim. Has she gotten carried away with this idea of winning and losing as if there's a competition against everyone else who she thinks she's competing against to win the hand of this narcissist Usman? I JUST DON'T GET IT!!! What does she think she's going to achieve other than a broken heart and complete humiliation. Usman humiliates himself by playing with these women if that's what he's doing. I mean what is he doing? I just don't get it. He can get a green card from a woman he has more in common with. Maybe he loves to be worshipped the way Kim worshipps him. ugh.
Usman literally walked her right into even more embarrassment. Kim just walk away with your dignity (if there is any left)
My dad did the same thing a month after my mom died. We weren’t having it. I don’t know what they were thinking.
She won't leave...it's sad...🤦🏾♀️...I hope her son will try again to talk some sense into her. I am surprised TLC doesn't promote premarital counseling though...but, not really...they are just interested in making money🤷🏾♀️
@@klaird_h4727 True. TLC is all about the money. That's why Angela the horror woman is still on the show. Kims son Jamal is intelligent, loves his mother, I hope he will take a long talk with Kim.
Unfortunately, it was NEVER about Her🫣
@@klaird_h4727 it should be the other way around. She should be supporting her son.😓
Usman used his family to leave her, he already knew his family would not give their blessing!😳
I was thinking the same thing
That's what I was thinking
Yes he did
Agreed!! That's why he never mentioned the 2nd wife so he could have kids! Unless that's on next episode ciz he never told his mom when he saw her alone
You are 100% correct
Damn that momma be getting a whole farm soon if Usman keeps this up
Yes she trained her son very well in the art of using people and being a con artist great job Big Mama
@@lovahgurl They’re northern Nigerians. Livestock is specifically their trade. They don’t need her cow for anything. So Rest.
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😅⚰️ I'm dead but you're so right.
She will get a camel from the next American woman. A buffalo from the one after that. She needs a farm.
@@lovahgurl if you don't understand nor care about other cultures just say that. You have been crying all over this comment section judging this woman. Clearly she DIDN'T raise him this way because she doesn't approve.
When Kimberly was trying to interrupt, “May God take that woman away from us.” 😂
I was on the floor 🤣🤣
Imagine how they'd react if they saw her throwing drinks at Usman😂
😭so embarazzing
Yes Kimberly,, how rude trying to speak,, in this extremely rude house 😭😱
Id have thrown the cup at him as well... hes a lowlife scammer
When the brother said she’s trying to bribe us I almost died. Usman didn’t even look bothered by the family not excepting her, he was just doing enough to make her feel confident in him
I did too 😂😂😂😂he was like OH YEAH, I just thought about something Lol 😂😂😂hilarious.
It's an easy out for him
He was slumped away from her!!
Thats because he has no backbone hes only used to scamming older women for what he can get...
Usman wants children more than anything and he knows that Kim is so insanely jealous that she would never accept a second or even third wife for Usman . She could never handle it . He is not the man for her at all .
This is painful and ridiculous to watch. Why is she so desperate?
It is ridiculous. Kim, please, just go home.
Yammy 😂😂😂
She's crazy, but same question for Usman, why is he so desperate? He already knows his other will not approve and he keep saying he wants children yet keeps dating older women.
Look at the wys he started "SHE fell in love with me" lol he did her real bad
@@toluani7690 yep, it is like kids playing. Usman display little boy behavior over and over again and Kim being older you would think she would use her brain but no.
Money cannot buy love or a family's approval of a relationship. What Kim should be buying is some counseling/therapy to leave this situationship.
I agree she does need some counselling, she is not seeing things the way they really are. She need to wake up and see that man for what he really is. WAKE UP KIM!!!
Amen! In his culture [not race, God made one race] certain principles apply, and Usman need to either respect them or just decide not to follow them and stop trying to get his Mum and family to bless his mess. Children are your future!!!
You are right her ex is in prison for murder,so now she thinks he loves her face it kim stop buying and he will throw u back to the US.Go visit a good psycho Dr
@@myrtleborodziuk7163 Kim listen everyone is concerned about you. Go home take care of yourself, spend time with your son, mother, family and good friends.🤚
@@denyss3476 god didn’t make no damn race, white men made up that race shit. 🤣
I laugh when he says that he has fans all over the world. No one has ever heard of him until 90 days.
And many still don’t know of him…even in his own village 😂😂😂
Exactly hes a jumped up nobody
You right about that. I still haven't heard any of his music. What a shame and Kim is still thinking he got something going on. Usman grow up and stop using older women who just don't know any better.
Exactly he is a con
😅🤣🤣🤣
“ May God take this woman away from us” I’m weaketh😂
IKR...SMH
girl i was in tears 😭😂😂
😅
The mom's facial expressions are just the best thing about this whole show 🤣
👁 👁
👄 Kim will NEVER get his families Blessing 🙏🏽 she need to come back home to America 🇺🇸 and stop putting herself thru unnecessary hurt😞
@@leoqueen300 never, ever and yes, she should go home
I’m glad she told them to leave her home , Kim was being very disrespectful.
When Kim watches the show and finds out that she bought the cow for nothing she's gonna flip!
😂😂😂😂 flipppppeeeouttt
Yes she is going to flip .I hope she has some water around to throw on herself. She is a silly woman.
Usman is living better than Kim in Africa! Idk why he's trying to move to the hood in Cali with her
What happens to the bull??
If i was her i would take to cow back , they wouldn’t get anything from me if his family treat me this way .
He can see his green card slipping away 😂😂
Kim get going, he doesn't deserve a green card. Don't give him that pleasures because he doesn't deserve it. Run Kim run,!!!
It is better than selling his soul for a green card .
@@zeezeeabbas4190 The way I see it, they are both using each other. One to get a green card while the other to fulfill a dream to be with a singer/rapper/MJ wannabe
@@malaika2863 He those not need the American to be popular, we like him here in Africa just like that .. and what is even in America that he want to go it is not save for him ..
@@zeezeeabbas4190 Ask him why he keeps saying he wants to come to America. Watch the previous season and this one. He says it so many times.
Kim looks like Kermit the frog with that green head scarf
When the mom said God please take this woman away from us, I died 😂🤣
🤣🤣🤣
She is psycho predator
I wonder what his mom thinks about his new much younger white American gf lol
This family is very transparent and direct, Nothing shady here , especially his mother .!
Exactly!! ❤
Yes, except for the language barrier but yes. It's kinder in my opinion.
Yes
Facts
I bet Zara wouldn't need to buy a cow😅
A chicken would suffice
@@Hyara1202 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Hyara1202 Indeed🤣🤣🤣
I wonder if Usman will contact Zara Again, While Kim wipes her tears away. He is such a sleaze.
Usman would have to buy her a cow!!
Lol man Usmans mom needs her own spin-off lol I’d watch her just judge people all day lol
the show could be called US-MOM....
@@dopeytripod 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@dopeytripod I think you might be on to something, better copyright that shit lol
@@dopeytripod i choked on my food reading this🤣🤣🤣
I could do a pretty good job of judging her from over here how about that. Allow me to start with the fact that her son uses human beings to get what he wants in the world I would say that's a pretty disgusting upbringing if you ask me see how that works everybody can be f****** judged
I am Nigerian and this is too embarrassing to watch.Usman get your priorities straight, Kim 🥺🤦🏾♂️ go back home.
How is Toure Nigerian?
@Fatah Toure. I so agree with you. Usman needs to grow up, and Kim, please go home. This is just ridiculous.
Listen to another Nigerian who knows what he is talking about. Go home and find that man who is looking to find you and live happily ever after. Forget about Usman he is really a userman
It is so painful to watch and see how our own is selling his soul for green card .. 😢
@@zeezeeabbas4190 but I don’t think he really wants to leave Nigeria, do you? I’ve never heard him actually say that or even elude to it. I think he’s only on this show to promote his music “career” (I use that term loosely)
Frankly I think that Kim is in love with the idea of Usman, of falling in love with her fantasy man.... someone exotic, creative, young and sexy (to her).... and not the reality of life with Usman (multiple wives, large hostile extended family, multiple thirsty fans, large blocks of time spent apart, different customs, age prejudice, etc)
When he picked her out of a crowd of female admirers to be with her, that was her super fan crush dream come true. No doubt she feels as if she has won the lottery.
Eventually reality will catch up with her. But for now she's too busy wearing her rose colored glasses while building her house in the clouds and picking out furniture.
Mom side eyed her the whole time.
"EW" is the same reaction Usman's mom and family had when they got a look at her.
Shouldn't say eew..
She is who she is at least she has the confidence to put herself out there. Her problem is that she fell for his bullshit but then again that's all we see. Maybe he needed to get himself out there again to put his career out in front and TLC found somebody to put him in the front running again. For all we know this whole thing could be a bunch of crap. I just feel bad for her if it's real and I think he is a freaking asshole for playing at this far. He knew what he was doing he knew his mom needed a cow so hey let's take it one step further and have somebody give her a cow for free oh hey this is a class of case of Why by the cow when you can get the milk for free only she ended up buying the cow🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Because Kim looks just like a Simpsons character
🤣🤣🤣
@@NinaSimone3 she's not the most attractive woman but I don't think any of us should be making fun of her looks. I really don't that bugs me when people talk about people being ugly and icky and gross it's not their fault I mean unfortunately she's got one of those face compositions that even a makeover isn't going to help her there's just some people that make up it doesn't work for other people that transforms. Like I said before she's at least how's the self-esteem to put herself out there and who knows maybe it is her heart and maybe it's just for the paycheck who knows we don't know we aren't there. But of usman's sister and mother think that they're anything to look at and his brothers as well, they need to take a good look in the mirror because they are not the most attractive people in the world Kim is better looking than they are. Usman's sick obsession with old women he really needs some therapy. Basically he's pimping himself off and that's the eeeeeew part.
@@annaseidita7276 his obsession is pretty much the thought process of "the older the desperate" and ups his chances of getting a green card, gifts and money while simultaneously seeing other women (his type aka Zara). He's a straight up F boy.
I'm pretty sure his family members don't think that they are super models. I have to empathize with them wanting him to be with someone he actually likes for love and have a family.
He's a user. Too bad she doesn't love herself more while having all this courage to show herself to the world.....
On word: YIKES 😬
Kim was delusional to think they would except her, or this relationship to work.
Yeah I feel like she has this vision of what will happen and she’s willing to walk through hell to make it happen
I bet Kim has serious credit card debt 😂
Oh yes
True because she came with a boatload of stuff there that was way more than 500 dollars
Can you imagine going through your bank statement and seeing a $500 purchase and saying to yourself “oh that’s the time I bought a cow…” 😅
How often do we get to say that lol
@@amalmystic11 Or why don’t I have any jewelry or Apple products 🤦🏻♀️😂
That's why she needs to be on the show to get 2nd income.
It’s funny out of all the words she understood Bribe 😂
To be fair, it was the only word that was clearly similar to an English word. It was still funny though!
She thought buying a cow was the deal breaker 😂
He couldn't tell her himself he didn't want to marry her, so he used his mom, and she got a cow out of it 😅
She needs to take her cow and leave.
Bingo!
@@carleneevans8768 that would be Indian giving 😁😁😁
@@carleneevans8768 bring the cow all the way to America
I'm sure Kim will keep sending him money and gift even if they are not together!
Kim did better than Lisa.
Lisa didn't even manage to get inside the house or be offered any refreshments 🧐
😂😂😂😂😂 "baby love"
@@petlebs6894
🤣🤣🤣
Did Kim get offered anything? I just saw Usmans sister sit the tray down....
I noticed that too.. you know, I think that Usman’s mother is not just trying to protect him, she’s trying to protect Kimbally. I think she has a sense that her son is using women, and his mom is a tough woman herself. I think she’s trying to stop him from using women for green cards.
😆😆😂
"May God take that woman away from us" LMFAOOOOOO
@@cathyincolorado1432 why😂 u do know that Allah translated means GOD!
Stop Kim. Second old woman thinking his family accept her. No one in his family cares for you, she is old. TLC needs to stop these type of relationships, old woman, young boy in third world countries. Stop.
And don't forget the guys too
He's not a boy, he's 33!!
@D&B what?
@D&B wow. I did not know that. 👍
Honestly kim you did not just waste money you wasted your time and dignity lmaooo keep going on this roller coaster of emotions
I bet Usman told his mom, "whatever you do, do not allow me to marry this old American lady when she comes over!" If he really wanted to marry Kim he would just do it as he did with that old Lisa lady!
Thing is, Kim shouldn't have gotten her hopes so high. She already knew his mom was not gonna approve. Ngl I didn't expect the bribe claim this time around 😂😂 I can see why his family said that tho lol
The cow could be seen as inducement because it was never part of the culture. Usman wants to scam Kim that's all.
I mean, it really WAS a bribe
I feel more sorry for those poor Animals!🤔
I think whether or not Kim meant well with the cow gift, Usman definitely meant it as a bribe
So sad
Usman is such a jerk. Using that poor old insecure woman knowing he will never marry her regardless of what his family said. He is using her for whatever he can get.
She's 51, not old but otherwise I agree.
@@9teen9t4 exactly. 51 is not old!!
Came here after seeing her at the reunion attacking Ximena for being a "gold digger" meanwhile she's a whole sugar mama, the lack of self awareness and hypocrisy wow
“May I say something” alone had me crying for like 5 minutes😂😂😂
I felt so sorry for her, they treated her like a child
@@tanyajames2133 she's acting like an immature child despite her elderly age!
@@tanyajames2133 she chose to go up to their house. They didn't request to meet her. She should expect the worst
@@tanyajames2133 you teach others how to treat you. She got what she deserves.
Yes his family are SO ignorant
I love how he says that she is "only" 18 years older than him, trying so hard to downplay the huge age gap to his family 🤣
Why didn't he lie & say she's 40?
@@cathyincolorado1432 she clearly looks older than that
@@jasg771 Yes she looks much older than what she claims but damn, go for the gusto & lie!!
@@cathyincolorado1432 even then still too old
I am an African-American woman, and I would feel intimidated sitting in that room for one not understanding what a word they are saying and for two not fully understanding their culture whole heartedly. Kim is BOLD!
you would be accepting more. it wouldn't matter if you knew the language or not. as long as you are young fertile African woman. sent your genetically connected to the continent you would make the perfect wife. only thing is this dude is just straight trash.
I think “bold” is a good word.. right behind stupid
Usmans mom is my hero! She's literally no drama mama! When Usmans brother said "she's trying to bribe us" I was on the floor😂😂😂, Then sister said" May God take her from our home" that was it....may I say something👋🏽6× was the icing. Kim deserves 👏🏽 all this bull$hit! She need a therapist not a young African husband!
So you're cool with the whole "he shouldn't bring another White woman' then? Would you be cool with that if it was any other race?
Sojabean isn't that young. He's 33.
she’s blacked, and obsessed with black dudes. she’ll just find the next one when this show ends. or maybe she’s too ugly for them
Agree💯
@@9teen9t4 yes, it is ok for people to want to be with people from their culture and race. My goodness yall complain about any and everything.
He knew his mom and the rest of his family wouldn't approve and he still took her.🤦🏾♀️ and she knew it to and still followed his lead into the lions den.
He supposedly didn't tell Kim what his mother said when he went there before her
Your partner should be your choice not your mother choice.
With a bovine in tow
She wanted to go, it was the icing of the cake. Because she wanted to get a proposal from him. She is not right for him. Period!
His mom told him no before he took her to buy the cow.
Usman mother is not saying anything but saying everything with her eyes!!! I love her so much🥰🥰🥰
If Usman truly had all these women around the world wanting him he would not be with Kimbalee.
I don't think he's all that popular. I know with all these world wide women than why does he go for older women..think he has a problem. Even if he wants American women geese least find one his age
Women from his village are faaaaar more beautidul. I do not know what he is looking for
@@africaine4889 I agree. Zara was gorgeous, she wasn’t from his village but she wouldn’t put up with his crap. He is looking for a green card period.
@@carolynwindham3264 yes I think the many many women are only in his head. Zara was very pretty and from the US, but she wasn’t going to let him use her or put up with all his crap.
Yup she may be good for someone but not him!
This was so satisfying to watch 😂
Fadimatu is by far the best non-US parent on the show! Her face tells it all every time.
Yes she did not hide her feelings at all 😭😭 it was written all over her face
Unfortunately in this culture the men listen to whatever their mother says. Kim get back to the USA and find another man, I'm sure there is a man here waiting to meet you. Good luck and forget about Usman he doesn't really loves you. He has been using you all along.
@@edithmontanez9917 Very very true. If she doesn't get it now after meeting the family then she deserves whatever happens to her.
Calm cool and collected that Mama. Respect!
Every African mom has that face 😂😂😂😂
First she lets her scarf slip off her head then she tries to talk over Usman’s older brother. Good job studying Islam Kim-Bah-Lee. 🙄
Man definitely the best scene in 90 day fiancé history.😂😂
She may not speak their language, but she can see their faces. She knows they’re not happy. For whatever reason, because she can’t understand the words, the sentiment is super clear.
It’s like when I first met the parents of my partner who didn’t speak the same language as I did at that time, I could tell they were happy to meet and know me. And they pressed him to translate every single thing I said.
Now I speak enough of that language that I can understand what they say a fair bit of the time. And yes, they like me. They have even joked with one another about how “she’s the child we should have had and just never did.” Which sounds awful, but culturally, that’s a common point of humour.
That's so sweet! Thx for sharing your story. It's just so uplifting whenever people welcome each other into their group with open hearts. 🌸
@@laurieparis2203 yep sweet - unless it's y-tes no one should be welcoming y-tes
You are such a smart girl, I should learn my husbands language - Urdu, but it's kind of hard.
Looks like momma has a much nicer house since Lisa. Wonder how many sugar ma… potential fiancés he’s had recently.
She already knows that he past through the same thing with another older women. She doesn't learn
She can't!
I find it really odd that he didn’t mention to his mom that Kim would be his first wife. If he had more than one wife one that could have children I don’t think she would care as much.
She still wouldn't approve of old, white, American Kim. Too many Housa women would happily take care of Usman, happily marry him and give him all the children he wants.
Right AND WHY didn't he bring up 2nd wife to his mom????
@@susanmorales5433 I believe in the muslum/islamic culture its is normally tradition for the husband to have more than one wife, however, generally speaking, it is not common for them to go into the first marriage already thinking about the second. That talk normally happens after the first marriage, so maybe that is why he didn’t bring it up. Or perhaps TLC maybe cut it out the segment or something idk
Come on.. Kim is not going for that ish lollll
She said as long as usman marry a young woman 1st, he can marry American woman 8:28.
I would never b desperate for someone's respect especially when they've never done anything but talk down on me.
The face on Kim while they were talking! 😂
I can't look at her face.
"i hope when they get the cow they will see how good a person i am"😂😂😂😂
Yes!! It was so funny!! 😅🤣😂
notice that usman gave the roll of cash to the seller to count out because he can't
I was wondering about this.
No no knock it off 🫣😂
But 🤔🤨🧐 isn't he supposed to be 'rolling in mula' why couldn't he count it.
You just wet your index and thumb and get to the numbers 😅
Lol a nigerian man especiallyba hausa that that does not know how to count money??? Lol they can do that eyes close. Nah he already knew how much was inside. Money comes in pack snd he know how mucj is in each pack
I said that out loud!! " He can't count"
Kimbaaaaaaaaaaaahly, go home.
Oh. I thought she pulled out all the stops (big expensive gifts, whining, harassing, threatening to have her Son beat him up) to make Usman like her. And now it's his mother she wants to persuade.🤦🤷 oh, Kim.
Exactly! For a 50 year old woman she’s not very emotionally intelligent.
I wondered if she's throw a drink on judgey mama! Ha!
Usmans mother probably watches the show anyway
She is creepy.
Useman got his family to break up with Kim for him AND got a cow. Win 🏆
Usman knows that this reality show is paying him good money! So he's like why not stay on the show and lead Kim on😁
That You ,,, someone gets it . I say this show is Acting mostly not their real lives ,,None of them , meaning even the ones are married a while.they act to bring the Drama; as they can’t get along with each other families, or they are arguing over this or that , most FamiliesLOVE each OTHER FAMILIES and they Enjoy Family time with in Laws , I followed and watch them on other channel Happily Ever After enjoying each other ,, Black jack is one of the TH-cam channels , I watched some on, Some Are Making that Money,, and get payed on their Social media accounts to promote Items to buy
Ask me it’s like a Tv Soda Channel.
@@Blue-jq9wu these reality shows are just to entertain us ha! Even I have moments and yell at the TV in anger. But then I have to remind myself these people are getting paid to act like fools ha! It's for our entertainment but I sometimes take these shows too seriously😊
He keeps telling everyone he is instantly famous, yet no one from his country or town they don't know anything about him, not even his music hes a conman
I feel sorry for kim in a way, her heart of giving., Usman knew his mum already the answer was no no. I think hes in all this for anything he can get. Kim hes using you come home I live alone I have plenty of friends please he won't change they never do.
Kim is so cringe. At the very least she should have learned more about his culture before going anywhere near the family
She studied Islamic law 😂
@@majkldjekson What, no way. She has no idea how to act
@@majkldjekson 😂
I think Usman was aware of how his family would react before he brought Kim there; he simply wanted an excuse to claim that they are the main roadblock for their relationship not to move forward +so his mom could have a free cow to herself! 🐄🐮
Usman really know how to scrape the bottom of the barrel for his old women.
Nothing is lower than Kim.
Why is it Usman always says that the women love him, he doesn't ever say he fell in love with anyone? Its like he makes it sound like he's doing them a favor!
Usman is full of crap. He want a green card so bad but he is using American women and hurting them on the way. Women beware of men like Usman there are plenty of them out there. BEWARE!!!
In his mind, he is.
Because he doesn’t love them back except for Zara lol
Because Usman does not love these old rags. He is there for green card
@@africaine4889 yes and because he said, "I wants my Green card" we all know now that is all he wants. I hope she leaves him soon, so he doesn't get his Green card 🥊
Who didn't see this coming? Oh.... Wait...... 🤣🤣🤣
Kim….
They are no way going to like her. Trying to buy their love. Plus he has her buy expensive animals for his mom
“Kimbally “ is stuck in a teenage mindset, gifts =approval & affection.
It’s the bombastic side eyes from all family members for me 😅😅😅and the can I say something part 🤦🏻♀️ 😂😂
His family sitting there and judging Kim, like, WHO are you people? I don't like Kim, but Usman and his family need to be humbled.
@D&B I can't read this. You're too invested. Treating someone with decency, no matter how much you disapprove of your own son's choice, is the least they could have done.
@D&B Oh, good. Yeah, I can't read, so this really helps. 👍
What kind of woman would intentionally wants to move to a place where she has to ask if she can speak?? He's a zero in most categories, ticks no boxes in appearance education talent kindness etc. Hell no!!!
She only cares for the yammy yammy lol
Why did she say she was gonna buy a cow and then buy a bull? Does she not know how to tell the difference?
That's not a bull 😅😅it's a cow....we don't eat bull in Nigeria
@@pearlsplumvlog1746 It was male. Females are cows and males are bulls. Watch again, when they delivered it they said that the bull was there.
This confused me also. I grew up on a farm and bulls are for breeding and females milk/babies/meat.
I guess some people may eat bulls, but I don’t think a lot of people do. Supposedly it is more tough.
Poor Kim….
@@keekat65 it's a cultural thing we refer to both sex as Cow, when we say bull we are talking of an actual bull... translation translated it to bull,if you go to the goat market to buy a bull they'll be looking at you in a funny way ,but when you say cow they know what you want 😄
@@pearlsplumvlog1746 9:20 that's 100% a bull, and every culture that keeps cattle eats bulls (unless by "bull" you mean an older and/or uncastrated adult). half of the calves born will always be bulls, and they can only be used for meat or as beasts of burden, or for breeding, but that requires typically only one bull per herd of cows.
I think this looks like quite a young bull, not yet fully grown, so it may well be good for slaughter within the next couple of months. I would expect bulls to be cheaper than cows (except for very special bulls for breeding, those can be the most expensive since one bull with good genes can produce hundreds of times more calves than a cow with good genes), so this must have been because kim wanted something cheaper. either that, or usman said that his family would only be interested in meat, not in milking a cow or breeding more calves, in which case a bull would have been the more reasonable option (or also if it's intended for use as a working animal, as bulls grow bigger and stronger... though I'm not sure how early those need to be castrated and if this one already was).
edit: 'bull' does mean uncastrated, but that's definitely a male either way.
@@Ass_of_Amalek are you Nigerian? Going by your name you're definitely not 😊I said what I said and only a Nigerian would understand what I meant, I didnt say it's not a bull,I said we refer to both sex as cows ...
The way she tends to purse her lips and keep her face so tight makes her look like a Dr Seuss character (Grinch, a Who, etc). 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
8:21 😂😂😂
What lips?
Dr. Seuss and Herman from the Munsters 🤣
Didn’t Lisa bring a goat or cow or something also? 😂 Usmans family isn’t getting fooled again
Soooo fkn hilarious watching her struggle to be someone other than herself .....she’s dying inside 😹💀😹😹😹💀💀
🤣🤣 FINALLY! Someone said it! They really need to put their feet down with Usman bringing all these white women home. Just ridiculous and I’m sure they’re sick of these women making utter and complete fools of themselves. Where does it end?🙄
You sound quite salty. Bask in it, boo. White women are the best
@@michelesworld3292 go back to your cotton field *yawn*
@@michelesworld3292 typical angry black woman 😂 predictable
@@michelesworld3292 lmfao deleting comments .. stand by your ignorance, sis
@@briannemarie9214 No I stand firm on it. Unapologetic ! Corrected a typo for the slow people in the back 🤣
Kim should have just spoke her mind after all of that. She had absolutely nothing to lose. If I was there I would have spoken my mind. She won't be leaving there with her man anyway.
What was there to lose. Respect is given when respect is due. Kim was totally disrespected. MOVE ON KIM!!
Kim asked for disrespect when she went there
Right. . . Throw a drink on judgey mama! Ha!
9:08 I genuinely thought Angela had randomly rocked up at Usmans mums house! 😵💫
Kim is a mess and Usman is shady. USCIS (who issues green cards) should be watching this crap.
I don't believe she's never tried this hard before to get someone to like her.....fyi Kim this isn't how you get people to like you
You just know TLC producers had the bull guys wait until they knew Kim was rejected😂
🌺 I could've told her that wasn't going to work but a house has to fall in on her head, trying to get her to understand that!🌺
Where is this desperation coming from? Women who act like her have zero self-esteem!
Mom's know best! How would she feel if someone was throwing drinks at her son and acting a fool.
Id have thrown the cup or glass at him as well he deserves all the 💩 that he gets hes an underhanded user
Kim why put yourself down to that level..leave find someone your own age.....that's like buying a cow and getting a bull...
Remember when Kim told her girlfriends that she studied Islam ☪️ 😂. FYI she was 🤥 lying! And it shows in how disrespful she is of his religion, she couldn't even be bothered in wearing a dress. Her head scarf slipped and she has no clue she's being disrespful. I sure hope this storyline is fake?
I agree with this comment. I'm even more shocked about her ignorance considering she mentioned she was overseas during Desert Storm, which, last time I checked, was fought in/against Islamic countries? How is she so obtuse? That was really cringey - all it would have taken was a bobby pin not that magnetic filing cabinet clip she's got there. It HAD to have come from the producer, I doubt that she had one laying around and his family wouldn't give her one - heck, they were so rude they didn't even serve her the tea, just left it there in contempt and ignorance.
@@9teen9t4 She was drinking something, maybe she served herself? You'd think she'd have a lot more knowledge than she has.
I bet he told her the same thing he told baby girl Lisa, that it is a sign of respect to bring a form of cattle as a gift when meeting a romantic prospects family.
Least Lisa got away with goat. Lol
Its lies. In african culture when a woman goes and visit her future inlaw she doesnt bring no goat or cow. Its the other way around
I still can’t get over the fact Kim suggested she milk the cow when she bought them a BOY COW
You can still technically do so EWWWWW
You can still milk it just won't taste the same
Ignorance, Trailer Park
The way they all looked after they got the cow lollll I actually felt bad for her bc at that moment they also saw her as pathetic. I’d be happy if I got meats though 😂🤣
Who eats a bull???
Don’t care if her plans fall apart. Her fault. She deserves everything she gets.
Hes an ungrateful user hes a scammer
@@angelacarlisle1708 and she’s knowingly walking into the fire because she’s a desperate fool
@@angelacarlisle1708 True! But Kim should know better at 50 years old. He’s young enough to be her son. He wants to come to America 🇺🇸
I agree with you.
Don't be so mean, she is a woman in love and love makes people do stupid thing. Maybe that's what happened to you. If so, you got over it, I hope, now let's just hope she gets over this. She need support and some true love from friend. Thank God she has her son, he is giving her her space but we all know he will be there for her when she needs him and his support. Kim don't worry soon you will be out of this relationship and back on your feet. Keep your chin up and get going😊
The look on his mother's face .. that says it all.. I honestly wished she found someone that will treat her right. Usman really thinks money buys everything. It's darn shame!!!
Please Kim take this as a huge sign. You were given an out to this nightmare go home meet a decent American man closer to your age and forget this User! It might not be easy but, you deserve much better and it's about time you gave yourself that opportunity.
Its comical how desperate these women and men are. Kim makes a fool of herself over and over and doesn't seem to understand there isn't going to be a marriage.
Let him marry her , in what world that Muslim , virgin , properly raised lady would want a man that drinks alcohol , a singer and divorced ? No Muslim father would approve of him either.
The way she don't care about what happens to the cow .changes my perspective of her.
It's a living being
I agree. And this show has shown terrible things happening to animals in the past.
Usman is straight up pouting!!!
He knew that old goat wasn’t gonna be approved
Crass comment
Kim!! Get a grip!! ..You're wasting all your cash on him!...
Faruq was also the name of one of the Acolytes in WWF, but it was spelled Farooq and his real name is Ron Simmons 💪
“Oou-smen” 😂😂😂
Use - man
Kim is just making herself a big fool ... Time for her to go back to America and get herself a man around her age.., stop buying love
She should keep her mouth shut if she wants them to like her. These are the people who approve or disapprove of Kim, they aren't use to women talking back. She's done everything exactly the way his ex did! It appears Usman has mommy issues!!
«They arent use to woman talking back» Typical westerner😂 no! They just dont like her.
115 dollars for a goat is not very much. The price of the cow was pretty normal, too 🤷♀️
What is wrong with this woman??? There seems to be something really wrong with Kim. Has she gotten carried away with this idea of winning and losing as if there's a competition against everyone else who she thinks she's competing against to win the hand of this narcissist Usman? I JUST DON'T GET IT!!! What does she think she's going to achieve other than a broken heart and complete humiliation. Usman humiliates himself by playing with these women if that's what he's doing. I mean what is he doing? I just don't get it. He can get a green card from a woman he has more in common with. Maybe he loves to be worshipped the way Kim worshipps him. ugh.
😂🤣🤣😂 This young man don't stop to amazed me. Working hard to get his green card and be a reality TV star.