Good lord, the ex wife cheated on OP, lied to him, and damn near KILLED him, yet the second OP moved on and found another woman that actually treats him right, THAT'S when she has a problem? OP should have sent her to the asylum. She sounds unhinged.
Obsessive controlling and possessive type.....they see their partner as an object to use as see fit and when loosing control...like a kid breaking a toy. saying if I can't have you nobody will.....
Agreed, plus, my heart bleeds for OP's stepkid and two kids. I predict that, when social services removes all three kids from OP's ex-wife, and splits the kids up, the stepkid will be declared a ward of the state, the bio-son will be placed with another family, through closed adoption, and the bio-daughter will be bounced around from one foster home to another, next, at 18, OP's stepkid will stay with/marry a boy who's not only financially irresponsible, but cheats on her, also, and become an expectant mother on the verge of homelessness, and at 17 (after nearly aging out of the foster care system), OP's bio-daughter will stay with/marry a boy who controls her, abuses her, verbally, emotionally/mentally, and physically, to the point of landing her in the hospital, traps her to keep her from breaking up with him, and even threatens to un-alive her if she makes any escape attempts, then, with kids on the way, and no one to take them in, OP's stepkid will flee to another state, stay temporarily with roommates while getting her GED certificate, find a cheaper apartment (as long as it's in a safe neighborhood), and work or two jobs to support herself and her baby as a single mother, OP's bio-daughter will also flee to another state, and have to stay at a women's shelter (until she finds a job and an apartment), and get her GED certificate, Plus, instead of finding new love, just like OP has, the stepdaughter and bio-daughter will need to steer clear of potential new partners, concentrate on their mental health, raising their kids and providing them with stable and safe homes.⚠️
Throw a threat at ex wife about how you'll sue her in court for defamation if she threatens you with lying to ruin your reputation. Record all conversations, save all texts.
that’s partially why i don’t listen to this channel much…that and the repetitive paragraphs when - that and the repetitive paragraphs when they are in the middle of a juicy section 😂🤦🏾♂️
Dad joke warning: It makes sense that his new girlfriend is named Cher. She made him believe in life after love. Not to mention if she could turn back time...
That's an excellent question, if someone gets wind of what happened, the kids will be on their way to foster care, when social services removes them from OP's ex-wife.
The whole story is all over the place. In one update there is cleary abuse involved then he says he suspects? Then a gun... WTH? Is this a writing prompt?
I seriously doubt that any family courts will ever grant custody to OP, given they're biased against fathers, plus, if someone gets wind of the ex-wife's behavior, the kids (the two bio-kids and the stepkid) will just be placed in the foster care system, and then, with another family, through closed adoption.
I don't get it why the OP would listen for 30 minutes his ex-wife berating and ranting on phone? Why even bother listening for 10 seconds? If I ever get such phone calls, I would just close the call instantly and put phone to mute for few hours. Got no interest for drama bs and the more you pay attention to drama, the more there will be coming your way. Makes no freaking sense to listen at useless whining from a person you don't care for anymore for freaking 30 minutes.
Better yet answer and just put the phone down as you go on through your chores, I wonder at what point does someone so self centered realise they're talking to themselves
Look my son's mother left me and 2 years being a part when my son told her that I was happy she couldn't stand it the whole thing the other spouse doesn't want them but but the other women can't have the spouse lol
This story is all over the place, she filed for divorce then he did and suddenly she's firing a gun at his side of the bed. Sounded legit to start but went AI bot batshit at the end. Good story though
is two stories, at one point around 13:30 we change for one to another. is hard to tell when because the way one of them end is very similar to how the other one starts.
So the entire story can be dumb down to how dare he go off and live a better life and be happy finding a woman who loves him. As the wife has a temper tantrum in the corner like a toddler.
This is always how it is. The partner who is the real toxic person in the relationship is so sure they are not the person causing the problems, and so often these days it is the woman. The incompetence of the lawyer she used was very indicative screams volumes that she was incapable of making good decisions. The OP jettisoned the real dead weight in his marriage: his ex-wife. Also, the fact she clearly lost custody of their child screams volumes. Also, her family's behavior shows that gaslighting is a family trait, even though she was the one who committed adultery and was abusive in the marriage she still tried to pretend it was the OP's fault.
I just hope my life will improve too. I broke up with my ex around christmas 2023, because he was abusive towards me and my cats. The last straw was after months of therapy and talks, when he got physical again and threathend to kill me. I called the police and locked myself in the bathroom until they came. I kinda still miss him from time to time, though i feel a lot better that i don't have to be scared anymore and do whatever i want. I just hope that i can love again in the future and that i will stop missing him.
If i was this dude and she does this to me, imma be like "Wait let me get a cig and lighter." While smoking looking at her sternly as if i was actually listening.😂
There is a lot of truth to this statement. Men shouldn’t see it as failing but instead as a chance to succeed with someone else. Lastly, for those earning a lot more than their wives … the sooner you pull the plug the less years you spend on alimony.
I’ve seen so many of these stories it had honestly made me swear off marriage I just can’t get behind it anymore with how bad things can potentially get
I am 4 minutes in and have no qualms about how he got her grandmother's house, but I am sure hopeful he changed the locks, cause the family might still have a key.
There is block button on socmedia. And a block caller button on mobile phone. Why the drama of having to listen to your ex wife rantings? Dude is such a weak man. If she wanted to see your kid, let her make appointments with the kid. Removing you from her life completely.
I'm confused, why didn't he just cut all ties with his ex wife when she betrayed and had an affair partner and even almost killing he by firing a gun on his side of the bed. Not to mention that she is spreading lies on social media where people just believe what they see whats post and jump on him by bombarding him with threatening and offensive texts to him. She even has the audacity to comment on the OP's pictures with someone new. The OP's ex wife is delusional as she is constantly blaming him from the break up even though it was her fault for the drama and making the falling relationship when she strained him mentally and financially plus almost killed him with a gun. so what holding him back from cutting her off from every social platform he has with her completely, I really don't see the reason why not. So commenters what would you do if this happened to you. Would you get your revenge or hold back and move on with your life?
he said the the children had lost all respect for their mother at about 14:40 but earlier in the video when he is talking about his childs soccer he states that his kid still has affection towards his mother.
This is two different stories or an utter fake cause he had one kid. Now he had 2 plus a step child? He first said shingles for divorce and it took forever to then saying he did and it was done in two months. So I call bull shit on this.
What the whiplash? At 13:30, is that suddenly a new story out of nowhere? Is he talking about his new girlfriend? Is this a different user? He's been talking about his ex-wife who divorced him that he had one child with, and who was with her abusive AP Then all of a sudden he says "And everything changed that night when I found out she was cheating with two guys and she tried to shoot me. My 2 kids and step child will never be the same" WTF? What is this story change freaking mid-paragraph? He literally says "Yeah, I should stop letting my ex-wife get to me and drag me into these pointless arguments. Now as a bit of a reflection [totally new story with zero context about the change]" HOLY FRIG
This is fake or very poorly edited. At 1st he says "children" then it's "my child". Also says he got a raise and promotion twice in the same paragraph.
You were a ATM nothing more, you didn't have a backbone. You let her run the relationship while you just sat there in a corner, so she walked all over you. Need to learn to stand up for yourself more
Is the voiceover on this video a person or AI? I can never tell the difference!! It’s very frustrating to hear my husband saying “How can you not tell the difference, it’s so obvious!” Then laughing at me 😂(He didn’t mean this video, just in general) Can someone let me know if they think this video is AI or a person? Also, if there’s anything you can let me know to look for so I can tell the difference?
Good lord, the ex wife cheated on OP, lied to him, and damn near KILLED him, yet the second OP moved on and found another woman that actually treats him right, THAT'S when she has a problem? OP should have sent her to the asylum. She sounds unhinged.
Obsessive controlling and possessive type.....they see their partner as an object to use as see fit and when loosing control...like a kid breaking a toy. saying if I can't have you nobody will.....
It's pretty normal in nature. It's an average woman. No biggie.
Agreed, plus, my heart bleeds for OP's stepkid and two kids. I predict that, when social services removes all three kids from OP's ex-wife, and splits the kids up, the stepkid will be declared a ward of the state, the bio-son will be placed with another family, through closed adoption, and the bio-daughter will be bounced around from one foster home to another, next, at 18, OP's stepkid will stay with/marry a boy who's not only financially irresponsible, but cheats on her, also, and become an expectant mother on the verge of homelessness, and at 17 (after nearly aging out of the foster care system), OP's bio-daughter will stay with/marry a boy who controls her, abuses her, verbally, emotionally/mentally, and physically, to the point of landing her in the hospital, traps her to keep her from breaking up with him, and even threatens to un-alive her if she makes any escape attempts, then, with kids on the way, and no one to take them in, OP's stepkid will flee to another state, stay temporarily with roommates while getting her GED certificate, find a cheaper apartment (as long as it's in a safe neighborhood), and work or two jobs to support herself and her baby as a single mother, OP's bio-daughter will also flee to another state, and have to stay at a women's shelter (until she finds a job and an apartment), and get her GED certificate, Plus, instead of finding new love, just like OP has, the stepdaughter and bio-daughter will need to steer clear of potential new partners, concentrate on their mental health, raising their kids and providing them with stable and safe homes.⚠️
@@doomedfromthesmart it is a problem even if it is normal now. IT wasn't normal 50 years ago
you forgot almost made them homeless
I hate when I lose £50 when working out.
Damn those gym pick pockets!
Exactly why gym bros have been running from UK...
😂😂👍.
Gym and protein shakes are expensive man...
Your wrong bro it should be $50
"You've destroyed all hope of us ever getting back together!"
"Fucking FINALLY."
“¡She destroyed a happy marriage!”
“¿You are seeing the mirror now?”
"the lawyer kept screwing up"
Yeah, but they charge by he hour.
you have a good point here
lol very very good point
@@MineQley if they're making this many mistakes, they should be easily eating their time on this
They charged how much, and they couldn't even do the very basic recordkeeping tasks their job requires? Nah, they can eat that extra time.
Delay tactic if the client insists on it, if the lawyer is not too bothered or shady.
Darling Ex wife.
he didn't find "someone else".
he found Anyone BETTER.
Throw a threat at ex wife about how you'll sue her in court for defamation if she threatens you with lying to ruin your reputation. Record all conversations, save all texts.
The video was almost over when I realized it was 2 different stories
that’s partially why i don’t listen to this channel much…that and the repetitive paragraphs when - that and the repetitive paragraphs when they are in the middle of a juicy section 😂🤦🏾♂️
Yeah I was so confused 😅
Ai stories
@@supers0nic77 AI generated crap truly
Dad joke warning: It makes sense that his new girlfriend is named Cher. She made him believe in life after love. Not to mention if she could turn back time...
How could you know that a man is abusive in the presence of your child and not sue for custody
That's an excellent question, if someone gets wind of what happened, the kids will be on their way to foster care, when social services removes them from OP's ex-wife.
Because there was no proff u can know something but not be able to prove it she was Denying it, and there was no police report he had no case.
The whole story is all over the place. In one update there is cleary abuse involved then he says he suspects? Then a gun... WTH? Is this a writing prompt?
It’s 2 different stories that are not separated well at all
It is automatically generated story, everything is fake.
Get custody of your child. The ex is insane.
I seriously doubt that any family courts will ever grant custody to OP, given they're biased against fathers, plus, if someone gets wind of the ex-wife's behavior, the kids (the two bio-kids and the stepkid) will just be placed in the foster care system, and then, with another family, through closed adoption.
That woman has so many red flags good thing you're more free from her.
I don't get it why the OP would listen for 30 minutes his ex-wife berating and ranting on phone? Why even bother listening for 10 seconds? If I ever get such phone calls, I would just close the call instantly and put phone to mute for few hours. Got no interest for drama bs and the more you pay attention to drama, the more there will be coming your way.
Makes no freaking sense to listen at useless whining from a person you don't care for anymore for freaking 30 minutes.
Exactly, he should of just cut off all contacts with his ex. Why does he even still communicate with her?
@@Hanako_Yamadaa maybe because of their child
So he can laugh at her
Better yet answer and just put the phone down as you go on through your chores, I wonder at what point does someone so self centered realise they're talking to themselves
"Living well is the best revenge."
-The Penguin (and George Herbert)
Bro explained ALL the red flags she has…but still wants his child around that?
If your wife spends one night away from home without explanation. You divorce
you can tell if someone is a narc if they can never admit they are wrong
Took a bit before I realised story had changed. It was quite confusing for a bit.
"I didn't have $15k on me to pay the missed mortgage payments so I bought the house instead." Lol, whut?
Wouldn’t need as much money if it’s an fha loan you’d just need prob 4-8k for a down payment
Please give the name of that lawyer and/or law firm so that we can avoid them.... JFC, that's absurd!
Look my son's mother left me and 2 years being a part when my son told her that I was happy she couldn't stand it the whole thing the other spouse doesn't want them but but the other women can't have the spouse lol
Its just insane how many people just have different realities. Just imagine thinking someone else broke up your family lmao
"taking large sums of money"
Why did you not have an account without her on it?
the second she starts doing that, withdraw all your money from a joint account so she can't touch it.
Protective Order!
Tell the B to leave you alone.
did she fire the gun while you were in the bed?!!!
This story is all over the place, she filed for divorce then he did and suddenly she's firing a gun at his side of the bed. Sounded legit to start but went AI bot batshit at the end. Good story though
I think they're 2 different stories
is two stories, at one point around 13:30 we change for one to another. is hard to tell when because the way one of them end is very similar to how the other one starts.
Typical Simp. Simps always let the cheater set the narrative. Simps always try to fix cheating wife problems.
The best revenge…. A successful life after devastation! Well done
You seriously need to announce when the second story is starting
So the entire story can be dumb down to how dare he go off and live a better life and be happy finding a woman who loves him. As the wife has a temper tantrum in the corner like a toddler.
I don’t get why these men interact with these 304s. After the divorce you go 0 Contact she is a threat to your child take it away.
Introducing: Drama Queen and Mr. Simp.
Maybe the lawyer made all these errors on purpose to milk more money from the woman.
She knows how weak you are. That is what you showed her.
This is always how it is. The partner who is the real toxic person in the relationship is so sure they are not the person causing the problems, and so often these days it is the woman.
The incompetence of the lawyer she used was very indicative screams volumes that she was incapable of making good decisions. The OP jettisoned the real dead weight in his marriage: his ex-wife. Also, the fact she clearly lost custody of their child screams volumes.
Also, her family's behavior shows that gaslighting is a family trait, even though she was the one who committed adultery and was abusive in the marriage she still tried to pretend it was the OP's fault.
lack of accountability seems to be one of the biggest factors in these stories.
Ahhhh accountability, a woman's kryptonite, where they prefer to be miserable, be mistreated and sent to the hospital than to ever admit to be wrong
Bruh, she is the epitome of a walking red flag. She is an agent of evil.
I just hope my life will improve too. I broke up with my ex around christmas 2023, because he was abusive towards me and my cats. The last straw was after months of therapy and talks, when he got physical again and threathend to kill me. I called the police and locked myself in the bathroom until they came. I kinda still miss him from time to time, though i feel a lot better that i don't have to be scared anymore and do whatever i want. I just hope that i can love again in the future and that i will stop missing him.
I'm so sorry that happened to you.😔🤗
If i was this dude and she does this to me, imma be like "Wait let me get a cig and lighter." While smoking looking at her sternly as if i was actually listening.😂
"Hey, thanks for dropping your thoughts! Yeah, you've got a point
Men need to normalize divorce. Stop waiting for the woman to get ready and divorce you.
There is a lot of truth to this statement.
Men shouldn’t see it as failing but instead as a chance to succeed with someone else.
Lastly, for those earning a lot more than their wives … the sooner you pull the plug the less years you spend on alimony.
I’ve seen so many of these stories it had honestly made me swear off marriage I just can’t get behind it anymore with how bad things can potentially get
When I went through a divorce. There was 2 lawyers. Not one.
his ex is a real narcissist and she will admit she could do wrong. my sister-in-law is the same way
I am 4 minutes in and have no qualms about how he got her grandmother's house, but I am sure hopeful he changed the locks, cause the family might still have a key.
There is block button on socmedia. And a block caller button on mobile phone. Why the drama of having to listen to your ex wife rantings? Dude is such a weak man. If she wanted to see your kid, let her make appointments with the kid. Removing you from her life completely.
Never get married, co-habitate, or trust a woman.
I lost two kilos, and now the amish mafia is after me😂😂😂😂
Op changed his story. Went from she filed divorce to I filed for divorce. From only having o e kid to having 3 and a step kid
Why would you go to party with her family ?
Seems foolish.
I dont know why watching him jump on those blocks is so soothing
Is it just me or do i listen to these stories while in the shower or doing my homework. Its becoming an addiction
Yup it sucks happens to most of us at least once but we learn and don’t put up with it after.
love the minecraft parkour it kept me interested
This sounds exactly like my ex. Narsistic psychopath.
they made a song "you don't know what you've got until it's gone"
First story: the moment he found out about physical abuse in front of his child is the moment I would be pursuing full custody…
The show theme song is Dallas. From the 70’s-80’s. Enjoy!!❤
What cereal brand be having these free law degrees in them at this point? 😂
Wait so ex wife initiated divorce and left, but then this guy initiated divorce? The math ain't mathing.
Wait! What!?! 😳😯😲😮😱Shot off a bullet in your side of the bed?🤯You Don’t Think you should have Lead off with That?!?
So she’s moaning about him being with another woman but she’s currently dating someone herself…. What world is she living in????
I'm confused, why didn't he just cut all ties with his ex wife when she betrayed and had an affair partner and even almost killing he by firing a gun on his side of the bed.
Not to mention that she is spreading lies on social media where people just believe what they see whats post and jump on him by bombarding him with threatening and offensive texts to him.
She even has the audacity to comment on the OP's pictures with someone new.
The OP's ex wife is delusional as she is constantly blaming him from the break up even though it was her fault for the drama and making the falling relationship when she strained him mentally and financially plus almost killed him with a gun.
so what holding him back from cutting her off from every social platform he has with her completely, I really don't see the reason why not.
So commenters what would you do if this happened to you. Would you get your revenge or hold back and move on with your life?
apparently its 2 separate stories, i was also confused at first. the first story just ends with Cher and OP planning a trip together
When she doesn’t have the beta male to fall back on and ACTUALLY has to deal with chad / Tyrone this is what happens
Bruh man just became a broken anime character
he said the the children had lost all respect for their mother at about 14:40 but earlier in the video when he is talking about his childs soccer he states that his kid still has affection towards his mother.
I guess they didn't pass the bar Don't go back bro,,run away
Listening to the video no🥱
Looking at the sky in Minecraft
Yes👁️👄👁️
Typical modern woman.
Also, don't let yourself go in your marriage. Lose the weight during the marriage.
Is this 2 seperate stories? I'm confused
This is two different stories or an utter fake cause he had one kid. Now he had 2 plus a step child? He first said shingles for divorce and it took forever to then saying he did and it was done in two months. So I call bull shit on this.
OP’s EX-wife = WAHMEN ☕🙄😮💨🤢🤢
🤣😂
You should’ve said 1500 buck paying that shit back you fixing the car
This is normal. Women do not do accountability 😉
Restraining order dude
Apart from everything who the fuck is the lawyer who takes months to correct mistakes
Bro why these ppl in who suffer from their partners affairs want to be polite if she isn't Faithful then why be kind?
Sounds like she was an Alpha Widow
Woman was self obsessed
women ☕
At a point, you gotta think are these stories real?
Some one took the guys voice from the atomic habits book, and made an ai from it lol.
This is 2 stories
What the whiplash?
At 13:30, is that suddenly a new story out of nowhere? Is he talking about his new girlfriend? Is this a different user?
He's been talking about his ex-wife who divorced him that he had one child with, and who was with her abusive AP
Then all of a sudden he says "And everything changed that night when I found out she was cheating with two guys and she tried to shoot me. My 2 kids and step child will never be the same" WTF? What is this story change freaking mid-paragraph? He literally says "Yeah, I should stop letting my ex-wife get to me and drag me into these pointless arguments. Now as a bit of a reflection [totally new story with zero context about the change]"
HOLY FRIG
And he married her😂😂😂
Bro there’s a video in yours ads thought you should know
Bro lost 50£
Unlabeled second story starts at about thirteen minutes. Is anyone paying any attention at all?
Is it me or does this video feel like two different stories?
Cheaters think everone cheats
Naw you cheat you get what you get! Hope it sucked for her too!
Bro add music to the video.
Am i the only one that thinks this story is out of order or something
This is so disconnected it feels Ai generated
Damn...at least try to separate/put a gap between the stories. That was confusing as hell!!
This is fake or very poorly edited. At 1st he says "children" then it's "my child". Also says he got a raise and promotion twice in the same paragraph.
I thought western men are tough in real life but when I see this story look like boneless Chicken.
What bullshit he still denies we're divorced n there is no one elße
You were a ATM nothing more, you didn't have a backbone. You let her run the relationship while you just sat there in a corner, so she walked all over you. Need to learn to stand up for yourself more
The first story she really fucked up
Is the voiceover on this video a person or AI? I can never tell the difference!! It’s very frustrating to hear my husband saying “How can you not tell the difference, it’s so obvious!” Then laughing at me 😂(He didn’t mean this video, just in general) Can someone let me know if they think this video is AI or a person? Also, if there’s anything you can let me know to look for so I can tell the difference?
The voice is ai.
@@ChiloeYOMIH thank you!!
@@What.a.train.wreck. No problem