Hospital policy is that if an adult patient asks for a vistor to leave the hospital, the hospital complies, and the visitor is escorted out. No way a nurse would scold a patient, let alone tell them to let the person stay.
It was disgusting Like genuinely disgusting The fact that most hospitals in most countries will not let anyone visit until the patient can say who can visit (I had a operation and I could forbid everyone but my dad to visit and only let him come when I was awake)
If this was in Mexico and on the private health sector, although if OP complained it would get ugly for the nurse, it's common for some nurses to make backhand comments like these, I've seen my mom, a retired military nurse/nurse chief, scolding many nurses while at work (I was a cleaner on my teens)
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You got it wrong. Sometimes everything is not Rights... Imagine you are a nurse in hospital and you see a woman genuinely worry, worked hard to care for him including some labor that too with visible Emotional breakdown, then that guy woke up and said get her out of here. The first reaction would of nurse is "you should thank her" and if he insisted again, the visitor will be escorted.
@@Manikanta-hh7wp but here's the thing She knows nothing about the situation The person there could just as well have been a ex that they forgot to remove or a weird person If the patient literally tells them to get out despite being in a hospital then they should just send them out
So she didn't want to make love with a guy who is possessive/jealous(stereotypical Alpha). BUT she decided to get in an affair with a guy who is possessive and jealous? Surprisingly, that's the most believable part out of this whole story.
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@@darkriku12 The whole categorization method comes from wolves, or at least it was supposed to come from them. Turns out, there ISN'T such a thing as an 'alpha wolf of the pack', it's just a whole big family, with direct In-laws and kids. The whole Alpha/Beta/Gamma/Omega thing is as real as a three dollar bill.
You know what really pisses me off why do married couples listen to influences of people that are single and then got bad intentions in the Jane truly cared about her husband she would have been shut that down about the disrespect about her husband
They say that married friends always try to recruit their friends to the "married" camp and single friends try to recruit their married friends to the "single" camp either way everyone is responsible for their own behaviour
Doesn't matter if you're single or not, what matters is 1. Be sure about what you're talking about and not throwing theories 2. Is to have good intentions. I've seen a guy single and giving good advices and I've seen many women give advices in attempt to drive and torn couples away. It's primarily from women's side that this shit happen most of the time
"Ungrateful person" How is he being ungrateful, she is abusing the fact he is drugged up to spend time with him, There is literally nothing to be grateful for, The nurse should genuinely be fired
Makes me wonder if marraige counselors try to save the marriage if it was a guy who cheated. I hear too many stories of women just leaving even if the guy was spiked and raped by the girl but everyone around still cheer her on and encourage her to get everything she can in the divorce
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thats where ur wrong , u might be unattractive true but not ugly monster , this will go unheard if i say talk atleast one thing u love and all , been there done that , its you who should pick urself up , i cried after listening to his unattractive experience cause i strongly hate and could relate , even this morning after some podcast felt like yah i got nothing to look at , and then this hit me , its very unfair i feel sorry and thing like this shouldnt be even happening but treating equally is our birthright we dont need to earn it lets just call people on their bullshit cause the more they behave the way the more karma will f them up , 2nd ly if u dont treat urself with kind words no one will , y should someone love u if u dont do that to u , since u accepted solidity start treating urself better cause u are ur own companion
I think you are onto something. I'm a licensed counselor myself and often have to challenge other counselors (usually female, statistically) to check their sex based biases.
Yes, but unfortunately, we (women) don't have a privilege to get encouraged to "man up" and go to throw punches with our coach buddy or have some manly talks over beers. We are expected to forgive and be dosile and comforting even if the man cheats. The point is that every gender has its ups and downs in the society we live in. The grass is not greener on this side.
As a women I think this is ridiculous honestly. I don't agree with this type of actions, but we only see the true price for revenge when we go through shit like that. Bro, being betrayed changes us to the worse.
In the letter "This is the truth" proceeds to get caught by another lie she said to his face right then and there. She never intended to tell the truth, only her version of it.
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I think what OP said is quite interesting... I hear a lot of people wonder why they would even consider taking a cheater back, and OP mentionned the bargaining stage of grief. That just might be the answer
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Instant gratification, lack of will power, fear of being alone, literal brain chemical addiction. Overpower those, and eventually you actually will find the right one and prove the others along the way were wrong.
@@darkriku12all this. I got cheated on and allowed him to treat me horribly. I wish i had more will power but I grew up to my dad cheating on my mom and her taking him back. Not a good romance role model. Now, if my partner cheats, i will throw them to the curb. Therapy does wonders.
She cheated on him (for 9 MONTHS!!!) and expected him to take her back because she changed or she realized how much she loved him. I would of lost my shit with her and the nurse at the hospital.
It literally made me cry! No living being should ever feel that way about themselves. I hate seeing people put themselves down because it’s all they’ve ever known due to the bullying they’ve endured all their lives.
This a story that I love to rewatch each time I find it. The perfect ""revenge"" it's moving on with your life. Jane needs to acknowledge that she destroyed everything (She thinks she broke it but there is still time to fix it) and now she has to move on with her life in order to be a better person of herself. She has a great chance to move on because OP has decided to forgive her and stay friends with her (A miracle), she needs to forgive herself, heal and work on her narcissist tendencies.
you wanna know how fucked up she is? women are more mentally rich than men, men have more stronger emotions, but women live battling emotions daily. she wont live another day without feeling the emotional burden of what she did. not.a.single.day in her life is gonna be free from the painful reminder that she brought this on herself. and booze, drugs, meaningless sex, none of that takes away from us the emotional burden, it worsens it sometimes. imagine being trapped in a endless loop of painful memories that you can not turn off, becuase our brains dont work that way add to that the fact tht she is almost 40, and cant bare children first, not being fertile disuades a LOT of men, cause most of them wanna plant the seed for having a children, you needing expensive proceedures will really put out any possible partner from the wider broader pool 40 something old women are not that atractive, human live arround 80 to 90 years, so she basically has half of her life already bruend out. she is gonna be on apps and dates of meaningless sex and some escapades for other married men at 40 menopause arrives. so lets recap, shes old, she cant have children, and she is loosing the window for any artificial insemination. she had all the things we look for in this life, a loving partner, a best friend, someone so loyal to you to give his life, and she tossed it all out to the crapper. and she knows that, she knows how fucked up she is. is just that the realization of how fucked up her life now is, how meaningless, worthless, unimportant she is now to ANYONE... is a monster far too big for some people to accept it. she KNOWS that from now on, no onw will ever love her again, not the same way she had been loved before. sshe had all heaven, and she is now rotting outta paradise honestly, wouldnt be surprised if she ends herself in a time frame of 5 to 8 years, it would be a helluca coward move, but if she is delusional and desperate enough to ruin a life, most of us would kill for, she mgiht aswell be too coward to face a life as a miserable shell, so she might just chow down a buncha pills and fucking die XD
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LMAOOO her “owning her mistake” came after OP threatened to show her sister the video. She knew the OP could reveal the truth at ANYTIME so she easily could have revealed it herself for damage control. AND IT WORKED. Everyone gave her credit because of it, and it significantly reduced the fallout. I cant believe everyone missed that
That party scene is way to real. OP being "ugly" and how women treated him hit home hard. When you arent attractive women tend to not treat you like a human being. I know because I have faced that my whole life, no amount of women saying otherwise can change that. It not even being treated like equal, women just ignore your existance. They treat you like trash that was left on the street. You can never do anything right. If you are polite or respectful they see you as weak and manipulative. At 35 I cant accept that anyone would find me attractive. If a woman says I'm attractive I feel like she trying to trick me, or con me. In the mirror all I see is a ugly monster, and I cant change that. No amount of therapy can cure 25 years of abuse from women.
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Women like confidence. Not alpha macho confidence, but someone who is confident in themselves, their abilities, and their goals. Someone who they can rely on, will pick them up when they are down, and can be a gentle caring voice when its needed. As someone with body dysmorphia, it took me a while to understand this. I've been everywhere on the physical spectrum. Very out of shape, and in very good shape. I thought having a six pack and a great physique was all I needed. But when I was still not getting any meaningful connections, I realized that was a shallow perspective. It was not until I worked out all of my internal dysfunction, learned to love myself and be comfortable and confident in who I am, that connections became more frequent. Women can be shallow, yes, just as much as any dude. But, as men we don't have to worry about the same things that women do. We can walk alone down the street at night most of the time, without being scared someone's going to drag you off and force themselves on you. Or be creeped on by some guy who can't understand that you don't want anything to do with them. You can't make overt generalizations on women, just as much as it would be wrong for a woman to do the same for all men. Get into therapy, work on yourself. Learn to love your positive aspects, and work on your negative aspects. Be open to work on them. Then work on the physique that you want. You don't need to be absolutely shredded or some Adonis, but just enough to look in the mirror and be happy with what you see. Everything starts with one step. But you have to take that step, and you have to keep walking.
Unattractive fat (yes it really is my thyroid) 36 yr old lady here. That goes both ways and guys can be just as ugly if you're bigger than average, hell even when I was average weight I never got attention except from old bar creepers. My advice is to get a pet. Life ain't so bad. Or, call me the crazy cat lady. 😂 Whatever. I couldn't give two fairy farts what people think of me anymore. I'm too busy finding joy in all the little things I do have. If you don't have chronic pain and illnesses, count yourself VERY lucky and go find what brings you joy!
Why the F was mum sympathetic and "sorry about all this" did she not comprehend that this woman destroyed her son and his marriage, like wtf, cheaters deserve no sympathy, they are selfish and just trashy people the moment they even do or think about cheating.
Dude I cried from this .. this happened to me a year ago but luckily I wasn't married..I did everything right but some bum who has nothing to stand on was more important.. hearing this made me feel like I'm not the was who was messing up in mine thank you to the OP 💪❤️👍
Good shit brother!!! You did something I couldn't. I ended up taking my ex back and then let go of a women I was with at that time that I seriously regret to this day. Ex ended up running off again and I lost the women who could've made me the happiest man on this earth.
My wife once had friends like that. Fora month after they met me they would constantly try to get her to dump me and/or hook up with other dudes when they would go out. Finally one night she snap at them and told them if they wanted to be miserable sluts, then that was their choice, and that she was sick and tired of them trying to turn her into a miserable slut too. "THOSE" types are miserable so try to make everyone around them miserable too. She lit into them for constantly disrespecting me and she stormed out. I got a text from my friend who was the bartender at that pub and she said she saw and heard my wife (then girlfriend) tearing them each a new ass hole before she paid her tab and left. I remember because she was pissed off when she got home. I asked her what happened and she told me. I was hurt that they would do that, but I was also angry. She cut them all off and hasn't spoken to any of them in 12 years now.
did she just like... forget about stds??? just cuz u can't have kids doesn't mean you shouldn't still be safe 😭 (not that cheating is okay lmfao like how you gonna cheat on me for almost a year and then CRY when i leave you 😭😭)
I am way too angry, vindictive, & petty.... All that negotiation. Everything she said would be met with a repeated: "We are NEVER getting back together "We are NEVER getting back together" "We are NEVER getting back together" "We are NEVER getting back together".. In a writing on the chalkboard fashion so she'd get it through her head. I'd also send her Hallmark cards with that exact sentence.
Yes! That kickboxing coach is what he needed most. That's the type of therapy a man needs. Everything turns physical for men. Depression, feelings, happiness, they all manifest physically for men. So why isn't therapy? Give a guy physical work and he'll have his problems mostly solved.
Ain’t it funny how they always learn when it’s TOO LITTLE TOO LATE. She didn’t care that much about his feelings, needs and wants the nine months she was screwing bird brain (which is an insult to all the birds) And god knows how long that would go on if baldy wasn’t a possessive psychopath or if her husband didn’t catch her. I doubt she would be so remorseful
They call it being a toxic male, no it's just being a man. The fact that so many men have to go online to ask what to do in such obvious situations, shows how many young men need proper male guidance in their lives.
I think the number one thing that bothered me is that the MC didn’t acknowledge that Jane deciding to out herself publicly was just her NPD showing through. She was still seeking attention. That’s the only reason you do something like that. Her mentality frames it as punishment, but she’s still focusing attention on herself and her actions, and given that op even says she skirted the full truth and frames it as a lapse in judgement rather than her finding pleasure in getting one over on him, it’s kinda obvious.
Whoever this guy is, I got a lot of love for him, that ending really hit home with me I’m going trough a tough break up right now and that ending made me feel it in my soul I hope and pray things get better, please god have her come back
Interesting story! Of course it’s totally fake, it’s like this guy is the main character in a movie, everyone loves him, he’s so tough and amazing. This is why I hate Reddit
Buy a new mattress and different colored bedding if you're ever in this predicament... rearrange your bedroom too so that it feels and looks like something different. If you really want to refresh your mind, have someone else do it for you so you're walking into something completely different.
Shes a very persistent person which makes her a great manipulator. For those who are empathetic like me, remember just because she was overlooked by girls and almost dismissed for her weight, doesnt mean she isnt also willing to do that to others. Basically, i feel bad for things that happened to her innhigh school and with the higher up hittign onnher at her job and her having to quit but bad things can happen to bad people
See? This what can also happen when you let other people influence your decisions about your relationships. Jane's coworker, the "professional cheater" is a bad person. People like that hate love and happy relationships but gullible Jane let her influence her into wrecking her marriage. Coworker is Evil. Jane is stupid.
This was very helpful to me as someone who recently was being cheated on by my ex with several women. Letting go of a seven year relationship is taking a toll on me especially with only 30 days until my finals.. It blew up for me in a bad way since our family was involved as everyone from his side keep asking me to reconsider and people from my side (except my parents) keep telling me how foolish I was to caught on too late but as they say, 'light at the end of the tunnel'... I hope and pray for anyone going through a tough time, for strength and peace in future.
Good videos like this are what we need from reddit youtubers not that short crap that either doesn't link to the continued version or in multiple cases straight up leaving a link in the comments like it's useful for us mobile users. Thank you random stranger for actually bothering to put in effort
Okay, what a dumb point at ~53:15. I've been cheated on, I've been gaslit, i've been abused physically and in other ways by my ex husband... The office is still my favorite show. ??????? "have you seen the sitcom the office?" Bro, it's one of the most popular shows in the world lmao.
It takes guts for her to admit to everyone she cheated on Op with some sleaze ball, though she should’ve been the bigger person not have cheated and told Op the signs that he was making moves on her.
OP needs some self esteem, and to surround himself with good people. He's too fat for love? Thats bullshit. The only people who care about looks are not people you want to be around, let alone give your love to. He's older now, and theres tons of great middle age women and the right one or two (eyebrow wiggle) is out there for him.
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You need to know that his cheating wife just admits to him that she didn't feel aroused with him but when she sees a good looking dude even if he's a stranger he can at that moment hit it raw.. just cruel for a woman who walks with him through everything they suffer from the same sh** She understands how he thinks.. but when she starts feeling confident first thing she does throw away the old shoes cuz she can get a new one now.. trust no one at this rate!
also i remember reading this comment in a video which i searched cause i was toxic to my friend and we broke up , so there it said "if you were not great and recognized and changed yourself , good but you cant get back to the person , you will deserve someone better for you but not that one " that stuck to me water doesnt flow back even after everything its not right to get back .
Its not just men that get the "ugly" look. Im a woman. Not attractive. Dont wear make up as i somehow end up looking like pennywise. It doesnt suit my face. Even just having friendly conversations with men, i can see behind their eyes they want to leave, but are just being polite. Some cant wait to leave and i can almost hear them screaming in terror as they fast walk away. Ive never flirted or hit on men. I know its a waste of our time and my energy. Im now 46 yrs old. Ive long accepted i will never be good enough for any man to marry and will never be truly loved by anyone. Its not true when people say we all have a purpose, and there is someone for every one. I dont get why people say it, knowing its all a lie. Its best not to say anything at all, it seems cruel to do so. If it happens, it happens 🤷 if not, then no. I just live my life. I have friends, my family dont have a lot to do with me, i dont talk much or see them often. I only have half siblings and they moved far away. My own mother never had any affection for me. ( no love lost there). Her family even avoided me growing up and ive never known who fathered me.( i came along after my mothers divorce) dont want to know. Dont care. Im happy surrounded by my animals. They love me, i love them and they dont judge.❤ Im used to being on my own. I prefer it as sometimes i just dont like being around other people. I dont go out unless i have to and i work with good people who dont judge me based on my looks. My life has turned out ok, all things considered. I dont feel lonely.
There's ALWAYS a man that will accept a woman. You probably just think he's too ugly for you. That's just your level. Lower your standards, I PROMISE there is someone out there for any woman who actually wants a man. You're just not pretty enough for the ones YOU want most likely.
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more men should seek therapy through martial arts, if you are one of those men who find therapy not working.. find a martial art that you are drawn to, and dont even think about it, just go and involve yourself with day one in the gym or dojo, and find consistency! you got this champ!
I felt the same after finding out my girlfriend if you can call her that tried to wait until we got together before telling me about her past job where she was a porn star for years. After I found out I was broken full hearted ly and I couldn't see her the same way ever again.
Not gonna lie listening to him put himself down throughout the whole story was super sad and heartbreaking but when he told the story of him going on a blind date with “princess” i shed a couple of tears for him. No human should ever be made to feel so worthless. Especially when they’re going through a divorce from a marriage they were cheated on “with a better looking guy”.
Not an AI. At least not solely an AI, I've seen the mess that AI write like, this doesn't fit. It seems to be modified to make the text-to-speech work properly. So I'd bet on the 16 year old.
@@JulianneTheChemistryStudentthis! My English was horrible before I spoke a lot of English and only listened to English things and I finally got good at English So ofc the written language might be different
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Obviously fake but very well done. If I was OP's creative writing teacher it's an easy A+. Great structure, convincing details, really delved into the themes, and that resolution, spot on right at the last quarter of the story~! Mmm! Chef's kiss! Very well done!
32:41 =Is this the Philippines? Everything stops for a feast day... Reminds of the Feast of the Nazarene... Like dude, if you live in NCR, everything stops for that due to the traffic it will cause...
Huh, I'm sure I've heard this story before, but this seems like it's longer. Guess there were updates I didn't know about but I'm not complaining. Glad it all worked out in the end for OP. 🎉
Hospital policy is that if an adult patient asks for a vistor to leave the hospital, the hospital complies, and the visitor is escorted out. No way a nurse would scold a patient, let alone tell them to let the person stay.
It was disgusting
Like genuinely disgusting
The fact that most hospitals in most countries will not let anyone visit until the patient can say who can visit (I had a operation and I could forbid everyone but my dad to visit and only let him come when I was awake)
If this was in Mexico and on the private health sector, although if OP complained it would get ugly for the nurse, it's common for some nurses to make backhand comments like these, I've seen my mom, a retired military nurse/nurse chief, scolding many nurses while at work (I was a cleaner on my teens)
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You got it wrong. Sometimes everything is not Rights...
Imagine you are a nurse in hospital and you see a woman genuinely worry, worked hard to care for him including some labor that too with visible Emotional breakdown, then that guy woke up and said get her out of here.
The first reaction would of nurse is "you should thank her" and if he insisted again, the visitor will be escorted.
@@Manikanta-hh7wp but here's the thing
She knows nothing about the situation
The person there could just as well have been a ex that they forgot to remove or a weird person
If the patient literally tells them to get out despite being in a hospital then they should just send them out
So she didn't want to make love with a guy who is possessive/jealous(stereotypical Alpha). BUT she decided to get in an affair with a guy who is possessive and jealous? Surprisingly, that's the most believable part out of this whole story.
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@@MineQleywho said anything about you lmao
Also the fact that anyone believes that "alphas" are anything other than insecure lmao
@@darkriku12 The whole categorization method comes from wolves, or at least it was supposed to come from them.
Turns out, there ISN'T such a thing as an 'alpha wolf of the pack', it's just a whole big family, with direct In-laws and kids.
The whole Alpha/Beta/Gamma/Omega thing is as real as a three dollar bill.
@@darkriku12 Wouldn't say all of them are, but most of them are for sure.
i hate the nurse in that story
The nurse was disgusting
Like forcing him to be helped by his soon to be ex
@@MineQleyno one cares.
Then why waste your time commenting this?@@idontknow2591
I’m pretty sure making comments like that are a form of ethics violation in her field, he could have gotten her in trouble
That part made my blood boil. And the “princess” part made me burst into tears. No one deserves to ever feel so unwanted
You know what really pisses me off why do married couples listen to influences of people that are single and then got bad intentions in the Jane truly cared about her husband she would have been shut that down about the disrespect about her husband
They say that married friends always try to recruit their friends to the "married" camp and single friends try to recruit their married friends to the "single" camp either way everyone is responsible for their own behaviour
"Single women keep women single."
-Kevin Samuels
Doesn't matter if you're single or not, what matters is
1. Be sure about what you're talking about and not throwing theories
2. Is to have good intentions.
I've seen a guy single and giving good advices and I've seen many women give advices in attempt to drive and torn couples away.
It's primarily from women's side that this shit happen most of the time
"Ungrateful person"
How is he being ungrateful, she is abusing the fact he is drugged up to spend time with him,
There is literally nothing to be grateful for,
The nurse should genuinely be fired
Makes me wonder if marraige counselors try to save the marriage if it was a guy who cheated.
I hear too many stories of women just leaving even if the guy was spiked and raped by the girl but everyone around still cheer her on and encourage her to get everything she can in the divorce
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thats where ur wrong , u might be unattractive true but not ugly monster , this will go unheard if i say talk atleast one thing u love and all , been there done that , its you who should pick urself up , i cried after listening to his unattractive experience cause i strongly hate and could relate , even this morning after some podcast felt like yah i got nothing to look at , and then this hit me , its very unfair i feel sorry and thing like this shouldnt be even happening but treating equally is our birthright we dont need to earn it lets just call people on their bullshit cause the more they behave the way the more karma will f them up , 2nd ly if u dont treat urself with kind words no one will , y should someone love u if u dont do that to u , since u accepted solidity start treating urself better cause u are ur own companion
I think you are onto something. I'm a licensed counselor myself and often have to challenge other counselors (usually female, statistically) to check their sex based biases.
Yes, but unfortunately, we (women) don't have a privilege to get encouraged to "man up" and go to throw punches with our coach buddy or have some manly talks over beers. We are expected to forgive and be dosile and comforting even if the man cheats. The point is that every gender has its ups and downs in the society we live in. The grass is not greener on this side.
As a women I think this is ridiculous honestly.
I don't agree with this type of actions, but we only see the true price for revenge when we go through shit like that. Bro, being betrayed changes us to the worse.
I really like that O.P calls the reader and us champion. Hope he is doing well in his life
It’s actually very common in Mexico. It’s almost a term of endearment that you sometimes call friends or sometimes small children to boost their egos.
In the letter "This is the truth" proceeds to get caught by another lie she said to his face right then and there. She never intended to tell the truth, only her version of it.
I love the confidence OP developed. It was worth the 2 hours
Abraham gave him the Cobra Kai treatment. Good for him.
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@@MineQleydude I've seen comment bots with less annoyance then this
I think what OP said is quite interesting... I hear a lot of people wonder why they would even consider taking a cheater back, and OP mentionned the bargaining stage of grief. That just might be the answer
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Instant gratification, lack of will power, fear of being alone, literal brain chemical addiction. Overpower those, and eventually you actually will find the right one and prove the others along the way were wrong.
@@darkriku12all this. I got cheated on and allowed him to treat me horribly. I wish i had more will power but I grew up to my dad cheating on my mom and her taking him back. Not a good romance role model.
Now, if my partner cheats, i will throw them to the curb. Therapy does wonders.
38:54 I’d request a different Nurse because why are you interjecting. She is the literal reason he was there. That really annoyed me for some reason.
She cheated on him (for 9 MONTHS!!!) and expected him to take her back because she changed or she realized how much she loved him. I would of lost my shit with her and the nurse at the hospital.
Man, that party scene with princess really hit hard.
It literally made me cry! No living being should ever feel that way about themselves. I hate seeing people put themselves down because it’s all they’ve ever known due to the bullying they’ve endured all their lives.
Let's call him baldy" 😂😂 glad I wasn't drinking anything as I would have choked from laughter
This a story that I love to rewatch each time I find it.
The perfect ""revenge"" it's moving on with your life. Jane needs to acknowledge that she destroyed everything (She thinks she broke it but there is still time to fix it) and now she has to move on with her life in order to be a better person of herself. She has a great chance to move on because OP has decided to forgive her and stay friends with her (A miracle), she needs to forgive herself, heal and work on her narcissist tendencies.
you wanna know how fucked up she is?
women are more mentally rich than men, men have more stronger emotions, but women live battling emotions daily. she wont live another day without feeling the emotional burden of what she did. not.a.single.day in her life is gonna be free from the painful reminder that she brought this on herself. and booze, drugs, meaningless sex, none of that takes away from us the emotional burden, it worsens it sometimes. imagine being trapped in a endless loop of painful memories that you can not turn off, becuase our brains dont work that way
add to that the fact tht she is almost 40, and cant bare children
first, not being fertile disuades a LOT of men, cause most of them wanna plant the seed for having a children, you needing expensive proceedures will really put out any possible partner from the wider broader pool
40 something old women are not that atractive, human live arround 80 to 90 years, so she basically has half of her life already bruend out. she is gonna be on apps and dates of meaningless sex and some escapades for other married men
at 40 menopause arrives. so lets recap, shes old, she cant have children, and she is loosing the window for any artificial insemination.
she had all the things we look for in this life, a loving partner, a best friend, someone so loyal to you to give his life, and she tossed it all out to the crapper. and she knows that, she knows how fucked up she is. is just that the realization of how fucked up her life now is, how meaningless, worthless, unimportant she is now to ANYONE... is a monster far too big for some people to accept it. she KNOWS that from now on, no onw will ever love her again, not the same way she had been loved before. sshe had all heaven, and she is now rotting outta paradise
honestly, wouldnt be surprised if she ends herself in a time frame of 5 to 8 years, it would be a helluca coward move, but if she is delusional and desperate enough to ruin a life, most of us would kill for, she mgiht aswell be too coward to face a life as a miserable shell, so she might just chow down a buncha pills and fucking die XD
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LMAOOO her “owning her mistake” came after OP threatened to show her sister the video. She knew the OP could reveal the truth at ANYTIME so she easily could have revealed it herself for damage control. AND IT WORKED. Everyone gave her credit because of it, and it significantly reduced the fallout. I cant believe everyone missed that
That party scene is way to real. OP being "ugly" and how women treated him hit home hard. When you arent attractive women tend to not treat you like a human being. I know because I have faced that my whole life, no amount of women saying otherwise can change that.
It not even being treated like equal, women just ignore your existance. They treat you like trash that was left on the street. You can never do anything right. If you are polite or respectful they see you as weak and manipulative.
At 35 I cant accept that anyone would find me attractive. If a woman says I'm attractive I feel like she trying to trick me, or con me. In the mirror all I see is a ugly monster, and I cant change that. No amount of therapy can cure 25 years of abuse from women.
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Women like confidence. Not alpha macho confidence, but someone who is confident in themselves, their abilities, and their goals. Someone who they can rely on, will pick them up when they are down, and can be a gentle caring voice when its needed. As someone with body dysmorphia, it took me a while to understand this. I've been everywhere on the physical spectrum.
Very out of shape, and in very good shape. I thought having a six pack and a great physique was all I needed. But when I was still not getting any meaningful connections, I realized that was a shallow perspective. It was not until I worked out all of my internal dysfunction, learned to love myself and be comfortable and confident in who I am, that connections became more frequent.
Women can be shallow, yes, just as much as any dude. But, as men we don't have to worry about the same things that women do. We can walk alone down the street at night most of the time, without being scared someone's going to drag you off and force themselves on you. Or be creeped on by some guy who can't understand that you don't want anything to do with them.
You can't make overt generalizations on women, just as much as it would be wrong for a woman to do the same for all men. Get into therapy, work on yourself. Learn to love your positive aspects, and work on your negative aspects. Be open to work on them. Then work on the physique that you want. You don't need to be absolutely shredded or some Adonis, but just enough to look in the mirror and be happy with what you see.
Everything starts with one step. But you have to take that step, and you have to keep walking.
@@MineQleyhow does that correlate to anything this guy said? it's cringe to reply to someone's trauma with advertisements
@@idontknow2591 bro is hunting down the vid creator💀
Unattractive fat (yes it really is my thyroid) 36 yr old lady here. That goes both ways and guys can be just as ugly if you're bigger than average, hell even when I was average weight I never got attention except from old bar creepers.
My advice is to get a pet. Life ain't so bad. Or, call me the crazy cat lady. 😂 Whatever. I couldn't give two fairy farts what people think of me anymore. I'm too busy finding joy in all the little things I do have. If you don't have chronic pain and illnesses, count yourself VERY lucky and go find what brings you joy!
The amount of disrespect she has by using no protection. Jesus that alone merits NC
Why the F was mum sympathetic and "sorry about all this" did she not comprehend that this woman destroyed her son and his marriage, like wtf, cheaters deserve no sympathy, they are selfish and just trashy people the moment they even do or think about cheating.
Dude I cried from this .. this happened to me a year ago but luckily I wasn't married..I did everything right but some bum who has nothing to stand on was more important.. hearing this made me feel like I'm not the was who was messing up in mine thank you to the OP 💪❤️👍
How can the guy in the 1st story even trust women anymore. Every women he knew endet up being toxic, ungrateful and narcistic lol.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She even blame me for the rain
Good shit brother!!! You did something I couldn't. I ended up taking my ex back and then let go of a women I was with at that time that I seriously regret to this day. Ex ended up running off again and I lost the women who could've made me the happiest man on this earth.
A person who listens to random coworkers or friends demeaning their spouse is a problematic person.
My wife once had friends like that. Fora month after they met me they would constantly try to get her to dump me and/or hook up with other dudes when they would go out. Finally one night she snap at them and told them if they wanted to be miserable sluts, then that was their choice, and that she was sick and tired of them trying to turn her into a miserable slut too. "THOSE" types are miserable so try to make everyone around them miserable too. She lit into them for constantly disrespecting me and she stormed out. I got a text from my friend who was the bartender at that pub and she said she saw and heard my wife (then girlfriend) tearing them each a new ass hole before she paid her tab and left. I remember because she was pissed off when she got home. I asked her what happened and she told me. I was hurt that they would do that, but I was also angry. She cut them all off and hasn't spoken to any of them in 12 years now.
Really expected him to take her back, good for him for having some self respect. I sure that’s hard to do when you aren’t attractive
This guy sounds amazing and any woman would be lucky to have him. I’m genuinely happy for the dude and wish him well.
That boxing coach gave him the best advice and therapy. Good man. 🖤
"dodged those deadly diseases like a ninja" really?
@MineQley what a bot response
did she just like... forget about stds??? just cuz u can't have kids doesn't mean you shouldn't still be safe 😭 (not that cheating is okay lmfao like how you gonna cheat on me for almost a year and then CRY when i leave you 😭😭)
I am way too angry, vindictive, & petty.... All that negotiation. Everything she said would be met with a repeated:
"We are NEVER getting back together
"We are NEVER getting back together"
"We are NEVER getting back together"
"We are NEVER getting back together"..
In a writing on the chalkboard fashion so she'd get it through her head. I'd also send her Hallmark cards with that exact sentence.
angry vindictive and petty aren't positives, you know.
@@Cyborg_Lenin Your point?
"con-see-kwi-ance" lol never heard consequence pronounced like that before.
Yes! That kickboxing coach is what he needed most. That's the type of therapy a man needs. Everything turns physical for men.
Depression, feelings, happiness, they all manifest physically for men. So why isn't therapy?
Give a guy physical work and he'll have his problems mostly solved.
I was honestly thinking the same thing. That therapist is worthless, advising him to make the worst mistake of his life.
I don’t know a single woman that isn’t fully capable of this type of behaviour.
Ain’t it funny how they always learn when it’s TOO LITTLE TOO LATE.
She didn’t care that much about his feelings, needs and wants the nine months she was screwing bird brain (which is an insult to all the birds) And god knows how long that would go on if baldy wasn’t a possessive psychopath or if her husband didn’t catch her. I doubt she would be so remorseful
They call it being a toxic male, no it's just being a man. The fact that so many men have to go online to ask what to do in such obvious situations, shows how many young men need proper male guidance in their lives.
Not a single person called him toxic. Not even his cheating wife. Stip making shit up.
I think the number one thing that bothered me is that the MC didn’t acknowledge that Jane deciding to out herself publicly was just her NPD showing through. She was still seeking attention. That’s the only reason you do something like that. Her mentality frames it as punishment, but she’s still focusing attention on herself and her actions, and given that op even says she skirted the full truth and frames it as a lapse in judgement rather than her finding pleasure in getting one over on him, it’s kinda obvious.
Just the classic "get in front of it before it runs away" damage control. She knew everybody would've figured out eventually.
Whoever this guy is, I got a lot of love for him, that ending really hit home with me I’m going trough a tough break up right now and that ending made me feel it in my soul I hope and pray things get better, please god have her come back
I cannot catch my spouse in bed cheating and not catch a criminal case. Especially if i was getting gaslit
"Pone" got me laughing
Lol consequience made be ball laughing
Interesting story! Of course it’s totally fake, it’s like this guy is the main character in a movie, everyone loves him, he’s so tough and amazing. This is why I hate Reddit
Call me dumb but it has parts that make me think it could be real
@6secondsremain it's probably a story based on a true story but modified to be more entertaining and ideolised
@@matthiuskoenig3378 I agree as I said it has some possible real parts
I love when the good guys end up having a better life!
Buy a new mattress and different colored bedding if you're ever in this predicament... rearrange your bedroom too so that it feels and looks like something different. If you really want to refresh your mind, have someone else do it for you so you're walking into something completely different.
The way this is written it sounds like it could be a wattpad story, made into a netflix movie
Shes a very persistent person which makes her a great manipulator. For those who are empathetic like me, remember just because she was overlooked by girls and almost dismissed for her weight, doesnt mean she isnt also willing to do that to others. Basically, i feel bad for things that happened to her innhigh school and with the higher up hittign onnher at her job and her having to quit but bad things can happen to bad people
I think I would’ve told that nurse to mind her own fucking business.
See? This what can also happen when you let other people influence your decisions about your relationships. Jane's coworker, the "professional cheater" is a bad person. People like that hate love and happy relationships but gullible Jane let her influence her into wrecking her marriage. Coworker is Evil. Jane is stupid.
Con seek wee ence😂
This was very helpful to me as someone who recently was being cheated on by my ex with several women. Letting go of a seven year relationship is taking a toll on me especially with only 30 days until my finals.. It blew up for me in a bad way since our family was involved as everyone from his side keep asking me to reconsider and people from my side (except my parents) keep telling me how foolish I was to caught on too late but as they say, 'light at the end of the tunnel'... I hope and pray for anyone going through a tough time, for strength and peace in future.
finally an 1hr 30 story in a single story
when it come to this kind of vid (> 1hrs), I know that it's time to sleep LOL 🤣🤣
Lawyer: I'm sorry for you, but Jackpot... I ended up laughing... Sorry for laughing at your tough time.
I didnt know baldi did body building aside from math and education
This dude is a legend..
Good videos like this are what we need from reddit youtubers not that short crap that either doesn't link to the continued version or in multiple cases straight up leaving a link in the comments like it's useful for us mobile users. Thank you random stranger for actually bothering to put in effort
The reader had a stroke halfway
"i'm sorry for you but jackpot" 💀
Okay, what a dumb point at ~53:15. I've been cheated on, I've been gaslit, i've been abused physically and in other ways by my ex husband... The office is still my favorite show. ??????? "have you seen the sitcom the office?" Bro, it's one of the most popular shows in the world lmao.
baby trapping!! that made me laugh!!
It takes guts for her to admit to everyone she cheated on Op with some sleaze ball, though she should’ve been the bigger person not have cheated and told Op the signs that he was making moves on her.
harry’s instigating ass 😭😭💀💀
No getting together with SIL? I thought it was written on the wall.
Thank you, Abraham.. cool story..
So a man named Abraham trained you with kick boxing while demanding to know what you want, do better and try again? My guy had a JoJo redemption ark.
Terrible Nurse.
Mexico? Bro, a lot of cheating goes on in South/North America.
What do you mean by this
@@TheDevilEdo Ever been to Rio?
@epic7783 Yes
OP needs some self esteem, and to surround himself with good people. He's too fat for love? Thats bullshit. The only people who care about looks are not people you want to be around, let alone give your love to. He's older now, and theres tons of great middle age women and the right one or two (eyebrow wiggle) is out there for him.
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You need to know that his cheating wife just admits to him that she didn't feel aroused with him but when she sees a good looking dude even if he's a stranger he can at that moment hit it raw.. just cruel for a woman who walks with him through everything they suffer from the same sh**
She understands how he thinks.. but when she starts feeling confident first thing she does throw away the old shoes cuz she can get a new one now.. trust no one at this rate!
Awesome story. Can't belive i listened to the whole thing. Albeit in high speed.
10:13
“Conseekwe ense” 💀 bruh
I was looking for it😂😂😂😂
Reddit stories can’t be this interesting 90 minutes fully engaged
“I slept 26 hours” respectful sleep in
also i remember reading this comment in a video which i searched cause i was toxic to my friend and we broke up , so there it said "if you were not great and recognized and changed yourself , good but you cant get back to the person , you will deserve someone better for you but not that one " that stuck to me water doesnt flow back even after everything its not right to get back .
Its not just men that get the "ugly" look. Im a woman. Not attractive. Dont wear make up as i somehow end up looking like pennywise. It doesnt suit my face. Even just having friendly conversations with men, i can see behind their eyes they want to leave, but are just being polite. Some cant wait to leave and i can almost hear them screaming in terror as they fast walk away. Ive never flirted or hit on men. I know its a waste of our time and my energy. Im now 46 yrs old. Ive long accepted i will never be good enough for any man to marry and will never be truly loved by anyone. Its not true when people say we all have a purpose, and there is someone for every one. I dont get why people say it, knowing its all a lie. Its best not to say anything at all, it seems cruel to do so. If it happens, it happens 🤷 if not, then no. I just live my life. I have friends, my family dont have a lot to do with me, i dont talk much or see them often. I only have half siblings and they moved far away. My own mother never had any affection for me. ( no love lost there). Her family even avoided me growing up and ive never known who fathered me.( i came along after my mothers divorce) dont want to know. Dont care. Im happy surrounded by my animals. They love me, i love them and they dont judge.❤ Im used to being on my own. I prefer it as sometimes i just dont like being around other people. I dont go out unless i have to and i work with good people who dont judge me based on my looks. My life has turned out ok, all things considered. I dont feel lonely.
There's ALWAYS a man that will accept a woman. You probably just think he's too ugly for you. That's just your level. Lower your standards, I PROMISE there is someone out there for any woman who actually wants a man. You're just not pretty enough for the ones YOU want most likely.
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At least if you look like Pennywise, it makes a convenient halloween costume every year :)
Thank you for sharing, I'm glad you're okay with life.
There is always outliers, but this is more common for men than women. That's a fact. Glad to hear you're doing great!
Wow this arc of his life was really a train wreck but he did so well and i wish him all the best and hope he finds someone who can he can truly trust
Con-seque-ence
Just got to that part 😂 had to pause and go to the comments
Listening to this, it reminded me of my depresion, I met a guy like abraham and gething into a ring was the best therapy I ever had
He was the fool for speaking to her, any time after finding out she was a slag. He has "BOO BOO THE FOOL" stamped on his forehead, and she read it.
Its so fucking absurd that the government makes you try to reconcile with a cheater
more men should seek therapy through martial arts, if you are one of those men who find therapy not working.. find a martial art that you are drawn to, and dont even think about it, just go and involve yourself with day one in the gym or dojo, and find consistency! you got this champ!
Everyone here talking about what happened but this man used "Jaw Dropping" more than I've even seen before
i felt bad for the story but the thing that stood out the most "cone-see-quence"
1:12:32 I'm crying rn. I feel so sorry for him.
44:30 apart-a-met
I felt the same after finding out my girlfriend if you can call her that tried to wait until we got together before telling me about her past job where she was a porn star for years. After I found out I was broken full hearted ly and I couldn't see her the same way ever again.
Women love it when a man can handle himself.
“Why’d you blow him” I didn’t want to be rude 🤣
Bro had the gumption to read it instead of using ai and still spoke words as if an ai were reading it lol.
No hospital kept you 26 hrs for an anxiety attack... Let me find another video🙄
This ai reading is so terrible 😭😭😭
Wow what story I’m glad he was able to move on he’s the real champion
And no woman in this world is worth your peace of mind remember that always remember that before you make any decisions or choices in your life
Not gonna lie listening to him put himself down throughout the whole story was super sad and heartbreaking but when he told the story of him going on a blind date with “princess” i shed a couple of tears for him. No human should ever be made to feel so worthless. Especially when they’re going through a divorce from a marriage they were cheated on “with a better looking guy”.
19:10 infor-ration
Was this typed by a 16 year old or lame ai?
Not an AI. At least not solely an AI, I've seen the mess that AI write like, this doesn't fit. It seems to be modified to make the text-to-speech work properly. So I'd bet on the 16 year old.
He says English isn't his First language
@@JulianneTheChemistryStudentthis! My English was horrible before I spoke a lot of English and only listened to English things and I finally got good at English
So ofc the written language might be different
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The biggest bs is I won't do it again
Obviously fake but very well done. If I was OP's creative writing teacher it's an easy A+. Great structure, convincing details, really delved into the themes, and that resolution, spot on right at the last quarter of the story~! Mmm! Chef's kiss! Very well done!
32:41 =Is this the Philippines? Everything stops for a feast day... Reminds of the Feast of the Nazarene... Like dude, if you live in NCR, everything stops for that due to the traffic it will cause...
I thought that until the aztec eagle thingy, he's probably a native in a Latin American country
Huh, I'm sure I've heard this story before, but this seems like it's longer. Guess there were updates I didn't know about but I'm not complaining. Glad it all worked out in the end for OP. 🎉
41:20 “Unlike you I don’t have anything to hide”