"My parents weren't abusive, just controlling" That's a form of abuse. Also emotional and financial abuse as well. Too independent? What the hell is that crap?!
Ngl, this story is giving "19 year old revenge fantasy" vibes for me. "They wanted to make me completely dependant on them, so I decided to make them completely dependant on ME instead!!!" type of story
Nah, this is an AI Generated story, not even creative writing. Fake automated AI generated stories, always have these words, phrases, and sentences. *_Tumultuous, Palpable, Navigating, Challenges, Therapist, Counselling, Rollercoaster,_* *_Don't know what the future holds / Unexpected turn / One day at a time / A lot has happened / Do it for Dan / For the first time in a long time / but the curiosity got the best of me / the journey had been arduous / this new chapter in my life / your words have been a source of strength during this difficult time / part of me / for the first time in years / this whole experience is an eye-opening / cautiously optimistic_*
@@MCBRUCE76 i agree, ain't no one write anything like this😭even tho some real stories do use these phrases but like in this types ain't no way someone writting a whole english and grammar all correct way essay🙏
@@MCBRUCE76 , You are right. It seems all these stories' main objective is to destroy the family dynamic with a revenge type ending whereas the OP doesn't think they will ever be able to resolve their problem with parents. The older you get you realize how important family and especially parents are . I didn't see it when is was in my 20's , but sure do now
@@DirkWinchesterJust because someone is blood related to you, doesn't mean you have to keep them in your life, no matter what. If my understanding of what you're saying is correct, you shouldn't cut off even abusive family members, even if their presence in your life does nothing but harm you
I swear, OP's dad in this story was annoying the shit out of me. Like, come on dude. Quit being such a stubborn and resentful old fart and get your head out of your ass for once. You've been pulling this crap with your daughter for over a year now, and you still want to act as if everything's her fault. What is it going to take for you to admit that you and your wife needed help? That your daughter is not the villain in your story? With how much of a bratty child the dad is being, I find it insane that OP's mom (she isn't perfect either, but at least she's trying) hasn't filed for divorce yet. I'm aware that she still loves him, of course, but surely, she can't keep up with his attitude for any longer. That just sounds so energy-draining.
I know my parents let me do basically everything by myself with no help only when I ask them for help do they help me because that’s when I really need it
@1ts-Ch1Ch1 I'm good. I developed a love/hate with her years ago. She passed in 2008. Stories like this one take me back. The memories of it don't bother me anymore.
20 minutes long story short. Op family is very controlling and manipulative but later on it seems like the dad, who is so used to being top dog lost his job and isn't the top anymore, was the major cause why everyone in thr family behave the way they are. He seems to be too prideful. The family got hit, op mom business fail, their sibling drop out. Op help them. Op help their sibling get a part time job and pay twice for their tuition in college and helping them find a apartment to stay and move out. Op help her mom who surprisingly is very cooperative and actually apologize. Op help her mom start a new company, help with thr basics of running a business and help her create a expenses sheet so she can track her spending, basically stabilizing their financial situation. Op dad is an ass who refused to acknowledge op efforts and refuse to entertain any conversation about her. He says op is tearing the family apart because they are becoming too independent. Op and her sibling are not surprise and only barely deal eith him because they have a god relationship with their mom.
Insurance I understand, phone plan not as much. Usually Insurance unless you have a job you're usually kept in your parents until you turn 26 if I remember correctly
With some family plans it's actually cheaper to have more lines. That's why my ex stayed on her abusers family plan for so long. This story shows OPs father was basically willing to shoot himself in the foot to cut contact when his pride was hurt badly enough.
Hey atleast the mom and sibling apologized and admitted that they were wrong and terrible. You should be more angry at OP's dad the a$$hole has the audacity to call his children ungrateful, when it's literally him who is ungrateful, like your daughter who've you manipulated for most of her life is trying to help you financially, and is trying to rebuild her family relationship, and he's still being ungrateful piece of sh*t and not admitting he was wrong. Like what is wrong with this dude!?
This honestly rubs me the wrong way so much, OP also sounds pretty manipulative and while (I obviously wont have any proof and anything that could allude to it) it seems like OP mustve hid something they did that also contributed to it. Almost the whole story felt like OP was twisting the facts to benefit their image and felt very poorly based on what actually happened. Ofc I have no idea what actually happened, the phrasing just makes everything seem wrong
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"My parents weren't abusive, just controlling"
That's a form of abuse. Also emotional and financial abuse as well. Too independent? What the hell is that crap?!
Ngl, this story is giving "19 year old revenge fantasy" vibes for me. "They wanted to make me completely dependant on them, so I decided to make them completely dependant on ME instead!!!" type of story
Nah, this is an AI Generated story, not even creative writing.
Fake automated AI generated stories, always have these words, phrases, and sentences.
*_Tumultuous, Palpable, Navigating, Challenges, Therapist, Counselling, Rollercoaster,_*
*_Don't know what the future holds / Unexpected turn / One day at a time / A lot has happened / Do it for Dan / For the first time in a long time / but the curiosity got the best of me / the journey had been arduous / this new chapter in my life / your words have been a source of strength during this difficult time / part of me / for the first time in years / this whole experience is an eye-opening / cautiously optimistic_*
@@MCBRUCE76 i agree, ain't no one write anything like this😭even tho some real stories do use these phrases but like in this types ain't no way someone writting a whole english and grammar all correct way essay🙏
@@MCBRUCE76 , You are right. It seems all these stories' main objective is to destroy the family dynamic with a revenge type ending whereas the OP doesn't think they will ever be able to resolve their problem with parents. The older you get you realize how important family and especially parents are . I didn't see it when is was in my 20's , but sure do now
@@DirkWinchesterJust because someone is blood related to you, doesn't mean you have to keep them in your life, no matter what. If my understanding of what you're saying is correct, you shouldn't cut off even abusive family members, even if their presence in your life does nothing but harm you
@@MCBRUCE76 You forgot "not just surviving, but thriving"....😅
0:54 If you came from the short
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I swear, OP's dad in this story was annoying the shit out of me. Like, come on dude. Quit being such a stubborn and resentful old fart and get your head out of your ass for once.
You've been pulling this crap with your daughter for over a year now, and you still want to act as if everything's her fault. What is it going to take for you to admit that you and your wife needed help? That your daughter is not the villain in your story?
With how much of a bratty child the dad is being, I find it insane that OP's mom (she isn't perfect either, but at least she's trying) hasn't filed for divorce yet. I'm aware that she still loves him, of course, but surely, she can't keep up with his attitude for any longer. That just sounds so energy-draining.
I know, right? That Dad is a truly pathetic excuse of a human being.
Such a thin skin on that guy. Pride cometh before the fall.
Dad: No, you ingrate
he would rather die on a hill to protect his pride than admit that he is in the wrong and that they needed help.
@@davidgoodale4801 Sadly so, it seems. Like the old saying goes, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink"
How silly are those parents😂
I know my parents let me do basically everything by myself with no help only when I ask them for help do they help me because that’s when I really need it
So Dad... Will your pride keep the electricity on? Thought not.
They never lloved op they only wanted a toy to us.
OP's Dad and my Mom could be twins.
My reaction went: 😯→😧→😟.
@1ts-Ch1Ch1 Mine:. Been there, done that.
@@lindah3803 are you ok tho? 😟
@1ts-Ch1Ch1 I'm good. I developed a love/hate with her years ago. She passed in 2008. Stories like this one take me back. The memories of it don't bother me anymore.
@@lindah3803 glad to know that you're ok :)
To all the extended relatives - MYOB. This has nothing to do with you, it's only between the parents and the one child. MYOB.
20 minutes long story short. Op family is very controlling and manipulative but later on it seems like the dad, who is so used to being top dog lost his job and isn't the top anymore, was the major cause why everyone in thr family behave the way they are. He seems to be too prideful. The family got hit, op mom business fail, their sibling drop out. Op help them. Op help their sibling get a part time job and pay twice for their tuition in college and helping them find a apartment to stay and move out. Op help her mom who surprisingly is very cooperative and actually apologize. Op help her mom start a new company, help with thr basics of running a business and help her create a expenses sheet so she can track her spending, basically stabilizing their financial situation. Op dad is an ass who refused to acknowledge op efforts and refuse to entertain any conversation about her. He says op is tearing the family apart because they are becoming too independent. Op and her sibling are not surprise and only barely deal eith him because they have a god relationship with their mom.
Hmmm
Completely independent but still on their insurance and phone plan? That doesn’t make sense
Insurance I understand, phone plan not as much. Usually Insurance unless you have a job you're usually kept in your parents until you turn 26 if I remember correctly
I mean I wouldn’t wanna leave on the insurance either
Phone plan to probably tap her calls
With some family plans it's actually cheaper to have more lines. That's why my ex stayed on her abusers family plan for so long. This story shows OPs father was basically willing to shoot himself in the foot to cut contact when his pride was hurt badly enough.
This sounds like some Penticostal or Fundamentalist Baptist parents.
This is the first positive ending story I heard from Reddit in a very long time. I wish op's dad would swallow his pride though
Take a shot everytime they say “my dad would leave the room”
Uhh so I'm kinda early, but just remember.. Queen, never cry
Queen never cry.😢❌🤫🧏♂️
@@HammyHamsterHarbor queen, never cry. 👑🌎🧀🧆🧏♀️
queen never cry.
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@@boothillkissr queen, never cry. ✨🌎🧀🧆🧏♀️😭👑
Let me spend money on people who don’t give a damn about me, great revenge 🙄
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Hey atleast the mom and sibling apologized and admitted that they were wrong and terrible.
You should be more angry at OP's dad the a$$hole has the audacity to call his children ungrateful, when it's literally him who is ungrateful, like your daughter who've you manipulated for most of her life is trying to help you financially, and is trying to rebuild her family relationship, and he's still being ungrateful piece of sh*t and not admitting he was wrong. Like what is wrong with this dude!?
I would think parents would want their children to be independent. Leave the nest and fly high.
You did great.. ❤
My family just like yours but I am not strong enough to get out of their control
There is no way I’d help them.
The dad needs to get over himself.
Awesome
Why would you help your parents op?
I’m automatically assuming these are Asian parents due to how controlling they are
I assumed religious, but I can see that, too
Another BS AI generated story, with so much BS, that you could paint the whole world with that $hit.
How do you borrow groceries from a church pantry? It's not borrowing.
My face right now: (O_O)
Dad am cave him always right ooh ooh😂
Why is my content quiet?
Why did OP anonymously help them?
Probably because she felt they were still family but wanted to stay out of drama.
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I was the first but left, can I get one pin? 📍 😅
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8:58 idk
This honestly rubs me the wrong way so much, OP also sounds pretty manipulative and while (I obviously wont have any proof and anything that could allude to it) it seems like OP mustve hid something they did that also contributed to it. Almost the whole story felt like OP was twisting the facts to benefit their image and felt very poorly based on what actually happened. Ofc I have no idea what actually happened, the phrasing just makes everything seem wrong
Dad should have stayed at home by himself if he did not care for his children and the family is doing great with out him