Tell Lisa NO, I’m not babysitting on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. And NO, I’m not hiring a babysitter for you on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. If anybody chooses not to come, that is your choice and I’ll miss you. Let them all know you won’t be manipulated.
the "please pay mommy back for her spa day" got me shock and mad and you had every right to stand up for yourself (and congratulations to your marriage you and Chris have a happy marriage)
OMG! Why do people put up with gaslighting? Uninvite her & your parents & hire a babysitter with whatever you were supposed to spend on their meals & drinks!
shes supposed to pay for a babysiter for her SISTERS KIDS!? i agree that she should have uninvited her parents but she didnt have to pay for a babysitter thats just being a door matt and it will make lisa feel entitled to walk all over op and will just make the cycle continue
Older sis is jealous, which is why she constantly tries to sabotage OPs life. Dates, friend hangouts and even job opportunities were ruined/cancelled, because sister hates seeing OP happy....
The Children belong to your Sister, it is her job as a Mother to look after her Children and not yours. If she can't look after her Children, then she shouldn't have had to get pregnant. She is obliged to save Money for her Children. If your Parents agree with your Sister, then they should spend Money on her Children and babysit. Your Wedding, your Rules.
It is OK I can think of one person you can cut Out of the wedding your sister then she can babysit her own kids and she won’t need the spa day for the stress of going to your wedding
Tell Lisa NO, I’m not babysitting on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. And NO, I’m not hiring a babysitter for you on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. If anybody chooses not to come, that is your choice and I’ll miss you. Let them all know you won’t be manipulated. And Facebook is nobody’s judge and jury. Who cares?
"Wait, she got away from us - how do you write an apology letter?" "We've never apologized for anything - why do you think I know what one looks like? Use the word 'sorry' in it, I guess?"
Probably an AI story. A lot of them do this of every so often mentioning that they posted on reddit and that people always showed them support and everyone else shared their stories. And they do this in multiple updates throughout the post.
Just ask her WHY she is a single mom - clever daddy to keep away from that toxic woman, even if he was a little late, the kids were already there. Instead of hireing a babysitter, ask the ex(es) to come and see the children during your wedding😅 If sis is late, she has to stay outside, until there is a break in the ceremonies -> as a real bridezilla you should have ordered the niece and nephew to become flower-girl and ring bearer - with multiple rehersals, just to keep them away from their insane mom & your parentswould have to come too, just to help their grandchildren practise for that great day. Children love to be important... maybe your parents would understand that their grandchildren need more emotional help from them, than their spoilt and inconsiderete (adult?) mother. Best punishment for your sis - becoming unimportant, now that the next generation is growing up!
OP, it's time to outright uninvite those who feel that YOU should pay AND CONTINUE TO PAY for your sister's life choices. Think of how much more $ you'll have in your wedding budget when you don't have to pay for food for those who are trying to take advantage of you. When you confronted over the nasty fam. group chat and they said it was just a joke, you should have said: You're all uninvited. How's that for a joke. Be sure and grab a snap of the group chat where she mocked you, and project it onto a big screen at the wedding, whether your sister and her kids come or not. Send your sis n fam. that supports her pics of you posing under the projected chat.
did you laugh and hang up on your sister when she made that ridiculous man she wants to go on a spa day knowing that it's your wedding day and if she didn't know tell her and hang up!!your sister is an entitled idiotI care about no one but herself!those are her babies take them to the spa with her hang up your phone congratulations on your wedding I wish you all the happiness in the world God bless!!
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Tell Lisa NO, I’m not babysitting on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. And NO, I’m not hiring a babysitter for you on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. If anybody chooses not to come, that is your choice and I’ll miss you. Let them all know you won’t be manipulated.
the "please pay mommy back for her spa day" got me shock and mad and you had every right to stand up for yourself (and congratulations to your marriage you and Chris have a happy marriage)
“Please pay mommy for her spa day.” is wild. Sister really trying everything. Even used her kids.
I would've been cussing her out for having the audacity to use her kids as an emotional manipulation tool.
OMG! Why do people put up with gaslighting? Uninvite her & your parents & hire a babysitter with whatever you were supposed to spend on their meals & drinks!
shes supposed to pay for a babysiter for her SISTERS KIDS!? i agree that she should have uninvited her parents but she didnt have to pay for a babysitter thats just being a door matt and it will make lisa feel entitled to walk all over op and will just make the cycle continue
Older sis is jealous, which is why she constantly tries to sabotage OPs life. Dates, friend hangouts and even job opportunities were ruined/cancelled, because sister hates seeing OP happy....
No kids,no Lisa, no parents???? All that money you're saving......YAY!!!!!
That's a win-win-win situation.
I would have told sister and parents they were uninvited to my wedding and hince sister doesn't need a babysitter cause she won't be attending.
The word NO is a sentence in and of itself. If Lisa and the parents are trying to ruin OP's wedding, bann them from the venue.
The Children belong to your Sister, it is her job as a Mother to look after her Children and not yours. If she can't look after her Children, then she shouldn't have had to get pregnant. She is obliged to save Money for her Children. If your Parents agree with your Sister, then they should spend Money on her Children and babysit. Your Wedding, your Rules.
It took to long for the security and venue staff to get rid of Lisa and her brats. They had already been informed about her and her tactics.
Tell them all to get lost and outta your life.
Go no contact with your family at least for a few years
NTA if your mother won't take her side then ask her if it was the other way around would your mother make your sister do what she's asking for.
Lisa needs to get a job. Clearly she has a lot of time to cause trouble.
I dont understand why people allow others to use them and they have a problem saying NO and stick to set boundaries
It is OK I can think of one person you can cut Out of the wedding your sister then she can babysit her own kids and she won’t need the spa day for the stress of going to your wedding
Just block them..and don’t invite them to your wedding. And get law enforcements if they come to your wedding
Tell Lisa NO, I’m not babysitting on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. And NO, I’m not hiring a babysitter for you on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. If anybody chooses not to come, that is your choice and I’ll miss you. Let them all know you won’t be manipulated. And Facebook is nobody’s judge and jury. Who cares?
There are people who don’t accept the word NO for me no end of discussion & walk away
Some people are so toxic that if a rattle snake bit them the snake would die.
Typical with toxic people. They always manipulate family. You'll be surprised at the things my family stressed me out with, my sil and my mother.
Lisa and the parents would be uninvited right then. And anybody who agrees with that stupidity would also immediately be uninvited.
Just say 'I'm so sad you guys won't come, maybe another time' and go NC
"Wait, she got away from us - how do you write an apology letter?" "We've never apologized for anything - why do you think I know what one looks like? Use the word 'sorry' in it, I guess?"
You know what? U should cut the guest list short. Get Lisa and ur parents off the list. They don’t deserve to come
This story feels like OP is posting on reddit about a post she already made on reddit and is just doing a recap of it.
Probably an AI story. A lot of them do this of every so often mentioning that they posted on reddit and that people always showed them support and everyone else shared their stories. And they do this in multiple updates throughout the post.
Lisa SERIOUSLY needs to get a life. She's selfish and needs to 'shut the front door'
0:54 if u from short i think
The whole situation w Lisa is sad but 16:42 😂😂😂😂 this had me rollin
It's always family causing the stress
Tell your parents to hire someone to watch her kids...
Very nasty of your family ruining your wedding
Why couldn't the parents pay for the babysitter? Or lisa pay for the babysitter?
I would gave told the patents to watch them .
Just ask her WHY she is a single mom - clever daddy to keep away from that toxic woman, even if he was a little late, the kids were already there. Instead of hireing a babysitter, ask the ex(es) to come and see the children during your wedding😅 If sis is late, she has to stay outside, until there is a break in the ceremonies -> as a real bridezilla you should have ordered the niece and nephew to become flower-girl and ring bearer - with multiple rehersals, just to keep them away from their insane mom & your parentswould have to come too, just to help their grandchildren practise for that great day. Children love to be important... maybe your parents would understand that their grandchildren need more emotional help from them, than their spoilt and inconsiderete (adult?) mother. Best punishment for your sis - becoming unimportant, now that the next generation is growing up!
Tell lisa since she can afford a spa day for herself shen afford a babysitter too
OP, it's time to outright uninvite those who feel that YOU should pay AND CONTINUE TO PAY for your sister's life choices. Think of how much more $ you'll have in your wedding budget when you don't have to pay for food for those who are trying to take advantage of you.
When you confronted over the nasty fam. group chat and they said it was just a joke, you should have said: You're all uninvited. How's that for a joke.
Be sure and grab a snap of the group chat where she mocked you, and project it onto a big screen at the wedding, whether your sister and her kids come or not. Send your sis n fam. that supports her pics of you posing under the projected chat.
0:49 shorts people
Op would not be in this mess if she would just go no contact with her family and she shouldn't be surprised if her husband leave her
Hello grandparents can they not help
"How dare you ruin LISAS DAY.! I DONT CARE IF ITS YOUR WEDDING
!" - Op's shitty parents.
This didn happen.
The tempo is to fast
did you laugh and hang up on your sister when she made that ridiculous man she wants to go on a spa day knowing that it's your wedding day and if she didn't know tell her and hang up!!your sister is an entitled idiotI care about no one but herself!those are her babies take them to the spa with her hang up your phone congratulations on your wedding I wish you all the happiness in the world God bless!!
Slow down. Talking too fast.