Neglecting or abusing an animal. Just recently broke up with a boy that we really hit it off, seemed rather compatible, and liked eachother. There where a few negative things but I could have lived with/worked on those. But I met him for the first time in person after 4 months and saw his dog was thin as a rail, found out he wasnt on any preventive medicine for heartworms or fleas, never been to the vet, and so on. That killed my interest harder than a bunker buster. Broke up with him shortly after and called the humane society. Ringo I hope you can find a better home, cuz your such a sweet boy...
Ringo, I wish you the same buddy. I spent a couple hundred bucks a couple of weeks ago to get my cat’s teeth pulled and cleaned. Worth every penny and more, he best boy.
I always remind those people too like do you wanna see your dog die painfully from parvo, heart worm, etc? (I live in Amish country and they don’t care) Like it’s not fun to think about, that’s why we vaccinate so we don’t have to think about it.
@@qeshetanimals oh I did. He didn't seem to care and started arguing with me about all of it. I was going to try to stay freinds with him and try to help him improve since he said he cared about his dog. When he started arguing I knew he wouldn't change anything and at that point I dropped him like a hot stone and contacted the humane society. I unfortunately don't know the outcome but hopefully the dog gets the help and care he deserves
The stories about people crying are ironically my green flags as in, if you aren't sad when your pet/family/friend dies I am not interested in you. But if you cry, that's a green flag. I get that some people just don't cry but they're still feeling stuff. That's ok too.
Two weeks into seeing each other (five dates in, spaced a couple days apart), we’re talking and laughing about our shared interests and she says, “I’m glad we have stuff in common because eventually we’re gonna get married.” I was like, “WHAT?!” I told her that having things in common is NOT sufficient enough of a reason to be wed. Especially not two weeks in.” I told her then and there that our goals were different and that I wish her the best. Our shared acquaintance, which is who we met through, told me she was married just a few months later.
I used to think jealousy was cute, like awww he just wants me all to himself! He just wants to protect me from all those bad guys who just wanna get in my pants! Yeah... I learned the hard way that jealousy is not cute AT ALL. Small displays of jealousy in the beginning are usually masking some serious control issues.
I thought jealous guys were cute until he accused me of cheating with my baby cousin because I hugged her and said if we ever had a baby I’m not allowed to let my mom help (because somehow that was a threat to him) but he also doesn’t wanna help so I’d have to do it myself.
Anytime someone says their ex was "crazy" and they don't have any accounts of their ex actually harming them or threatening to. Just "crazy" cause they argued and they found it easier to dismiss how they could have caused someone to react badly.
17:46 If I was seeing someone and they decided express their racist opinions, especially if it was against someone who was a longtime friend, I would be done. The second she said what she said, she would be out of my place. Not only is that a quick way to get kicked out of someone's house, but it's a TERRIBLE example to set for your children, and I think thats much worse than getting kicked out of someone's place of living.
A man was following me and I was crying calling the dude I was dating but he wouldn’t pick up. Called my new friend of A WEEK and he calls my boyfriend. HE PICKED UP FOR HIM because he didn’t have his number saved in his phone/didn’t know him so he didn’t know to ignore him. So obviously he was just ignoring me plus I needed someone to come pick me up because of the man following me. I ended up walking to my grandmothers house bawling my eyes out when I was supposed to walk to my Dr but that would involve walking past a large strip of road with no cameras and I didn’t feel comfortable doing that.
This dude was like “I don’t mean to ignore you I just work a lot” yeah but you can pick up for him but not me? Mk sure. And I refuse to date someone who’s straight up gonna ignore me.
My brother lies about EVERYTHING, things that are so miniscule that it makes no sense to lie about considering most of us know its a lie, all the way up to the biggest and most important things. I don't understand it, at all.
My ex was talking about our first apartment together while he had no job and living with his parents while I was working full time, living with roommates and paying my own bills. When I asked him how he was going to help with bills and shit, his response was "Oh my parents will help us"
Always fun when a Christian denies something like space when if they even open the scriptures they would see that even the Lord and God themselves talk about the moon the stars the planets. There's universe about galaxies
I will be no more romantic interests for me. I learned from history. For every good person that genuinely may like you, there are easily 500 bad people. Those 500 people can cause a lot of damage, making finding the one good person not worth it at all. Thus, there will be no romantic interest in my future.
@@ahandl3 I quit trying to achieve an amicable and amorous relationship a long tune ago. It is already a way of life for me. I have adapted every meal, every endeavour, every task, every aspect of my life, to be able to be done alone. There are no friends,, no romantic interests, not even coworkers, in my life. What may sound unbearable for many that have a heavy dependency on the social herds, has made my existence extremely easy. I may have to think more about many things I must do. There is no help available from anybody because I function alone. I have even moved once without any help because no moving company traveled to the location I was going to move, nor from where I was moving. Uranium City is not held in high regard when it comes to any sort of money making opportunity. I have adapted so well to doing everything alone that I do not remember very much about doing things with others. It is not a bad life. Loneliness is rather like suffering a burn. The more recently you get a burn, the more it hurts. The longer back you received a burn, the less it hurts. Thus, the more recent one disconnects from being social, the more it hurts. The longer it has been since one disconnects from being social, the less it hurts. I suffered my burn a very long time ago. If I attempt to be social again and it ends in failure, which is likely what the outcome will be, the more I will hurt emotionally when I isolate again. I can not risk going though all the time it took to reduce severe emotional pain into a dull ache again. The first time it took four years to make the horrific pain tolerable. The rest of my life is already defined, when it comes to the social aspect of my life. There will continue to be no social aspect for me. This semi-anonymous TH-cam rant is close enough to a social existence for me. It just happens to be on a video sharing site on the commentary section.
For me something that kills a relationship is your lack to see my emotions I can see your emotions and I can care for them but can you do the same for me
My highschool has like 35-40 people and it cares to much about sports while we play schools with 1,000 or more people... it doesn't matter how low of a chance a school has of winning they'll always care about sports 😅
@@supportsniper4626 And that causes the system to fail everyone now sooooo if ur still in school dont be a fake be urself even if u gotta hang with the furries trust me emos furries and all that are better friends then most of the people on the sports teams i met like 3 people that was cheerleaders and jock types that wasnt actually trashy people soooo not every is bad just best to stick with the ''weird kids'' because they are more real then others
@@youdontneedtoknow106 our school is to small to be divided between sporty kids and others. I myself am in basically every cliche clique you can think of. I play 3 sports (not even great at them but still started every game/match/meet because again, small school, but the others put a lot of pressure on me because they care a ton about winning), but I am the awkward shy kid that has been adopted into every group (somehow both the weird outcast kids and popular kids consider me their best friend). It's cool tho cuz I'm in the best of both worlds.
Making someone feel small is also a great reason to NOPE out of a job with a haughty supervisor.
Neglecting or abusing an animal.
Just recently broke up with a boy that we really hit it off, seemed rather compatible, and liked eachother. There where a few negative things but I could have lived with/worked on those.
But I met him for the first time in person after 4 months and saw his dog was thin as a rail, found out he wasnt on any preventive medicine for heartworms or fleas, never been to the vet, and so on.
That killed my interest harder than a bunker buster. Broke up with him shortly after and called the humane society.
Ringo I hope you can find a better home, cuz your such a sweet boy...
@@UberDr009 Did you just use a gay slur? That's fucked up. Don't do that shit.
Ringo, I wish you the same buddy. I spent a couple hundred bucks a couple of weeks ago to get my cat’s teeth pulled and cleaned. Worth every penny and more, he best boy.
I always remind those people too like do you wanna see your dog die painfully from parvo, heart worm, etc? (I live in Amish country and they don’t care) Like it’s not fun to think about, that’s why we vaccinate so we don’t have to think about it.
@@qeshetanimals oh I did.
He didn't seem to care and started arguing with me about all of it. I was going to try to stay freinds with him and try to help him improve since he said he cared about his dog. When he started arguing I knew he wouldn't change anything and at that point I dropped him like a hot stone and contacted the humane society. I unfortunately don't know the outcome but hopefully the dog gets the help and care he deserves
The stories about people crying are ironically my green flags as in, if you aren't sad when your pet/family/friend dies I am not interested in you. But if you cry, that's a green flag. I get that some people just don't cry but they're still feeling stuff. That's ok too.
Lack of curiosity for the world
Two weeks into seeing each other (five dates in, spaced a couple days apart), we’re talking and laughing about our shared interests and she says, “I’m glad we have stuff in common because eventually we’re gonna get married.” I was like, “WHAT?!” I told her that having things in common is NOT sufficient enough of a reason to be wed. Especially not two weeks in.” I told her then and there that our goals were different and that I wish her the best. Our shared acquaintance, which is who we met through, told me she was married just a few months later.
I actually agreed with her up until that last sentence. The red flag energy was really backloaded on that one.
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I used to think jealousy was cute, like awww he just wants me all to himself! He just wants to protect me from all those bad guys who just wanna get in my pants! Yeah... I learned the hard way that jealousy is not cute AT ALL. Small displays of jealousy in the beginning are usually masking some serious control issues.
I have jealousy issues I’m working on it whenever it arrives. Not good characteristics to have.
I thought jealous guys were cute until he accused me of cheating with my baby cousin because I hugged her and said if we ever had a baby I’m not allowed to let my mom help (because somehow that was a threat to him) but he also doesn’t wanna help so I’d have to do it myself.
@@qeshetanimals I hope you escaped from him. Jealousy is negative trait from insecurities.
If they baby talk. I’m not an infant, I don’t even like it for infants, talk to me like the adult we both are.
Minimizing accomplishment is so abusive. You deserve someone who celebrates you.
Anytime someone says their ex was "crazy" and they don't have any accounts of their ex actually harming them or threatening to. Just "crazy" cause they argued and they found it easier to dismiss how they could have caused someone to react badly.
It makes me laugh when grown adults tell lies about everything. Like what are you 4 yrs old. Wtf you lying for
17:46 If I was seeing someone and they decided express their racist opinions, especially if it was against someone who was a longtime friend, I would be done. The second she said what she said, she would be out of my place. Not only is that a quick way to get kicked out of someone's house, but it's a TERRIBLE example to set for your children, and I think thats much worse than getting kicked out of someone's place of living.
A man was following me and I was crying calling the dude I was dating but he wouldn’t pick up. Called my new friend of A WEEK and he calls my boyfriend. HE PICKED UP FOR HIM because he didn’t have his number saved in his phone/didn’t know him so he didn’t know to ignore him. So obviously he was just ignoring me plus I needed someone to come pick me up because of the man following me. I ended up walking to my grandmothers house bawling my eyes out when I was supposed to walk to my Dr but that would involve walking past a large strip of road with no cameras and I didn’t feel comfortable doing that.
This dude was like “I don’t mean to ignore you I just work a lot” yeah but you can pick up for him but not me? Mk sure. And I refuse to date someone who’s straight up gonna ignore me.
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Same here, I can't fathom how people can meander through life without thinking ahead/ planning anything.
Run like hell dudes.
Geasus and Geans are my sh*t with the text to speech lol
Looking down on someone who has less than you. Grew up surrounded by working class peeps. Infuriating to say the least.
My brother lies about EVERYTHING, things that are so miniscule that it makes no sense to lie about considering most of us know its a lie, all the way up to the biggest and most important things. I don't understand it, at all.
"gee-sus"
Say they don’t like/respect animals, it’s a big nop
_Turtle approved_
Shut up dude.
Hi, turtle.
WEENIS
My ex was talking about our first apartment together while he had no job and living with his parents while I was working full time, living with roommates and paying my own bills. When I asked him how he was going to help with bills and shit, his response was "Oh my parents will help us"
Always fun when a Christian denies something like space when if they even open the scriptures they would see that even the Lord and God themselves talk about the moon the stars the planets. There's universe about galaxies
It's literally in the first chapter of the whole bible. XD
Thank you for this
I will be no more romantic interests for me. I learned from history. For every good person that genuinely may like you, there are easily 500 bad people. Those 500 people can cause a lot of damage, making finding the one good person not worth it at all. Thus, there will be no romantic interest in my future.
I feel that way too. But we are being bitter my friend. I want to have hope but it's scary as heck.
@@ahandl3 I quit trying to achieve an amicable and amorous relationship a long tune ago. It is already a way of life for me. I have adapted every meal, every endeavour, every task, every aspect of my life, to be able to be done alone. There are no friends,, no romantic interests, not even coworkers, in my life. What may sound unbearable for many that have a heavy dependency on the social herds, has made my existence extremely easy. I may have to think more about many things I must do. There is no help available from anybody because I function alone. I have even moved once without any help because no moving company traveled to the location I was going to move, nor from where I was moving. Uranium City is not held in high regard when it comes to any sort of money making opportunity. I have adapted so well to doing everything alone that I do not remember very much about doing things with others. It is not a bad life. Loneliness is rather like suffering a burn. The more recently you get a burn, the more it hurts. The longer back you received a burn, the less it hurts. Thus, the more recent one disconnects from being social, the more it hurts. The longer it has been since one disconnects from being social, the less it hurts. I suffered my burn a very long time ago. If I attempt to be social again and it ends in failure, which is likely what the outcome will be, the more I will hurt emotionally when I isolate again. I can not risk going though all the time it took to reduce severe emotional pain into a dull ache again. The first time it took four years to make the horrific pain tolerable. The rest of my life is already defined, when it comes to the social aspect of my life. There will continue to be no social aspect for me. This semi-anonymous TH-cam rant is close enough to a social existence for me. It just happens to be on a video sharing site on the commentary section.
That pepe is something else 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
10:41 Well there's someone whose likely pro-eugenics
I'm autistic 😢
Thanks for the video
For me something that kills a relationship is your lack to see my emotions I can see your emotions and I can care for them but can you do the same for me
I had that problem
Relationships are overrated any way.
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Please don’t actually kill kiwis.
They are an endangered species.
Their population is already low as is.
Wow, EVERY FUCKING REDDIT POST on dating red flags is about littering! Holy shit, is it really THAT BAD??!!
It’s pretty rude. If you don’t pick it up, someone else has too.
Last one:
Nothing, it's just God...
So they haven't even read the very *first* chapter of the bible then have they...
Jesus I’m here early
Can you change your voice?
Cheerleader never date one to high of a risk alot of them are just jerks unless u got a school that doesnt care about sports
My highschool has like 35-40 people and it cares to much about sports while we play schools with 1,000 or more people... it doesn't matter how low of a chance a school has of winning they'll always care about sports 😅
@@supportsniper4626 And that causes the system to fail everyone now sooooo if ur still in school dont be a fake be urself even if u gotta hang with the furries trust me emos furries and all that are better friends then most of the people on the sports teams i met like 3 people that was cheerleaders and jock types that wasnt actually trashy people soooo not every is bad just best to stick with the ''weird kids'' because they are more real then others
@@youdontneedtoknow106 our school is to small to be divided between sporty kids and others. I myself am in basically every cliche clique you can think of. I play 3 sports (not even great at them but still started every game/match/meet because again, small school, but the others put a lot of pressure on me because they care a ton about winning), but I am the awkward shy kid that has been adopted into every group (somehow both the weird outcast kids and popular kids consider me their best friend).
It's cool tho cuz I'm in the best of both worlds.
@@supportsniper4626 The question is do u bully others for what they enjoy?
@@youdontneedtoknow106 If I did I wouldn't also be friends with the "weird" kids. So no, I don't bully others.
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