Stages Of A Long-Distance Relationship

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  • @pheebs713
    @pheebs713 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4471

    Long distance is absolutely soul destroying sometimes.

    • @infantestelar
      @infantestelar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Phoebe Sparkes true.

    • @sarahevans1844
      @sarahevans1844 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Isn’t that the truth...

    • @petrageboyselghouati6359
      @petrageboyselghouati6359 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Perhaps but it depends on the other partner

    • @abhijitroy1958
      @abhijitroy1958 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hard truth , I faced it so damn bad

    • @olly1793
      @olly1793 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Phoebe Sparkes Even that is an understatement..😞

  • @KittyxGrimm
    @KittyxGrimm 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3752

    The worst part is seeing other couples who get to see each other every day and not have to rely on Facebook or Skype to talk to each other, knowing that you can’t have that.

    • @kittenssofie7162
      @kittenssofie7162 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ik :(

    • @MrsGretchen123
      @MrsGretchen123 8 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      And then they complain about 3 days not seeing each other

    • @gamechanger80
      @gamechanger80 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel ya

    • @angexiety4815
      @angexiety4815 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +MrsGretchen123 IKR

    • @Emiliajosefina
      @Emiliajosefina 8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      +MrsGretchen123 Ikr! I had a friend coming up to me all sad and complaining how much she misses her bf as she had just said bye to him an hour ago. And the best part; she knew she would see him the next day. Ugh.

  • @dawnleadbeater19
    @dawnleadbeater19 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4576

    I get so jelouse of people who get to see my boyfriend everyday 😭

    • @tamallimahan6957
      @tamallimahan6957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You are a keeper!

    • @m4rdoo
      @m4rdoo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dawn Leadbeater lmao my Girlfriend said the same to.me

    • @nuclearstarrs
      @nuclearstarrs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FATTER SAME

    • @joashnalzaro1405
      @joashnalzaro1405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have the same feelings too😭

    • @melodyjacobs7524
      @melodyjacobs7524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joashnalzaro1405 same man its hard

  • @moonwolf6539
    @moonwolf6539 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7035

    *Sigh* ._. Long distance squad where you at.

  • @nishikachaudhary123
    @nishikachaudhary123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2759

    7.5 years in a long distance relationship. Getting married next year 😍

    • @its.bernice
      @its.bernice 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      nishika chaudhary good for you :)

    • @cressida985
      @cressida985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I am so happy for u. Happy married life ahead😊😊

    • @grishmamhatre1247
      @grishmamhatre1247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Congrats

    • @rmanjula385
      @rmanjula385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Congratulations Nishika😍

    • @smilingsmartie123
      @smilingsmartie123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Congratulations! That’s not easy, but wow what an amazing pay off❤️

  • @jesseforrester9231
    @jesseforrester9231 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5739

    I think one of the hardest things is when you fight. You just can't show up with flowers and chocolate XD

    • @adriennesamantha
      @adriennesamantha 7 ปีที่แล้ว +259

      Jesse Mwangi I suppose that is good thing because you both rely on your communication skills then :)

    • @zellarsDD777
      @zellarsDD777 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Or you can just not fight

    • @angurishudesu
      @angurishudesu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      zellarsDD777 No arguments in a relationship means both are hiding something from each other or is not honest with each other

    • @essie.lately
      @essie.lately 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kenyaaan

    • @isabellal.garcia9804
      @isabellal.garcia9804 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jesse Mwangi me and my bae just fought and now where talking afín havent been away from him for about to day

  • @FruitBasketyay
    @FruitBasketyay 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10987

    nah there is a lot more crying involved from my experience

    • @MeganBonti
      @MeganBonti 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      +FruitBasketyay Sameeeeee

    • @MB-xh4gf
      @MB-xh4gf 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      trueee

    • @enesyapar3383
      @enesyapar3383 8 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      +FruitBasketyay THE MOST LOGICAL COMMENT

    • @jessicamartinez5117
      @jessicamartinez5117 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Me too!!!! Everytime we leave each other

    • @cat.trainer7678
      @cat.trainer7678 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Indeed

  • @palij.7226
    @palij.7226 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2441

    3 years in a long distance relationship! And one hour ago I bought airplane tickets to go see him as a surprise! Yay! 😍

    • @Flareontoast
      @Flareontoast 8 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      amazing!! good luck you two

    • @ilyowen5817
      @ilyowen5817 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Good luck , hopefully not catfished

    • @coffeeghost666
      @coffeeghost666 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      +Mercury they've probably skyped before, you can't be in a ld relationship for three years and not Skype

    • @BharadwajGiridhar
      @BharadwajGiridhar 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +paula vera Good luck ^_^

    • @romyvdd2570
      @romyvdd2570 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I Wish you al lot of happinness and love together!

  • @oatmilkcoffeelover
    @oatmilkcoffeelover 7 ปีที่แล้ว +822

    No, its way more difficult than it looks like on the video. It's very hard. You cry too often maybe everyday. You can't see your girl/boyfriend everyday, you can't see her/his smile, eyes. You can't hug or kiss.
    It's emotionally very hard.
    But if you really truly love her/him, he/she will wait you and long distance doesn't bother you.

    • @JustLIkerapunzel
      @JustLIkerapunzel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Coming from someone who is in a LDR for the third time (third partner - yeah don't even ask how I always end up in this situations...) - no You shouldn't be crying every day. Yes it sucks but I think if you're long distance it isnimportant to keep living a somewhat similar lifestyle as if you were single - just with the advantage of having a partner to talk to. You should keep focussing on yourself a lot and chase after own goals and invest into friendships and hobbies / carrier. Like this you will be too budy living in the present to always overthink how it sucks that your partner lives somewhere else. But then again - it took me 2 ex partners to finally get the hang of it lol

    • @akemi2929
      @akemi2929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@JustLIkerapunzel That's a positive take on the situation! Thanks for this!

    • @simarkaur3643
      @simarkaur3643 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

    • @Meemeeneh
      @Meemeeneh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don’t know but I almost cry every day. When I look at other couples I feel jealous and look at myself I feel really empty. I’m really tired of waiting and I really miss my hubby, this year is horrible for me cus we can’t be together. It’s tough and a lot of stress

    • @unknownboo8738
      @unknownboo8738 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Meemeeneh how are things now

  • @saraozuna3506
    @saraozuna3506 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1687

    Yo the feels are strong with this one.

    • @lizpasquali9822
      @lizpasquali9822 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is the only sirious buzzfeed

    • @carsnbikes914
      @carsnbikes914 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +liz awesomeness Serious* and you forgot the . at the end.

    • @stanen
      @stanen 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ikr i tend not to get emotional on thing like these but this video thoo

    • @nonono777
      @nonono777 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Stan Ikr I almost got teary eyed

    • @3rdeyeboi319
      @3rdeyeboi319 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      true

  • @multi1234star
    @multi1234star 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4004

    If only skype work as well as it looked in the video.

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +728

    Being in a LDR is really hard and challenging but it's all worth it. Anything worth having is always worth the wait so it's pretty amazing.

  • @leightong35
    @leightong35 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1893

    I've been in a long distance relationship for two and a half years, and we're finally moving in together in July. I feel this is an accurate representation :')

    • @artisticbuilding6852
      @artisticbuilding6852 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YAAASSS

    • @BlueHorse17
      @BlueHorse17 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Aoife Gray Congratulations! I was in two in the past and they didn't work. I'm glad yours did :)

    • @nerdymiumiu
      @nerdymiumiu 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck ! Very happy to hear that

    • @florenceryu8648
      @florenceryu8648 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awwww congratulations!!!

    • @Sam-ki1rs
      @Sam-ki1rs 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Aoife Gray Congrats!! How sweet!! makes my heart warm to hear this ;D

  • @aikoyumiko7961
    @aikoyumiko7961 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3436

    Finally moving in with my long distance relationship after 10 years next year!!!! Can't wait!!!!

    • @giselhurtado1124
      @giselhurtado1124 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Aiko Yumiko :')

    • @danam358
      @danam358 7 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      Aiko Yumiko wow so there is hope after this long? We been together 5 years LDR

    • @onefeatherboi2342
      @onefeatherboi2342 7 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      could you tell me you secret? my girlfriend and I are about to be 9 hours away from each other when college starts...

    •  7 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Wow thats very long, and very strong done off you :) Impressive! I have been together with my long distance boyfriend for 3 years, and we plan to try to move in together in 2 years! It works very well!

    • @michellexx2072
      @michellexx2072 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Aiko Yumiko that just gave me so much hope. And the best wishes!

  • @chenalindelossantos967
    @chenalindelossantos967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    the worst part is not knowing when you see each pther again. 😭💔

    • @stanpines9011
      @stanpines9011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Even harder is when your gf literally lives 2,161 miles away so you know you're not going to meet anytime soon

    • @allstr8peopledeservetodie10
      @allstr8peopledeservetodie10 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stan Pines LITERALLY ME like I'm just a girl in love with another girl who happens to live 2000 miles away I'm sad

    • @MoriahRichter
      @MoriahRichter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me and my husband right now, stuck in different countries until this is all over and the borders reopen 😭

    • @chenalindelossantos967
      @chenalindelossantos967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MoriahRichter i hope you stay strong for each other. 🙏🏽

    • @juliehoule655
      @juliehoule655 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MoriahRichter That's so hard! I really hope you can hug him soon. Can I ask you what you do when you feel sad? I can't see my boyfriend either because of the virus and sometimes I get depressed!

  • @saffodils
    @saffodils 8 ปีที่แล้ว +936

    They leave out all the pixelations and accidental call drops of the accursed Skype.

  • @Kaynighthood
    @Kaynighthood 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1648

    I expected them to break up at the end and I'm so happy they didn't. It's like buzzfeed telling everyone in an ldr (myself included) to hang in there. :,)

    • @joelle4789
      @joelle4789 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Kay Nighthood I'm also in a ldr. I really need some advice. I know we don't know each other but I need help from someone in the same position

    • @Tatusiek_1
      @Tatusiek_1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Joelle I can help, i know this reply is really old, but if you still need it and you’re still in the relationship if you’re that committed

    • @sunilkumarviralvideos2025
      @sunilkumarviralvideos2025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Tatusiek_1 can u help me , i m also in ldr n i m always in tense becoz of it

    • @nutmeg1096
      @nutmeg1096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I almost didn’t watch this because I didn’t want to see a negative outcome. I need to stay as positive as possible. Ldr is challenging enough. It takes a lot of understanding and love.

    • @progress618
      @progress618 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sunilkumarviralvideos2025 still relevant brother?

  • @unapologetic906
    @unapologetic906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Long distance may be difficult...but in these days finding true love also difficult

    • @myworld665
      @myworld665 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly 💯

  • @Izalco72
    @Izalco72 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6227

    Here's the message of the video:
    Burritos bring people together

  • @danielwallace7991
    @danielwallace7991 8 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    Too relatable. Going through this right now. Sucks saying goodbye after meeting up.

    • @frocity
      @frocity 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Feelbadman

    • @Sara-kr8uc
      @Sara-kr8uc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I agree, last time I had to do that I swear I cried the entire plane ride

    • @haneenabuhamam5153
      @haneenabuhamam5153 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      at least u meet up.

    • @Sara-kr8uc
      @Sara-kr8uc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I got to see him once, I moved away from him a year ago... he's a 24 hour drive away

    • @haneenabuhamam5153
      @haneenabuhamam5153 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kat Thorne well.. was far from him 4 days driving .. good luck to u both 😊

  • @noahstuckless1309
    @noahstuckless1309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Long Distance is hard, really hard sometimes. My Incredible gift from Jesus, Julie, lives 5 and a half hours away, and I don’t normally write on stuff like this but I felt like someone could use this. Love is REALLY hard to find, there are millions of people who would kill to have someone to talk to no matter how far. Long Distance is such a test of love and many people don’t see the benefit, he glass half full! If someone is willing to love you and be with you from hours away, that is it’s own kind of blessing! Feel free to ask any questions!

    • @anaselmouki2832
      @anaselmouki2832 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      if the couple get into an argument, how can you make the opposite one forgive you since you're far away from each other

    • @Tamarabacher
      @Tamarabacher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh How beautiful :) the way you Talk about your Girl and your Relationship is simply Amazing :-)

    • @KAIZORIANEMPIRE
      @KAIZORIANEMPIRE 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Try a different country lol

    • @joselizardo8455
      @joselizardo8455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anas El Mouki she/he might forgive you in front of a camera or in person, it doesn’t matter the odds are the same. A relationship that the couple see each other can break up. Distance doesn’t certify to you that is going to work. I’ve been in both relationships, in person and in distance. Long distance relationship worked, in person didn’t.

    • @absanchez777
      @absanchez777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow 5 and a half hours away I wish I was 5 and a half hours away, least you two can see each other on weekends and vacations or least meet half way. Try being in different counties and serving in the military

  • @mrsjcjb
    @mrsjcjb 8 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    This hit in me in the feels pretty hard. I'm currently in a long distance relationship and I'm very determined to make sure it works out.

    • @XxJherySantos1xX
      @XxJherySantos1xX 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      sameeeeee good luck...

    • @mrsjcjb
      @mrsjcjb 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      XxJherySantos1xX thank you. Good luck to you too.

    • @Sara-kr8uc
      @Sara-kr8uc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am too, it's so so hard but I love him alot so we will make it work

    • @XxJherySantos1xX
      @XxJherySantos1xX 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Kat Thorne I love her a lot.. And I plan on trying and see where this can go.. good luck to you too

    • @Sara-kr8uc
      @Sara-kr8uc 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +XxJherySantos1xX thanks

  • @MsBurntToast
    @MsBurntToast 8 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    Been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. I consider myself lucky since he's only an hour plane ride away. Still tough. Very very tough. Shout out to all the ldrs out there. Hang in there...

    • @00Re00bek00
      @00Re00bek00 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks!

    • @MorteEtDabo267
      @MorteEtDabo267 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +MsBurntToast my girlfriend is an hour plane ride away too, we've been together for 6 months but it is really tough still. Luckily I'm moving to be with her in California next year because I was raised there and plan on going to college there.

    • @MsBurntToast
      @MsBurntToast 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +NickisWonderland You're lucky. (: Enjoy it. Savor the moments.

    • @katietorres5864
      @katietorres5864 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My one year anniversary with my ld girlfriend is on Saturday! I'm so happy. She lives in Kansas and I live in NY. It's been hard at some points but we make it work.

    • @MorteEtDabo267
      @MorteEtDabo267 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +MsBurntToast thank you

  • @balintanna2311
    @balintanna2311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    It’s a pretty old video, but i decided i will share my story here😊
    So me and my boyfriend started long distance 1 year ago, I remember I watched this video then, and now, one year later, youtube recommended this for me again. My boyfriend is going to move to my country this Friday. We made it trough the whole year, i am not gonna lie, it was hard, but we never cheated, or thought about break up.So anyone who read this, and having a rough time while this roller coaster, remember, it will be easier, just keep going! I know it sounds kinda corny, but true love will survive!💗

    • @giovannaflasmo3001
      @giovannaflasmo3001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m gonna share my story with you
      Well, I met my boyfriend through the internet almost 4 years ago. He was an exchange student at my country (Brazil) but, I didn’t have the chance to meet him in person that time. He went back to his country (New Zealand) 3 month after we started talking (January 2017), and we never stopped talking since. In November 2018 he booked a flight to Brazil and he came to see me in person for the first time. The 3 weeks he was here were amazing but, he had to go back. On June 29th 2019 he asked me to be his gf (we were already exclusive but that made us official), 5 months after that he moved to Argentina to live with his best friend. In February 2020 he came back for 5 days and I miss him ever since. He’ll be back in May!

    • @balintanna2311
      @balintanna2311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Giovanna that is really sweet😊Just keep going, it’s worth it!

    • @22Szz
      @22Szz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bálint Anna I need your advice you have Instagram ?

    • @balintanna2311
      @balintanna2311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Curly Goddess hey there! Yeah sure ask me anything 😊: _fitt_lifestyle

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  • @AngstyTeenagers
    @AngstyTeenagers 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1584

    they showed them saying bye and all but they totally forgot the part where you're SOBBING UNCONTROLLABLY and letting go of each other is almost impossible and then crying the whole plane ride home.. and then crying some more when you get there

    • @seafoam5245
      @seafoam5245 8 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      It's literally the saddest thing I've ever experienced

    • @Ruby-Rosales
      @Ruby-Rosales 8 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      the day after they leave is spent motionless in bed, except for the crying and shoving cream cheese danishes in your face :(

    • @Surnamehere
      @Surnamehere 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I dropped my BF off at the airport about two months ago. He waved goodbye at me before I pulled off. Once I had hit the highway I exploded into tears and cried so hard I had to pull to the shoulder. Literally felt like a miniature heartbreak. Then I got use to life without him again in two days. It makes me not even want to see him because we both know he have to leave soon and I’ll have to experience the separation sadness all over again.

    • @REPTARisaG
      @REPTARisaG 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm a guy who had sadly has yet my meet my love in person. It already going to be that much harder to go and hurts knowing it's going to a while before I see again..

    • @Kenzalineee
      @Kenzalineee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mallary B I thought I was the only one! It gets harder every time we have to leave each other 😔

  • @jaygeeh
    @jaygeeh 8 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I've been in a long-distance relationship for 3 years. He's finally moving here next year - we're already making plans. It's been a rollercoaster, but it's all worth it. :)

  • @ashleygraham6742
    @ashleygraham6742 6 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    You really need to be independent and confident in yourself to survive a relationship like this.
    Shout out to those who have been brave enough. Bc it's never worked out for me.

  • @WildShakz
    @WildShakz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +649

    Been there done that. It's hard, it hurts and it sucks.

    • @PrupleLeon
      @PrupleLeon 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      +WildShakzTM when one of them is not sure about it

    • @fr801
      @fr801 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +WildShakzTM yup. I'm in one right now it's totally worth it, especially when you meet your soulmate

    • @The4lex97
      @The4lex97 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah i know it...

    • @samn227
      @samn227 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +laura eugene same thing happened to me :/ i still miss him

    • @ayylauraaa
      @ayylauraaa 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Sam N we can get over it together girl 😂😂😭💪🏻

  • @alyssademarzo7939
    @alyssademarzo7939 8 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    where's the glitchy skype calls? where are the rest of their tears? How about falling asleep on facetime? but seriously I am in an LDR and its all worth it

  • @SilvanaRecord
    @SilvanaRecord 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Hey People! Long distance can work out! I was 17 when I met my boyfriend (he was a trainee in a restaurant), he had to finish his last class in Slovakia, and I live in Germany. After 10 month long distance, he moved to Germany and now, after 7 years we're still together and since 2 years we're happily married :-) ♡

  • @mixxling
    @mixxling 8 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    Long distance can be really tough. My husband and I were long distance initially in our relationship; we met online. It was hard, to be sure. But we ended up making it and now we're married and living together and we're both happier than either of us ever imagined ^_^

    • @Lunations
      @Lunations 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +Missy M. I'm so happy for you! I really hope things go through with my long distance relationship. We have been together for 4 years and have only had two chances to see each other, it's been tough.

    • @mahimawho7676
      @mahimawho7676 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mixx This is what me and him dream of😢

    • @emilymarie7212
      @emilymarie7212 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      awwww

  • @Greenday4537
    @Greenday4537 8 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    My wife and I are finishing 4+ years of long distance this month. Makes me want to puke when I here people cry about their "long distance relationship" when they are only like an hour apart.

    • @93manli
      @93manli 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Word

    • @MissLadyStardust
      @MissLadyStardust 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Greenday4537 Same. My boyfriend and I are about 700 miles away which is definitely not as far as most LDRs but it's not easy to get from Savannah to DC on a college budget.

    • @sydkne
      @sydkne 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm literally across the country from my SO :(

    • @nlove4921
      @nlove4921 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine just moved even farther across the country😑

    • @mickylalambert5425
      @mickylalambert5425 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree! My man is 3000+miles away from me, we've been together 4 years too and still stronger than ever. He's moving in with me at the end of this year

  • @etherealelf
    @etherealelf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Did long distance for 3 years, been together for 7. Getting married next year 😍

    • @ketchupbottlegd6611
      @ketchupbottlegd6611 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ethereal Elf Congratulations!! :-)

    • @ormand3000
      @ormand3000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Divorced yet?

    • @p37372
      @p37372 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dolphins101 shut up thats a horrible thing to say divorce can screw up a whole life

  • @InfinityOnHannah
    @InfinityOnHannah 8 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    well that just drowned all my hopes

    • @rubylueras217
      @rubylueras217 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS

    • @HaloXKing7852
      @HaloXKing7852 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +Infinity on Hannah Don't worry about it, being a pretty hardcore gamer, I know TONS of friends who actually met online or on games that ended up meeting and getting married. It's such an amazing story to listen to and it really shows your love and commitment for that person.

    • @hannahp7252
      @hannahp7252 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Infinity on Hannah I've been with my bf for over three years and we live on opposite sides of the Earth and rarely get to see each other, but we're happy. You can do it!

    • @scutttle
      @scutttle 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Infinity on Hannah ikr

    • @infinityonhailee2621
      @infinityonhailee2621 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too m8 also I just came from one of your videos 😂😂

  • @alonsopaez1487
    @alonsopaez1487 8 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I have been in a LDR for more than two years now, we are in different countries, different time zones. We are both in college wanting to get done with our bachelor's so we can move together. This video doesn't show half of how bad it can be.

  • @gigizink4232
    @gigizink4232 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I'm in love with a person who's in Ireland, while I'm in the USA. We fall asleep together on FaceTime, wondering what it'd be like to actually sleep next to each other. It's hard.

    • @arminius6506
      @arminius6506 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      At least you have same time to go to bed 😉

  • @katielouisearter
    @katielouisearter 8 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    If You're reading this then you're beautiful and loved and deserve to be happy :)

  • @caralecroy5878
    @caralecroy5878 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years and have never had the chance to meet. We are both 2 broke college kids living in different countries just trying to make it work. We skype almost daily and text eachother non stop, but it's truly the hardest thing I've ever done. I know the moment I get to hold him in my arms, everything will be worth it though ♡

    • @minenetoki
      @minenetoki 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Cara Leroy Ah sister, feel you

    • @vijay19882006
      @vijay19882006 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Cara Lecroy you give me hope

    • @lilyandfriends2
      @lilyandfriends2 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Cara Lecroy omg i relate to this so much. I found somebody online, we have never met in person. He's in college in usa and i'm in highschool in australia the distance is soo far. I don't think he thinks it's real, but I kinda have feelings. *sigh*. All the best for you two.

  • @RandomPerson-kw9dn
    @RandomPerson-kw9dn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    My ex-boyfriend had to move to another country. In the beginning, we were both trying to find time to be able to talk to each other. After 2-3 months, we stopped talking through Skype. He could not find the time. But I loved him so much, I bared 5 months without seeing him or hearing his voice. He didn't have time to video call or voice call or call at all. We would text once or twice a day but sometimes it would take him days to send a message. And the messeges were horrible... No heart emojis, no "I love you", no "I miss you"... Nothing. It was like he was forced to talk to an old friend. And it used to hurt a lot... but I was trying not to blame him. I used to cry almost every day because I felt unloved and unwanted. When we broke up he told me that he loved me but it just didn't make sense to me. Now that I am looking back, I don't even understand how I managed to stay with him for so long. I never shouted at him, never spoke to him in a bad way because I didn't want him to feel bad. Long distance relationship is even worse when one person is not even trying to show that he appreciates you... When it is one-sided

    • @adamali5416
      @adamali5416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Random Person i totally relate with you. My gf dumped me yesterday cause she couldn't do LDR anymore.

    • @abhijitroy1958
      @abhijitroy1958 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Random Person
      God dmant girl I faced the same , your comment made me cry, my gf did the same with me ,while living she said thanks for ruining my teenage , that broke me inside, and I let her free , God bless you girl , you are the best , *good luck for your life*
      I know how it felt you , she said the same that she don't find it meaning full , I was just being a joke for her ,but I want her to see happy and even for that I leave her ❤ she is happy now I guess

    • @hongyuemiao2934
      @hongyuemiao2934 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He said I treated him bad among words, even I didn’t mean to and didn’t think so, and now he don’t reply often, coz it has some issues so haven’t video call yet since we got contacted, it is virtual relationship,but already fought a few times, it is hard, but I like him just too hard, I’m starting to think if we really matched

  • @CzupaCzups3
    @CzupaCzups3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    They look so fine on webcam... Am I the only one who look on skype like a potato?

    • @rowangoodmann3069
      @rowangoodmann3069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nope you're not the only one

    • @oumaymashili4898
      @oumaymashili4898 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kala Kings ur not alone

    • @Itspritha_
      @Itspritha_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly i was wondering why no one's saying this !!
      Lol😂😂😂

  • @chatgptnewslive2023
    @chatgptnewslive2023 8 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOO. THESE TWO AGAIN. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

    • @Izalco72
      @Izalco72 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think he's upset because of the feels this couple brings

    • @chatgptnewslive2023
      @chatgptnewslive2023 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      THE FEELSSSSSS. I HAVE EXAMS IN LIKE AN HOUR M.

    • @meghan7067
      @meghan7067 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Key | iamSmexx me too man, I'm ready for death

    • @karliearia2892
      @karliearia2892 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Meghan mine is tomorrow, good luck :D

    • @meghan7067
      @meghan7067 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Patricia Mesaros Thank you!! Good luck to you too :D

  • @kiranmahto2064
    @kiranmahto2064 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2789

    5 years in a long distance relationship
    Thankyou so much for the likes
    And 8yrs of long distance relationship 😍

    • @Username-ei4ff
      @Username-ei4ff 6 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Very good to hear! How are you two making it last this long?

    • @nvm5406
      @nvm5406 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Kiran mahto AKIRA OMG this is so good to hear I've been worried cuz I'll hv to work it for another five years😬

    • @meast9081
      @meast9081 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      True love!

    • @Didenne
      @Didenne 6 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      9 here. In 2 months I’m moving there for good

    • @meast9081
      @meast9081 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Erin wow! Idk how you made it, clearly shows that's true love, good luck in moving 🙏👌

  • @ephraimalves3505
    @ephraimalves3505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    Plot twist: they’re neighbours

  • @musicgrl515
    @musicgrl515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +860

    Who else is in a “long distance” relationship cause of COVID-19?

    • @quancheesethepeanuthead
      @quancheesethepeanuthead 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      musicgrl515 I actually started talking deeply to this girl from long distance cuz of covid-19

    • @quancheesethepeanuthead
      @quancheesethepeanuthead 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We’re talking about meeting up and everything might give it a try for the first time

    • @ek7407
      @ek7407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me and my girlfriend live in separate countries and we still fly to each other during this pandemic. We've been together for a month at my house now. You have no excuses.

    • @illfakegodtoday215
      @illfakegodtoday215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@ek7407 I think I have a pretty good excuse, both of us are minors so we have no way of seeing each other due to our parents.

    • @ek7407
      @ek7407 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@illfakegodtoday215 I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16

  • @GD_Zimmeh
    @GD_Zimmeh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Me and my girlfriend finally met yesterday after 9 months of our relationship...it was the best day of my life...

    • @blevn6211
      @blevn6211 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Duuude ım gonna see him tomorrow I'm super excited we r about to finish 8th months SUPER EXCITED

    • @adriancarbonell4801
      @adriancarbonell4801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@blevn6211 How did it go? :)

    • @blevn6211
      @blevn6211 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@adriancarbonell4801 the best day ever

    • @ketchupbottlegd6611
      @ketchupbottlegd6611 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s great!! :D

    • @coffeearithmetic
      @coffeearithmetic 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      did you cheat? I've heard most guys in LDRs cheat :(

  •  8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    the worst part about LDR it's when you practically don't have the time to even say "hi" or "bye"

  • @katieb8976
    @katieb8976 8 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    WHY WOULD YOU PLAY A COUNTRY SONG WHEN YOU COULD'VE USED HEY THERE DELILAH

    • @rizaan4786
      @rizaan4786 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Katie Burdon RIGHT?

    • @ladydazzy
      @ladydazzy 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Katie Burdon omg i know!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @jen6224
      @jen6224 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg don't i swear t o gOD

    • @WildShakz
      @WildShakz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      +Katie Burdon That song is probably copyrighted.

    • @jade-ro4gs
      @jade-ro4gs 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Katie Burdon Thats not even country tf

  • @astridjoy7526
    @astridjoy7526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    The part about after the call, looking at the screen blankly hit way too hard

  • @ashlynhiltabidel5788
    @ashlynhiltabidel5788 8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    me and my boyfriend are in complete different countries, no chance of meeting until 2 years later. We fall asleep on call almost every night and text/ call every day.

    • @JC94022
      @JC94022 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Have faith in yourself in your relationship ☺️ anything that you work on for long enough will happen!!

    • @ashlynhiltabidel5788
      @ashlynhiltabidel5788 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessica Carpenter we are going strong so far, there are ups and downs but we have strong faith. 😊

    • @Chris-eo1bp
      @Chris-eo1bp 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel sorry for your loser bf settling hard

    • @McDoggg
      @McDoggg 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +chris camez You won't be alone forever.

    • @serenityofrivendell7120
      @serenityofrivendell7120 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Ashlyn Hiltabidel Went two years ldr without even meeting my fiance, skyped everyday, talked on the phone several hours a day and fell asleep on the phone together...it was hard, but Im happily a year into living together and those two years dont feel that long anymore

  • @ElizabethAmanna
    @ElizabethAmanna 8 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    Didnt seem like a buzzfeed video, why did they call it stages when it was just things happening

    • @jen6224
      @jen6224 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      agreed

    • @IoanaPristoleanu
      @IoanaPristoleanu 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yep i was thinking of that... I expected some clear stages, but tbh i couldn't see any :/

    • @IoanaPristoleanu
      @IoanaPristoleanu 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Matthew Ferrara hm maybe you're right, but I still think they could have been clearer

    • @aliceontheinternet123
      @aliceontheinternet123 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      clickbait

    • @pranjaltiwari7502
      @pranjaltiwari7502 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      because its not BuzzFeed

  • @cressida985
    @cressida985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    LDR is the purest test of love.

  • @adrianacoates2892
    @adrianacoates2892 8 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    im in a long distance relationship its been 8 months its been tough but i love him .

    • @lightningbug6234
      @lightningbug6234 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      hope it goes well!

    • @adrianacoates2892
      @adrianacoates2892 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +SLMFIRE woww crazy i didint seemy boyfriend until 5 months

    • @13thCabin
      @13thCabin 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Bangonurmom dude your weird. homewrecker.

    • @13thCabin
      @13thCabin 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Adriana Coates was it nerve wrecking waiting that long? I now it is for me all the time
      my boyfriend is in the military I've only seen him 5times in a 1 year and a half.

    • @DarkGaming-ku8st
      @DarkGaming-ku8st 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm currently in a relationship with an amazing girl that I love so much, she goes to my school and she told me a few days ago that she was going to move 7 hours away I was heart broken when she told me the news. I need some advice from someone who has experienced this because I honestly am stuck between trying to have a long distance relationship or splitting up and going our separate ways and it's been eating me alive what do you think I should do? (we are both freshman in high school) also thanks for any advice I really do appreciate it.

  • @mickeyserong7930
    @mickeyserong7930 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1127

    Did anyone else hate the music with a passion? It made me wanna neck it

    • @Ambir91
      @Ambir91 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah

    • @PeteHudo
      @PeteHudo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I liked it, it reminded me of when I fell in love with my sister.

    • @mickeyserong7930
      @mickeyserong7930 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Pete Hudo aaaand there's the guy who thinks he's funny

    • @kathleen0893
      @kathleen0893 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Pete Hudo LMAOOOOO

    • @greenmachine8100
      @greenmachine8100 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      DEFINITELY!!!!!

  • @cathymj15
    @cathymj15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Long distance is one thing, add to that the time difference 😢😭😭

  • @LickingGuy
    @LickingGuy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    They never work

    • @borussiagermania7428
      @borussiagermania7428 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr

    • @TehNyanqueen
      @TehNyanqueen 8 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      they can if u actually put effort and trust into them

    • @Elastric
      @Elastric 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      my brother had been in one for almost 2 years

    • @chilledsoul.
      @chilledsoul. 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯👌😓

    • @Palsystemm
      @Palsystemm 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Licking Guy OHMYGOD IT IS YOU HAHAHA

  • @llagrange5397
    @llagrange5397 8 ปีที่แล้ว +512

    This video made me crave chipotle.

  • @lunaticwave6707
    @lunaticwave6707 7 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    I'm moving in with my long distance boyfriend later this year.. I am beyond excited😭💕

    • @nothanks8972
      @nothanks8972 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lunatic Wave all the best to you!!

    • @lunaticwave6707
      @lunaticwave6707 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      No Thanks thank you so much!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕

    • @lunaticwave6707
      @lunaticwave6707 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      paul orta omg I'm moving from Las Vegas to Chicago too!!!!!!!! Ahhhhh so exciting

    • @HaleighBennet
      @HaleighBennet 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      so how was it!!!!???

    • @shistershook9785
      @shistershook9785 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lunatic Wave omg so happy for you and hope you guys are still together and same with my boo but until next year im so freaking excited 💜💕

  • @annapotpot
    @annapotpot 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    3 years in a long distance relationship and still hanging on. We're a 16-hour plane ride apart and we haven't seen each other personally since he left to work in another country. We've endured so much, the hardest one was when he had a new girlfriend when we broke up before. There are times when you really want to give up and you'll say to yourself that you don't have to put up with this kind of relationship. But such difficulties, when handled well, will make you stronger and will make you appreciate and value your partner more. LDRs are really difficult, but they are possible and they can work. It really is important to have a goal for your relationship so you two have something to look forward to and to work together for. He's coming home in two months' time, and the anticipation is too much to handle. I just feel so overwhelmed about everything that happened and is about to happen, but one thing is for sure, it is worth it.

    • @samara6189
      @samara6189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for two years now, him being in Canada and me being much much further away in Australia. Due to our time differences, he offers to stay up for me everynight just so he could talk to me, even when hes in a law degree in University. Things have been hard lately with me and my boyfriend due to our long distance away from each other, and your comment has really inspired me to not give up just yet. Thank you :)

    • @annapotpot
      @annapotpot 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Samara Jennings Glad to know I have helped you in some way. There are three things that I try to remember:
      1. The number of miles apart doesn't matter. Miscommunication is the greatest distance a relationship could suffer.
      2. Each day that we are apart means a day closer to the next time we will be together.
      3. We are different when we are together.
      This is how you know that it is true love: love is a decision and not just a feeling. When you commit yourself to continue to stick with the person and to love them in spite of the difficulties, because you know "us" is worth fighting for.
      Waiting is difficult, but time will pass anyway. This is just a phase. There are better days ahead of us. Hugs :)

    • @samara6189
      @samara6189 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      annapotpot ***** thank you!! :)

    • @vanshtheone
      @vanshtheone 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      annapotpot Inspiration, love you dear, thank you, i hope you both are still together :)

  • @makaylarox1
    @makaylarox1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I met my fiance on a DBZ chatroom two years ago. He's in Australia, I'm in America. It was a year and a half of dating until we met and lived together for three months and got engaged. He's moving here in December, we get married in February. Don't let the distance define you.

    • @MimiYueey
      @MimiYueey 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad for you. Unfortunately some people can't do without some sort of contact even if they try :(

    • @makaylarox1
      @makaylarox1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's true. My ex was one of the people that couldn't do that. I was bitter for a long time but I've realized that when he broke it off he was just doing what was right for him, and there's nothing wrong with that. The 'don't let the distance define you' thing was more encouragement for people that are capable of doing long distance, but struggling with it. I'm not claiming that my relationship has been easy, anyone who says they are is lying or delusional. I'm one of the people that don't really NEED physical affection, but we still have to work every single day to make it work. P.S if you're going through something, I hope you feel better soon. (Just wondering 'cause of the sad face.

    • @tmxdragoon
      @tmxdragoon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I got engaged to my fiancee in Australia. She's from there and I'm from America. It's been a little over a year now since we met. I'm marrying her this year and moving to Australia to be with her and kids. It's hard leaving her and traveling back and forth from America to Australia.
      Just hoping to get my Visa sorted out so I can move there, work there and not have to leave her anymore. It's hurts more and more all the time. Thank God for Skype, it may be glitchy at times but I still get to at least see her and talk in some form.

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You guys met in a dbz chatroom?? That is so cool lol.

  • @Tslily234
    @Tslily234 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The best kind of relationships ♡♡ fell in love with his soul even before i could touch his body

  • @lilygilbert4659
    @lilygilbert4659 8 ปีที่แล้ว +579

    I'm getting a new hat tomorrow

    • @juliette1170
      @juliette1170 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Good for you!

    • @LilLeanCuisine
      @LilLeanCuisine 8 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      What kind of hat

    • @adrianlaino4216
      @adrianlaino4216 8 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      i find it cute that someone asked what kind of hat😭😂

    • @Sarahpurple12
      @Sarahpurple12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What kind of hat was it?

    • @beagel123
      @beagel123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I laughed and I don’t know why

  • @f.bonnie9124
    @f.bonnie9124 8 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    why am I watching this after a break up? 😭😭

    • @MangetsuLullaby
      @MangetsuLullaby 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Brain works in mysterious ways

    • @harleyquinn7934
      @harleyquinn7934 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      F. Bonnie me too

    • @farahcantika4240
      @farahcantika4240 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @madhuparnaghosh6254
      @madhuparnaghosh6254 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww I am so sorry. I hope you come out of the phase soon or patch up with your lover. Much love.

    • @shubhampandey9618
      @shubhampandey9618 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      F. Bonnie ...me too...maybe because we are still not over it ...

  • @alaistarcook6113
    @alaistarcook6113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The best Part About Long distance realtionship Is You Value Your Partner's Presence When You Guys Meet in Person !

  • @Leaherzzz
    @Leaherzzz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I hate when people say long distance relationships aren't realistic or are impossible. My boyfriend lives in South Korea and I live in the U.S. We were in a ldr for 2 years before we could finally be with each other. During the time we were apart, communication was always there. We skyped constantly, sent each other gifts, and talked to each other daily. LDR is all about effort and passion! Don't let anyone bring your relationship down.

  • @ItzMeWill
    @ItzMeWill 8 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I was In a relationship for 6 years . We thought we were going to get married together. Then she moved away to go to medical school..it was really hard..we talked on the phone everyday but with her school and my job we only talked at night time...we started to find less and less to say to each other...then it turned to just saying goodnight and I love you to each other..after only 7 months of long distance relationship we broke it off with each other..it's hard people..if you decide to do a LDR..don't expect it to be easy just because you love each other

    • @sevenelevenchildren
      @sevenelevenchildren 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      +Will Silapheth imagine years of ldr. people do it all the time even when communicating is hard. it all comes down to who's willing to fight the pain and awkward late night convos in order to stay with the person they love until they're finally together.

    • @lazyengineer85
      @lazyengineer85 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      repost

    • @lazyengineer85
      @lazyengineer85 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Will Silapheth we also had joint account too. But she used our joint account to accomodated her lifestyle. she owed money for flying ticket for studying to Europe. i trusted her when she said going to return back immediately afterward she got her scholarship money. she never did it. ( funny, when we were in relationship, we never thought it as big deal and let it slide....)

    • @ItzMeWill
      @ItzMeWill 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kimi Hariri your profile pic looks like your about to start a LDR ...lol I'm jk...but yea I tried my best but after a while I can hear the difference in her voice..even the way she said I love you to me..it's like she says it just to say it and theres no emotion behind it..i felt her slipping away everyday ..I didn't want to lose her but it was only a matter of time...the only thing I regret was not moving with her..but aren't those the only things we should regret in life?? We regret the chances we never took and the decisions we took too long to make

    • @cristoldsouza7468
      @cristoldsouza7468 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItzMeWill how re you now ?

  • @etvrnal
    @etvrnal 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1098

    me and my girlfriend want to meet so badly, i love her.

    • @luispinto4332
      @luispinto4332 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      a t h e n a ik the feelz

    • @wendyporras2687
      @wendyporras2687 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @Ph4r4oh_444g
      @Ph4r4oh_444g 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same bro without a doubt

    • @jadeg5040
      @jadeg5040 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ur probably getting catfishes

    • @samuraistep574
      @samuraistep574 6 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      You have a girlfriend you've never met? Go outside bro wow

  • @ComeAtMeBro2131
    @ComeAtMeBro2131 8 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    I have 18 months until its not long distance anymore.

    • @ComeAtMeBro2131
      @ComeAtMeBro2131 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      it's *

    • @wolwoly3696
      @wolwoly3696 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How much now?

    • @ComeAtMeBro2131
      @ComeAtMeBro2131 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒwolғ wolғyƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ a little less than one year. I'm so happy.

    • @MyNguyen-zi8wm
      @MyNguyen-zi8wm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine is more or less 5 months. But it is so difficult to me

    • @aman.4701
      @aman.4701 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i have about 5 years until it’s not long distance anymore if everything goes well :(

  • @Mirabell97
    @Mirabell97 8 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I'm not crying, I've got something in my eye

    • @lightningbug6234
      @lightningbug6234 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      don't cry, craft! :D

    • @kermitsewerside
      @kermitsewerside 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Mirabell97
      Yes, and that something is tears.

    • @Mirabell97
      @Mirabell97 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +LightningstruckDraws :'D
      +Artsy Ferret stop lying :D

    • @kermitsewerside
      @kermitsewerside 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mirabell97
      I'd reply to your comment, but the -tears- onion ninjas are making my vision blurry.

  • @arantxacarpio
    @arantxacarpio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Dang. Some of you did 10 years and here we are, struggling with almost two years of LDR. Really hoping we'll survive 😭

    • @mariettehartley4938
      @mariettehartley4938 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Life is so sweet when you have your family around you, I'm so excited to share this testimony I lost my man to 28 year old girl who cast a spell on him I, cry out for help to the past 4 weeks I have been looking for a way for me to get him back. one day I have it with my friend she gave me a solution she said I should contact Doctor hello here is her contact a great and powerful spell caster who can do all things. i told her my problems to cast a very powerful spell and the in 46 hours my husband was back to me all thanks to Doctor ola Ogaga a great spellcaster if you need help to get .ex back email her on drolaogaga@gmail.com or is via WhatsApp + 2 3 4 9 0 6 9 3 1 3 9 5 5........

  • @spartan113ish
    @spartan113ish 8 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    They really liked burritos...

  • @chesneectp
    @chesneectp 8 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    Ok..the music is very annoying and it's hard to pay attention to the video because of it.

  • @elisha2197
    @elisha2197 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Yeah, long distance comes with a lot of happiness & sadness. My boyfriend Marcus and I are 4 hours apart by plane... We'll meet eventually but facetime and texting seem to be our forte at the moment.

  • @idahval
    @idahval 8 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I literally cried when she opened the envelope with the sweather in it.

  • @staybumble4939
    @staybumble4939 8 ปีที่แล้ว +421

    Relate so much. Been in a ldr for 2 years already. Finally going to move in with him late this summer.

    • @RomeoBarnes
      @RomeoBarnes 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congrats

    • @Lenameyer2010
      @Lenameyer2010 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      congratulations! :D At least some of these types of relationships end well.

    • @iremembersomeone
      @iremembersomeone 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      yay! Congrats! I wish you endlessly happiness to both of you :)

    • @JoannaOxley
      @JoannaOxley 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations on your relationship 😁🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @curiouswanderer7187
      @curiouswanderer7187 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations i am happy for you

  • @matildajohns9580
    @matildajohns9580 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Currently in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend and we are going on 3 months of dating, 5 months of non-stop talking to each other. Won't be able to see her til December 😭
    This video gave me a lot of hope!

    • @clarajankowiak6026
      @clarajankowiak6026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm in the exact same timeframe situation as you! I can't wait until December!!!!!

    • @matildajohns9580
      @matildajohns9580 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@clarajankowiak6026 same here!!! So excited! I have tickets booked and everything!

    • @MexIndio1
      @MexIndio1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you have fun? Won't see mines until next year. 😥

    • @mariettehartley4938
      @mariettehartley4938 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Life is so sweet when you have your family around you, I'm so excited to share this testimony I lost my man to 28 year old girl who cast a spell on him I, cry out for help to the past 4 weeks I have been looking for a way for me to get him back. one day I have it with my friend she gave me a solution she said I should contact Doctor hello here is her contact a great and powerful spell caster who can do all things. i told her my problems to cast a very powerful spell and the in 46 hours my husband was back to me all thanks to Doctor ola Ogaga a great spellcaster if you need help to get .ex back email her on drolaogaga@gmail.com or is via WhatsApp + 2 3 4 9 0 6 9 3 1 3 9 5 5........

  • @chaaaaaannahc
    @chaaaaaannahc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I've been with my boyfriend.. (Fiancé since New Years Eve) 4 years this June, long distance since the start, and will be long distance for another too years at least. I don't know why long distance is always portrayed as so hard.. If it's the right person, it works, because you love them that much; and you know it'll all be worth it in the end.

    • @phangirl2484
      @phangirl2484 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Chaniee oO it's hard because when you love someone that much you want them there with you all the time and it hurts to be so far away from them. It's especially hard if you started out seeing them everyday and then they move halfway through the relationship. My partner moved and it hurts so much knowing if he hadn't moved we'd probably still be together.

    • @chaaaaaannahc
      @chaaaaaannahc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      phangirl Yeah, I understand that :). just lots of videos make it seem long distance isn't possible.

    • @chaaaaaannahc
      @chaaaaaannahc 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wasting.... Long distance doesn't mean we don't see each other.. We see each other every month for a week at a time. People love to jump to conclusions.

    • @siennarena5165
      @siennarena5165 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah but not everyone can be in an LDR and see each other once a month for a week...

    • @vanshtheone
      @vanshtheone 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chantelle YT true, it shows impatience in people now a days because people get everything so fast now a days and that's why they are addicted to it.

  • @1nuppuli
    @1nuppuli 8 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    then there's the "too awkward to skype"

    • @changeDAmange
      @changeDAmange 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      this is way too true

    • @isabelruvalcaba2657
      @isabelruvalcaba2657 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      bsbjdjww thats me rn

    • @terrortax
      @terrortax 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      me toooooo, my boyfriend and I met in person and it was AMAZING but I'm just so fricken awkward on skype

    • @KitsCloud
      @KitsCloud 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm sooo late to this, but something that really helps is to get a few friends you know well to call with you. From both sides. Also as awkward as it sounds, turn on your camera. I thought I'd die but it actually feels so much better to see each other.

    • @chiarasalvarani2397
      @chiarasalvarani2397 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg so true.

  • @tequilajoseph2245
    @tequilajoseph2245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Meeting my ldr boyfriend tomorrow after 10 months of waiting😭❤❤

    • @liz-yn6ou
      @liz-yn6ou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      HOW WAS IT

    • @mariettehartley4938
      @mariettehartley4938 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Life is so sweet when you have your family around you, I'm so excited to share this testimony I lost my man to 28 year old girl who cast a spell on him I, cry out for help to the past 4 weeks I have been looking for a way for me to get him back. one day I have it with my friend she gave me a solution she said I should contact Doctor hello here is her contact a great and powerful spell caster who can do all things. i told her my problems to cast a very powerful spell and the in 46 hours my husband was back to me all thanks to Doctor ola Ogaga a great spellcaster if you need help to get .ex back email her on drolaogaga@gmail.com or is via WhatsApp + 2 3 4 9 0 6 9 3 1 3 9 5 5........

  • @jcudjcjdjfjc
    @jcudjcjdjfjc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    THESE NO THEY ARENT TEARS. MY EYES ARE JUST SWEATING

  • @bazookabullet101
    @bazookabullet101 8 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    When long distances become too hard, sometimes its gonna hurt less to break it off than holding on.

    • @IloveRobertPattiable
      @IloveRobertPattiable 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That's giving up. If it's real love it will work.

    • @xTellYouMyStory
      @xTellYouMyStory 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Kacie Gannon Exactly. True love beats distance.

    • @xTellYouMyStory
      @xTellYouMyStory 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      glee power It wasn't meant to be then, I'm sorry to hear that. But if both truly are committed, and work towards living with each other, it's the most beautiful thing. It shows that you are able to love each other even without needing all the physical things like hugs and kisses. Also, skype dates and gaming together makes it quite doable. :)

  • @zee5057
    @zee5057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I knew a few people who had this kind of relationship. But now lived happily with their children. Dedication, perseverance, patience and real essence of love wins.

  • @pupuhotpot
    @pupuhotpot 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm currently in a long distance relationship and by that I mean a 12 hour time zone difference for the past two years. Yes, we do miss each other very much so but I've been pretty happy to see her every time. People just need to understand that having a personal life is good and also to give the other person your attention when needed. Also having arguments is okay! Every relationship is going to go through something like that. A relationship is not meant to drag a person down, it's to support the other in their endeavors. That's why I personally don't feel that this video describes what it truly means to be in a long distance. Don't idealize a "perfect" relationship, put effort into it, and spice it up from time to time.

  • @LuVzHeRwOrLd
    @LuVzHeRwOrLd 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I'm so over being emotionally drained by them.

    • @jaymekarina
      @jaymekarina 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I get you girlie

  • @courtneyoneal9769
    @courtneyoneal9769 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    That's sad.... if you're adults, why don't you do whatever it takes to be together??? This is so lonely.

    • @erodict5840
      @erodict5840 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      because its not that easy, the guy im with lives all the way in the US, Texas, and i live in Belgium. He's on disability and doesn't earn much money, neither do i, but we're both working hard to get together.

    • @courtneyoneal9769
      @courtneyoneal9769 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Erodict I'm sorry. I hope it works out for you. That would be very difficult. I guess what I should have said is that Love finds a way. Good luck.

    • @blah2214
      @blah2214 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Courtney O'Neal sometimes the road of line leads you on opposite directions

    • @michellexx2072
      @michellexx2072 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Courtney O'Neal what if you're not even close to adulthood .-.

    • @Aurora-dq4lt
      @Aurora-dq4lt 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can't just stop working or studying, it's not so easy

  • @trinity9190
    @trinity9190 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This accurately describes the relationship between me and my fridge

  • @MaceyRosalie
    @MaceyRosalie 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    No wonder he's sticking it out; that girl is drop dead gorgeous

  • @willbuffie6098
    @willbuffie6098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's the small moments you miss, the birthday's, waking up in the morning, their quirky habits .. the things you only get when you're there with them.

  • @seafoam5245
    @seafoam5245 8 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    Me and my girlfriend of two months are closing the distance in a week!

    • @sandraulloa8079
      @sandraulloa8079 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aww congrats!!

    • @maedu6
      @maedu6 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      +seafoam gratz :) my bf and I closed it after 2 yrs! hehe we've been living together for a year now

    • @seafoam5245
      @seafoam5245 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Mae Du Awesome! My gf lost her job so we we're able to close alot faster

    • @maedu6
      @maedu6 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +seafoam I'm very happy for u :)

    • @joyj6793
      @joyj6793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      seafoam after 2 months you are what already getting married ????

  • @hustonhead615
    @hustonhead615 8 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This video made me cry so hard... My boyfriend lives in PA and I live in SC... He and I only get to see each other like 4 times a year and it's so hard. His parents don't know he's gay so it makes it so much harder.....

    • @sunmarsh
      @sunmarsh 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Huston Head I was in the same boat with my last bf only I lived in FL and he lived in CT. Thankfully he was able to move in with me after only five months of being apart.
      My current bf has gone through reparative counseling so his parents think he's 'ex-gay'. He tried coming out to his more 'liberal' brother and it went terribly. Not sure if he will ever come out to his parents. Thankfully he doesn't live with them so we still get to see each other. However I'm moving 4.5hrs away to go back to college in a few months so we'll be long distance for three years...
      Best of luck to you.

    • @zaibnisa4649
      @zaibnisa4649 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I only get to see my fiancé every few years. it's been a while and its so hard but it's going well, and I hope for good things in the future

  • @visionjoe8431
    @visionjoe8431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the last goodbye hugs, hit it different.

  • @BobSmith-sq2gw
    @BobSmith-sq2gw 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Stage 1 = have a relationship... Failed already

  • @reikyavi7442
    @reikyavi7442 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This hit close to home. Been in a long-distance-relationship for 8 years now. It's hard and definitely not for everyone. But if the person is the one for you and you can dream of a future together, then it might just be worth it. If things go as planned we can finally move in together next year :)

  • @cd.2435
    @cd.2435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    31/2 years in a long distance relationship only problem for me is when the doubt creeps in

  • @jaydedjen110
    @jaydedjen110 8 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    My GF Alex and I went through this. I haven't spoken to her since September because she's at a therapy program in Cali and I live in NY. As rocky as we were... I miss her.

    • @DeMarcoAshley
      @DeMarcoAshley 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi ! My name is Ashley and I am a casting producer for a new TLC show about couples who are in long distance relationships and have never met yet. If interested please email me at: k1showcasting@gmail.com

    • @jaydedjen110
      @jaydedjen110 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alex and I did meet in person once; she visited me in the hospital.

    • @melissamm6200
      @melissamm6200 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Ashley DeMarco i sent to u:3

    • @ashleybradley8092
      @ashleybradley8092 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jennifer Strong Awww.

    • @erikaa.stoffellopez7306
      @erikaa.stoffellopez7306 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DeMarcoAshley what about a TLC show about military spouses fiance's and girlfriend/boyfriends we get no recognition for the things we go through with our military members and our military members definitely dont get the recognition they deserve either it's much harder than the basic long distance relationships just an idea that I'd love to see be put into action

  • @PraecantrixCate
    @PraecantrixCate 8 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    stop hurting me buzzfeed

    • @Soochy_
      @Soochy_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ok I'll stop

  • @johndeopaduaART
    @johndeopaduaART 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just got into a long distance relationship and its going great. Both of us trust each other so much and we connect in every level and we love each other so much. The only thing stopping us is her parents. Please give me your thoughts and advice. Id love to hear them

    • @Elena-mv7ev
      @Elena-mv7ev 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Art of JoemaliaI hope you guys will be together for a long time! If you truly love each other the parenta of your girlfriend will not be an obstacle! I wish the best💕👌

  • @emeliatazman9993
    @emeliatazman9993 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This wasn't even that emotional but being in a ldr this made me cry because you can see them falling away from each other and losing interest and that's not how all ldr's are.

  • @volitionluvr
    @volitionluvr 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I don't remember signing up for this feels trip.

    • @Soochy_
      @Soochy_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then drop out BOIII

  • @ames9827
    @ames9827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Everyone: this is heartbreaking
    Me: *they love burritos*

  • @freakyplayer6
    @freakyplayer6 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    1:17 cassually sending his laundry for her to do....(i know thats not what is happening but its funny to think like it is)