Stages Of A Long-Distance Relationship
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Long distance is absolutely soul destroying sometimes.
Phoebe Sparkes true.
Isn’t that the truth...
Perhaps but it depends on the other partner
Hard truth , I faced it so damn bad
Phoebe Sparkes Even that is an understatement..😞
The worst part is seeing other couples who get to see each other every day and not have to rely on Facebook or Skype to talk to each other, knowing that you can’t have that.
ik :(
And then they complain about 3 days not seeing each other
I feel ya
+MrsGretchen123 IKR
+MrsGretchen123 Ikr! I had a friend coming up to me all sad and complaining how much she misses her bf as she had just said bye to him an hour ago. And the best part; she knew she would see him the next day. Ugh.
I get so jelouse of people who get to see my boyfriend everyday 😭
You are a keeper!
Dawn Leadbeater lmao my Girlfriend said the same to.me
FATTER SAME
I have the same feelings too😭
@@joashnalzaro1405 same man its hard
*Sigh* ._. Long distance squad where you at.
Here! 🙋
Here
here
Here
Here
7.5 years in a long distance relationship. Getting married next year 😍
nishika chaudhary good for you :)
I am so happy for u. Happy married life ahead😊😊
Congrats
Congratulations Nishika😍
Congratulations! That’s not easy, but wow what an amazing pay off❤️
I think one of the hardest things is when you fight. You just can't show up with flowers and chocolate XD
Jesse Mwangi I suppose that is good thing because you both rely on your communication skills then :)
Or you can just not fight
zellarsDD777 No arguments in a relationship means both are hiding something from each other or is not honest with each other
Kenyaaan
Jesse Mwangi me and my bae just fought and now where talking afín havent been away from him for about to day
nah there is a lot more crying involved from my experience
+FruitBasketyay Sameeeeee
trueee
+FruitBasketyay THE MOST LOGICAL COMMENT
Me too!!!! Everytime we leave each other
Indeed
3 years in a long distance relationship! And one hour ago I bought airplane tickets to go see him as a surprise! Yay! 😍
amazing!! good luck you two
Good luck , hopefully not catfished
+Mercury they've probably skyped before, you can't be in a ld relationship for three years and not Skype
+paula vera Good luck ^_^
I Wish you al lot of happinness and love together!
No, its way more difficult than it looks like on the video. It's very hard. You cry too often maybe everyday. You can't see your girl/boyfriend everyday, you can't see her/his smile, eyes. You can't hug or kiss.
It's emotionally very hard.
But if you really truly love her/him, he/she will wait you and long distance doesn't bother you.
Coming from someone who is in a LDR for the third time (third partner - yeah don't even ask how I always end up in this situations...) - no You shouldn't be crying every day. Yes it sucks but I think if you're long distance it isnimportant to keep living a somewhat similar lifestyle as if you were single - just with the advantage of having a partner to talk to. You should keep focussing on yourself a lot and chase after own goals and invest into friendships and hobbies / carrier. Like this you will be too budy living in the present to always overthink how it sucks that your partner lives somewhere else. But then again - it took me 2 ex partners to finally get the hang of it lol
@@JustLIkerapunzel That's a positive take on the situation! Thanks for this!
Right
I don’t know but I almost cry every day. When I look at other couples I feel jealous and look at myself I feel really empty. I’m really tired of waiting and I really miss my hubby, this year is horrible for me cus we can’t be together. It’s tough and a lot of stress
@@Meemeeneh how are things now
Yo the feels are strong with this one.
This is the only sirious buzzfeed
+liz awesomeness Serious* and you forgot the . at the end.
ikr i tend not to get emotional on thing like these but this video thoo
+Stan Ikr I almost got teary eyed
true
If only skype work as well as it looked in the video.
omg right
PREACH
So true.. i got so annoyed everytime it looked pixelated or had poor connections
Omg 😂😂😂😂
So true haha.
Being in a LDR is really hard and challenging but it's all worth it. Anything worth having is always worth the wait so it's pretty amazing.
I've been in a long distance relationship for two and a half years, and we're finally moving in together in July. I feel this is an accurate representation :')
YAAASSS
+Aoife Gray Congratulations! I was in two in the past and they didn't work. I'm glad yours did :)
Good luck ! Very happy to hear that
Awwww congratulations!!!
+Aoife Gray Congrats!! How sweet!! makes my heart warm to hear this ;D
Finally moving in with my long distance relationship after 10 years next year!!!! Can't wait!!!!
Aiko Yumiko :')
Aiko Yumiko wow so there is hope after this long? We been together 5 years LDR
could you tell me you secret? my girlfriend and I are about to be 9 hours away from each other when college starts...
Wow thats very long, and very strong done off you :) Impressive! I have been together with my long distance boyfriend for 3 years, and we plan to try to move in together in 2 years! It works very well!
Aiko Yumiko that just gave me so much hope. And the best wishes!
the worst part is not knowing when you see each pther again. 😭💔
Even harder is when your gf literally lives 2,161 miles away so you know you're not going to meet anytime soon
Stan Pines LITERALLY ME like I'm just a girl in love with another girl who happens to live 2000 miles away I'm sad
Me and my husband right now, stuck in different countries until this is all over and the borders reopen 😭
@@MoriahRichter i hope you stay strong for each other. 🙏🏽
@@MoriahRichter That's so hard! I really hope you can hug him soon. Can I ask you what you do when you feel sad? I can't see my boyfriend either because of the virus and sometimes I get depressed!
They leave out all the pixelations and accidental call drops of the accursed Skype.
Ugh. The worst!
Hecking same
And then when you have to hang up you just stare at a screen
I expected them to break up at the end and I'm so happy they didn't. It's like buzzfeed telling everyone in an ldr (myself included) to hang in there. :,)
Kay Nighthood I'm also in a ldr. I really need some advice. I know we don't know each other but I need help from someone in the same position
Joelle I can help, i know this reply is really old, but if you still need it and you’re still in the relationship if you’re that committed
@@Tatusiek_1 can u help me , i m also in ldr n i m always in tense becoz of it
I almost didn’t watch this because I didn’t want to see a negative outcome. I need to stay as positive as possible. Ldr is challenging enough. It takes a lot of understanding and love.
@@sunilkumarviralvideos2025 still relevant brother?
Long distance may be difficult...but in these days finding true love also difficult
Exactly 💯
Here's the message of the video:
Burritos bring people together
Ikr
+Izalco72 Well done, well done~
I was eating a burrito while watching this video lol
Legit tho
same
Too relatable. Going through this right now. Sucks saying goodbye after meeting up.
Feelbadman
Yes I agree, last time I had to do that I swear I cried the entire plane ride
at least u meet up.
I got to see him once, I moved away from him a year ago... he's a 24 hour drive away
Kat Thorne well.. was far from him 4 days driving .. good luck to u both 😊
Long Distance is hard, really hard sometimes. My Incredible gift from Jesus, Julie, lives 5 and a half hours away, and I don’t normally write on stuff like this but I felt like someone could use this. Love is REALLY hard to find, there are millions of people who would kill to have someone to talk to no matter how far. Long Distance is such a test of love and many people don’t see the benefit, he glass half full! If someone is willing to love you and be with you from hours away, that is it’s own kind of blessing! Feel free to ask any questions!
if the couple get into an argument, how can you make the opposite one forgive you since you're far away from each other
Oh How beautiful :) the way you Talk about your Girl and your Relationship is simply Amazing :-)
Try a different country lol
Anas El Mouki she/he might forgive you in front of a camera or in person, it doesn’t matter the odds are the same. A relationship that the couple see each other can break up. Distance doesn’t certify to you that is going to work. I’ve been in both relationships, in person and in distance. Long distance relationship worked, in person didn’t.
Wow 5 and a half hours away I wish I was 5 and a half hours away, least you two can see each other on weekends and vacations or least meet half way. Try being in different counties and serving in the military
This hit in me in the feels pretty hard. I'm currently in a long distance relationship and I'm very determined to make sure it works out.
sameeeeee good luck...
XxJherySantos1xX thank you. Good luck to you too.
I am too, it's so so hard but I love him alot so we will make it work
+Kat Thorne I love her a lot.. And I plan on trying and see where this can go.. good luck to you too
+XxJherySantos1xX thanks
Been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. I consider myself lucky since he's only an hour plane ride away. Still tough. Very very tough. Shout out to all the ldrs out there. Hang in there...
thanks!
+MsBurntToast my girlfriend is an hour plane ride away too, we've been together for 6 months but it is really tough still. Luckily I'm moving to be with her in California next year because I was raised there and plan on going to college there.
+NickisWonderland You're lucky. (: Enjoy it. Savor the moments.
My one year anniversary with my ld girlfriend is on Saturday! I'm so happy. She lives in Kansas and I live in NY. It's been hard at some points but we make it work.
+MsBurntToast thank you
It’s a pretty old video, but i decided i will share my story here😊
So me and my boyfriend started long distance 1 year ago, I remember I watched this video then, and now, one year later, youtube recommended this for me again. My boyfriend is going to move to my country this Friday. We made it trough the whole year, i am not gonna lie, it was hard, but we never cheated, or thought about break up.So anyone who read this, and having a rough time while this roller coaster, remember, it will be easier, just keep going! I know it sounds kinda corny, but true love will survive!💗
I’m gonna share my story with you
Well, I met my boyfriend through the internet almost 4 years ago. He was an exchange student at my country (Brazil) but, I didn’t have the chance to meet him in person that time. He went back to his country (New Zealand) 3 month after we started talking (January 2017), and we never stopped talking since. In November 2018 he booked a flight to Brazil and he came to see me in person for the first time. The 3 weeks he was here were amazing but, he had to go back. On June 29th 2019 he asked me to be his gf (we were already exclusive but that made us official), 5 months after that he moved to Argentina to live with his best friend. In February 2020 he came back for 5 days and I miss him ever since. He’ll be back in May!
Giovanna that is really sweet😊Just keep going, it’s worth it!
Bálint Anna I need your advice you have Instagram ?
Curly Goddess hey there! Yeah sure ask me anything 😊: _fitt_lifestyle
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they showed them saying bye and all but they totally forgot the part where you're SOBBING UNCONTROLLABLY and letting go of each other is almost impossible and then crying the whole plane ride home.. and then crying some more when you get there
It's literally the saddest thing I've ever experienced
the day after they leave is spent motionless in bed, except for the crying and shoving cream cheese danishes in your face :(
I dropped my BF off at the airport about two months ago. He waved goodbye at me before I pulled off. Once I had hit the highway I exploded into tears and cried so hard I had to pull to the shoulder. Literally felt like a miniature heartbreak. Then I got use to life without him again in two days. It makes me not even want to see him because we both know he have to leave soon and I’ll have to experience the separation sadness all over again.
I'm a guy who had sadly has yet my meet my love in person. It already going to be that much harder to go and hurts knowing it's going to a while before I see again..
Mallary B I thought I was the only one! It gets harder every time we have to leave each other 😔
I've been in a long-distance relationship for 3 years. He's finally moving here next year - we're already making plans. It's been a rollercoaster, but it's all worth it. :)
+Jaclyn Herrmann That's so amazing!! I wish you guys the best!
You really need to be independent and confident in yourself to survive a relationship like this.
Shout out to those who have been brave enough. Bc it's never worked out for me.
True
Been there done that. It's hard, it hurts and it sucks.
+WildShakzTM when one of them is not sure about it
+WildShakzTM yup. I'm in one right now it's totally worth it, especially when you meet your soulmate
yeah i know it...
+laura eugene same thing happened to me :/ i still miss him
+Sam N we can get over it together girl 😂😂😭💪🏻
where's the glitchy skype calls? where are the rest of their tears? How about falling asleep on facetime? but seriously I am in an LDR and its all worth it
Hey People! Long distance can work out! I was 17 when I met my boyfriend (he was a trainee in a restaurant), he had to finish his last class in Slovakia, and I live in Germany. After 10 month long distance, he moved to Germany and now, after 7 years we're still together and since 2 years we're happily married :-) ♡
Long distance can be really tough. My husband and I were long distance initially in our relationship; we met online. It was hard, to be sure. But we ended up making it and now we're married and living together and we're both happier than either of us ever imagined ^_^
+Missy M. I'm so happy for you! I really hope things go through with my long distance relationship. We have been together for 4 years and have only had two chances to see each other, it's been tough.
Mixx This is what me and him dream of😢
awwww
My wife and I are finishing 4+ years of long distance this month. Makes me want to puke when I here people cry about their "long distance relationship" when they are only like an hour apart.
Word
+Greenday4537 Same. My boyfriend and I are about 700 miles away which is definitely not as far as most LDRs but it's not easy to get from Savannah to DC on a college budget.
I'm literally across the country from my SO :(
Mine just moved even farther across the country😑
Agree! My man is 3000+miles away from me, we've been together 4 years too and still stronger than ever. He's moving in with me at the end of this year
Did long distance for 3 years, been together for 7. Getting married next year 😍
Ethereal Elf Congratulations!! :-)
Divorced yet?
Dolphins101 shut up thats a horrible thing to say divorce can screw up a whole life
well that just drowned all my hopes
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS
+Infinity on Hannah Don't worry about it, being a pretty hardcore gamer, I know TONS of friends who actually met online or on games that ended up meeting and getting married. It's such an amazing story to listen to and it really shows your love and commitment for that person.
+Infinity on Hannah I've been with my bf for over three years and we live on opposite sides of the Earth and rarely get to see each other, but we're happy. You can do it!
+Infinity on Hannah ikr
Me too m8 also I just came from one of your videos 😂😂
I have been in a LDR for more than two years now, we are in different countries, different time zones. We are both in college wanting to get done with our bachelor's so we can move together. This video doesn't show half of how bad it can be.
I'm in love with a person who's in Ireland, while I'm in the USA. We fall asleep together on FaceTime, wondering what it'd be like to actually sleep next to each other. It's hard.
At least you have same time to go to bed 😉
If You're reading this then you're beautiful and loved and deserve to be happy :)
You too c:
U made my day ❤
🙌🏽
😊
Thank you ❤️😊 you too
My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years and have never had the chance to meet. We are both 2 broke college kids living in different countries just trying to make it work. We skype almost daily and text eachother non stop, but it's truly the hardest thing I've ever done. I know the moment I get to hold him in my arms, everything will be worth it though ♡
+Cara Leroy Ah sister, feel you
+Cara Lecroy you give me hope
+Cara Lecroy omg i relate to this so much. I found somebody online, we have never met in person. He's in college in usa and i'm in highschool in australia the distance is soo far. I don't think he thinks it's real, but I kinda have feelings. *sigh*. All the best for you two.
My ex-boyfriend had to move to another country. In the beginning, we were both trying to find time to be able to talk to each other. After 2-3 months, we stopped talking through Skype. He could not find the time. But I loved him so much, I bared 5 months without seeing him or hearing his voice. He didn't have time to video call or voice call or call at all. We would text once or twice a day but sometimes it would take him days to send a message. And the messeges were horrible... No heart emojis, no "I love you", no "I miss you"... Nothing. It was like he was forced to talk to an old friend. And it used to hurt a lot... but I was trying not to blame him. I used to cry almost every day because I felt unloved and unwanted. When we broke up he told me that he loved me but it just didn't make sense to me. Now that I am looking back, I don't even understand how I managed to stay with him for so long. I never shouted at him, never spoke to him in a bad way because I didn't want him to feel bad. Long distance relationship is even worse when one person is not even trying to show that he appreciates you... When it is one-sided
Random Person i totally relate with you. My gf dumped me yesterday cause she couldn't do LDR anymore.
Random Person
God dmant girl I faced the same , your comment made me cry, my gf did the same with me ,while living she said thanks for ruining my teenage , that broke me inside, and I let her free , God bless you girl , you are the best , *good luck for your life*
I know how it felt you , she said the same that she don't find it meaning full , I was just being a joke for her ,but I want her to see happy and even for that I leave her ❤ she is happy now I guess
He said I treated him bad among words, even I didn’t mean to and didn’t think so, and now he don’t reply often, coz it has some issues so haven’t video call yet since we got contacted, it is virtual relationship,but already fought a few times, it is hard, but I like him just too hard, I’m starting to think if we really matched
They look so fine on webcam... Am I the only one who look on skype like a potato?
Nope you're not the only one
Kala Kings ur not alone
Exactly i was wondering why no one's saying this !!
Lol😂😂😂
NOOOOOOOOOOOOO. THESE TWO AGAIN. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
I think he's upset because of the feels this couple brings
THE FEELSSSSSS. I HAVE EXAMS IN LIKE AN HOUR M.
+Key | iamSmexx me too man, I'm ready for death
+Meghan mine is tomorrow, good luck :D
+Patricia Mesaros Thank you!! Good luck to you too :D
5 years in a long distance relationship
Thankyou so much for the likes
And 8yrs of long distance relationship 😍
Very good to hear! How are you two making it last this long?
Kiran mahto AKIRA OMG this is so good to hear I've been worried cuz I'll hv to work it for another five years😬
True love!
9 here. In 2 months I’m moving there for good
Erin wow! Idk how you made it, clearly shows that's true love, good luck in moving 🙏👌
Plot twist: they’re neighbours
Nolan just got a new writer for his movies
Covid19 be like
😂
Who else is in a “long distance” relationship cause of COVID-19?
musicgrl515 I actually started talking deeply to this girl from long distance cuz of covid-19
We’re talking about meeting up and everything might give it a try for the first time
Me and my girlfriend live in separate countries and we still fly to each other during this pandemic. We've been together for a month at my house now. You have no excuses.
@@ek7407 I think I have a pretty good excuse, both of us are minors so we have no way of seeing each other due to our parents.
@@illfakegodtoday215 I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16
Me and my girlfriend finally met yesterday after 9 months of our relationship...it was the best day of my life...
Duuude ım gonna see him tomorrow I'm super excited we r about to finish 8th months SUPER EXCITED
@@blevn6211 How did it go? :)
@@adriancarbonell4801 the best day ever
That’s great!! :D
did you cheat? I've heard most guys in LDRs cheat :(
the worst part about LDR it's when you practically don't have the time to even say "hi" or "bye"
WHY WOULD YOU PLAY A COUNTRY SONG WHEN YOU COULD'VE USED HEY THERE DELILAH
+Katie Burdon RIGHT?
+Katie Burdon omg i know!!!!!!!!!!!
omg don't i swear t o gOD
+Katie Burdon That song is probably copyrighted.
Katie Burdon Thats not even country tf
The part about after the call, looking at the screen blankly hit way too hard
me and my boyfriend are in complete different countries, no chance of meeting until 2 years later. We fall asleep on call almost every night and text/ call every day.
Have faith in yourself in your relationship ☺️ anything that you work on for long enough will happen!!
Jessica Carpenter we are going strong so far, there are ups and downs but we have strong faith. 😊
I feel sorry for your loser bf settling hard
+chris camez You won't be alone forever.
+Ashlyn Hiltabidel Went two years ldr without even meeting my fiance, skyped everyday, talked on the phone several hours a day and fell asleep on the phone together...it was hard, but Im happily a year into living together and those two years dont feel that long anymore
Didnt seem like a buzzfeed video, why did they call it stages when it was just things happening
agreed
Yep i was thinking of that... I expected some clear stages, but tbh i couldn't see any :/
Matthew Ferrara hm maybe you're right, but I still think they could have been clearer
clickbait
because its not BuzzFeed
LDR is the purest test of love.
im in a long distance relationship its been 8 months its been tough but i love him .
hope it goes well!
+SLMFIRE woww crazy i didint seemy boyfriend until 5 months
+Bangonurmom dude your weird. homewrecker.
+Adriana Coates was it nerve wrecking waiting that long? I now it is for me all the time
my boyfriend is in the military I've only seen him 5times in a 1 year and a half.
I'm currently in a relationship with an amazing girl that I love so much, she goes to my school and she told me a few days ago that she was going to move 7 hours away I was heart broken when she told me the news. I need some advice from someone who has experienced this because I honestly am stuck between trying to have a long distance relationship or splitting up and going our separate ways and it's been eating me alive what do you think I should do? (we are both freshman in high school) also thanks for any advice I really do appreciate it.
Did anyone else hate the music with a passion? It made me wanna neck it
yeah
I liked it, it reminded me of when I fell in love with my sister.
Pete Hudo aaaand there's the guy who thinks he's funny
+Pete Hudo LMAOOOOO
DEFINITELY!!!!!
Long distance is one thing, add to that the time difference 😢😭😭
They never work
Ikr
they can if u actually put effort and trust into them
my brother had been in one for almost 2 years
💯👌😓
+Licking Guy OHMYGOD IT IS YOU HAHAHA
This video made me crave chipotle.
Yes😂
😂😂😂
+L Lagrange I'm so glad I'm not the only one
same
Oh mah god i love chipotle. Chipotle is mah life
I'm moving in with my long distance boyfriend later this year.. I am beyond excited😭💕
Lunatic Wave all the best to you!!
No Thanks thank you so much!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕
paul orta omg I'm moving from Las Vegas to Chicago too!!!!!!!! Ahhhhh so exciting
so how was it!!!!???
Lunatic Wave omg so happy for you and hope you guys are still together and same with my boo but until next year im so freaking excited 💜💕
3 years in a long distance relationship and still hanging on. We're a 16-hour plane ride apart and we haven't seen each other personally since he left to work in another country. We've endured so much, the hardest one was when he had a new girlfriend when we broke up before. There are times when you really want to give up and you'll say to yourself that you don't have to put up with this kind of relationship. But such difficulties, when handled well, will make you stronger and will make you appreciate and value your partner more. LDRs are really difficult, but they are possible and they can work. It really is important to have a goal for your relationship so you two have something to look forward to and to work together for. He's coming home in two months' time, and the anticipation is too much to handle. I just feel so overwhelmed about everything that happened and is about to happen, but one thing is for sure, it is worth it.
Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for two years now, him being in Canada and me being much much further away in Australia. Due to our time differences, he offers to stay up for me everynight just so he could talk to me, even when hes in a law degree in University. Things have been hard lately with me and my boyfriend due to our long distance away from each other, and your comment has really inspired me to not give up just yet. Thank you :)
+Samara Jennings Glad to know I have helped you in some way. There are three things that I try to remember:
1. The number of miles apart doesn't matter. Miscommunication is the greatest distance a relationship could suffer.
2. Each day that we are apart means a day closer to the next time we will be together.
3. We are different when we are together.
This is how you know that it is true love: love is a decision and not just a feeling. When you commit yourself to continue to stick with the person and to love them in spite of the difficulties, because you know "us" is worth fighting for.
Waiting is difficult, but time will pass anyway. This is just a phase. There are better days ahead of us. Hugs :)
annapotpot ***** thank you!! :)
annapotpot Inspiration, love you dear, thank you, i hope you both are still together :)
I met my fiance on a DBZ chatroom two years ago. He's in Australia, I'm in America. It was a year and a half of dating until we met and lived together for three months and got engaged. He's moving here in December, we get married in February. Don't let the distance define you.
I'm so glad for you. Unfortunately some people can't do without some sort of contact even if they try :(
That's true. My ex was one of the people that couldn't do that. I was bitter for a long time but I've realized that when he broke it off he was just doing what was right for him, and there's nothing wrong with that. The 'don't let the distance define you' thing was more encouragement for people that are capable of doing long distance, but struggling with it. I'm not claiming that my relationship has been easy, anyone who says they are is lying or delusional. I'm one of the people that don't really NEED physical affection, but we still have to work every single day to make it work. P.S if you're going through something, I hope you feel better soon. (Just wondering 'cause of the sad face.
I got engaged to my fiancee in Australia. She's from there and I'm from America. It's been a little over a year now since we met. I'm marrying her this year and moving to Australia to be with her and kids. It's hard leaving her and traveling back and forth from America to Australia.
Just hoping to get my Visa sorted out so I can move there, work there and not have to leave her anymore. It's hurts more and more all the time. Thank God for Skype, it may be glitchy at times but I still get to at least see her and talk in some form.
You guys met in a dbz chatroom?? That is so cool lol.
The best kind of relationships ♡♡ fell in love with his soul even before i could touch his body
I'm getting a new hat tomorrow
Good for you!
What kind of hat
i find it cute that someone asked what kind of hat😭😂
What kind of hat was it?
I laughed and I don’t know why
why am I watching this after a break up? 😭😭
Brain works in mysterious ways
F. Bonnie me too
Me too
Aww I am so sorry. I hope you come out of the phase soon or patch up with your lover. Much love.
F. Bonnie ...me too...maybe because we are still not over it ...
The best Part About Long distance realtionship Is You Value Your Partner's Presence When You Guys Meet in Person !
I hate when people say long distance relationships aren't realistic or are impossible. My boyfriend lives in South Korea and I live in the U.S. We were in a ldr for 2 years before we could finally be with each other. During the time we were apart, communication was always there. We skyped constantly, sent each other gifts, and talked to each other daily. LDR is all about effort and passion! Don't let anyone bring your relationship down.
I was In a relationship for 6 years . We thought we were going to get married together. Then she moved away to go to medical school..it was really hard..we talked on the phone everyday but with her school and my job we only talked at night time...we started to find less and less to say to each other...then it turned to just saying goodnight and I love you to each other..after only 7 months of long distance relationship we broke it off with each other..it's hard people..if you decide to do a LDR..don't expect it to be easy just because you love each other
+Will Silapheth imagine years of ldr. people do it all the time even when communicating is hard. it all comes down to who's willing to fight the pain and awkward late night convos in order to stay with the person they love until they're finally together.
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Will Silapheth we also had joint account too. But she used our joint account to accomodated her lifestyle. she owed money for flying ticket for studying to Europe. i trusted her when she said going to return back immediately afterward she got her scholarship money. she never did it. ( funny, when we were in relationship, we never thought it as big deal and let it slide....)
Kimi Hariri your profile pic looks like your about to start a LDR ...lol I'm jk...but yea I tried my best but after a while I can hear the difference in her voice..even the way she said I love you to me..it's like she says it just to say it and theres no emotion behind it..i felt her slipping away everyday ..I didn't want to lose her but it was only a matter of time...the only thing I regret was not moving with her..but aren't those the only things we should regret in life?? We regret the chances we never took and the decisions we took too long to make
@@ItzMeWill how re you now ?
me and my girlfriend want to meet so badly, i love her.
a t h e n a ik the feelz
Same
Same bro without a doubt
Ur probably getting catfishes
You have a girlfriend you've never met? Go outside bro wow
I have 18 months until its not long distance anymore.
it's *
How much now?
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒwolғ wolғyƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ a little less than one year. I'm so happy.
Mine is more or less 5 months. But it is so difficult to me
i have about 5 years until it’s not long distance anymore if everything goes well :(
I'm not crying, I've got something in my eye
don't cry, craft! :D
+Mirabell97
Yes, and that something is tears.
+LightningstruckDraws :'D
+Artsy Ferret stop lying :D
Mirabell97
I'd reply to your comment, but the -tears- onion ninjas are making my vision blurry.
Dang. Some of you did 10 years and here we are, struggling with almost two years of LDR. Really hoping we'll survive 😭
Life is so sweet when you have your family around you, I'm so excited to share this testimony I lost my man to 28 year old girl who cast a spell on him I, cry out for help to the past 4 weeks I have been looking for a way for me to get him back. one day I have it with my friend she gave me a solution she said I should contact Doctor hello here is her contact a great and powerful spell caster who can do all things. i told her my problems to cast a very powerful spell and the in 46 hours my husband was back to me all thanks to Doctor ola Ogaga a great spellcaster if you need help to get .ex back email her on drolaogaga@gmail.com or is via WhatsApp + 2 3 4 9 0 6 9 3 1 3 9 5 5........
They really liked burritos...
Ok..the music is very annoying and it's hard to pay attention to the video because of it.
agreed
+Hannah M. which song is that?
got it. I skipped that..
+Sudhanshu Rawat link of the song is tylerimbrey.bandcamp.com/track/relent
ya true..
Yeah, long distance comes with a lot of happiness & sadness. My boyfriend Marcus and I are 4 hours apart by plane... We'll meet eventually but facetime and texting seem to be our forte at the moment.
I literally cried when she opened the envelope with the sweather in it.
Same
Relate so much. Been in a ldr for 2 years already. Finally going to move in with him late this summer.
Congrats
congratulations! :D At least some of these types of relationships end well.
yay! Congrats! I wish you endlessly happiness to both of you :)
Congratulations on your relationship 😁🙌🏼🙌🏼
Congratulations i am happy for you
Currently in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend and we are going on 3 months of dating, 5 months of non-stop talking to each other. Won't be able to see her til December 😭
This video gave me a lot of hope!
I'm in the exact same timeframe situation as you! I can't wait until December!!!!!
@@clarajankowiak6026 same here!!! So excited! I have tickets booked and everything!
Did you have fun? Won't see mines until next year. 😥
Life is so sweet when you have your family around you, I'm so excited to share this testimony I lost my man to 28 year old girl who cast a spell on him I, cry out for help to the past 4 weeks I have been looking for a way for me to get him back. one day I have it with my friend she gave me a solution she said I should contact Doctor hello here is her contact a great and powerful spell caster who can do all things. i told her my problems to cast a very powerful spell and the in 46 hours my husband was back to me all thanks to Doctor ola Ogaga a great spellcaster if you need help to get .ex back email her on drolaogaga@gmail.com or is via WhatsApp + 2 3 4 9 0 6 9 3 1 3 9 5 5........
I've been with my boyfriend.. (Fiancé since New Years Eve) 4 years this June, long distance since the start, and will be long distance for another too years at least. I don't know why long distance is always portrayed as so hard.. If it's the right person, it works, because you love them that much; and you know it'll all be worth it in the end.
+Chaniee oO it's hard because when you love someone that much you want them there with you all the time and it hurts to be so far away from them. It's especially hard if you started out seeing them everyday and then they move halfway through the relationship. My partner moved and it hurts so much knowing if he hadn't moved we'd probably still be together.
phangirl Yeah, I understand that :). just lots of videos make it seem long distance isn't possible.
Wasting.... Long distance doesn't mean we don't see each other.. We see each other every month for a week at a time. People love to jump to conclusions.
Yeah but not everyone can be in an LDR and see each other once a month for a week...
Chantelle YT true, it shows impatience in people now a days because people get everything so fast now a days and that's why they are addicted to it.
then there's the "too awkward to skype"
this is way too true
bsbjdjww thats me rn
me toooooo, my boyfriend and I met in person and it was AMAZING but I'm just so fricken awkward on skype
I'm sooo late to this, but something that really helps is to get a few friends you know well to call with you. From both sides. Also as awkward as it sounds, turn on your camera. I thought I'd die but it actually feels so much better to see each other.
Omg so true.
Meeting my ldr boyfriend tomorrow after 10 months of waiting😭❤❤
HOW WAS IT
Life is so sweet when you have your family around you, I'm so excited to share this testimony I lost my man to 28 year old girl who cast a spell on him I, cry out for help to the past 4 weeks I have been looking for a way for me to get him back. one day I have it with my friend she gave me a solution she said I should contact Doctor hello here is her contact a great and powerful spell caster who can do all things. i told her my problems to cast a very powerful spell and the in 46 hours my husband was back to me all thanks to Doctor ola Ogaga a great spellcaster if you need help to get .ex back email her on drolaogaga@gmail.com or is via WhatsApp + 2 3 4 9 0 6 9 3 1 3 9 5 5........
THESE NO THEY ARENT TEARS. MY EYES ARE JUST SWEATING
When long distances become too hard, sometimes its gonna hurt less to break it off than holding on.
That's giving up. If it's real love it will work.
+Kacie Gannon Exactly. True love beats distance.
glee power It wasn't meant to be then, I'm sorry to hear that. But if both truly are committed, and work towards living with each other, it's the most beautiful thing. It shows that you are able to love each other even without needing all the physical things like hugs and kisses. Also, skype dates and gaming together makes it quite doable. :)
I knew a few people who had this kind of relationship. But now lived happily with their children. Dedication, perseverance, patience and real essence of love wins.
I'm currently in a long distance relationship and by that I mean a 12 hour time zone difference for the past two years. Yes, we do miss each other very much so but I've been pretty happy to see her every time. People just need to understand that having a personal life is good and also to give the other person your attention when needed. Also having arguments is okay! Every relationship is going to go through something like that. A relationship is not meant to drag a person down, it's to support the other in their endeavors. That's why I personally don't feel that this video describes what it truly means to be in a long distance. Don't idealize a "perfect" relationship, put effort into it, and spice it up from time to time.
I'm so over being emotionally drained by them.
I get you girlie
That's sad.... if you're adults, why don't you do whatever it takes to be together??? This is so lonely.
because its not that easy, the guy im with lives all the way in the US, Texas, and i live in Belgium. He's on disability and doesn't earn much money, neither do i, but we're both working hard to get together.
Erodict I'm sorry. I hope it works out for you. That would be very difficult. I guess what I should have said is that Love finds a way. Good luck.
Courtney O'Neal sometimes the road of line leads you on opposite directions
Courtney O'Neal what if you're not even close to adulthood .-.
You can't just stop working or studying, it's not so easy
This accurately describes the relationship between me and my fridge
No wonder he's sticking it out; that girl is drop dead gorgeous
It's the small moments you miss, the birthday's, waking up in the morning, their quirky habits .. the things you only get when you're there with them.
Me and my girlfriend of two months are closing the distance in a week!
Aww congrats!!
+seafoam gratz :) my bf and I closed it after 2 yrs! hehe we've been living together for a year now
+Mae Du Awesome! My gf lost her job so we we're able to close alot faster
+seafoam I'm very happy for u :)
seafoam after 2 months you are what already getting married ????
This video made me cry so hard... My boyfriend lives in PA and I live in SC... He and I only get to see each other like 4 times a year and it's so hard. His parents don't know he's gay so it makes it so much harder.....
+Huston Head I was in the same boat with my last bf only I lived in FL and he lived in CT. Thankfully he was able to move in with me after only five months of being apart.
My current bf has gone through reparative counseling so his parents think he's 'ex-gay'. He tried coming out to his more 'liberal' brother and it went terribly. Not sure if he will ever come out to his parents. Thankfully he doesn't live with them so we still get to see each other. However I'm moving 4.5hrs away to go back to college in a few months so we'll be long distance for three years...
Best of luck to you.
I only get to see my fiancé every few years. it's been a while and its so hard but it's going well, and I hope for good things in the future
the last goodbye hugs, hit it different.
Stage 1 = have a relationship... Failed already
This hit close to home. Been in a long-distance-relationship for 8 years now. It's hard and definitely not for everyone. But if the person is the one for you and you can dream of a future together, then it might just be worth it. If things go as planned we can finally move in together next year :)
31/2 years in a long distance relationship only problem for me is when the doubt creeps in
My GF Alex and I went through this. I haven't spoken to her since September because she's at a therapy program in Cali and I live in NY. As rocky as we were... I miss her.
Hi ! My name is Ashley and I am a casting producer for a new TLC show about couples who are in long distance relationships and have never met yet. If interested please email me at: k1showcasting@gmail.com
Alex and I did meet in person once; she visited me in the hospital.
+Ashley DeMarco i sent to u:3
Jennifer Strong Awww.
@@DeMarcoAshley what about a TLC show about military spouses fiance's and girlfriend/boyfriends we get no recognition for the things we go through with our military members and our military members definitely dont get the recognition they deserve either it's much harder than the basic long distance relationships just an idea that I'd love to see be put into action
stop hurting me buzzfeed
Ok I'll stop
I just got into a long distance relationship and its going great. Both of us trust each other so much and we connect in every level and we love each other so much. The only thing stopping us is her parents. Please give me your thoughts and advice. Id love to hear them
Art of JoemaliaI hope you guys will be together for a long time! If you truly love each other the parenta of your girlfriend will not be an obstacle! I wish the best💕👌
This wasn't even that emotional but being in a ldr this made me cry because you can see them falling away from each other and losing interest and that's not how all ldr's are.
I don't remember signing up for this feels trip.
Then drop out BOIII
Everyone: this is heartbreaking
Me: *they love burritos*
1:17 cassually sending his laundry for her to do....(i know thats not what is happening but its funny to think like it is)