Ni & Si Taking Control
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what's difficult is when you need to delegate responsibilities but don't want them to mess it up
Then you have to train them, shape them. Let them fail and grow. But everything must be under your supervise.
Keep everything to yourself and try to accomplish everything is another way to lose control.
That's where zen chaos comes in. If you show them that you believe mistakes are natural, have confidence in their abilities, and then teach them calmly, they'll be way more likely to soak it up. Let them teach you something, too, so they know they're appreciated.
Write tight specifications so they deliver what you want. If they deviate, there better be a good reason for it such as they greatly improved on your specs (without extensive overcharges).
hit me in the soul with this one
what are you doing here. this is weird
Outsourcing control was one of my greatest growing pains. But, for the sake of efficiency, the best choice sometimes is to not to do everything yourself.
@1:00 "Start own company in rebellion against the boss, then have to set up the rules"
I'm a Ne-Fi hippy
Like you guys- this is my situation. I used to hate bosses giving me directions (those I didn't respect).
Had the "I can figure this out myself" mentality.
NOW it's such an awakening; I have soooooo much more empathy for their perspective. Dealing with employees who hate being "coached" is stressful!
When theres good reasons for the "direction" I'm giving, listen to me! Dont give excuses, it's nothing personal, just shut up, learn, get better.
Isn’t there a saying, “Grass is greener on the other side.” Well, wait until you get to the other side.
I totally agree with what Dave has to say about starting off with gaining full control over one area of your life and then gradually moving to others. I've always thought the same, but never actually consciously acknowledged that it could be be the right way. These things take a lot of time, but the rewards outweigh the pain by far...
Well, most people who are in the movie/comic industry are creative people. Usually creative people have high Ne, so I'm not surprised the bad guys they created have high Si, since they fear it.
Exactly. I don't like it when people "help" me because I have my own way of doing things and I can't have anyone butting in and screwing things up.
Sigh. Oftentimes I have to though, since the means to my goals are not always at my disposal... Always a begrudging move to outsource, since people are fickle and don't appreciate someone hovering over their shoulders micromanaging things. Usually takes a long time too... a lot of waiting just for a snag to pop up, begetting yet more waiting, or worst of all, back to the drawing board.
oh gosh. I'm allowed to plan? :O
Have felt so trapped for so long. Started taking control finally. It does feel pretty great.
I’m good with controlling my personal life, making things happen. I don’t want to extend that to other people and I *really* don’t want them to control me.
Same. I want to control what I eat/drink and the conditions of my small living space. I don't want control over other people and vice versa
Great example about studying other successful people and "copy" what they do.
It's almost like remixing. Like when you pull pieces of different songs, chop it up and turn it into something "different".
The same can be said about pulling ideas or structures from what successful people have done and the build it into your own structure/control/system. Just gotta CONSUME all the DATAS then BLAST it out in the physical world.
As an INFJ it is easy to ask and expect to control. I dont like controlling so when I need to do it, it is because it is the thing that must be done based on the effects it will produces.
And as an INFj, yeah reingeneeing is what I do all the time
Interesting insight into the bad guy being the one in control! Thanks, guys.
It does make sense. Most villains are INTJs by MBTI stereotypes standards
As an ISFJ I can relate to Dave saying ' I want to have control?'. It's okay to take complete control of my goal by myself until I build the frame work then ask for help. As a pleaser I tend to look for external approval from the tribe.
I liked this one so much I watched it twice...lol! You guys are Awesome! Thank You!
MizLynn
Exactly what I did.
Bring others chaos... Then you have the control 😏😏
#dontcontrolmebro
#saviorfunctionthehelloutoflife
#skibbyyyyyy
I get all of these references except the last one. 🤣
@@surpingbutterfly Skib means NF.
Speaking volumes here. Makes a lot of sense.
Oes represent! Control is The maaan, maaaan. I rather chop off my head than order you around. I actually had a really bizarre childhood event where I became this real tiny fascist while also somewhat "betraying" my core group of "friends." Basically I had a Caesar moment in 5th grade, melted down literally and changed both my body weight and my outlook. I was becoming my step dad without even knowing it. Hard stop. I never thought about that as control. Just like a power that I had inside of myself. (Edit: I did, however, think of my shitty behavior leading up to that event /as/ controlling behavior that should be avoided; doubling down on "control is bad" as a mentality)
Yeah, and still I never connected the dots because my internal feelings as judge were just constantly being ignored. This obviously includes the dark side of things which we all actively ignore but somehow because these functions were neglected, when I accepted my darker feelings then the whole thing came together a bit better. And I can stop and try to gather myself better.
Beautiful. Im going through the same thing now.
What's your take on the differnece between Ni control vs Si control
That’s a good question, I suppose it must have something the do with control in the abstract world sense of the term and control in the physical-world ?
the text alignment on those slides are driving me crazy! get it together 😂
Ahhh... same. 😂
Someone pls help
I'm definitely an istp confirmed by others
I dont have a routined life and just do what I want at a time
But I'm more conceptual and pattern based so I'm less grounded and practical
So am i Ti/Ni or Ti/Se
Maybe we have resistance to plans because the villain’s plans always fall through in the end
Just do it yourself.
-Thanos, indeed
CAN SOMEBODY PLEASE INFORM ME ABOUT BEING Ni/Ti thank you
What do you want to know?
Btw , in chess ( as an intermediate player , also , did not start because of this Beth hormone bullshit trend on Netflix )if you try to control your own corner you are lost right there.
Generally the object is to get as much space as possible in the centre of the board , you control the centre , you restrict your oponents pieces , that's how you win , not by picking corners
How does the topic of "control" translate to recent events post 2020? Hmm...
Control is an illusion!
Demon Ni would say that. Fool!
Does anybody know why intuitives lack eye contact?
Dawn Hodges
As simple as I can make it
In my opinion: If I do, when I do, I would say it's to have clearer thought.
Thank you
For me it's a couple of reasons: 1 Being polite, in nature too much eye is threatning. 2 As lead Ni, I navigate inside myself primarily, but have to look in the external world first to see what's going on, so I tend to look at someone for +4 secs, then piece things together on the inside (which creates resting bitch face for me, which is the highest respect I can give you because I'm absorbing, eeeverything). 3 I lock eye contact when tension rises, conflict or in threatning situations, especially when I know I'm right (the Te side of me, I think).
I dunno, I'm a Si Savior (not self-typed) and I almost never maintain eye contact...
This is a very good video
Great points.
The Joker 2019 villain didn’t have a plan!
What is OE, EP? etc missing something hahahaha
EP means ExxP (for Example ENFP or ESTP)
Oe means extraverted Observer (Se and Ne)
You should maybe watch some earlier videos if you want to know more about it 😊
@@anyone359 thank you!
@@davidtrig ないす
story of my life man
Jocko willink mbti? Anyone knows?
SE/TE (ESFP)
Thanos is a great guy^^
Like if you clicked on this vid because Thanos was in the thumbnail
Henry Ford did nothing wrong
This guy is cringe