@@ChristopherKelley100 Ofc! My videos are intentionally recorded with different people every time! Any suggestions on something else you wish to watch?
Her point about not making the first move because it alters the dynamic-it moves the dominance to her-is interesting. As a man, I don't think I have thought about it like that.
She’s beautiful! All these women who pump themselves full of plastic and cake themselves with makeup need to look at her. Bright eyes, huge smile, classy. That’s what men find beautiful.
Yeh, in our society is normal to take care of ourselves. I like people who take care of themselves. It’s self love. I do it as well (besides the make up thing 🤣)
As soon as I saw her first reaction on you when you approached, I immediately understood that she liked you and she made herself open for the interaction. It proves that the look always opens the doors. If a women does not like a man's look, the man has no chance.
Not entirely true. The best thing any man can do for an approach is be well groomed, dress well, and be socially comfortable. Most women will give you a chance if you have these things going for you. Genetic looks certainly do help a lot but they aren't the most important factor. No disrespect to Axel but he is no Brad Pitt. But he is very charismatic, dresses well, and is groomed well for his style. So he checked all three boxes. Not to mention he is very experienced in approaching. So what seems like a one time good approach to the untrained eye is something he has actually done a million times.
Thank you! You have a good intuition, indeed. Do you have any suggestions how to continue the series in case. I can do more videos of the same in case if it vibes well 💪
@@RealAxelFerrarI A second opinion. Make sure you don't ruin this relationship for the channel's sake. It should be the other way around. Be in a great relationship, and if she doesn't feel like videotaping, then it's the end of the video series. Just ask her and tell her what's more important to you.
@@everydayhandwriting no girl in the planet is more important. so its either she like it or she has to f o. this is the abundance mentality. walking on egg shells is not my way. no fear. no scarcity. it's full of women
Blessed? He probably worked on it for a long time until he earned this level of social skill. What seems like a one time good approach is actually something he has done a million times through trial and error.
@@RealAxelFerrarI Most guys don't understand what you mean and that's sad. They think women think like men do and care mostly about looks. They can't watch this video and truly understand the social dynamics that is going on in this video
Right? His intentions were obvious from the start. Respect to her for handling his not-a-come-on come-on with grace and a smile. And for the record, I don't think he did anything wrong. At least he tried to be original and non-threatening, if not completely honest.
@@KarlMaldensNose That's how it's done though. If you're not a Brad Pitt looking guy, a direct approach is almost a suicide mission. So you have to come in under the radar. Women communicate in subtext and between the lines anyways. So it's much more fun for all parties involved if you build up to the flirting with great interaction.
@@KarlMaldensNose are you a man or woman? if man, u should agree that if you see an interesting woman then, you also wish to see if there can be something more than just a "hi-goodbye" type of situation. Does not happen to you ever?
@@RealAxelFerrarI American women focus too much on the height and income of a man, rather than if he is a good man. One who is respectful, would make a good husband and father etc.
I hate people saying this, There are American women who are sweet and kind and there's European's who are rude bitches. I went to a international college and most of the girls there were European, guess what? 90% of them acted like snobby white American girls.
It's refreshing to see people speaking english very clearly without "like" or other nonsens words. "it seems deleicious indeed" and all that make the conversation more pleasant to watch. Also the accents you both have make the interaction stand out even more. This was a very interesting video.
You're a stud bro lol. I've done pickup in the early 2000s when I was a fresh faced 21 year old and I can tell you're masterclass in this. You took her from initial approach, to a coffee "date" and then to drinks all in the same day. You played the game flawlessly. Whatever she had planned for that day, it didn't matter because you were the best thing going on that day for her. That prolonged eye contact at the end of the video with her eyes glowing, that's how it's done sir. I salute you.
This was a great and genuine video!! She’s a lovely lady and I’m glad she was able to provide insight and advice. Hope you and her will get to go on another date.
He don't deserve her. You can tell she is genuine and he's just doing it for likes on his video and an experiment. After she reads his comments she will wise up
Neta is very beautiful in so many ways! I understand her great point of the male, female energy flow of dominance. It would be like starting on the wrong foot in a dance. She is a lovely traditional girl who isn't influenced by the social trends of the day. From the very start of the conversation, her smile, and her eyes are truthful. Dating advice from an old man. Be yourself. Easy-peasy.
Looking in the eyes and smiling is a sign of confidence and seeing them for who they are. Taking just a moment of your day to look to people in the eyes can make a huge difference in someone’s life. You may be the only smile they get today, give it to them :) might save their life and let them know people see them and they matter! You can always find something beautiful about most women/people. Find it and make an honest compliment with eye contact and a smile and they will see the honesty. Doesn’t mean you’re going to take them to bed, just means your a decent human being, which could open doors later for future interactions!
I understand her point about not wanting to approach guys, but there is a term called "Dropping the handkerchief", basically in the 20th century when women saw men that they were interested in, they would drop their handkerchiefs as they walked past the man, so he would pick it up and spark a conversation! I think this concept is what girls should do when they want guys to approach them
never heard of it and it s interesting. But perhaps will never happen (happen again?). So best is always approach yourself and get strong enough to be rejected as well
Don't have such a loser mentality. Genetics help but aren't the most important factor. A good looking guy with a greasy t-shirt and who is socially awkward will probably have very little to no luck. What is more important is being well groomed, dressing well and having a particular style that suits you, and the most important thing, you have to be socially comfortable and competent. Looks while they do matter, they matter much less to women than they do men.
She is gorgeous and seems to be an wonderful person. You did good, just never touch a person without her approval (even holding her finger like you did), but it’s cool that it worked out for you in the end 👍🏼
@@RealAxelFerrarI I disagree with that. If you do it and she flinches away from it, don't do it again. Nothing is more gross to a woman in the courting stage than a man who isn't confident and assertive.
@RealAxelFerrarI No, women give their fantasy, white knight, version of how they want a man to approach. Always use what women *respond* to, not what they say.
C'moon, you did great! And you call yourself a shy introvert? 🤔😂 However, was she the first girl you try to talk about this or did you have to try for a while?
@Furgetty I'm getting better 🤣 But it was struggle. Maybe I do behind. the scenes. It was crazy. It was the second girl I talked to after finishing the challenge. The challenge worked for real 🤯 🤯
@@RealAxelFerrarI You look quite natural, fluent and improvisational at conversations. It's not how shy introverts use to do, even if you struggle inside before. However, yes, do a behind the scenes 😄
@Furgetty Wow, thanks a lot for your props ☺️ Is there any way that I. should do the. behind the scenes. It's important for me to get the taste of the viewers right!
@@RealAxelFerrarI It's hard to tell as I don't know what you have recorded or how you prepare for the conversations. But basically that's what you can show/tell: the preparation (mostly mentally & emotionally) for the conversations. You may prepare with questions for example I guess. ...or to make it more fun & realistic, you can include bloopers 😁
Omg she's gorgeous! Stunning smile and personality and so honest and real and sweet. Wish I could meet more girls like this but I have met very very few in my lifetime of 46 years if I am honest.
A couple of days ago I was sitting at the beach eating sushi. There was a girl with her dog sitting in front of me. She gets up to leave then when she gets near me stops and turns to look out at the beach. Was this a signal she noticed me and wanted me to initiate something. I miss these subtle signs and opportunities all the time. It may not have been anything but was a little out of the ordinary she looked back as she was beside me. I could have said are you looking for your boyfriend, as the surf was good and many surfers out. Didn't say anything though so opportunity missed. She was maybe 30s, quite attractive and dressed conservative for the summer heat. I'm late 40s but look very young still. Most think I'm late 20s early 30s. It's kind of a tricky age to be single again.
Thanks for the amazing video. Both of you come from a very genuine angle and if such balance can be found that is amazing. I personally am struggling with signs and such recently so i assume thats why the algorithim recommended me you guys. Its a nice takeaway, you don't know unless you try and be respectful. Only do things you would not mind receiving. Merry Christmas to you both have a great one and thanks again for this sweet video.
I have had a woman come up to me and ask for help with something she could clearly do herself. I just wish I was smart enough at the time to realize she was trying to get me to ask her out or introduce myself for a possibility I have missed quite a few possibilities because I did not pick up the hint until it was way too late.
It's so tough especially in this society to be a guy who's shy. I'm 59 and never approached a woman even though I wanted to but my anxiety took over and it's ruled my life. The only date I've been on was my senior prom and even that was a pity date, a favour for a friend. Needless to say that night was a bust as my date even though I borrowed dad's car to pick her up she ignored me at the event. I've been a looser in life at the dating and romancing game.
You could still start now? It's all about letting the fear behind, not expecting anything and being experimental. Rejection isn't that bad if you don't care as much, and every attempt is experience. Also important to remember that no is no and to never insist. "I'm busy that week" is also a no
Maybe follow some of my lives here on TH-cam. I talk a lot about this aspect. In any case I understand you. It’s difficult. But I would not give up. Kawasaki and KFC and other founders started above 60s and 70s years old. It’s never too late
At the end of the day, your style should be your own. This is generally good advice all around. This method of asking a question to someone you find attractive is rooted in social psychology and a was (ab)used a lot in the with MPUA culture in the 90s and early 2000s. I learned about it cuz I’m autistic and need structure for my interactions, however if you’re putting on an act it’ll eventually show and the person they fell for, won’t be the person you default into. So be genuine and don’t just copy someone’s style, gain confidence, be a gentleman, get advice from pretty women and take a chance… she just might be your angel 😇
@ no, not really… I learned after college and I just haven’t met the right woman. Have dated enough and it’s expensive. I’m just working on myself and figure I’ll meet my future wife when I’ve reached my potential.
@that’s a real possibility! Sometimes people don’t find their partners but they still have friends. I don’t lack for company if that’s what you’re meaning, and if I wanted to settle I could, but I’d rather be genuine. If I had to describe it, it’s like my heart knows a greater love that hasn’t begun to be replicated in my relationships. Sort of like when someone becomes widowed and they never remarry because they had already found their soulmate.
You had her in immediatally. You approached her to get a suggestion from her, for how to approach women. And her answer was literally "you could ask her for a suggestion..."
Rule number 1 is that fisherman should not take advise from a fish. He won her by confidence and openness and the fact that he actually did the approach.
This is valuable knowledge u couldn’t get from most women, somewhat reassuring for us guys. I love her dress sense, traditional women a rarity especially in western countries
@@RealAxelFerrarI I agree, it's very horrible to say this. But on the other hand that's reality brother. Plus you're a youtuber. You meet plenty of girls and you have no time to settle down...
The guy who she said approached her at the gym is a genus lol. He approached her very easily and then created an experience for both of them to do and he sounds like he was more than competent socially and made it a very fun and memorable experience for her. You can tell just by how she recites that approach.
Don't ask anyone for any dating advice , ever . Because people's advice mostly amounts to telling you to not be yourself . The only things that count for anything in this world are knowing yourself , being yourself and being able to live with yourself ,everyday . Anybody who isn't happy enough with that, just isn't ever going to be worthy of you . If they're not happy within themselves don't fool yourself that you can change them or make it better.
It's so sad watching vids like these knowing I'm never going to get to ever experience love or a relationship with a nice women just because I just so happened to end up a short man. Trust me, you would not get the time of day if you were short. I've gone up to over 100 women this past year, making sure I presented myself nicely and with confidence, and I only got 2 dates out of all of them. Later on those dates, both admitted that they just couldn't get over the height thing, so we went our separated ways. It's been like this my whole life (I'm 31 now). Living life as a short man is just too depressing man. I really don't feel like living life like this anymore and might just end it early tbh. Anyways, I'm happy you're able to have little experiences with women like this that actually find you attractive and get to have a little fun in life. Cheers mate!
Hey man. I hope all is well with you at this very moment this new year. I don't know you or your particular situation, but I'm 26 years old and have what seems to be the opposite of your situation. I have eyes of other women of different ages noticing me, but I can tell you that it only brings me uncertainty and unwanted excitement even sadness. Even if the most beautiful woman had already given her heart to me and had the intent of wanting to have a relationship with me, I wouldn't give myself a chance. Why? Well because as much as I desire a relationship as much as you. It's not a very high purpose enough to live an abundant life and quite frankly I always say I'm ready when I know I'm not. Plus, it really isn't everything that life has to offer. I suggest as a complete stranger to reorient your towards something higher if you haven't already. If you have.. that's awesome. Lean on the thing, that higher purpose calling you to continue living life and enjoying it abundantly. For me, it's God, for you I don't know, but know that as a man of 26 who's already what wondering about life at 31.. don't ever lose hope. I'm turning 27 in 9 days and I tell you that it's a blessing talking and just relating a little bit to your pain. I'll be taking this year for myself as a purposeful year of singleness and will pray for you as well. God bless you and Happy New Year! "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you"
You never know what's around the corner so wait and see. Why not try petite Asian girls. Some are so tiny. Why give up now? Give up later but for now seek out the tiny Asian and Indian women. Gorgeous.
@crenshaw46 Hey @crenshaw46 doy ou want to talk? I might have a solution for you. I was thinking about something. On IG @realaxelferrari. In any case, trust me, everything has a solution. Thank you to being open with me and us. I am sure you already know a solution exist.
If girl/woman says to me that she has a boyfriend, I simply respect that and stop. It can be lie but it can be also truth. I assume that she tells me the truth.
If you really understand what a ''REJECTION'' means, it means so little. It's only a bit of energy in someone's brain that has no position to judge you at all. Yet, we are afraid of what others might think/say of us, and with this JUDGING us. An insecurity is a perception within your own mind that an attribute or characteristic you posses is not quite ''up to par,'' so to speak. All insecurities begin, and end, in your own mind. Anytime you 'compare' what you have to offer, to what other people have to offer, you're setting youself up to develop a number of egotistical insecurities. This is why you should never base your sense of self-confidence and self-esteem on one specific thing. For example, if 90% of your self-esteem is based on your looks, guess what's going to happen if you're in the company of another person who you perceive as more handsome than you? You're going to feel insecure. Same thing goes for your level of wealth, your sense of humor, your level of education, your degree of success and so on and so on. Your confidence and self-esteem has to come from your ''total package.'' Every quality about you combined together should be the basis for your sense of confidence and self-esteem, not just on particular attribute. In every encounter of 2 people there are 6 people present; 1. the one you think you are 2. the one you think the other is 3. the one he thinks he is 4. the one he thinks you are 5. the one who you actually are 6. the one who he actually is.
Unless you're genetically good looking guy, most men should wait before hitting on her and wait until you can notice if she is reacting positively to you and if banter is already established. Most women know you're there for one reason if you approach them no matter what you say. So it's better to come in under the radar. To come in as socially comfortable as possible, don't be direct with your body language, and try and say you only have a minute or so to talk because you're in a hurry so she doesn't have that feeling that you're going to be there forever. Her suggesting of asking where good certain places are is a good one. But you really have to wait about amping up banter and flirting and body language that faces her until you feel her accepting your presence and enjoying the conversation. If you do it too early, she will feel uncomfortable and will want you to go away.
So men are supposed to be mind readers lol. A girl can glance at any guy doesnt mean it "choosing signals" and code for approach her. And if guy approaches several women and constantly gets rejected then eventually he will say its not worth the effort, energy or time and just give up.
Thank you for watching, guys ✌🏻
I'm going to put all energy into other videos.
What content you would like to see next?
More videos with Neta, does she know you make this type of content?
@@ChristopherKelley100 Ofc! My videos are intentionally recorded with different people every time! Any suggestions on something else you wish to watch?
Bro really did the research for himself🤣🤣🤣
Work smart nog hard 😂🤣
@@jackgu9252 one at a time! 🫶
Theory vs practice
@@zyaicob Correct! do you practice?
Her point about not making the first move because it alters the dynamic-it moves the dominance to her-is interesting. As a man, I don't think I have thought about it like that.
@@tw2623 I suggest you to avoid doing like they suggest. Is counterintuitive… I know
The real reason is that they don’t like rejection and they want to see the man demonstrate courage and confidence.
man wants. man gets. its not about her being the dominant one.
Also that girls hate to be rejected. And by the way, who does like that?!
Being a dominant man it’s the goal. Leader of your own life and destiny
Her eyes look so hypnotic 😍
Yeh she is an interesting person!
You can thank her parents for her genes.
@@ArranVid XD
shes beautiful .. smile .. eyes
👍
This lady is a real gem...beautiful and personable!
Nice lady yeh
She’s beautiful! All these women who pump themselves full of plastic and cake themselves with makeup need to look at her. Bright eyes, huge smile, classy. That’s what men find beautiful.
@@officialWWM very natural yeh
Seems like she has a lot make up and modify eyebrows tho
@ lol, that’s nothing! She has a tiny bit of basic makeup and shaping her eyebrows is simple maintenance, like a haircut 🤷🏻♂️
Yeh, in our society is normal to take care of ourselves. I like people who take care of themselves. It’s self love. I do it as well (besides the make up thing 🤣)
@@officialWWM stop simping Jesus Christ you’re annoying
She is stunning.
She is nice yeh
Thnx bro. She’s an angel. And she shows us how a healthy woman eyes look like.
Well, is not replicable that fact. But yeh she is nice person
As soon as I saw her first reaction on you when you approached, I immediately understood that she liked you and she made herself open for the interaction. It proves that the look always opens the doors. If a women does not like a man's look, the man has no chance.
Yup, but dating scammers won’t tell ya *that* one ☝🏾😂
Not entirely true. The best thing any man can do for an approach is be well groomed, dress well, and be socially comfortable. Most women will give you a chance if you have these things going for you. Genetic looks certainly do help a lot but they aren't the most important factor. No disrespect to Axel but he is no Brad Pitt. But he is very charismatic, dresses well, and is groomed well for his style. So he checked all three boxes. Not to mention he is very experienced in approaching. So what seems like a one time good approach to the untrained eye is something he has actually done a million times.
@@andrewvincent7299 I don't think he's that charismatic. He's a bit boisterous and many women find that akward in public settings.
@vitalie96
so @vitalie96 you think looks is 90% or smt?
@ruxpinator cool! Why you think that?
The dude is working on the best pickup line I've ever seen.
thx! did you use it?
She has a lot of life and hope in her eyes.
how do you tell this on a person?
You did well. She is quite beautiful! Also well-spoken and dresses modestly. Probably comes from a good family.
Thank you! You have a good intuition, indeed. Do you have any suggestions how to continue the series in case. I can do more videos of the same in case if it vibes well 💪
@@RealAxelFerrarI
A second opinion. Make sure you don't ruin this relationship for the channel's sake. It should be the other way around. Be in a great relationship, and if she doesn't feel like videotaping, then it's the end of the video series. Just ask her and tell her what's more important to you.
@@everydayhandwriting no girl in the planet is more important. so its either she like it or she has to f o. this is the abundance mentality. walking on egg shells is not my way. no fear. no scarcity. it's full of women
@@RealAxelFerrarI
Damn. Okay. Well, good luck with that.
@@everydayhandwriting are you afraid of losing? Fomo?
A woman who's pretty even with her hair tied is a real beauty.
I think depends of the person more than a general standard. But yeh pretty
You are a blessed person to be able to get to know this incredible and beautiful lady.
I also work on myself to get these opportunities!
@@RealAxelFerrarI What do you mean by working on yourself? you only target your body or also something else?
@@TomaNeagu Well yeh, body and mind. What do you think are the areas?
Blessed? He probably worked on it for a long time until he earned this level of social skill. What seems like a one time good approach is actually something he has done a million times through trial and error.
@@RealAxelFerrarI Most guys don't understand what you mean and that's sad. They think women think like men do and care mostly about looks. They can't watch this video and truly understand the social dynamics that is going on in this video
“Somehow ended up dating her” yea somehow
I mean, yeh, somehow. How would you do it?
Right? His intentions were obvious from the start. Respect to her for handling his not-a-come-on come-on with grace and a smile. And for the record, I don't think he did anything wrong. At least he tried to be original and non-threatening, if not completely honest.
@@KarlMaldensNose That's how it's done though. If you're not a Brad Pitt looking guy, a direct approach is almost a suicide mission. So you have to come in under the radar. Women communicate in subtext and between the lines anyways. So it's much more fun for all parties involved if you build up to the flirting with great interaction.
@@KarlMaldensNose are you a man or woman? if man, u should agree that if you see an interesting woman then, you also wish to see if there can be something more than just a "hi-goodbye" type of situation. Does not happen to you ever?
This is the way to do it...This is the question to ask...lol
It really doesn’t matter the question. But you probably know it
American women would be much more desirable if they were like this lovely lady. Feminine, kind and personable.
Western women in general need to be avoided.
you think they are not?
why you think so?
@@RealAxelFerrarI American women focus too much on the height and income of a man, rather than if he is a good man. One who is respectful, would make a good husband and father etc.
I hate people saying this, There are American women who are sweet and kind and there's European's who are rude bitches. I went to a international college and most of the girls there were European, guess what? 90% of them acted like snobby white American girls.
She is a beauty don't lose her
It's refreshing to see people speaking english very clearly without "like" or other nonsens words. "it seems deleicious indeed" and all that make the conversation more pleasant to watch. Also the accents you both have make the interaction stand out even more. This was a very interesting video.
thank you Julien. I indeed pay attention the way I speak. Are you in your 20s or interact with them a lot? Is that the reason why you notice this?
You're a stud bro lol. I've done pickup in the early 2000s when I was a fresh faced 21 year old and I can tell you're masterclass in this. You took her from initial approach, to a coffee "date" and then to drinks all in the same day. You played the game flawlessly. Whatever she had planned for that day, it didn't matter because you were the best thing going on that day for her. That prolonged eye contact at the end of the video with her eyes glowing, that's how it's done sir. I salute you.
Thnaks man, there are beutiful moments. So, early 2000?
This was a great and genuine video!! She’s a lovely lady and I’m glad she was able to provide insight and advice. Hope you and her will get to go on another date.
thank you! But remember you start to approach women yourself, and dont wait
He don't deserve her. You can tell she is genuine and he's just doing it for likes on his video and an experiment. After she reads his comments she will wise up
@@drjaywhitlock why do you think this way?
@@RealAxelFerrarI Because of your responses in the comment section
Neta is very beautiful in so many ways! I understand her great point of the male, female energy flow of dominance. It would be like starting on the wrong foot in a dance. She is a lovely traditional girl who isn't influenced by the social trends of the day. From the very start of the conversation, her smile, and her eyes are truthful. Dating advice from an old man. Be yourself. Easy-peasy.
A man start the dance 100% of the time
Treat her well bro. She’s a gem.
Absolutely, the man next to her I hope it will!
Looking in the eyes and smiling is a sign of confidence and seeing them for who they are. Taking just a moment of your day to look to people in the eyes can make a huge difference in someone’s life. You may be the only smile they get today, give it to them :) might save their life and let them know people see them and they matter!
You can always find something beautiful about most women/people. Find it and make an honest compliment with eye contact and a smile and they will see the honesty. Doesn’t mean you’re going to take them to bed, just means your a decent human being, which could open doors later for future interactions!
All good! 😊
He is such a good soul and her eyes are just beautiful!!
Thanks man!
I understand her point about not wanting to approach guys, but there is a term called "Dropping the handkerchief", basically in the 20th century when women saw men that they were interested in, they would drop their handkerchiefs as they walked past the man, so he would pick it up and spark a conversation! I think this concept is what girls should do when they want guys to approach them
never heard of it and it s interesting. But perhaps will never happen (happen again?). So best is always approach yourself and get strong enough to be rejected as well
True! The first approach is actually very hard. After that if gets much better
Thats a solid wisdom. I think with all things in life!
After I saw the guy. I was like of course! Dude looks like he’s out of a Spartan movie. First thing: don’t be ugly
Thank you for the compliment, I appreciate it! In any case, I do work a lot on myself, so it's not all !free"!
Don't have such a loser mentality. Genetics help but aren't the most important factor. A good looking guy with a greasy t-shirt and who is socially awkward will probably have very little to no luck. What is more important is being well groomed, dressing well and having a particular style that suits you, and the most important thing, you have to be socially comfortable and competent. Looks while they do matter, they matter much less to women than they do men.
It's not of course because she could have been taken..
@@andrewvincent7299 absolutely agree!
@@CreepyPhrases for instance yeh...
she's a gem!
She is ok!
@@RealAxelFerrarI If she reads these comments from you, she's not going to find you very charming or the keeper she's looking for
You should never put any person or thing or emotion or anything on a pedestal. Try it yourself
She's Smart & Beautiful = KEEPER!
Sure!
from the first look you are in bud. she is into you from the start, and ready to mate/date. flyin off the shelves!
There are a couple of steps in the middle tho!
She is beautiful and very smart. Nice how I met your mother story 😊
That is funny! I loved that series tv!
Smart woman, she understands the underlying dynamics of relationships.
on a technical level all women probably understands that
She is gorgeous and seems to be an wonderful person. You did good, just never touch a person without her approval (even holding her finger like you did), but it’s cool that it worked out for you in the end 👍🏼
Thank you man. I appreciate it and still learning. Is there any topic to cover more around dating that you would like to see!
that is dumb. "can i hold your finger?" you realize how dumb that sounds
@@user540000 nothing is dumb, if it works for a precise scope. do you know what it is in this case?
@@RealAxelFerrarI I disagree with that. If you do it and she flinches away from it, don't do it again. Nothing is more gross to a woman in the courting stage than a man who isn't confident and assertive.
@@Coreadrin confident and not be physical? Then leads to one place… friend zone
Don't ask a fish how to be caught, you ask the fisherman.
Counterintuitive too often
@RealAxelFerrarI
No, women give their fantasy, white knight, version of how they want a man to approach. Always use what women *respond* to, not what they say.
thats why I say is counterintuitive
Are you saying women are fish? That's the wrong mindset to have.
@yardwolves2773 Weird way to say you don't understand analogies.
Alright, real talk-did I play it cool, or did this just get way out of hand? 😂 Let me know what you think, and drop your best dating advice below!
C'moon, you did great! And you call yourself a shy introvert? 🤔😂
However, was she the first girl you try to talk about this or did you have to try for a while?
@Furgetty I'm getting better 🤣 But it was struggle. Maybe I do behind. the scenes. It was crazy. It was the second girl I talked to after finishing the challenge. The challenge worked for real 🤯 🤯
@@RealAxelFerrarI You look quite natural, fluent and improvisational at conversations. It's not how shy introverts use to do, even if you struggle inside before.
However, yes, do a behind the scenes 😄
@Furgetty Wow, thanks a lot for your props ☺️ Is there any way that I. should do the. behind the scenes. It's important for me to get the taste of the viewers right!
@@RealAxelFerrarI It's hard to tell as I don't know what you have recorded or how you prepare for the conversations. But basically that's what you can show/tell: the preparation (mostly mentally & emotionally) for the conversations. You may prepare with questions for example I guess.
...or to make it more fun & realistic, you can include bloopers 😁
She’s naturally beautiful 👍🏻
Beautiful!
It's super normal to talk to someone, even worse, a cute girl, with a camera on her face. You can be sure it will go super well.
Suuuuper normal yeh 🤣
Omg she's gorgeous!
Stunning smile and personality and so honest and real and sweet.
Wish I could meet more girls like this but I have met very very few in my lifetime of 46 years if I am honest.
Where do you live?
@@RealAxelFerrarI I live in many places bro, I travel and live abroad a lot.
She is a very sweet n beautiful person.
Very rare these days.
Maybe it's a matter of search more!
Nothing wrong with a girl making the first move, its actually more connecting, rather than a man just thinking about getting laid.
it happens rarely, so you wish women would do all the work?
“I’m doing research…”, in the process have her tell you what she wants to hear. That’s just a pickup line,
so if it is, did you use it?
Congratulations, I've subscribed and as you've posted on your I am also doing the same cold approach though w/o a camera!
Awesome ma man! Where?
Ha ha the "by the way you are beautiful"
XD
Just give them your name card. You Mr. Ferrari. It's a good and famous family. Every girl will want to date.
Excellent idea! 😁 Do you think it will work even if more if I show up inside Ferrari
@@RealAxelFerrarI Yes, you own the dating market.
I've got some printed with Mr Tesla on!! Lol!!
@@divineprovidence803 eheheh!
@@RealAxelFerrarI have you heard of Alex Ferrari? crazy how close the name is
A couple of days ago I was sitting at the beach eating sushi. There was a girl with her dog sitting in front of me. She gets up to leave then when she gets near me stops and turns to look out at the beach. Was this a signal she noticed me and wanted me to initiate something. I miss these subtle signs and opportunities all the time. It may not have been anything but was a little out of the ordinary she looked back as she was beside me. I could have said are you looking for your boyfriend, as the surf was good and many surfers out. Didn't say anything though so opportunity missed. She was maybe 30s, quite attractive and dressed conservative for the summer heat. I'm late 40s but look very young still. Most think I'm late 20s early 30s. It's kind of a tricky age to be single again.
imo it's always a 50/50 thing
I feel your frustration and being in that situation. We all men experienced that at the very least a couple of times
It is but it isn’t. It’s like you have to take 100% of responsibility as a man
@@ginjaninja3209 are you 6 ft and good looking, probably yes. If not, hell naw.
In Spain you try to do this and you end up in jail with a complaint xD
Is this a challenge?
'' the eyes chico. you see the truth in their eyes'' 7:33
and what do you see?
Thanks for the amazing video.
Both of you come from a very genuine angle and if such balance can be found that is amazing.
I personally am struggling with signs and such recently so i assume thats why the algorithim recommended me you guys. Its a nice takeaway, you don't know unless you try and be respectful. Only do things you would not mind receiving.
Merry Christmas to you both have a great one and thanks again for this sweet video.
Thank you man! If you want to talk about this deeper, we can do it on IG
I have had a woman come up to me and ask for help with something she could clearly do herself.
I just wish I was smart enough at the time to realize she was trying to get me to ask her out or introduce myself for a possibility
I have missed quite a few possibilities because I did not pick up the hint until it was way too late.
true. but we all face this soon or later. we all still feel it after years. How about now, any successes?
@@RealAxelFerrarI
Yes, I have figured a few things out.
I just have not figured out how to keep it long term
She's stunning.
yes!
It's so tough especially in this society to be a guy who's shy. I'm 59 and never approached a woman even though I wanted to but my anxiety took over and it's ruled my life. The only date I've been on was my senior prom and even that was a pity date, a favour for a friend. Needless to say that night was a bust as my date even though I borrowed dad's car to pick her up she ignored me at the event. I've been a looser in life at the dating and romancing game.
You could still start now?
It's all about letting the fear behind, not expecting anything and being experimental.
Rejection isn't that bad if you don't care as much, and every attempt is experience.
Also important to remember that no is no and to never insist.
"I'm busy that week" is also a no
Maybe follow some of my lives here on TH-cam. I talk a lot about this aspect. In any case I understand you. It’s difficult. But I would not give up. Kawasaki and KFC and other founders started above 60s and 70s years old. It’s never too late
Rejection really doesn’t matter. But yeh good suggestion to start now! Never too late. Like the Chinese proverb…
At the end of the day, your style should be your own. This is generally good advice all around. This method of asking a question to someone you find attractive is rooted in social psychology and a was (ab)used a lot in the with MPUA culture in the 90s and early 2000s. I learned about it cuz I’m autistic and need structure for my interactions, however if you’re putting on an act it’ll eventually show and the person they fell for, won’t be the person you default into. So be genuine and don’t just copy someone’s style, gain confidence, be a gentleman, get advice from pretty women and take a chance… she just might be your angel 😇
So it's long time you are learning how to approach?
@ no, not really… I learned after college and I just haven’t met the right woman. Have dated enough and it’s expensive. I’m just working on myself and figure I’ll meet my future wife when I’ve reached my potential.
@@AnAutisticFlow Yeh true! but what if you reach your potential in 50 years?
@that’s a real possibility! Sometimes people don’t find their partners but they still have friends. I don’t lack for company if that’s what you’re meaning, and if I wanted to settle I could, but I’d rather be genuine. If I had to describe it, it’s like my heart knows a greater love that hasn’t begun to be replicated in my relationships. Sort of like when someone becomes widowed and they never remarry because they had already found their soulmate.
Don't ask a fish how to fish.
It’s counterintuitive 👍
You had her in immediatally. You approached her to get a suggestion from her, for how to approach women. And her answer was literally "you could ask her for a suggestion..."
Being a nice and cool person all the time, every time, it's really the thing.
Rule number 1 is that fisherman should not take advise from a fish. He won her by confidence and openness and the fact that he actually did the approach.
Approaching is always the number one step (somehow) but it's not all! Do you want to know which other steps are there to take?
bro got a literal date with the girl without her even knowing haha!
Things when spontaneous are awesome right?! For instance, think about a real kiss or a scheduled one! ehehe
to ask a question is easier than directly trying to rizz her up *notes taken*
She seems like one of the good ones.
Where are you from? Any amazing lady around you?
This is valuable knowledge u couldn’t get from most women, somewhat reassuring for us guys.
I love her dress sense, traditional women a rarity especially in western countries
well, remember to still take that first step
Modesty and women are not two things you see together often in North America
@@aarongrimes6490 why you say so?
And with that you just uncovered the best pick up line ever
did you use it?!
This is so damn wholesome
what exactly?
Never ask a fish on how to catch fish. Ask a fisherman.
IT can be counterintuitive, yeh
quick bit of value, very nice
Sure 👍
She's already mad on him that he just used her and left 😑
I don't understand why someone should say something so horrible???
@@RealAxelFerrarI I agree, it's very horrible to say this. But on the other hand that's reality brother. Plus you're a youtuber. You meet plenty of girls and you have no time to settle down...
Assuming this isn't fake, the accent made her comfortable and hopeful that she found someone compatible.
why do you assume is fake?
She was actually lovely.
100%
As a guy, I can say she revealed TOO MUCH😂
Can’t let this info get into the wrong guy’s hands
Well, tell me more how would you use this info?
The guy who she said approached her at the gym is a genus lol. He approached her very easily and then created an experience for both of them to do and he sounds like he was more than competent socially and made it a very fun and memorable experience for her. You can tell just by how she recites that approach.
Very good approach!
You need to date her seriously
I don't need to do anything, but thx
"a stranger" huh?
ya all believe this? 🤣
so you think it's fake. Why?
Bro really asked how to take out a girl to a date and asked the date herself, bro is an actually rizzatition
I mean, would you have tried the same?
Dude just found a cheat code
Did you use it?
Con artists this why women need men like brothers and fathers to guide them this dude could’ve been a killer
Or the smartest and fascinating man in the world. So they should stay behind brothers and fathers all their life, and never risk meeting anyone?
This should have million of views.
I think there are a lot of ideas taht can help. So I agree with you!
Congrats she is very beautiful and with a great personality too 👍
Don't ask anyone for any dating advice , ever . Because people's advice mostly amounts to telling you to not be yourself . The only things that count for anything in this world are knowing yourself , being yourself and being able to live with yourself ,everyday . Anybody who isn't happy enough with that, just isn't ever going to be worthy of you . If they're not happy within themselves don't fool yourself that you can change them or make it better.
So the answer is be happy with yourself and not search for anything or anyone outside yourself?
5:51 so beautifully said! As a guy, it will be flattering for a girl to ask me out - but please don't! You can give me sign(s)
well said. She can give a sign, but I will be always the one taking the step
Lack of back support on thy bench is really annoying
High quality problems. Yeh!
She's so pretty :)
She probably just loved talking about herself 🤣All under the guise of advice
we all like talking about ourselves, right?
she is gorgeous
Nice yeh
How convenient that guys have to get use to rejection, while girls get off scott free.
Ma man. Every man in the world can relate to this 💥
It's so sad watching vids like these knowing I'm never going to get to ever experience love or a relationship with a nice women just because I just so happened to end up a short man. Trust me, you would not get the time of day if you were short. I've gone up to over 100 women this past year, making sure I presented myself nicely and with confidence, and I only got 2 dates out of all of them. Later on those dates, both admitted that they just couldn't get over the height thing, so we went our separated ways. It's been like this my whole life (I'm 31 now). Living life as a short man is just too depressing man. I really don't feel like living life like this anymore and might just end it early tbh. Anyways, I'm happy you're able to have little experiences with women like this that actually find you attractive and get to have a little fun in life. Cheers mate!
Hey man. I hope all is well with you at this very moment this new year. I don't know you or your particular situation, but I'm 26 years old and have what seems to be the opposite of your situation. I have eyes of other women of different ages noticing me, but I can tell you that it only brings me uncertainty and unwanted excitement even sadness. Even if the most beautiful woman had already given her heart to me and had the intent of wanting to have a relationship with me, I wouldn't give myself a chance. Why? Well because as much as I desire a relationship as much as you. It's not a very high purpose enough to live an abundant life and quite frankly I always say I'm ready when I know I'm not. Plus, it really isn't everything that life has to offer. I suggest as a complete stranger to reorient your towards something higher if you haven't already. If you have.. that's awesome. Lean on the thing, that higher purpose calling you to continue living life and enjoying it abundantly. For me, it's God, for you I don't know, but know that as a man of 26 who's already what wondering about life at 31.. don't ever lose hope. I'm turning 27 in 9 days and I tell you that it's a blessing talking and just relating a little bit to your pain. I'll be taking this year for myself as a purposeful year of singleness and will pray for you as well. God bless you and Happy New Year!
"Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you"
You never know what's around the corner so wait and see. Why not try petite Asian girls. Some are so tiny. Why give up now? Give up later but for now seek out the tiny Asian and Indian women. Gorgeous.
@crenshaw46
Hey @crenshaw46 doy ou want to talk? I might have a solution for you. I was thinking about something. On IG @realaxelferrari.
In any case, trust me, everything has a solution.
Thank you to being open with me and us. I am sure you already know a solution exist.
@EastonPerman
Hey @EastonPerman how is it going lately?
@kymlardnerofficial good advice!
What a gorgeous looking woman !
4:54 that's a wonderful point
Yeh. Eventually, it’s always… we men have to take action. Period. And this is an amazing advantage we have in the love game
Her eyes and smile are just 😍
If girl/woman says to me that she has a boyfriend, I simply respect that and stop. It can be lie but it can be also truth. I assume that she tells me the truth.
You can ask a few questions to make sure. If you do it nicely then can be appreaciated
Bright articulate good looking woman.
yeh she is!
Lmao “somehow ended up dating her”…. You ain’t slick sir, that was your plan all along😏
very nice video and full of insight, thanks! by the way the fact that her pupils dilated in that day light is the best non invasive sign you can get.
Do you usually see such details?
@@RealAxelFerrarI yes .. when the circumstances are appropriate :)
@@grozaadrian4134 do you actually go to take action yourself?
there is no advice. IF SHE LIKES YOU, SHE LIKES YOU. There are no tricks here.
can you make her like you, or you just work on luck?
If you really understand what a ''REJECTION'' means, it means so little. It's only a bit of energy in someone's brain that has no position to judge you at all. Yet, we are afraid of what others might think/say of us, and with this JUDGING us.
An insecurity is a perception within your own mind that an attribute or characteristic you posses is not quite ''up to par,'' so to speak. All insecurities begin, and end, in your own mind. Anytime you 'compare' what you have to offer, to what other people have to offer, you're setting youself up to develop a number of egotistical insecurities. This is why you should never base your sense of self-confidence and self-esteem on one specific thing. For example, if 90% of your self-esteem is based on your looks, guess what's going to happen if you're in the company of another person who you perceive as more handsome than you? You're going to feel insecure. Same thing goes for your level of wealth, your sense of humor, your level of education, your degree of success and so on and so on.
Your confidence and self-esteem has to come from your ''total package.'' Every quality about you combined together should be the basis for your sense of confidence and self-esteem, not just on particular attribute.
In every encounter of 2 people there are 6 people present;
1. the one you think you are
2. the one you think the other is
3. the one he thinks he is
4. the one he thinks you are
5. the one who you actually are
6. the one who he actually is.
interesting. Are you a professional about this?
No, I'm just a simple soul really interested in how the mind works etcetera.
Ah, this was my girlfriend. I thought maybe she was seeing someone else
They always do at some point. Make sure not while with you
Bro is primary research 😂
must research to know the ultimate truth!
Excuse me, ma’am, how would one ask you on a date?.. please explain. That is definitely ultimate rizz
Sometimes things happen. Other times you just try
Unless you're genetically good looking guy, most men should wait before hitting on her and wait until you can notice if she is reacting positively to you and if banter is already established. Most women know you're there for one reason if you approach them no matter what you say. So it's better to come in under the radar. To come in as socially comfortable as possible, don't be direct with your body language, and try and say you only have a minute or so to talk because you're in a hurry so she doesn't have that feeling that you're going to be there forever. Her suggesting of asking where good certain places are is a good one. But you really have to wait about amping up banter and flirting and body language that faces her until you feel her accepting your presence and enjoying the conversation. If you do it too early, she will feel uncomfortable and will want you to go away.
I am curious, are you a professional?
So men are supposed to be mind readers lol. A girl can glance at any guy doesnt mean it "choosing signals" and code for approach her. And if guy approaches several women and constantly gets rejected then eventually he will say its not worth the effort, energy or time and just give up.
I understand your situation. Should we be better or the game should be easier?
You guys are gonna have amazing children together
funny comment! Thank you for the compliment! eheh!
Wow she is beautiful.
Yes!