After I found out who the narc discarded me for, he started posting pics with the new supply online. He said he was so grateful for her and that she rescued him from his miserable life with me. However, at this point, I knew what game he was playing. I didn't want him anymore.
💯This video covers it all. When it happened to me I didn't even know it was a game being played. I was doubting my self-worth over a new supply that was literally beneath me. Fast forward a year or more later, I am grateful it happned cuz they can only carry out the farse of perfection for so long and yep, he hasn't changed. She didn't "win" anything and I have confirmation that I was right in discarding him twice.
Better to do reverse physcology thats what i did played them at there own game compliment the new supply by saying i can see why he choose you your a nice person and you look good together throws them off as not expected dont get angry just walk away and let them have the new supply as we all know its only for a short time until the narc starts looking for other new supply .
I came from a toxic narcissistic family. They were happy to play their roles as flying monkeys part-time too. 1 guy i had broken up with long ago & they'd still keep tabs & give me reports in what he was doing. No matter how trivial.😅😂
I blocked the narcissistic ex on everything after I left him for good in 2017. Five years later, I was somehow able to see his Facebook profile picture with his current girlfriend, even though I blocked him. I had to check my Facebook settings to make sure that he was still blocked and he was. I never responded but thought it was pathetic that he felt the need to do that, especially if he’s supposed to be happy.
The worst is when thet try to hoover you after flaunting the new supply and try to come back gaslighting as if the don't even know the new fling 😂😂 shameless these narcs
What I wonder about the new supply is if they can keep their facade up much longer & better because they really do view them as on their level or an upgrade, ie. Worth keeping the mask on. He said to me when he was being cruel that he was "too good for me" which I 100% believe is what he actually thought. I was trash to him or beneath him & that's why he started devaluing me & discarded me so fast. He always made me feel like I didn't measure up in looks to his exes & wasn't desirable. But I think if the new supply is in their mind, an upgrade, they will treat them way better. I'm curious to know what others think about this.
Is it normal for some narcissists to not tag the new supply on purpose in their photos? So maybe the ex and certain others can't find out who the new supply is? Or when they show their status as "In A Relationship" they won't show the name of who the new supply is. Even though this new supply does have a social media page.
As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, I do get this question a lot on my channel- But to answer your question "yes". The Narcissist has so many secrets and lies.
My ex Definitely tried to get me to see who he was dating. Only it was a year later. And I really didn't care. I also used to make tiktok's about him contacting me. His new supply, Watched my tic tocks...... Especially when he contacted me 5 weeks after breaking up claiming that he missed me so much. And he was already dating the new supply. And she found out about him contacting me because of my tiktoks.
Great show, i watch all the time and now subscribed My question is what happens when you DO have a now ex perfect "Disney" narc mother with the new perfect family, home and work life created almost hours after my discard (with my kids)?? She literally takes them to Disney land all the time, 2 or 3 times a year in all the right holiday periods like Christmas and is all "kumbaya" at home with it and the new guy and has been for years now, he doesn't "trigger" her, serves her, even works for her? All i ever got was abuse and NO I know the new guy isn't getting any of that, she's completely changed who she is, seemingly overnight, i know enough to know underneath its not but im raging about it, i was abused, physically too for years and then just dumped, no empathy, infact she was scheming it, grooming the kids with him etc It deflates me and my efforts with my own life, kids and the efforts i put in, never mind the financial side of things (like Christmas) , It just completely wipes me off the map, which again I know is the point of the narc, still it happens, what do I DO? Yes Im aware my ex narc has a slate off (so to speak) or an anti social disorder, we all know they don't care about anyone else, but it hurts (after the brutal discard and abuse during and after), its grooming our kids and it stings and there's nothing I/we can do about it, we combat it, its twisted or manipulated, I literally wont convey with her, its twisted and manipulated?? Any advice? thanks
He told me that now he is with his dream girl who is more younger more thinner more beautiful he told me in my face and every time we talked he said i have a girlfriend now u know he keep repeatedly said that
The new supply was always there, they were just waiting on the sidelines until the discard.
After I found out who the narc discarded me for, he started posting pics with the new supply online. He said he was so grateful for her and that she rescued him from his miserable life with me. However, at this point, I knew what game he was playing. I didn't want him anymore.
💯This video covers it all. When it happened to me I didn't even know it was a game being played. I was doubting my self-worth over a new supply that was literally beneath me. Fast forward a year or more later, I am grateful it happned cuz they can only carry out the farse of perfection for so long and yep, he hasn't changed. She didn't "win" anything and I have confirmation that I was right in discarding him twice.
It happened to me! I just remembered God doesn't like it when the narcissist treats you ugly.
Thank you Jess! Needed to hear all this… probably multiple times before it sinks in
Better to do reverse physcology thats what i did played them at there own game compliment the new supply by saying i can see why he choose you your a nice person and you look good together throws them off as not expected dont get angry just walk away and let them have the new supply as we all know its only for a short time until the narc starts looking for other new supply .
I came from a toxic narcissistic family. They were happy to play their roles as flying monkeys part-time too. 1 guy i had broken up with long ago & they'd still keep tabs & give me reports in what he was doing. No matter how trivial.😅😂
I blocked the narcissistic ex on everything after I left him for good in 2017. Five years later, I was somehow able to see his Facebook profile picture with his current girlfriend, even though I blocked him. I had to check my Facebook settings to make sure that he was still blocked and he was. I never responded but thought it was pathetic that he felt the need to do that, especially if he’s supposed to be happy.
The worst is when thet try to hoover you after flaunting the new supply and try to come back gaslighting as if the don't even know the new fling 😂😂 shameless these narcs
Merry Christmas unless that messes with your paycheck
Mine told me after 6 yrs we were never in a relationship go re program your brain and jumped to new supply
I thought he was an exception and I was really the problem. He was very oddly specific about certain things he would post.
What I wonder about the new supply is if they can keep their facade up much longer & better because they really do view them as on their level or an upgrade, ie. Worth keeping the mask on. He said to me when he was being cruel that he was "too good for me" which I 100% believe is what he actually thought. I was trash to him or beneath him & that's why he started devaluing me & discarded me so fast. He always made me feel like I didn't measure up in looks to his exes & wasn't desirable. But I think if the new supply is in their mind, an upgrade, they will treat them way better. I'm curious to know what others think about this.
Is it normal for some narcissists to not tag the new supply on purpose in their photos? So maybe the ex and certain others can't find out who the new supply is? Or when they show their status as "In A Relationship" they won't show the name of who the new supply is. Even though this new supply does have a social media page.
As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, I do get this question a lot on my channel- But to answer your question "yes". The Narcissist has so many secrets and lies.
My ex Definitely tried to get me to see who he was dating. Only it was a year later. And I really didn't care. I also used to make tiktok's about him contacting me. His new supply, Watched my tic tocks...... Especially when he contacted me 5 weeks after breaking up claiming that he missed me so much. And he was already dating the new supply. And she found out about him contacting me because of my tiktoks.
Play the reverse card and post photos of you enjoying life and saying how wonderful things are.
Great show, i watch all the time and now subscribed
My question is what happens when you DO have a now ex perfect "Disney" narc mother with the new perfect family, home and work life created almost hours after my discard (with my kids)??
She literally takes them to Disney land all the time, 2 or 3 times a year in all the right holiday periods like Christmas and is all "kumbaya" at home with it and the new guy and has been for years now, he doesn't "trigger" her, serves her, even works for her?
All i ever got was abuse and NO I know the new guy isn't getting any of that, she's completely changed who she is, seemingly overnight, i know enough to know underneath its not but im raging about it, i was abused, physically too for years and then just dumped, no empathy, infact she was scheming it, grooming the kids with him etc
It deflates me and my efforts with my own life, kids and the efforts i put in, never mind the financial side of things (like Christmas) ,
It just completely wipes me off the map, which again I know is the point of the narc, still it happens, what do I DO?
Yes Im aware my ex narc has a slate off (so to speak) or an anti social disorder, we all know they don't care about anyone else, but it hurts (after the brutal discard and abuse during and after), its grooming our kids and it stings and there's nothing I/we can do about it, we combat it, its twisted or manipulated, I literally wont convey with her, its twisted and manipulated??
Any advice?
thanks
He told me that now he is with his dream girl who is more younger more thinner more beautiful he told me in my face and every time we talked he said i have a girlfriend now u know he keep repeatedly said that