8 steps to get your sh** together

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  • @JarNO_WAY
    @JarNO_WAY 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1610

    "Who are you doing this for? To prove the haters wrong? Nobody hates you."
    more people need to internalize this

    • @tnijoo5109
      @tnijoo5109 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      That’s good. I like that.

    • @joen8529
      @joen8529 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      I do have a couple people I believe hate me. I’d love to prove them wrong.

    • @nolimo2593
      @nolimo2593 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +67

      ​@@joen8529They don't care about you. They don't think about you when you're not there.

    • @adveshdarvekar7733
      @adveshdarvekar7733 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I needed to hear this so bad.

    • @mem1701movies
      @mem1701movies 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have a monster that hates me he’s ruined my life and I never did anything to it

  • @Najumulsaqib
    @Najumulsaqib 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +561

    1. Stop announcing your plans
    2. Start before you're ready
    3. Don't hide
    4. Stay on track
    5. Grease the grooves
    6. Do it your way
    7. Pay attention
    8. Rejoice

    • @Ghostingstraightaway
      @Ghostingstraightaway 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Thanks.

    • @rippy00
      @rippy00 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Not all heroes wear capes!

    • @corncobbob2326
      @corncobbob2326 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you

    • @voskresenie-
      @voskresenie- 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      These summaries completely remove the point of these videos. The point of the video is the explanation and the time spent reflecting on each point. When you read a list like this in 10 seconds, you won't internalize any of it. It's literally just consoooming

    • @OldManPaxusYT
      @OldManPaxusYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Someone not as lazy and $$greedy as "Better ideas" - Pity he's too lazy to even 📌 this comment!!! 😆 🤣

  • @moundercesar3102
    @moundercesar3102 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1947

    "Start before you are ready" really needed to hear that

    • @frontageroadtoolco.8485
      @frontageroadtoolco.8485 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Right!? Keeps being right every time I hear it. Good luck to you out there! Do it, just do it. Don’t try. Do it. Also, may the force be with you.

    • @patricknoble3090
      @patricknoble3090 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      100%. Listening like "Ill be home from this work trip on Saturday and I'll get my sht together then. Things are too all over the place right now, but I'll be ready then". Incorrect. Start now.

    • @MartinisnOlives
      @MartinisnOlives 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same here. 👌🏻

    • @BAL0G7
      @BAL0G7 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Probably my biggest struggle, that one was like a punch in the face to me lol

    • @AlexandruTanase11
      @AlexandruTanase11 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      So proud of myself for signing up for college spontaneously this year and not waiting until next year, as initially planned. I'm 28. Time's passing anyway, so might as well use it

  • @waziotter
    @waziotter 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +72

    The best self-improvement advice I ever heard (possibly on this channel) was “today is the youngest you will ever be”. It has been honestly life changing and has been the kick up the backside I needed.

  • @Nightcall.
    @Nightcall. 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +928

    Joey’s easily my favorite motivational TH-camr to tell me not to watch motivational TH-camrs

    • @joen8529
      @joen8529 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Wait what? This guy doesn’t strike me as a Joey.

    • @RalfyCustoms
      @RalfyCustoms 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Nah Joe ​@joen8529 he's a Joey foh sho

    • @noahschweitzer879
      @noahschweitzer879 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Easily my favourite as well.

    • @acebase14days
      @acebase14days 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      hes more likely a bro to us

    • @soundscape26
      @soundscape26 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He doesn't want competition 😂

  • @ReallyBigHead
    @ReallyBigHead 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +135

    13:34 “if Uranus was this big it would be a black hole” 💀 classic Vsauce

  • @shawndesouza1514
    @shawndesouza1514 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2109

    I'm 13 minutes and 37 seconds from getting my shit together

    • @InvisibleJesus1919
      @InvisibleJesus1919 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +282

      Step 1: Tell no one.

    • @Mrtamps
      @Mrtamps 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      No, because the video only came out 2 minutes ago...

    • @tapir2k3
      @tapir2k3 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      save it in watch later and wait for a day that will make you watch it

    • @Mr.Griddyton
      @Mr.Griddyton 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +61

      bro failed the first step

    • @InvisibleJesus1919
      @InvisibleJesus1919 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@K9kfklfl8 don't hide

  • @slackerlitgeek
    @slackerlitgeek 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +60

    I"ve found that the "don't tell people" rule also plays out in the realm of creative writing. When you spill the beans on something you're working on because you're excited about it, that can have a negative effect on your motivation because your desired result (telling a story) is already fulfilled.

    • @EarthNeedsHeroes
      @EarthNeedsHeroes 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I just recently broke this rule and regretted it right away. Told a friend about one of my new character ideas and they immediately started chiming in with "suggestions" of changes. Even though I trust it was in good faith, just trying to help, it was still a downer especially since I knew better than to say anything about it this early into the process.

  • @johndonaldson3619
    @johndonaldson3619 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +295

    *"Who you are **_becoming_** is more important than who you've been"*

  • @trxpho._
    @trxpho._ 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +138

    I also found out that telling people about your goals can actually attract jealousy, unfortunately not everyone wishes the best for you

    • @SK-zu8pw
      @SK-zu8pw 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      people can feel attacted because they know they should also make a change but dont want to do it

    • @airstry2828
      @airstry2828 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      it just shows who your true friends are!

    • @fuzzy76
      @fuzzy76 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It highlights their own lack of effort. And it shows you who you should spend less time around. Who you socialize with has a huge effect on your own life.

    • @goodlifesince90
      @goodlifesince90 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Evil eye is real!

    • @h24anderant64
      @h24anderant64 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      "A lot of people want you to do good, but few people want you to do better than them"

  • @toffeethedev
    @toffeethedev 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +803

    Another kino masterpiece from Balder Ideas

    • @j.fischer707
      @j.fischer707 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      Video been out for 1 min when you wrote this mate

    • @toffeethedev
      @toffeethedev 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +115

      watched it on 13x speed

    • @QuipFlow
      @QuipFlow 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@toffeethedev 13x? bro wtf is 13X

    • @LeSpongedeStardust
      @LeSpongedeStardust 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      @@QuipFlow Speeder, Speeder
      Faster and higher, exciting desire

    • @abdul_wahab0
      @abdul_wahab0 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Tf is Kino

  • @Santoshkumar-hx6fj
    @Santoshkumar-hx6fj 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1595

    there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal

    • @amber8349
      @amber8349 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I like using Neville Goddard’s techniques. manifested money and flexible work last year, when I was 18. As well as maintaining an ideal weight without much thinking.
      His visualization techniques are worth researching, the info is free and public -to anyone that reads this.

    • @zKaizen8
      @zKaizen8 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Santoshkumar-hx6fj bruh Law of Attraction is not bullshit.

    • @zaddymac4768
      @zaddymac4768 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Beware of dark arts- manifestation comes at a cost.

    • @adhirathpatil
      @adhirathpatil วันที่ผ่านมา

      it's already bs if I'm "attracting". we earn things, the universe doesn't go out giving goodies to it's favourites because it has none.

  • @joelaumedesserrano7994
    @joelaumedesserrano7994 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +90

    3:38 "LISAN AL-GAIB" got me, i didn't expect that at all 🤣🤣

  • @GymGarageMan
    @GymGarageMan 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +180

    Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got in decent shape at 54 years old!!!

    • @CatGirl-ny8dw
      @CatGirl-ny8dw 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      Proving it on your channel garageman brutal training keep it up grandpa 🔥

    • @Hoppitot
      @Hoppitot 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Who called you too old? Assuming it was someone of similar age they were probably just making excuses for themselves tbh

    • @popaoomowmow
      @popaoomowmow 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The fact that your garage is crumbling isnt relevant at all. Well done though

    • @godzillaeyes
      @godzillaeyes 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I need to do that. I'm 50 and watching my mom and aunt hobble around on walkers and canes, on pain meds for constant pain though they're only in their 70s, really shows me what I'd like to avoid if possible.

    • @youtubeviewer4127
      @youtubeviewer4127 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Never too old to change!

  • @LowerLenz
    @LowerLenz 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +585

    #1 00:02 Tell No One
    #2 02:23 Start Before You're Ready
    #3 03:05 Don't Hide
    #4 04:14 Stay On Track
    #5 07:18 Grease the Grooves
    #6 09:18 Do It Your Way
    #7 10:13 Pay Attention
    #8 11:54 Rejoice

    • @sledgehammer5414
      @sledgehammer5414 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Barbarians! Login and rejoice my friends!

    • @deepeshbajpai4423
      @deepeshbajpai4423 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Thank you

    • @dipanshusabharwal
      @dipanshusabharwal 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Thanks

    • @RTNMK
      @RTNMK 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Thank you captain

    • @denvernow7294
      @denvernow7294 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Grease the grooves 🤔😏
      edit: Looking again, that entire list sounds like boinky boinky innuendo...

  • @phoenixx25
    @phoenixx25 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

    9:14 Joey, I like the mustache!

  • @jamestheredd
    @jamestheredd 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +136

    I also find that announcing my intentions creates this vicious cycle of different announcements and a sensitivity to the response of the person, which has the ability to throw me off center. It's good to just shut up and take action. 🚀

    • @Shade7x
      @Shade7x 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I swear by this when it comes to kicking bad habits. Don’t announce it, just stop. Really takes the pressure off.

    • @Neon1880
      @Neon1880 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’ve noticed that has been happening a lot with girls for me. I’ve been going on a lot of dates recently and I keep telling my friends ALL about them and how it went, but it just ends up in ruins and I always have to explain the downfall and next girl to them and they think I’m a whore now. So ya, don’t tell people ANYTHING

  • @Uncommony
    @Uncommony 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    You owe it to yourself to get you sh*t together. No one will do it for you. You've got this. Stay Uncommon!

  • @noman101
    @noman101 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

    "it's the small choices that we make in out day to day life" is reallly powerful

    • @tnijoo5109
      @tnijoo5109 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Oh wow! That is really good. I’m going to write it on a post-it. Thanks!! 🙏

  • @betterchapter
    @betterchapter 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you

    • @jimf.1318
      @jimf.1318 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😢

  • @harryg7203
    @harryg7203 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +258

    The STASH is looking good brother

    • @user-me7wp8zo3e
      @user-me7wp8zo3e 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      That's a cookie duster

  • @biasedknowledge
    @biasedknowledge 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    "Let the results be discovered, not announced!" 🔥
    This hit hard. Time to keep my goals quiet and let the work speak for itself! 💪

    • @Ed-vi8lj
      @Ed-vi8lj 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      If you keep quiet, and don't make the progress that you touted, you can still stay motivated . Others are quick to remind you that you're not making your goals

  • @Creamada_Crop
    @Creamada_Crop 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    #2 is an incredibly important point. When I want to start doing something, I start researching "what's the most efficient way to do this" or something along those lines. I spend so much time thinking and researching about said thing that I end up not even doing it. It's like Nike's motto Just Do It

    • @melkerart1793
      @melkerart1793 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If I'm going to repair an appliance I'm definitely going to investigate the shit out of it beforehand. _Don't_ just do it.

    • @Creamada_Crop
      @Creamada_Crop 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@melkerart1793 that's not the context of what the video or my comment meant. I highly encourage anybody to research how to fix a control panel before they start poking electrical shit with a screwdriver. The context of the video is saying if you're going to learn how to ice skate to just lace up the skates instead of looking into "how to skate". Babies don't "research" how to walk they just do it.

    • @TheCostantinus
      @TheCostantinus 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@melkerart1793 This analogy doesn't make any sense, it has nothing to do with the video. We're not talking about repairing appliances, we're talkig about doing something to better ourselves.

    • @Ryuuuuuk
      @Ryuuuuuk 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Start immediately - but small. Like running for many people can be bad if they just do it, because they are overweight and lack the muscle, so they injure themselves. Better to start with walking.

  • @LivingstonCrain
    @LivingstonCrain 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’ve been watching your videos for few years now while I’ve been on and off with my sobriety. Today I celebrate nearly 3 months sober from alcohol, I built a home gym, I’m getting into the best shape of my life, and literally the other day I wrote in my journal right before I went to bed “doing the right thing feels SO much better than doing the wrong thing” and hearing you touch on that exact principle is that affirmation shit I do like. This has been my favorite video of yours so far and I’ll be sharing it with my family and friends for sure. 🤘🏼

  • @ravenbutaya
    @ravenbutaya 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

    I don't recall giving you permission to observe my life and publish everything I did wrong 😔

  • @nohunger3206
    @nohunger3206 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    #1 00:02 Tell No One
    #2 02:23 Start Before You're Ready
    #3 03:05 Don't Hide
    #4 04:14 Stay On Track
    #5 07:18 Grease the Grooves
    #6 09:18 Do It Your Way
    #7 10:13 Pay Attention
    #8 11:54 Rejoice
    #9 13:33 Rejoice some more..?

  • @Kamppix
    @Kamppix 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    That Vsauce video at the end XD

    • @mikabakker1
      @mikabakker1 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      We've all seen it ahah

  • @jordangray5244
    @jordangray5244 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    “It feels good to feel good” well said.

  • @jamesdesousa5528
    @jamesdesousa5528 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +75

    Actions speak louder than words.

    • @scorpions1965
      @scorpions1965 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Words action louder than speak

    • @KrispyRootbeer
      @KrispyRootbeer 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bible man and Luigi

  • @dna5021
    @dna5021 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I've been in my head about not starting earlier. This nasty ooze of regret that festers into inaction. I really needed to hear #8. Thank you

  • @Produktionsbaer
    @Produktionsbaer 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +107

    Morgan Freeman narrating my life: "He watched it not having his shit together, and neither would he get his shit together after watching."

    • @MrG__2
      @MrG__2 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      🤣

    • @boswcheydoesart1314
      @boswcheydoesart1314 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yeah that's a good belief system (sarcasm)

    • @youokboi8556
      @youokboi8556 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Or you could yknow, actually try and follow this advice, the results may surprise you!

    • @Freakazoid12345
      @Freakazoid12345 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If people could just get their act together, they would.
      Also, lots of videos like this have different advice and the aim is to get views and no help each person who stumbles across it.

  • @mauricio8859
    @mauricio8859 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

    Regarding to step 3: "Don't hide", I agree that is inmature. But when you feel so bad about yourself and even feel shame, it is almost innevitable to hide, going ghost mode, deleting social media, Letting the others "forget" about you so you don't feel that shame as much. And eventually coming back not like if you were some kind of perfect being but at least someone who is not ashamed about himself. Coming back like nothing bad have actually happened to you and you have most things figured out. I'm currently going through that, sadly. Knowing that is inmature I'm doing it anyways. The pain is so intense to bear. On the bright side, the last two steps helps a lot. I will definitely work on that.

    • @ugocaquais5598
      @ugocaquais5598 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      i agree, but in the other hand, it works according to step 6 "do it your way" : if you feel like this it what you need, because of who you are, or where you currently are in life, then go for it

    • @wbr9401
      @wbr9401 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@ugocaquais5598 From personal experience I think that advice is helpful. Reframe “immature” to “my way”-takes a judgment from anyone else to only the person’s judgment that matters. Do you want you want to do your way if it’s what you think is best for you.

    • @vadim6385
      @vadim6385 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Deleting social media did wonders for me.

    • @k.m.clarke
      @k.m.clarke 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This is too real brother . Too relatable.

    • @andib.2455
      @andib.2455 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I am/was in a similar situation and felt shame for myself cause i realized a lot of what i thought was 'me' and my 'status' were suddenly gone and thought hiding was the way to go because i felt intense shame and pain. Deleting social media is definitely not a bad idea because its a superficial and toxic place, but generally the thought that you feel ashamed of yourself and that therefore you have to hide is extremely unhealthy, cause saying you will come back when you have it figured out is like saying you are only worthy to be in the presence of your peers or society if you are up to a certain standard of worldly achievements, which is the wrong angle cause, as i realized, most people don't give a shit about you anyway and those who do don't care about your achievements cause that doesn't change who you fundamentally are as a person. That doesn't mean you should stop working on yourself etc., but you shouldn't take the negative thoughts of people that actually don't matter to you as your main motivation.
      What really helped me letting go of a lot of these thoughts is eckhart tolle and the concept of 'Ego' and how bad it actually is to be too identified with your achievements instead of being content with yourself and going your own way at your own pace. Can only recommend some of his talks here on TH-cam on ego, gratitude and happiness. Wishing you the best, i know how painful this is.

  • @misst4147
    @misst4147 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    This video popped up just as I was about to procrastinate. Thank you I’m choosing to get shit done!

    • @iannorton2253
      @iannorton2253 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I've spent all morning procrastinating; it's tired me out, so I need a lie down now for a couple of hours before I can do any more. Maybe I need to think about it for a while longer before making a decision; no use rushing things.

    • @defaultytuser
      @defaultytuser 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Did you get shit done or ended up procrastinating a bit more?

    • @misst4147
      @misst4147 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@defaultytuser I actually got stuff done, I did something important I had been putting off for weeks. Then I had a clear out and I’m 3/4 way finished, will finish it today, then I hit the gym:)

    • @defaultytuser
      @defaultytuser 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@misst4147 you go!

    • @Monster33336
      @Monster33336 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Don't listen to BetterIdeas he doesn't care about you just his pockets.

  • @eugeniamikulan3328
    @eugeniamikulan3328 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Life's been hitting with some failures after taking big risks, but to get my shit together I'm starting to think that first I want to do things to feel better about myself REGARDLESS of what reaction or result I can get from it.
    I think that's step 1 when shit hits the fan. Thank you

  • @watch-Dominion-2018
    @watch-Dominion-2018 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    3:38 - that Lisan al Gaib quip caught me off guard 😂

    • @user-ee1fn4vt8b
      @user-ee1fn4vt8b 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Every time I have a minor success I’m going to exclaim this.

  • @rx8mw114
    @rx8mw114 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    First of all, great video. You talked about some things that I haven't heard anyone talk about before when the topic of changing and getting your shit together is metioned.
    Let me bore you for a second, I'm 23, and I have been on the journey to better myself for the last 5 months. I've lost weight, I started taking care of my hair and my skin, started working out and I've never felt better. I still have days of feeling useless, fat, unattractive, days when I lack the motivation for anything. But I found myself getting more and more happy with each day, I stopped hating looking in the mirror, my stress levels have died down, my depression slowed down to the point of me being able to function normally on day to day basis. I feel like a different person all together.
    The thing that helped me the most was starting off slow, I was one of the people to jump into the deep water with everything, be it weight loss or exercising. I found myself very burnt out in a week, sometimes even less. In april of this year I decided to make slow adjustments to my lifestyle, minor things like eating less sugar, less calories, trying to exercise everyday while at the same time not blaming myself if I didn't have the time or want to. I've been hearing people saying all these things about "trusting the process" and "keeping it up for a long amount of time" and that always scared me away from starting (my idea of dieting back then for example was to eat basically nothing, or like a max of 500 calories a day). It really isn't as hard as I thought It would be.
    When I look back I'm not blaming my younger self for not taking the first steps, my plan is to enjoy this lifestyle and the person I am right now. I am at peace with the person I was before.
    I hope you have a wonderful day.

  • @DevonVanNote
    @DevonVanNote 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The caffeine addiction section is exactly what I do. I've tried to quit caffeine, but as someone who rarely drinks and doesn't smoke, it's the one vice I like haha. I do the exact same thing you do and have been going to the gym 3-5 times a week the last 7 years. I feel great pretty much every day.

  • @debbievermilyea4037
    @debbievermilyea4037 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Maybe I'm just paying closer attention today, but WHATEVER!!! I have listened to so many 'motivational' videos on self discipline that I've lost count BUT THIS VIDEO is by FARRR the best! You nailed my personality and I had to smile at being 'found out.' 😂😂😂 What a relief!! Thank you for this and all your REAL input. I'm glad you overcame your slack lifestyle and are now helping me. You're AWESOME. 😊

  • @theelsanto32
    @theelsanto32 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    You’re so right about all these things that it makes me mad how much you called me out lol

  • @twgood5882
    @twgood5882 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    7:52 Life hack: Keep your vitamins in your beer fridge.

  • @jonesmax21
    @jonesmax21 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    What i've learned in half of year of self employement and reaching my goals. Your biggest opponent is YOU. I was a big talker before because i was convinced i could do it. Instead i failed a lot and looked like a fool and also have been a naive fool. Be yourself and keep to yourself.
    Also sometimes all it takes is a video from a majestic mustache man.

  • @edd8989
    @edd8989 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    13:33 you just had to put vsauce on one of your videos and I love it

  • @user-vi4ye4jl1x
    @user-vi4ye4jl1x 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Jesus loves you❤

    • @kylemazur1447
      @kylemazur1447 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      W comment

    • @user-vi4ye4jl1x
      @user-vi4ye4jl1x 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kylemazur1447 🦅🦅🦅🦅🔥🔥🔥🔥🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸✅✅✅✅✅🔥🔥

  • @BlackNight603
    @BlackNight603 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I needed this so much. I love planning, I tend to sit hours at my desk planning stuff, writing down everything, trying to consider every potential obstacle etc. The hardest part is getting into action. Sometimes, when I finally get myself to do it, I am amazed of how good it feels and how easy it is. I am wasting my time planning stuff, I should just do it.😢

  • @Krayton86
    @Krayton86 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    0:34 That book has written in hungarian! Greetings from Hungary!

  • @jeremiaholsen6857
    @jeremiaholsen6857 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    SO MANY people on social media need to see this video.

  • @J707_
    @J707_ 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Now this is therapy

  • @AlfredvanKuik
    @AlfredvanKuik 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You're doing amazing my man, the videos are getting better in terms of both quality and actual content.
    I've been doing very well over the past years: successfully fighting a very difficult personality disorder and completely beating the deepest depression of my life. I've been living a life I never imagined possible five years ago. But the little voice you mention in step 8 is very strong. For me, it tells me that it's still not enough, always telling me I should've done more, earlier, better. I've been working at actively being proud of my achievements, because otherwise it's very easy to slip back into bad habits.
    This voice is an evil thing. It tells you you're worthless for not working out while it itself is the same thing telling you not to work out because you're worthless. Do not give it this power. It only wants to sustain itself on negativity. You actually have the power to tell it to fuck off and it works surprisingly well.

  • @ryan99842
    @ryan99842 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +502

    mainstream stuff about self-improvement are so overrated.The best investment you can make is in yourself. Books are the ultimate learning tool. Reading Bruce Thornwood's Unveiling your hidden potential helped me build discipline and separate my mindset from 90% of other people

    • @SK-zu8pw
      @SK-zu8pw 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

      Scam. Dont buy. 400 likes after 1 hour and no comments.

    • @ibnefayaz5107
      @ibnefayaz5107 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😢😂​@@SK-zu8pw

    • @deDANIEL11609
      @deDANIEL11609 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@SK-zu8pw ty

    • @mineblastcapitor2532
      @mineblastcapitor2532 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Scam don't buy

  • @Ampwich
    @Ampwich 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My anxiety was like "oof this video seems like it'll hit hard or cause more self hatred." I was wrong, this is legit advice and is actually encouraging.

  • @milojdiaz
    @milojdiaz 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    0:42 "IM GETTING JACKED THIS YEAR DUDE I SWEAR"

    • @Shivonkar
      @Shivonkar 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bro, please let me know after 358 days.
      let me start too
      drop a comment on 17 sept 2025.
      lets start today.

    • @milojdiaz
      @milojdiaz 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Shivonkar haha well, I was just making a joke, I don't really care for being jacked, I find the gym quite boring, muscle for musle's sake? idk man... I play a lot of tennis! I enjoy it a lot
      I'd say don't get too hung on on "hitting the gym", if it's about being in good shape I went with bouldering, skateboarding, motocross and tennis
      like really see what the gym is... lifting objects from one side of the room to the other... counting reps... looking in the mirrors... booooooooringgggggg

  • @ThatKidFromTheTown
    @ThatKidFromTheTown 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    God I can't express how much I look forward to and am thankful for your videos. Sometimes purposely don't watch because I don't like to use them as a crutch as I once did, but whenever I get to catch up I am so happy and also proud of how quality they are, as well as your ability to articulate and convey these thoughts you have. I can say so much more but just really wanted to give even but hopefully a small smile on your face for yet another story showing your amazing impact. Number 7 in this vid was a banger too, really great job there. Okay talk soon (maybe, idk I'll probably comment again sometime), thanks brother!
    Oh, and looking jacked, king! We can tell !

  • @SM-be5dh
    @SM-be5dh 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    2:15 bruh i don’t tell anyone and still not consistent

  • @silverbackheathen
    @silverbackheathen 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I made the mistake of sharing my plans with others, only to have everyone criticize and critique them. So now, I keep my plans and changes to myself, preferring to let my work speak for itself. I was surprised that instead of offering support or encouragement, people tried to nitpick and overanalyze my changes. Eventually, I realized that they were either trying to bring me down or were upset with themselves for not trying to improve. It was a valuable lesson.

  • @arnavtrivedi4918
    @arnavtrivedi4918 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thanks Joe, for all your videos. Each and every single one of them is cinema.
    Your videos are filled with positivity. I like them.
    Keep it up Man!❤

    • @joen8529
      @joen8529 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I always pictured this guys name was Steve or Dan.

  • @aaryankushwahh
    @aaryankushwahh 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    joey, i like your mustache

    • @joen8529
      @joen8529 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This guys doesn’t look or seem like a Joey at all.

    • @emmbee8754
      @emmbee8754 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@joen8529 watch the video again

  • @Storm_VII
    @Storm_VII 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Joey for even caring enough to try to help us with these videos. Sometimes I feel like a lost cause but having someone sitting there talking common sense through my phone screen is a huge blessing. 😌

  • @kharkongormanar6777
    @kharkongormanar6777 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +185

    you need to find the banned ebook money's hidden magic even if it's the last thing you do in life

    • @ricardobracho9567
      @ricardobracho9567 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why is it banned lol

    • @M.TTT.
      @M.TTT. 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      WHAT

  • @user-oo5cc5tk5g
    @user-oo5cc5tk5g 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Clear, focussed, direct, wise. I am 61 years old and learning a lot with your videos. Thank you😊

  • @nickheld797
    @nickheld797 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    0:16 and nooobody cared xD

    • @Lalalaboxx
      @Lalalaboxx 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      So fucking true. No one cares, n you only have yourself.

  • @dailyrepsofficial
    @dailyrepsofficial 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Order is the foundation of clarity.
    As Marcus Aurelius noted, 'The soul becomes dyed with the colour of its thoughts.'
    By taking small, intentional steps, we align our inner world with our actions.
    Every step forward is a step closer to becoming who we truly are.

  • @RichWithTech
    @RichWithTech 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    13:33 what are you watching step bro?

    • @matthewd.5034
      @matthewd.5034 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Probably Zac films

    • @Schweitzer994
      @Schweitzer994 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Sounds like Vsauce

    • @seyidagakerimov1406
      @seyidagakerimov1406 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Schweitzer994 yeah I watched it, he edited the video so good that the Uranus sounds like Ur anus 😂

    • @Ravvox
      @Ravvox 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Its the latest VSauce video

    • @AlexandruTanase11
      @AlexandruTanase11 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Best cameo ever

  • @adamtorres4520
    @adamtorres4520 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have been stuck trying to figure these things out for years and now no bullshit...you have answered them today at 4:40 in the morning. Now I see why I couldn't sleep 💤 because I was meant to watch this 🙏🙌

  • @aHnzoMn
    @aHnzoMn 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    nahhh the line at 3:38 caught me off guard

    • @mattc825
      @mattc825 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That woke me up! 😂. I was almost asleep

  • @BryceKoebel
    @BryceKoebel 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "nobody hates you" is so real and such a dillusion a lot of us live with to give us motivation 😂😭

  • @kapsin6785
    @kapsin6785 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Let's shit together

    • @divyanshkharayat975
      @divyanshkharayat975 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      oh yeah

    • @user-me7wp8zo3e
      @user-me7wp8zo3e 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Dual shitters need inventing 😂
      Fill up on Romance while emptying your bowles together.

    • @dizzysoul6684
      @dizzysoul6684 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ahh yes centipede

    • @denvernow7294
      @denvernow7294 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Why did I need to view comments to this? Why am I commenting???

  • @Jasmin-yf6nt
    @Jasmin-yf6nt 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Couldn’t stop laughing when you said „watching all the necessary clips on youtube“ before going to the gym, as if you were talking to me directly 😂😂😂 Excellent video. I‘m guilty of all of these, especially the first one. I can’t keep my mouth shut and always end up telling the world about my plans

  • @Jimmy_99
    @Jimmy_99 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    " #1 Tell No One "
    I just moved to a different country and my family doesnt know where I am. This is great

    • @AlvinaGachugu
      @AlvinaGachugu 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      All the best! 😊

    • @joen8529
      @joen8529 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’ve told literally everyone because telling no one wasn’t working.

  • @Nuklearpirat
    @Nuklearpirat 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The Frankenstein Junior snippets made me laugh really hard. Thank you for that!

  • @moekiemissa5731
    @moekiemissa5731 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Summary:
    (make sure to watch the video too)
    1. Don't tell anyone.
    Do this for you.
    2. Start before you're ready.
    The feeling of readiness will never come, atleast not without prior experience. So the only way to feel ready is to start before you feel this way. Whatever you feel (tired, insecure, etc) do the thing anyway. This is how you built confidence.
    3. Don't hide in the shadows.
    Insecure people tend to want to improve without anyone seeing the process and the mistakes along the way. Don't do this. Keep living your life, imperfect as you are.
    4. Life is like a trainride
    Every little decision is part of the big trajectory. No need for "big moments" just many little "boring" correct choices.
    5. Change your environment, change your behaviour. It is that simple. Make it as easy as possible to do what's good for you.
    6. What do you want and why?
    Figure this out. Know yourself, know the truth. If you think about it, bad behaviour is bad because we delude ourselves and than regret it. Once you put faith in the good path, and start to see some results, you will not want to go back ever again.
    7. Pay attention
    Notice how much better it feels to be who you want to be. To know you're on the right track. It is the most happy life.
    8. Rejoice
    Take time to reflect on your behaviour and what this entails for the future. Don't listen to the little voice saying "why didn't you start earlier" this is completely useless. You had your reasons then, and you learned your lessons. You just weren't ready, but somehow, by not giving up you have become ready, and are living it now.
    If you can just keep working hard in good faith, what could the years bring? Who could you be? Isn't that more interesting than hypotheticals about your past?
    "The secret of change, is not fighting the old, but building the new."
    - Seneca

  • @lagomholly
    @lagomholly 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Another masterpiece with solid, simple yet forever valuable advice! Thank you Joey☺️

  • @BenjaminCanales-nn9gi
    @BenjaminCanales-nn9gi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +82

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @user-km2rz2wc1i
      @user-km2rz2wc1i 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @chrisbenoit5044
      @chrisbenoit5044 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @BestOffer-ii9ny
      @BestOffer-ii9ny 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this
      Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @user-km2rz2wc1i
      @user-km2rz2wc1i 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Is he on instagram?

    • @chrisbenoit5044
      @chrisbenoit5044 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes he is dr.porassss

  • @grapefruitcowboy
    @grapefruitcowboy 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    #2 Really hit hard, I am a chronic perfectionist in a sense that I need everything to be perfectly lined up and ready before I start working towards a goal.
    Good mindset change to just do the thing, thanks Joey

  • @GoodasCoffee
    @GoodasCoffee 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    02:33... Yes!

  • @juanaalturk5939
    @juanaalturk5939 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i've watched all of your videos and they always hit.. truly helpful! i really feel like you're a wise person that knows what you're talking about, i also love your choice of words, i get excited when i see you've posted a new vid. i've recommended your channel to people multiple times. I've actually never left a comment on a video before, but then i thought it'll just take a minute and it'll probably mean alot to you.. KEEP GOING!!!

  • @Rwashere28
    @Rwashere28 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    0:03 1
    2:23 2
    3:05 3
    4:14 4
    7:19 5
    9:18 6
    10:14 7
    11:55 8

  • @MartinBreuer
    @MartinBreuer 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    1. Stop announcing your plans 0:03
    2. Start before you're ready 2:23
    3. Don't hide 3:05
    4. Stay on track 4:14
    5. Grease the grooves 7:19
    6. Do it your way 9:17
    7. Pay attention 10:15
    8. Rejoice 11:54

  • @Zeddex2965
    @Zeddex2965 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    8 steps to becoming a giga Chad.

  • @Karthik-go4jt
    @Karthik-go4jt 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Perfect timing, I'm moving to another country and everything feels all over the place in life right now. Thanks for this video!!

  • @RichWithTech
    @RichWithTech 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    As a small TH-camr the idea that you got 1k views in 7 minutes in mind blowing to me!

    • @sdaniaal
      @sdaniaal 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yeah, don't procrastinate.

    • @user-vk7xq4uo8l
      @user-vk7xq4uo8l 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He work for it

    • @RichWithTech
      @RichWithTech 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@user-vk7xq4uo8l absolutely, earned and well disserved!

  • @tomwylie123
    @tomwylie123 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great to have you back!!

  • @dequzzled
    @dequzzled 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    but i have diarrhea, how can i get my shit together

    • @RichWithTech
      @RichWithTech 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Imodium and squat plug

    • @dequzzled
      @dequzzled 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @RichWithTech good idea, still aint workin

  • @epsp91
    @epsp91 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey Joey! Could you make a video how to get through the autumn and wintermonths? To make it the best self development period possible?

  • @tharsin8805
    @tharsin8805 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Under one hour team
    👇

  • @rezazazu
    @rezazazu 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I used to watch your videos a few years ago but after a while it felt like it didn't help me that much. Now after a series which led to a wrong turn of events I'm absorbing your content with every cell of my brain. You're doing humanity a favor by being so helpful and honest. No BS, straight to the point. I really appreciate your effort.

  • @a_dam9717
    @a_dam9717 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve watched plenty of these videos. I can say full well this is the most level headed and correct way of goodness. I’ve never heard something this logical and consistent in a while.

  • @adityapardeshi5028
    @adityapardeshi5028 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    2:41 - Takeaway - "You need less information, not more information. Transformation is something that happens through action!" (take it with the context though)

  • @pauldotdotdot2638
    @pauldotdotdot2638 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    To Better Ideas: your facial expressions in the video are well done especially around the part when you are discussing "about not telling anyone" about ambition s / goals

  • @DouglasAllen-f2j
    @DouglasAllen-f2j 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You make even the toughest concepts feel simple.

  • @ainohamartinez3441
    @ainohamartinez3441 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Man! I love how you speak clearly but still manage to motivate us. It is very clear that you put a lot of thought into your dialogues and video-editing, thank you!

  • @filmegna
    @filmegna วันที่ผ่านมา

    "u need less information not more information" i feel it

  • @dknh11
    @dknh11 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The 8 steps:
    1. Tell No One 0:03
    2. Start Before You're Ready 2:24
    3. Don't Hide 3:06
    4. Stay On Track 4:15
    5. Grease the Grooves 7:19
    6. Do It Your Way 9:19
    7. Pay Attention 10:16
    8. Rejoice 11:55

  • @gurpreetsingh878
    @gurpreetsingh878 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks Brother, Lots of Love from Punjab INDIA 🇮🇳

  • @thatguy0344
    @thatguy0344 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Damn. The hiding during self improvement one hit. I let a lot of opportunity pass me the last 2-3 years because I felt like I didn’t deserve it. I wanted my improved version to participate but I struggled to get there for so long that I never got to participate. I’m in college and wasted time not going out and having experiences and living life because like I said I felt like I didn’t deserve it. Only recently did I realize I can still improve myself, and just like you said, “do it on the back end”. Funny how after I figured this out I see your video a week or so later lol.

  • @PsychsPK
    @PsychsPK 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I know you've made videos like this repeating the same thing over and over again, but please never stop making these, every time I watch one, it truly motivates me more than anything to get life back on track

  • @abhilash5581
    @abhilash5581 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Whenever my life starts to stray off a bit, this man comes up with a video to help me. Thanks man. Never stop uploading.

  • @Erinshybride
    @Erinshybride 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i love you man , you just have a way of verifying what's already in my head . Keep on helping people , you're the best

  • @kleaver1
    @kleaver1 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Joey, right when I'm in the deepest hole since a long time, when I thought things were on their way to get better, everything feels so overwhelmingly out of control right now.
    And right then, you return with not one, but two videos on the topic and I want to thank you for that and all the other gems you already provided us with. Much love from Germany. Have a great one, y'all
    (Edit: nothing bad has happened to me btw. I just let myself go real bad)

  • @DakiSpajdermen-m8u
    @DakiSpajdermen-m8u 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Havent been watching self improvement in a while and i am so doomed i really need it and it made me feel better

  • @sparshchaudhary1715
    @sparshchaudhary1715 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I rarely comment on videos, but this is just one great video! I was watching a random fitness video from an Indian channel and had gone to pee to come back that this video played right after. I don't know if I would've otherwise clicked on this video, I rarely watch videos like this. But man as soon as I listened a few sentences, I couldn't stop and listen to the whole thing. There was so much in this video that I felt like I needed to hear. And I totally love and understand the feeling of feeling better when you're on the path that you know is good for you. I agree to everything you said in this video and oh man I'm just so grateful this video popped up on my TH-cam. Thank you so much!