100% true being a trash bin for people’s negative energy. I don’t need to do anything, people can see me and immediately get mad or dumb their issues on me. Thank you, now I understand why. 😢
Yeah this resonates so hard. I also have Lilith and Pluto both in my 12th house Placidus, with Pluto conjunct my Ascendant. Depending on what planets are there, people can project their problems onto you, feed off of your insecurities, or you can naturally attract powermongering types or dangerous situations with those placements.
I have Mercury and Venus there and I grew up with a secretive jealous and envious cousin. This created issues with women in general as I grew up. Thank goodness I did my inner work and healed that energy. I am a better version of myself. And now I have attracted better friendships and I cut off any toxic family members including my cousin. I also do not take sh*t from anyone. My dark femininity is all the way turned up
honey! I started defending myself instead of turning a blind eye & it ceased all the negativity immediately. When I would take the moral high ground I would get 100 times more maliciousness. 12 house stellium here 😅
This is scarily accurate 😢😢...i have my Pluto in Scorpio 12th house..... people are always jealous on me and especially women don't get well along with me...😅
Those planets really energy are telling u to own them. The 12th house enemies, those ppl are indirectly/symbolically telling u to own it, that's why they give you a hard time. Own your 12th house Embody the energy of those planets
Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu for this. I have a heavy 12 house stellium and sag in my 8th house along with Pluto in the 7th. Spot on video!!! The abuse is real!!!! lack of having boundaries is real too. I always assumed that people should know how to treat me by reading my energy as I do theirs. But where I trip myself up is by not going deeper subconsciously when reading them and trusting my intuition! The undertones of narcissist domineering ways is to control the way I give and move in my energy in regards to them. Like clay. Smh
Wow I've always assumed the same about others yet it never turns out well and what a disappointment. This is a very difficult aspect but we learn a lot along the way🙌
Honey your looking extra beautiful! Your obviously growing and glowing! Yes I agree with everything! As a Taurus with sun, moon and mercury in the 12th house I can relate, especially with self sabotage and Aries women 😅! Thanks, I really needed to hear this! ❤️ 😊 🤗
Hi Honey. I really enjoyed your piece on how the 8th house and 12th house person is here to evolve and how we should beware of partners coming into our life subconsciously for a season to help them transform. ♥️ Thank you for the insight.
Cancer in the 10H with moon in the 12th. Virgo in the 12H with Mercury in the 7H. Taurus in the 8H with venus in the 7H. Leo in the 11H with Sun in the 8H. Pluto is in the 1H as well. I am a Libra Moon. In my personal reading, you mentioned that I could have an abusive mother, but it's hidden and difficult for others to believe. That was SPOT ON. Not just her, though. Other women in the family and women in general seem to have this love-hate dynamic with me, ever since I was a kid. I simply mind my business and stay to myself, and even that triggers them. Sometimes, it feels like I'm damned if I do, and I'm damned if I don't. I am very loyal and giving, but I seem to attract energy vampires. At least I used to. I've become even more difficult to get close to now. My saturn return hit my 4H, and nothing has been the same since. I'll be 34 on June 2nd, and I no longer give af. I honestly stopped giving af around the age of 29 to 30. At times, it feels like an ego boost to be able to trigger folks without even trying. It used to make me hideaway, now sometimes I feed off of that energy. I would have never thought that I would be who I am now and who I see myself becoming, but time, healing, and self work have done wonders. Thank you for the insightful videos.
wow i’m the same placement libra moon 12th house. couldn’t relate more.. abusive , emotionally neglectful mother and women in general always attacking me and trying to bully and ostracize me. i attract a lot of envious women even when im quiet and minding my own business. everything i do triggers them! also relate to the love hate thing. i notice women either obsess over me and copy everything about me and wanna spend every second with me and suck my energy or they hate me and form a smear campaign against me based off lies. it’s actually a really scary placement but there’s power in it as well as i feel i am very deeply connected to my own personal feminine power and im highly intuitive and naturally psychic. a challenge but a blessing for sure. take care love ❤
@lasantuzza777 Hi. Yes, it is a very complex placement indeed. People either love you intensely, or they despise you without reason. The fact that I rarely give a reaction to either energy usually fuels both energies. My stoic nature causes the love from others to become more intense, and it also causes the disdain from others to intensify as well. In my mid-30s, I am just now starting to feel my power more and more. Now, I am ready to take more risk, but as you know, it's been a tough journey. I'm wishing you much love, light, genuine joy, and a positive community that will encourage you and pour pure love into you. 🙏💜😊
Learning about the 12H has helped me so much. I have 5 12H placement's and growing up has been extremely hard. I have learned something it is me as my own worse enemy. Friend's have been so hard and family is worse. This is such an informative video, thank you 😊
Once I learned this during shadow work it helped me shift and see myself deeper. I abandoned my 7th house (Aries) as a child and I kept attracting Aries who would try to bully me in one way or another. Aries in lolth is in my 6th house as well. Once I claimed and owned my Aries by taking action, focusing on self and my life I was able to deal with aries women and the man I attracted who was a hidden enemy.
I have my sun in sag in the 8th house, Scorpio moon in 8th and Aquarius in the 12th. I’ve experienced an overwhelming amount of unjustified betrayal from the closest, longest friends I’ve had, and family as well. I love how you talk about the idea of people evolving through me, that was an aha moment for me. I’ve become better at letting go but I need to work on my boundary setting for sure. In retrospect I feel I was too nice with my betrayers and the universe likes it better when you show people karma directly. I also have Virgo in my 7th house…would that have any effect on enemies?
This video is top tier but your content is always of a high standard😊. There's quite a few salient points, so I'm definitely going to watch it again. Although, spot on with the boundaries and having to defend your castle relentlessly from various types of projection. My boundaries are currently under maintenance and what you've shared has provided me with some valuable pointers. Thank you
Wow this is so good! I have my 12th house ruler in my 12th house, exalted 😂 Venus in Libra… I always hit it off well with Libras, and I get attracted to them, but then it typically ends in disaster and heartache/betrayal. Romantic relationships have definitely wrecked me (Venus is also heavily afflicted in my chart by Saturn, Neptune, and Chiron squares). It just affects my general social relationships as well, too- issues with Libra friends being flaky or ghosting (typical shadow side of Libra comes out 😂). I don’t think the exaltation helps at all, honestly… maybe I feel it even stronger?? I also have had issues with the legal system before not doing their due diligence and failing to do accurate investigations, ignoring evidence in favor of another or dismissing concerns- in one case specifically favoring a Libra man who acted unethically towards me and was never held accountable for it, who also wanted something secretly flirtatious but was deceptive. The sign’s overall energetic theme in addition kind of comes in to sabotage and betray you, too. Maybe that means I shouldn’t be a lawyer? lol. Do you feel that way around Mars or Aries activities on your health (ego, body, identity) as a theme of sabotage?
12th house is complicated I have read lots on this, and applied to my personal experience. I find It can really go either way when synastry comes into play. I know there is a big debate on the house vs planet, who feels it more. There seems to be a lot of strife when someone’s Venus comes into the 12th, they claim venus can be deceitful. However I would like to say from observation, I think having someone’s Mars, can be the deceiver. Trickery Of course, all energies can play out differently. But this has been an interesting observation of mine to date. And when it comes to moon coming into my 12th, I find that to personally be a very safe feeling, that they just get me, or I get them! I wanted to thank you for your videos and information. Much appreciated.
Girl my 12th house (Taurus -my dad’s Sun ) ruler is in my 4th (Venus in Virgo) and my moon is in the 12th along with Chiron … my mother was the first person to break my heart, my father was the second… self worth issues up the wahzoo! Astrology is no joke
I have my South Node in Sag & Sag in BOTH my 11th & 12th house... WOW. My adopted dad was a Sag. He molested me in my early teens... & I've said this over the years too, since he passed & doing my healing work... it was always an "elephant in the room"... I'd used that term so much too! No one in the family knew for YEARS, because I kept quiet about it. He didn't threaten me to keep quiet, but all through to the end of his life, I fought trying to have a relationship with him, while also not feeling safe with him AT ALL. He tried to apologize the year before he was diagnosed with lung cancer, but what was done was done. I still had to grieve it & the loss after he died, because he was the only dad I'd had a father/daughter relationship with. My birth dad has never been in my life & I really wanted/needed a dad. From there, I have had some really testy connections with Sag's... My former landlord & roommate had Sag rising, Leo sun & that absolutely did NOT end up going well, even though we'd known each other for about 2 years prior to me moving in & paying some rent. We both started having financial challenges during my time there (unrelated to each other) & he would always cycle his problems back to mine, as if his were my fault, or find ways to tie them together, come to me about it & I would just stand there dumbfounded as to where this is coming from. As well as talk me down about my work, something he doesn't understand. Try to put doubt in my mind about what I could succeed at or accomplish... & we're talking about a guy who has multiple homes that he rents out & a home he's building in Mexico... you wouldn't expect that kind of treatment from someone who you would THINK was making good money from rental income, aside from his career as a pilot, where he makes over $100k per year ALONE. It just did not end up being a good cohabitating environment. My birth mom is a Sag rising & it's sort of a so/so having a relationship with her. I love her, but I'm not sure what the future will look like, in regards to whether it will develop or stay stagnant. She has helped me in some ways over the years, which were appreciated. It's just tough at times to maintain a connection with her. I caretook an elderly woman late last year, who had Sag rising & a Leo moon. I'm Taurus sun & moon. We actually got along quite well, respected eachothers' space, &were very similar in that way of alone time. So it ended pretty well. Also, I ended a long-standing friendship of 20 years with a Leo on New Year's Eve & again, & I never thought that would end how it did at all! Sag's for me are really a hit or miss, & I can't say I have any active in my life now, other than my mom, who is also 4x Aries... & even though I have Aries in Mercury & Venus, I've always had some pretty similar go arounds with them as well.... My last ex was an Aries & became verbally abusive. I broke up with him while he was out of town working, because I couldn't deal with it anymore. Regained some personal power while he was gone & lost the 40+ lbs of weight I'd gained when I started depression eating the months following when the abuse started. I ended a friendship with an Aries dominant (multiple placements) back in November. Never thought it would end how it did. I have both of my aries placements at sort of a cusp in later degrees, so I'm more Taurean in those placements as I've gotten older & I'm wondering if that has something to do with it. Maybe dealing with lesser evolved placements creates conflict? My adopted mom is a Leo, & that's always been OK, but I don't really feel bonded to her as you should with a mother necessarily. We don't necessarily maintain contact, yet ever since I moved out, it's always been on me to maintain contact & I've gotten tired of being held responsible for that. Never really felt like she could hear me, or would listen to my feelings when I was younger. So when it comes to fire signs, it seems to be a bit of a struggle, lol.
This has been all my life 💯 My 1st house ruler (Pluto) and Sun sign ruler (Saturn) is in the 12th. I keep my peaceful demeanor but never let my guard down. When I defend myself, whether emotionally, mentally, or physically, those same enemies are surprised because I am already two to three steps ahead of their deception or actions. I empowered myself through practicing astrology and other forms of divinations. Thank you for this video 🌺
Wow. Wow. Wow. Very insightful and resonates 100%. I have Capricorn in Saturn and Moon in my 12th house. In WholeSigns the ruler is in the 7th with Chiron. Crazyyyy 😂
Wow this is wildly helpful. I spent the last six years trying to immigrate to another country. My 12h ruler is mercury, on the cusp of my 9h (immigration)
I have Capricorn in my 12th house & one of my hidden enemies came through as my first love who was a Capricorn man lol. He taught me boundaries and self-respect like no other.
I have a lot of 12h placements including mars, and Saturn in Pisces 7h. My best friend since preschool has the same Pisces in Saturn but in his 12h and I found out in our adult years he wasn’t really for me. He was indeed a hidden enemy. I deal w/ a lot of karmic sht 😂 but yesss now I have boundariesss & nip that sht in the bud
I have Venus and Jupiter in cancer ♋️ in the 13th house. I’ve had many many enemies with woman and in relationships. This video made me sad and tearful mainly because it gave me clarity with the many situations that happened in my life. Astrology is like therapy.
Venus in Aqua 12H. Libra in 8th and Taurus in 3rd. I feel that people always come in and out of my life and my sibling betrayed me. Plus I’ve always felt women don’t fuck with me and I got along way better with men. Now I know! Thanks, Honey!
I have nothing in my Libra 12th house. I have no enemies. A lot of people like me and I don’t have to do much of anything. A kid pointed to me and said they liked being around me when they just met me. Kids cry when I leave. It’s so strange. My 12th house ruler (Pisces Venus) is in 5H conjunct Saturn. It’s trine Cancer Moon, square Sagittarius Jupiter Rx and opposite Virgo Chiron Rx.
7:26 This, I’ve been really innerstanding this lately and it’s funny I first learned about 12th house being your hidden enemies aka inner-mes. I have Jupiter rx in the 12th Capricorn Conjunct my Ascendant and a whole bunch of other actions. With Saturn being in Pisces this year I feel that standing up for myself is the highlight not allowing me to be drained and make a stand on what I want not what another want to project onto me. I also have Neptune in Capricorn 1st house 27° so it’s like 📞🫠 let’s get it together lmao. I have all the water houses and they connect in aspect lol 4th house Mercury/Mars. 8th house Moon.
I might need to do a reading with you ! I have a Saturn and south node in my 12th house in Aries. One of my parent is an Aries sun, we don’t get a long . This parent has been abusive and toxic with me since I was a kid. But my mars is in my 1st house, sometime I’ll be self sabotaging myself but I always attract friendships that put all their emotional baggage’s on me. I really have a hard time keeping friends and attracting genuine ones. Also I have a Pluto sag in my 8th house….those are some tough placements 😢
Ooooo chlye I’m an Aquarius ♒️ 2/4 I have my Sun/Moon/Mars/Venus all in the 12H! All ♒️ The stories I could tell! This is sooo spot on! Especially about my Mom, husband, family friends, some were good, some were jealous, my mom betrayed me over a mol. Omg! Ima stop here because 🫠!
@@AT-nc2om Yes I was told “where ever you go, there you are”… fix your insides gurl” you are your own worst enemy! After I was told that, my life changed for the better. Us Aquarians overthink everything 🥲
Pisces 12H - Vedic, empty house Aries 12H - tropical, empty house And you’re right about Mars 12H. I find consistency difficult and laziness to easy for me but it’s something I’m constantly working on. My Mars in 4H (tropical), and it’s always someone who I think is close to me or who I feel loves me, esp friends and family. My Jupiter in 3H (Vedic), and siblings. Very much so.
I have Taurus in the 12 house. I have no planets but I do have my South Node in 10° retrograde. Sun, Uranus, and Neptune in Capricorn in the 8th house and have Gemini ascendent and lilith in the first house. I have a lot of enemies
12th house in Capricorn, Chiron in Capricorn...Saturn in 4th house Saturn conjunct Venus, Mars, Moon, Mercury, NN I am attracted to older men, most older men I come across are super conservative and hate me. And as well try to use me
I have a group of 3 retrograde planets in my 12th house Scorpio. Most notably a retrograde Mars (and Saturn Rx, Pluto Rx). I feel like I’ve found my tribe here. 🤣
I have scorpio in the 12 house and the 11th house Also have an eighth house stellium. I'm able to look into group dynamics and family dynamics. And see who's who and what is what. I never have issues with scorpio's Maybe because I don't really run into them too much in my life , but I am realizing that maybe they probably might have a problem with me period which is interesting because I am a ♍️ son and ♍️ , and ♏️ used to be the same sign before ♎️ was putting between them And they say that's supposed to be our perfect match. When it comes to compatibility for friendships and relationships. But since learning about this, I take it into consideration now, when dealing with it although I don't have the issue with them at all. I have to keep it in my mind that they may secretly have issues with me. Luckily I don't deal with them a lot in my personal life anyway. I'm not interested in emotional manipulative type of personalities and I notice that a lot with water signs who are evolved by the way. Because of my Aquarius, moon, people get frustrated that I don't give away too much of myself and I'm very detached. So they can't use anything against me or throw it in my face like they do other people. I don't care for people with weaponizing Up there emotional connections to get the better of people. They see that I'm not trying to get caught up in a rapture. And they can't wrap me up like how they do others and frustrates them.😅
Venus-Taurus/Mercury -Gemini all in the 12th! I've gotten to the point to where I stay ALL the way away from people! Especially women! (Venus). I stay away from anyone with placements in my 12th house too. 😂😂....I'm grateful for the tool that is astrology!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤❤❤
It’s so funny that you say this. I have mercury in the 12th. But my ex has Venus Mars and Pluto in my 12th house. And I feel like he is a hidden enemy. Not that he personally comes around to make my life bad. But he is definitely an energy vampire and I feel like he is my downfall, even though he cares for me and doesn’t mean to be. I also have my 12th house ruler in the 1st.
Pisces sun 11th with Aries moon ,venus and saturn all 12 th house..my mother is a narcissist. I finally stop contact with her several years ago..and my relationships were toxic and the last one showed me to really love myself..I worked in office positions were there was always one woman who hated on me..
my 12th house is empty but it is in taurus and it´s funny because the Taurus men always have a problem with me. They end up acting really disrespectful, treating me horrible for no reason and I usually start of with liking them and later on feeling "off" because i can feel the hidden hate. I have plenty of taurus girlfriends tho so I don´t get why it´s only the men? Love your vids, always interesting and something to learn!
Interesting. I'm Cancer moon with my moon in the 12th house and I'm also cancer rising. You must have some psychic ability or some kind of clairvoyance...definitely spiritual
Mercury and venus in my 12th house cancer and it gets deep. Cancer is mom/moon/home... and I've had rose colored glasses about my mom my entire life until recently seeing her for who she really is. Pluto 4th house didn't help with the confusion of mom and home. Lord. Fuuuuuck the women I've dated have all drained and used the fuck out my Nurturing too. 😮 this is bringing a lot to light 🔦
Thanks for this I unfortunate have an unaspected moon early in my 12th Then later into the 12th I have my Mars Black Moon Lilith I have Neptune in my 6th with Scorpio on the cusp (this placement is opposite my Mars L conjunction) In other words - I get F’c-ed Best for me to be a loner and work alone
Thank you! I have Jupiter retrograde in my Pisces 12th house I still can’t figure out what this means in regards to hidden enemies, do you have any clues for this placement?
lmao I have a 12th house Aries north node, 6th house Virgo moon square Uranus exact and square Chiron with a 3 degree orb and a 7th house Pluto square my 5th house Leo sun exact. I thought it was the 7th house Pluto that attracted envious folks or those who don’t like to see me shine, but I guess the 12th house north node has something to do with it as well. I’m sick of dimming my light to make others comfortable or to feel a sense of safety or belonging with those who obviously aren’t on the same wave length anyway
So my mars is in Leo in the 12th house exactly conjunct my south node, and the pair are 3° from my ascendant at 29° Leo. My sun rules my 12th house as well (starts at 0°Leo) and mercury is also in my 12th. That sun is inconjunct my Scorpio Pluto in the 3rd and an intercepted saturn/neptune conjunction in capricorn intercepted in the 5th. And those 3 are the only ones in their signs of rulership, idk if that just intensifies everything. Its like somehow everything in my chart leads back to the 12th house
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"The apology is never as loud as the disrespect" - so true.
So true, it’s so annoying
Your enemies are your greatest teachers
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@@assianeu197 Speak for yourself. They are NOT for me
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100% true being a trash bin for people’s negative energy. I don’t need to do anything, people can see me and immediately get mad or dumb their issues on me. Thank you, now I understand why. 😢
Yeah this resonates so hard. I also have Lilith and Pluto both in my 12th house Placidus, with Pluto conjunct my Ascendant. Depending on what planets are there, people can project their problems onto you, feed off of your insecurities, or you can naturally attract powermongering types or dangerous situations with those placements.
I have Mercury and Venus there and I grew up with a secretive jealous and envious cousin. This created issues with women in general as I grew up. Thank goodness I did my inner work and healed that energy. I am a better version of myself. And now I have attracted better friendships and I cut off any toxic family members including my cousin. I also do not take sh*t from anyone. My dark femininity is all the way turned up
honey! I started defending myself instead of turning a blind eye & it ceased all the negativity immediately. When I would take the moral high ground I would get 100 times more maliciousness. 12 house stellium here 😅
This is scarily accurate 😢😢...i have my Pluto in Scorpio 12th house..... people are always jealous on me and especially women don't get well along with me...😅
@@divyashree75 I have this same placement!
I have 5 placements in the 12th house. Lots of hidden enemies. Lots of life lessons.
Those planets really energy are telling u to own them. The 12th house enemies, those ppl are indirectly/symbolically telling u to own it, that's why they give you a hard time.
Own your 12th house
Embody the energy of those planets
I have mars & Pluto in Scorpio in my 12H and men are sooooo 😒 I don’t have much motivation either😭 I just wanna sleep & go on vacation .
Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu for this. I have a heavy 12 house stellium and sag in my 8th house along with Pluto in the 7th. Spot on video!!! The abuse is real!!!! lack of having boundaries is real too. I always assumed that people should know how to treat me by reading my energy as I do theirs. But where I trip myself up is by not going deeper subconsciously when reading them and trusting my intuition!
The undertones of narcissist domineering ways is to control the way I give and move in my energy in regards to them. Like clay. Smh
Wow I've always assumed the same about others yet it never turns out well and what a disappointment. This is a very difficult aspect but we learn a lot along the way🙌
Honey your looking extra beautiful! Your obviously growing and glowing! Yes I agree with everything! As a Taurus with sun, moon and mercury in the 12th house I can relate, especially with self sabotage and Aries women 😅! Thanks, I really needed to hear this! ❤️ 😊 🤗
Thank you so much!!
Hi Honey. I really enjoyed your piece on how the 8th house and 12th house person is here to evolve and how we should beware of partners coming into our life subconsciously for a season to help them transform. ♥️ Thank you for the insight.
Cancer in the 10H with moon in the 12th. Virgo in the 12H with Mercury in the 7H. Taurus in the 8H with venus in the 7H. Leo in the 11H with Sun in the 8H. Pluto is in the 1H as well.
I am a Libra Moon. In my personal reading, you mentioned that I could have an abusive mother, but it's hidden and difficult for others to believe. That was SPOT ON. Not just her, though. Other women in the family and women in general seem to have this love-hate dynamic with me, ever since I was a kid. I simply mind my business and stay to myself, and even that triggers them. Sometimes, it feels like I'm damned if I do, and I'm damned if I don't. I am very loyal and giving, but I seem to attract energy vampires. At least I used to. I've become even more difficult to get close to now. My saturn return hit my 4H, and nothing has been the same since.
I'll be 34 on June 2nd, and I no longer give af. I honestly stopped giving af around the age of 29 to 30. At times, it feels like an ego boost to be able to trigger folks without even trying. It used to make me hideaway, now sometimes I feed off of that energy.
I would have never thought that I would be who I am now and who I see myself becoming, but time, healing, and self work have done wonders.
Thank you for the insightful videos.
wow i’m the same placement libra moon 12th house. couldn’t relate more.. abusive , emotionally neglectful mother and women in general always attacking me and trying to bully and ostracize me. i attract a lot of envious women even when im quiet and minding my own business. everything i do triggers them! also relate to the love hate thing. i notice women either obsess over me and copy everything about me and wanna spend every second with me and suck my energy or they hate me and form a smear campaign against me based off lies. it’s actually a really scary placement but there’s power in it as well as i feel i am very deeply connected to my own personal feminine power and im highly intuitive and naturally psychic. a challenge but a blessing for sure. take care love ❤
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Hi. Yes, it is a very complex placement indeed. People either love you intensely, or they despise you without reason. The fact that I rarely give a reaction to either energy usually fuels both energies. My stoic nature causes the love from others to become more intense, and it also causes the disdain from others to intensify as well.
In my mid-30s, I am just now starting to feel my power more and more. Now, I am ready to take more risk, but as you know, it's been a tough journey.
I'm wishing you much love, light, genuine joy, and a positive community that will encourage you and pour pure love into you. 🙏💜😊
Learning about the 12H has helped me so much. I have 5 12H placement's and growing up has been extremely hard. I have learned something it is me as my own worse enemy. Friend's have been so hard and family is worse. This is such an informative video, thank you 😊
I have the sun and mercury in the 12th house😢 I have enemies galore! Family even
Once I learned this during shadow work it helped me shift and see myself deeper. I abandoned my 7th house (Aries) as a child and I kept attracting Aries who would try to bully me in one way or another. Aries in lolth is in my 6th house as well. Once I claimed and owned my Aries by taking action, focusing on self and my life I was able to deal with aries women and the man I attracted who was a hidden enemy.
thank you. Been watching you for years. Looking good.
Awesome! Thank you!
I have my sun in sag in the 8th house, Scorpio moon in 8th and Aquarius in the 12th. I’ve experienced an overwhelming amount of unjustified betrayal from the closest, longest friends I’ve had, and family as well. I love how you talk about the idea of people evolving through me, that was an aha moment for me. I’ve become better at letting go but I need to work on my boundary setting for sure. In retrospect I feel I was too nice with my betrayers and the universe likes it better when you show people karma directly. I also have Virgo in my 7th house…would that have any effect on enemies?
This video is top tier but your content is always of a high standard😊. There's quite a few salient points, so I'm definitely going to watch it again. Although, spot on with the boundaries and having to defend your castle relentlessly from various types of projection. My boundaries are currently under maintenance and what you've shared has provided me with some valuable pointers. Thank you
Yay, thank you! 🙏🏽
I got my 12h in Virgo and I’m a Virgo rising 😂😂 so I’m my ow worst enemy??
Cancer ♋️ Venus, Neptune, and Mercury in 12H.
8H in Pisces ♓️.
This was so spot on! 🤯
wow you looked so pretty in this video 😭😭😍
Wow this is so good!
I have my 12th house ruler in my 12th house, exalted 😂 Venus in Libra… I always hit it off well with Libras, and I get attracted to them, but then it typically ends in disaster and heartache/betrayal. Romantic relationships have definitely wrecked me (Venus is also heavily afflicted in my chart by Saturn, Neptune, and Chiron squares). It just affects my general social relationships as well, too- issues with Libra friends being flaky or ghosting (typical shadow side of Libra comes out 😂). I don’t think the exaltation helps at all, honestly… maybe I feel it even stronger?? I also have had issues with the legal system before not doing their due diligence and failing to do accurate investigations, ignoring evidence in favor of another or dismissing concerns- in one case specifically favoring a Libra man who acted unethically towards me and was never held accountable for it, who also wanted something secretly flirtatious but was deceptive. The sign’s overall energetic theme in addition kind of comes in to sabotage and betray you, too. Maybe that means I shouldn’t be a lawyer? lol.
Do you feel that way around Mars or Aries activities on your health (ego, body, identity) as a theme of sabotage?
My daughter has moon in the 12 and I don't hate her and now I need to watch the woman in her life
As her mother that placement can also mean you being her spiritual guardian! But yes watch those other heauxs 😂❤
The way u verbalized it as “I don’t hate her” instead of “I love her with all my heart & soul”
I don’t know it gives some kind of weired vibe!
@@Golden_Queen_888I get what you mean to be honest 😂 but it could just be simply her choice of words without any thought
12th house is complicated
I have read lots on this, and applied to my personal experience.
I find It can really go either way when synastry comes into play. I know there is a big debate on the house vs planet, who feels it more.
There seems to be a lot of strife when someone’s Venus comes into the 12th, they claim venus can be deceitful. However I would like to say from observation, I think having someone’s Mars, can be the deceiver. Trickery
Of course, all energies can play out differently. But this has been an interesting observation of mine to date.
And when it comes to moon coming into my 12th, I find that to personally be a very safe feeling, that they just get me, or I get them!
I wanted to thank you for your videos and information. Much appreciated.
What if Pluto is in the 12th house?
Pluto doesn’t represent anyone specific. That’s why I didn’t mention it.
I see , thank you ☺️
@@HoneysAstro Transit Pluto in th 12, HELP
Pluto represents woman according to astrolada .. i have venus conjunct Pluto and that was the video i learned that Pluto represents woman
Girl my 12th house (Taurus -my dad’s Sun ) ruler is in my 4th (Venus in Virgo) and my moon is in the 12th along with Chiron … my mother was the first person to break my heart, my father was the second… self worth issues up the wahzoo!
Astrology is no joke
I have sun in cancer and Mercury in cancer 12th house cancer rising
I have my South Node in Sag & Sag in BOTH my 11th & 12th house... WOW.
My adopted dad was a Sag. He molested me in my early teens... & I've said this over the years too, since he passed & doing my healing work... it was always an "elephant in the room"... I'd used that term so much too! No one in the family knew for YEARS, because I kept quiet about it. He didn't threaten me to keep quiet, but all through to the end of his life, I fought trying to have a relationship with him, while also not feeling safe with him AT ALL. He tried to apologize the year before he was diagnosed with lung cancer, but what was done was done. I still had to grieve it & the loss after he died, because he was the only dad I'd had a father/daughter relationship with. My birth dad has never been in my life & I really wanted/needed a dad.
From there, I have had some really testy connections with Sag's...
My former landlord & roommate had Sag rising, Leo sun & that absolutely did NOT end up going well, even though we'd known each other for about 2 years prior to me moving in & paying some rent. We both started having financial challenges during my time there (unrelated to each other) & he would always cycle his problems back to mine, as if his were my fault, or find ways to tie them together, come to me about it & I would just stand there dumbfounded as to where this is coming from. As well as talk me down about my work, something he doesn't understand. Try to put doubt in my mind about what I could succeed at or accomplish... & we're talking about a guy who has multiple homes that he rents out & a home he's building in Mexico... you wouldn't expect that kind of treatment from someone who you would THINK was making good money from rental income, aside from his career as a pilot, where he makes over $100k per year ALONE. It just did not end up being a good cohabitating environment.
My birth mom is a Sag rising & it's sort of a so/so having a relationship with her. I love her, but I'm not sure what the future will look like, in regards to whether it will develop or stay stagnant. She has helped me in some ways over the years, which were appreciated. It's just tough at times to maintain a connection with her.
I caretook an elderly woman late last year, who had Sag rising & a Leo moon. I'm Taurus sun & moon. We actually got along quite well, respected eachothers' space, &were very similar in that way of alone time. So it ended pretty well.
Also, I ended a long-standing friendship of 20 years with a Leo on New Year's Eve & again, & I never thought that would end how it did at all!
Sag's for me are really a hit or miss, & I can't say I have any active in my life now, other than my mom, who is also 4x Aries... & even though I have Aries in Mercury & Venus, I've always had some pretty similar go arounds with them as well....
My last ex was an Aries & became verbally abusive. I broke up with him while he was out of town working, because I couldn't deal with it anymore. Regained some personal power while he was gone & lost the 40+ lbs of weight I'd gained when I started depression eating the months following when the abuse started.
I ended a friendship with an Aries dominant (multiple placements) back in November. Never thought it would end how it did. I have both of my aries placements at sort of a cusp in later degrees, so I'm more Taurean in those placements as I've gotten older & I'm wondering if that has something to do with it. Maybe dealing with lesser evolved placements creates conflict?
My adopted mom is a Leo, & that's always been OK, but I don't really feel bonded to her as you should with a mother necessarily. We don't necessarily maintain contact, yet ever since I moved out, it's always been on me to maintain contact & I've gotten tired of being held responsible for that. Never really felt like she could hear me, or would listen to my feelings when I was younger.
So when it comes to fire signs, it seems to be a bit of a struggle, lol.
I loved this! I feel greedy for wishing you went through the 12 houses. Love your voice and the way you talk Honey! I can listen for hours and hours ❤
I have Pluto in my 12th house in Libra
This has been all my life 💯 My 1st house ruler (Pluto) and Sun sign ruler (Saturn) is in the 12th. I keep my peaceful demeanor but never let my guard down. When I defend myself, whether emotionally, mentally, or physically, those same enemies are surprised because I am already two to three steps ahead of their deception or actions. I empowered myself through practicing astrology and other forms of divinations.
Thank you for this video 🌺
Thank you so much Honey...big fan of yours from Oman 🇴🇲...I love how from time to you come back to talk about this particular House
Thank you so much!
Wow. Wow. Wow. Very insightful and resonates 100%. I have Capricorn in Saturn and Moon in my 12th house. In WholeSigns the ruler is in the 7th with Chiron. Crazyyyy 😂
Wow this is wildly helpful. I spent the last six years trying to immigrate to another country. My 12h ruler is mercury, on the cusp of my 9h (immigration)
I have Capricorn in my 12th house & one of my hidden enemies came through as my first love who was a Capricorn man lol. He taught me boundaries and self-respect like no other.
12th house ruler is in my 10th house too! Also Taurus 12th house. Gemini rising, probably why I get you.
Same here ! 😅
Sun , Mercury, Venus and Jupiter all 12th and i have Pisces on the cusp of 12th too 😮😅.
I have a lot of 12h placements including mars, and Saturn in Pisces 7h. My best friend since preschool has the same Pisces in Saturn but in his 12h and I found out in our adult years he wasn’t really for me. He was indeed a hidden enemy. I deal w/ a lot of karmic sht 😂 but yesss now I have boundariesss & nip that sht in the bud
That’s so heart breaking but typical for a 12 houser man. 💔
Mars, South Node, and Saturn is there. Oh the stories…
I have Venus and Jupiter in cancer ♋️ in the 13th house. I’ve had many many enemies with woman and in relationships. This video made me sad and tearful mainly because it gave me clarity with the many situations that happened in my life. Astrology is like therapy.
Venus in Aqua 12H. Libra in 8th and Taurus in 3rd. I feel that people always come in and out of my life and my sibling betrayed me. Plus I’ve always felt women don’t fuck with me and I got along way better with men. Now I know! Thanks, Honey!
I have Cancer and Jupiter in my 12th House.
I have nothing in my Libra 12th house. I have no enemies. A lot of people like me and I don’t have to do much of anything. A kid pointed to me and said they liked being around me when they just met me. Kids cry when I leave. It’s so strange.
My 12th house ruler (Pisces Venus) is in 5H conjunct Saturn. It’s trine Cancer Moon, square Sagittarius Jupiter Rx and opposite Virgo Chiron Rx.
Your Enemy will be " health issues "
7:26 This, I’ve been really innerstanding this lately and it’s funny I first learned about 12th house being your hidden enemies aka inner-mes. I have Jupiter rx in the 12th Capricorn Conjunct my Ascendant and a whole bunch of other actions. With Saturn being in Pisces this year I feel that standing up for myself is the highlight not allowing me to be drained and make a stand on what I want not what another want to project onto me. I also have Neptune in Capricorn 1st house 27° so it’s like 📞🫠 let’s get it together lmao. I have all the water houses and they connect in aspect lol 4th house Mercury/Mars. 8th house Moon.
I have Saturn and Neptune both in sagg in 12 house - i have had enemies since I was a little girl and it’s so sad to know that 😢
Sun, Mercury and Neptune in my 12 this literally is correct down to a T 💜
I might need to do a reading with you ! I have a Saturn and south node in my 12th house in Aries. One of my parent is an Aries sun, we don’t get a long . This parent has been abusive and toxic with me since I was a kid. But my mars is in my 1st house, sometime I’ll be self sabotaging myself but I always attract friendships that put all their emotional baggage’s on me. I really have a hard time keeping friends and attracting genuine ones. Also I have a Pluto sag in my 8th house….those are some tough placements 😢
Thank you! Very informative
I have Sun & Venus in Leo in the 12th house & Saturn in Pisces in the 7th house.
Ooooo chlye I’m an Aquarius ♒️ 2/4
I have my Sun/Moon/Mars/Venus all in the 12H! All ♒️
The stories I could tell! This is sooo spot on! Especially about my Mom, husband, family friends, some were good, some were jealous, my mom betrayed me over a mol. Omg! Ima stop here because 🫠!
Wow! I'm an aquarius with my sun, moon, uranus & neptune in 12th. I attract a lot of energy vampires so totally relate! But I'm also my own enemy lol.
@@AT-nc2om Yes I was told “where ever you go, there you are”… fix your insides gurl” you are your own worst enemy! After I was told that, my life changed for the better. Us Aquarians overthink everything 🥲
@@LilithTheAquarian369 Wow!!! This is amazing advice thank you for sharing that. & yes, heavy on the overthinking 😔
Lots of enemies!
What are the effects of enemies if someone has part of fortune in the 12th?
im a 12th house stellium. sun, moon, venus and mars all in the 12th house. whew the hidden enemies have been nooo joke
How do you find out what house is your 12th house ruler? I do have my Mars ♋ and Venus ♊ there. Thank you for all that you do!
Pisces 12H - Vedic, empty house
Aries 12H - tropical, empty house
And you’re right about Mars 12H. I find consistency difficult and laziness to easy for me but it’s something I’m constantly working on.
My Mars in 4H (tropical), and it’s always someone who I think is close to me or who I feel loves me, esp friends and family.
My Jupiter in 3H (Vedic), and siblings. Very much so.
I have Taurus in the 12 house. I have no planets but I do have my South Node in 10° retrograde. Sun, Uranus, and Neptune in Capricorn in the 8th house and have Gemini ascendent and lilith in the first house. I have a lot of enemies
12th house in Capricorn, Chiron in Capricorn...Saturn in 4th house Saturn conjunct Venus, Mars, Moon, Mercury, NN
I am attracted to older men, most older men I come across are super conservative and hate me. And as well try to use me
Thank you honey I am new here. I have jupiter I'm my 12th house. What does that mean? I am soo new to astrology too ❤🎉
Aries Sun, mars, Mercury and Saturn all in the 12th house. My Venus and Jupiter is also in Pisces 🙃
You da best
Seriously had every Leo placement treat me horribly. Every Leo moon, mars, sun, Lilith… yeah no biggest bullies being in my 12H
I have sun in Scorpio 12H
I got Pluto in the 12 house
Same!
I dont have any planets in the 12th, but I have Chiron in the 12th. Does that count?
Your own worst enemy is your fears
@@HoneysAstro okay come through self sabotage 😭😭😭😭 thank you for your response honey
@@KitanaTulip😂😂😂
@@HoneysAstro so accurate, I have chiron in virgo in 12th house , my OWN fears are my worst enemy.
I have a group of 3 retrograde planets in my 12th house Scorpio. Most notably a retrograde Mars (and Saturn Rx, Pluto Rx). I feel like I’ve found my tribe here. 🤣
I have scorpio in the 12 house and the 11th house Also have an eighth house stellium. I'm able to look into group dynamics and family dynamics. And see who's who and what is what. I never have issues with scorpio's Maybe because I don't really run into them too much in my life , but I am realizing that maybe they probably might have a problem with me period which is interesting because I am a ♍️ son and ♍️ , and ♏️ used to be the same sign before ♎️ was putting between them And they say that's supposed to be our perfect match. When it comes to compatibility for friendships and relationships. But since learning about this, I take it into consideration now, when dealing with it although I don't have the issue with them at all. I have to keep it in my mind that they may secretly have issues with me. Luckily I don't deal with them a lot in my personal life anyway. I'm not interested in emotional manipulative type of personalities and I notice that a lot with water signs who are evolved by the way. Because of my Aquarius, moon, people get frustrated that I don't give away too much of myself and I'm very detached. So they can't use anything against me or throw it in my face like they do other people. I don't care for people with weaponizing Up there emotional connections to get the better of people. They see that I'm not trying to get caught up in a rapture. And they can't wrap me up like how they do others and frustrates them.😅
Can someone explain mercury 12th house in sagittarius
What if you dont have any personal planets in your 12H- but you have a significant point like NN or SN??
Venus-Taurus/Mercury -Gemini all in the 12th! I've gotten to the point to where I stay ALL the way away from people! Especially women! (Venus). I stay away from anyone with placements in my 12th house too. 😂😂....I'm grateful for the tool that is astrology!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤❤❤
It’s so funny that you say this. I have mercury in the 12th. But my ex has Venus Mars and Pluto in my 12th house. And I feel like he is a hidden enemy. Not that he personally comes around to make my life bad. But he is definitely an energy vampire and I feel like he is my downfall, even though he cares for me and doesn’t mean to be. I also have my 12th house ruler in the 1st.
Pisces sun 11th with Aries moon ,venus and saturn all 12 th house..my mother is a narcissist. I finally stop contact with her several years ago..and my relationships were toxic and the last one showed me to really love myself..I worked in office positions were there was always one woman who hated on me..
Im a first house person.. but my sun and pluto is in the 12th so this resonates ❤
My boys have Leo Sun in 12H but is a Leo rising as well with Venus, Mercury and Mars in 1H
How does that manifest?
Sun, moon, Mercury and Venus in Virgo 🫠
Remedies please
What house system? In whole sign I have 12th house stellium. In others 11th.
The system of your choice
My 12H rulers are in the 7H and 11H 🤦🏽♀️
Moon and Chiron in 12h
my 12th house is empty but it is in taurus and it´s funny because the Taurus men always have a problem with me. They end up acting really disrespectful, treating me horrible for no reason and I usually start of with liking them and later on feeling "off" because i can feel the hidden hate. I have plenty of taurus girlfriends tho so I don´t get why it´s only the men?
Love your vids, always interesting and something to learn!
Taurus men have a fragile baby Ego , their inner-child is dysfunctional.
My sun in cancer and mercury in cancer is in the 12th house. I’m a cancer rising also
Interesting. I'm Cancer moon with my moon in the 12th house and I'm also cancer rising. You must have some psychic ability or some kind of clairvoyance...definitely spiritual
Mercury and venus in my 12th house cancer and it gets deep. Cancer is mom/moon/home... and I've had rose colored glasses about my mom my entire life until recently seeing her for who she really is. Pluto 4th house didn't help with the confusion of mom and home. Lord. Fuuuuuck the women I've dated have all drained and used the fuck out my Nurturing too. 😮 this is bringing a lot to light 🔦
I have cancer in the 12th house but no planets? I heard that moon represents mothers and I have my moon in the 1st house..
Damn I have Venus and Mars in the 12th in Leo 😭 2:26
Thanks for this
I unfortunate have an unaspected moon early in my 12th
Then later into the 12th I have my Mars Black Moon Lilith
I have Neptune in my 6th with Scorpio on the cusp (this placement is opposite my Mars L conjunction)
In other words - I get F’c-ed
Best for me to be a loner and work alone
Honey, if the Moon is in the 12th, could that link us to children as well ??
Mine has the sign cancer but no planet and I always felt like my mom hated me and every female in my life has back stabbed me
As a male with Venus in the 12th, does that mean that women are hidden enemies?
Yes
@@HoneysAstro I def feel that.
Thank you! I have Jupiter retrograde in my Pisces 12th house I still can’t figure out what this means in regards to hidden enemies, do you have any clues for this placement?
lmao I have a 12th house Aries north node, 6th house Virgo moon square Uranus exact and square Chiron with a 3 degree orb and a 7th house Pluto square my 5th house Leo sun exact. I thought it was the 7th house Pluto that attracted envious folks or those who don’t like to see me shine, but I guess the 12th house north node has something to do with it as well. I’m sick of dimming my light to make others comfortable or to feel a sense of safety or belonging with those who obviously aren’t on the same wave length anyway
Pisces moon in my 12th house
Sun and mars in Leo 12th house. Dunno what this means though 😮
I have Lilith in the 12th house
I have moon in Libra 12th house
What is the ruler of scorpio 12th pluto is sitting in 12th and mars 5th should I consider mars or pluto??
Both
So my mars is in Leo in the 12th house exactly conjunct my south node, and the pair are 3° from my ascendant at 29° Leo. My sun rules my 12th house as well (starts at 0°Leo) and mercury is also in my 12th.
That sun is inconjunct my Scorpio Pluto in the 3rd and an intercepted saturn/neptune conjunction in capricorn intercepted in the 5th. And those 3 are the only ones in their signs of rulership, idk if that just intensifies everything.
Its like somehow everything in my chart leads back to the 12th house
I read Eminems
Empty 12th house but 12th house ruler is in the 10th house. Pluto in the 1st house on the ascendant is absolute TRASH.
Sun, moon, venus, saturn, neptune and uranus all in the 12th house 😢