Lolo is not an anomaly. There are women and men who are over 40 that have not had sex. Sometimes it's high standards, religion, not a lot of opportunity and sometimes people just have no interest. I applaud her for being open and honest about her choice. I actually hope that young people are inspired to wait for the right partner because sex isn't a sport. Sex is and was meant to be our sacred gift.
It’s impossible to win in society! For the women who sleep around they’re labeled used goods and the ones who want to remain a virgin are labeled defective! They want what they want when they want it. You do you sister ❤
@@jclyntoledo There are a lot of 40 year old women still dating without kids right now. People respond by saying things like "You'll meet the right one, it'll happen, and you'll have kids before you know it so don't give up". What sets her apart is her virginity. Because she's a virgin people see her at fault for not having the family and kids she desires. People see her as a woman that isn't actually "trying".
Exactly i wish i wait much longer. I was 25 when i lost my but it didn work out with my ex boyfriend hou i lost my virgin to. I wish i wait until i got married but to late
@@teresaautreyexperience Exactly, and she could be a 40 year old virgin due to the fact that she passed up many good men because her standards were way too high. This is typical.
This is amazing to watch, as a 33-year-old virgin. It's something I'm very proud of and I'm so happy to see that there are other women doing the same. It's so sad that doing something so virtuous receives such criticism. You really begin to see how accurate biblical prophesies are- what's wrong will be considered right, and what's right will be considered wrong. Being promiscuous, under the notion of exploring your sexuality, is praised these days.
@@vanda3393 it is! You actually did really good, in terms of how long you held out! People are losing theirs at MUCH earlier ages, so that says a lot about your individuality.
Exactly. People think it’s hard getting a man or getting married. It isn’t. I know men looking for papers that marry very quickly and the women they marry think it’s for genuine reasons. Going around screaming ‘my husband’. And then years down the line they break up and she’s soo shocked even though family or friends told her. Btw break up always happens once he gets the papers of course. But I digress. It’s not hard to get a man/ husband. It’s the quality. I know many women just end up desperate. Settle and are miserable. Women no longer want that nor have to put up with it.
What she has to realize is that she's not the only one who's "fishing" 👈🤣 A marriage-minded, high value man wants PEACE👈, in his house, in his family, and in his life. Bring that man PEACE, and everything else will fall into place. If she's unable or unwilling to provide that, she's gonna be by herself for a long, long time.....🤔
I am proud of you. I froze my eggs at age 39. It was hard on my body too. Also, I am proud of you remaining a virgin and keeping your standards high. Don’t listen to the haters!! You can find love in your 40s, 50s, etc. I just turned 43 and I still believe that I will find my person. 😊😊
Why are you ladies so obsessed with having a baby and falling in love with some goon. Priority should be your finances... Car, 🏠 house,travel,save 💰 save money.. not that..blinded by the light 🚨 nonese.. SMH 🤔
STOP LYING .....THATS A LIE......HAVING A FAMILY IS VERY MUCH TIED TO YOUTH......WOMEN RUN OUT OF EGGS AND CHILDBIRTH WITH YOUR LAST BATCH OF EGGS BECOMES VERY RISKY
Our hyper-sexual society tells us that sex is the be all end all of life. IT IS NOT. I got married at 34 and the partnership is way more important than the sex. If you don’t want to have sex before marriage or until later in life; it’s not a big deal. And no one should be stigmatized for it. Having sex later and with one/few partners saves you from heartache, disease, and unwanted pregnancy.
I am a 38 year-old virgin and the Lord processed me to a place of PEACE. Lola, you are NOT alone and I too will not compromise my body because I wanna honor the Lord even with my heart. I pray for my husband, date and pray over my womb often so I celebrate you and your BOLDNESS.
Do you mind sharing how you pray over your womb? Sometimes I think about praying about my future husband but then I think to myself "if God wanted you to be be married with kids, you would be by now. There must be something wrong with you and that's why you're still alone" 😢 I'm also 38, single and a virgin and I worry that when I finally find someone it will be too late for children ☹️
@@fruitytarian Whenever I am praying, I place my hand on my lower stomach/abdomen area and I declare LIFE over my womb. I pray in the shower touching my stomach too. That the kids in my womb and around me will be leaders and not followers and I'll raise them in the ways of God. I come against sickness and disease, etc. Hope this helps but if you're interested in my work and how I support women, inbox me on Instagram and my channel
@@fruitytarian To all the women: Let's stop this negative talk RIGHT NOW beautiful, talented and loving women. My eldest sibling has a son who is 46 years old. Our mother got pregnant at 40 and 44. My 46 year old nephew has an uncle that is 42 and one that is 38 years old. Sister pregnant at 43, child preparing for collge. It's all in HIS Hands and HIS Plans for his precious children that are walking upright. Sarah was childless until she was 90 years old. God promised Abraham that she would be “a mother of nations” (Genesis 17:16) and that she would conceive and bear a son, but Sarah did not believe. Genesis 17:17 Abraham fell facedown. Then he laughed and said to himself, "Can a child be born to a man who is a hundred years old? Can Sarah give birth at the age of ninety?" Genesis 17:18 And Abraham said to God, "O that Ishmael might live under Your blessing!" Genesis 21:5 Abraham was a hundred years old when his son Isaac was born to him.
You have no idea that is coming for them. Yes, we can pray for them but the reality is that it’s not 100% possible. In fact it’s around 3-6% per IVF round - if the article I read an hour ago is right. I am glad we are positive for each other but ridiculous statements like this are false and misguided and misguiding. Don’t be positive to a dishonest fault, please. It’s not good for the reader/original poster and maybe you feel good about yourself when you type it but it’s absurd and laughable when other read it and are able to see the big picture and the full truth. I do pray that this couples dreams come true - of COURSE- but I’m also a realist.
Forget the babies. We don’t need more humans destroying the planet. Do you orgasm? Does your sex with your long-awaited one and only lover- does it satisfy and please you as you deserve? I’m genuinely curious.
@@mariametheexplorer Yes, encourage more selfish people to breed new humans into an overpopulated world full of suffering and adversity. No big deal, right? There are hundreds of thousands of children who need homes, but y’all would rather spend that same money putting your body through hell, praying to get knocked up and experience a miserable, high risk pregnancy for a baby, when there a children who need that love and a home.
I do too. She’s walking her own path. Not being desperate to settle down just because it’s what’s expected of her. She knows what she wants and is willing to hold out for it even if it means she ends up with nothing at all. That’s some real self discipline, courage and determination and I can see more women doing this in the future. Choosing themselves and happiness over all else. ☺️
I lost my virginity @26. I wish I waited . it's been almost 20yrs of no sex and I am happy to be celibate. Go Lolo, @over 45 I still have faith I will find a man and have twins. You are young, beautiful, successful and lover of God. God will honour your faith in Him greatly.
I’m 33 and constantly feel like a freak for never having sex, but honestly? I’ve never found someone I connected with enough to have sex with. Lolo is incredible for making people like us feel normal.
Please stop over thinking it, I lost it going into my 30s it’s not a big deal. Maybe develop a relationship with someone you trust and go from there. You can’t ever get anywhere if you don’t go beyond the dating phase. Test your limit, set your boundaries, and do some exploring. Of course not everyone deserves access to your body but don’t be afraid of going for it if something develops.
@@AImaniaX dude, thanks for the legitimate life advice! I’ve been dating someone I like lately and we’re actually vibing pretty well so yeah. I’m not gonna overthink it.
take it from a gay guy who came out at 16 and is 41 now. I've had plenty of sex. But never met anyone who liked me for me and wanted to be my boyfriend. Sex is overrated. You do you and wait for someone who values you for that
I get that she hasn’t found her “right person” yet. That doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with her. She’s also been quite devoted to her Olympic dreams, career, religion and probably friends and family.
You need to listen to men and what they want in women, instead of listening to other women who THINK K they k ow what men want. She hasn’t found the right person nor because she is a career woman or focused on her craft. She hadn’t found the right person because she is a very masculine woman. In other words, she doesn’t know what it takes to be a wife. She wouldn’t let her man lead. She literally said in an interview she only dates “A-listers”! In other words, a woman doesn’t set the standard on what she deserves, the man does. Same with men. If you’re a bum with kids running around, a high value, feminine, dismissive woman isn’t going for that type of man. It goes both ways. Either way Lolo, she is masculine, attention seeking, personality isn’t pleasant. This is an interview, so her words and personality isn’t really her. 40 year old women who are wife material don’t do videos on social media crying and whining and venting about their lives. That’s done for sympathy and attention, and women eat it up!
I'm 32 and still a virgin. I saw this video and clicked so fast! 😅..i will have my own God appointed husband soon In Jesus name Edit: So happy to find women who are also virgins in the comments! Who knew we had a tribe?? I love this..society was making me think it was bad and uncommon..but check out replies on my comment! This is great..I wish us all well
Morals and values or being extremely picky to the point no one will meet her standards? No man is perfect or THE ONE. You can't go decades not being able to find someone or else it's totally you.
Truly if I could turn back the time I'd be celibate and a virgin too. I gave mine to a man who was garbage and intimacy isn't all that ... so I'm happy for her!
I lost my virginity at 23 and definitely wish it occurred with someone else. I regret my selection, but being sexually active thought me so much I never knew about sex and myself. I wish her the best on her journey.
@Norah Elaine I'm single and so grateful for your perspective. I sometimes feel weird because I feel like I enjoy my time alone and think about what a crappy wife I'd be because I'm tired all the time. Sometimes I feel like weirdly, I know I won't enjoy married life but I feel like I can't have that opinion because I've never been married. Is the intimacy really not that great? I worry about things like that too 😕
alot of girls give it up at an early age of 13-17 & when they become adults, those are girls the ones men dont want to touch..Its one of the reasons so many men dont want to get married in today's world. Almost all girls nowadays have been ran through with alot of 8--->..i bet even the girls commenting on this vid saying they over 30s and they virgin..90%they lyin about that!!!!
Lol 😆. It's delusion. A girl can catch a fish a good one it may be a whale before 30. After 35 only thing u find in sea is crap or dead fish that too rotten one
I got married a virgin at 23 years old. My first son turns 18 this year. The wait was well worth it, 4 children and my marriage is solid in Christ Jesus. Love built without sex is solid. I did it for self-respect and because I later became a Christian. Lolo is a lovely, fit, beautiful woman. Many girls/women are still virgins and society should respect that, especially for our young ones. My 16 and almost 18 years old have made it clear to their friends that they are not having sex and their friends find it strange. It shouldn't be strange. The stigma is sharing your body with others that you tie your soul to.
I am so glad to read this. I am on the otherside now and can tell you that it pays. The trust, love, commitment and peace from having none or one body count is priceless.
This is so true. Love built without sex is solid. People will tell you different. But the bond is so much more because you have gotten to know intimacy on a much deeper level with someone when sex is not involved. I pray young girls or even women know they are worth the wait.
If I were a Virgin, I wouldn't be so sure I would tell the whole world that. The only ones who would receive private information about me are the ones that proved that they deserve to know that information about me! Yet, it takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable, especially with the public and for that alone, Lolo, I tip my hat off to you! #BeEncouraged
I understand your comment really, but I think that people should be ashamed that they are NOT a virgin especially women ; sex before marriage IS a filthy act. How would a man know if you didn't have multiple abortions when you're not a virgin ? People will not wear second hand clothes, why take a woman that other men has chewed & spit ? Your point of you is upside down just like the world.
I would say this though, I would love to hear and see more Virgin stories (Even those who reached their goal and waited til Marriage) more on public platforms AND in today's music rotation! It seems as everyone else gets their turn to be widely publicized and regarded, but Virgins!
I think LoLo should be able to do what she wants to do. She’s a rarity these days and very refreshing! God if this is your will, send the man that perfect for her🙏
WOW! Such a classy godly woman. We need more of these type of women in our world. I pray she finds the perfect godly man for her and they have beautiful children together.
The biggest issue is knowing if the man would want a child. If she is looking for candidates around her age, the older she gets, the harder it will be. Hopefully, she will be able to maintain happiness regardless of the outcome of her choice.
I can honestly say that Lolo Jones has always been open and honest with her truth and I commend her for that. It's not easy and I have followed her journey on and off. I wish her the absolute best on her journey to motherhood and marriage. It will happen Lolo, you've gotten this far. Peace and blessings!
That "it will happen" advice has gotten her to this point. Maybe when she was 23 she should have been a little more concerned about how it might not happen.
@@jonathanfarley2023 Well at least she's still alive to have a chance to meet Mr Right unlike so many others who are unalive because they picked a maniac to be with.
@@jonathanfarley2023 because woman's lives only revolve around this while men up until whatever age can continue impregnating woman that allow it and then get left to fend for themselves and that child. In her 40 years of life she has done more than a lot of us can only imagine. Its very sad that you would even have this mindset let alone speak on it. I really hope whatever your going through or have gone through, you stop deflecting on others and focus more on yourself and how you can be empowering to everyone and not just pick and choose. Peace and blessings!
This woman is amazing. She came from a broken home and homelessness to take on not one, but TWO different OLYMPIC sports. Who cares if she's a Virgin? She's freaking amazing.
Lolo is truly refreshing to listen to. She may be single but she has saved herself a lot of heart ache. That’s why she looks so young! Looks like a 25 year old! I applaud her courage and that she is ok with making a different choice than the masses! Wish more of people had this mindset!
Stand your ground until God wakes him up. Haters gonna hate! I’m in my 50s & still a virgin. The Lord has kept me & I thank Him e’ryday! You are a Blessed Woman of God & know that The Lord has a Blessed Man for you. God’s got this😉. I am sooooo happy for you🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I’m so proud of you sharing your story at this age. I’m 41 and am planning to freeze my eggs this year. Due to covid I could not do it earlier. Thank you, your story is giving me hope, the fact that you got so many viable eggs is amazing, inspiring and hopeful. Thank you again.
@ComeliteKang please freeze this year! Most doctors will let connect you to a payment plan if you need it- and depending on the doctor-they will NOT freeze eggs after you turn 42 or once you turn 43. AFTER 42 you you have to make embryos- not a lot if people know that. I think I’ll make a video about that. The needles are tiny I’m not sure why they’re saying that it’s painful it may be because they don’t have any fat on their stomach but when it goes into the fat they are so tiny you barely feel it… the pain comes from the bloating once the eggs - - and multiple eggs start growing inside of you
She’s a Christian - one who follows Christ - she’s not religious! Haven’t you seen religions that enact and encourage sexual acts, multiple partners e.t.c? Anything that is contrary to worldliness and mirrors Christ is always tagged as being “religious” to people who don’t know their left from right.
👏 Bravo for her standing by her beliefs and convictions. Reality is rather a woman chooses to remain a virgin or not doesn't guarantee Marriage simply because not all Men have the same conviction and desire for it. Sex isn't hard for men to get, as well as having children. Marriage is a Good Choice and so is remaining Single. It's about choosing the right Man that agrees with your convictions and beliefs. Blessings to her.
I love that blonde hair on you Beautiful Tamron Hall!😍💖 I pray that Lolo Jones meets the man of her dreams and they have beautiful healthy babies in Jesus Name Amen.🙏🏼❤️🕊️
Lolo didn't make becoming a wife/mother a priority in her prime child bearing years... now she is complaining about the outcome. If I were to do a Gnatt chart analysis of how much time and effort she put into her Olympic training vs how much time and effort she invested in trying to attract the attention of the type of husband she wanted, there would be a huge deficit favoring her athletic training. Lolo is a cautionary tale for young women. You don't have as much time as you think. Be strategic with your time and date accordingly.
The people who show Lolo hate are hilarious. Pple r in messy relationships, tolerating physical abuse, emotional abuse, financial abuse, raising children alone etc…. Let Lolo be…she lives a very high quality life, on her own terms, she will find the right man in time. STOP ENCOURAGING WOMEN TO SETTLE for nonsense. We shld crown her Queen for her level of morality ❤
Wow, I admire her! I'm a virgin and I'm 24, but I'm asexual so I'd like to die a virgin. But years ago I was also thinking about freezing my eggs and getting a surrogate when/if I get married, etc. It's so inspiring to see more women sticking to their standards and exploring different options.
I can tell u incase u change your mind.. if you’re female and straight , it’s going to hurt so much your first time Anyway and it sort of continues depending on how elastic you are he he , it honestly is like another job occasionally, or it has been when experienced with the incorrect people . I commend you ! Truly
@@melissamartinez3593 Thank you! Yes I've heard that from others and there's so many things I dislike about the idea of "the act",besides the pain, including that it becomes like a chore eventually, especially if they're selfish and I've heard many of them are. Then some women end up faking it to protect their egos and stuff. Just so many potentially situations I'd like to avoid related to IT.
@@malcolmxpanther I do; there's different types of asexuality. In my case, I can feel attracted to someone but I don't want to do the "deed", it just seems so repulsive to me on different levels and there's so many downsides and risks I'd like to avoid. And I hate the idea of touching someone else in their private areas and I like the idea of being touched, but also what I don't like about everything is the potential to turn into a freak. Never want to feel out of control over my body or constantly controlled by urges and I'm repulsed by what happens physically when you're in that "mood", I even get grossed out with myself and I feel like an animal, just not who I want to be. I probably sound crazy lol, but yeahh that's how I feel.
I am in Lolo Jones position right now and this snippet of the interview has resonated with me so deeply and so many of my other friends who are in their mid to late 30s who are attractive, educated, Swaggy, kind, loving, giving, and absolutely love Jesus with all their heart and mind. Makes me wonder where are the true Christian men who are also attractive, educated, smart, kind, swaggy and absolutely love Jesus? Kmt!!! 😔
Good for her, she is doing what's right. All these hater wish they could still say they are virgin. First time probably was with someone they can't remember what they look like. That is a gift from God to wait until marriage. No disease and don't have to count how many people you have been with. Go Lolo 😁
Completely agree with her when she was highlighting the point that when a woman decides to have a child naturally, she is celebrated; but the moment she decides to do IVF, she's not celebrated as much, and she's judged and pressured to adopt. At the end of the day, it's NO ONE'S business what a woman decides and chooses to do with her body and life with whichever choice she chooses to make.
This was refreshing to hear. I’m 39 abt to be 40 w/ no kids not. I’m not a virgin but I do desire to have a husband & a family w/ that husband. But I have def felt that panic when you start to feel like maybe I’m not good enough to be a mother/ something is wrong w/ me glad to know I wasn’t the only one who has felt like that
U don't need a psychologist..smh. Nothing's wrong w/ you. Everyone has their own path, just do what's right for u. A lot of women are having kids later in life. A lot of these celebrities like Tamron, Halle were well in their 40's so it can still happen for you! :)
I was with her until she said she would take care of a man. However, I commend her for being herself, and living her truth. Nothing is wrong with being a virgin. She knows her value, and I definitely commend her for that.
She ain't missing nothing when it comes to sex...the kind of slackness and nastiness going on is unbelievable...even when you think you find someone you can trust, they do selfish shit and may put your health in jeopardy...I wish I had never had sex...I never cared to have sex and it still isn't a big deal to me...I've also had lots of men ask me, how do you do it or I'll end up alone...men will make you feel bad and gaslight you when they want you, but you show no interest!!!...unless one really wants a family, then yes, do it, but never feel pressured by members of society who are unhappy doing what they're telling you to do...all the relationships I know are dysfunctional...a lot of them wish they hadn't gotten married or waited to have kids....most people feel the need to "play house" at some point, but if you don't listen to your actual needs, trouble usually awaits!!!
She is a high wage earner. I believe she meant that she would not expect a man to earn what she earns......that she would be the breadwinner. There are many financially strong women who earn more than their partners and ultimately "take care of" their partner and the family. She was just saying she doesn't mind if that happens.
Stay strong sis and ignore all the haters! They are jealous that they settled and did not have the will power and conviction that you have! God is always for you!!!! Focus on Christ!!!
I love that women can make the choice to be a virgin, celibate, or sexually active. This is how it should be. As a woman, I LOVE sex and was sexually active before marriage. I didn’t have a crazy amount of partners, but I learned what I want, like, and how to truly experience pleasure. WOMEN HAVING CHOICES!!!! That’s the KEY!!!!
People are talking about her being later blessed with the family she always desired and that's amazing, that is what we all hope for her. However I want to make it clear that for us Christians, this behavior is not about bribing God for a later blessing. Even if it was the will of God for us to remain virgins for life and not have children, we would have still chosen to go by His Word, because it is important to us to please Him above everything else, even our own hopes and dreams. Faith is not meant to be understood by people who don't have it. It seems crazy to outsiders. But we know what we believe in and we know how important it is for us to stay the course. Many blessings, Lolo, and may God shine his light upon you always.
I'm 32, Single and celibate since 2016 and waiting for my hubby. I can understand that she's waiting on God's best, the dating scene as Christians is hard. Loved her vulnerability
I wish her the best. I like that she says she wants to raise the child with a partner. I'm surprised that with her accomplishments and personality she hasn't found the one yet. Good for you, Lolo, in taking your life in your hands.
Right. I'm very surprised that at 40 years old and as pretty as she is, she hasn't found someone that could live up to her standards. You would think she has the pick of the litter looking the way she does.
God's got a way of confounding the wise. Keep believing in Jesus and the purpose and plans He has for you Lolo. God can change anything faster than the blink of an eye. I prayed for your heart's desires and God will answer according to His will. Get ready sis!
She really did amazingly waiting this long! Everyone giving her hate just hate the fact that they settled in life and freed up too soon! God is good, all the time! I really wish I’d waited!
What is hard is finding a man who is honest, loyal and trustworthy. I’m in my 40’s and still haven’t met such a man. If I would have wanted someone tall, dark, with great career bla, bla, bla yes all possible but at the same time this man having an honest character, heart and beautiful soul, fing impossible. I’m not even looking anymore. I prefer to give myself all the love, energy and beautiful life before dealing with AHs.
Applaud her decision, wholeheartedly. Yet, on several levels, this infertility issue is personal, having a child or children is not an easy feat to say the least. Being a parent is challenging and difficult( at least for me it was). I had my child at 30 and I was overwhelmed and not prepared. I hope she finds her match.
This was such an encouraging video. I’m a 21 yr old virgin and lately I’ve been finding it hard to still want to be a virgin mainly because I’m the only virgin among my family and friends that I know. But at the same time as I continue to remain a virgin God continues to reveal to me why he wants me this way. I also have high standards for myself and just don’t want to settle for anyone other than who God has for me.
I was a virgin all the way up to 22 and it was hard bc everyone else around me was having sex and by early 20's started having children and serious relationships so I really felt like I was behind and desperate to find my special someone and evolve with the rest. I'm glad I didn't wait until 40 but more power if you're happy.
As someone who is a virgin and patiently waiting for the right person, this was a good content for me . And I hate people expect everyone to be the same . Not all of us are sexually active and we shouldn’t be judge for it ! I think people need to learn to mind their own business. But I’m praying for the Lolo and women to find their right match that will love them and cherish them !
thank her for sharing her story to the world. finally I found someone that I can relate to, has the same ideas and values. 💯❤️ all the blessings to her 🙏🏼 ❤️ 🙌
Go girl - You're beautiful Lolo, both inside and out! Seeing a flawless beauty, in this age remain pure is so encouraging. Remember insecure and jealous people aren't hard to come by, however true children of God are!
Miss Jones stop dating! Don't ask your family & friends to match you up. Ask GOD,HE has a Created One just for you. GOD knows the desires of your heart. While you're waiting get ready for your husband. Ask GOD to connect you two when you're both ready. You both have to be evenly yoked or it won't work. Keep waiting on GOD. Your husband will be worth the wait! Keep shining Queen! ✝️🙏🏼♥️
I love the Tamron Hall show. Nothing but interesting people and good stories worth sharing. I haven't seen one show that doesn't deliver a good dose of a special medly of entertainment, education,inspiration and just plain Ol humanity with a twist of fun. Great Show! 👍👌🍿
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Lolo is not an anomaly. There are women and men who are over 40 that have not had sex. Sometimes it's high standards, religion, not a lot of opportunity and sometimes people just have no interest. I applaud her for being open and honest about her choice. I actually hope that young people are inspired to wait for the right partner because sex isn't a sport. Sex is and was meant to be our sacred gift.
You are correct, I am one of them.
Me too!
Beautifully stated ❤
Amen
43, virgin. I'm with a very understanding man right now, he know he can't get the cookies until wedding night.
Lolo Jones is a 5 star Christian ❤ She is living her faith. I pray that The Lord rewards her for her faithfulness.
amen
Exactly a general
She's half warm. She supports the gay relationships of her friends. Credit: MTV's The Challenge.
@@georgina4874 100%.
Freezing eggs does not align with Christian teachings, but I do wish her the best
It’s impossible to win in society! For the women who sleep around they’re labeled used goods and the ones who want to remain a virgin are labeled defective! They want what they want when they want it. You do you sister ❤
I think it's more of it being bc she is 40 so it'll be hard to get pregnant.
Rightly so
@@jclyntoledo There are a lot of 40 year old women still dating without kids right now. People respond by saying things like "You'll meet the right one, it'll happen, and you'll have kids before you know it so don't give up". What sets her apart is her virginity. Because she's a virgin people see her at fault for not having the family and kids she desires. People see her as a woman that isn't actually "trying".
@@jclyntoledo that data is from the 1600s btw. There is no age cap lol
Yes you’re catching on. It’s the men. They need to mature as headship
40 yr old virgin... she's a TRUE role model!!!✨
Exactly i wish i wait much longer. I was 25 when i lost my but it didn work out with my ex boyfriend hou i lost my virgin to. I wish i wait until i got married but to late
how? waiting does not mean you will have a great relationship. but to each their own.
Well, I’m 44 and I’m still a virgin.
@@teresaautreyexperience Exactly, and she could be a 40 year old virgin due to the fact that she passed up many good men because her standards were way too high. This is typical.
a lot of virgins doesn't have a choice but to be virgins.
This is amazing to watch, as a 33-year-old virgin. It's something I'm very proud of and I'm so happy to see that there are other women doing the same. It's so sad that doing something so virtuous receives such criticism. You really begin to see how accurate biblical prophesies are- what's wrong will be considered right, and what's right will be considered wrong. Being promiscuous, under the notion of exploring your sexuality, is praised these days.
God's time is the best Brit there is no rush I waited until I got married at 33 yrs. ❤❤❤❤
Same here at 33 and I'm proud of the commitment I made to God. Thank you for sharing your story!
Your right if better to wait until Married i regret i didn wait i lost my at 25
@@vanda3393 it is! You actually did really good, in terms of how long you held out! People are losing theirs at MUCH earlier ages, so that says a lot about your individuality.
@@getupwithzandim2673 Indeed! 🤗 That’s great! Kudos to you!
Lolo: "A Girl can catch a fish, it is the right fish i'm trying to catch".💯 THAT PART!!!
That line made me crack up too.she so right.Quality is always better than quantity!!!
Powerful statement Belonce❤
@Susel OMG!!! Your comment made me laugh out loud!!! 💀
Exactly. People think it’s hard getting a man or getting married. It isn’t. I know men looking for papers that marry very quickly and the women they marry think it’s for genuine reasons. Going around screaming ‘my husband’. And then years down the line they break up and she’s soo shocked even though family or friends told her. Btw break up always happens once he gets the papers of course. But I digress. It’s not hard to get a man/ husband. It’s the quality. I know many women just end up desperate. Settle and are miserable. Women no longer want that nor have to put up with it.
What she has to realize is that she's not the only one who's "fishing" 👈🤣
A marriage-minded, high value man wants PEACE👈, in his house, in his family, and in his life.
Bring that man PEACE, and everything else will fall into place.
If she's unable or unwilling to provide that, she's gonna be by herself for a long, long time.....🤔
I am proud of you. I froze my eggs at age 39. It was hard on my body too. Also, I am proud of you remaining a virgin and keeping your standards high. Don’t listen to the haters!! You can find love in your 40s, 50s, etc. I just turned 43 and I still believe that I will find my person. 😊😊
I am 49 and we have to stay positive 😁
Of course, you will find your future husband ; and you have your unborn babies waiting for you, so you have nothing to worry about.
I’m 41 and believe that I will find my person also. God has not forgotten about us. ❤️
I got married at 47 years. Love is always possible!
Amen and amen in Jesus name Amen.
He'll come, GOD is working on it, and there won't be any regrets.
Amen.
I love her standards.I didn't get married till 34 and then had a baby.I had my son last year at at 38.Good for her
Hey I was 32 had a baby at 34had my tubes at 35my husband was not helping me at all long story short he died with cancer after 15 yes of marriage 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Was the experience different? Between 34 and later on at 38. I always have this fear that it would be super hard😣 and I'm 28
God's time is the best Caren I had my first son at 34 as well❤
@anonymous Exactly...
Why are you ladies so obsessed with having a baby and falling in love with some goon. Priority should be your finances... Car, 🏠 house,travel,save 💰 save money.. not that..blinded by the light 🚨 nonese.. SMH 🤔
I got married at 35 and got my first kid at 39- it’s never too late to have your beautiful family.
The thing is, yes, sometimes it is too late.
@Kaydee who said giving birth she said having a family.
Were you a virgin when you got married?
STOP LYING
.....THATS A LIE......HAVING A FAMILY IS VERY MUCH TIED TO YOUTH......WOMEN RUN OUT OF EGGS AND CHILDBIRTH WITH YOUR LAST BATCH OF EGGS BECOMES VERY RISKY
Our hyper-sexual society tells us that sex is the be all end all of life. IT IS NOT. I got married at 34 and the partnership is way more important than the sex. If you don’t want to have sex before marriage or until later in life; it’s not a big deal. And no one should be stigmatized for it. Having sex later and with one/few partners saves you from heartache, disease, and unwanted pregnancy.
Who was you fxcking? 😂 I love my sex life
Girl. Most these guys don’t even know what their doing anyway and studies back this up.
@@gailainsley6939 exactly! Heterosexual women have the least orgasms. It's not even that great. Better to atleast learn with a life partner
I am a 38 year-old virgin and the Lord processed me to a place of PEACE. Lola, you are NOT alone and I too will not compromise my body because I wanna honor the Lord even with my heart. I pray for my husband, date and pray over my womb often so I celebrate you and your BOLDNESS.
I'm appreciate you
Do you mind sharing how you pray over your womb? Sometimes I think about praying about my future husband but then I think to myself "if God wanted you to be be married with kids, you would be by now. There must be something wrong with you and that's why you're still alone" 😢 I'm also 38, single and a virgin and I worry that when I finally find someone it will be too late for children ☹️
@@fruitytarian Whenever I am praying, I place my hand on my lower stomach/abdomen area and I declare LIFE over my womb. I pray in the shower touching my stomach too. That the kids in my womb and around me will be leaders and not followers and I'll raise them in the ways of God. I come against sickness and disease, etc. Hope this helps but if you're interested in my work and how I support women, inbox me on Instagram and my channel
God's time is the best Dr Lorneka❤
@@fruitytarian To all the women: Let's stop this negative talk RIGHT NOW beautiful, talented and loving women. My eldest sibling has a son who is 46 years old. Our mother got pregnant at 40 and 44. My 46 year old nephew has an uncle that is 42 and one that is 38 years old. Sister pregnant at 43, child preparing for collge. It's all in HIS Hands and HIS Plans for his precious children that are walking upright.
Sarah was childless until she was 90 years old. God promised Abraham that she would be “a mother of nations” (Genesis 17:16) and that she would conceive and bear a son, but Sarah did not believe. Genesis 17:17 Abraham fell facedown. Then he laughed and said to himself, "Can a child be born to a man who is a hundred years old? Can Sarah give birth at the age of ninety?" Genesis 17:18 And Abraham said to God, "O that Ishmael might live under Your blessing!"
Genesis 21:5 Abraham was a hundred years old when his son Isaac was born to him.
I applaud her. I, too, was a virgin when I married at age 42. We’ve been married for a few years now and praying for babies.
I’m praying that you guys have a lot of kids that are healthy and joyful! Don’t lose hope, it’s coming ❤️
You have no idea that is coming for them. Yes, we can pray for them but the reality is that it’s not 100% possible. In fact it’s around 3-6% per IVF round - if the article I read an hour ago is right. I am glad we are positive for each other but ridiculous statements like this are false and misguided and misguiding. Don’t be positive to a dishonest fault, please. It’s not good for the reader/original poster and maybe you feel good about yourself when you type it but it’s absurd and laughable when other read it and are able to see the big picture and the full truth.
I do pray that this couples dreams come true - of COURSE- but I’m also a realist.
Forget the babies. We don’t need more humans destroying the planet. Do you orgasm? Does your sex with your long-awaited one and only lover- does it satisfy and please you as you deserve? I’m genuinely curious.
@@mariametheexplorer Yes, encourage more selfish people to breed new humans into an overpopulated world full of suffering and adversity. No big deal, right? There are hundreds of thousands of children who need homes, but y’all would rather spend that same money putting your body through hell, praying to get knocked up and experience a miserable, high risk pregnancy for a baby, when there a children who need that love and a home.
🙏🏾🙏🏾
I applaud anyone who sticks to their own values and walks their own path despite what society constantly shoves down our throat. You do you, girl 🙌
A.men.❤️.🙂
Yup. When it's this extreme it's called being a basket case.
I do too. She’s walking her own path. Not being desperate to settle down just because it’s what’s expected of her. She knows what she wants and is willing to hold out for it even if it means she ends up with nothing at all. That’s some real self discipline, courage and determination and I can see more women doing this in the future. Choosing themselves and happiness over all else. ☺️
She’s a victim of feminism. It’s sad not something. We should be praising
society doesn't really care to be honest.
I lost my virginity @26. I wish I waited . it's been almost 20yrs of no sex and I am happy to be celibate. Go Lolo, @over 45 I still have faith I will find a man and have twins. You are young, beautiful, successful and lover of God. God will honour your faith in Him greatly.
God is faithful
Did you freeze your eggs????
I have been celibate for 15 yrs. I am almost and have been celibate since I was 21
36 Year Old Virgin Here! I’m Happy More People Are Sharing Their Stories ❤️❤️❤️
I’m 33 and constantly feel like a freak for never having sex, but honestly? I’ve never found someone I connected with enough to have sex with. Lolo is incredible for making people like us feel normal.
Please stop over thinking it, I lost it going into my 30s it’s not a big deal.
Maybe develop a relationship with someone you trust and go from there. You can’t ever get anywhere if you don’t go beyond the dating phase. Test your limit, set your boundaries, and do some exploring. Of course not everyone deserves access to your body but don’t be afraid of going for it if something develops.
@@AImaniaX dude, thanks for the legitimate life advice! I’ve been dating someone I like lately and we’re actually vibing pretty well so yeah. I’m not gonna overthink it.
take it from a gay guy who came out at 16 and is 41 now. I've had plenty of sex. But never met anyone who liked me for me and wanted to be my boyfriend. Sex is overrated. You do you and wait for someone who values you for that
I get that she hasn’t found her “right person” yet. That doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with her. She’s also been quite devoted to her Olympic dreams, career, religion and probably friends and family.
absolutely 💛Yes.✨🙂
You need to listen to men and what they want in women, instead of listening to other women who THINK K they k ow what men want.
She hasn’t found the right person nor because she is a career woman or focused on her craft. She hadn’t found the right person because she is a very masculine woman. In other words, she doesn’t know what it takes to be a wife. She wouldn’t let her man lead. She literally said in an interview she only dates “A-listers”!
In other words, a woman doesn’t set the standard on what she deserves, the man does. Same with men. If you’re a bum with kids running around, a high value, feminine, dismissive woman isn’t going for that type of man. It goes both ways. Either way Lolo, she is masculine, attention seeking, personality isn’t pleasant. This is an interview, so her words and personality isn’t really her. 40 year old women who are wife material don’t do videos on social media crying and whining and venting about their lives. That’s done for sympathy and attention, and women eat it up!
I believe God will bless her with the right man.
...But first, GOD will bless her with the sacred knowledge of being Whole (content without a Man or own family) first! #AMEN
When she drops the anxiety. When you lose faith, you chase your blessings away.
That part Bumblebee, THAT Part! 👊 #JustFlowLoLo #JustFlow 🙏
@@bumblebee4280 absolutely 💯I have learned this myself .
I'm 32 and still a virgin. I saw this video and clicked so fast! 😅..i will have my own God appointed husband soon In Jesus name
Edit: So happy to find women who are also virgins in the comments! Who knew we had a tribe?? I love this..society was making me think it was bad and uncommon..but check out replies on my comment! This is great..I wish us all well
Me too I’m 31
Amen
Me 3 lol I think we’ve found our tribe in the comments of this video love to see it!
@@jennifere9031 yay! Im so happy to see this..my sister its not easy oh..but God will strengthen us and not let our wait be in vain
People will always talk, who cares???Be you. Be you. Be you.Stay true to yourself and stand firm on your faith!!!🙏
I love LOLO. Her morals and values have always been commended.
Morals and values or being extremely picky to the point no one will meet her standards? No man is perfect or THE ONE. You can't go decades not being able to find someone or else it's totally you.
Truly if I could turn back the time I'd be celibate and a virgin too. I gave mine to a man who was garbage and intimacy isn't all that ... so I'm happy for her!
I lost my virginity at 23 and definitely wish it occurred with someone else. I regret my selection, but being sexually active thought me so much I never knew about sex and myself. I wish her the best on her journey.
@Norah Elaine I'm single and so grateful for your perspective. I sometimes feel weird because I feel like I enjoy my time alone and think about what a crappy wife I'd be because I'm tired all the time. Sometimes I feel like weirdly, I know I won't enjoy married life but I feel like I can't have that opinion because I've never been married. Is the intimacy really not that great? I worry about things like that too 😕
alot of girls give it up at an early age of 13-17 & when they become adults, those are girls the ones men dont want to touch..Its one of the reasons so many men dont want to get married in today's world. Almost all girls nowadays have been ran through with alot of 8--->..i bet even the girls commenting on this vid saying they over 30s and they virgin..90%they lyin about that!!!!
" a girl can catch a fish ,it's the right fish I'm trying to catch". Girl that right there was gold!
Lol 😆. It's delusion.
A girl can catch a fish a good one it may be a whale before 30. After 35 only thing u find in sea is crap or dead fish that too rotten one
@@lonewarrior8245 Nope.
@@kaoutermouslimhaliba7145 ok catch a whale when you are 40+
As a 35 year old virgin, thank you for being honest and not “less than”.
I'm a 35 year old virgin as well and I approve this message ☺
I got married a virgin at 23 years old. My first son turns 18 this year. The wait was well worth it, 4 children and my marriage is solid in Christ Jesus. Love built without sex is solid. I did it for self-respect and because I later became a Christian. Lolo is a lovely, fit, beautiful woman. Many girls/women are still virgins and society should respect that, especially for our young ones. My 16 and almost 18 years old have made it clear to their friends that they are not having sex and their friends find it strange. It shouldn't be strange. The stigma is sharing your body with others that you tie your soul to.
I'm 23 and waiting now. Everytime I get on TH-cam and see so many women my age or older waiting, it really encourages me.
I am so glad to read this. I am on the otherside now and can tell you that it pays. The trust, love, commitment and peace from having none or one body count is priceless.
@@anissa2361 yes! I’m 27 and I feel encouraged by Lolo and you all. God has a plan and we cannot rush Him.
@@tyreebrownart at all, you rush you lose. Waiting pays
This is so true. Love built without sex is solid. People will tell you different. But the bond is so much more because you have gotten to know intimacy on a much deeper level with someone when sex is not involved. I pray young girls or even women know they are worth the wait.
If I were a Virgin, I wouldn't be so sure I would tell the whole world that. The only ones who would receive private information about me are the ones that proved that they deserve to know that information about me! Yet, it takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable, especially with the public and for that alone, Lolo, I tip my hat off to you! #BeEncouraged
True only my close family know not the whole world
I understand your comment really, but I think that people should be ashamed that they are NOT a virgin especially women ; sex before marriage IS a filthy act. How would a man know if you didn't have multiple abortions when you're not a virgin ? People will not wear second hand clothes, why take a woman that other men has chewed & spit ? Your point of you is upside down just like the world.
I get it. She has a platform and chose to share so that others will know they aren't alone in this.
I would say this though, I would love to hear and see more Virgin stories (Even those who reached their goal and waited til Marriage) more on public platforms AND in today's music rotation! It seems as everyone else gets their turn to be widely publicized and regarded, but Virgins!
I applaud her. Some folks publicize that they are THOT. All different in opinions.
That’s so honourable. I’m also waiting and it’s lovely to see other women on this path.
Waiting for a prince that doesn't exist
My daughter is 35, beautiful, a teacher, and getting her masters in Administration! She has never been in a rush! She’s happy! ❤️❤️🙏🏼
This was a very refreshing interview! Hats off to Lolo Jones for remaining committed to her faith! She will be blessed for waiting for the one.
I don’t understand why people hate or get triggered when someone says they are still virgins
It’s crazy!
Shame.
Shame and regret
Who knows. I've waited and I'm 41... Don't see the problem.
I think LoLo should be able to do what she wants to do. She’s a rarity these days and very refreshing! God if this is your will, send the man that perfect for her🙏
WOW! Such a classy godly woman. We need more of these type of women in our world. I pray she finds the perfect godly man for her and they have beautiful children together.
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Lolo is such an honest, smart, beautiful and successful woman. Her man will come when the time is right! Bravo, for not settling for less
The biggest issue is knowing if the man would want a child. If she is looking for candidates around her age, the older she gets, the harder it will be. Hopefully, she will be able to maintain happiness regardless of the outcome of her choice.
delusional 🦁
I can honestly say that Lolo Jones has always been open and honest with her truth and I commend her for that. It's not easy and I have followed her journey on and off. I wish her the absolute best on her journey to motherhood and marriage. It will happen Lolo, you've gotten this far. Peace and blessings!
That "it will happen" advice has gotten her to this point. Maybe when she was 23 she should have been a little more concerned about how it might not happen.
@@jonathanfarley2023
Concerned?
What do you think she could have done different?
Men don't like to be chased.
@@jonathanfarley2023 Well at least she's still alive to have a chance to meet Mr Right unlike so many others who are unalive because they picked a maniac to be with.
@@jonathanfarley2023 because woman's lives only revolve around this while men up until whatever age can continue impregnating woman that allow it and then get left to fend for themselves and that child. In her 40 years of life she has done more than a lot of us can only imagine. Its very sad that you would even have this mindset let alone speak on it. I really hope whatever your going through or have gone through, you stop deflecting on others and focus more on yourself and how you can be empowering to everyone and not just pick and choose. Peace and blessings!
Now she is a real role model!!!!! Let's pray for her 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I don't blame her. Stand for what you believe in. The right one will respect it.
This woman is amazing. She came from a broken home and homelessness to take on not one, but TWO different OLYMPIC sports. Who cares if she's a Virgin? She's freaking amazing.
Lolo is truly refreshing to listen to. She may be single but she has saved herself a lot of heart ache. That’s why she looks so young! Looks like a 25 year old! I applaud her courage and that she is ok with making a different choice than the masses! Wish more of people had this mindset!
God will make a way for you Lolo!
We parallel in so many ways. Stay the course Lolo!
Latreese, she is rich , careful , she should not be emulated
Yes, me too!
Stand your ground until God wakes him up. Haters gonna hate! I’m in my 50s & still a virgin. The Lord has kept me & I thank Him e’ryday! You are a Blessed Woman of God & know that The Lord has a Blessed Man for you. God’s got this😉. I am sooooo happy for you🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I wish her all the luck with love and becoming a mom. Her soulmate is out there.
I’m so proud of you sharing your story at this age. I’m 41 and am planning to freeze my eggs this year. Due to covid I could not do it earlier. Thank you, your story is giving me hope, the fact that you got so many viable eggs is amazing, inspiring and hopeful. Thank you again.
@ComeliteKang please freeze this year! Most doctors will let connect you to a payment plan if you need it- and depending on the doctor-they will NOT freeze eggs after you turn 42 or once you turn 43. AFTER 42 you you have to make embryos- not a lot if people know that. I think I’ll make a video about that. The needles are tiny I’m not sure why they’re saying that it’s painful it may be because they don’t have any fat on their stomach but when it goes into the fat they are so tiny you barely feel it… the pain comes from the bloating once the eggs - - and multiple eggs start growing inside of you
Yes don't count yourself out about having viable eggs . My friend also had more than expected at 40. Best wishes
@@softblackwoman This is great info for those thinking women of doing it; I hope she gets cracking👍
I hope u have started as the process looks long and painful
I am virgin at 29, but not religious, however I'm glad to have found a lot of people like me. 😲😏
She’s a Christian - one who follows Christ - she’s not religious!
Haven’t you seen religions that enact and encourage sexual acts, multiple partners e.t.c? Anything that is contrary to worldliness and mirrors Christ is always tagged as being “religious” to people who don’t know their left from right.
@@N...213 well, religious Nor christian I ain't. And I also respect others whom have an active sexual life. That's cool too.
👏 Bravo for her standing by her beliefs and convictions. Reality is rather a woman chooses to remain a virgin or not doesn't guarantee Marriage simply because not all Men have the same conviction and desire for it. Sex isn't hard for men to get, as well as having children. Marriage is a Good Choice and so is remaining Single. It's about choosing the right Man that agrees with your convictions and beliefs. Blessings to her.
I love that blonde hair on you Beautiful Tamron Hall!😍💖
I pray that Lolo Jones meets the man of her dreams and they have beautiful healthy babies in Jesus Name Amen.🙏🏼❤️🕊️
Amen!!!
AMEN🙏🏽💖
Amen.
Lolo Jones, she's a great role for young girls and young women everywhere.
I support her message.😇
Sep 26th 2022
Lolo didn't make becoming a wife/mother a priority in her prime child bearing years... now she is complaining about the outcome. If I were to do a Gnatt chart analysis of how much time and effort she put into her Olympic training vs how much time and effort she invested in trying to attract the attention of the type of husband she wanted, there would be a huge deficit favoring her athletic training. Lolo is a cautionary tale for young women. You don't have as much time as you think. Be strategic with your time and date accordingly.
The people who show Lolo hate are hilarious. Pple r in messy relationships, tolerating physical abuse, emotional abuse, financial abuse, raising children alone etc…. Let Lolo be…she lives a very high quality life, on her own terms, she will find the right man in time. STOP ENCOURAGING WOMEN TO SETTLE for nonsense. We shld crown her Queen for her level of morality ❤
Wow. I’m so impressed. I commend her and God Bless Her!
Wow, I admire her! I'm a virgin and I'm 24, but I'm asexual so I'd like to die a virgin. But years ago I was also thinking about freezing my eggs and getting a surrogate when/if I get married, etc. It's so inspiring to see more women sticking to their standards and exploring different options.
I can tell u incase u change your mind.. if you’re female and straight , it’s going to hurt so much your first time Anyway and it sort of continues depending on how elastic you are he he , it honestly is like another job occasionally, or it has been when experienced with the incorrect people . I commend you ! Truly
How does someone actually be asexual ? You don’t get turned on or yearn physical touch at all ?
@@melissamartinez3593 Thank you! Yes I've heard that from others and there's so many things I dislike about the idea of "the act",besides the pain, including that it becomes like a chore eventually, especially if they're selfish and I've heard many of them are. Then some women end up faking it to protect their egos and stuff. Just so many potentially situations I'd like to avoid related to IT.
@@malcolmxpanther I do; there's different types of asexuality. In my case, I can feel attracted to someone but I don't want to do the "deed", it just seems so repulsive to me on different levels and there's so many downsides and risks I'd like to avoid. And I hate the idea of touching someone else in their private areas and I like the idea of being touched, but also what I don't like about everything is the potential to turn into a freak. Never want to feel out of control over my body or constantly controlled by urges and I'm repulsed by what happens physically when you're in that "mood", I even get grossed out with myself and I feel like an animal, just not who I want to be. I probably sound crazy lol, but yeahh that's how I feel.
A lot of women don’t sexually peak until their 30s. I had zero sexual desire until my 30s also. It’s actually quite normal.
I love her for that respecting her body and her self people don’t understand the meaning behind sex I wish I At wait it
I am in Lolo Jones position right now and this snippet of the interview has resonated with me so deeply and so many of my other friends who are in their mid to late 30s who are attractive, educated, Swaggy, kind, loving, giving, and absolutely love Jesus with all their heart and mind. Makes me wonder where are the true Christian men who are also attractive, educated, smart, kind, swaggy and absolutely love Jesus? Kmt!!! 😔
That's what I want to know lol.
@@DH-uw3us Girl!!! 🤣🤣🤣😂
Hhhmmmmm, am wondering the same thing!!!😁
@@candyb9463 there’s so many of us out here like, weh deh at?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@tishainnis fuh real.True thing that!!!.....🙂🙏
Good for her, she is doing what's right. All these hater wish they could still say they are virgin. First time probably was with someone they can't remember what they look like. That is a gift from God to wait until marriage. No disease and don't have to count how many people you have been with. Go Lolo 😁
I'm 28 year old virgin. this is so inspiring, I've never heard her speak but man she speaks with so much confidence and boldness, I love here!!
Completely agree with her when she was highlighting the point that when a woman decides to have a child naturally, she is celebrated; but the moment she decides to do IVF, she's not celebrated as much, and she's judged and pressured to adopt. At the end of the day, it's NO ONE'S business what a woman decides and chooses to do with her body and life with whichever choice she chooses to make.
This is not true. Many women are choosing IVF and surrogacy because their careers come first.
This was refreshing to hear. I’m 39 abt to be 40 w/ no kids not. I’m not a virgin but I do desire to have a husband & a family w/ that husband. But I have def felt that panic when you start to feel like maybe I’m not good enough to be a mother/ something is wrong w/ me glad to know I wasn’t the only one who has felt like that
Just look at the reality to understand your thoughts are fictional. Billions of bad people procreate, date, and marry.
Are you a Christian?
@@sadraolaedo4733 yes I am
Go for it, woman!
As for your doubts of being a good mother, maybe it would be a good idea to work with a psychologist too.
U don't need a psychologist..smh. Nothing's wrong w/ you. Everyone has their own path, just do what's right for u. A lot of women are having kids later in life. A lot of these celebrities like Tamron, Halle were well in their 40's so it can still happen for you! :)
I was with her until she said she would take care of a man. However, I commend her for being herself, and living her truth. Nothing is wrong with being a virgin. She knows her value, and I definitely commend her for that.
Yeah that part is crazy . Rather have a lazy man who works out 🤔 she should never say that out loud
Same girl, same. I hope that she does not lower her standards in that area
She ain't missing nothing when it comes to sex...the kind of slackness and nastiness going on is unbelievable...even when you think you find someone you can trust, they do selfish shit and may put your health in jeopardy...I wish I had never had sex...I never cared to have sex and it still isn't a big deal to me...I've also had lots of men ask me, how do you do it or I'll end up alone...men will make you feel bad and gaslight you when they want you, but you show no interest!!!...unless one really wants a family, then yes, do it, but never feel pressured by members of society who are unhappy doing what they're telling you to do...all the relationships I know are dysfunctional...a lot of them wish they hadn't gotten married or waited to have kids....most people feel the need to "play house" at some point, but if you don't listen to your actual needs, trouble usually awaits!!!
She is a high wage earner. I believe she meant that she would not expect a man to earn what she earns......that she would be the breadwinner. There are many financially strong women who earn more than their partners and ultimately "take care of" their partner and the family. She was just saying she doesn't mind if that happens.
@@elizabethbrandon677 men have done that fr decades or even a millenia
Everything she wants will come true...I've seen it several times....stay true to your beliefs Lolo, God's perfect timing is coming your way.
Amen
Amen!!!
World is messed up when people attack someone for such a belief.
She knows what she wants and she is not budging . I love it ♥️😩
Miss Lolo you are amazing, hearing you speak is reassuring of virtue and says it's ok to live different and not yield to popular opinion.
Stay strong sis and ignore all the haters! They are jealous that they settled and did not have the will power and conviction that you have! God is always for you!!!! Focus on Christ!!!
Virgin at 40😊. I love it. Big up yuhself!
I love that women can make the choice to be a virgin, celibate, or sexually active. This is how it should be. As a woman, I LOVE sex and was sexually active before marriage. I didn’t have a crazy amount of partners, but I learned what I want, like, and how to truly experience pleasure. WOMEN HAVING CHOICES!!!! That’s the KEY!!!!
That's true freedom. To choose whatever fits your needs.
Go Lolo. I'm in the same boat as you! Waiting for Mr right faithfully as time goes on. Rooting for you! God has your back!
People are talking about her being later blessed with the family she always desired and that's amazing, that is what we all hope for her. However I want to make it clear that for us Christians, this behavior is not about bribing God for a later blessing.
Even if it was the will of God for us to remain virgins for life and not have children, we would have still chosen to go by His Word, because it is important to us to please Him above everything else, even our own hopes and dreams.
Faith is not meant to be understood by people who don't have it. It seems crazy to outsiders. But we know what we believe in and we know how important it is for us to stay the course. Many blessings, Lolo, and may God shine his light upon you always.
Shooooo well said my sister❤
I'm 32, Single and celibate since 2016 and waiting for my hubby. I can understand that she's waiting on God's best, the dating scene as Christians is hard. Loved her vulnerability
God's time is the best sisi❤
@@getupwithzandim2673 yes 🛐
I applaud you Lolo...well done! Waiting is not an easy journey but the God you trust in will surely come through 🙏
I wish her the best. I like that she says she wants to raise the child with a partner. I'm surprised that with her accomplishments and personality she hasn't found the one yet. Good for you, Lolo, in taking your life in your hands.
Agree. You would think she has come across another Christian athlete that has the same interest and values .
Right. I'm very surprised that at 40 years old and as pretty as she is, she hasn't found someone that could live up to her standards. You would think she has the pick of the litter looking the way she does.
@@DH-uw3us Most likely she is easily annoyed by people and looking for someone who believes and behaves just like her in all aspects of living.
Well said Lolo. This is so encouraging to me, as I can relate to just about everything that was said. Much respect.
She is one strong and mature woman, I applaude her 👏
You go girl! It's your life, live it your way. ❤
Me being a 30 old virgin woman who loves Jesus sends you love ❤️
This is the best platform Lolo! The whole world knows now, all the best 😊
God's got a way of confounding the wise. Keep believing in Jesus and the purpose and plans He has for you Lolo. God can change anything faster than the blink of an eye. I prayed for your heart's desires and God will answer according to His will. Get ready sis!
Amazing woman. If life could have a rewind button i would do things different. Wishing her the best.
Omg I love her so much! I love everything about her boldness and authenticity!
She really did amazingly waiting this long! Everyone giving her hate just hate the fact that they settled in life and freed up too soon! God is good, all the time! I really wish I’d waited!
I celebrate you Lolo Jones. Stay strong always. Much love 😍
What is hard is finding a man who is honest, loyal and trustworthy. I’m in my 40’s and still haven’t met such a man. If I would have wanted someone tall, dark, with great career bla, bla, bla yes all possible but at the same time this man having an honest character, heart and beautiful soul, fing impossible. I’m not even looking anymore. I prefer to give myself all the love, energy and beautiful life before dealing with AHs.
Applaud her decision, wholeheartedly. Yet, on several levels, this infertility issue is personal, having a child or children is not an easy feat to say the least. Being a parent is challenging and difficult( at least for me it was). I had my child at 30 and I was overwhelmed and not prepared. I hope she finds her match.
This was such an encouraging video. I’m a 21 yr old virgin and lately I’ve been finding it hard to still want to be a virgin mainly because I’m the only virgin among my family and friends that I know. But at the same time as I continue to remain a virgin God continues to reveal to me why he wants me this way. I also have high standards for myself and just don’t want to settle for anyone other than who God has for me.
You aren’t alone! I pray that you find your TRIBE. TRUST ME they envy you!!
The best way to remain a virgin and please god is to marry young
I was a virgin all the way up to 22 and it was hard bc everyone else around me was having sex and by early 20's started having children and serious relationships so I really felt like I was behind and desperate to find my special someone and evolve with the rest. I'm glad I didn't wait until 40 but more power if you're happy.
She doing better then a lot Christian of today. She shouldn't be having this problem this how it is today world even in the church
This is a story of knowing yourself and not settling or giving up on yourself. 💗👏👏
Kudos to Lolo! 👍🏾. I pray that GOD will bless you with the right husband to continue your life journey with. I'm waiting on mine as well! 🙏🏾
Tamron is still so fine .
Sry bruh she has a whyte man. Hence why the dumb blonde look
No reason for her not to be 💗
I respect her wholeheartedly 👏
SHE'S NOT MISSING ANYTHING!!!!!
What a blessing to be a virgin at 40
@Mesa Black jealousy jealousy
As someone who is a virgin and patiently waiting for the right person, this was a good content for me . And I hate people expect everyone to be the same . Not all of us are sexually active and we shouldn’t be judge for it ! I think people need to learn to mind their own business. But I’m praying for the Lolo and women to find their right match that will love them and cherish them !
I support your decision, young lady !
thank her for sharing her story to the world. finally I found someone that I can relate to, has the same ideas and values. 💯❤️ all the blessings to her 🙏🏼 ❤️ 🙌
She’s inspirational!! I’m rooting for her 💯 % 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I'm 24 a virgin and waiting for marriage. So I fully support LoLo stick to it sis the right man will come along ❤️😍.
Wow she’s a 🦄 beautiful & awesome ! Hope she marries and becomes a fantastic mom someday
Go girl - You're beautiful Lolo, both inside and out! Seeing a flawless beauty, in this age remain pure is so encouraging. Remember insecure and jealous people aren't hard to come by, however true children of God are!
I'm so proud of you Lolo God bless you 🙏🏽
GO LOLO Round of applause and hello she is STUNNING! Very good, and don't give up and go it alone if you have to nothing is better than Christ anyway
Miss Jones stop dating! Don't ask your family & friends to match you up. Ask GOD,HE has a Created One just for you. GOD knows the desires of your heart. While you're waiting get ready for your husband. Ask GOD to connect you two when you're both ready. You both have to be evenly yoked or it won't work. Keep waiting on GOD. Your husband will be worth the wait! Keep shining Queen! ✝️🙏🏼♥️
I don’t think it works that way. Will God just send someone to knock at her front door? God created people to help each other.
I love the Tamron Hall show. Nothing but interesting people and good stories worth sharing. I haven't seen one show that doesn't deliver a good dose of a special medly of entertainment, education,inspiration and just plain Ol humanity with a twist of fun.
Great Show! 👍👌🍿
I love her. I'm 29 years old virgin and I'm saving enough to freeze my eggs because it is soo expensive.